Especially if you move into a woman's house 😮. Please make sure if you make the mistake it's always her moving into yours. Most men don't have independence, government give women the privileges, priorities and benefits (not bitching). But yea, These women get annoying, controlling and aggressive. I'm glad I didn't have kids. My life would be hell. Yea 4 year set back, they drag you down too. Waste of time fellas. Just date, but don't let it side track you from your goals.
You may think at the start that the woman may promise she will stay eternally with you, truth is that as long as she finds the big better deal, most women will try everything to cause an emotional reaction into the men so that while they act like victims and innocents and forgiving angels, she is preparing your death trap on your back where she will steal all ur money and escape with the BBD, and even if most of the times she can't get a reaction over you, she can just make a scene and society will listen to her beacuse she's a woman, doesn't matter if she was the emotional one. This is not all women, but a lot of them are like that sadly.
@@shinrinyokumusic1808 "Going out with friends!" That's feminine phrase and mentality. As a single man I spend my free time mostly in solitude, reading, working out, beer with neighbors (friends) sometimes and meditating. See, hardly no time to think about vagina, and I'm loving this.
Always, always keep a women guessing about your: - money - goals - emotions - future Moving in together is how they get you to spill the beans. They get to conquer you.
@@gothamindembaum He talking about women of today, I couldnt imagine getting with a young girl these days. Hell, even Gen X women are off the rails now.
People always think Im insane for being 38 years old and having never lived with a woman. But seeing how miserable all these guys are I think I saved myself from a disaster.
@@mattyrock2467 considering I (probably) have autism, I doubt any woman would ever want to live with me anyways so I probably don't have much to worry about regardless.But even if by chance someone who is a bit more open minded would show up, I still wouldn't do it.
“I know you cook for us, you pay for things, you take us on trips…but it’s not enough. I need more.” When she told me that, I immediately looked for a way back to living by myself.
I'm a single Man with no kids, never been married, I just retired at 51 with a fat pension and more money than I could ever spend before I die. In excellent health, shape & HAPPY! My life journey has shown me that Single Men that have been on their "PURPOSE" always have an overflow of finances. Single Women are "ALWAYS" in DEBT! And Married People are "ALWAYS" barely making ends meet! They usually live check to check, because SHE always wants "MORE!" A quick way to lose in life is to get married or move in with a Woman!
FACTS! I'm 52yo and just lost everything because of my wife. She has everything and I'm crawling out the house with nothing. 32 years a wast of life. I'm starting all over at 52.😢😭
Once I started living by myself after divorce, 90 percent of my stress was gone. I can't imagine getting married again/ living with a woman again. I don't have to hear her bitching about when am I coming home or how many hours I have to work... it's quiet and I love it.
Any man who lives with a woman is a domestic quarrel away from being homeless and losing everything. Married or not. No matter whose house it is or who pays the bills. WE'VE ALL SEEN THIS HAPPEN!
@@4yajustblazin Yep once they have that position of power they will abuse it and won’t even be rational about it either. That’s why I don’t understand some of these fake alpha channels being like your not a man if you leave a woman out in the cold knowing full well women don’t have any problem doing it to us in the first place
@4yajustblazin yeah I'm just sharing my experience from my younger days. I own my apartment outright and when I look back at the decisions I was making back then from what I'm doing now I could of gone back in time and slapped myself silly 😅 but at least I didn't put a ring on it
I'm in my 40s & I've lived with so many women throughout the years.....however from experience, no matter what NVR live with a woman everrrr!!!! Women bore easily in addition to the natural chaos she brings! I've lived alone now going on 10yrs & it's been the BEST! Women can visit but never live in.
You can never take a nap after a hard day of work, you will be automatically called lazy !and they'll cheat on you with the hard working work husband!just because!🤷
My relationship with my ex died shortly after I moved in with her.. You see a different side of them, I was so miserable, she always argued with me over anything and everything. I grew to hate her.. I learned my lesson
The law states otherwise if you live with a woman for too long. You can't say no to the Western legal systems, plenty of even rich and good looking men have found out.
She will become annoyed with your physical possessions especially the ones you cherish most as her goal is to eliminate anything that takes attention away from her but in a cruel twist is turned off if you devote your attention to her. It is a fine line to walk but remember who you are and you were happy without them.
🤣 They are jealous of your financial stability. They want to chop and finish your money because their one main flame is not doing anything for them. Deep inside they are jealous of girls who are pampered with love, gifts and attention because it makes them feel like losers or unattractive.
Living with different women from 17 to 40s at that point I owed the bank about 13k, Went to live on my own at that point paid the bank off got focused will retire in 3 years time at 65 own house and half a mill in the bank all being well. I will never live with a woman again.
A dude of mine got diagnosed with severe depression. He dated a girl, but at the end she was just playing with him and used his money for food and all. My dude was still a student he lost all his money he saved for this girl, lost his thinking, severe emotional damage and crazy of all he lost 4 years of life for nothing.
@@jaysouthmusic8230Might be obvious, but, how do you protect against it? Obviously, if you start to date and see the girl is like this, cut it off, right? Anything else?
The problem is that a lot of ( especially) young men are wasting their time and money "investing" in a woman/women when they are not an investment, just a liability.
You must know when to cut losses and pull the plug, disappear. Let her do the chasing. The only time you want to see her is to get laid. Then you get busy once again and forget about her.
Im 34 and have to temporarily move back into my dads house with 2 of my older sisters. It doesn’t even have to be a love interest. Living with women will mess up your peace and happiness.
@@kumkan3588 thank you. It feels good to be understood. I have no brothers and all my boys don’t understand this unfortunately. Or maybe not to the extent that we do.
Even if you're married, you should still live in separate houses. Humans need their own space, living with anyone would get me irritated yet alone a woman. Treading on eachothers toes, annoying habits etc. Healthy relationships are when people appreciate the little time you spend together because it's scarce. And it's more authentic if you actually miss eachother and desire to see eachother. When you're always together it's forced, manufactured, and never have the chance to reflect if it's genuine or you really are attracted to eachother/ in love , whatever ...
@@RedNBlackPill The reality is that men and women really don't have much in common. Passion ❤️ naturally diminishes with time. Reason why we need to revert back to the old relationship traditions. Instead of spending years accumulating debt working on meaningless careers, we should be focused on bonding with a potential life partner. 😳
One time I asked my ex-girlfriend to cook something for me and she said that she is too beautiful to cook and my response was “I’ll stop to go to work tomorrow and will spend my time on the couch with PlayStation drinking alcohol instead” it’s about how complicated to live with woman
if she is not "the one" to marry and spend your life with, have a kid - then you are burning money in a toilet. imagine spending $$$ on vacations and restaurants just to "have some girlfriend"
Good video young man….At 52 I’ve never lived with a woman…True story,I got a hood chick pregnant the first time I had sex(20 years old)…I tried shacking up for 2 months, and it was absolute hell…Over the years I got caught up in two additional pregnancies(1 lied about birth control,the other got a hold of my condom)…I have raised all three children on my own….The amazing thing about women,when you show any signs of trying to invest with them and build,it’s in their nature to pull in the other direction, and chip away at your power…Before you know it, you will be broken in every way…And the reason for me leaving home at 17,is because my mother indulged in chaos…at 7 I told her I didn’t like her style, and I need to have more input on my life…Fast forward to 2024,I give her love,I cook meals and bring her a portion, gave her a car for Christmas…but even more importantly,I give her a lesson on life every single week that we talk…My oldest kid is now 31,she’s a mental health therapist, and just bought a house down the street from Dad(and her ghetto mom has reappeared)…Last I knew she was getting beat up by a thug our daughter’s age!
This should be common sense to most men is to never live with a female especially if you're not married. I love my peace at the end of the day. If you're in a relationship, both parties should have their own place anyways
If she wants a baby… tell her you want to see at least 100k to her name! 🤣 They want you to give them children, and for YOU to pay for them and just ONE child will COST YOU BIG TIME!
I agree that young men should leave their parents home and become independent at some point. However, if possible, young men should try and stay in their parents home for at least a few years after high school, or after finishing college, in order to: 1) save more money, 2) Achieve further education or learn new skills, 3) potentially start a new business. Young men should remember that once you leave your parents home, most likely they are not coming back and the opportunity to pursue the above three 3 items will be a lot more difficult and costly if you have to do it on your own. So basically, work on yourself while you have the resources and support of your parents. Good luck Men!
I moved in with my wife her mother uncle and brother.. fast forward 5 years 5 months her mom passed away uncle left..now shes trying to evict her brother then we are going to get a divorce brutal..
Agree Relationship Work way better when time is spaced between the man & Woman...If She Says She Wants To Stay With U Tell Her No, U Will Be Arguing in conflicts less than a months time period...
Appreciate this, bruh. I knew i made the right decision to NOT live with my recent ex or any other woman so far. Me and my recent ex couldn't even get along with each other for a couple of months without her breaking up or arguing with me. Why would I marry, have kids, or even live with something so unstable? I might be slow on certain things but I can clearly see that none of those things would help or improve the situation.
I made it 4 years, and that was 2019-2024. The pandemic had her working from home too, just like me, so we were together 24/7! I can't believe I made it that far, it was not good for me. Isolation from friends, I became a stow-away in the basement, when I wasn't busting my butt maintaining her house and yard.
@@TheMchyaby they manipulate you to keep performing more and more, and hardly crack a smile like you did nothing. The 4 years prior to that, we had our own places and it was way better! Her behavior changed within like a month of us living together. I moved all of her things and my own too. I am a very hard worker, and really I see I can be prone to being a slave really if I am not careful.
@@atmosrepair Yes many people really showed their true colors living together during the pandemic. She tried throwing me out like 4-5 times doing the epidemic. I maintained the house and worked from home as well. She ended up assaulting me once I was done with her
Arguments start and it’s “her house” If you don’t like it you can “leave.” If you get extra unlucky she will get physical and will apply her get out of jail card and preemptively call LE on you
Best a man can do is focus on his self fist... live alone and do you! . One doesnot need a women before he is the best off hes life... pussy option... focus on you king... women will come do you! .why cant you be alone? Cuz your friends have a women so you need one? Do you first king. Enjoy life . I have bin there done it all. We men need to do us first enjoy life without the drama stress.
I lived with my wife for 8 years before we got married. I knew what I was getting myself into. Made my bed and accepted what life will be like. It can be a wonderful thing, but it can also be nerve-wracking! Her clothes all over the place. Her stuff migrating from her side of the sink to yours. Her hair getting everywhere. Papers, pens, notebooks, and things all over the place. When you have children, man that stuff get craaaaazy. You start realizing your home is becoming more her and the children’s home LOL!! It's true!! It’s all good though, I look at life as a series of decisions, with errors and lessons learned. If you’re a young man, my big suggestion is, get your career going, buy yourself a home. Keep your home, and never sell it. When you meet a woman, preferably meet one who has her own home established already. This way, if things go bad and she tries to kick you out, you got spot to always go to. Build in your own self-protection. I would have done this if I thought about life that way at 20. It’s too late for me, but not for you LOL!! Either way, I’m glad to be married, it has its challenges, but that’s life!
I should have listened to my mother I had to learn for myself. I got rolled over and thrown in the ditch a couple of times. But now I'm 59, had my first kid and doing well alone. I get the shakes now just thinking about it
*True talk Brodie!!* All women are honestly distractions, and I’ve honestly love the freedom I have from not being/wanting a relationship. It’s refreshing to say the least!! Now here an there I may chop it up with some females, but my purpose is to spread love, positivity, and create ample opportunities while staying True!!!
True Dat…… I would use my money for the our child and for everything else while she saved her money and told me it was my fault that I got no money. That’s sick.
Good post. Living with a woman when un married is not wise. She’ll have too many opinions and bad suggestions of how you live your life i.e. work, lifestyle. You’ll lose money and sanity.
My wife and i live together, i made my intentions clear in the beginning, pay 50% of the bills, or im not interested. As we lived with each others we mwde adnustments and been fine. You are the man, set the rules, dont be afraid to walk away
Been there that shits crazy 😅 almost killed me it’s like living with a vampire but they stop sucking 🍆 and start sucking your money soul & Energy and freedom
@@cellokingdomzzok so.. I had to come back to this for it intrigues me so… Now then Mr Cello when you say ‘stop the cap’ are you meaning the cap’ as in us woman folk or is cap’ a typo for a different less savory word hahah I mean no worries either way because I’ve liked your reply regardless.. just so you know.. many thanks and good day to you all the same bro ;)’
As a man - your potential and your purpose is to build a family. Have children, raise them and be a good father. If everyone just decides to not do that - we are doomed as humans. It won't be easy - it's damned hard - but men and women are meant to get together and make babies and raise them with good values. You can't deny that fact - without that - what you'll have is a bunch of broken families and children raised without a father figure. Those kids will grow up all messed up.
The point is for the men who are actually watching to make better choices. We know that men will continue to create families. Let’s be real. My video could only potentially impact less than 0.025 percent of men worldwide who actually see this video. Please stop and focus on the message, stop setting men up for disaster. (Please)
since my mother kicked my dad out the house (she said my dad left...) i've been the man of the house by force, my mum is driving me insane... treating me like a husband, conatant nagging about little things like peices of rice in the sink... fucking hell man...
@@SwaggSkillz1992he’s part of the reason ur here. He didn’t have social media then to know about all this stuff. Be grateful for him you’ll miss him when he’s gone
I am a woman and I am married, maybe I’m old school. My husband, is on his purpose, he has his own space and freedom to do things on his own. He makes his own decisions, I’m really laid back. I prefer my space, I’m an introvert and even with my husband, I need a lot of space to recharge. I work from home but, we both take pride in doing our own things. We like to work out and enjoy our personal space, when we are together it’s great but, we know that we both need to do our own things. Our marriage has gotten better every year, our intimacy is great but, we understand that we still are two individuals. Also we save, a lot of our money, do not eat out lol, I also do all the domestic labor and cook. I enjoy those things but, I understand that we both need our space. So I think if with the right person it can work. I’m not sure how I subtle across your video. But, I think as a woman, we can never be satisfied so if a man thinks that it’s his mission to satisfy us, he’s in for a rude awakening. So that is why I say, you have to have space and understanding in your relationship. My take, but, I’m happily married and understand that we are both grown and have to be accountable for our own actions and lives.
💯 the truth…..had it done to me enough times. I wouldn’t even bother in this day and age your better off having your own digs than sharing a place with someone who will eventually move on when they get bored of living life in reality and not partying 24/7 women are there for the good times and never there for the struggle because it’s too hard apparently 🤷♂️
While dude advice is on point, some people need to experience it in first-person view. Life is all about experience. Some people will call you dumb for what you did, but that's in the past. Your future is more important. Act, fuck up, Do something different. That's how life works.
She will drain you financially and mentally
She will slow you down for her benefit, she's always looking out for herself first.
🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯 99% of women are liabilities fr!! Stay safe, and on your purpose Kings!!! *Peace & Light* ✨
@@williamj.dovejr.8613yeah👍 truth
Financial for sure
@@SwaggSkillz1992 agreed. They are walking liabilities
Don't do it. Never. Once arguments start, it's done.
Real.
A man who argues with women doesn't understand women.
Real!!!!
Especially if you move into a woman's house 😮.
Please make sure if you make the mistake it's always her moving into yours. Most men don't have independence, government give women the privileges, priorities and benefits (not bitching).
But yea, These women get annoying, controlling and aggressive. I'm glad I didn't have kids. My life would be hell. Yea 4 year set back, they drag you down too. Waste of time fellas. Just date, but don't let it side track you from your goals.
You may think at the start that the woman may promise she will stay eternally with you, truth is that as long as she finds the big better deal, most women will try everything to cause an emotional reaction into the men so that while they act like victims and innocents and forgiving angels, she is preparing your death trap on your back where she will steal all ur money and escape with the BBD, and even if most of the times she can't get a reaction over you, she can just make a scene and society will listen to her beacuse she's a woman, doesn't matter if she was the emotional one.
This is not all women, but a lot of them are like that sadly.
47 years old and I am happy as heck with my total freedom
What is your daily life routine like being single? Going out with friends?
@@shinrinyokumusic1808 "Going out with friends!" That's feminine phrase and mentality. As a single man I spend my free time mostly in solitude, reading, working out, beer with neighbors (friends) sometimes and meditating. See, hardly no time to think about vagina, and I'm loving this.
@@cesarbolet2181 no babe mamas🤣🤣🤣...me to turning 49 living peaceful
49 and happily married so I don't know who y'all dating to make you feel that way.
Always, always keep a women guessing about your:
- money
- goals
- emotions
- future
Moving in together is how they get you to spill the beans. They get to conquer you.
In Mexico they say" To a woman: never give all your love and all your money".
@@RubenWalsh-iv5ik Wise words!
“Always keep a woman guessing.”
I like that
The moment she figures you out your toast chapter closed
Facts
The root of suffering is attachment.” The Buddha
It's desire as well, desiring anything.
For Buddha, the root of suffering is life in general. But in this context, ...well chosen.
Exactly and Buddhism my faith thanks for this quote
Jesus is God
@@michaelmeaiky3166
Only in your imagination. 😳
The worst mistake ever
I live for one year with a woman!!
Not anymore never again
a year? LMFAO. TRY 15 YEARS BRAH!
@@gothamindembaum He talking about women of today, I couldnt imagine getting with a young girl these days. Hell, even Gen X women are off the rails now.
Me too
It's crazy out there! No dating, no cohabitation, certainly no marriage.
@@gothamindembaum a defacto relationship can be a jail sentence. It doesn't matter if it's for 1 year,or 15 years as in your case
Yea it’s cool living with em for maybe the first 3 months, but then they’ll slowly drain your soul
@@aaronkirkland5211 🤣🤣
Yup they will find anyway possible to drain you inorder to conquer your success
People always think Im insane for being 38 years old and having never lived with a woman. But seeing how miserable all these guys are I think I saved myself from a disaster.
im much older than you and have never lived with a woman and it has been the best thing ever. Dont let anyone shame you into doing it.
@@mattyrock2467 considering I (probably) have autism, I doubt any woman would ever want to live with me anyways so I probably don't have much to worry about regardless.But even if by chance someone who is a bit more open minded would show up, I still wouldn't do it.
you did
😂😂😂
Your be alright you missed a bullet
“I know you cook for us, you pay for things, you take us on trips…but it’s not enough. I need more.” When she told me that, I immediately looked for a way back to living by myself.
It's never enough.
Wow man thats tough. Lived that life dont think I can mentally place myself in that type of lifestyle again
i know you lying aint no f-ucking way
@@FWGFX Fam, its really women out here like that…trust. Sneaky too..its truly never enough.
When you live together the sex slows down and the interior design speeds up.
Slows down to damn near non existing
The way you worded that is horrifying 😂
Ask any married man how much he’s getting….its zero or once a month if that
33 months no sex from my wife@@trevorjohnican1685
@@lowbloodprsure na not true. It’s the opposite for me and mine lmao
I'm a single Man with no kids, never been married, I just retired at 51 with a fat pension and more money than I could ever spend before I die. In excellent health, shape & HAPPY! My life journey has shown me that Single Men that have been on their "PURPOSE" always have an overflow of finances. Single Women are "ALWAYS" in DEBT! And Married People are "ALWAYS" barely making ends meet! They usually live check to check, because SHE always wants "MORE!" A quick way to lose in life is to get married or move in with a Woman!
I’m totally with you…but do you think we need a purpose outside of ourselves if it doesn’t include a family? Perhaps some sort of philanthropy?
FACTS! I'm 52yo and just lost everything because of my wife. She has everything and I'm crawling out the house with nothing. 32 years a wast of life. I'm starting all over at 52.😢😭
Behind closed doors 80% of these couples are miserable as hell. And hate each other. But out in public they look like the perfect couple.
Hahaahaa true story yes
Facted
That’s so true don’t believe what you see believe what you don’t see
@@kenthompson9357Your statement doesn't make no sense.
@@rahimfreshhh6610 if you don’t understand it..I can’t help you bro. I can’t make it any clearer
Once I started living by myself after divorce, 90 percent of my stress was gone. I can't imagine getting married again/ living with a woman again. I don't have to hear her bitching about when am I coming home or how many hours I have to work... it's quiet and I love it.
Think about it, fellas: what you would call a great weekend (pizza, video games, reading, saving money) is HELL to a woman.
Let alone working out since most women don't like working out
Especially saving money
That sounds awesome
💯 percent!
working out, hiking, sleeping … anything else with my free time lol
I've traveled with women. And it's just as bad.
Working with them sucks
Oh Yeah!!!
Traveling with a chick...is Torture!!!
@@Oscar_239don't get me started
Any man who lives with a woman is a domestic quarrel away from being homeless and losing everything. Married or not. No matter whose house it is or who pays the bills. WE'VE ALL SEEN THIS HAPPEN!
FACTS! I'm going through it right now! I F*cked my life up! She has everything, I'm crawling out the house with nothing. I'm 52yo.
I’m homeless now ….she drained me for everything
good point dude didnt think of that sh#t😬
Definitely been there done that
When she get mad, she'll kick you out. Don't do it
Yep well said.
@@4yajustblazin Yep once they have that position of power they will abuse it and won’t even be rational about it either. That’s why I don’t understand some of these fake alpha channels being like your not a man if you leave a woman out in the cold knowing full well women don’t have any problem doing it to us in the first place
Thats why you need your own house 🤷🏾♂️
@@Djohnson89 that's why I don't live with a chick
@4yajustblazin yeah I'm just sharing my experience from my younger days. I own my apartment outright and when I look back at the decisions I was making back then from what I'm doing now I could of gone back in time and slapped myself silly 😅 but at least I didn't put a ring on it
Ur ambition is a bird
Ur girlfriend is the hunter with a gun
Well said …she killed my ambition with a rifle
I've done it. And it made me go MGTOW for life. It's that bad
They're running us out of town
Unfortunately in this day and age, the only way to defend yourself is to go mgtow/monk mode. Wahmen have way too much power over guys.
@@berictover simps
@jkw6196 even guys who stand up for themselves can get falsely accused its better to just stay away.
@@jkw6196 naw dude. Im no simp believe that, but im not doing time or taking a lead shower from a cop because my live in GF decided she wasnt happy
I'm in my 40s & I've lived with so many women throughout the years.....however from experience, no matter what NVR live with a woman everrrr!!!! Women bore easily in addition to the natural chaos she brings! I've lived alone now going on 10yrs & it's been the BEST! Women can visit but never live in.
You can never take a nap after a hard day of work, you will be automatically called lazy !and they'll cheat on you with the hard working work husband!just because!🤷
That's a fact!
@@user-td4ys2pv7p 💯 feel you bud…it’s always the hard working guys that get shafted for being a pleasant human being
😂😂😂
Keep your own place and you will keep your respect.
AGREED.And also you'll have peace and quiet,no arguing over stupid and petty stuff either.
That's a fact
My relationship with my ex died shortly after I moved in with her.. You see a different side of them, I was so miserable, she always argued with me over anything and everything. I grew to hate her..
I learned my lesson
😂😂😂....just go back fix things
@@ericdube8884 I can’t fix someone who is damaged and doesn’t wanna fix herself
she wont drain you if you learn to say no.
The law states otherwise if you live with a woman for too long. You can't say no to the Western legal systems, plenty of even rich and good looking men have found out.
If you say no, she will mentally drain you. You can't win.
sad part, MOST guys DON'T have the balls to tell her, HELL NO.
She will become annoyed with your physical possessions especially the ones you cherish most as her goal is to eliminate anything that takes attention away from her but in a cruel twist is turned off if you devote your attention to her. It is a fine line to walk but remember who you are and you were happy without them.
🤣 They are jealous of your financial stability. They want to chop and finish your money because their one main flame is not doing anything for them. Deep inside they are jealous of girls who are pampered with love, gifts and attention because it makes them feel like losers or unattractive.
The hardest thing to do is to get a women out of your house.
had too literally take my ex-girl friend too court too get her outta my house!!!
They hate you but won't leave 💯
Living with different women from 17 to 40s at that point I owed the bank about 13k, Went to live on my own at that point paid the bank off got focused will retire in 3 years time at 65 own house and half a mill in the bank all being well. I will never live with a woman again.
A dude of mine got diagnosed with severe depression. He dated a girl, but at the end she was just playing with him and used his money for food and all. My dude was still a student he lost all his money he saved for this girl, lost his thinking, severe emotional damage and crazy of all he lost 4 years of life for nothing.
Damn man I'm sorry that happened I don't wish this on anyone
@@jaysouthmusic8230Might be obvious, but, how do you protect against it? Obviously, if you start to date and see the girl is like this, cut it off, right? Anything else?
The problem is that a lot of ( especially) young men are wasting their time and money "investing" in a woman/women when they are not an investment, just a liability.
@@ActiveAussie2024 So, what is the solution?
You must know when to cut losses and pull the plug, disappear. Let her do the chasing. The only time you want to see her is to get laid. Then you get busy once again and forget about her.
Im 34 and have to temporarily move back into my dads house with 2 of my older sisters. It doesn’t even have to be a love interest. Living with women will mess up your peace and happiness.
😂😂😂😂
I agree with you 120%
@@kumkan3588 thank you. It feels good to be understood. I have no brothers and all my boys don’t understand this unfortunately. Or maybe not to the extent that we do.
Even if you're married, you should still live in separate houses. Humans need their own space, living with anyone would get me irritated yet alone a woman. Treading on eachothers toes, annoying habits etc. Healthy relationships are when people appreciate the little time you spend together because it's scarce. And it's more authentic if you actually miss eachother and desire to see eachother. When you're always together it's forced, manufactured, and never have the chance to reflect if it's genuine or you really are attracted to eachother/ in love , whatever ...
Facts 💯
🎯🎯🎯🎯
@@RedNBlackPill 🤣🤣
You really pragmatic. No one ever proffered thıs solution. U smart
@@RedNBlackPill
The reality is that men and women really don't have much in common.
Passion ❤️ naturally diminishes with time. Reason why we need to revert back to the old relationship traditions.
Instead of spending years accumulating debt working on meaningless careers, we should be focused on bonding with a potential life partner. 😳
One time I asked my ex-girlfriend to cook something for me and she said that she is too beautiful to cook and my response was “I’ll stop to go to work tomorrow and will spend my time on the couch with PlayStation drinking alcohol instead” it’s about how complicated to live with woman
Damn man you deserved better than that
ur better than 90% of guys out there already. At least you pushed back. Simps would have just accepted her reality 😂
if she is not "the one" to marry and spend your life with, have a kid - then you are burning money in a toilet.
imagine spending $$$ on vacations and restaurants just to "have some girlfriend"
Being the youngest of 4 sons, I witness my brothers situation and will never ever cohabitate with em.
@@antares3097 🤣🤣🤣
you boys listen to the game he spittin....his content proves he understands life better then 99% of ya'll
Good video young man….At 52 I’ve never lived with a woman…True story,I got a hood chick pregnant the first time I had sex(20 years old)…I tried shacking up for 2 months, and it was absolute hell…Over the years I got caught up in two additional pregnancies(1 lied about birth control,the other got a hold of my condom)…I have raised all three children on my own….The amazing thing about women,when you show any signs of trying to invest with them and build,it’s in their nature to pull in the other direction, and chip away at your power…Before you know it, you will be broken in every way…And the reason for me leaving home at 17,is because my mother indulged in chaos…at 7 I told her I didn’t like her style, and I need to have more input on my life…Fast forward to 2024,I give her love,I cook meals and bring her a portion, gave her a car for Christmas…but even more importantly,I give her a lesson on life every single week that we talk…My oldest kid is now 31,she’s a mental health therapist, and just bought a house down the street from Dad(and her ghetto mom has reappeared)…Last I knew she was getting beat up by a thug our daughter’s age!
Well done brother
I would never because she can take half of my house. In my country after certain time you become common law.
Yep, if it his house, she'll get squatters protection. If it's her house, he's getting dragged out.
This should be common sense to most men is to never live with a female especially if you're not married. I love my peace at the end of the day. If you're in a relationship, both parties should have their own place anyways
It shouldn’t have to be like this, but the American woman has become such a tyrant that they need their own space you can’t even live with with them
Nah my peace and tranquility is what I want most💯
When she moves in , that's when she gives up her corporate job or whatever job she had claiming independence
LOL LOL
If she wants a baby… tell her you want to see at least 100k to her name! 🤣
They want you to give them children, and for YOU to pay for them and just ONE child will COST YOU BIG TIME!
I can't believe so many guys have trouble seeing the benefits of living alone. Maybe they get lonely or something.
99% of the time its horrible she will look down on you .
The fun will be gone within 1,5 years of living together.
You will be thinking:
“What have I put myself into”
It’s downwards from there on.
especially if your not married. It's like your saying you'll loose your ability to focus
Typically, things tend to deteriorate when two people get married.
I agree that young men should leave their parents home and become independent at some point. However, if possible, young men should try and stay in their parents home for at least a few years after high school, or after finishing college, in order to: 1) save more money, 2) Achieve further education or learn new skills, 3) potentially start a new business. Young men should remember that once you leave your parents home, most likely they are not coming back and the opportunity to pursue the above three 3 items will be a lot more difficult and costly if you have to do it on your own. So basically, work on yourself while you have the resources and support of your parents. Good luck Men!
True, thanks for the input
No money to move out.
I moved in with my wife her mother uncle and brother.. fast forward 5 years 5 months her mom passed away uncle left..now shes trying to evict her brother then we are going to get a divorce brutal..
This was a recipe for disaster
Brothers, stay single
Agree Relationship Work way better when time is spaced between the man & Woman...If She Says She Wants To Stay With U Tell Her No, U Will Be Arguing in conflicts less than a months time period...
@@user-iz4zi7kb9d 🤣🤣🤣....say no
Appreciate this, bruh. I knew i made the right decision to NOT live with my recent ex or any other woman so far. Me and my recent ex couldn't even get along with each other for a couple of months without her breaking up or arguing with me. Why would I marry, have kids, or even live with something so unstable? I might be slow on certain things but I can clearly see that none of those things would help or improve the situation.
This man speaks the truth, believe him and live a better life stress and drama free and with money in your bank.
I made it 4 years, and that was 2019-2024. The pandemic had her working from home too, just like me, so we were together 24/7! I can't believe I made it that far, it was not good for me. Isolation from friends, I became a stow-away in the basement, when I wasn't busting my butt maintaining her house and yard.
Almost the same identical thing happen to me!
@@TheMchyaby they manipulate you to keep performing more and more, and hardly crack a smile like you did nothing. The 4 years prior to that, we had our own places and it was way better! Her behavior changed within like a month of us living together. I moved all of her things and my own too. I am a very hard worker, and really I see I can be prone to being a slave really if I am not careful.
@@atmosrepair Yes many people really showed their true colors living together during the pandemic. She tried throwing me out like 4-5 times doing the epidemic. I maintained the house and worked from home as well. She ended up assaulting me once I was done with her
Plz….plz don’t ever do this. Your life will change. You will be miserable. If your independent and do you this lifestyle will slowly kill you
I'm 66 never been married never had to pay child support never had to pay alimony I've gotten all my money I never spent a dime on a woman
I lived 15 years.....near death, i walked away
I posted a video on my channel a couple months back about how women are dream killers.
Arguments start and it’s “her house” If you don’t like it you can “leave.” If you get extra unlucky she will get physical and will apply her get out of jail card and preemptively call LE on you
In our culture before we were enslaved the wife had her own house on the compound. She did not live with the man in his house
Amazing video man!!! Keep at it please man plus audio volume is perfect!
Yes bruv, I will never do it again
Subscribed. This guy is extremely articulate, and I can sense he has genuine wisdom. Which is from life experience.
Best a man can do is focus on his self fist... live alone and do you! . One doesnot need a women before he is the best off hes life... pussy option... focus on you king... women will come do you! .why cant you be alone? Cuz your friends have a women so you need one?
Do you first king. Enjoy life . I have bin there done it all. We men need to do us first enjoy life without the drama stress.
I lived with my wife for 8 years before we got married. I knew what I was getting myself into. Made my bed and accepted what life will be like. It can be a wonderful thing, but it can also be nerve-wracking! Her clothes all over the place. Her stuff migrating from her side of the sink to yours. Her hair getting everywhere. Papers, pens, notebooks, and things all over the place. When you have children, man that stuff get craaaaazy. You start realizing your home is becoming more her and the children’s home LOL!! It's true!! It’s all good though, I look at life as a series of decisions, with errors and lessons learned. If you’re a young man, my big suggestion is, get your career going, buy yourself a home. Keep your home, and never sell it. When you meet a woman, preferably meet one who has her own home established already. This way, if things go bad and she tries to kick you out, you got spot to always go to. Build in your own self-protection. I would have done this if I thought about life that way at 20. It’s too late for me, but not for you LOL!! Either way, I’m glad to be married, it has its challenges, but that’s life!
You're giving off such gay vibes.
People still talk like you in the world, amazing!🤩 you’re a funny guy!!
@@MrAlexanderTheG8 Thanks man
Great video brother I understand what you are saying been there done that they will slow you down and drain you good message.
I should have listened to my mother I had to learn for myself. I got rolled over and thrown in the ditch a couple of times. But now I'm 59, had my first kid and doing well alone. I get the shakes now just thinking about it
Glad you survived the chaos that Jezebel tried to bring!
*True talk Brodie!!* All women are honestly distractions, and I’ve honestly love the freedom I have from not being/wanting a relationship. It’s refreshing to say the least!!
Now here an there I may chop it up with some females, but my purpose is to spread love, positivity, and create ample opportunities while staying True!!!
True Dat……
I would use my money for the our child and for everything else while she saved her money and told me it was my fault that I got no money. That’s sick.
Good post. Living with a woman when un married is not wise. She’ll have too many opinions and bad suggestions of how you live your life i.e. work, lifestyle. You’ll lose money and sanity.
My wife and i live together, i made my intentions clear in the beginning, pay 50% of the bills, or im not interested.
As we lived with each others we mwde adnustments and been fine. You are the man, set the rules, dont be afraid to walk away
over the years, I watched my brother simp for THREE different women. ALL 3 broke his heart by leaving him. and of course, using him, FIRST.
Damn🤦🏾♂️
Living with two women long term the is the realest video on the net great job man .
I’m working on getting my own place now …..never again
@@Kinggabriel86 same here
Been there that shits crazy 😅 almost killed me it’s like living with a vampire but they stop sucking 🍆 and start sucking your money soul & Energy and freedom
I needed to hear this video.
did it a few times, by myself now, yup, this is all facts
The wrong women will drain you yes… but the right one will uplift you… Nuff said ;)’
Stop the cap
@@cellokingdomzz Ok so I don’t know what you meaning here bubbs but my response is… No… you stop it first !!
@@cellokingdomzzok so.. I had to come back to this for it intrigues me so… Now then Mr Cello when you say ‘stop the cap’ are you meaning the cap’ as in us woman folk or is cap’ a typo for a different less savory word hahah I mean no worries either way because I’ve liked your reply regardless.. just so you know.. many thanks and good day to you all the same bro ;)’
@@JOEYDEEZ369 you are not a virgin period
There's a lot of right women... and a lot of wrong women. Find a good women and if she wasn't as expected... dump her
Nah she won't be living with me she will be living in the basement, well secured of course. 🤣
As a man - your potential and your purpose is to build a family. Have children, raise them and be a good father. If everyone just decides to not do that - we are doomed as humans. It won't be easy - it's damned hard - but men and women are meant to get together and make babies and raise them with good values. You can't deny that fact - without that - what you'll have is a bunch of broken families and children raised without a father figure. Those kids will grow up all messed up.
The point is for the men who are actually watching to make better choices. We know that men will continue to create families. Let’s be real. My video could only potentially impact less than 0.025 percent of men worldwide who actually see this video. Please stop and focus on the message, stop setting men up for disaster. (Please)
Speak for yourself Jase, and stop giving people purposes.
@@denzel1877 It's not me - it's nature. We seem to be promoting failed crops these days.
thanks for your honesty brother
since my mother kicked my dad out the house (she said my dad left...) i've been the man of the house by force, my mum is driving me insane... treating me like a husband, conatant nagging about little things like peices of rice in the sink... fucking hell man...
Nooooo, not the rice in the sink…lol.
@@thinkaboutit6148 bruh
You have figured it out at a young age good for you young brother!
Doing it right now - Would not recommend.
Thanks for the honesty😂
Facts. You'll be the simp provider.
My goofy pops… Dude is miserable & hides behind his over inflated ego…. He’s a joke 💯
@@SwaggSkillz1992he’s part of the reason ur here. He didn’t have social media then to know about all this stuff. Be grateful for him you’ll miss him when he’s gone
Huz this guy with all this deep talk. Mandem is speaking to my soul fam
That moment when you regret signing that lease agreement… ☹️!
😂tragic
I am a woman and I am married, maybe I’m old school. My husband, is on his purpose, he has his own space and freedom to do things on his own. He makes his own decisions, I’m really laid back. I prefer my space, I’m an introvert and even with my husband, I need a lot of space to recharge. I work from home but, we both take pride in doing our own things. We like to work out and enjoy our personal space, when we are together it’s great but, we know that we both need to do our own things. Our marriage has gotten better every year, our intimacy is great but, we understand that we still are two individuals. Also we save, a lot of our money, do not eat out lol, I also do all the domestic labor and cook. I enjoy those things but, I understand that we both need our space. So I think if with the right person it can work. I’m not sure how I subtle across your video. But, I think as a woman, we can never be satisfied so if a man thinks that it’s his mission to satisfy us, he’s in for a rude awakening. So that is why I say, you have to have space and understanding in your relationship. My take, but, I’m happily married and understand that we are both grown and have to be accountable for our own actions and lives.
Thanks for the honesty, good luck to your marriage🙏🏾
They always slow you down it's best to get your ish right I'm dealing with it now
I read A LOT of these comments. I agree with the brothers.
Great talk 💪
Powerful message 👍🏽🤔
Bro you ain’t never lie
A CZcamsr (AC) said it best. The happiest men he has ever met are divorced men!!!
I’m a chick. Don’t do it. I prefer having my own spot. Preach.
Thanks for the honesty 🙏🏾
He is speaking straight Facts 💯
Nowadays you need your own space so you can walk away.
I get drained every morning and feels so good
💯 good talk
I’m learning the hard way. Can’t even kick her out either thanks to the law…
💯 the truth…..had it done to me enough times. I wouldn’t even bother in this day and age your better off having your own digs than sharing a place with someone who will eventually move on when they get bored of living life in reality and not partying 24/7 women are there for the good times and never there for the struggle because it’s too hard apparently 🤷♂️
Sage advice young bro
While dude advice is on point, some people need to experience it in first-person view. Life is all about experience. Some people will call you dumb for what you did, but that's in the past. Your future is more important. Act, fuck up, Do something different. That's how life works.
No words of lies detected.
Intelligent argumentation. Great stuff. Best greetings from Germany😊