Signs A Girl Likes You & Wants You To Ask Her Out

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  • čas přidán 31. 07. 2017
  • Want to know if a girl truly likes you? Watch for these signs to know if you should ask her out or not.
    Sign #1 - Initiates Contact With You Repeatedly
    Sign #2 - Tries to Get Physically Close To You Every Chance She Gets
    Sign #3 - Lots of Giggles, Hair Tosses, Tilting of the head
    Sign #4 - Her body is turned directly to face you and body language all open.
    Sign #5 - She is NERVOUS/shy talking to you
    Sign #6 - She’s willing for you to get SUPER close into her space.
    Sign #7 - She keeps the conversation going with you for as long as possible.
    The truth: 99% of the time you’re not going to know unless she is being VERY forward; asking you out, telling you she likes you, saying sexual things with you.
    Make the moves anyway. ;)
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Komentáře • 149

  • @brettkoch6618
    @brettkoch6618 Před 5 lety +54

    Why not ask men out? You want equal pay and equal everything else men have! How about applying it to relationships and dating?? (Disclaimer I believe women should be equal)

    • @Justsomeguysomewhere
      @Justsomeguysomewhere Před 4 lety +7

      Because this whole feminism thing has turned into a shitshow were women want all the good stuff without the responsibilities, we men still have to do the hard/dirty work... that's just how it is, but don't believe the lies.

    • @kiddhkane
      @kiddhkane Před 4 lety

      I only opened the video to comment the same thing... I agree 100%

    • @johnvermintide
      @johnvermintide Před 3 lety

      @@Justsomeguysomewhere goddamnit feminists

    • @generation418
      @generation418 Před 2 lety

      Also this girl is just talking out of her ass LOL

    • @dislikecounter6392
      @dislikecounter6392 Před 2 lety +1

      Uhhh... If a women is eyeing you down... playing with her hair when she talks to you... asking you about yourself.. locking eyes with you.. she is pretty much asking you out.
      I am all for equality as well.. but i understand that the sexes are different and body language isn't really related to pay based on sex.

  • @a.d.k8497
    @a.d.k8497 Před 6 lety +82

    flirting ...just to be nice. is sooo misleading . hears some good advice ...if your not into a man or guy ....DONT FLIRT...you send men the wrong message ...

    • @Justsomeguysomewhere
      @Justsomeguysomewhere Před 4 lety +1

      Flirting to be friendly LOL, what she means is she is constantly looking for attention and validation... a lot of girls are like this these days... don't give your attention away for free men!

    • @johnvermintide
      @johnvermintide Před 3 lety

      It brings men to existential crisis so girls please

  • @g4jmx3z
    @g4jmx3z Před 5 lety +12

    Just flirting with anybody makes it all-the-more confusing. Why would anyone flirt with someone they're not interested in? Don't get friendliness and flirting mixed up.

    • @dislikecounter6392
      @dislikecounter6392 Před 2 lety +2

      Some people unconsciously seek validation through the means of flirting. You can easily tell if someone is interested in you if they are flirting while showing general interest in you.
      Also if a girl really is into you she is going to randomly start appearing around you more often. She is going to remember things you tell her and make references and try to build inside jokes as she is wanting to build a relationship.

  • @bensonyau2302
    @bensonyau2302 Před 6 lety +24

    If a woman does all this to you, walk away. She's setting you up for sexual harassment charges. The law will not be on your side.

    • @valderith
      @valderith Před 5 lety +4

      You got that one right, its fucked up but true.

    • @alb12345672
      @alb12345672 Před 5 lety

      @@valderith In 2019, yeah.

    • @johnvermintide
      @johnvermintide Před 3 lety

      F a x

    • @dislikecounter6392
      @dislikecounter6392 Před 2 lety

      35yrs old....
      If you ever get charged with sexual harassment you absolutely suck with reading body language... lol
      Easiest way for a Gen Z unaware man to find out if a women likes him is to just show her some tiktok videos on your phone and see how close she gets to you and if she pretty close just lean abit until you touch if she dont move you good, if she leans into you... yeah you best go for that or you literally are not male.
      Yes I taught my son this but without the emasculating part.

  • @Payne..
    @Payne.. Před 5 lety +24

    Why do women like a guy but wait for him to ask her out why don't you make the first move ladies he'll appreciate it

    • @AshleyKayAdvice
      @AshleyKayAdvice  Před 5 lety +7

      Women are more afraid of rejection then men. But I agree, I encourage women to make the first move if they like someone.

    • @Payne..
      @Payne.. Před 5 lety +5

      @@AshleyKayAdvice I'd have a lot of respect if a lady asked me out even if I wasn't attracted to her I'd say no but in a respectful way but I'd respect her for asking me

    • @kiddhkane
      @kiddhkane Před 4 lety +3

      @@AshleyKayAdvice Who cares? Women want equality, and fear / rejection are part of that equality.

    • @Michaelgracon
      @Michaelgracon Před 3 lety

      Ashley Kay The thing is since men have to always persue after a lot of rejection, we just want to give up and not even bother.

    • @crizzyplays
      @crizzyplays Před 2 lety

      I always thought this lol, I’m into this girl now and I’m having to come out my comfort zone to show my love for her. Idk what it means but I think it shows how determined u are as a man to get her, hopefully she is into me like that too 😩🤞🏻

  • @roger8654
    @roger8654 Před 5 lety +9

    Just because a guy talks to a girl or asks her a question doesnt mean he likes you.

  • @MegaPsycho84
    @MegaPsycho84 Před 6 lety +12

    As a man, if you flirt, they (women) will look at you like a creep.

  • @brandenburg2388
    @brandenburg2388 Před 6 lety +16

    Oh yes, I noticed that I am getting all these signs daily except that they are coming from my female cat.......

  • @gaijin140
    @gaijin140 Před 7 lety +12

    omg you're back.! I wish my notifications rang. But I'm glad your back. Your advice is invaluable.

  • @Teeny_Studios
    @Teeny_Studios Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you for making this know

  • @greeneyes1112
    @greeneyes1112 Před 5 lety +9

    what if she turns her back to u bent over , that's a green light

  • @timothypresley6650
    @timothypresley6650 Před 6 lety +2

    I like your style and new look.

  • @Peter.Trading
    @Peter.Trading Před 6 lety +5

    If a girl ever flirts with me, we are getting married!

  • @TheAgefirst
    @TheAgefirst Před 6 lety

    Her likes... are common , her respect. is a rare jewel.

  • @hern4384
    @hern4384 Před 3 lety

    Nice video 🙌

  • @inferno3080
    @inferno3080 Před 6 lety

    Love it thanks.

  • @nathanavila5550
    @nathanavila5550 Před 4 lety

    Amazing video!!!!
    Keep it up!!!
    I just subscribe to ur channel

  • @nuke8191
    @nuke8191 Před 5 lety +4

    Ummmm girls...? Can you like... NOT be more confusing than Enigma...?

  • @hern4384
    @hern4384 Před 3 lety

    Thanks for helping us

  • @gregthompson9434
    @gregthompson9434 Před 4 lety +2

    My god could it be anymore damm confusing if a women likes me or not . Good lord

  • @hwd7
    @hwd7 Před 2 lety

    If flirting is just good manners, then that leaves men vulnerable to the humiliation of rejection, which I have experienced one too many times.

    • @enniswhalen2428
      @enniswhalen2428 Před 2 lety

      @ h71 - And the women will keep saying, "Rejection is good for you, (NOT for THEM ) keep trying . . . .'

  • @advice3892
    @advice3892 Před 4 lety +2

    My crush probably doesn’t like me she is way out of my league

  • @commonsense6257
    @commonsense6257 Před 6 lety +1

    Hi, good video. What is the best way to ask a woman out that you have spoken with several times and there is chemistry there? Any useful tips would be helpful.

  • @sonam426
    @sonam426 Před 6 lety +1

    Nice talk but often if we guys went to girls reject or bad way ignore is very discouraging for guys look after girls..

  • @davidpaulplanchard3104

    What if she was working her job at the pharmacy and asks what are your plans for the rest of the day?

  • @AchillesRage501
    @AchillesRage501 Před rokem

    What if she already doing something and she facing forward then you walk to her side and you talk while she busy

  • @GoaWay4Sanity
    @GoaWay4Sanity Před 3 lety +2

    *never ask a baseball ⚾️ how to throw a baseball - ask the pitcher*

  • @wyzee6262
    @wyzee6262 Před 3 lety +1

    A girl that I like, makes eye contact several times a day and smiles at me. I also noticed that whenever I talk to her she turns her body towards me and leans a little. However she is very shy and not talkative so she can't keep the conversation going properly and just ask me whatever I ask her by saying, "and you?". We work at a grocery store so whenever she buys something, she checks out with me despite me having a long line (waits in the line). At this point I'm 90% sure that she likes me. I just need some motivation to ask her out since I'm shy too.

    • @dislikecounter6392
      @dislikecounter6392 Před 2 lety

      Bro just tell her that that you want to get to know her better and ask if she wants to get a coffee or go for a walk.
      Don't do dinner or anything if she shy man.
      Worst that happens you probably just make a new friend.
      Also make sure you ask her out within a week of meeting her or you might miss your chance.

  • @dn1697
    @dn1697 Před 4 lety

    ... I got harassment accusations for looking at someone at work ... staring and lingering.

  • @joshparks5575
    @joshparks5575 Před 6 lety +21

    So if a girl flirts with you, she may or may not want to date you.

    • @AshleyKayAdvice
      @AshleyKayAdvice  Před 6 lety +3

      Flirting is just not a very reliable source for how she feels about you. For some women it's about getting attention and power (as I'm sure is the same for some men). You need to watch for other signs to see if she really likes you (as described in the video). But only real definite way is to ask her and see her reaction :D

    • @moontecker
      @moontecker Před 6 lety +1

      some woman likes those guys who flirts.

    • @fahrudincatic7363
      @fahrudincatic7363 Před 5 lety

      50/50 shot

    • @MrDominic600
      @MrDominic600 Před 5 lety

      MERTIMER WESLEY emphasis. EMPHASIS!

  • @reflexo-pubg1571
    @reflexo-pubg1571 Před 2 lety

    This sign are given only for her special ones ??
    Or every other friends or best friend boy

  • @kingmello04crimson93
    @kingmello04crimson93 Před 3 lety +1

    I dont know about this because in my case all the signs were opposite but she really liked me

  • @78SHAFER
    @78SHAFER Před 3 lety

    What if she starts scratching her arm pits ?

  • @nlbjones7730
    @nlbjones7730 Před 5 lety +3

    If you flirt with EVERYONE in general! then you are a creep or pervert in desperate need of attention and don't realize it!!!.

  • @timnic9242
    @timnic9242 Před 6 lety +6

    I think Ashley is just flirting with me ! ;o)
    BTW I have a perfect hint whether a woman likes a man: she wants to date him more than 1 time. :o)

  • @miguelsantos84
    @miguelsantos84 Před 6 lety

    Hello, every morning I see a girl in front of a coffee shop where I go smoking because she works at a store right next to it and she looks at me but if I look at her she looks away, sometimes she is towards me but she has her arms crossed looking away, I say "good morning" to her and she replies but I have a feeling that she doesn't like being bothered or hates me, what should I do?

    • @antoniovdls7188
      @antoniovdls7188 Před 5 lety

      Miguel Santos just ignored her or keep it professional... when chicks have their arms crossed.. that is usually a bad sign..or she isnot interested..

  • @andysmith5997
    @andysmith5997 Před 5 lety +4

    Girls flirt with me a lot because I’m tall and a bit chunky , but I promise you they don’t want to date me.
    That’s because I’m an absolute bastard

  • @stevechurch2222
    @stevechurch2222 Před 4 lety

    I am always honest and sincere with a woman and still it doesn't matter I never get any dates just use to that

  • @wavyrivric5899
    @wavyrivric5899 Před 6 lety +26

    Look women ya confusing us guys can't read ya mind now just be straight forward and say what u want

    • @juicysponsor3823
      @juicysponsor3823 Před 6 lety +2

      wavyRiv Ric nka bro wtf you want the woman to do this? You as a man should be upfront about it if she doesn't agree with what ur wanting then go find someone else

    • @jimbob645
      @jimbob645 Před 4 lety

      Hell yes

  • @PoofBar
    @PoofBar Před 5 lety +1

    “Flirt with everyone”
    Me: Hey bro you have some nice eyes ;)
    Guy: Nigga is you gay?

  • @ella2411m
    @ella2411m Před 6 lety +2

    Hi Ashley. Can you do a video on alpha males? And their behavior around a girl they “may” like? I’m obviously a little confused about a certain someone. 💅🏼

    • @AshleyKayAdvice
      @AshleyKayAdvice  Před 6 lety

      Good question :) Will do.

    • @alphaimbaseter4379
      @alphaimbaseter4379 Před 6 lety +3

      EllaMi there is no such thing as an alpha male in wolf terms the alpha male is just a parent in monkeys the alpha male is the nicest not the strongest in people there is no alpha male like if your the "alpha male"at fighting but your not going to be the "alpha male" at video games or football but humans have different likes unlike animal so there is actually no such thing as an "alpha male"

    • @ella2411m
      @ella2411m Před 6 lety

      Rashad Freeman An alpha male most likely does not play video games, so yes, you are correct about that. He will have better things to do with his adult life. 😂

    • @antoniovdls7188
      @antoniovdls7188 Před 5 lety

      EllaMi i agree beautiful... i exercise a lot... gamble... socialize with chicks....cougars ... milfs.... you name it!!!!

    • @chrismcclain6518
      @chrismcclain6518 Před 2 lety

      @@ella2411m Well? Did you find the alpha?

  • @switchbladeromance1466
    @switchbladeromance1466 Před 6 lety +4

    Love your top..its cute..

  • @MRSTEEL15
    @MRSTEEL15 Před 6 lety +1

    Some girl was small talking with me on and off weekly for few months. She is about 6 ft tall I'm 6 ft 2-3.... Last week when she passed me she asks...How tall are you ? I responded.....She then said...I was thinking that?
    So did I miss an opportunity? I saw her again two days ago and she just said.....Take care have a good weekend....and just went on her way

  • @stevechurch2222
    @stevechurch2222 Před 4 lety

    done that before to no avail

  • @alphaimbaseter4379
    @alphaimbaseter4379 Před 6 lety +8

    When she said making her aware I thought she said making her wet

  • @stevemead6862
    @stevemead6862 Před 3 lety

    is this not sexual harassment if this was the other way around the man would get arrested

  • @hwd71
    @hwd71 Před 2 lety

    What if she has a partner, calls me cute and gives me her no. without asking? Is she a player or a ck teaser?

  • @GuanRytheFantastic
    @GuanRytheFantastic Před 7 lety +1

    if you leave a bad first impression, is it possible to get a second chance/make a better second impression?

    • @AshleyKayAdvice
      @AshleyKayAdvice  Před 7 lety

      Yea, sure. Might need more time to give her that better second impression. Also if you come at it like you need to impress her the second time, you may appear too desperate or needy. I would act confident, fun, non-needy. Girls like that :)

    • @AshleyKayAdvice
      @AshleyKayAdvice  Před 7 lety

      It's sounding positive. Have you tried flirting with her and seeing her reaction? If she flirts back I would go ahead and ask her out. Be casual about it, as if asking her is no big deal. Good luck ;)

    • @nobodysperfect06
      @nobodysperfect06 Před 7 lety

      Ashley Kay I'm guessing you are old-fashioned and traditional like most women are in which you feel it's the man's job to make the first move and initiate the relationship

    • @AshleyKayAdvice
      @AshleyKayAdvice  Před 7 lety +1

      Well, it depends what you mean by "make the first move". I've approached guys and made it clear I've liked them. I'm not going to chase a guy if he isn't into me, so I wait for him to ask me out once I show my interest. Also if a guy doesn't have the confidence to make a move, then I tend to lose interest in him pretty quick.

    • @nobodysperfect06
      @nobodysperfect06 Před 7 lety

      Ashley Kay interesting because most women will not approach a guy and initiate conversation with a guy first, beginning or starting the initial conversation almost always falls on the guy shoulders, so relationships are meant to be better if the man has initial interest than the woman does?

  • @albertp3721
    @albertp3721 Před 4 lety +1

    this is just some highschool - college dating tricks, most woman don't act like this. I say let women chase YOU, not the other way around

  • @vincieklund8709
    @vincieklund8709 Před 6 lety

    hi ashley
    my story is about my ex girlfriend i really followed every step into getting her back but she still ignores me i was the one who left but i want nothing more then to her get back she is chinese indonesian maybe the mentality is different but still any tips would be greatly appreciated thank u

    • @haazimmalik1133
      @haazimmalik1133 Před 6 lety

      why did you leave her 😭

    • @vincieklund8709
      @vincieklund8709 Před 6 lety

      Kat Stopper
      coz she kinda was a little crazy to much trying to control me but now that she is gone i want her back like crazy i tried the no contact rule but she still is ignoring me i even dated other women its just not the same u know its hard to let go i know she is hurt to but at least she could say something instead of mind torturing me around

  • @matthewespino8507
    @matthewespino8507 Před 7 lety +1

    Hey Ashley, you have any advice or a video on how to be friends with your ex girlfriend when you still like her.

    • @AshleyKayAdvice
      @AshleyKayAdvice  Před 7 lety +1

      Ok, noted. I'll add that to the list :)

    • @antoniovdls7188
      @antoniovdls7188 Před 5 lety +1

      You can't be friends with your ex.. impossible... especially if you still like her

  • @ryanh830
    @ryanh830 Před 6 lety

    Hey guys I'm really stupid when it comes to this but I was wondering if this girl liked me. I saw this girl across the room and she was soo pretty I couldnt stop look staring at her the whole time I went to this church bible study. Again I'm not good at this that's why I'm asking. I saw her friend next to her speak to her whispering saying something about she thought I was cute when she saw me enter the room. When I was looking at the girl the whole time she didn't look away and looked at me the whole time I was speaking. She would just nod to what I was saying. I would just address everything I was saying towards her. And she just looked back at me. Unfortunately I went to the restroom at the end of the meeting and she was gone. But oddly enough I started my first year of college and she was in my class. She actually ended up sitting right next to me. I didn't have a pencil for my test so I asked her for one but I was so unbelievably nervous to even talk to her. But she gave me one of hers and when I gave it back and just said thanks she had a really big smile on her face towards me and she touched my arm which made me even more nervous. But since I didn't say more to her Maybe a minute later I saw her look at me and eye me up and down and look away and a second later and then look back at me. But I was so nervous I didn't look back at her. Then she took off her sweatshirt and stretched her arms upward and I glanced out of the corner of my eye at her and she reput her sweatshirt back on. Guys I apologize I'm just an idiot when it comes to this but do you think she was interested in me? And if so could it have possibly have been more than just being a friend? I'm just so unbelievably nervous because she is probably one of the prettiest girls I have ever seen. She is like probably the prettiest girl in school. Again I know what im asking about may sound stupid to you guys but I really mean it and need your advice. I'm just kind of too nervous to ask her on a date to just be shut down. Thanks again!

  • @Poyop-cs3cc
    @Poyop-cs3cc Před 3 lety

    A girl asked me out lol

  • @DYLX2100
    @DYLX2100 Před 6 lety +6

    ur a rig.. but dont flirt if you're not into a guy

  • @study4388
    @study4388 Před 3 lety

    She hates me?? Yeah she want me😏

  • @bennettbeast842
    @bennettbeast842 Před 4 lety

    I'm a divorced guy younger women are attracted to, but my teeth need a lot of work. How do I handle this? Keep her laughing? Cover my mouth? Promise not to kiss her mouth?

  • @craig3714
    @craig3714 Před 4 lety

    I like to flirt also doesn't mean I necessarly want to hookup right away but hey if she cute I'll flirt 😏!

  • @bshbshb5269
    @bshbshb5269 Před 7 lety

    So this girl we go to her house but they moved it was every Thursday and her mom and my mom go way back and the first time she met we started talking with her family and mine she laughed a little and smiled I noticed she started doing this alot and her body will most of the time be towards me and we do spend time alone she sometimes fix her clothes and hair but she doesn't touch me she can't date and don't have a phone she is alot if not every time we stand of very close to each other does she like me

    • @bshbshb5269
      @bshbshb5269 Před 7 lety

      Ps she does look at me alot and we do stare at each other

    • @AshleyKayAdvice
      @AshleyKayAdvice  Před 7 lety

      I think it's a very good chance she likes you. Try a bit of flirting and see her reaction.

    • @bshbshb5269
      @bshbshb5269 Před 7 lety

      Ashley Kay ok thx

  • @daredodorm2227
    @daredodorm2227 Před 3 lety

    Women make the moves and initiate everything for chad

  • @theshipissinkingno6056
    @theshipissinkingno6056 Před 6 lety +3

    first vid ive seen of yours. maybe youre in a part of the world where flirting means something different. Flirting is not and has never been "just being social". Flirting is, most of the time, an indicator of at least some kind of attraction- even if its not to the level of wanting to pursue something. Its basically a quick admission that something is cute or kind of cute about the person. Anything other than that is simply being friendly. I do it a lot when i run into a spot to grab something to eat- If i make a joke or talk more than i need to w/ the girl who takes my order or rings me up, im prob conveying that theres something cute about her but doesnt necessarily i want her number. however, there are times when im friendly w/ one of these women but am in no way flirting

  • @edvas625
    @edvas625 Před 5 lety +1

    One time at work I was just standing there and this chick that I talk to came up to me and told me "Don't look so serious or I'll have to fart on you,"then she turned around and she perked and pointed her butt at me.Should I go for it and ask her out? By the way she does ALL these signs.

    • @antoniovdls7188
      @antoniovdls7188 Před 5 lety +1

      Eddie Vasquez bro.... what the fuck are you waiting for...she basically put her ass in your face and you still hesitating.???

    • @edvas625
      @edvas625 Před 5 lety

      @@antoniovdls7188 She's married

    • @antoniovdls7188
      @antoniovdls7188 Před 5 lety

      Eddie Vasquez bro ask her if she likes you and if she does have her divorse her husband.. that way you guys can be together... she could be your other half!! If you know what i mean???

    • @edvas625
      @edvas625 Před 5 lety

      @@antoniovdls7188 Lol,she's not gonna divorce her husband.She also has kids with him.

  • @JesusIsGod22
    @JesusIsGod22 Před 5 lety +1

    Are you flirting with me?! 🤨🤔

  • @jsaari8443
    @jsaari8443 Před 6 lety

    I'm not too sure,that this girl likes me.Although,she does laugh at most of my jokes when in a group setting.But,It is mostly me taking initiative to start the conversation going.I don't know if she likes me or thinks of me as just a friend. If anyone, can give me advice on this it would be much appriciated.

    • @knightace2002
      @knightace2002 Před 6 lety

      How long has she been doing that? Anything under a few weeks to a few months means she's not interested or is uncertain. Anything under that amount of time may be because she's shy. Gauge her reaction around other people and observe how she acts is all I can say at the moment.

  • @antoniovdls7188
    @antoniovdls7188 Před 5 lety +2

    not judging but if you are flirting with a woman... that means you might have questions on your sexuality.... us men never flirt with men..or else you will definetely will be consider gay

    • @AshleyKayAdvice
      @AshleyKayAdvice  Před 5 lety

      Just giving you a woman's perspective as women view the world differently to men. Men tend to be about dominating, winning and being "alpha" - women, in her natural feminine nature does not worry about this, she cares about relationships, being social, and being nurturing - flirting does not mean it is sexual, it's just another way of relating to another person. Women can "hold hands", "hug" or link arms with fellow female friends, doesn't mean she is a lesbian lol you may want to pay more attention to how women interact with their close female friends. Note: not ALL women are physically affectionate, just as not all men want to be "alpha".

  • @bbardy3924
    @bbardy3924 Před 4 lety +1

    lol you forgot the attention seeing female. She will give you all signs but isn't interested. she will flirt with you but also go further than that. She will suddenly get all pissed of when you take it further, but then also get pissed off when you leave her alone. I call this chick the mixed signals crazy chick. I say run away from this chick as far as you can.

  • @paulcolin-fj9ns
    @paulcolin-fj9ns Před rokem

    Women playing it cool benefits neither women or men

  • @EBUNNY2012
    @EBUNNY2012 Před 4 lety

    Rubbish. The girl who flirts a lot flirts a lot with a lot of guys. That is not a sign she likes you.

  • @valderith
    @valderith Před 5 lety

    Just be single, trust me its better. women arnt worth it.

  • @johncronin7481
    @johncronin7481 Před 4 lety

    You talk with your hands like Nancy Pelosi, you are scary