[Eng] ep.7| Comparing what I have with what others have, do I need all this stuff? 갖고 싶은 것들..그리고 .

This is another diary entry-what I am thinking about nowadays. Thank you for watching my video. Have a great day. Sending love!
영상 봐주셔서 감사합니다. 좋은 하루 보내세요 🤍
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[@victorooroo]

I want to buy things to feel beautiful or cool, but many times it's because i really want other people to think i'm cool or beautiful. I always struggle with these feelings!

[@_this_is__hazel]

Thank you for your honest comments! I believe that understanding yourself is also a process, and its a big start cuz it means you are already cool and beautiful just as you are!

[@danielpearson9344]

New video 🎉

[@_this_is__hazel]

New video🫡🫡 thanks for the lovely comments!

[@franklinrussel]

Your bangs look great!!! 😊 I've also been cutting my hair for about a year now.
How do I decide what to buy?
Hmm... I think when it comes to things like clothes, it can be a tough balance. I'm always asking myself if I really need more. Buying something that's quick and easy seems like an escape or procrastination from working hard to improve and grow.
It's like playing a sport and having the best equipment. Just because you have the best and expensive things doesn't mean your skills are also the best. If you want to improve and grow, that comes from hours of practice which goes beyond the appearance.
Yes! I delete and reinstall Instagram too 😂 I think it's just a reflection of how we're feeling about comparing ourselves to others. Being on social media makes me feel like I need to be on it to stay "connected", but recently I've felt like I just want to run away from it.
If we could ask our childhood selves what they think of us now, what do you think they would say?
Sorry for writing such a long comment, I definitely related to everything that you said 😅

[@danielpearson9344]

Good comments

[@_this_is__hazel]

Hi, my friend from Vancouver! Your comment is lovely. It's great that you take the time to reflect and understand yourself before making a purchase decision.
I agree with you - what's best for me, I should know best.
That's an interesting question, I like it! Mine would say 'You should enjoy your adulthood more than that,' haha..

[@_this_is__hazel]

@@danielpearson9344 I agree ☺

[@franklinrussel]

@@danielpearson9344 Thanks! 😊

[@franklinrussel]

@_this_is__hazel It's easy to comment when you share your reflections! They're very thoughtful.
I've heard people talking about using money for experiences over things and it sounds like a nice way to think about how we spend.
I think mine would say the same too haha! Do you think that you've changed a lot from your childhood?

[@becuzimbo]

요즘 내가 느끼고있는 감정들과 비슷해서 놀랬어. 언니는 다른사람들에게 없는 반짝임을 갖고있으니 제일 빛나보이는거같아
앞머리 너무 예쁘다 ☺️ your bangs look good on you

[@_this_is__hazel]

반짝임이라고 표현해주니 마음이 통통해지는 기분이야,,❣늘 보고싶어. Thanks sending love

[@weitengmusic]

Don't blame yourself for "comparing" yourself to others. Truth be told, it happens with us, even on a subconscious level. Treat it as feelings of comparison just comes naturally, so it's not your fault. Keep in mind that other people have a different background than us, be it family or they way they grew up. They might not even have something that you have!
By the way.... You looked very alike the Singaporean CZcamsr Annette Lee LOL 😂 you should check her out or maybe it's just me

[@_this_is__hazel]

Glad to see you commenting again! Thank you for your kind words.
Yes, you are right. understand myself within the context of my own background and at my own pace. It's important to appreciate what I have, just as you mentioned!
I just watched her video, and I can see why you think we look alike. I'm actually curious about her thoughts on it too, haha.🙆🏻‍♀