How to get a woman obsessed with you

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  • čas přidán 21. 07. 2024
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Komentáře • 164

  • @j_fried19
    @j_fried19 Před 3 lety +231

    “There is no bigger force in a persons life than driving them away from pain” damn this shits deep

    • @olimpiasorando7428
      @olimpiasorando7428 Před 2 lety

      I have spent months researching how to make a man fall in love with you and discovered an awesome website at Maras magic words (check it out on google)

    • @freddiestranger9783
      @freddiestranger9783 Před rokem

      GIVE YOUR LIFE TO THE LORD JESUS CHRIST TODAY

  • @nalaltis2655
    @nalaltis2655 Před 3 lety +161

    This video was a whole trip...gives you a better perspective about dating and pretty much life in general.

    • @manuelcardoza3356
      @manuelcardoza3356 Před 2 lety

      @Nal Altis I'm investigating how to get any man you want and found an awesome website at Maras magic words (google it if you are interested)

  • @artemtakingpictures
    @artemtakingpictures Před 3 lety +75

    It's easy to get her obsessed, if you don't like her too much. But if you do. Oh, man.

    • @warmasterdorn
      @warmasterdorn Před 3 lety +13

      I think the universe rejects mutual obsession, because it's afraid of it... And it's right to be, have you seen power couples?

    • @Jimmys_GR_
      @Jimmys_GR_ Před 2 lety +2

      @@warmasterdorn a single power couple can destroy the lives of many people. But imagine 10 of them
      There will be no world left to live on...

    • @bigenergy3880
      @bigenergy3880 Před 2 lety +5

      yep u gotta make sure you like them less trust me. my best friend i slept with for years she would always hit me up to kick back. i fell for her became needy and attached and slowly she pushed me away and id question her and do everything wrong till she was turned off. havent spoken to her for like 5 days now and we talked everyday but argued alot and stopped talking. This time im not gonna feed into it if she reaches out again coz i know now im just a comfort zone and she doesnt have feelings for me while shes out hooking up with other guys. Point of this rant is when i lost my cool and became attached it went dog shit

    • @echox000
      @echox000 Před rokem +2

      @@bigenergy3880 damn man, any update?

    • @2jz-boi
      @2jz-boi Před rokem

      Straight facts. The ones i don't show much attention to are always the ones who won't leave me alone

  • @zukondis
    @zukondis Před 3 lety +216

    Guys don’t overthink this, you are missing the point of the excellent message of this video. Dating should be all about you having fun and engaging your creativity as you once did as a kid to create fun situations out of mundane situations. Be honest about your desires, which will mean all kinds of things for everyone on here. Seek to add value to peoples lives, while enjoying your own. Through this people who are not a good match for you will filter themselves out, and the good ones will remain without you worrying about how you are perceived by anyone or having to chase anyone. Life is nothing but a game and you all need the reminder that it is in your power to create all kinds of cool shit for yourselves and the people around you, and it all starts with your perspective.

  • @TheSingleGuy
    @TheSingleGuy  Před 3 lety +57

    Go here if you just want the info w/o the story 4:30
    Also when I say this is happened many times I mean I've been many adventures with people. Not that I've been to parties the cops have been to. Lol

  • @Jdog305Cubanito
    @Jdog305Cubanito Před 3 lety +38

    Protect this dude @ all cost he’s a GEM 💎

  • @tommytheg7911
    @tommytheg7911 Před 3 lety +74

    First week in college this week, yesterday I walked up alone to a group of three girls best a bar (corona lmao they were outside) with the mindset that they already wanted me. Long story short i end up getting all of their numbers and am now effortlessly holding one on a hook. Moral of the story if you convince yourself that they already want you and it isn’t even that Important to you, that energy will radiate and they will sense where your mind is

  • @JoeJ-8282
    @JoeJ-8282 Před 3 lety +18

    Yes. Adventuring outside of the "normal" boring stuff is an essential part to building a deeper level connection with someone!

  • @FDx8500
    @FDx8500 Před 3 lety +3

    This is golden advise!! it fits very well with the idea of being on your purpouse and your mission and go out and have fun by yourself. then you invite people to your amazing life. i lost this part of my life. i know what to do now. very positive message ! thank you.

  • @kemsolid
    @kemsolid Před 3 lety +7

    I love the advice on this video. Definitely wasn't what I expected but it's even better than I expected. Thanks for sharing this man!

  • @roachcoach6986
    @roachcoach6986 Před 3 lety +8

    Lloyd has an unprecedented amount of experience. To have this many examples and talking points and be able to lace them succinctly with actionable behaviors you can make, in under ten minutes is nothing short of a gift. #thegoat

  • @parsa_rash1956
    @parsa_rash1956 Před 3 lety +6

    This was way deeper than I thought it was going to be...amazing life advice in general

  • @mrericpritchard
    @mrericpritchard Před 2 lety +2

    Really well put together. I agree with what you said. I've always actually practiced exactly that; being the light in an otherwise fairly dull life.

  • @oneiros1401
    @oneiros1401 Před 3 lety +3

    Thank you my friend. From the bottom of my heart. I was close to what you described, but didn't quite reach it, now I know what to do.

  • @Haktuar
    @Haktuar Před 3 lety +58

    You're a great storyteller, Lloyd. Love your point about taking a girl outside of her expectations and showing her a whole new world. It's hard to forget meeting a guy that confident, unique and interesting. I try to be that guy myself.

    • @andybaubau5961
      @andybaubau5961 Před rokem

      that's what looser think about....only a bunch of idiots wandering around bars

  • @James-cz3sz
    @James-cz3sz Před 3 lety

    Man you are hands down the best coach on CZcams

  • @yousfiabdelali
    @yousfiabdelali Před rokem

    The most amazing video I've seen on dating. Hats off brother

  • @bpnbcc2835
    @bpnbcc2835 Před 3 lety +1

    Respect, started watching immediately hated him with jealousy with those handsome looks ,expecting a rambling puppet in love with himself ,only to find this guy's got real solid experience and speaks from the heart,an easy voice to listen to and a great delivery

  • @brenthewitt758
    @brenthewitt758 Před 3 lety +2

    Fascinating strategy and moves and game planning with good intentions of course I was really intrigued with this storyline

  • @Josecito777
    @Josecito777 Před 3 lety +5

    Amazing, it's incredible how we forget just to have fun on a date

  • @TheIllerX
    @TheIllerX Před 3 lety +2

    This is something new I haven't heard in any other video. Thanks for giving me new thoughts I haven't considered before.
    Unfortunately I am not very creative when it comes to making up such things, but I guess practice help and at least be aware of this.
    Reminds me of actually experiencing this myself many years ago when I finished high-school, not with a girl but with my parents. As a gift they took me on a "unexpected secret journey" with the car. The actual destination was nothing special, just two nights in a hotel in a nice place with good food and so on.
    But the anticipation of what this exiting adventure was about was something I really remember.

  • @hsrboys9993
    @hsrboys9993 Před 3 lety

    Loyd is the goat - thanks for this bro

  • @cosmosaic8117
    @cosmosaic8117 Před 2 lety

    This is your best video that I've seen so far

  • @allmenanswers4208
    @allmenanswers4208 Před 3 lety +5

    My friend not only do you teaches how to pick up girls but you also teaches us how to keep them around. 👍

  • @beachmountain3828
    @beachmountain3828 Před 3 lety

    This was really awesome! 🌟 Love this!

  • @greenlizardballs
    @greenlizardballs Před 3 lety +1

    Okay, this was a great story and a great presentation.

  • @keithwhitmore1874
    @keithwhitmore1874 Před 3 lety +29

    Ha. I didn’t know where you were going with this for a minute there. I agree. Make her life different.
    Think about this for a minute for anyone that questions it. We’ve all done it. You meet a girl, or even just sense an attraction. The girl isn’t thinking, “I hope he’s like every one of the other 25 guys who are currently chasing me right now.” And right now you probably are different. But as soon as you sense her interest, you quickly try to figure out what she does in her spare time, and try to become that person. And that’s when you screw up. Rather than letting her become a part of your life, you have become one of many that has become a part of her screwed up life. You still might hook up with her, you might not. But there is nothing special about you now. Just another guy to do shots with and smoke weed with after work.
    Backward test this and look a girls in your past who were initially interested in you and what you tried to do because you thought it would make her like you more, or would escalate things. You probably thought you saw a way in. But what you really saw was a trap where you would start acting out of your norm. You might have done it out of fear that she wouldn’t think you were as cool as she did when she met you. But the truth is, that’s the person she was looking for.

  • @thamuzm2684
    @thamuzm2684 Před 3 lety

    best video I've watched so far yea yea i get your point pal!

  • @tootsieroll3109
    @tootsieroll3109 Před 3 lety

    This is absolutely true. It worked for me.

  • @diegoj.alvaradoroy6945
    @diegoj.alvaradoroy6945 Před 3 lety +1

    Dude this guy is the truth

  • @NDR82
    @NDR82 Před 3 lety

    incredible stuff. Top notch advice!

  • @VikesHike
    @VikesHike Před 3 lety +4

    Makes sense. I’m just trying to raise their interest level. I can get girls to meet me, but usually their interest level is low. I’m trying to raise their interest level and I think this will help. Thanks Lloyd 😊

    • @zukondis
      @zukondis Před 3 lety +3

      Sounds like you are making this whole thing very technical which completely misses the point of this perfect video. His message is all about having fun, be like a kid who is all about exercising his creativity to create fun situations out of mundane situations. Also being a leader. Being a great leader and adding value to people’s lives while enjoying themselves is all men need to do to have a fulfilling life

  • @anthonysalazar9010
    @anthonysalazar9010 Před 3 lety +2

    Main takeaway: Live a life you genuinely love & share that with someone to create excitement out of monotony

  • @harrasingh998
    @harrasingh998 Před 2 lety

    Well done Lloyd, a lot of fake advice on youtube has led to guys living a life of fantasy then realising what the reality really holds

  • @youi6244
    @youi6244 Před 3 lety

    Never been here so fast !!

  • @Jesse_Lane
    @Jesse_Lane Před 3 lety +1

    So good!!

  • @growing.grounds4054
    @growing.grounds4054 Před 3 lety

    This type of stuff ages well !

  • @warsilver99
    @warsilver99 Před 2 lety +1

    Came to see a dating tip, left with real life advice. Great video.

  • @LeLuizFelippe
    @LeLuizFelippe Před 3 lety +34

    I feel like I can't do this type of stuff anymore, like doing crazy stuff out of nowhere, being so present and creative and not caring about the outcome.
    I feel like I lost this "skill", and it saddens me.

    • @coyote9405
      @coyote9405 Před 3 lety +2

      dude you in pain, find your princess charming..

    • @donaldbiden9492
      @donaldbiden9492 Před 3 lety +10

      That's a good thing. You shouldn't have to be adventure guy #342 for any woman to get her to like you.

    • @MidnightZX7
      @MidnightZX7 Před 3 lety

      if you think you can, you're right. if you think you cant, you're right.

    • @se.i.4393
      @se.i.4393 Před 3 lety

      Exactly... I'm a girl and I'm tired of it too, I feel like I need to hurt the guy to make him fall for me, I just wonder how i can obsess a man but i don't know if I could do the dark stuff

  • @altermimro2800
    @altermimro2800 Před 3 lety +1

    Damn bro I feel like i realy needed to know that

  • @enakchandler3812
    @enakchandler3812 Před 3 lety

    A very talented man This guy is, Awesome video bro I gave it a Like :D

  • @benwilson4007
    @benwilson4007 Před 3 lety +2

    Truly inspiring

  • @narnayirip6747
    @narnayirip6747 Před 3 lety

    Luv luv luv got my d8 on Sunday, this dropped just in time 👍👍👍

  • @carlosvelasquez331
    @carlosvelasquez331 Před 3 lety +2

    Yes boi early gang

  • @bobbyricardo9667
    @bobbyricardo9667 Před 3 lety

    You looks good bro!

  • @kelvinoke6414
    @kelvinoke6414 Před 10 měsíci

    Nice content 💯💯💯

  • @CuteGirl-ch1ee
    @CuteGirl-ch1ee Před 3 lety +4

    Yes I totally agree . I am a travel addict . I never ever forget any of those unusual adventures I took with strangers . I specially won’t forget those strangers who have a special place in my heart . .... I totally agree with you on this video. 🌊💕

  • @kamaranbaker2060
    @kamaranbaker2060 Před 3 lety +1

    This is the earliest I’ve ever been... EVER... you should uhhh like this because I am subscribed and I watch you like all the time... good info even if I’m not a single guy lol

  • @kiloart1043
    @kiloart1043 Před 3 lety +9

    I never really say this a lot.. but I love you man

  • @diegoj.alvaradoroy6945
    @diegoj.alvaradoroy6945 Před 3 lety +1

    I like this message really

  • @marianodesantos7748
    @marianodesantos7748 Před 3 lety +73

    When you are first here and the summary guy isn't.
    Lol 😂

  • @afiqaiman2300
    @afiqaiman2300 Před 3 lety

    Nice content bro

  • @celsocosta880
    @celsocosta880 Před 3 lety

    Good stuff 👍🏿

  • @GearsGirlsGuitars
    @GearsGirlsGuitars Před 3 lety

    Nice! An adventure!

  • @angelajia3800
    @angelajia3800 Před 3 lety

    I m a woman here. Agree with you... the same works for men.

  • @emancebo13
    @emancebo13 Před 3 lety

    Shit. How to be free and free other people... how to look at life as an adventure.
    This is what we see in Disney movies, women always fall for a man on a mission, and adventure... great message 🌞

  • @kaassaus4230
    @kaassaus4230 Před 3 lety +10

    I cant entertain a woman always.
    I am not a clown, entertaining women sounds like such a chore.

    • @damien4v3
      @damien4v3 Před 3 lety +1

      Ha yeah I think it’s good to do something like this occasionally but haven’t got time to be thinking of how to entertain her all the time . She’s gotta be bringing something too .

  • @CalvinJamesJr
    @CalvinJamesJr Před 3 lety +1

    Keep it up brother ! ! !

  • @streetough
    @streetough Před 3 lety +1

    Welp that presents a problem when I'm the one in pain and believe life has become nothing but menial tasks and reality is overall boring. How do I get life to be fun?

  • @shaman3069
    @shaman3069 Před 2 lety

    Welcome y'all to Planet Pluto

  • @darinrichardson3598
    @darinrichardson3598 Před 3 lety

    Just started watching his vid, and I not gonna lie I thought WTF he is a tool what possible positive thing could he say.. Well I was 100% wrong, his vid are bye far the best on youtube. The guy is a stud👍

  • @thatbo8902
    @thatbo8902 Před 3 lety

    "This man is a genius"
    - Dr. Richard Solomon 3rfts

  • @appletechpro4u506
    @appletechpro4u506 Před 2 lety +1

    So how do you take her out of pain ? How do you make her see you as the person who relieves their pain

  • @sandisomadiba9398
    @sandisomadiba9398 Před 3 lety +1

    "Use you powers for good"😂...

  • @humphreylinda2565
    @humphreylinda2565 Před 2 lety

    Hi...Do you have videos on how to do that ?

  • @maelofit
    @maelofit Před 2 lety +1

    I successfully did this with a girl that I deeply fell in love with. But I was her rebound, and she likes colder and more macho men. I was manly, but too sweet and caring. She won't forget me or our time together, which was shortlived, but now she is back with the guy who uses her for sex, and she cannot stop obsessing over him. I ended up chasing her a bit and looking very emotional and weak. I don't think she will obsess over me, might have lost that one for good. Its been a few months of no contact, and no contact is forever. I hope she doesn't come back, she left me emotionally traumatised... I did almost everything right with her.

  • @cskvision
    @cskvision Před 3 lety +1

    Be the Jack that meets your Rose (Titanic reference)

  • @DeViceCrimsin_
    @DeViceCrimsin_ Před 3 lety

    When people especially women talk about a man's value this is what that means. (Self-realization)

  • @Sales_enablement
    @Sales_enablement Před 3 lety

    where can we aask questions for the channel ?

  • @kemalbey271
    @kemalbey271 Před 3 lety

    it is a gem

  • @appletechpro4u506
    @appletechpro4u506 Před 2 lety

    What if she doesn’t have pain, how do you make her see you as person who relieves her pain

  • @swervinkervin6187
    @swervinkervin6187 Před 2 lety

    Thank you 🙏

  • @saniag5035
    @saniag5035 Před 3 lety

    Yeah????? And then you get her obsessed with you and then leave her suffering !!! Wow nice.. continue the good work guys!

  • @Lk-fi4me
    @Lk-fi4me Před 2 lety

    Nice🔥

  • @justmytw0cents
    @justmytw0cents Před 3 lety

    So I got ADHD and I'm into this girl like a lot, but I don't even know how to talk to someone into going to a date or anything. Help me?

  • @WeatherGuruOSRS
    @WeatherGuruOSRS Před 3 lety +3

    Obsessed girls are dangerous and it's not healthy. Falling in love = good, but obsession = bad. Great story though! Think she watched this video?

  • @MiuBrothersOfficial
    @MiuBrothersOfficial Před 3 lety

    First!

  • @BearerOfLightSonOfGod
    @BearerOfLightSonOfGod Před 2 lety

    Be careful I did this but the girl was a stalker even with a restraining order she still trying to be with me she's insane.

  • @edwardkamara-will2381
    @edwardkamara-will2381 Před 3 lety

    #Use your power for good😎

  • @gypsygypsy7185
    @gypsygypsy7185 Před 2 lety

    But his facial expressions when he say she’s a little weirded out LOL

  • @zkhan9936
    @zkhan9936 Před 3 lety +1

    So where is that girl now?

  • @Wealthy_Mystic
    @Wealthy_Mystic Před 3 lety

    Lyold how old are you bro? I have grey hairs and beard should I make them black at 32 years old and what age can I date as youngest, age questions start to come up now

  • @luqmanhafiz1717
    @luqmanhafiz1717 Před 3 lety

    bring her to our adventure world

  • @Sksk27547
    @Sksk27547 Před 2 lety

    I dont need this, hahaha! hilarious. I can't stop laughing now. Only here for jokes.

  • @Excel_Mantra
    @Excel_Mantra Před 3 lety

    ❤️ love is life❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @selenasativa555
    @selenasativa555 Před 2 lety

    5:09 as a women tyy.

  • @StephTheCoolKid
    @StephTheCoolKid Před 3 lety +4

    F that, if she is not a 10 and a workaholic that's her choice, I've done that and your job fellas is not to save these boring lifestyle chicks, if her life is borring thats her choice, don't be the "savior" and get the "hero" syndrome. Just hook up with chicks that are down to hook up and move on.

  • @alreadyknowing9443
    @alreadyknowing9443 Před 2 lety

    Back I was younger it was easy what out knowing now I'm Lil older I lost my touch

  • @warmasterdorn
    @warmasterdorn Před 3 lety

    I want to be pleasurably habit-forming, rather than addictive...

  • @tonytonytone1731
    @tonytonytone1731 Před 3 lety

    666th like 🙌🏾 I agree, also they love the adventure and fun outside of a normal ass date with any old square nuts

  • @sensiblenutters5782
    @sensiblenutters5782 Před 3 lety

    🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @bdoubleeb3039
    @bdoubleeb3039 Před 3 lety +13

    Play golf and go fishing, chasing women is a waste of time and energy that inevitably ends in misery

  • @freddiestranger9783
    @freddiestranger9783 Před rokem +1

    YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY RIGHT. I DID EXACTLY THAT WITH A WHITE WOMAN WHO WAS HURT BY WHITE MEN AND TOOK HER AWAY FROM WHITE MEN FOREVER👍👍👍

  • @DidiyogasalsastudioTM
    @DidiyogasalsastudioTM Před 2 lety

    Good idea 👍 liked & suscribed found thru a common friend Namaste 🙏 love ❤️ Didi

  • @BridgeIsSky
    @BridgeIsSky Před 3 lety +1

    Please Lloyd take my pain away o.o
    XDDD

  • @awaisarshed
    @awaisarshed Před 3 lety +13

    Step 1 Be good looking, no you don't have to be a model, just be dateable! that means a 7+ and then only all of the dating advice works. If you are not attractive aka (ugly) then your chances are slim to nonexistent. Working on yourself and make a shit ton of money and become the bower bird in nature. Personality and all of that feel-good jargon media and dating guru feed you is not true... attractiveness, in my opinion, accounts for 90% of the whole interaction.

    • @sweetness583
      @sweetness583 Před 3 lety +2

      Yeah, people see what they want to see. If an ugly guy is talkative, he might be seen as annoying. If a good-looking guy is talkative, he'll be seen as fun and charismatic. If an ugly guy is into science, he'll be seen as a dork; a good-looking guy will be seen as smart, etc.. It's the halo effect.

    • @thedude666-n3h
      @thedude666-n3h Před 3 lety +6

      Lift, learn a martial art, have style and groom yourself. I used to be a fucking 3-4 but since i handled this im probably a solid 7 right now. It also helps not giving a fuck and being tall already lol

    • @OffGridInvestor
      @OffGridInvestor Před 2 lety +1

      Looks are ABSOLUTELY NOTHING and so is BEING RICH. Even being tall like I am at 6'2". All those DO NOTHING. TRUST ME from first hand experience.

  • @balance9402
    @balance9402 Před 2 lety

    I just met a cute girl and somehow got here 🤷‍♂️ cool advice

  • @dogguyful
    @dogguyful Před 2 lety

    Cool 😎 😎 👊👊👌👌👍👍🙏🙏

  • @12Messenger
    @12Messenger Před 3 lety +1

    Stare at her and then when she starts looking at you don't look back again. If she finds you attractive she'll keep looking to see if you're looking at her(but you're not). If she doesn't find you attractive she'll be like stop fucking looking at me irritated look

    • @Jojo-zp7fu
      @Jojo-zp7fu Před 3 lety

      You catch her staring, she catches you staring and this goes on all night......There's an attraction there and it's time to make a move.
      But if you're with your lady and she's with her man........then it's just a confidence boost letting you know that you still got it. 😎
      And it's just a night full of staring that will be on your mind for a couple of days.
      That's if your girl doesn't catch you staring. Then it's a bruise to the face for a couple of days.🤕

  • @THEONEANDONLY100100
    @THEONEANDONLY100100 Před 3 lety

    Nope wrong, I was used as a rebound when I fix that biiitch pain.