Gaslighting from the narcissist: why they do it

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Komentáře • 98

  • @AlphaArika23
    @AlphaArika23 Před 4 lety +85

    They also love to throw things back in your face and play innocent like they've never done you wrong. LIKE HOW??? smh. Trifling.

  • @jfaze5322
    @jfaze5322 Před 4 lety +62

    When you have light within you they envy you.

  • @retrogamer82
    @retrogamer82 Před 4 lety +34

    These are some of the most dangerous ppl you can allow into your life and going no contact is the only way to get rid of these demons

  • @Aa-ls4kd
    @Aa-ls4kd Před 4 lety +31

    "While we plan and dream , they plot and scheme."

  • @mimirich8766
    @mimirich8766 Před 4 lety +60

    NO CONTACT. CHANGE YOUR NUMBER. BLOCK THEM ON SOCIAL MEDIA.

  • @ladyredconstance
    @ladyredconstance Před 4 lety +43

    They will take advantage of you and treat you any kind of way.. They play games and it's all about them.

  • @donnajustbeingreal6607
    @donnajustbeingreal6607 Před 4 lety +29

    Gaslighting one of their Devil's work.
    To make you crazy and doubt your perception of things.
    It can be so bad. That it has been cases it drove people to Suicide. Smh
    Their is a great movie called, "Gaslighting" I believe it came out in 1940 or 1944.. Show how husband constantly Gaslight his wife. Smh
    Some people who have been through it alot in a marriage, Relationship, parents, siblings, boss, and list goes on can
    Cause PTSD in people.
    I can't stand these Demons. Smh
    Great video Tyler 🙂💜💜💜

  • @Shay4YourMind81
    @Shay4YourMind81 Před 4 lety +67

    Go no NO CONTACT from these predators! They intensely study their targets from day 1, and will use the information they gather to gain an edge. This is extremely toxic behavior, and these people need to be cut off with no further explanation-for good! And do not respond to their attempts to try to suck you back in. They won’t even see it coming, as they were just SO SURE that we’d always be around to take their abuse. It will kill them. Thanks for doing this video, Tyler💯 Appreciate ya!!

    • @robinmartin7835
      @robinmartin7835 Před 4 lety +1

      Nancy J. Chavez THIS IS SPAM AND COMMERCIAL. IT HAS BEEN REPORTED.

    • @doriscrumpton2980
      @doriscrumpton2980 Před 4 lety +7

      The more you except their BS after they have cross your boundaries the more they hate you and don't respect you for taken them back. They will act like they will do better but don't believe them it's all fake rhetoric just to get you to let your guard down and do you dirty all over again. Every thing they do is about themselves and deceiving and maliputlating you. They love these acts of evilness behind your back and in your face.

    • @brendakauffman2222
      @brendakauffman2222 Před 2 lety +1

      @@doriscrumpton2980 It's all about manipulation and manipulating your emotions, so apologies will change as they try to find in the "narc handbook" which approach will work with you. Determine none of them will. If they say they will change, tell them great that should assist them in other relationships. The apologies are usually general, not specific and they are not sincere.

  • @jamesbreeden2669
    @jamesbreeden2669 Před 4 lety +22

    Narcissist = Parasite. Great video Tyler! Blessings to you my friend!

  • @davidbanner9344
    @davidbanner9344 Před 4 lety +22

    You said "Gaslighting is a whole different level", brother you ain't neva lyin!!! Thank You So Much Brother!!!

  • @thescentofawoman4436
    @thescentofawoman4436 Před 4 lety +24

    Misery loves company. Flee. Run. 🏃🏿‍♂️🏃🏿‍♂️🏃🏿‍♂️🏃🏿‍♂️

    • @TylerJTI
      @TylerJTI  Před 4 lety +3

      You're so right. Peace and blessings to you

  • @ameerahrashada4515
    @ameerahrashada4515 Před 4 lety +31

    I don't play that gaslighting crap _once upon a time I use to fall for it but now my mindset is so different Thank You for all the help you give to people You are one of the good guys on u tube and I am sure in person to Thank You

    • @chrissy1503
      @chrissy1503 Před 4 lety +4

      Ameerah, facts! Fool me once shame one me. Fool me twice? Not gonna happen.

  • @miamiflorida2043
    @miamiflorida2043 Před 4 lety +30

    I don't see how people use & pull stunts on other people sleep at night. I have pride in know that everything I got, I got it by hard work & didn't have to connive my way through the world to get it.

    • @Shay4YourMind81
      @Shay4YourMind81 Před 4 lety +9

      It really sucks! They lack a conscience and a moral compass. They have been screwing people over all of their lives, so this is is like second nature to them. They are miserable and empty inside, and they want everyone else to feel the way they do. They will eventually get theirs.

    • @miamiflorida2043
      @miamiflorida2043 Před 4 lety +12

      @@Shay4YourMind81 facts people just are opportunist they put on like they are so bad & tough but deep down they're cowards deep down.

  • @IReminisceNYC
    @IReminisceNYC Před 4 lety +30

    🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
    You hit the nail on the head right here. I thank you so much for this video message. These types of people are “predators.” They prey on good people who don’t deserve such treatment. Your wisdom is a blessing. ☺️

  • @nochannelnochannel231
    @nochannelnochannel231 Před 2 lety +8

    Just walk away and don’t explain yourself; they know what they did

  • @aldinaatic9360
    @aldinaatic9360 Před 4 lety +10

    this video came as a blessing and in the rigjht time

  • @wwmariog
    @wwmariog Před 4 lety +11

    Wow!!! Thats a true valid point. I been hurt emotionally. They are some sick people. I learn my lession from dealing with them. Their like the devil in human form.

    • @preciousperez7324
      @preciousperez7324 Před 4 lety

      I so agree
      I've been hurt mentally and emotionally. It truly sucks

  • @cool4rocknroll
    @cool4rocknroll Před 3 lety +11

    I've been around this Shit my whole. Mostly I'm surrounded by people who use me to the best of their advantage? When it convenient for them. I tried everything reasoning with them - that didn't work, I tried going off on them - that also didn't work. I'm too much of a kind hearted person over the years. I hate it. I've been taught and train by these hypocrites to respect people who don't respect me to confuse me. I've been gaslighted so many times. I notice as soon as I have moment too myself of coming back to myself. One of these Jokers unexpectedly catch me off guard with the BS whether if it's something I don't really care about and they impose it deliberately. Whether if it's a suggestion, a topic, a question that I consider to be stupid. These people know what they're doing? They know I don't like confrontation or being involved in drama. I never go around bother these Damn the way how they bother on so many different forms. One of them assumed and think I have Autism Spectrum? Which I know that's a bunch of Bullshit. I have to find away to get these people out of my Life for good. They are trying to destroy my peace of mind. Plus, I can express a full thought without them interrupting me and cutting me off. They're like Hogs. Especially when I'm talking about something important. While they talk about irrelevant Shit and that Shit pisses me off to the core. Those Damn greedy idiots. This is 2020 and I can't believe people like this exist?! While people like us who mind our own business trying to focus on our goals. But wind up attracting sick minded toxic people. They love drama and they want to bring others in their Shit. Yeah they'll come off nice and innocent up until upcoming moment the mask falls off. You see their real ugly toxic side. They gaslight at every chance they get.

  • @AmaLoveGoddessTV
    @AmaLoveGoddessTV Před 4 lety +11

    To get their own way and to.make you feel bad. Its called crazy making and false guilt. Don't fall for it.

  • @Keshia.means.GreatJoy
    @Keshia.means.GreatJoy Před 4 lety +7

    Love your straightforward, to the point videos Tyler..Much blessings💕

  • @comeregeway9072
    @comeregeway9072 Před 3 lety +4

    Man your videos are gold. Thank you for them.

  • @alisha55555
    @alisha55555 Před 4 lety +7

    Tyler is a real one. Thanks Tyler!

  • @chriswalls5831
    @chriswalls5831 Před 4 lety +9

    I caught on to my ex and all those I've come across liars, up to no good and are losers watching means spying and stalking but I see what they are doing it's stupid and nonsense

  • @deltahomicide9300
    @deltahomicide9300 Před 4 lety +4

    Just want to take a moment to wish strength and wisdom to the people out there self-isolating with a narcissist.

  • @ladybird491
    @ladybird491 Před 3 lety +4

    A narc female at my old job, started tracking me and she was aggrevated by my tricky defense and a actually started playing victim. She started telling people I was not doing work, yet she didn't know that I was going to supervisor of every department to get the work so their was proof. She started getting very fired up as if she was being mistreated and doing more work though the records show she wasn't. 😆 She had alot of bark but nobody was buying it. I walked up on her saying that she don't know why people asking her about me and what I do....etc. I knew that was her trying to make the person she speaking to want to watch me to and imply I may not be doing work. I just looked at her and kept walking cause all the supervisor knew for a fact I was doing work. She was mad that when asked around she was told I was doing work. 😆 She went someone to look for me once and that she wanted to talk to me, and when I went to her she asked what was I doing and I said working and walked away. 😆 Someone lied and said I was leaving early and I know it was her, and when they investigated the door guy and cameras confirmed me working up until time leaving and time I left. She forgot about the cameras and door people. 😆 She was mad she couldn't get me fire so she started making suggestions to the guy I was a hoe and she would make statements like "I beat people up, I will beat a female up, I am not even right in the head...etc" I just ignored her. One time she said "I almost called you a B" and I blew her off. She couldn't take it anymore and went off to talk behind my back but I never cared. 😆 She found that out too. 😆

    • @victorianjohn
      @victorianjohn Před 3 lety

      Yes! U bitch her good! Good 4 cause I know u had 2 put in the work to protect your self! Mazel tov🥳🎉🎊prepared for battle🖤

  • @ramoncrocodiliansproductio3865

    This is the truth, you are so right about that. They throw a jab and I'll throw a hook so fast they won't see coming 👊🏽💪🏾. You are so right Tyler.💯💯👍🏾👍🏾

  • @-33-
    @-33- Před rokem

    Extremely true Tyler!!!

  • @EMOTION_INTELLIGENCE
    @EMOTION_INTELLIGENCE Před 3 lety +2

    GASLIGHTHING IS ON A WHOLE ANOTHER LEVEL .IT SO POSSIBLE OF DEFEAT THEM TYLER MUCH LOVE❤❤❤❤

  • @janae0907
    @janae0907 Před 4 lety +17

    You ain't never lied.... I love watching your videos... my ex narc found out where I secretly move to not to long ago. I don't get why they can't let go when they have so many other options 😒... Im low-key starting to get a little nervous....

    • @janae0907
      @janae0907 Před 4 lety +4

      @Knight Owl I am... imma move again soon as i can.

    • @syrenthiatravis2560
      @syrenthiatravis2560 Před 4 lety +4

      And if you don't have the money to move go to a domestic violence shelter!! Be safe and God Bless You😇

    • @janae0907
      @janae0907 Před 4 lety +1

      @@syrenthiatravis2560 okay ty

  • @isvinternationalvirtualusv6197

    Thank you for being great

  • @dongiovanni3100
    @dongiovanni3100 Před 4 lety +6

    Facts

  • @RAJNOVA784
    @RAJNOVA784 Před měsícem

    I had to cut off undercover friends who were narcissists because they wanted to gaslight me instead of taking accountability for their actions.

  • @terryjoeljunior
    @terryjoeljunior Před 4 lety +3

    Great job explaining this topic bro , helping lots of people out there with your truth

    • @victorianjohn
      @victorianjohn Před 3 lety

      Hi TerryJoelJuniour! I’m a subscriber of your’s too.. we’re on the same wavelength.. I follow u 3 men!! And NuBreed Til’ the word over.. I watch u 3 men of God

  • @trayvanderstelt4119
    @trayvanderstelt4119 Před 4 lety +1

    This why I fux witchu Tyler! ... U gottta new subscriber on Google Podcast

  • @libertariangirl1856
    @libertariangirl1856 Před 4 lety +2

    Love you man! Greetings from the UK.

  • @jeanlittle405
    @jeanlittle405 Před 4 lety +3

    Spot on!!! Scary people.

  • @bashgetslean2834
    @bashgetslean2834 Před 4 lety +2

    Keep up the good work bro...Um definitely checking out your Podcast

  • @raulluna3135
    @raulluna3135 Před 3 lety +1

    I can't stand this narcissist I move in silence so he kept being nosie but he DNT got no life he did me wrong in the past he was threatening at me but he won't do shit. He just want attention but I ain't worry about bc karma will destroy tht narcissist

  • @robinmartin7835
    @robinmartin7835 Před 4 lety +1

    Tyler, just so you know, the comments I made to Nancy J. Travis here were because this individual - the name keeps changing - posts this exact message on all of the narc videos and channels. It’s someone trying to benefit from other people’s pain. You were right on target with this video. I hate that I had to learn these facts the hard way, but the more time that passes, the clearer things become. I have been successfully no contact for more than a year, despite my ex making three separate attempts to get in touch with me. He has gotten nothing back from me but silence. These people think if they let enough time go by, you’ll forgive and forget. Well, as the saying goes, my momma didn’t raise no fool. He has had to move along and try to screw someone else over, and will live and die with nothing. It’s pathetic. He really messed up by what he did to me, and the repercussions will follow him the rest of his life. Is it really that hard for some people to just be a decent human being?

  • @hugh2hoob668
    @hugh2hoob668 Před 3 lety +4

    Female ones are reaaaaal good at that part 4:43 4:43

  • @Lsa2023
    @Lsa2023 Před 4 lety +1

    Talking to me for sure!

  • @petunias4442
    @petunias4442 Před 4 lety +3

    💯

  • @bunnysb2587
    @bunnysb2587 Před 3 lety +2

    Hi Tyler can you please do a video on adult children that are narcissist. I got a son that i didn't get a chance to raise and i think he gas lighting me for my forced absence. He seems to act like one every time i say something to him and gets very mad and disrespectful if he cant his way with me and play victim..I.just want to see how you would handel this. Thanks

    • @cameronmallory5807
      @cameronmallory5807 Před rokem

      Hello bunny I can relate to your son because it is hard to grow up without direction from either parent but bunny the best thing you can do is to reassure to him your love now that doesn't always mean give him money or material things. Also don't let him take advantage of you at the same time like guilt trips. Because he is your son and he still has hurt inside and it takes time to heal that scar. I hope this helps. Love you bunny.

    • @bunnysb2587
      @bunnysb2587 Před rokem

      @@cameronmallory5807 thanks so much

  • @sarahb.art.a8100
    @sarahb.art.a8100 Před 2 lety

    This has been happening to me lately. However, instead of my narcissistic ex gaslighting me it is random people I don't even know. My ex is too cowardly to face me myself after I called out his selfish behavior.

  • @PunkMartyr
    @PunkMartyr Před 2 lety +1

    This dude dropping granite tablets like Moses

  • @atheistasylum
    @atheistasylum Před 4 lety +2

    👍🏿

  • @ajohonly3721
    @ajohonly3721 Před 4 lety +1

    🖤🙌🏿

  • @Dom.Plutonian
    @Dom.Plutonian Před 4 lety +2

    Ayyyeee♓️🖤♊️

  • @kareemmohammed5270
    @kareemmohammed5270 Před 4 lety +6

    word

  • @glitterboxglitterbox1939
    @glitterboxglitterbox1939 Před 4 lety +1

    I thinking’s too confuse them

  • @patriciaearley4177
    @patriciaearley4177 Před 3 lety

    Prepare for battle 💪

  • @jesusdaughter4715
    @jesusdaughter4715 Před 4 lety +1

    Karma is my bestfriend he got his coming i got pregnant lost the baby...have been going to the docs for the last 3 weeks ...with this corona virus and not once has he offered me a ride to my doctors office like its a JOKE...ive known him for years been with him for 7 and now this ..😷😷😷😭😝😱😱SMFH...

  • @noramars5740
    @noramars5740 Před 4 lety +1

    Starts at 1:32

    • @oldlarry9234
      @oldlarry9234 Před 4 lety +4

      That’s disrespectful, let the man talk. It hasn’t cost you a penny for his advice so sit down and listen.

    • @victorianjohn
      @victorianjohn Před 3 lety

      Girl bye! Look @ ur face! u look so miserable.. read the Bible start in The new Testaments .. if u repent & except the Lord as Yeshua Messiah & follow his Laws, Statues & Commandments You can just leave all the things that happened when u were small behind.. jus know that we went through bad things too, but we choose to push. The difference with u is u choose not to push. That leaves u available 4 Satan.. run from him & run 2 God..
      P.s. this message is 4 u, only if, u were called & lost ur way.. read the Bible & see if it sticks, if not, then play on narcissist ur evil is being exposed ur time is almost up

    • @victorianjohn
      @victorianjohn Před 3 lety

      As I’m finish writing my post I see ur pic & I realize u have a demonic presence.. Repent! U have done something that is hanging u down.. that demon is still with u. Repent! I Rebuke u Satan in the mighty name of Yeshua Messiah. I Rebuke u right now in the name of the most high God of Israel. Come out of her! She does not want u there. Girl U look like ur crying out 4 her help.. Repent! Repent of ur sin confess Christ is Lord , the Bible says u should resist Satan and he will flee.
      “Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. James 4:7”
      Lucifer, I rebuke u from Tyler JTI page in the name of Yeshua Messiah, Lucifer I rebuke from this young Lady Nora Mars. Come out of Nora Mars now Satan in the name Abba our father who art in Zion, get out of her in the name of Hosanna God in the highest. LEAVE in name of Emanuel. Amen And Devil I Rebuke you from any hurt people who seeks this channel including myself in the name of the most high God Jehovah..Amen!
      Lord please cover us as we learn, let no evil provoke doubt or sadness & rebuke dis demon off this page, let it be ur will. Amen and Amen