My friend removed her hijab because of THIS!
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I talked to some hijabis online and they said that they get a lot of hate for "not wearing the hijab properly" and they should "take it off". It is really creepy.
@@leenabeane I feel this so much as a non-Muslimah. My personal standard is to cover shoulders to knees without visible cleavage. This feels impossible to find in a game.
I will never understand this tbh. If someone isn't wearing it correctly, I'd gently advice them to try to wear it correctly (maybe they don't know and actually needed help or they did know but needed encouragement). But the idea of "you're doing something badly so you should do it worse" is wrong and rude on so many different levels.
What's creepy about it? You're misusing the word.
My friend is 13 and is a hijabi, our school uniform is short sleeved so she wears sleeves under it to cover her elbows but 1 day she forgot her sleeves and she got shamed i felt so bad she was so sad :(
Please help me. I really need you help. Im one of the victim. I even almost cursed Allah for this. Not only Muslim (strangers) but also my mom ha this kind of behaviour. Everyone just rude to me.
What I love the most about your channel even though I don't agree with 100% of all your beliefs ( which I think is totally cool because we are all entitled to different beliefs as humans ).. Is just how open and respectful you are to other beliefs and opinions. If only the whole world was just this way â€ïžâ€ïž What a day that would be to look forward to đ.
Much love to you âșïž
Completely agree, much love to you as well :)
But you will go to hellfire. Remember that infidels
Nice I like your thoughts on this keep going.... and it's true that everyone has his own thoughts own feelings own style own life and an own struggle and ofc we don't know about it so we should not hate or force people to do what we think is good like what everyone has a brain leave them alon people are too judging these days
Yeahkkkk
What beliefs of hers u donât agree with
@@_Nigga_. Mangekyo sharingan
this made me cry... i just recently converted to Islam and I don't wear the hijab and I feel bad for not wearing the hijab and it makes me feel disconnected from my religion....thank you for this, I needed this today
No worries at all ....learn more and more if faith is in hearts it is seen outside if not as clothes particularly then as your behavior and mannerism at first !!
NO âladiesâHIJABâ found in the Quran. -
(The word HIJAB is used in the Quran but NOT for ladies.)
Check these Ayath/verses that they say have Hijab in them. (But not found)
In Quran 33.59 -
â ⊠JILBABs over themselvesâŠâ
in Quran 24.31 -
â⊠KHIMARs over the JAYBs..â
The word is KHIMAR in the Quran.24.31
- Root Meaning of KHIMAR is just a COVERING,
it can also be a neck scarf, any scarf, dupatta, chadar, etc.
There is no head, hair, veil, niqab or any such importance in the Quran,
They have SHIFTED the IMPORTANCE away from the JAYB.
Check the transliteration
in Quran 24.31:
âyadribna biâKhumurâihinna ala juyoobâihinnaâ
[Plurals : khumur, juyoob]
// *..put-forth COVERINGs OVER THE JAYBsâŠ*//
KHIMAR = COVERING
and
To verify JAYB from the Quran
check this example in
//Quran 28.32
ââŠ. yadaka fee jaybâika âŠâ. //
â⊠put your hand in your Jayb..â
(clearly a pocket or opening in the dress)
(or) some people translate it as chest/ bosoms coz thatâs where they understand the Jayb is.
Again, please see where the importance is in the verse:
âput-forth COVERINGs over the JAYBsâ
- but the EXPLANATIONS of âSectâ /Firqa leaders promoted the concept of ladiesâHIJAB
- by adding it in books written much later after the Quran AND by adding words with brackets in translations and explanations - gradually shifting the importance of COVERING the Jayb
- giving importance away from the Jayb seems like DISTRACTION from the main EMPHASIS.
AND also - these Firqa leaders wrote the Dictionary centuries later to push their meanings
- please ask them : when and who wrote the Dictionary that they show their meanings from?
We should not accept new meanings to the words after the word is used in the Quran
- in the present era the meanings can be understood by checking the same word usage within the Quran
- see where the word is used again.
QURAN is itâs own DICTIONARY within it - (by using the important words in other verses and locking the meanings).
They should know when the same root word is used for khumr/intoxicants even then itâs used for âCOVERâ
- - any KHUMR /- intoxicant or alcohol
COVERS the ability INSIDE THE MIND - -
Please NOTE : khumr /intoxicants/ALCOHOL does NOT cover the HAIR or outer-head.
How can a religion claiming to be for the whole world - promote desert clothing for far off freezing lands?
Theyâre Spreading culture and calling it religion - They took the desert clothing that is needed in sand storms and called it religion
OTHER religious groups were ALREADY wearing it in the desert.
IF anyone wants TO FOLLOW WORDS OF ALLAH then they should verify with the Quran - coz every secondary source should match with the Quran
AND they should not add words in translations.
JILBAB:
Means any decent OUTER CLOTHING worn above the under-garments - itâs plural is JALABIB
The verse in the Quran 33.59 is about JILBAB - itâs about wearing outer clothing - where it also says that âthey can be RECOGNISED and NOT HARASSEDâ
Here the condition is to be recognised :
how will anyone RECOGNISE if you cover fully?
- So avoid tight clothing - itâs really simple as per Quran.
Wearing clothes that the security personnel and other people are scared of coz they cannot recognise the person inside - as a result you face difficulty and then that results in feeling harassed.
Check the verse Q.33.59 below and remember that some translations or interpretations have added words in brackets - so look at Arabic /or word-to-word translation to VERIFY, yes VERIFY.
â⊠alayâihinna min jalabibâihinna⊠â
(Plural-is JALABIB)
//Quran 33.59
O Prophet! Ask your wives, daughters, and believing women to draw their JILBABs over themselves .
In this way it is more likely that they will be RECOGNISED
and not be HARASSED.
And Allah is All-Forgiving, Most Merciful//
--
Notice itâs only talking about properly covering themselves - there is NO emphasis on head, hair, face covering in this verse also.
-
Some of them will not VERIFY what is in the Quran - word by word.
And you may get to see how they will jump to start calling IGNORANT and names to the person showing them the research.
Any religion that makes you feel guilty and cry for not covering your hair, is a bs religion.
You don't have to feel bad. Learn about islam and think about what you should do. And if that involves the hijab you can still take your time with it. Wear it when you are ready. If it doesn't feel right than don't wear it. No one can force you into it.â And as @@sam_mirza pointed out: it doesn't even say in the Quran that you have to wear a hijab. Just that women should cover themselves.
She's so mature and friendly at the same time! Mashallah
Please say âMa Sha Allahâ not âMashallahâ
I totally respect that and I feel like other people should respect it too, you don't have to wear hijab or niqab, like it's your choice so do what you want and what you feel is right for you... God Bless you two! â€ïžâ€ïžâ€ïž
Actually we have to wear hijab but if you don't want to we can give them advice and respect there choice
It's an obligation from Allah tho.
@@joudyzaki5038 I think she meant that people shouldn't be harassing and disrespecting other people for not wearing a hijab or niqab
@@WHATISTHISUPDATE but it is her own business, nobody else's.
@@Beccahun If Allah says you gotta do it your opinion doesn't matter.
Aww I luv how u and ur friend are still being friends even if she doesnât wear hijab and niqab
love u guysâ€ïž
Thanks, we love you too :)
@@MehdinaTV :)omg u guys r so nice
How could that even become a reason for breaking friendship lol.
Who else thought her friend was non Muslimđđđ
She didn't say that she's non Muslim or Muslim, how did u get the idea that she's non Muslim tho? Like if it's because she's not wearing a hijab, I'm Muslim and i don't wear it too.
@@yukiwishes00 I don't know why I thought thatđđ it was literally the fist thing that came into my mind, but Ik some Muslims also don't put it on, I know many. This was just a random thought
@@yukiwishes00 for real
@Islamic_Reminder itâs alright
I love this video! I am a Christian and have many friends who are leaving Christianity or at least changing some of their beliefs from my own. We have conversations like this ALL THE TIME and itâs so refreshing to see other people in other religions talking about similar things. I love it! Love your channel!! đ„°
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Please do not be brainwashed by these videos women in other muslim countries or women who have muslim families are forced to wear the hijab and revealing yourself online can get you killed by your own families, don't take my word for it do your own research.
@@neurodivergentpixi6736 wow. iâm really sorry that happened. iâm a Christian too, but they should have never treated you like thag. iâm very sorry that you had to experience that :(( we should all respect one anotherâs beliefs..
@@neurodivergentpixi6736 Iâm Christian but that person went about it a very wrong way. Especially since you arenât letting yourself or your children be âdestroyedâ and they were quite rude. We are taught (at least in my religion) to be Christlike which can mean to be kind and those types of things and they were not showing that at all.
Yay for allowing each to practice religion according to their own convictions! If I understand hijab correctly, it is not just the headscarf, but the practice of modesty in word, deed and appearance. Each individual is going to struggle differently with these aspects and therefore the covering may not be as necessary for everyone in their spiritual development.
Awwwh!watching this as a young (9) Muslim really helps me when I'm older!ty for making these vids so I can be a better muslim
Cute but be careful on the web if youâre only 9
I love this conversation. You two seem like very close friends and this seems like it might would have been an uncomfortable conversation to happen between you at the beginning. I love that you are having it!đ€đ€đ€
Exactly n the thing about Islam is that women CHOOSE to wear the hijab or not Islam doesnât force it in any way and neither should people people should respect what people want to wear and shouldnât put such ultimate pressure the people are making people move farther from god so stop giving such opinions and forcing it upon someone
OMG FINALLY SOMEONE WITH A BRAIN like bro its so true and im happy that someone finally said it stop forcing us to wear it it pushes us further rather than bringing us closer to allah the pressure is so unbearable to the point where i wanted to take my own life because of the stress and criticism
Iâm sorry you feel that way but it is true and also you should have a modest heart as well there could be people who wear hijab and act modest but their heart isnât modest/pure and even if people donât wear hijab thereâs so many ppls hearts that are modest so people need to understand, also if you want to talk we are always here for u!
Islam does not force hijab, it's more about if you will obey Allah SWT or not. Even though women are not forced to, its still way better to obey Allah SWT and put on the hijab because he is the creator and he knows what's best for the creation.
If she ever decides to wear the niqab again, please ask for permission to blur her face rather than take the video down. This is quality content!
Yeah
I thank you for teaching me about Islam and clearing up a lot of misconceptions that I hear everywhere. Iâm an agnostic, but I attend an Evangelical Christian church, and I thank you for teaching me and educating people, and encouraging religious tolerance for everyoneđ
Well wishes for you and your familyâš
Omg a fellow agnostic :D
I appreciate so much for being open to learning about our religion but keep in mind donât believe everything people say online about Muslims, some of the things they say are true or missing a few factorsâŠthis women sometimes doesnât always provide accurate infoâŠ.if you seriously want to learn about islam you should get in touch with someone whoâs certified
if you're agnostic and attending church you should balance it out by attending the church of the flying spaghetti monster as well
Excuse me.. Islam is a religion of love and tolerance and forgiveness. But the way you are talking about removing hijab and making it smooth and easy makes it look like it's right.. which is not.
You have the right to think the way you want .. but when it comes to religion it's better if people stop sharing opinions as if they're discussing a football game. There are sheikhs and scholars who can discuss this according to strong background and studying our religion so they can tell the world the right thing to do in the proper way.
Stay strong women, just that some are nosy and kind of annoying when advising. Always don't take it personal and shrug it off. Always take what everybody say as a chance to upgrade ourselves, but have your limits and still broaden your mind. Stand strong with your faith. Remember an obligation is an obligation. Dress to please Allah not to please humans.
And for those who sees sisters in Islam who may not wear properly, don't jump straight to conclusions and make bad comments. Slow talk, guide them and don't pour all of those cons at once of not wearing properly.
And this applies to not just women with hijabs, but to others in Islam too.
the hijab is mandatory, read quran 24:31 and and 33:59. not wearing the hijab is a sin.
You want to know what else is a sin
Lying
ÙŰȘŰčۧÙÙÙۧ ŰčÙÙ Ű§Ùۚ۱ ÙۧÙŰȘÙÙÙ ÙÙۧ ŰȘŰčۧÙÙÙۧ ŰčÙÙ Ű§ÙŰ„Ű«Ù ÙۧÙŰčŰŻÙۧÙ
Rly, there is no time when ur âreadyâ to wear the hijab, I just randomly one day decided to put the hijab on, and I wasnât at all ready, and at times I rly struggled but, I forced my self (not actually forced) myself to wear it, and reminded my self who I was wearing it for. Alhamdulillah, I got through it, and Iâm a full time hijab I, though at times I still do struggle, but thatâs natural
Same but one day I decided to take it off since if I keep it on for longer, I will start to hate the hijab ( I don't hate it but I am forced to wear it tho and I am still not ready) and when I took it off, I felt like me again. I'm still a Muslim and I only wear long sleeves and pants (never a t-shirt or shorts). But yeah I do want to wear it but when I'm older and finally ready. But congratulations to you by the way. May Allah (SWT) bless us allđđ€Č
I was like you and now alhamdulillah indont have anymore struggle with it :)
And i think thats the way we must go becouse sheytan is very much wispering and give you bad feelings you cant wait until you are ready. -we heard it and we obey. Its not choice to disobey maybe everbody falls in sins thats normal but you must go on and fight your nafs
@@yearwoodfaith14 I went to middle school with a girl who did what you do
@@unbekannteRose thank go I found someone with a functioning brain he in tge comment section you will see people say that allah told to wear but it's your choice wear it when you feel like but when I said allah never promised tommorow and adviced it they are like don't force or shame us
be careful islam is not only about intentions. intentions will not get you to jennah. may Allah help whoever finds it difficult to wear the scarf, it is not always easy, but when we learn our religion everything becomes easier. also lots and lots of du3as
I really don't know why some people thinks that wearing hijab is a burden.....lol Punjabi men wear pagg... simply muslim women wear hijab...it's our Islamic culture...and I'm muslim too but noone is forcing me to wear hijab...it's my choice if I want I can wear thts simple....so people should think positive about Muslim religion....
As I was watching this I thought about my own religious garment. (I am a Latter-Day Saint Christian "mormon"). I was endowed 2 years meaning I wear garments under my clothes that have spiritual meaning and modesty aspects. If you don't connect with the meanings behind the garment you wear in any religion you are missing something spiritual to your beliefs. I still have struggles with my garment personal especially with how much I love fashion. But I found if you sit with God and set terms of understanding of when you are going to show your faith through your garment, hajabi,or whatever, that can be more powerful and beneficial to your spirituality then just wearing it because it traditional or you feel you have to do family pressure.
Well said. I come from an LDS Mormon family too! (I was baptized but donât practice, though I am a Christian)
But I absolutely respect my familyâs and any Mormon friendâs decision to wear the garments. My non-Mormon friends would tease me in good fun asking if they were âmagic underwearâ lol. In a way, I suppose! A covenant with God is quite magical.
Anyway cheers from one Mormon to another đ My family actually just buried our Matriarch today, my grandma. So it was touching to see a comment from another Mormon.
Yeah pleaes don't consider yourself a Christian at all you're not
I am Muslim too and I don't wear hijab but I do all things that are in islam
Same
I respect your opinion but covering yourself is also a command of Allah (s.w.t) .
I am muslim I don't pray but I Do all other things lol
â@@rakibulhasan-po2fw notpraying is the only thing allah wont forgive... đą
@@notactive0000 shirk is the only thing allah won't forgive and I was joking
may Allah guide her back to wearing it Ameen
You're so mature and non judgemental
My college has a hijab day ran by some of the muslim students and they teach us about the history of it and they help you try a hijab on (if you want to), I wear one every time itâs hijab day. When I wear it I almost feel a sense of empowerment. Iâm not a muslim Iâm Greek Orthodox but we have similar yet different values. We all believe in the same God so we shouldnât discriminate people just because of their religion or what they wear! God bless you and your family! âșïžđ€
Iâm Greek Orthodox too. Itâs not common, but sometimes I see women covering their hair at church
@@SG31792there are some ladies at my church that cover their heads
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Wonder if y'all can have a non-hijab day, where long-time hijabis try spending the day without their hijabs
Hijab is part of my faith but it is not a total part of my faith. To me being committed towards Allah and doing good deeds and having a good behaviour is important. I respect you a lot because you respect other people beliefs as well. I think we should try to build up a society where there is no shame for either wearing hijab or not wearing it
U r amazing mubina i learned many things from u
i need someone to talk to....
i've been forced to wear my hijab for 5 years now since i was 12 and im honestly crying i dont want to take it off as an adult i want to take it off when im young like now so i can experience what its like being without a hijab and comfortable, i told my mom i wanted to take it off every year she always said no and that if i did i should leave the house and NEVER speak to her again when i was 14 i hated islam ngl i even tried taking my own life because of the pressure because mom says if i take it off and something happens to me its my own fault and i just hated islam to the point where i stopped praying and started going down a bad path (i dont mean drugs lol i mean hating islam and cussing muslims etc etc) but then i had to pull myself back together now that im gonna turn 17 soon im telling my mom again this time im not asking im telling her that i will take it off wether she likes it or not and that she can threaten me however she wants (she said she will shave our head if we dont wear it) its all because of men because men will come after u and if something happens then its OUR fault like wth????? im a hijabi that doesnt pray doesnt have connections with allah and used to hate islam is this the right path u want me to cross just because men cant control themselves? like if i took the hijab off i swear i will learn more about islam and even start praying like i used to the only excuse mom is using about hijab is "men" "men" "men"
@@rakibulhasan-po2fw I mean if your dad or husband tells you to wear it you have to tho
I think u lost it
Sis, PRAY EVEN IF YOU'RE NOT COMING TO TERMS WITH IT. KEEP PRAYING. Prayer saves you from evil and immorality. Start praying and one day you'll love to pray and find doing other acts of ibaadah like hijab easy too. In shaa AllÄh! â€ïž
salam sister, unfortunately your parents did not bring the hijab upon you in a sincere manner, rather they used force/shame/guilt.. this is not right, we can both agree to this
however, the internal battle you are having with wanting to take it off is to only show disobedience to your parents who coerced you against your own will instead of teaching you the principles for hijab.. I would instead advise you to learn the actual reason for hijab from the Quran and Sunnah, seek knowledge about the hijab rather than see it as something your parents forced onto you - they may have good intentions for you but not the best manner in expressing it, Allahu aalam
now as your brother, I want you to understand that living in the West, hijab will keep you safe from men with ill intentions.. the more you reveal, the more they want you for their desires - the less you reveal, the more they will respect you.. it's just a cause for fitna which could lead to haraam - if you continue having an ill attitude towards your parents, you invite the possibility of having ill attitudes to your deen and then it turns into the danger of losing your taqwa of Allah.. may Allah make it easy for you
@@rakibulhasan-po2fw Allah did not say any were in the Quran to wear the hijab. The hijab is not even mentioned in the Quran
When life gives you lemons call them yellow oranges and sell them for more than prize
could y explain? sorry english not my first language
@@user-oq1nt4li3r what language do you speak then?
@@user-oq1nt4li3r There has been a jock like life gives you lemons make lemonade like it means if life gives you family's and frined be happy that is kinda what that is trying to say but i made it in to a jock I know 15 more languages tell me what ur language is so i can tell you there.
@@HardDar8 I speak Dutch and Turkish
@@user-oq1nt4li3r Hayat size limon verir gibi bir Ćaka oldu limonata yapmak anlamına gelir hayat size ailenizin ve frined verirse mutlu olun bu söylemeye çalıĆtıÄı bir tĂŒr Ćey ama ben bir jock :)
Share love and respect and help one another always, this is what mehdinatv representsss
Our culture needs more examples of people like this. We've lost the ability to have polite, meaningful, respectful conversations with one another over things we disagree about. As a Christian from the USA, thank you lovely ladies for being such a beautiful example of caring, loving friendship
Her body, her choice. End of â€
EDIT: nvm, she doesn't own her body
yea but that liberal bull crap doesnt work in islam. Islam has obligations and rules.
As muslims we believe Allah's body, her choice
as we don't own our body
@@haleemahkhan61 but Allah gave you freedom
@@DD-dt1fm and gave you rules so you can atain his paradise
Your friend is gorgeous!
I completely respect to your opinion.
Other people always do list of your mistakes and will whisper you. Don't listen to them, you have your choice and Allah knows how much you have suffered .âșïž
Don't do for the people , do it for Allah. because he always love you â€ïžâ€ïž
That girl in hoodie is pretty
I actually never knew this one awesome friend of yours is Muslim (no hate) I thought she was Christan đđđđđ
Me too
No hate I thought she was Christian.
Love this youtube-channel so much!
May Allah bless it & all of its content
Subhanallah May Allah swt guide all of us ameenâșïž
We should encourage sisters to wear hijab it important because Allah swt told us to wear it even we donât want to wear it we should wear it as we take the Shahadah it means we obey and submit to Allah swt not our desire đ
The color combo of your hijab niqab and Abaya is soo beautiful
I love her PlayStation hoodie
I love this vid, very open minded and respectful to both hijabis and non-hijabisđ
Some people are being told wear the hijab when they're not ready. Remember that you're wearing the Hijab for Allah Not for someone! :)
unfortunately thats not the case for half of the women half of us are forced to wear it
@@Nova-club do you wear hijab and in what country?
@@Nova-club girl wear it by their choice.
And ur not hijabi i think.
@@minigone8099 WHY DO U KEEP ASSUMING OMFGđđđđđđđ«đ«đ«
And I'm over here already happy when I've convinced myself not to wear a miniskirt on some days. It's insanely hard for me to dress islamic even though part of me desperately wants to.
May Allah protect you âŁïž
Take it at your own time, when you feel ready itâs your choice, I havenât wore a hijab yet too, and Iâm not sure if I will soon
Same Iâm not wearing one yet, but I know that there is a time for everything but right now iâm just not ready for it yet. My family doesnât force me luckily. But Inshallah it will happen one day!
Best of luck, remember you are doing it for God
No shaming but miniskirts arenât that cute (my opinion) I think long dresses are princess-like. You can always put leggings or jeans under a short skirt if you wanna.
I thought this was really sweet. Mubina seems like a really supportive friend; she offers advice but untimately seems to support her friends fight to choose.
Idk why your videos in my feed but everytime I find it hilarious. LMAO
Your friend looks very pretty and intelligent too đ
Humans, we all derive from a Sinful creation Adam as ( peace may be upon Him ) so we are not angels or perfect and we always judge others by jealousy . Whoever says â take it off because you arenât wearing it properly â is just jealous!!! Instead of helping out they go straight to criticism .
she is so pretty- mashaAllahhhhhhhhhh AHHHHH MASHAALLAH SO PRETTY FRâ€â€â€â€
I honestly just want to know more about your guys friendship, You seem so close!
I know a young lady who recently took hers off, and I'm still trying to figure out why, and no, I haven't asked because i don't want to stir anything up
I donât think anyone should be forced to do thingsâ€
I highly respect that you have this belief of, it's an obligation to me but I can't force anyone to do the same. To do so would be wrong! And that what you do or don't do is between you and your higher power, not between you and other people. Being forced to do something or believe something leads to lying, both to yourself and others and that's where shame comes from. If someone is told often enough that what they're doing or who they are is wrong, they'll start to believe it. I really respect that the personal journey is so highly honored in Islam.
thank u for understanding we need more people like u in the muslim community
I appreciate that you do not pressure other Muslims and welcome different perspectives. Not trying to westernize our faith but I see that so many videos regarding the Muslim faith is so black and white.
I am a Muslim and though I do not wear hijab at the moment I still have everything covered and do not wear tight clothing. Also, I practice my faith accordingly. You have the hijabi police who wear the hijab but will be out at a club, swearing, in impermissible relationships and committing all types of fitnah. While it may seem like I am judging my point in stating this is to point out the flagrant hypocrisy and perhaps some of the people of the latter statement are doing it for show.
Itâs frustrating because I was a Muslim since I was a kid and would hear if you donât do this to the t then you are going to hell, no if, and or buts. I live my faith and I am HONORED to have been chosen but there are many who are also Muslims trying and taking it day by day with genuine efforts but hear messages that disregard such efforts. It needs to stop.
No body is supposed to be pressured that's couture not Islam and it's forbidden in islam
@@Jinmao15 fr
@@Jinmao15 My statement was not to justify âcouture â or westernization of Islam. I invite you to re-read my entire statement and rethink your perspective, thank you.
No one is forced to wear hijab but the Quraan says muslims must cover their satr....it is not a choice if you are a muslim but a must....the point is to cover a women's beauty and symbolise modesty....and giving a fellow muslim sister good advice fro m the Quraan wich is Allah's word is not judging the person but reminding your muslim sister
but- im sorry but i dont get what was her reason for removing it can someone explain
Itâs because she felt she wasnât doing it for the right reasons.
She didnât feel ready like she didnât do it for the right reasons we donât know what reason she chose to wear it but it wasnât right and she is trying to find the purpose to wear it if she decides to
May Allah guide these two women. There is no freedom in disobedience in Islam. Liberal Muslims it's time to become traditional Muslims.
Yeah ,they're normalising haram with the excuse of " I'm still on my hijab journey đ€Ą"
Awesome. I am not Muslim but I veil my head and face more often than I cover my body. It is highly judged sometimes and people accuse me of not actually being religious. But for me it's about defining my very own path of closeness to God that specifically avoids paths commonly followed.
salam aleykum, why are the common paths bad? our Creator sent us prophets to know what to do best we should listen to them, you should culture yourself about islam maybe our Creator will open your heart to the best religion, we pray 5 times a day to Allah, our Lord, and you should read the qur'an
surah al ikhlass
ayat al kursi
may Allah guide you to the way of the pious people
@@Thefrawd my sibling, they are not bad! Similarly, why is it seen as bad to follow an uncommon path, or as an insult to the common path? Not being rude, I hope you see my point though. I travel the path less traveled not because the path mainly traveled is bad, but because it's less traveled, and for the beauty I find in choosing it for that reason alone... And because others rarely stand up for it, pretty soon it would go undiscovered, and is the path less traveled not what makes the path more traveled exactly what it is? Vital contrast should never go extinct :) Plus it is very quiet here, I get to hear God more often than I used to :) I hope to pray many times a day and will look to your advice, thank you.
@@anonymixx8106 i mean, you should get on the path that your Creator already made for you. we should not do what we think is good based only on our limited perception and conception of that limited perception.
@@Thefrawd all paths that exist are paths made by creator đ are you not also saying a particular path is best based on your perception? Here you are arguing with me about what is and isn't sacred, while we could be loving each other. That is why I follow the path I do â€ïžâđ„
@@anonymixx8106 i dont love women. i respect you though! but the only true path is islam, submission to The Creator, and to perfect that submission, we need to read the revelation and listen to the teachings of the prophet that Allah sent us. simple as that
Nobody should be forced to wear anything they don't want too. I saw a very interesting video on this. And there are a lot of opinions. One woman who wore the face veil and hijab said she had a friend who didn't wear it was a better Muslim then she was. Did all her prayers and went to the mosque faithfully. But the girl who was a face veil didn't go as often or prayer as often. Also.didnt go to Mecca ever
May ALLAH ï·» guide her
Truth of the matter is that being a muslim entails surrendering your will to the Creator and doing as He commands. The choice being made by humans is either obeying Him or disobeying Him. When we choose to obey Him and struggle with it, that's called jihad and we get rewarded for it. When we choose to disobey Him, we need to understand that there will be consequences to our decision. We may live long enough to sincerely repent and do as He orders and be forgiven, and we may not and it would be too late. We are given all the guidance that we need to stay on the straight path, like remembrance of Allah, five prayers a day at least, surrounding ourselves with pious people, staying away from bad influence etc..We will fall short at times but need to get up quick and realize this is all a test and very temporary. We will stand alone on the Day of Judgement and literally NO ONE will intervene but our beloved prophet and our deeds. So let's be smarter and realize that blaming our shortcomings on others and what they said is actually pointless. May Allah guide us, may He protect us from Satan and from our desires, may He make it easier for us to recognize His worthiness of complete submission, may He keep us focused on the ultimate goal, and may He make us a light to othersđ€Č May Allah bless you allđ€Č Let's push each other to doing better with wisdom and good speech, and let's pray for others when we see them being misguidedâ€
They're just trying to say that if you do it because you are forced, then you may as well not do it. Allah SWT wants us to worship him, but out of love for God, not because someone forced him. They're just saying that you shouldn't do it because someone else told you too, you should do it when you're ready. By "being ready," they mean to understand the meaning of it and choose to do it. While many Muslim brothers and sisters try to give advice, they often do it in a way that actually makes the person want to do it less and do it but have no connection to what they're doing or the meaning behind it.
This needs to be in the top comments for sure! This is what every Muslim must read and understand.
MashaAllah.
@@NerdyMystic09 We need to be honest with ourselves though. "Being ready" is very vague. People can reach old age and still don't wear the hijab for example. Does that mean they still aren't ready? It simply means either they are ignorant that it is an obligation or that they know and choose to disobey Allah It really is that simple. When we say we are not ready, we are actually sinning. Allah will judge actions. Yes the intention is important but giving excuses truthfully won't get us anywhere. We all sin differently. But we need to recognize that our sins will have a cost to pay if we do not repent and fix our ways. We need to realize that death doesn't wait till we are ready. Allah knows that this life is tough. He designed it this way as a test for us. We will be doing things sometimes that He commanded for His sake and not cause we enjoy doing them. I agree that being forced by a family member to do an obligation is wrong and the intention will not be sincere. But I was talking about the "not ready" part. It's merely shaytan's way of comforting/convincing us into postponing our duties. May Allah not send death upon us until He is pleased with us. Let's pray for each other đ€Č
@@NerdyMystic09 Sorry I went on a tangent with my previous reply. Yes you are absolutely right in all that you said. But the problem is with the usage of the words "being ready" I suppose. Either way, May Allah bless you and us all and guide usđ€Č We are living in an era of unprecedented distractions. May Allah protect us and keep us focusedđ€Č
Yea actually my Dad said to my sister âWhen your ready wear a Hijab when your ready!!!â When my sister was about 11-12 yrs old she started wearing Hijabs!!! My sister got Bullyed at her school for some reason and then a 2 years later my sister and her Ex-Bully became Friends to Best Friends!!! My sister have once went to her house! I think they had sleepovers!!!!!!!!!!!
Some people forced to put it on are in dangerous situations so saying âdonât listen to peopleâ is probably not the best advice in that case. How about get out of that situation asap????
Exactly. Either way there should be no force. You chose if you do it and to what extend.
A personal choice between her and her faith glad people are excepting
Lovely relationship you two have
Do not listen to what people has to say just to what you know is right and let Allah swt judge you
Allah said in the quaran to wear hijab
Iâm not muslim but i desperately want to wear a hijab and niqab (sorry if i spelled it wrong) because i love the idea of modesty. I try to cover all my skin although my clothes hug my waist i try to be modest but my family wont let me and wouldnt dream of buying me one so im stuck right now, but i really am looking forward to next year when i can buy and wear what i want because ill be an adult :)
May Allah forgive us
Ameen.
Her body her choice. And not only her!
Respecting her decision you go gurll do whatever feels right to u cover up if u want don't if u don't feel like it
And the ladies In Iran get thrown in jail ..
So when you genuinely ask a muslim woman if she was forced to wear the hijab you are labeled a racist. If you ask them if they were forced to take it off the question becomes valdid though... make it make sense!!!!!
such a mature conversation đ đ
I really like hijabs and Iâve always wanted to wear one but I always feel like Iâm gonna disrespect the culture because not only am I atheist but Iâm also bi and I donât really know much on the religion because I canât really learn about it because of the stigma my family puts around religions
Same girl i feel I would disrespect my culture( Hindu) and their culture too but then burqa is the best when you want to cover yourself from creeps
I respect this decision!! :D
wtf u mean by its obligation if u dont wear hijab are not closer to allah
bro thats maniplating whatever u name it
It's soo hard for me coz it's my husband the one saying those comments. That I'm not doing it right I feel so weak right now. I feel like it would be easier 4 me not to wear it.
It's an obligation .
I joined an islamic school when i was in 5th grader i was forced to wear hijab at school that thing was so wrong i know right i was starting learning about islam that time my source of islamic information was from that school so there was a teacher like inspector something like that was so abusive about what i am wearing. At that time i started wearing hijab yeah i loved it after and started to keep it on outside school Alhamudlilah i didn't hate islam as a kid or took off my hijab because of her judgment and I started learning islam because islam is so much different from some people who practise it . Islam is so beautiful and away of harshness and roughness. Islam says advise people with good and kindness . And still the hijab is so important in islam it's not an easy thing we can ignore because its an order from Allah â€ïž may Allah bless you
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I'm curious, I heard that the coverings are not in the Koran? There's a lot of confusion by non Muslims about the coverings, how do you see it?
Is it written in the Qu'ran but to understand the verses we have to look at the Hadiths too because there it explained how did the female companions react when they heard the verses for the fist time
The commandment is there in the Quran. The details are there in the Sunnah
It is written in the Quran. Surah AL Ahzab Ayat 59 (Chapter no. 33 verse no. 59)
I have seen a lot of people who knows that there's nothing written about coverings in the Quran. Even a lot of Muslims are confused. Happy to clear your confusion đ
Hijab is not mentioned in the Quran
@@siofra3819 lies
I am a muslim and hiqabs are spiecial to wear in madrasah because we can read Quran pray and learn lots of things but idk why she took it out itâs better to keep it onđđđđđđđ
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I 100% do NOT agree with this. Yes, nobody should be "forced" to wear it but gentle advice is much needed and it is an obligation in Islam to encourage what is right and deny what is wrong (thus, you should be gently advising your friend to wear the hijab rather than just accepting her taking it off). Also, we wear the hijab because it is a command from Allah so we follow it even if we don't "feel ready", we wear the hijab and try our best to keep up and have better intentions wearing it. We don't "take it off" and "wait" because honestly speaking, what are we waiting for? Waiting to die while we are sinning? We could die tomorrow or even today, we could literally go to sleep tonight and never wake up again so "waiting" is never the right option. We should try our very best in the moment and repent every single day. Following this broken logic, one could say "I can't focus and be pious in prayer so I'll stop praying until I feel closer to Allah and pious enough to focus in prayer" but how would one get closer to Allah if they don't pray? If they don't follow his commands? How would one become more pious in prayer if they stop praying altogether? Wouldn't it make more sense if they choose to pray more and make duaa for Allah to help them be more pious? Wouldn't praying more help them be closer to Allah?. Prayer is a more extreme example but prayer and hijab are both commands of Allah. Whenever you feel weak in your faith or feel like obligations are heavy on your heart, do more not less, recite and listen to Qur'an as often as you possibly can, it is indeed a cure for the hearts. Remember that it is the shaitaan constantly trying to make you disobey Allah. The more you worship, the less he will be able to sway your heart but the the more you listen to his temptations without repenting, the further you'll be from Allah and your heart will harden.. you'll gradually stop feeling guilty whenever you sin and you wouldn't enjoy prayers or worship anymore... May Allah protect us and guide us to right path. More importantly, if you do sin and make istghfaar and repent but then you sin again, repent again and you keep sinning do NOT ever think "oh I keep sinning and I can't repent once and for all, what's the point will Allah even forgive me?" That is also the shaitaan trying to make you give up. ALWAYS repent and and make istghfaar no matter how much you sin, try to stop no matter how difficult and make duaa for allah to help you stop, be patient and eventually, he will help you stop, he is indeed the most forgiving, the most merciful.
jajakillahu khairan sister for sharing these fair words. Most people don't want to accept this truth.
JazakAllah..... Absolutely right.
@@fatehakhanpapri6113 jazzana wa iyakum, it really saddens me to see plenty of people say it's a choice when it's really not.. ofc we can "choose" but that's choosing to sin... as Muslims, we must belive that a command of Allah is absolute and not a matter of choice and we must not consider things that are haram to be an option in the first place. That is how we must raise our children without saying things like "I won't force my daughter to wear the hijab" or "It should be something she chooses from her heart whenever she feels ready". No truly loving parent would say that, that is literally encouraging your child to sin... One must encourage their child to obey Allah and do what they must regardless of how young they may be and they must be raised to know from their heart and mind to do that even if their parents aren't around, they must be able to make their own judgment and that would only happen if they were taught what they need to know from a young age so they wouldn't be easily swayed by their surroundings and misguided in these difficult times. May allah protect us and guide us all to the right path
@@MohammadMustafaR jazzana allah wa iyakum khairan. I belive you should say jazzak Allah khairan without shortening it because "jazzak" alone means gave you which can be used for good or bad while khair means good so it's best to say it whole and llah knows best.
Hey! So I have a question for you, I case you make a video with a woman who isnt wear niqab or hijab, like this one for example, but later she starts covering, will you have to delete the videos?
She could just simply blur her face ig?
*I'm a kid* my mom says the hijab is just a way of being modest and is optional. But she says the niqab doesn't do anything and doesn't make a difference.
Hijab is compulsory and niqab is optional ask scholar they know better than any average muslim
I love hijab and (pada |cover) i'm 13 years old
But as a sister of Islam, you cannot aid a sister in something that you are of the conviction to be haram.
So if you take the ruling that niqab is fardh, you will take the sin for posting sisters without niqab.
And you will also get the sin of posting sisters who don't wear hijab.
I don't know how hard this has to be, but it's sisters like this that make reverts' lives harder.
This video should be removed. If she wants to post herself withour hijab then that's upon her. But you shouldn't facilitate in sin...
And this has nothing to do with fiqh.
-Revert studying to become a sheikha bi'Ithnillah.
Can anyone tell me where in the Qur'an and Hadith this extreme covering is mentioned?
Obviously clothes are there to cover ourselves our nakedness but to this extent! And the reason most give is that men can't control themselves!
Are we sexual objects? Like even watching our eyes if we wear niqab they'll get attracted even if they want to! Then we should cover our eyes too?
Right?
The dresscode as far as I learned is mention in surah noor and surah ahzab
If talking about surah ahzab
(May Allah forgive me if I say anything wrong)
Men and women both were being harrased at that time
And Allah revealed a verse about the punishment and in the next verse he mentioned for all believing women to cover themselves with a cloak so that they can be recognised (as the women of higher status at that time used to cover up and of lower status and slaves don't and slaves are most likely to get harrased and if they will cover up like women of higher status they will be recognised as of higher status women and won't be harrased ...and it's mentioned.
Now talkin'about the verses in surah noor
Both men and women are told to lower their gaze
This doesn't mean to don't look else it has been mentioned!
Next for both is to guard their private parts ! Nothing to elaborate.
Next for women to draw their khimar over their bosoms.
There's the commandment is to draw it over bosoms.
Don't mix and add words of your own to it.
Next it's not to display their beauty
And there's a difference between revealing and displaying
As in displaying the intentions come in between
And in the verse about the relatives with whom they can display
At close to end there are mentioned men who are lacking sexual desires and children you don't know about sexual aspects of women,it means that the word beauty means the sexual beauty of a women ? Doesn't it?
As it has to be covered!
And if you talk about we can display it in front of relatives
It sounds like a taboo but at that time of pre Islamic arabia,as far as I researched women were topless and even if they wear one they have a wide opening in front and I think that's a normal thing at that time.
Now my questions are where it has been mentioned that you have to cover your head and face?
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Sahih International
Tell the believing men to reduce [some] of their vision and guard their private parts. That is purer for them. Indeed, Allah is Acquainted with what they do.
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Sahih International
And tell the believing women to reduce [some] of their vision and guard their private parts and not expose their adornment except that which [necessarily] appears thereof and to wrap [a portion of] their headcovers over their chests and not expose their adornment except to their husbands, their fathers, their husbands' fathers, their sons, their husbands' sons, their brothers, their brothers' sons, their sisters' sons, their women, that which their right hands possess, or those male attendants having no physical desire, or children who are not yet aware of the private aspects of women. And let them not stamp their feet to make known what they conceal of their adornment. And turn to Allah in repentance, all of you, O believers, that you might succeed.
I thought it would be better if we give tge verse and ask scholars quaran is for eternal
It's in surah ahzaab
It is mentioned in the quran. Some parts might not sound clear and you can ask scholars about those since scholars have read the Quran and studied the reasons and extra information about islam
@@rakibulhasan-po2fw So the main thing was to cover privates and bosom, nothing about face. Even for the head, the text doesn't direct to cover it. Just that women at the time did it anyway, so they're asked to use that cloth to put over the bosom, like for convenience.
Definitely nothing like what Mubina's doing.
Is it okay for us to ask for one of her pictures with hijab and niqab?
No you can'tđđ
Chill she was just asking politely you don't have to be so rude
@@nazieahabib1254 ohh got it...can i know why Is it? I'm asking because I don't know
@@Elena-xq5pv Iâm Muslim and Iâll answer your question,no you cantđ
Iâm sorry about the behaviour shown by others đ€
Every step you take towards an obligatory act is a step closer to Allaah. No need to tell you about the opposite
And you can get even closer by doing anything else in addition which is pleasing to Allaah besides the obligatory ones like nafil prayer and sticking to sunnah.
And remember that nothing is more beloved to Allaah than the obligatory acts. Had those not be the most beloved to Him he would probably not make it obligatory.
Unlike obligatory acts, we will not be punished for leaving out additional good deeds.
Even when you are forced to wear hijaab, you still benefits somethin out of it which is the curse of the angels from the moment you go out of your house till you return back inside.
And I believe those who cover willingly to please Allaah are those with certain degree of taqwa.
I don't mean that we should force people coz Allaah gave us free will. We can only teach them and upto them to follow. They will be accountable for their actions not us.
I simply wanted to point out that even when they were forced they still benefited somethin out of it.
She's asking the real questions..
Why would you judge her??
i feel sorry
I am a Christian but I do not hate you like lots of people do
Is your friend Mauritian? Cause there is the Mauritian flag on her hoodie?
I was searching for that one comment!
I really respect your opinion but i want clear that hijab is not a choice ,it is an obligation.....ya she had her reasons for not wearing hijab but it is compulsory for a women to wear hijab...indeed we can't force someone to wear it but we can teach our kids from their childhood how important it is....moreover Indian government used the same sentence (hijab is choice) to justify their ban on hijab in colleges and schools .Thousands of girls can't wear hijab just because some people normalised that hijab is choice and is not a compulsory practice...
Totally agree. I didn't wear hijab all my life and started it last year but never thought it was a choice not to wear hijab I always knew it's the right thing to do. Don't know why I didn't start earlier. It shouldn't be normalized.
The advice at the end of your video is not right because we already know that wearing hijab is obligatory. It's mentioned in Quran and we don't have to feel when ready to put it in. It's by reaching puberty then it's obligatory.
That's the Mauritian flag on her jacket
And what is the reason she did remove it?