[F4A] Afraid of Coming On Too Strong [you're not 'too much' for me][I like when you text me]

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  • čas přidán 9. 09. 2024
  • You've had people tell you that you're 'too much'? Well you're not with them. You're with me. And I don't feel like you're smothering me at all.
    Photo by Benjamin Suter

Komentáře • 88

  • @PineKatAudio
    @PineKatAudio  Před 2 lety +309

    Hello all- since this video is under 10 minutes I cannot turn off post-roll ads. This is really upsetting to me as an avid audio listener because there is nothing worse than being pulled out of the immersion by a blaring ad. In the future I’ll make sure all videos are at least ten minutes long so I will be able to turn off post-roll ads. Unfortunately if I turn off ads all together, CZcams will still run the ads, I just won’t get any compensation for it. This is beyond frustrating! I’m guessing this will affect my older videos that are under ten minutes as well. I’ll just make sure they’re long enough to avoid this in the future :(

    • @mrcwillis6970
      @mrcwillis6970 Před 2 lety +12

      Ok. Sorry to hear that Kat.
      Wish I could donate.

    • @mrcwillis6970
      @mrcwillis6970 Před 2 lety +5

      Btw Kat it’s says part 7 in the corner when it’s part 6. Sorry if I’m being nit picky.

    • @vsupjanice
      @vsupjanice Před 2 lety +2

      @@mrcwillis6970 part 6 is on patreon😁

    • @jossmcgonagall4631
      @jossmcgonagall4631 Před 2 lety +4

      I'm sorry to hear that Kat, wish there was a way to help u feel less frustrated. Sending a virtual hug to you ^ ^

    • @zeeba3999
      @zeeba3999 Před 2 lety +6

      Not your fault, this one is on CZcams and their crappy practices. We appreciate you Kat!

  • @birdontheinternet
    @birdontheinternet Před 2 lety +107

    I was always a really cuddly touchy person until one day when it suddenly hit me that people have boundaries and it’s important to respect that. But since no one ever properly taught me how to respect boundaries since no one ever respected mine, I basically just taught myself to create distance from people both literally and figuratively. God, if even one person in my life could say half of what’s in this audio with even a fraction of the sincerity it would probably help me to fix so many of my social problems
    Edit: I forgot I’d seen this video before and I came into the comments just to find this after ugly sobbing. It’s been a rough day.

    • @Xinon3455
      @Xinon3455 Před 4 měsíci +3

      Im probably the only one who answered. I hope your doing better now :) If your having a hard time, go do something fun or just cozy🫂

  • @byonemesis
    @byonemesis Před rokem +19

    "The right person loved, loves and will love you for who you are." I feel that quote...
    Screw assumptions and bad mouthing people, communication, intimacy, honesty, caring, love and loyalty are values.

  • @p.a.wstudio5430
    @p.a.wstudio5430 Před 2 lety +108

    Okay i went into this thinking i wouldn't feel too moved by this but it could be enjoyable.....i started choking on tears within 4 minutes of the video

    • @Synthetic94
      @Synthetic94 Před rokem +1

      Why, though?

    • @p.a.wstudio5430
      @p.a.wstudio5430 Před rokem +2

      @@Synthetic94 coz i feel like I'm too much for most people, the audio hit home

    • @Synthetic94
      @Synthetic94 Před rokem +1

      @@p.a.wstudio5430 ain't true though. In my experience people are pretty clear about boundaries.

    • @p.a.wstudio5430
      @p.a.wstudio5430 Před rokem +1

      @@Synthetic94 well yeah i know it's not
      But the fear is always there and sometimes it kinda takes over for few days
      So in those times it's nice to hear some reassurance...even tho it's just an audio

  • @LordSkella
    @LordSkella Před 2 lety +28

    I always worry that I’m too much so I tend to go to the opposite end of the spectrum and avoid to balance it out. People think I’m aloof when I just don’t want to bug them. This was very relatable!

    • @andreyoungauthor1181
      @andreyoungauthor1181 Před 3 měsíci

      😮 me too you’re not alone so relatable. I’m also on the spectrum too. It feels good to know that there is someone else after struggling to who I can connect with. Thank you for sharing your comment.

  • @mrcwillis6970
    @mrcwillis6970 Před 2 lety +64

    I can be afraid of being too much… but more of, been afraid I’m not enough wether it’s with family, friends… I don’t think I’m good enough for anyone, I think it’s why I don’t think I’m gonna be able to get a girlfriend, I don’t think any girl or just any person would love me. I don’t get why people I know apparently do love me, just so weird to me, then again I am weird…
    TY for another amazing ASMR Kat, love this series so much. ❤️

    • @cassiohenrique6815
      @cassiohenrique6815 Před 2 lety +5

      Yeah!? You're just gonna describe me like that?

    • @toybonniesfm
      @toybonniesfm Před 2 lety +6

      Bro saaaaame, I cannot stress enough how loud and extra I feel. It would be easier to disappear without those loving me for no good reason.

    • @SJ-vv8vt
      @SJ-vv8vt Před 2 lety +5

      this makes so much sense. i feel like i exist too hard sometimes

  • @AngryShoeLace_
    @AngryShoeLace_ Před 2 lety +18

    This hurts to listen to but It’s also comforting

  • @justaforklift2155
    @justaforklift2155 Před 2 lety +31

    I am a forklift that has returned to earth to reclaim my throne

  • @mxtonksaudios
    @mxtonksaudios Před 2 lety +65

    Me at the beginning: "ooh this is gonna be nice and comforting"
    Me at the end: "WHO PUT TEARS IN MY EYES" 🥺💜💜

  • @Blindluck92
    @Blindluck92 Před 2 lety +16

    The healthy communication is strong with this one, and I am 100% here for it.
    Thanks for the audio, Kat.

  • @toybonniesfm
    @toybonniesfm Před 2 lety +15

    As the impulsive loud boy, I can totally see myself in this situation. Ok not really, I can’t see myself in a relationship but still.

  • @GraceSquad13
    @GraceSquad13 Před 2 lety +12

    Oof I always feel like I come off too strong and too much for people, so I just kinda stay quiet. I used to apologize profusely, and I still kind of do even though it’s not my fault, but I guess that’s what happens when I grow up with an abusive mom

  • @gc8219
    @gc8219 Před rokem +3

    I did not realize how bad I struggle with this. i feel like my inner thoughts and insecurities were just all laid out in front of me.

  • @fallinloveyoulose
    @fallinloveyoulose Před 2 lety +9

    Thank you! I appreciate hearing words that clearly show someone wanting their partner to be their best self. You're a space creator for that, so thanks. Much love.

  • @randomdude9664
    @randomdude9664 Před 2 lety +21

    Damn. I had to rewind 6:00 and listen a couple extra times. It felt good to hear somebody say that. Random, I know haha
    Thanks for posting as always

  • @bernatrixvalentine9766
    @bernatrixvalentine9766 Před 2 lety +10

    This is the audio i needed thank you sooooo muchhh ❤️ your voice is so calming

  • @MariusM1910
    @MariusM1910 Před 2 lety +16

    Turning 28 this month.. still waiting for my first kiss or cuddle 😞😢
    It will happen eventually right?🥺

  • @asmrguy854
    @asmrguy854 Před rokem +1

    the best thing is if you are unsure: ask first, even though you know they will probs say yes. asking shows you respect them

  • @AliceRain
    @AliceRain Před 8 měsíci

    Istg these audios helped me so much through realizing what's good/bad, what's okay and not, and it gave me hope that I too can create healthy relations

  • @NOVAZ3N
    @NOVAZ3N Před 2 lety +3

    man this is such a nice fantasy, thank you for putting this together

  • @jossmcgonagall4631
    @jossmcgonagall4631 Před 2 lety +2

    "You waited?"
    Me, who has a specific schedule to write to friends: hooold on, where are the cameras? =O

  • @xxdominicxx8174
    @xxdominicxx8174 Před rokem +1

    this relates to me a lot, i always wanted to text my now ex, i just wanted to talk, but they always thought i was clingy, and same with my former friends, sometimes i would text a lot or too little because i always got these mixed signals of “omg too much” or “you text too little i don’t really wanna talk to you now” and i still feel weird because i still do that, and it rly weighs me down and doesn’t help my social anxiety 😢

  • @Synthetic94
    @Synthetic94 Před rokem +1

    The cute part is repeating everything I say in the form of a question. Lmao

  • @xenonk7365
    @xenonk7365 Před rokem +1

    It's interesting for me to hear something like this.
    Even if it's in my mind sometimes it makes me feel like I don't really thought about this stuff before. Which makes sense because I never had a relationship. But what bugs me a little is the fact that I can't even imagine meeting someone on a daily basis. To this day I never even met a person I can stand with for more than 24 hours.
    Now when I think about it loving someone would mean to me that I could bear to voluntarily meet a person like once a week. Which that makes me kind of sad.

  • @mogwiawolf4354
    @mogwiawolf4354 Před 2 lety +3

    probably will watch this another time

  • @scpfoundation2549
    @scpfoundation2549 Před 2 lety +4

    This is epic.

  • @toxicking9442
    @toxicking9442 Před 2 lety +2

    huh, didnt realize it was make me cry time...

  • @MrSHADOWANGEL999
    @MrSHADOWANGEL999 Před 2 lety +2

    Well that was wholesome and lovely

  • @backdude405
    @backdude405 Před 2 lety +1

    i really wish i had someone to say this to me , either way this was really comforting

  • @Iden_in_the_Rain
    @Iden_in_the_Rain Před 2 lety +3

    This hit like a truck goddamn

  • @alanhernandez8026
    @alanhernandez8026 Před rokem +2

    That would absolutely be me on my first relationship
    Loved your audio ❤

  • @Heveric
    @Heveric Před rokem +2

    Did someone say Cuddles? I heard cuddles. Why haven’t I started cuddling my girl sooner? Cmon me, get with the program!
    Lol, jokes aside this was nice. I can understand for some people if they feel they are going too fast in a relationship or don’t wanna appear clingy, so while taking things slow is smart there is such a thing as “too slow” and no one wants that. 😂

  • @mogwiawolf4354
    @mogwiawolf4354 Před 2 lety +3

    hope this story continues : )

  • @AK45W
    @AK45W Před 2 lety +5

    Oh hey my favorite series, wonderful :D
    I'm just curious if this is part 7 where is part 6? I wonder if I missed something

    • @LJb7878
      @LJb7878 Před 2 lety +2

      This is part 7 part 6 has been taken down because the CZcams gods said it was too spicy

    • @AK45W
      @AK45W Před 2 lety +1

      @@LJb7878 ah i see, well thanks for the info friend

  • @ComfortsSpecter
    @ComfortsSpecter Před rokem

    Now This Is Adorable
    Very Soothing for Such People as The Comments Portray
    Great Writing
    Series Need’s Better Marking
    So Coomfi and Natura

  • @andrewdavido963
    @andrewdavido963 Před 2 lety +2

    Hey it's pine kat this is jus awesome very excited new audio definitely worth watching saving for tonight ❤️😊

  • @amehayami934
    @amehayami934 Před rokem +1

    Ok that's two thing's that was very expected.
    Playing with hands and touching eye brows lol.
    I was expecting playing playing with my hair and touching Each other. 😂

  • @lukim2744
    @lukim2744 Před rokem

    Damn dude, can't even bring myself to listen to this one, it's too relatable, I'm tryna maintain here 😂😂

  • @megaroniproductions585
    @megaroniproductions585 Před 2 lety +3

    I often think I am too clingy😅

  • @mogwiawolf4354
    @mogwiawolf4354 Před 2 lety +3

    why is there part 7 in the bottom left corner if its part of a series it really should say that in the title cause was interested to watch it but now am to confused to now watch it

  • @christopherabson9067
    @christopherabson9067 Před 2 měsíci

    What do mean I'm perfect?! I'm not handsome, I need so much affection that my own family says I'm annoying let alone people I tried to date... but... still, I love this. It's a script.... I know it's all fake... but it still feels good to hear something I wish was real. No one ever thinks that a partner who's love language is to be cuddled up with them need lots of attention is ideal.

  • @Yumi_UwU_
    @Yumi_UwU_ Před 10 měsíci

    I’m on my way to class- In a taxi and now I’m on tears 🥲

  • @doctornoname1048
    @doctornoname1048 Před rokem +1

    *curls in ball an cries silently falling asleep* I love someone but we both aren't mentally ready.. she knows I like her but we agreed to be friends for now. If she ever says this to me I may fall to my knees and cry my eyes out. Bad dating record

  • @kentont.4499
    @kentont.4499 Před 2 lety +1

    I loved this SOO much! 💖

  • @DogGirlSyri
    @DogGirlSyri Před 2 lety +2

    This is nice, but now I feel self conscious about my Eyebrows... so thanks?

  • @vortexthehellhoundasmr51
    @vortexthehellhoundasmr51 Před 2 lety +1

    I love your new video keep it up your awesome 😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎

  • @Roddy_Zeh
    @Roddy_Zeh Před 2 lety +1

    Precious. 🙌🏻

  • @amaya6091
    @amaya6091 Před 10 měsíci

    Honestly this was a bit anxiety inducing for me because everytime I were to get information wrong my mother would scold or yell at me so even though it was a calming voice and most of the other ones of I've listened to didn't make me feel anxious or anything (often just emotional) this one I was feeling very anxious because I felt as though I did something wrong even though I could tell I didn't do anything wrong due to the tone

  • @NOVAZ3N
    @NOVAZ3N Před rokem

    No, see the reason this is a fantasy is because the speaker character depicted here is such a high quality, realistic person. It's not that people like this don't exist. It's that anyone who is like this is either already in a happy and healthy relationship, or they just don't want a relationship. I personally know several women like this in my own life. One of them got married almost out of high school and they're a close friend of mine. Another was in a relationship for 7 years while I knew them, and then when they broke up with their partner, they were single for 2 months before meeting someone who they were incredibly happy with. Another such friend has been in a relationship with their current fiance since before I met them in high school. I've been through 19 failed romantic interests in my lifetime. The last time I was in a successful healthy relationship was for my first 2 years in high school before my partner decided to gently discontinue our relationship due to circumstances outside of either our control. It's been 10 years since then. I've been continuously working on myself, studying psychology, philosophy, self development, the dynamics of healthy relationships, and many other subjects just to gain an understanding of the world and what I could be doing wrong in order for these potential relationships to not work out. I've had my heart broken in many more different ways than I thought possible. I've done deep introspection and I've asked friends and strangers what I could do differently or what I'm doing that could be causing these difficulties. Ultimately what we've collectively discovered is that, of course, everyone is different and has their own desires for what they want in a partner. I have tried everything I've been recommended to do, and everything I can think of doing. I've been abandoned, abused, respectfully rejected, and offered casual sex that I've declined because my heart and soul crave a meaningful, consummate relationship. The reason audios like this are fantasies is because it is simply a lottery for such a relationship to occur. Yes, both parties need to put in the effort and care, but if neither of such people meet each other, it doesn't matter.

  • @hey_im_kasper_
    @hey_im_kasper_ Před 10 měsíci

    STOP CALLING ME OUT WOMAN

  • @ojoking695
    @ojoking695 Před 2 lety +2

    So quick question.
    Where can i find myself one of these?

  • @zcarecro
    @zcarecro Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you

  • @luissantiago5163
    @luissantiago5163 Před 2 lety +1

    Ayy wholesome

  • @Hot_Single_Pigeon_In_Your_Area

    hi kat. i love your videos.
    but can you make some series about the mafia listener. i search them but it's looks like still few people make something like that.

  • @mogwiawolf4354
    @mogwiawolf4354 Před 2 lety +2

    oh so it is part of a series saw the play list which is odd that it says part 7 in the bottom left corner although part 5 is the one that came before it so my question is where is part 6 or why is this part 7?

    • @PineKatAudio
      @PineKatAudio  Před 2 lety +1

      Part 6 is hosted on Patreon because it covers a topic that does not align with CZcams community guidelines, so I can’t upload the video to CZcams or it gets removed

  • @TheBroGamer14082
    @TheBroGamer14082 Před 2 lety +1

    yo uhh where's part 6? checked the playlist and it aint there.

    • @poppyisaswiftie
      @poppyisaswiftie Před rokem +1

      There's unfortunately no part 6 because it was took done I believe because it was time spicy or something. 🤷‍♀️

    • @TheBroGamer14082
      @TheBroGamer14082 Před rokem +1

      @@poppyisaswiftie oh that's a shame
      edit: just checked and seems that 6 and 7 aint there either.

  • @symbionthamuoshkabae4995
    @symbionthamuoshkabae4995 Před měsícem

    I am so sorry to my future girlfriend for all the issues i have.

  • @cardo3566
    @cardo3566 Před 2 lety +2

    ❤⚘

  • @angelmatiastorres
    @angelmatiastorres Před 2 lety +1

    Hey! How are u!

  • @Xinon3455
    @Xinon3455 Před 4 měsíci

    WHERE ARE MY LESBIANS?!!🔥🔥🔥🔥🏳️‍🌈

    • @shadwfangthefunnywolf3687
      @shadwfangthefunnywolf3687 Před 3 měsíci

      HAPPY PRIDE MONTH‼️‼️‼️‼️🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈 [Not lesbian but bi sorry]

  • @user-lp5pz2kp3k
    @user-lp5pz2kp3k Před měsícem

    Yeah but there’s a difference between someone who accepts a relationship and someone who genuinely cares. She could be faking it for the sake if maintaining the relationship.