BUILDING A CONNECTION IN RELATIONSHIPS by RC Blakes

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Komentáře • 249

  • @RCBlakesJr.
    @RCBlakesJr.  Před měsícem +83

    GREAT EVENING FAMILY!!!! Lisa and I are so glad you’re here. Invite someone else to join us tonight

    • @to-e357
      @to-e357 Před měsícem +2

      GREAT knowledge nuggets, pebbles, rocks & boulders😆 Pastor Blakes & First Lady! You are APPRECIATED!

    • @PrincessCoira
      @PrincessCoira Před měsícem

      Hi Pastor RC Blakes! Could you speak about understanding how to discern when it is right to allow a man to return into your life having realized the value of you as a woman (such as in the case of you & Lisa), versus when allowing this man to return into your life is a disrespect to yourself and your soul & leading to repetition of cycles? How do you know that when he returns with serious intention, that it’s true and sent by God? 🙏🏽 thank you always for your work! ❤

    • @jlorynmusic
      @jlorynmusic Před měsícem

      Has your facebook page been hacked? I’ve notice very inappropriate content being posted on your Facebook page and had to unfollow.

    • @African.Diaspora.InLondonUK
      @African.Diaspora.InLondonUK Před měsícem

      ❤❤ Pastor RC Blakes. You give great advice. But the obvious issue that i see is dark skinned black women who are dealing with colorism & texturism from black men. Preach the elephant in the room. Your advice is really limited

    • @user-wg9nm6hp1n
      @user-wg9nm6hp1n Před měsícem

      ❤❤

  • @michelleaunchman9753
    @michelleaunchman9753 Před měsícem +99

    There is nothing worse than a man pretending to be that person and finding out he was not.

  • @sashamarieMFT
    @sashamarieMFT Před měsícem +74

    I've been watching pastor Blakes for over three years and he never fails to tickle me! Lol!! So good! He has a couple things he ALWAYS says "y'all be jumping up and down in the middle of that bed" "PhD women and a GED men" "let me move on before I get in trouble, I can hear y'all now" "y'all be in the middle of that bed" "Holla at ya boy" and MANY others!! 😅 love him!!

    • @camsteph67
      @camsteph67 Před měsícem +8

      Right? He is so funny... the paint Job and Rims won't cut it Bae. 😂😂😂

    • @CL-do5eq
      @CL-do5eq Před měsícem +7

      Paster is funny yet real and I appreciate it. He has his little insiders 😂

    • @catherinew3115
      @catherinew3115 Před měsícem

      He dislikes ‘little men”, bubble popping girls, rear end/back side photos 🤣🤣…

    • @ardoniaamand6196
      @ardoniaamand6196 Před měsícem +8

      Yes!! I always get at least one chuckle!😂😂 He breaks it all the way down!👌🏾

    • @DJ_MME
      @DJ_MME Před měsícem +4

      He be saying things that make me almost spit out my drink😂😂😂…he be tickling me and he is just that funny in the church house!! He knows how to deliver it and keeps it 100!!!

  • @lylyanazarela4807
    @lylyanazarela4807 Před měsícem +11

    I have never love, respect and learn so much from Pastor Blake. He really is the dad I never had and the father that I need in my life ❤️

  • @NursetalkwithSheka
    @NursetalkwithSheka Před měsícem +98

    See now that’s the problem right there pastor. People don’t take the time to build, learn and grow with one another. This generation gets so caught up instant gratification! We ready for the lesson pastor ❤❤❤

  • @walterineellis
    @walterineellis Před měsícem +38

    A man will only go as far as a woman will let him go.

  • @MonroeCarla
    @MonroeCarla Před měsícem +22

    Hanging around the ice cream isle, with diabetes! 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
    Not me... I'm on the spinach and broccoli isle!

  • @thefoodtubeprincess
    @thefoodtubeprincess Před měsícem +10

    1. There must be attraction
    2. Spiritual harmony
    Emotional agreement
    Intellectual mirror 🪞
    3. Compatibility / aligning on core beliefs, values n morals

  • @MartyMar-yk1ik
    @MartyMar-yk1ik Před měsícem +35

    I love how you and TG are shouting one another out! Wow ❤

  • @andreawinton6797
    @andreawinton6797 Před měsícem +30

    Can't wait for this one pastor I just know that one day that THE MOST HIGH YAH IS GOING TO BLESS ME WITH A LOVE THAT IS GOING TO BE SO AWESOME AND LOVING AND WONDERFUL

  • @Lafashionista862
    @Lafashionista862 Před měsícem +12

    22:00 is so real, that’s why I made my other comment. They come around knowing what they like and they try you out then make you feel bad for the way you are designed

  • @thoughtstreamconvos
    @thoughtstreamconvos Před 12 dny

    I was hollering today. The analogy of the contractor and the building materials was excellent. I am staying positive and encouraged while awaiting a truly aligned and "equally yoked" partner. Thank you Pastor Blakes for the ever right on time messages. Your wisdom is a cherished gift. ❤

  • @creseahceres
    @creseahceres Před měsícem +5

    I feel like I am being talked through by my father. Thank God for your life, Pastor. You are indeed bringing us lessons Father God specifically designed for His kingdom daughters.

  • @DollarsNCentsOnline
    @DollarsNCentsOnline Před měsícem +15

    Definitely cannot believe you are turning 60! I deeply appreciated this message today! You always bless me ❤

  • @favouronyemelukwe5007
    @favouronyemelukwe5007 Před měsícem +7

    Hey Bishop R C, your announcement and advert of Queenology 2024 is really making me feel left out 😢 I really desire and pray that I'll get to attend one of these Queenology conventions live. It'll be a dream come true for me, to say the least. I work as a missionary teacher in an international school in Rwanda and the new school session will just be resuming the same week of Queenology 2024 so I won't be able to attend. I look forward to hooking up online for the whole convention, God willing 🙌🏽

  • @evapreston924
    @evapreston924 Před měsícem +6

    Monday is my second favorite day besides Sunday because your commitment to your daughters💕 so blessed for you 💕

  • @lesliegordon1472
    @lesliegordon1472 Před měsícem +22

    Thank you for taking the time😊

  • @TheLuvlfe
    @TheLuvlfe Před měsícem +15

    See I know I’m not crazy😂 A man said to me if a man and woman is not tearing each others clothes off in relationship then it won’t work.. smh and this man is in his 50’s.. Thank you bishop for clarifying this!

    • @lala5061
      @lala5061 Před měsícem

      That's the truth cuz if everything functions...oh something gots to give...and if it's so horrible it can't..oh then that's a problem either way! That's fact that man was telling the truth sex not everything but depending on age it can be a problem! I haven't heard the message yet bout to listen now but still that's a problem attraction to your partner cones from love and respect if the relationship toxic and disrespectful the woman will have a hard time giving it to that man and a lot of women reach reach high libido when they get older now that's a problem! Im a listen to the message now 😏

    • @Lafashionista862
      @Lafashionista862 Před měsícem

      This is nothing but the truth lmfao I always said if we aren’t insanely in love with each other the shit won’t work

    • @TheLuvlfe
      @TheLuvlfe Před měsícem

      @@Lafashionista862 I understand wanting to be insanely in love... however, if sex is all you base the relationship on then it's gone to fail. You do have to get out of the bed and want to talk and be around one another. That's all I am saying. I've seen and had a relationship like that and yes the sex was fantastic!! but when it was over and we had to deal with life is wasn't so insanely in love then. I believe two people should have a strong attraction to one another... but it's must go beyond just that to live and have a meaningful life with that person.

  • @gracimiller9246
    @gracimiller9246 Před měsícem +22

    Monday nights are a blessing.🙏🏽

  • @VCurtis7
    @VCurtis7 Před měsícem +13

    This Queenology event is awesome! Preparing women! (I have a question though! Who is helping in preparing the Kings, the men for their mate, the Queens?
    We need more of the good men, Kings, to help prepare the Godly men!!!

  • @nikkiechols998
    @nikkiechols998 Před měsícem +9

    Pastor you on a roll because you were God sent your videos have really help me change my mindset totally different after a 20yr relationship and married 18yrs we were never evenly yoked I learned my lesson not trama lessons I love you and your wife bless both of y'all

  • @user-sr6sb9zg8v
    @user-sr6sb9zg8v Před měsícem +11

    Attraction, compatibility and connection

  • @Leonnjeri
    @Leonnjeri Před měsícem +3

    Aside the serious conversation...do Y'all get puzzled at how Rc blakes remains youthful....he never age's...since I started listening to him...

  • @thabangmoswetsi9757
    @thabangmoswetsi9757 Před měsícem +5

    This one hit harder than i expected, thank you Lord

  • @patricebaugh5223
    @patricebaugh5223 Před měsícem +12

    Wisdom has knocked on tonight! Not only entertaining but applying !!!

  • @haske_
    @haske_ Před 10 dny

    This SO POWERFUL Sir, may God continue to flood you with wisdom to guide us 🙏. God bless you and Lady Lisa richly.

  • @TheLewisTeam5
    @TheLewisTeam5 Před měsícem

    The Queenoly theme song is one of the MOST BEAUTIFUL I’ve ever heard. Thank you for honoring us.

  • @Resilient7973
    @Resilient7973 Před měsícem +11

    Congrats on 30yrs❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @user-ie3xu9vc5w
    @user-ie3xu9vc5w Před měsícem +7

    Connection is a choice

  • @walterineellis
    @walterineellis Před měsícem +5

    This teaching is truly a blessing to my soul. I have these standards for myself but couldn’t put it all into words. Praise God for you Bishop and Sis Lisa. Thank you for this message. God bless you for sharing.

  • @ninabutler128
    @ninabutler128 Před 17 dny

    We love you in Patterson Louisiana that's the Tri-City area and we adore your wife❤💪😇🙏

  • @SoftRain2024
    @SoftRain2024 Před měsícem +2

    RC, I will always give you a like.
    I thank God for you, what you do for me with each video is appreciated beyond what words can express. ❤️

  • @user-sr6sb9zg8v
    @user-sr6sb9zg8v Před měsícem +3

    I love you Pastor. Your teachings has groomed into a rare and quality breed of a woman.

  • @BelleMaria267
    @BelleMaria267 Před měsícem +8

    Excited for this!!! Your words are uplifting and inspiring. You help me to be a better version of myself. So thankful God lead me to you. God bless you and Lady Lisa. ❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏

  • @connieharris6570
    @connieharris6570 Před měsícem +6

    I can't wait to hear what Pastor Blake has to say

  • @NikkiG-ku4kb
    @NikkiG-ku4kb Před měsícem +2

    I like the episode first before even watching. You are giving free game, so that’s the least I can do.

  • @deborahsteele7427
    @deborahsteele7427 Před měsícem +1

    "AWESOME, INDEED!!!" ... "TRULY POWERFUL AND TRULY PROFOUND & VERY MEANINGFUL, INDEED!!!" ... "MANY CHEERFUL THANKS", PASTOR RC BLAKES, FOR THE "OUTSTANDING TEACHING JOB", THAT YOU ALWAYS DO, FOR US ALL!!!" ... "YOU'RE SUCH A GREAT DIVINE BLESSINGS, AS ALWAYS!!!!" ... BLESSINGS ALWAYS, MS. DEBORAH J. STEELE, ATLANTA, GA. - 4/29//24

  • @rachelerophillips729
    @rachelerophillips729 Před měsícem +2

    Yes pastor the principles of God will never change when it comes to marriage dating. How woman should conduct herself with a man 🙏

  • @janettemccuien4249
    @janettemccuien4249 Před měsícem +6

    Yes!!!!! The Spiritual connection is it!

  • @patricebaugh5223
    @patricebaugh5223 Před měsícem +4

    This is life changing!!!! Pastor Blakes thank you for your labor of love!!!! The truth will shole make ya free!!!

  • @kadinethompson9442
    @kadinethompson9442 Před měsícem +1

    Thank you Pastor Blakes! My next relationship shall be built on compatibility and not just physical attraction.

  • @RoyaltyJ777
    @RoyaltyJ777 Před měsícem +1

    Wisdom in the name of Jesus amen . I declare and decree at the top in the name of Jesus amen

  • @theo3s611
    @theo3s611 Před měsícem +3

    Pastor, I'm loving the ways you are challenging me to see relationships in a different way. Can you spend more time with describing kind vs. type? God bless you, sir.

  • @ChoglitParis
    @ChoglitParis Před měsícem +2

    Thank you for confirming everything I’ve been thinking. My friends think like the world. So I can’t talk this deep to them. Also the relationship I just got out of, I tried to bring up these points and it went OVER THEIR HEAD. It was a relationship based off sex!!!! Thank you Gosh for putting this on his heart to share. It was confirmation for me!!! ❤

  • @carolynclay2485
    @carolynclay2485 Před měsícem

    GOOD EVENING PASTOR BLAKES , BLESS YOU FOR THIS NEEDED TEACHING FOR US ALL ! , DO YOU REMEMBER HOW WE ALL WOULD BE ON THE SEE/ SAW YOU BOTH IN OPPOSITE ENDS HAD TO BALANCE WITH ONE ANOTHER , UNTIY , UNDERSTANDING ,AGREEMENT, COMMITMENT BUILDING ! IS POWER AND STRENGTH, YES RIGHTEOUS , COMPATIBILITY AND CONNECT , BUILDING WITH THE RIGHT MATE IS "WISE" ! BUT YOU GOTTA BE WILLING TO COMMIT WITH A MADE UP HEART AND MIND!!!

  • @Ajp8415
    @Ajp8415 Před 29 dny

    "You know you know me!" 😂 Great talk! 🔥🔥

  • @drpatriciajames8616
    @drpatriciajames8616 Před měsícem +4

    Emotional Agreement

  • @drpatriciajames8616
    @drpatriciajames8616 Před měsícem +4

    Intellectual Mirror

  • @BellaLola26
    @BellaLola26 Před měsícem +5

    Whoooooo!!! God is talking to me through you 🙏🏽

  • @kimtaylor5277
    @kimtaylor5277 Před 4 dny

    Thank you wonderful message!

  • @lanettelawrence6308
    @lanettelawrence6308 Před měsícem +7

    Beautiful and true.

  • @karrieshelton4194
    @karrieshelton4194 Před 2 dny

    Madonna sang Papa don't preach, but I say PREEEEEEEEAAAACH PAPA!!!!

  • @Twofiresand_anheir
    @Twofiresand_anheir Před 3 dny

    I love to hear you talk about Lady Blakes😂

  • @sunsetkindoflife
    @sunsetkindoflife Před měsícem

    Great read, and resonates with my current situation. Thank you, Baba 😊 💕🫶💫

  • @sherittayoung3123
    @sherittayoung3123 Před měsícem

    lol I love ur sense of humor and wise words

  • @stephaniewilliams3460
    @stephaniewilliams3460 Před měsícem

    This is sooo POWEFUL!!!

  • @nickyb8089
    @nickyb8089 Před 18 dny

    Excellent video. Well explained. Alot of it I already know but good to hear it with clarity.

  • @florencepl4343
    @florencepl4343 Před měsícem +2

    Connection is a choice... Thank you.

  • @Handmadebyadwoa
    @Handmadebyadwoa Před měsícem +2

    Not in the ice cream isles with diabetes. 🎯 😆🙏🏾 💯 PREACH!

  • @venardveillard1301
    @venardveillard1301 Před měsícem +4

    Good evening Bishop RC and family

  • @BecomingaQueen
    @BecomingaQueen Před měsícem

    So important as always 🌺🙏 thank you for your service ❤️

  • @thefoodtubeprincess
    @thefoodtubeprincess Před měsícem

    😂😂😂😂😂"you got me scratching, im itching!!" Close ya mouth😂😂😂

  • @elizabethhendally
    @elizabethhendally Před měsícem +1

    So awesome. A very needed and necessary teaching.

  • @deborahsterling1776
    @deborahsterling1776 Před měsícem +1

    When are you coming to the UK, Pastor Blakes? We'd love to welcome you here ❤

  • @SandraLevy1202
    @SandraLevy1202 Před měsícem +1

    Such wisdom!! You help make the process so accessible and grounded! Thank you Pastor

  • @deniseburg1460
    @deniseburg1460 Před měsícem +1

    I don’t just Like…I Love!
    Thank you Pastor Blakes

  • @teresabrown174
    @teresabrown174 Před měsícem

    I am mad that I missed the live! I just watched this video twice Bishop it was Amazing!! You spoke absolute truth! This whole video was a 🎤 drop moment! Thank you as always Bishop you always keep it real and honest! God bless you and Lady Lisa💙🩷🙏🏽

  • @MzzTPC
    @MzzTPC Před měsícem +1

    Pastor!! Lol Unc was definitely bothered by that statement on Desr Future Wifey! Lol I watched that and the podcast faithfully along with you - so very familar with you and Mrs Lisa. That was such a real moment! 😂😂😂 Love this platform!

  • @kesihashanta7503
    @kesihashanta7503 Před měsícem +1

    good advice especially the compatility part must help when im weaker in and i do the same as long as dont feel like im raising someones son. we should help eachother level up

  • @spyroluver0951
    @spyroluver0951 Před měsícem +3

    Pastor, a lot of men showing up unhealthy and not put together. My type is happy and energetic about life but there seems to be a massive wave in male depression and not seeing therapists to guide through tough times. They don't build a support system because they would rather game.

  • @Ny-ff5em
    @Ny-ff5em Před měsícem +2

    Make it plain paster! This was good!

  • @KP_FruitsoftheSpirit
    @KP_FruitsoftheSpirit Před měsícem +1

    Pastor, Pastor. Telling all the business.😂😂 You had that conversation with God.

  • @moniquewebb4381
    @moniquewebb4381 Před měsícem

    Thank you

  • @lydiaborntowrite4323
    @lydiaborntowrite4323 Před měsícem +2

    Much love to you Bishop and Lisa ❤

  • @patricewhitiker2646
    @patricewhitiker2646 Před měsícem

    I really have to thank him so much listening to him has definitely woke me up it was so embarrassing to believe I have been putting up with the foolishness I have put up with and he has turned my thought process around And once I stop thinking with my mindset my broken mindset things just got better with faith and prayers I made it through sending love because you have changed my life

  • @clatondramathis9962
    @clatondramathis9962 Před měsícem +3

    Good evening 🙏 So happy to catch a live of Pastor Blakes! 🙌

  • @stephaniewilliams3460
    @stephaniewilliams3460 Před měsícem

    Preach!!!!

  • @carleneadams954
    @carleneadams954 Před měsícem +3

    This is a good one. I need to rewatch it again. Blessings!

  • @346bre
    @346bre Před měsícem

    Thank you so much for your time Man of God! I’ve been reading your books and applying your wisdom to my life and let me just say , my life is changing in so many miraculous ways !!

  • @ellahoward8199
    @ellahoward8199 Před měsícem

    No Pastor Blakes did not say: "You got me scratching and itching. No! No!" I'm over here dying‼️🤣🤣🤣

  • @phenaturallytee
    @phenaturallytee Před měsícem

    This was Good 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @therealmisstreese849
    @therealmisstreese849 Před měsícem +2

    That was soul line

  • @drpatriciajames8616
    @drpatriciajames8616 Před měsícem +2

    Purpose Partner

  • @deborahlewis930
    @deborahlewis930 Před měsícem +1

    Thank God for you, Bishop. You and Lady Lisa ❤

  • @SheilaWardlaw
    @SheilaWardlaw Před měsícem +1

    Blessings to your family Peace 🕊️🎉❤

  • @free2beme375
    @free2beme375 Před měsícem

    Dad 😂 u still talking bout that podcast 😂😂. Too funny

  • @marythetaurus
    @marythetaurus Před měsícem

    I wanna go to Queenology so much, hope to see you guys soon! I confess I haven't read the book yet, thank you so much for the beautiful opportunity 😍

  • @user-pt1ld6hc1b
    @user-pt1ld6hc1b Před měsícem

    To the amazing pastor and father may the lord bless u ❤️Thank for all u do may the lord bless u and your family ❤️

  • @Medietos
    @Medietos Před měsícem

    Being someone's type does not equal being of his kind. Intellect is only attractive to the extent it is coupled with life, (self)awareness, warmth of heart, ideals and care. "You have to build to that (connection), most of you are waiting for those microwave relationships" -. Good likening!

  • @tamara-vm2mb
    @tamara-vm2mb Před měsícem +2

    I ENDORSE THIS MESSAGE 👑👑👑👑

  • @idm1738
    @idm1738 Před měsícem

    I love you and Tony Gaskins videos. Hands down best clear advice, and when put into practice consistently leads to success 🙌 👏 GOD BLESS you all greatly 🙏

  • @Simply_JustKim
    @Simply_JustKim Před měsícem +1

    Your words have blessed my life , Thank you !! 😊

  • @tammyrichmond6709
    @tammyrichmond6709 Před měsícem +1

    OMG! Pastor, You almost made me spit my coffee out. Beautiful face but don't say nothing!!!😅😅😅😅😅😅😅 that's All, she got or He Got. I love you and you need to be the first comedian Pastor. I see podcast in your future for COMEDY ❤

  • @Gillin-qt9zw
    @Gillin-qt9zw Před měsícem +3

    Hello. Interesting topic.

  • @ruthstevenson4322
    @ruthstevenson4322 Před měsícem +2

    Right Right

  • @thelmadouglas8942
    @thelmadouglas8942 Před měsícem +1

    Watching from Dillon SC ❤

  • @jennifersesley1998
    @jennifersesley1998 Před měsícem +1

    Great Message Bishop ❤

  • @spyroluver0951
    @spyroluver0951 Před měsícem +3

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  • @patricebaugh5223
    @patricebaugh5223 Před měsícem

    Wow!!!!!

  • @drpatriciajames8616
    @drpatriciajames8616 Před měsícem +2

    Compatibility