The Phone Call That RUINED Her Life
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- čas přidán 4. 07. 2024
- Amanda Quick thought she had the perfect family life. One call in the middle of the night changed everything, and her life turned upside down. What followed for Amanda Quick is unimaginable for most of us, with husband arrested and nowhere to turn.
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Chapters:
0:00 The beginnings of something rotten
6:30 Why SHE proposed to him
10:00 The SHOCK of her life
15:00 Bond…what to do next!
18:00 His explanation for what he did
20:00 Did she believe him at the time?
24:00 The Hardest Part For People To Get
26:00 Trauma bond, cult & plea deal!
30:00 He made things worse
33:00 Realized truth…turned to alcohol!
36:00 His ‘dominant’ divorce suit
40:00 The REAL danger begins…
41:50 What gr**ming is
43:00 She finally put it all together!
47:00 She saw WHO?
51:00 Fighting back!
54:00 What her husband actually did
57:00 The final court decision
59:00 How her kids are now - Zábava
Are you familiar with Amanda's story? Or have you been betrayed by a spouse? AND will you be coming to this premiere? I'll be in the chat.
Human trafficking is a blight on this planet & far more rampant than anyone could ever begin to imagine.
No, I’m not familiar but I trust your judgement. Thank you! You do a great job of choosing and interviewing guests. Don’t be afraid to delete hateful comments from your comment section. There are trolls on the loose to shut people’s stories down. Trolls are a thing. A deleted troll comment is an ineffective troll account.
Hi, thanks Amanda for sharing yours and your children’s story, I feel an immense sadness/grief & pain in my chest for the fact that you had to experience this.
Damn this may be the hardest comment I’ve ever made. I’m so sorry you had to endure this, and I’m amazed by your strength and resilience. You manage to be very informative and clear, I’m impressed by your actions, and accomplishments, and I wish you and your precious children a happy, joyful and loving now, and future.
With kindness and respect, Grace
Pedophiles are the most conniving, selfish, artful manipulators I have ever come across in the court system.
They are expert verbal manipulators. They NEVER change with therapy. They just become more sophisticated at getting away with their activity and picking up the lingo necessary to fool people further.
🤷🏽♀️
They’re in a criminal class of their own. Society ought to wake up and stop enabling them.
@@CatCambak
I hope you and your children are doing well now.
Protect children on this planet: not those who harm them.
Yeah, one would think that would be self explanatory!!!
The mere fact that you have to have courage and take a RISK just to post that kind of "fascist" comment is a testament to why our species is extinction-bound😢...
So, drink up, twist-off, have fun b/c the Devil is coming for his due...and we ALL owe a serious debt for our pride during 50+ years of drug war prison-packing to the tune of several million ppl, and the horrific things done to so many of them. And to think, Americans wonder why mobs of woke POS zombies are burning down their cities!
You better stop supporting your military then.
@@complexedmind5739 I do not support any harm of any child. Period.
If only......!!!!
Witchcraft doesn't protect kids maam
Wow, what a story! I'm victim of CSA myself since birth and until I was 13. I wish that my mom had half the courage you have. My situation is in a doomsday cult environment... didn't help. You saved your children. I have lots of respect for that. You are a great person and Mom...💐
Hi @natashapeeters988. I was also a victim of CSA since birth to 12 years old. Also, my four other siblings too. Sick perverted father. Never convicted. My mother HAD NO COURAGE EITHER!
I have a great amount of respect for you, Amanda!!
When I tell my story to people, most are just shocked into silence. Seeing how the system basically protects these types of criminals makes me think these behaviors are WAY more common, especially among the people in charge within the justice system who let this sickos get away with it. This addiction doesn't just go away suddenly. They usually just find better ways to hide it.
Jewals-Healing Rose: they are very common in high ranks. That is actually their pattern to only hire people who already have a dark secret in the sleaze area, this is why Epstein had such an important job. They need to blackmail all these big positioners
@@brittalbach416 Absolutely, and I knew that before I ever had to deal with the system myself.
It was the local judge in my case who showed a favoritism for the perpetrator (and perhaps bc of his fancy lawyer). Local law enforcement & cps said they had never seen a case like mine in their careers, and that it was like a storyline from one of those crime shows. The evidence was very straightforward and there was a lot of it. Yet the judge ruled for barely a slap on the hand. The problem with my case it was kept out of the media, so there was no accountability.
@@jewals-healingrose222 that is really deplorable that one cannot get justice any more from those who are there to make sure innocents get exonerated and perpetrators are punished.
I never trust the system any more, I am a Christian, catholic, I always pray the prayers Lord Jesus gave to Nigerian Barnabas Nwoye, are here on youtube, esp. one where I offer the blood of his left hand to the Eternal Father and I always always see results. I must pray it more often and I am sure this system will collapse hopefully for a better one with more honest people.
I am sorry you did not get justice. Yes, slap on the hand for huge crimes and long prison time for minor things. May God give you consolation and bless you. Cordial greetings
100%. Have you seen Children of the Underground? The system favors pedos over children. Ughhhhhh!!!!!
I’m sorry you went through this.
Unfortunately the trans activists and transgendered people are trying to promote pedos and call them MAPS which is miner affection persons. A dem in the USA was trying to get something passed that would stop people from judging pedos and giving them rights. There is even a MAPS flag that lgbqt plus people have amongst their other flags and there are buttons that you see being worn by supporters. The ideology of all this pronouns stuff and trans stuff they are saying that MAPS deserve to be left alone and that they have feeling too. So now with drag queens doing story time and letting miners be there and dancing provocatively in front of them and actress Charlize Theron who has a trans child was even promoting drag queens and saying in a video that if anyone messing with the drag queens she will ef them up. Now it is said that these activists are saying yeah they are grooming and there is nothing wrong with this. Porn books in elementary schools and sexualizing children in school starting in kindergarten. So people need to wake up and protect the children
This is the most riveting of your interviews I have seen. Honestly I’m quite proud of her for being persistent about protecting her kids.
People in the comments blaming this woman. The moment she knew he was a danger to the kids she took action. Why she didnt take action before, she was groomed and brainwashed. I do not blame her, shes done amazingly well to escape with a still functioning mind. Shes a strong woman.
Everyone that has the strength to express and explain how they think feel and act in this kind of situation same with the colombine shooters mom ALL PF US MUST MUST LEARN!!!!
WE all need to know the signs the action the gaslighting we will NEVER get better if we don't learn. Years ago no one talked about women's periods,no one talked about pedophilea til ophra made it public there needs to be all of the mates and parents to speak out no we don't want to hear it but you can't protect anyone from what you can't see coming
What a brilliant, intelligent, mature, resilient young woman. Better to have one parent with these qualities than two parents with none.
Totally!
I never understand when folks say kids need a mom AND a dad...But then I remember they don't mean an irresponsible or dangerous dad.
she is nuts.
@Mercy Me you the pedophile ex husband? Sounds like it to me.
@@erciliafloreswell tbh they don't need a disinterested or lazy dad either!
@@lynnjaxfuland you base that on...?
What an awful thing to live through and how strong Amanda is. What the f*** is with the courts in Colorado?? He should NEVER be allowed to be near any children again 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
Pedophiles make the laws to protect themselves
You should look up the story of Grant and Gracie Solomon
Tennessee is VILE
@@beccaboshie5732 I know that story. Their father is definitely a vile pile of scum! But, I think this happens in every state…unfortunately.
He sounds terrifying. She was so young to be married and he probably believed that she wouldn't ever know what he was doing. I really admire how she fought to save her children. Men like her husband are very devious. Hard worker, great provider and wonderful husband and father, the perfect cover for a determined paedo. It's deeply concerning that so many of the "experts" believed in him.
Narcissists/psychopaths are so good at fooling everyone, including ‘experts’ that they are the wronged person, my ex had everyone convinced I was the crazy person, and that he would be the better parent if we spilt, kept me and my daughter in a very dangerous situation for years because I was convinced he would get custody if I left him… it’s an awful situation to be in.
its really like a parasitic monster that just feeds off of the people that they rope into their home, their family or their world. they seem totally normal unless they are actually committing the act. its always someone trusted by their victims and those close to them. every story i hear. some more damning to the other family members or the parents than others but often the other people in their orbit dont know anything is happening.
Let's just appreciate how most of us would've misjudged her, given her stated past.......promiscuous at the least......& other slang terms not so charitable. Turns out she was THE proverbial mama bear with more guts and stronger traditional values than most. Hell with the fact it took her a long time to take the blinders off. She'd already become that fierce mama bear by having had the kids....just took a while to realize how much power of will she already possessed. It's a tragic story, sure........but we just watched the origin of a f*kin super-hero.
@@karls432 I went to therapy with my Narc and damn, he came across so good, it was all my fault in 5 minutes…
@@BustedFlush7096 I am so sorry that your therapist didn’t spot the signs, my doctor and a police officer both spotted mine for what he was. But many never ❤️❤️ hope you are in a better place now. Xx
I was married at 19 to a truly evil evil man. I totally get where she’s coming from. I was so naïve back then. You still away awake at night waiting for him to come home. Back then calling hospitals. Calling police station. Seeing if there was an accident. When it turned out all he was doing was cheating cheating and more cheating. I look back now, and I don’t even know how I survived what he put me through. I think God I had the strength to get out. My kids were four and six when I finally divorced him. It was the best thing I ever did. I met a wonderful man who adopted my children. And raise them as his own. a wonderful, father and husband. Then he cheated. There was not even a second thought. I divorced him as well. And I’ve been alone for almost 20 years. Love the peace that I have. And I love my own company.
I understand too.
Protecting the kids is more important than protecting the marriage.
Around 31 minutes into it.. His mental health started deteorating simply because he had been exposed. When someone gets exposed they want to run and begin again.. But he couldn't so it was a terrible existence for him.. Makes me sick even writing this.
How brave it is for this young lady to share her story.
Excellent observation.
She notes it was hard to process her feelings when she'd gone back to the work world . When you've been gaslit for so long surrounding your own emotions (especially from a young age) It can be a monumental task to even recognize your own emotions ,let alone begin to believe they are real or worth considering.
He lies in exactly the same way my ex did. And i was older. But they spin you right into their web.
She should have divorced him the day she found out why he was arrested
@@Water_is_Sacred777 Not the "female" brain, the HUMAN brain doesn't fully mature until between 26 and 28.
I don’t think that’s fair. In her mind this was the father of her children who was a good provider on top of the fact she was married so young he was all she knew
Don’t judge, be kind
Sure but she explains very well why she didnt.
She SHOULD never had married him after she found out he was already married!
What a hard thing for Amanda to relive. It’s easy to say she should have immediately divorced him. But he had alienated her as well, making her completely financially dependent upon him. Good for her for finding the brave path and becoming her best self for her children’s safety and her own.
If a man wants to share his wife with other man then, he doesn’t love or respect her. I knew that from my early age, i new what love is suppose to be.
The crimes against women & children are seriously underreported! These crimes are also on the rise. So many people just can't comprehend how common this is. Nobody wants to think about crimes against children, so they are often in denial. People need to wake up and start talking about this! Courts humanize the perpetrator and not the victim. Even in prison, criminals don't tolerate people who have committed crimes against women & children, how do inmates in prison have a better moral compass than the people in charge of holding the p*dos & r*pists accountable... clearly s*xualizing children is a much bigger problem than people realize. These sick p*dos/rapists are let off with almost NO punishment!!!!
You are 100% correct!
You're so right about inmates NEVER tolerating violence against kids-- the ChoMo's as Shaun Atwood says they call it. What is wrong with our world??
His "dead fish" comment suggests he had tried to attack younger terrified children at some point
They get their just punishment in prison
@@carolinejohnson1249 only if someone finds out what they are there for. And its part of the prisons job to protect them. Myself, I would tell what they did and put them in general population. It has been proven that pedos are NOT fixable!
Thank you for sharing your story, Amanda. What a brave woman you are! Thank you, Andrew, for doing this interview.
Amanda is an amazing strong well spoken woman. The stress she was running on to get stuff done probably was the thing that helped her do it.
I hope she & her kids have found acceptance peace & normality.💙
Just a bit of advice for people out there. NEVER mention sex acts you did with previous people that you won’t do with your current partner. Nothing good will come of it.
Very good advice!!
What exactly is your point in saying that relative to this story?
@@zariballard listen to her story...she talked about her husband wanted her to do threesomes because she did it earlier in her teens and told him about it...
@@zariballard She talked about her sexual past in the beginning of the discussion and that to her husband....
@@laamore No, she literally never said she had threesomes previously. She said she had prior sexual experiences / “promiscuous” teen years but she never said she previously had threesomes. She said she was uncomfortable with certain things he wanted to do such as bringing other people into their sexual relations.
This is horrifying- must be so surreal for her.
The shaking in her voice, relating this, just makes me want to reach out and hold her- that you can be married to someone that turns out to be so evil and that you never actually knew is so scary.
She saw the signs at the beginning
We don't see what we don't want to. Hindsight is 20/20.
When she said the psychic told her she hadn't made a clear decision to be done yet...gut punch.
This story rocked me to my core. Im an English school teacher in Mexico. A year and a half ago I saw my parter having sex with my then, 15 year old daughter. Hell broke loose. Went immediately to the authorities and proceeded. To make this story short, he kidnapped my daughter to another state, I was able to get her back and he spent a year and a half in jail because he did not have prior records and he is free now. I’m a single mom of three girls. All of them underage. I’m raising them alone. This story made me feel like I’m not alone. Also it gives me hope and strength to go on. As a result of our ordeal, I created a non profit organization here in Mexico and we help with legal costs and therapy victims of SA and their families. Thank you for giving survivors a voice. I would love if one day I could talk to you about our story in order to help people realize that hell on earth exits but there is a way out, there is a way to go from victim to survivor. Cheers to you and thank you for all you do.
Bravo to you. ❤
You are a beautifull mother,one day life will be easier..Thanks to you he didnt get a chance to do any more damage..You are a strong women and you should be very proud of yourself for the courage you have shown..
This young lady told her account very eloquently, especially considering the details of what she and her children went trough. It was emotional for me as a mother to hear the emotion in her voice. Much of what she spoke of resonated with me but I discovered too late for my children who are now adults and I'm still learning new things about what happened. My children need therapy but are not yet ready for that. It's cost me my relationships with my children. So glad you managed to get total custody of your children. Best wishes for all of your futures. Thank you for sharing.
“Soon” is always a lie.
In my experience, when I hear "soon," it usually means they have no intention because they have no interest.
Soon?
It's insane that she had to go through all this and THEY STILL WOULD NOT REMOVE ACCESS TO THE CHILDREN. Fucking nuts.
This is too close to comfort for me. I’ve had a similar experience and it’s absolutely devastating. I’m so sorry you went through that. What a fucking creep.
What a horrifying story-- but when she got to part when it was March and the pandemic hit, I shouted Thank God outloud. It was a divine intervention and I'm so relieved and touched that her kids were safe and away from him!!!
She's a strong mom and a blessing to her kids.
Much props to the "psychic" lady......her stated profession may be 1 million percent BS, but she was an empathetic human in the right place & time with the necessary insight/advice to set good things in motion.
That’s what I’m thinking too. The psychic’s story about the past lives etc is bs. But it was what Amanda needed to hear especially her needing to be 100% done with him.👍
This is Horrifying! What is wrong with the system not protecting our children from predators!
In America, if the man or woman you are infatuated with has been married multiple times, run.
You will always believe there's been some misunderstanding before you believe a loved one is actually guilty of this kind of crime. Its not until you see the evidence that you can even begin to consider it might be true.
I can never understand why criminals are defended far more than victims...it stinks. Bring in castration
Shouldn't it be more like a lobotomy considering people can ruin people's lives with their hands
Human rights, criminals have the Victims don't .
@@jaynepaige5702 1000%
That "psychic" was basically an excellent unlicensed therapist who was the best at reverse psychology ever....
I am one of many women who had a husband or boyfriend who would try to talk you into group sex. Then I find out his incestuous family history is real even though my denial did not want me to see it was true. Then there's the forcing himself on me while he screams for his cousin to hold me down. His cousin screamed back let her go can't you see she's not into this. That was over thirty years ago and it was Thanksgiving Day. Every Thanksgiving I would flash back to this thing that happened. The man was just pure evil and I kept waiting for the man I fell in love with to return. Naturally he would never return because he never really existed. Years later I learned the terms narcissist, sociopath and psychopath. He found a new victim who became his second ex wife. He has beaten me unconscious, chased me with butcher knives and steak knives. And always acted like everything was my fault. Miracle I lived through that and actually made a friend with the second ex-wife.
It's a red flag I watch Sam vaknin he said the main point for psycho narcs to ask you into acts is because it gives narc supply to see you degraded
Harrowing story. I was engaged the whole time. Love this interview.
Im so grateful i ve lost all my interest to any romantic relationships for good 😶
Me too 👍
Me too. For a long time now. 😊
While I appreciate her raw honesty about the trauma bond aspect I would’ve have castrated him on the spot once I heard he was a pedo. And if I had kids with him? He’d be dead. Period.
So if you had kids, you would effectively turn them into orphans (by going to jail for 20 to life)? To punish them for their fathers sins? 🤔 makes sense
I’ve only just started so not heard the story yet, I started dating my daughers dad at 17, despite knowing him since I was a child and witnessing him abusing ex girlfriends, my home life was shocking, so getting into a bad relationship was inevitable, I stayed with him despite years of abuse, finding he had tried to kill me with an overdose, him telling me I’m going to die if I pass out after a beating and finding him trying to smother our daughter. Honestly even putting this down into words I feel ridiculous, but because of the abuse none of it had the same impact to me then!! Even after we spilt up I pushed for him to have a relationship with our daughter, thankfully he didn’t but being in that abusive relationship changes your view of the world! It’s so difficult to explain, now 20 yrs later I wouldn’t put up with any of it!! ❤
How would you, or her, achieve this on-the-spot castration, practically speaking? Given that you/her would be dealing with someone who is a) uncooperative and b) statistically much larger and stronger than yourself.
Martial arts have weight classes for a reason..
It’s easy to say that from an armchair. With all due respect.
As a survivor of child sexual abuse, I have been an advocate for children since I was abused. I fought for myself at age 5 and haven’t stopped since. I also try to educate people.
There are exceptions but typically there is a grooming of the family at large. Pedophiles and child molesters are very good at what they do. They are better at interpreting body language than a body language expert.
As adults we must be diligent about our children and as a parent we have the responsibility of guarding them against predators. I am all in on personal responsibility. Which includes letting the offender own their actions.
The legal system needs to change. As a human being, you have the responsibility to at a minimum speak out against the laws that need to be changed.
My solution to pedophiles and child molesters is an island of no return. They can put the island in a Louisiana swamp land guarded by drones. If they try to get off? Drones take them out. Gators eat the rest. They will learn to like to eat gator because they would provide their own food. If they can’t manage to grow their food? They’ll do without. It’s hugely money saving. Society will be safer. I guarantee there will be some predators who will not offend because my law would say “one and done”.
I said all that because I’m very serious. We need solutions.
PS if their is a death involved with a molestation? Death penalty. One appeal. Upon resolution of the one appeal? The sentence would be carried out. That day. The end.
Join me in advocating for children!
@@HansenFT have you heard of mama bear energy & adrenalin? Or poison? The castration comment is obviously me being triggered because hello…DO NOT MESS WITH KIDS.
When it comes to kids err on the side of caution. What might be happening can not be undone. A child will have to live a lifetime with these memories coloring every aspect of their lives.
That was intense. Thank goodness for her and her childrens outcome. What a stoic mother. I feel sorry for all the women who have future contact or relationships with him, especially the ones who have children.
I'm so proud of you for having the ability to put your emotions aside and reacting fast enough to safe your children. That must've been a whirlwind of emotions but you're so strong. I've heard a lot of stories of child abuse and S.A from the victims perspective as adults. The most heartbreaking thing is the feeling of betrayal and most of those mothers were weak cowards. You put your kids first and one day they'll realize how you rescued them. You're a hero.
Wow. I can't even imagine what she must've felt when they told her the charge!
The law is an ass especially when it comes to the protection of children. As a retired psychotherapist I have seen this kind of situation many times. The isolation, and disbelief of the mother's testimony allows the revictimisation of both the non offending parent and the children. It is a sick, sordid nightmare that is allowed to go on for far too long because those people who are mandated to protect children are either undermined by the system or are ignored. This mother can be proud and is the hero of this terrible story.
Interesting when she said the authorities believe in rehabilitation for these crimes…why not for drugs?
Oh my what a terrifying story, what a brave woman Amanda. Thank you for sharing ❤
Wow what a story, bloody hell! What a brave lady Amanda is. I'm so glad they're all doing better now that's such a relief to how things could have turned out 😕. Great interview thanks Andrew 👏🩵
No sex offender should be alone around children, that is a hard thing to hear
Wow. Amanda is SO strong. I’m so happy that her and her children are safe, happy and healthy. I found myself going through so many emotions listening to her story. I went from being angry to crying uncontrollably to feeling such relief. I cannot imagine all the pain they went through. She is wonderful mother and is an incredible human being. ♥️
she is nuts. crazy.
Hi, thanks Amanda for sharing yours and your children’s story, I feel an immense sadness/grief & pain in my chest for the fact that you had to experience this.
Damn this may be the hardest comment I’ve ever made. I’m so sorry you had to endure this, and I’m amazed by your strength and resilience. You manage to be very informative and clear, I’m impressed by your actions, and accomplishments, and I wish you and your precious children a happy, joyful and loving now, and future.
With kindness and respect, Grace
thank you Andrew for interviewing Amanda. Thank you Amanda for sharing your journey. You put your children first as soon as you saw the truth about their bio father. Similar to California, our Ontario family court system tries - but the world’s pendulum has swung too far and dark-minded parents are sometimes protected. and some right-minded parents do not have the resources to keep up the battle.
This woman has educated herself to an extent that is impressive!! Yess!!
What a brave a very articulate young lady Amanda is.
"And "very articulate- looks like I missed a few letters 😀
I thought the same , she would do well in reporting .
It gives me the thrills. To be so deeply connected to such a criminal at such a young age. To have children with him. This feels like a pure nightmare.
I admire so much the great strength of Amanda to accept the truth and to take action. Even in my own language I wouldn't find the words to express it. Respect.
I think you meant ''çhills''
@@toonsster If it's a better word in this case, yes.
I think I make a lot of mistakes in English. My bad. Thank you for helping me. 👍
Andrew...I just finished watching this interview. I admire the way you have of giving your guests the floor. You do not flood them with questions but rather you provide them with a safe space to tell their story in whatever means they need. More often than not people who have such horrific, sad stories to tell need to be heard before too many questions might change the flow of their thoughts. I am a teacher of young children and we are taught to allow [them] to get lost in their play/activity. If we jump in and begin asking too many questions or give too many prompts the course of their creativity and therefore their play changes. This is all a very important pre-curser to their learning. I'm not comparing this to what Amanda and her children have gone through, and will continue to go through; I'm using it as a way to explain a process. You ask questions as they arise and are timed well to the stage of the story. I think this provides a source of comfort to your guests. It fosters trust between you and them. I feel stories such as this are important for the public to hear. We need to know about the struggles others' are going through for several reasons. It opens our minds to the fact that no one is immune to such unfair treatment. It helps us to become more understanding and sympathetic people. It allows for true empathy from others' who have experienced such life changing events and this might open up conversation amongst them that can lead to healing. Life is so complex and not always beautiful but some people will find their own deserved beauty after being tested. These tests come in many forms. Thank you so much for providing Amanda the time and space to tell us her story. She is a very strong, courageous woman and mother and I wish all the best for her and her children.
Thank you for the kind words !! I do try to do exactly as you say.
I am so sorry you have had to go through all of this. I am so sorry your children have had to endure this. I implore you to reconsider sharing what your son has been through, as that is his story. He may not want people to know what his dad did to him. Even if he thinks he wants to share, I think that decision should be made when he is an adult, not now. Just reconsider. I listened to this video a week ago, and I kept thinking how I would feel if my trauma was shared by someone else…. I had to respond.
Im so proud of the choices she made, and for being open about the fact that a psychic visit was the defining moment of her fight..amazing. great interview 👍
Well done Andrew 👏.another brilliant interview with substance. thanks v much
The way you listen to your guests and only ask the right question is kind and smart
What a profound, sad, disturbing story. I can so relate on certain levels. My ex was imprisoned (thankfully AFTER our blessed divorce) for child porn. He was pretty well known in the comic book industry…went by Justiniano…and was fired from DC Comics, and I felt completely betrayed and abandoned by the court system, as I applied for, and was denied, a restraining order to keep my beautiful, special needs kids away from him, and a female judge denied it. I was devastated, but in time, things went a bit better for the kids and myself. But it taught me more about the so called joke that is the ‘justice system’.
This all reminds me of my divorce 27yrs ago. It's a trauma I never really got over. He changed my relationship with my kid and i cannot forgive that. My child is 33 now and understands, but he ruined the best young years with her. In the end she never wanted to talk to him again. Kids grow and remember.
I can hear the pain in her voice poor woman.
She is very strong.
I'm no fan of psychics, but if this one got Amanda to open her mind to the reality around her, I'll support it all day.
Andrew Gold, what a wonderful, informative channel you grace us with. You are a fantastic interviewer! Thank you! ❤️🦘🇦🇺🙏🏻❤️
Awesome show Andrew ❤. I’ve watched you from the beginning. I love to see that your channel grow. Thank you for being one of the only hosts concerned with integrity and truth. You are by far one of the best reporters and commentators that I have seen in the last 30-40 years.
Hear, hear!!
This was a very interesting and helpful interview. Thank you.
Incredible podcast.. Amanda has the classic symptoms of CPSTD. As someone who continues to recover from this disorder, I could relate so much to her story. I commend her for her courage in saving her children and herself from this monster. Healing from the damages caused from these horrific experiences can be lifelong, I hope Amanda and her family Peace and Happiness.
You are a fabulous host. You let your guest speak without interrupting them. Great job!
Her story is extraordinarily common. A guy named Henry Makow had a website dedicated to this sort of thing. His blog was helpful...way back when...of me making sense of so much of my own life. No, my story in no way mirrors hers, but I definitely chalk that up to my very suspicious nature. (That, & learning all I could of the Language of Symbolism. Confucius was spot-on in that regard)
Can you offer a reference / resource re Confucius Language of Symbolism ?
@@bthe1doright462 Well, I just replaced my book of Confucius (keep it on the bed with me. The old one had a busy existence. So, I haven't earmarked ANYTHING). However, the quote's always in my head: "The World is not governed by rules & laws, but signs & symbols."
...edited to say, symbolism is EVERYTHING...Numerology (both kinds), colors, animals, runes, demonic sigils...Even words used...(Example: stocks & bonds MAY be investments. OR you're a bonded prisoner & when placed in stocks, rotten cabbages barrage your face.) The trick is to pay attention to modern media and go through each scene, seeing with EYES blind to the entertainment.
I love Henry Makow.
So intelligent and interesting
Great interview, Andrew
It's a fascinating story
Im in tears. Amanda, that's also my name. My story is so similar to you.
Its been 3 years and im sure you know the pain never really fades. We just learn to mask the sadness.
Today I turned 36 and as I sit alone with my 3 children I feel sad, trying to be thankful but wanting my spark back. Trying to be happy for them is the biggest job to be honest. Please if you have any advice about self empowering techniques I'd love to hear.
Hang in there! I know it’s hard and lonely at times. You got this!
Thank you, Andrew Gold and Amanda Quick.
Yay I got a notification 😀👏
Thank you Amanda for sharing your story. You really do speak from the heart and you are captivating to listen to.
What a horrible and duplicitous man, your ex was. He tricked you into a relationship and of course said yes to the marriage and kids because you were all the perfect cover for his nefarious deeds. I can 100% understand how you both became closer in that period of time after the arrest because you would’ve had so much guilt and shame at his charges and of course believing him to be innocent, that you had no where else to turn but him. I don’t know if you will read the comments, but I was just curious about your parents? Or were they overprotective of you?
Sounds like the psychic put you on the right path. There are some good ones, like my mum.
You are the ultimate Mamma Bear 🐻 You fought, found everyone you could and even used contemporaneous notes from the kids (which courts love) I’m so happy you triumphed over that evil pedo. He will get caught again because they can’t help themselves. Amanda, it’s fabulous for you and your kids to have such a close bond and living happily.
Thanks so much Andrew and Amanda, this was one of my favourite interviews. 🙏❤️
"(...) most states and countries do this (bonds) differently. " The phenomenon of bonds don't exist in most countries, at least not on Europe. The usual idea is that you only jail people without conviction if it's necessary for a) public or private safety or b) the investigation itself (coercing witnesses, destruction of evidence etc.)
If it's necessary, it's necessary regardless of money paid. If it's unnecessary, it's unlawful given that the individual is legally considered innocent until proven guilty.
Thank you for yur bravery in sharing your story! And thank you for giving her the chance to tell it!
Wow! Thank you for sharing this remarkable story!
That was a great interview!
This was a very good interview & so respectful to Amanda in telling her story. The short drew me in to watching this!
Not ALL society thinks that pornography is normal. Many of us know that it is extremely addictive and harmful for the family, society, and the nation. Pornography fuels sexual abuse and sex trafficking. This is what the rest of the society thinks.
Pornography is not normal. It's a BAD thing.
Thank you for saying this. We'll be dealing with the effects of rampant pornography on our society for generations. More and more stories about kids in school being sexually harassed and abused by other kids in their school. This isn't some fringe conspiracy theory. It's unfortunately very real.
Her point Is that it's everywhere and it's normalised even on msm they show these partner swapping and threesome programmes.. its disgusting
And lots of men wstch it and can make women feel inadequate so they go along with it subconsciously like it's part of the "norm"
This woman is one amazing mom!! I thank her for her willingness to come forward and share this gut wrenching story. Her children are so blessed to have e her and I wish them everything wonderful! ❤
Court can be soooo miserable
Horrible story, could have been so much worse without the resilience and strength she showed to face the truth and take control back. The courts should never have put her children in such a risky situation!
What strength
She is very brave to tell her story. This is what can happen if you have no economic power of your own to be able to leave a toxic relationship. She was so young and vulnerable as he had most of the power in the situation. Her denial I suppose was a coping and survival mechanism. Thank God She came outof denial and took back her power for herself and her children's sake.
Wow. Excellent interview.
Unbelievable patience. Today I listened to a story about a man that was physically/verbally abused by his wife for over 5 years! It was serious. She stabbed him, almost cut his throat...yet he stayed.
Wow! What a story! And to think she was such a young momma who took on the justice system to protect her kids at all costs. Thanks for sharing!
Thank you, that was fascinating. Her book looks like it would be good too!
I cannot believe that someone recommended a psychic to her 🙄 how can a psychic be accountable to anything they tell?
I was a 2 nd wife and he eventually emotionally distanced himself from me. He is now in Thailand! We had a 13 yr age difference. I caught him looking at my daughters bajan friend who was only 14 at the time. I never did know him as he kept things to himself.
Not at all surprised he didnt do anything off the list. Love and strength to all of you ❤️
The problem, I believe, is the view that parents have a “right” to their children. No matter what. Childrens well-being is not front and center. It’s as if parents are owners of their children, not caretakers.
First red flag - she had to ask him to marry her. Then, keep having kids. That will tie him up into sticking around. And I’m sure there were no clues whatsoever that the guy was off. “They hide it so well .” No they don’t. I know I sound unsympathetic, but I’m unsympathetic, especially when more & more kids are brought into a deplorable situation.
I agree, she is culpable here.
That was powerful.
Fascinating interview, Andrew. Thank you.
I feel like you can hear the pain and hurt in her voice and she is holding back so many tears. God Bless you and your children.
She told her families story so well I felt like I was there. I wish the best for her and her children. I hope that the father has gotten the help that he needs and never hurts another child again.
Denial is our minds way of protecting itself.
Wow…what strength you have Amanda, so happy you have your children now..bless you.
I so loved to hear that Amanda's terrific ordeal has a triumphant outcome. She has done a lot of work, both in the fight for her kids, realizing her husband's mental state and intentions, and navigating the screwed up legal system. Hopefully her self discovery, in hindsight, of her former young self has taught her lessons that will keep her resilient, wise and able to trust enough to find love again, if she hasn't already. And it sounds like both Amanda and her kids are doing well which is great!
I read that one of our subscribers recommended Amanda to interview. Really good choice.
Good job Andrew! This was so interesting 👍.
Andrew...Wow!! That's all that I have. Great work.