My Biggest Mistake w/ Psychedelics
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I came back from a festival today and started absolutely losing my head thinking I'd lost my GoPro. Checked everywhere I could fathom it being to no avail and just had to accept that it's gone and move on from it. Of course, after TRULY letting it go, I found it it in the most obvious place exactly like you said. After just grasping this insight of really letting go earlier today, it was a seriously mindblowing synchronicity for me hearing you articulate that here. Great video mate, one of your best!
was it in your pocket, but you had just missed it somehow the first 10 times you checked?
Vivec!!!✨🙌🙏🙌✨
Vivec and Tom dropping that knowledge lately 🧠💪🏻
Wait are you that Vivec guy that was running for president? Rammaswammy slippy slappy, or whatever?
Damn I had the same exact thing with my car keys
To all of you who are being negative and judgemental. Psilocybin helped me deal with my PTSD. This has brought me so much peace. I think the people who need them are drawn to them. Please don't push a religious agenda onto others. If that's what helps you, then good for you ! 🍄
Well said
I also have ptsd but the complexed version cos I grew up with a father who suffers from severe narcissism. He made our home such a toxic envoriment and his explosive and abusive personality messed up my mom,me and my sister bad. I always felt something was wrong with me and in my first pcilocybin trip I was shown one time my dad got so mad and treathening i remember something "broke" inside my mind. 1week post trip I had a very strong bodily reaction,I got chills up my spine and out of my mind came a new level of self realization.my "individuation" process became completed :D nature has so much potential for therapy and healing ;D
@enednas801 I have had a lot of traumatic incidents that happened in childhood. Unfortunately, more horrible things happened to me as an adult, too. It's strange that you say that something "broke"because during my most recent trip I was also shown in detail some things that triggered flashbacks. It was like I was forced to experience them again, and I also felt like something broke. It was also after the trip, about a week later I realised that something had changed. I had a new way of viewing these specific incidents that brought me peace and comfort. It's now a month later and it's like those specific things were put to rest. I still have more to work on but I'm spacing out my trips because I found this to be very overwhelming, although I didn't freak out and didn't consider it to be a "bad trip"
Therapy has never worked for me and I was in therapy for years. People who view mushrooms negatively and just like other substances are naive and have obviously never used them for healing.
Well drugs do that
It’s temporary. Deep down you are still the same
"Stop looking, and you shall find." That was one of the first things psycdelics taught me. Having expectations and anticipation when tipping is like carrying around a bag of bricks and expecting it not to hold you down.
Psilocybin flipped the off switch on my social anxiety like a light switch. It's effect lasted long enough that I thought it permanent. My anxiety and doubts and lack of self worth was gone. Anything that can make you love yourself should be legal.
Everybody is struggling with mental health and could benefit from careful therapeutic use of substances like these. Wanna try, but keep being told I can't do it alone for the first time.
I do respect and believe in psychedelics as treatment, yet I’m reluctant about using them personally. Not sure about how “good” it may do to someone
Since I tired psychedelics for the first time, I’ve been trying to describe the experience to others so there can try it as well, but i couldn’t find the right words to describe it.
Of course , he is dr.martyshroom. Psychedelic vision is reality to me and always was".
He's on instgram??
Yess! One of the biggest lessons I've learned recently!
Appreciation is key.
Appreciation of everything, without attaching to anything.
Not needing for things to be different.
Silent loving appreciation is our greatest service to life.
Inside and outside of psychedelic space. 🙏🏽🙏🏽❤❤
Absolutely 💯!
I've detached from religion, political parties.
I sat in my backyard as the sun was rising, drinking coffee ☕and wrote in my comp book this thought.........
"Success and failure is not at the hand of its leaders alone, but the engagement of or ignorance and apathy of its people as well."
~R.E.Davis~
wise words!
Steve Harvey says gratitude is the key to success
Never take psychedelics to try to gain something or to try to “cheat your way to the top”. They demand much more respect than that. They can help you grow if u take the right steps. As the old saying goes “set and setting” is extraordinarily important. This actually rings true with all substances.
Straight up. People expect psychedelics to fix their problems in your life and it ends up doing them worse in the long run. Psychedelics give you the tools and ability to approach your problems at a different perspective rather than just fix them. They are tools, not cures.
What about gaining knowledge, advice. I use them like a divining tool and it's led me correctly
Just like every video mate, this once again felt like having that profound 20 minute conversation with the best friend i never had. Stay you my brother.
I'm Soo glad Toms videos are a part of my spiritual journey.
Psychedelica awakened me but also taught me that they aren't the answer.
I used Toms guide to how to use psycedelics the first time. I did all the right things with dosing ,set and setting .did 2 grams of dried Liberty caps ive found myself.they are very potent and sendt me on a journey lasting 4 hours.it was the most profound,magical,therapeutic mind blowing experience ive had :D I kinda just asked the mushrooms beforehand if they coul show me a new way cos I had been burnt out and been sober for couple months. I got help and new tools to continue as this person in lifes "computer game" as we can call it. one thing i didnt do,I had no tripsitter.however,my cat was chillin on the footrest in front of me and HE was with me for the ride.he transformed into this fable version of a cat.amazing and cool :D
Ram Dass told a story about his guru mentioning that taking psychedelics is like having a meeting with Jesus but you can only stay 2 hours.
It is better to become Jesus than to visit him constantly.
Wise words
Thank you for this video Tom. I really needed the reminders of the things you discussed. Keep up the great content brother and peace and love to you and your family. 🤍🪬
Tom, this is the third of your videos I watched. I think you are a highly intelligent and sensitive person, which is very rare! I wish you good luck with your journey, everything else you already have!
By far this video is pure gold. Thanks from Lima Perú exactly what i need it
Hey Tom,My soul is in pain…My journey is difficult but I can see the light more and more
Hang in there 🙏❤️
The light comes from within, remember that! Only you can help you if you know what I mean.
The light and warmth from other flames can only inspire yours to brighten
a change in perspective is what helped me
There are no mistakes, only learning experiences.
Man i love your videos dude. Really needed to hear this.
+ your words just go to show how everything must have balance. Going too far down either side never worked for me with anything really. I very much believe in balance. Thanks for making this kind of content man. So peaceful and inspiring to hear you talk!
Tom is such a nice genuine guy, i love listening to his insight
I really felt this talk.
Ty from France mate.
Right on, love this man❤
Thankyou Tom, you hit a few points of things I’ve been experiencing in my life recently
you are so right man... about everything, I gotta say I think the same way and experienced and have same perspective........ that TRULY is how you say it is
Thank you for this share. It’s clear, bold, and heartfelt.
When we take "the substance," reality offers us a dance of possibilities. If we adjust the rhythm in harmony with the five elements, a flow of creative confidence acts as if by magic... everything falls into place.
How far are we willing to go? To surrender in trust and become one with what is?
Thank you for this capsule.
Keep sharing, it’s a valuable help. A reminder that there are keys and essentials, and it’s always impactful. Especially when it’s done so well with your talent for communication.
Much love bro.♥️
Thanks for this
I got the notification and i read Your biggest mate ❤😂
🙏🏼
You had me in the first minute...I'm still watching the rest but I love the analogy and where it seems to be going.
Thanks, Tom I really aprecciate videos like this. Very true.
How's your Marriage going?
My wife and I are on 30 years!
I've watched you for years and I am proud of you and impressed with your growth.
Much love brother.
Ey good job bro. Now you have your reincarnate into your child. 😮
Hey Tom, I’ve been watching your videos ever since I was around 18 ( im 26 now), I never really commented or interacted even though I thought about it few times…. And I’ve Been thinking about some very similar things in life, I agree and I think it’s important also to have understanding to our attachment to seeking especially when one is in pain. Because when we are in a lot of pain it is only natural to want to to not be in pain, it is only natural to want to in some way move from a unwanted to a wanted experience.
Pretty coherent psychobabble. Your words resonate without being preachy. Thanks for the peach.
You have really touched on some great threads here. Psychedelics do have a spirit!
Keep up the good work man!
It's been a while since I have seen a vid of yours Tom (blame the algorithm) but your growth is night and day. You seem very self-assured and this is beautfiful - perhaps this ties into the idea you are talking about, of just being, being and not wanting. The less you allow want, the more you appreciate what you have/are.
Relates very much, thanks for the video! I feel like the whole of life is a journey of letting go.
I wish I had this information a decade ago, thanks as always Tom!
beautiful video and advice my friend
love your hat, really suits you!! 👌❤
Very helpful, thanks.
Hey my Mate Tom,
What you tell about your healing journey resonates with me a lot. I see myself in the same situation where diving into psychedelic practices and clinging to the idea of "give me something, help me heal, change me" turned out to not be a lasting fruitful approach. Letting go of attachments and of the things that deeply run us is probably done best by a continuous mindful practice, balanced with times of taking rest from healing (as you say, there's seasons .. a circle). Psychedelics can be such a big aid on that journey, but shouldn't be looked as the main cure, the saviour - because that would be a form of attachment
tom your videos are great
Good deep self reflection on your behalf 👏
I do hope you collected the water bottle before you left the area, the camera cut at a time you may have 😊 🌿
Of course ;)
Related to this! Thanks mate 👍🏼
All the best tom.
When i watch your channel its sometimes almost as if i am looking into a mirror. I guess many people are going through similar stuff.
All the best for you and your wife
14:35 - love the big lez voice 😂 " you're banned for 3 weeks mate" 🤣
I can relate to all that you're saying. I was blessed to discover psychedelics just after high school. I learnt so much about my inner self and the universe and have had a blessed life. About what you were saying - whenever I lose something, I look for it and then remind myself to stop looking because I always find it when attachment and expectations are forgotten.
On Instagram...
On Instagram...
Damn, you articulated my recent thoughts about psychedelics that I could not for the life of me relay with my own words. ❤
Hey man, just wanted to say you're a real one 👍
You're the first person I've seen and heard with the same ideas. Everyone thinks im crazy when i talk about it. But this is how we've made sense of the world. We FEEL it. They can't take that away from us, whether they are just ignoring it in themselves or just not built the same in the brain.
The attachment of trying to be "someone" tends to make us lose our heads. Especially myself. These entities guide us through the journey under psychedelics. If we listen closely, they will tell is exactly what needs to be done. They are here for us. They are our guiding light. I've seen the light while on mushrooms more than once. I dont know what the hell it is.... but its absolutely fucking beautiful. You cant tell me these experiences are just coincidence. They are way too fucking specific for every individual. Call me whatever you want, but psilocybin is meant for us. The guidance we recieve from them is real. Life is very fucking weird but we have each other and our fungus friends to help guide us through. We are all connected afterall, so we do this together. We must live if we wish not to die.
Thank you for posting your video💜
It's like being taken on a personal tour of who you are Tom. And it's a great view.
Lovin the cowboy look, bud. You look good, God bless ya mate, love From the US east coast!
9:33 I love your channel and your audience, I'm gonna comment on ALL your videos for years until I reach your level of subscribers.
Its so uncanny, im just going through the stage in my journey were im learning to let go of attachment, mostly love for a person that I know is emotionally unavailable.
Its so hard at times and I find myself slipping back into being attached to this person daily... but moments appear were im free.
And it feels so great in those moments, like im just flowing with the universe.
Love the vids Tom as always!
I’m right there with you. I’m going through something similar. I just let myself feel the emotions and allow them to flow through. I usually feel better afterwards, instead of keeping it all bottled up. It’s been quite a confusing journey these last few years.
feelings are temporary find someone new if it’s really that bad😂
@@73irtyway 👌😂
you are so me... just stumbled over this in the exact right moment! wow
Dude! Who are you and why aren’t there more of you’s?
Everything you said makes so much sense to me and hits home so hard. But it’s what i needed to hear…. Cheers mate from USA
Your videos are amazing
Im in the drained part of the circle, just do what makes you happy Tom the circle can be what ever size you need it to be and no ones journey is the same. We have free will even when we trick ourselves into none. ✌️ ❤️ unity
The main insight I got from psychs the first time I tried them was that the same love given to others can also be sent inward. After that, I kept revisiting bc that was the only way I knew to connect with myself in that way. April 2020, I felt I was ready for the “big teaching” and took an ultra-heroic dose (9.5 tabs), which culminated in my hearing Ram Dass’s voice for the first time saying “Be here now. Just be here now” and that cut through my mind and opened my heart. The timing of that was grace and the first thought I had following was “love transcends death” which put to rest a lot of my neurosis around impermanence. Come to learn about Ram Dass and it turns out he had a very similar experience upon meeting his guru, Neem Karoli Baba, and that sense of lineage propelled me down the spiritual path enough for me to start seriously engaging with Tibetan Buddhism
Looking good Tom, when are you coming down to Texas?
Well said Tom. Find the Others!
Good one, Tom! :)
a new prospecctive on the polarity of life.. Amen!
Just wanted to say I love you bro
Thank you so much
i like your perspective
A good lesson, I have thoughts about why this is. When we look for something we are using our own expectations to focus and find that thing. Therefore, sometimes we miss the thing itself because we do not recognize it as the thing we’re expecting. When we give time to observe and notice, then we can see things more freely.
Wait... who is this outback cowboy and where is Tom?
Bro, fucken amazing, thank you so much
nice hat bro, it looks like it’s accepted you as its owner, like the legendary Mjölnir
This is definitely the psychedelics talking it showed you perspective in life without you even knowing it
" Seeking makes human hearts blind. Trying takes you away from the flow.
The only thing to do is to be ✨️
Surrender "
Very interesting and timely upload Tom 💜
This describes my last two mushroom experiences. Where I was looking.
man i am on fire, and this timing
Thank you for the "trauma" specified. i was just thinking youre always in some dramatic situation. it made me laugh to hear you say something about that
When I picked up my wife to move her down to florida I lost my wallet with 5k cash.. I know I left it at the gas station but I still look for it when vacuuming the car 4 years later lol
Damn sorry to hear that
It's been a while since I've had a good trip. Most of my trips have alot of terrible anxiety.
hey Tom, any chance you're coming to brisbane?
I’ve been in Amsterdam for a bit and bought some mushrooms to try after breaking up with my partner and trying to figure out what I wanted from life. But I got scared and didn’t try them because I felt something was wrong and I wasn’t ready for them to teach me anything somehow. And I think this video helped me figure this out. A constant search and “want” out of this thing. Not allowing myself to just be. Soon I’ll be ready but for now I’ll just Be
I found them at the same time I found Castaneda and expected an inconceivable adventure. To that end, they haven't disappointed!
For the most part reality is excruciatingly mundane and I was looking for actual, real, magic. To that end, psychedelics have been an indispensable and awesome tool. Considering how strong weed is these days, I'd certainly add it to the list of psychedelics. The greatest lesson I've learned is that it is very dangerous to run from the present. Existence is much easier if you embrace it.
right on. the present is where its at
literally
Nice brotha this is relatable. Master oogway said it best haha
Enlightenment is a commonly sought result from journeying, and indeed the only problem is having expecations of what it looks like. Let's be real, we all want to be able to levitate in the lotus posture to show off our level of enlightenment, but indeed, as Tom said, it is better to let go of any expectation for what the outcome of our seeking looks like. Set the intention, but then let go, as completely as you can. I like that in India, another way of describing the quest for enlightenment is to say one is seeking realization. The word realization hits the nail on the head for what enlightenment is all about. When you realize something, it means you have only just noticed something which was already there. "Oh, only now did I realize that the ladder was too short!" The ladder was already too short, but you didn't realize it at the time. Same with enlightenment.
Do one with fent
thank you
yep, ayahuasca was quite the traumatic experience for me but I don't regret the whole experience. I found out that my mind is stronger than I thought it was. I was shown by ayahuasca to give up alcohol. Alcohol was at the root of my anxiety issues. I had leaned on it since I was 18 to be social in the world when in fact it was blocking my true self.
The good effects of taking psychedelics may not readily felt for a long time because we may not act on what we were shown immediately. The ego can be very stubborn. All psychedelics do is plant a seed and it is up to the individual to flower that seed and change their lives.
I have a cat named Felix too. Been a fan a long time.
A fable from india - there is a sage who tends an unending garden. It is verdant green and full of flowers. Through this garden runs many paths and as you walk you might see rubies and diamonds by the side of the road. But if you look for those precious gems they will never appear.
It is only when you let yourself sink in to the beauty of the garden and the joy of walking through it, those stones will litter your path.
Because we are bound to action by birth, be non-attached to action and give up the outcome to the Lord(or universe/consciousness. Perhaps simply justothers). Wisdom Tom ❤
I feel like the spiritual search is more destructive than consctructive, it is letting things come forth just as they are.
Does making psychedelic content or channel make it hard to make a monetizable career on youtube? Do you feel like theres such a thing as Shadow banning or can making content around this subject still be a good venture on CZcams?
whats up mate
Yeah lost my AirPods today. Still checking my pockets. Need music
Damn have you checked the “find my” app on your iPhone?
you might like zen buddhism! I hear the teachings in what you're saying "Seeking enlightenment is not enlightenment." And principles of non-attachment. If you haven't read any Alan Watts I have a feeling you would really resonate with it
Regarding the cat theory- Cats can perceive eye contact and attention as a 'threat' or 'too much' so to speak (if they know/trust you already), when you are focused on something else (i.e. as you said, working on something/reading) and looking 'disinterested in them' it is perceived as a calm, safe space, where they feel able to safely come to you for attention and comfort on their own terms. That's why a lot of people that hate cats get annoyed/confused as to why cats always come to them- the person is completely ignoring them and that body language says "I am a safe space, I mean you no harm at all" in cat language. I hope that makes sense! *Continues listening/watching
The thumbnail fooled me
if this resonates with you and you would like to learn more, look into daoism and specifically wu wei within daoism, it speaks on these exact things
how many often did you take mushroom a week?
Reminder to self and others, stop searching start exploring
Some personal growth, a wider perspective, that's a balanced result.
To many people trying to over explain the whole thing.
Whatever you think it is, whatever you say it is, it isn't that.
Idk why I can't take you seriously in that hat 😂
Finding something by accident (even though you were looking for it) is known as "serendipity"
Sometimes you get shown the light
In the strangest of places
If you look at it right
You Sir, just validated Chapter 2 Verse 47 of the Bhagavad Gita
Which area was this filmed in?
Sorry but when I find my lost stuff it is in some out of control spot. Bends my mind sometimes working out how it gets there.
Thank you. I’m currently 2 hours out from an Ayahuasca ceremony. And all week I’ve been telling myself I have no expectations. But you called me on it. I obviously do, even if I’m not consciously aware of them. I feel now I can be aware of them and not let them control the show. Again, thank you Tom :)
Which place did you visit? And did some insights make themselves known to you?
How was it?
@@markgarry7866 I went to a place called Soul Quest Ayahuasca in Orlando Fl, I’ve drank there 3 times now and it’s an incredible place.
It was a weekend long retreat and I think I got a lot out of it. Not what I wanted but then again it’s not about what I want. Definitely gonna take a while to unpack and integrate the 3 ceremonies.
@@Jack-gn4gl It was great. Did 3 ceremonies in 2 days. The first two were really gentle with some great insights. The 3rd one with the largest dose was incredibly intense and overwhelming. One of those where afterwards all I could do was sit there in shock of what I had just experienced. Gonna take a while to understand that one. If I can.
It's all subjective. Each path is unique.
I took two grams ofdried subs for the first time and it just made me extremely emotional and think about other people and their interactions with me. But it was not a 'trip' as I was expecting. And I thought that is supposed to be a pretty potent dose? It was very mild experience for me. Enjoyable though. And yes I did feel a sense of calm for a few weeks afterwards. I want to try them again, but I can't find any in the bush now :(