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    JESS and Stephen from Sarasota, Florida have been together for 12 years. They believe that the reason they’ve lasted for so long is because they date and sleep with other women as a couple. Two years into the relationship they decided to explore polyamory and started dating and sleeping with other partners regularly. Currently the pair are in a loving trio with Jessa and also have many other girlfriends and casual partners. Recently the couple started posting content about their poly lifestyle on social media and gathered a huge following on their TikTok account. Sadly, they’ve received a lot of backlash and negativity from sharing their unique relationship dynamic with the online world. Trolls often make the judgement that the relationship weighed more in Stephen’s favour as Jess doesn’t get with any guys. Other commentators have remarked that there must be some sort of financial arrangement to their relationship. One post that caused a huge amount of controversy was when Jess posted saying Stephen was “too cute not to have kids.” Jess may be unable to have kids and is open to Stephen having a child with another woman. Truly met up with Jess, Jessa and Stephen at their home in Florida to hear about the poly way of life, hang out by the pool at their luxurious pad and take a romantic stroll along the beach.
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  • @BanaNa-db5xf
    @BanaNa-db5xf Před 2 lety +979

    I think the most wild part of this is that they met on Myspace.

    • @melissac2230
      @melissac2230 Před 2 lety +10

      Right 😂

    • @assholecommenter7438
      @assholecommenter7438 Před 2 lety +10

      I thought they said Facebook

    • @VictoriaERav
      @VictoriaERav Před 2 lety +8

      Literally this 🤣

    • @nukaghoula
      @nukaghoula Před 2 lety +28

      I disagree, I am much more upset that the third was 15 when she was added. Nothing okay about this

    • @Blitzkrieg1976
      @Blitzkrieg1976 Před 2 lety +6

      You read my mind. I used that like, 20 years ago.

  • @lilbunny9833
    @lilbunny9833 Před 2 lety +397

    I feel like she’s pushing the idea that because she’s bisexual shes poly. I am bi and extremely monogamous! When I’m with a guy i love I’m content and when I’m with a girl i love I’m content! If u wanna sleep around thats fine but dont make it a bisexual thing people already have misconceptions about bisexuality 🤦

    • @glitterypiglet8736
      @glitterypiglet8736 Před 2 lety +12

      Exactly 👏🏼

    • @Hannah-zd2er
      @Hannah-zd2er Před 2 lety +7

      🙌🏻this

    • @ROGRAHAMMM
      @ROGRAHAMMM Před 2 lety +17

      I think she said she was bisexual & she still wanted to explore that side, & date other people, therefore her & her husband decided on poly relationships! You looked a little too deep

    • @amyvderveen
      @amyvderveen Před 2 lety +9

      @@ROGRAHAMMM I don't think they were looking too deep. All of the videos on this channel about polyamory I've seen until now, had a girl saying she's poly because she's bi or something along the lines of that.

    • @sel3059
      @sel3059 Před 2 lety +9

      yes. i'm straight so i can't fully understand how you feel but it is outrageous indeed. bisexual doesn't meen polygamous and i feel like ppl have a lot of stereotypes towards bisexual folks that are so ridiculous !

  • @Vyngraven
    @Vyngraven Před 2 lety +723

    It's all fun and games till a child is involved. That's when true colors will show, and maturity.

    • @MrsTipton
      @MrsTipton Před 2 lety +50

      Yes. Lord knows it tries the hell out of any “normal” couple. The one that doesn’t have the baby will end up feeling some type of way I would imagine.

    • @BlackGirlLovesAnime6
      @BlackGirlLovesAnime6 Před 2 lety +56

      @@MrsTipton exactly, people like to pretend like they’re ok with this but the one who doesn’t get the most attention will be the most jealous. And the child will be raised in so much dysfunction

    • @bigchris205
      @bigchris205 Před 2 lety +4

      you got that right

    • @brokenegg4753
      @brokenegg4753 Před 2 lety +2

      Fully agree!

    • @felipebleichvel6823
      @felipebleichvel6823 Před 2 lety +5

      @@MrsTipton you're projecting from inside.
      I mean, how you would react. But you are not the rule. Neither me.

  • @khalilahd.
    @khalilahd. Před 2 lety +286

    I think if you’re open and honest and your partner is okay with it then there’s nothing anyone can say. Personally this isn’t for me but if they’re happy they’re happy I guess 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @YourOwnDa
      @YourOwnDa Před 2 lety +16

      They’re happy… for now…

    • @toronto75x37
      @toronto75x37 Před 2 lety +1

      Which is why I said, “It’s not like they’re exactly getting along.”

    • @blacksavage6255
      @blacksavage6255 Před 2 lety +3

      Your dad ain't that the truth

    • @snoopysrc
      @snoopysrc Před 2 lety

      Khalilah D you into women if you are let me know I am looking for a woman to join me and my partner

    • @toronto75x37
      @toronto75x37 Před 2 lety

      @@blacksavage6255, for real.

  • @elinaanagnostakou2788
    @elinaanagnostakou2788 Před 2 lety +113

    I am very egotistic to understand this type of lifestyle.I'd rather be on my own instead of living like they do.

    • @thecybercookie9424
      @thecybercookie9424 Před 2 lety +18

      I honestly agree with you, i can't even stand to be in a relationship with 1 person let alone two, tbh i don't know how someone can live like this -_-

    • @carolinammajp11
      @carolinammajp11 Před 2 lety +2

      SAME HERE I WOULD HAVE RUN AWAY

    • @griselgriselda2901
      @griselgriselda2901 Před 2 lety

      He’s only able to date many girls because she’s in the relationship. He wouldn’t be able to do this without money, compatible main girl, or good looks. He’s only got the main girl introducing him to new girls. She’s the wingman. A bisexual one.

  • @Emily-ck9ji
    @Emily-ck9ji Před 2 lety +514

    These videos make me glad to be asexual. I can't imagine the stress of having to defend your relationship all day, every day. Don't get me wrong, if it works for you - good for you. I'm not here to yuck your yum. But I don't know if these kinds of relationships can build a strong enough foundation to create a stable life together. Especially when you bring children into the mix. I wish them luck.

    • @movieedge7370
      @movieedge7370 Před 2 lety +43

      Oh if anything they’re gonna screw up children bringing them into that situation. Some people should never ever have kids.

    • @Spiritbubz
      @Spiritbubz Před 2 lety +32

      Oh they absolutely can. Some poly families with multiple different mothers of many children, coparenting, is more stable then your average family in our society

    • @Spiritbubz
      @Spiritbubz Před 2 lety +12

      I'm not poly at all but please watch sister wives bc they have a very stable family foundation and very stable happy children. Nothing toxic about a poly family if they are doing it for the right reasons.

    • @Emily-ck9ji
      @Emily-ck9ji Před 2 lety +54

      @@Spiritbubz Uh ... The sister wives where everyone is getting divorced, is discussing the trauma of their relationships, the wives are miserable, and the kids are fleeing the second they're old enough?

    • @lindsay6343
      @lindsay6343 Před 2 lety +22

      @@Emily-ck9ji lmao!! Yes

  • @harrybalzahk
    @harrybalzahk Před 2 lety +226

    truly is so quick to call the backlash they get as “hate”

    • @M-X39462
      @M-X39462 Před rokem +1

      Well what is it then? Lol

  • @Yeahthatshowifeel
    @Yeahthatshowifeel Před 2 lety +78

    Kinda icky I mean they aren’t only dating just them three they are also dating others outside of this “ relationship” can we say std alert🤢🤮

    • @movieedge7370
      @movieedge7370 Před 2 lety +1

      I agree STD alert Covid alert and many other diseases alert. Then they wanna bring children in the world those children should be taken away from them if they have any. Three unresponsible people need to get mental evaluation’s

    • @Yeahthatshowifeel
      @Yeahthatshowifeel Před 2 lety +16

      Yes I hope no children grow up in such a messed up environment.

    • @imamountainheadtoo
      @imamountainheadtoo Před 2 lety

      Judgemental much? Just because they're in a poly relationship doesn't mean they aren't practicing safe sex and getting STIs left and right.

    • @carolinammajp11
      @carolinammajp11 Před 2 lety

      STD AIDS SPREADING NOT A FAMILY UNIT WITH EXCLUSIVE SEXUAL RIGHT AN OPEN RELATIONSHIP WITH OTHER PARTNERS FOR SURE.

    • @erinnicole477
      @erinnicole477 Před 4 měsíci

      My thoughts exactly.

  • @FirstNameLastName000
    @FirstNameLastName000 Před 2 lety +230

    These never end well

    • @ec9833
      @ec9833 Před 2 lety +17

      Go do better research. This has gone on for as long as humans have been around and there are plenty of poly relationships that stand the test of time. Most everyone is designed for love and community & that occurs in innumerable ways…don’t think because you’ve seen something end that that’s everyone out there. That’s incredibly naïve. Pls, there are agendas in the world. Certain ppl judging others really want the majority to think certain ways, just to shape the entire world the way they want to see it. And humans are incredibly easily conditioned in their thinking. Incredibly easily conditioned. You gotta be aware of your biases, most of which you did not build on your own & dare to educate yourself despite the discomfort of finding out how much you’ve gotten wrong. End of day, most humans do not know as much as they think they do.

    • @sharimagnetti3257
      @sharimagnetti3257 Před 2 lety +20

      They are 13/4 years in that's more successful than most 50% of marriages dont even reach their first anniversary

    • @SherrickDuncan
      @SherrickDuncan Před 2 lety +6

      These what? Marriages to women in America? Correct. Whether Polygyny or Monogamy. 💁🏾‍♂️😅

    • @kinseydawn2920
      @kinseydawn2920 Před 2 lety +7

      and thr majority of monogamous relationships don't work out either. who cares. they can enjoy it while it does or doesn't last.

    • @sarcodonblue2876
      @sarcodonblue2876 Před 2 lety +1

      Bringing children into this brings complications and can traumatize them.

  • @gaill7908
    @gaill7908 Před 2 lety +124

    Please don’t bring a child into this hot mess. 🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @kayleigh3648
      @kayleigh3648 Před 2 lety +12

      Right?!!? And if she breaks up with either one of them, the gf and her husband will still have the child together so she will go back to being childless! Well, I guess if she keeps the hub she’ll still be a stepmom, but what are the odds of any of them actually lasting in the long run? I’m not saying it’s impossible, but I’ve never seen a throuple last any longer than a few months. I think ppl do it cuz they wanna spice up their relationship and having another person in the home makes things more ‘fun’ and exciting, but after a while they’ll be back to square one. I know I’m gonna get a bunch of stupid troll responses from this comment, but I just had to say it!! Lol.

    • @ginb981
      @ginb981 Před 2 lety

      Whyyyy not?

    • @drdoofenshmirtz7620
      @drdoofenshmirtz7620 Před 2 lety

      @@ginb981 you wouldn't get it because you're part of the problem you 🤡

    • @gaill7908
      @gaill7908 Před 2 lety +1

      @@kayleigh3648 totally agree!

  • @DaG.O.A.T.
    @DaG.O.A.T. Před 2 lety +36

    this group is doomed ...it will not last ...watch

  • @milknhxney
    @milknhxney Před 2 lety +10

    I’d like to think these types of relationships don’t last long… it tends to lead to competition and jealousy.

  • @GamingMonkeySquad
    @GamingMonkeySquad Před 2 lety +86

    I have zero idea how anyone could do this, a relationship with one person is so much investment, all the power to them but I feel like this would be draining

    • @kingrobthegreat7446
      @kingrobthegreat7446 Před 6 měsíci

      i think it can work. women are addcited to drama and dopamine. men cant always give them that high. this is the new wave. this will feed her addiction and have her still stay true to her man

    • @GamingMonkeySquad
      @GamingMonkeySquad Před 6 měsíci +1

      @@kingrobthegreat7446 alright sure, women will have it set. How the hell is the man supposed to afford these two women to begin with. Girls are expensive

    • @kingrobthegreat7446
      @kingrobthegreat7446 Před 6 měsíci

      @@GamingMonkeySquad By pimping them out on onlyfans, which is what they are doing in real life

    • @kingrobthegreat7446
      @kingrobthegreat7446 Před 6 měsíci

      @@GamingMonkeySquad Just hear me out. There was a stidy done long ago that all humans love dopeamine. Which is why texting rues the world b/c it gives ppl a hit of dope.
      This guy broke the code. He gives his gf all the attn, lets her have attn on onlyfans and lets her have a gf who gives her even more attn. All of these are hits of dopamine.
      Charles Manson did the same thing in his time. He was cinsudered an excellent pimp. He was a terrible person imo. But the paralles are there. Thats why an person like him got all the women. And a guy like this gets 2 girls.--its bc he has the dope--in the form of dopamine.

  • @sweetLemonist
    @sweetLemonist Před 2 lety +12

    Does anyone know of a poly relationship that lasted 30-40 years, till they grew old together?? Anyone?
    Don't try to sell this temporary lust as love. Please

    • @dollsNcats
      @dollsNcats Před 2 lety

      Yes most FLDS people 🤣🤣🤣

    • @griselgriselda2901
      @griselgriselda2901 Před 2 lety

      Yessir

    • @sweetLemonist
      @sweetLemonist Před 2 lety

      @@dollsNcats they're a religious cult. I really wouldn't count them in with the rest of us. I mean ppl that somewhat have a free choice...

  • @bronxkies
    @bronxkies Před 2 lety +60

    Oh, help us all.

  • @Oliverrrrr82
    @Oliverrrrr82 Před rokem +13

    I think that it’s cool that they’re all happy together, I may not understand poly relationships as much, but they look happy so no harm in that.

  • @spicykola4301
    @spicykola4301 Před rokem +7

    The people that say they're "in love" are truly delusional.

  • @yudonna
    @yudonna Před 2 lety +90

    Jealousy is a real thing. Is as primal a feeling as love and hate. Just saying ...

    • @originalblob
      @originalblob Před rokem

      No, it isn't. There is fear of abandonment but that is Not specific to romantic relationships.

  • @SHELLEE91
    @SHELLEE91 Před 2 lety +28

    Reminds me of the std charts from high school if your sleeping with 5 people and they are sleeping with 5 so on and so forth it’s like 31 people your exposed to

    • @breerivera8865
      @breerivera8865 Před 2 lety +4

      Ik right gross

    • @SHELLEE91
      @SHELLEE91 Před 2 lety +3

      @e tl it’s from a chart google it or I would have inserted a picture I know how to count

  • @lovewins6319
    @lovewins6319 Před 2 lety +63

    It's gross & will end in disaster

  • @sadalien9049
    @sadalien9049 Před 2 lety +112

    A throuple is actually my ideal situation. Plus, it raises the chances I'll be able to be a stay-at-home parent. 🤣

  • @shevonnemoffat9960
    @shevonnemoffat9960 Před 2 lety +44

    I was OK until they said they date other people as well

  • @LovePatchSour
    @LovePatchSour Před 2 lety +75

    Probably in the minority opinion but, good for them honestly. I could never be in a relationship like this but if other people can, why should I hate? The comments saying "they're doomed" or "these situations never work" etc are forgetting that most relationships, monogamous or not, don't last. These people (the blonde girl and the guy) have been doing this together for THIRTEEN YEARS! That's a long time and no one can deny that. If it was doomed to fail it would have way earlier. Clearly they're doing something right that works well for them. I wish them more years of love and happiness together.

    • @cirruscries
      @cirruscries Před 2 lety +7

      That’s what I’m thinking too! Like they honestly seem really happy and their communication seems honestly great. They knew what they wanted when they began dating each other and the fact that they both discussed that they should both be interested in the woman is very considerate of each other so one of them wouldn’t feel left out or jealous. Good on them. They seem to have a healthier relationship than most monogamous couples and im saying this as someone who is pretty iffy of the idea. I hope they have a great life together.

    • @meganchapa7615
      @meganchapa7615 Před rokem

      Totally agree! I'm not ploy myself but if it works for them then it works for them, so I see no reason to hate.

  • @webbie1891
    @webbie1891 Před 2 lety +27

    Someone will go missing in 2-3 years

  • @Nivek0
    @Nivek0 Před 2 lety +57

    i got no problem with people doing w.e they want but bringing a child into such a mess of a relationship is not ok.

    • @somb8434
      @somb8434 Před 2 lety +7

      I agree. Hookup with as many people as you like etc but don't include children into something like this. They will be the ones that will truly suffer.

    • @vexnightmare8166
      @vexnightmare8166 Před 2 lety +1

      looks a whole lot better than a lot of "normal" relationships I've seen

  • @nukaghoula
    @nukaghoula Před 2 lety +30

    Okay so I checked jessas socials. She is 19 now... So they started dating her when she was... 15?

    • @nukaghoula
      @nukaghoula Před 2 lety +15

      Truly really be out here yet again normalising gr,o,o,Mers. And they know what they're doing, notice how they blurred her face in the tik toks?
      Smh. Do better, truly.

    • @micahstealyogirlbell8010
      @micahstealyogirlbell8010 Před 2 lety +1

      Humanity needs shot

    • @Ninja-qf6te
      @Ninja-qf6te Před 2 lety +18

      Really?and the other two have been dating 12 years, so from when Jessa was 7!! They must b at least in their early 30s..... I know Jessa is an adult now but it still doesn’t sit right a 30 something married couple dating a teenager...

    • @nukaghoula
      @nukaghoula Před 2 lety +3

      Like this just gives poly people a bad name. They could use any of the many happy poly couples who haven't gr,O,,o,m,. Ed anyone but nope here we are

    • @micahstealyogirlbell8010
      @micahstealyogirlbell8010 Před 2 lety +2

      @@nukaghoula I’m assuming it’s for views but the situation is way too creepy

  • @bennett2760
    @bennett2760 Před 2 lety +26

    'I shot him down pretty quick but then I found out he had money'

  • @pokelover223
    @pokelover223 Před 2 lety +7

    Why is it that you guys upload mww relationship, but never mmw? Lol (maybe I did miss some, or are u guys just uploading mww)

    • @cooldude5608
      @cooldude5608 Před 2 lety

      They do just search them up and eventually you’ll find them your welcome!

  • @faditemim
    @faditemim Před 2 lety +27

    Some ppl make this world a W.E.I.R.D place ..

    • @thecybercookie9424
      @thecybercookie9424 Před 2 lety +4

      I watched this video and now i can't unsee it, now i feel weird lol

  • @amaza888
    @amaza888 Před 2 lety +35

    I don't mind their relationship status. I mind how shallow and superficial and dumb they seem to be.
    Oh - and girls, you can do better. Seriously. 🤦‍♀️

    • @alexisray202
      @alexisray202 Před 2 lety +1

      Can you explain why you think they seem to be like that?

    • @78vette11
      @78vette11 Před 2 lety +6

      IKR. This is so corny

    • @amaza888
      @amaza888 Před 2 lety +8

      @@alexisray202 They SEEM (now, I don't know them, I could be wrong) to have very little vocabulary, very little interests beside themselves, and their overall demeanor is teenage-like, not to mention that they seem to be influencers. Which is often a sign of shallowness, in my opinion.

    • @thecybercookie9424
      @thecybercookie9424 Před 2 lety +2

      @@amaza888 i agree, the tension between them is real, looks like a toxic relationship to me

    • @AngelRivera-mc8zc
      @AngelRivera-mc8zc Před 2 lety +1

      Why do you say that the girls can do better? It was the girl’s idea to get herself a girlfriend and still have the guy. The girl isn’t the victim at all lol

  • @charmingheartphotography6758

    I think theyre super cute. They have an honest, open, genuine relationship and have great communication skills and acceptance of each other completely. If monogamy was for everyone there wouldnt be such high cheating and divorce rates...theyve been together for 13 years and started pursuing poly 2 years in...thats longer than 99% of the judgemental commenters relationships so please quit saying theyre doomed..they seem super happy to me.

    • @princessgolden
      @princessgolden Před 2 lety +2

      Yeppp, I keep telling ppl that. I wasnt married or anything. Been with a great guy for 5 years plus.

  • @evette2867
    @evette2867 Před 2 lety +12

    Enjoy Life & Stay Happy Y'all 🖤💕

  • @mjoverocker6072
    @mjoverocker6072 Před 2 lety +21

    If you put it on the internet of course people are gonna judge you

  • @dingo1666
    @dingo1666 Před 2 lety +90

    I couldn't care less what these instant gratification people do in their lives. However if they plant it all over the internet and basically say 'we are so beautiful and loving and this is the way to go and we don't like being criticised...', that's when I feel I should share my life experience and tell them that 100% they won't be together forever and be happy. Poor baby they would bring into this. They are doing it for the sole reasons of horniness, and greed, looks, and internet fame. Otherwise they would just get on with it and feel no need to publicise their every move. Sad really. Not watching this crap either. Please feel judged by me!

    • @glenbarratt1257
      @glenbarratt1257 Před 2 lety +15

      Considering the original couple has stayed together for 13 years, married for 12, and dated bi women for almost 12 years: we have to recognize that they have lasted much longer than the average of heterosexual marriages (about 8 years). I have been in a heterosexual marriage myself for almost 20 years and have no desire to change that, but I respect the fact that the poly couple's marriage has lasted longer than most marriages.

    • @cheezkake6334
      @cheezkake6334 Před 2 lety +7

      They are publicizing it to let people know its normal and shouldnt be judged.

    • @shawnchristianmontgomery3714
      @shawnchristianmontgomery3714 Před 2 lety +10

      You wouldn't tell a straight person to stop publizing their relashionship would you?

    • @ginb981
      @ginb981 Před 2 lety

      😭😭 NO

    • @RPKD88
      @RPKD88 Před 2 lety +2

      @@glenbarratt1257 where are you getting that 8 years figure from?

  • @Eva_H
    @Eva_H Před 2 lety +38

    Stephen looks like a 10-15 year younger version of Dave Filoni
    Who are we to play judge and jury about how an individual or individuals live their lives, they’re not hurting anyone.
    Who we choose to love and how we choose to love them is nobody‘s business but the people that it involves.
    All the best to this throuple.

    • @maxlouden1263
      @maxlouden1263 Před 2 lety +1

      Now that I read this comment I definitely see the Dave Filoni bit 😆😆

    • @Eva_H
      @Eva_H Před 2 lety +1

      @@maxlouden1263 it’s all in the mouth 😜😂🤣😜

  • @aikat3rine
    @aikat3rine Před rokem +1

    The notion that we will find one partner who is perfect for us in every sense of the word asks the absolute unreasonable and unrealistic of both parties. It asks the spouse to remain the same person they were when you met in order to be perfect for their partner. It asks the spouse to never experience their own growth as a person because that might lead to their lessening of feelings towards their partner or to enjoyment of someone else outside the partnership, regardless of whether or not anything romantic or physical happens between them. It asks the self to never deviate on what you think is perfect, leading to your own stunted experience in life. Even in the most turbulent, painful, controlling relationships, there is this foundation of promise and expectation that traps people into a way of living that does not work to bring satisfaction to the self or the partner, because the foundation that they are not doing what it is you would like them to do--ergo not being perfect--is still affected. Demanding love to you and only you is based in insecurity that you are not perfect, because perfection is decided by your partner's viewpoint of you and how it is that they are percieving you. if you and only you are not wholely loved and adored, it means you are wrong, and full of shortcomings that need to be addressed in order to fall back into the parameters of single adoration. This means that if you are in a relationship with someone even slightly absuive or manipulative, you are liable to experience partnership with someone who will define what is perfect behavior, thought, and love from you and will expect that, otherwise you are inherently imperfect and a disappointment not only to them but to the promise you made to both of you to never deviate on what you decided was perfect maybe even decades ago. Let's not forget that marriage and partnership once upon a time--and really not even all that long ago, let alone the fact that marriage in places of the world continues to be such--was a financial brokerage deal serving to exploit children for the benefit of the family image and lineage. There is no such thing as a perfect partner, yet everyone is perfect, therefore we should not be asking our partners to use our definition of perfection to decide how it is they will live their own lives. How many hours do couple spend argueing over if they are a perfect match and how the other one can be better suited to perfection in the relationship, when just the acceptance that your partner might develop closeness with someone outside the relationship would allow the freedom needed for self love, growth, enjoyment, and devotion to the relationship that is not based in fear and control. Whether or not you decide to become any sort of poly or open in your relationship, the allowance of your partner to be themselves is what most people would define as true love--loving your partner for exactly who they are.

    • @loturzelrestaurant
      @loturzelrestaurant Před rokem

      No, its not.
      If anything, its kinda transparent to me; an Outsider; that the internet preys on your Insecurities right-now.
      Your comment is R/Confidentlyincorrect and speaks of yet-another Marketing-Strategy these weirdos did.
      In Reality, its NOT unrealistic at all, haha, to be ok with 1 partnet.

    • @loturzelrestaurant
      @loturzelrestaurant Před rokem

      Im sorry but everything you just said is wrong and literally just given to
      you by random internet-myths.
      NOW, Monogamy of all things is 'unrealistic'? Hahahaha.

  • @cathyohlhausen6796
    @cathyohlhausen6796 Před 2 lety +3

    Thank god I’m normal I’d hate sharing a man and certainly wouldn’t want a female . But if it works for you great . Think very hard before having a kid and bringing them into some weird family think of what the kid will endure ? It’s not fair to the kid

  • @charlenesearlesrod5
    @charlenesearlesrod5 Před 2 lety +3

    The pigtails as a grown woman is the only thing getting to me lol like pigtails with glitter I did in Jr high I mean 🤷‍♀️ hakuna matata

  • @naxel37
    @naxel37 Před 2 lety +5

    Im sure money plays a big part. Just look at the home.

  • @jesteralfonso8409
    @jesteralfonso8409 Před 2 lety +6

    Well it's their life their choice! And if they don't disturb or hurt anyone and they happy let them be.

  • @shazzye5920
    @shazzye5920 Před 2 lety +41

    Personally I don’t think it’s anyone’s business what you do with your personal life…do what makes you happy. When it comes to having kid as a throuple, for the love of god, get a lawyer involved, you MUST protect that kid…relationships change.

    • @michelecarter5599
      @michelecarter5599 Před 2 lety +1

      What if killing people makes you happy. Is that ok too?

    • @elliedavidow9364
      @elliedavidow9364 Před 2 lety

      THIS I 1000000% agree!! There’s too much stuff that shows how badly it effects kids. Just look at the sister wives or people who escaped cults where they are all poly no one ever gets enough attention. People are always left out or feel they don’t belong because of jealous. Or the fact there is always someone who is the favorite. And if you choose to live you’re life that way so be it. But don’t get kids involved because they are the ones who truly get hurt and damaged from it:/

    • @tinyspyro8163
      @tinyspyro8163 Před 2 lety

      @@elliedavidow9364 Polyamory is NOT the same thing as polygamy! They are very different situations.
      Nevertheless, I agree that hashing things out legally is an excellent idea.

  • @marcellix
    @marcellix Před 2 lety +17

    How much $ does he have? This is the mystery question? 🐸

  • @LadyInner24
    @LadyInner24 Před 2 lety +21

    “When Karen sees our videos…” This made me cackle 🤣🤣🤣

  • @meganchapa7615
    @meganchapa7615 Před 2 lety +1

    I would never but if they're happy, no reason to hate! I'm happy 4 these 3.

  • @61raindrops
    @61raindrops Před 2 lety +10

    How does this work financially? Like, if one of them wants to spend money and the other wants to save for the kid’s education.

    • @carolinammajp11
      @carolinammajp11 Před 2 lety

      IF WOMEN DON´T WORK MAN WILL BE DRAINED SOON, BETTER 2 HUSBANDS AND 2 SALARIES.

  • @GALAXIE262
    @GALAXIE262 Před 2 lety +4

    Jess and Jessa? I bet that never gets confusing....lol

  • @thepickledfish3631
    @thepickledfish3631 Před 2 lety +15

    Nope, he's got to have a ton of money 💰.

    • @AngelRivera-mc8zc
      @AngelRivera-mc8zc Před 2 lety +1

      Lol. How? His wife was the one who wanted a girlfriend, not the guy.

  • @micahstealyogirlbell8010
    @micahstealyogirlbell8010 Před 2 lety +31

    Welcome back to Love may not judge, but we damn well do: ashamed of humanity edition

  • @SVAsianPhilippinesGo6858
    @SVAsianPhilippinesGo6858 Před 2 lety +8

    Wow she's been married for 12 years (the white girl?). Was she 18 when she got married??! She looks 28. Both look young.

  • @VeyselZPlanet10
    @VeyselZPlanet10 Před 2 lety +2

    This Guy is literally every Anime Harem Main Character... So stuff like that is real

  • @papillonnoir3747
    @papillonnoir3747 Před 2 lety +5

    The blonde is the real winner in this. Entitled to all his assets without having to give him a kid 😄😄

    • @griselgriselda2901
      @griselgriselda2901 Před 2 lety

      Lol I mean that’s one way and she’s probably cheating too.

  • @EmotionlessTornado
    @EmotionlessTornado Před 2 lety +73

    I mean hey, as long as it works out good, good for them! I'm in total support. One of my best friends is polyamorous too and is currently in a pretty healthy relationship with two people as well. I think it should be totally ok. It's not MY thing personally, but I love seeing others happy. : )

  • @SarahJeanCole
    @SarahJeanCole Před 2 lety +1

    He thinks he's the mack daddy lol. Love from Michigan ❤️

  • @leannehutchinson1078
    @leannehutchinson1078 Před rokem

    As long as your all happy, healthy and safe. Be happy. Best wishes from Sydney Australia!!..❤️💋❤️

  • @MissKealoha
    @MissKealoha Před 2 lety +1

    In the thumbnail photo, did anyone else think the blonde is trying to look like "Baby Spice" from the Spice Girls?!

  • @shivam_nagar69
    @shivam_nagar69 Před 2 lety +3

    A pure Netflix series...

  • @russelhopkins545
    @russelhopkins545 Před rokem

    Nice ! ” get down a get dirrrrtttyyy”

  • @krystalmarie33281
    @krystalmarie33281 Před 2 lety +36

    This lifestyle is clearly just an excuse to be sexually permiscuous. It's sad and disgusting although the honesty part is good.

    • @lauraann7027
      @lauraann7027 Před 2 lety +7

      It sucks. I feel like people don’t want to be in monogamous relationships anymore.

    • @CL-ew7wh
      @CL-ew7wh Před 2 lety +3

      As a straight man I could never date two women at once and threesomes are a massive turn off. Im also not into bisexual women

    • @cooldude5608
      @cooldude5608 Před 2 lety

      Who cares if you don’t like it then don’t watch the video your hatred doesn’t help anyways. It’s really sad that people don’t accept others for who they are y’all shall be ashamed of yourselves.

  • @JennWatson
    @JennWatson Před 2 lety +15

    Leave children out of this please

  • @LAVirgo67
    @LAVirgo67 Před 2 lety

    Poly is not for everyone. You have to be extremely honest & sincere. Can you raise kids in it? Yes! It can be done, but know that it is different.

  • @lindsay6343
    @lindsay6343 Před 2 lety +1

    Okay I got confused there somewhere I thought they were all together but then they said something about dating still what is the point of all of them being together if they're still out dating

  • @cosmokramer179
    @cosmokramer179 Před 2 lety +1

    Can we please stop trying to normalize this? I can understand being busy, but have more than one relationship is nothing but disastrous

  • @huskysama9240
    @huskysama9240 Před 2 lety

    Bro is living the life

  • @hammerbro2125
    @hammerbro2125 Před rokem +1

    SO let me "understand" this. He can have a "relationship" with BOTH of these girls, and, i can't even find one [1] to date....
    Sounds about right.

    • @nenmaster5218
      @nenmaster5218 Před rokem

      Name-rebranding Harems is a giant Middlefinger to All throughout History who suffered through it. The Idea that Consent and Politeness turn something so herrendous into something Cute is a typical 'Western'-Moment.

    • @hammerbro2125
      @hammerbro2125 Před rokem

      @@nenmaster5218 Not sure what you're saying but okay

  • @uditraj46
    @uditraj46 Před 2 lety +1

    Even India has one couple (or triple, I don’t know what to call it) and they also get the same or more hate as there are people who make roast video as it is an even more of an controversial issue there

  • @EllicottCity1
    @EllicottCity1 Před 2 lety

    He looks like a True Value version of Mike from Jersey Shore🥴😆

  • @candidelarose
    @candidelarose Před 2 lety +2

    This looks like a Snapped episode waiting to happen

  • @nigelnigelakiraakira
    @nigelnigelakiraakira Před 2 lety +1

    Can we get an update video for when this fails? I hope the universe doesn't let them bring a child into this degeneracy.

  • @praxym9293
    @praxym9293 Před rokem +6

    The problem is people don't take love seriously. Its just the animal in between the legs they want to satisfy..STIs everywhere

  • @jeyenasumi
    @jeyenasumi Před rokem +1

    Who in the world will not get jealous of the other partner? bro

  • @theworldsdaddy9014
    @theworldsdaddy9014 Před 2 lety +1

    Can humanity just hit the reset button please 😑😂

  • @gwhite7136
    @gwhite7136 Před 2 lety +15

    " I don't know what the future holds but I hope its with these two". If you are confident about your relationship with them, there is no reason to think you wouldn't be together, unless with this statement you are already have a planted seed of doubt. Long term poly relationships are very rare and almost never are exclusive life long. It is human nature for women at some point to want to the main focus. It's been my experience that a 4 person poly has the best chance of long term because each individual has another partner and that is the balance.

  • @mikelessard7492
    @mikelessard7492 Před 2 lety +1

    Hes got dad bod in advance 😂

  • @user-bn7wt7fx6c
    @user-bn7wt7fx6c Před rokem

    I suggest a simple change, which is to convert the phrase (love does not judge) into ( lust that judges)

  • @KittyNyce
    @KittyNyce Před 2 lety +2

    Living the dream! I'm so jelly and I love this for them so much xox

  • @nancybeingnancy3081
    @nancybeingnancy3081 Před 2 lety +1

    ooof Jess ..Keep one eye open when you go to sleep. I see Jess @1:45, pushed into the damn shallow end stair’s

  • @roguelove807
    @roguelove807 Před 2 lety

    The blonde girl reminds me of Cher from Clueless. I love the vibe

  • @miley5422
    @miley5422 Před 2 lety

    I support and all but I would never think of this cos it could end in many bad ways like the ones who originally got together first have a fight cos of it then their relationship goes

  • @johnathanhouston2893
    @johnathanhouston2893 Před 2 lety +2

    Those who judge might not understand Jess and Stephen because they have antiquated view of monogamy traditional monogamy is between two person's but it might not fit everyone so everyone tries to find a way to live the way they want to live so if Jess and Stephen find joy in polyamorous relationship who are we to judge

    • @carolinammajp11
      @carolinammajp11 Před 2 lety

      MONOGAMY IS THE IDEAL COUPLING MADE BY GOD NOT POLYGAMY IF NOT WOULD HAVE BEEN EVE SHANON AND ADAM NOT ADAM AND EVE.

    • @johnathanhouston2893
      @johnathanhouston2893 Před 2 lety

      @@carolinammajp11 all due respect if you don't like what they're doing don't watch

  • @TechXSoftware
    @TechXSoftware Před 2 lety +1

    MySpace? I think this is the most controversial part of the video

  • @zenclicks4480
    @zenclicks4480 Před rokem

    This is Sooooooo cool!!!!!!!!!! I love being alive 😍 in this time!.

  • @maskedcreations7040
    @maskedcreations7040 Před 2 lety +6

    It doesn't make sense that it's not "okay" for them to date other men. However it's "okay" to date other women. Plus once he has a baby with another woman he's going to care for her and their baby more than anyone else most likely. Ever thought of that? I mean you ladies are just objects to him but he will have his favorite because of making a baby with her.

    • @j.3779
      @j.3779 Před 2 lety +3

      Exactly. Huge mistake. Wife will find out later

    • @breerivera8865
      @breerivera8865 Před 2 lety +1

      Exactly

    • @cooldude5608
      @cooldude5608 Před 2 lety

      Did you paid attention to the video it was the blonde girl that wanted the girl and not the guy the blonde girl stated he didn’t want another man. Watch another video there is man and woman dating another man in a polyamory relationship y’all take stuff seriously.

  • @sarcodonblue2876
    @sarcodonblue2876 Před 2 lety +1

    They have to be exhibitionists to "normalize" poly relationships. Sounds more like narcissism and boarder line personality disorder needing supply and attention.

  • @ginamarieandfamily3965

    Love ❤️ your videos You deserve happiness Haters are just very jealous and have no life. They probably single. Congrats on your baby boy Will be here before you know it. I’m bisexual and wish I can get my man like Steve.

    • @slevinchannel7589
      @slevinchannel7589 Před rokem

      :) Im inclusive and have alwas been and i calll them 'Perve-ts'.

  • @bgt2848
    @bgt2848 Před 17 dny

    Honestly, if they are consenting adults, or not hurting anyone treat each other with respect and genuine love good for them

  • @christmasbaby6651
    @christmasbaby6651 Před 2 lety +2

    He seems more into the Asian chick

  • @michelleross5950
    @michelleross5950 Před 2 lety +5

    This is how STD's are spread! Why get married if you are gonna just open your legs for everyone???? I mean more power to ya and sleep with whoever you want but why disrespect your marriage vows?

  • @hughmungous775
    @hughmungous775 Před 2 lety +7

    I don't see the problem. They all three seem to be happy together. Doesn't appear to be one of those relationships where one of the partners is straying so the other one just goes along with it. Probably actually was a mutual thing and if it makes them all happy then who cares. Definitely not my thing, but they're all adults and not hurting anyone.

    • @nukaghoula
      @nukaghoula Před 2 lety +6

      Problem is they weren't all adults, the third was only 15 when they added her so there's a lot wrong with it

  • @oxygen9284
    @oxygen9284 Před 2 lety +1

    Oh God, where are we going 🤦‍♀️😢

  • @Alex-wd7qx
    @Alex-wd7qx Před rokem

    Jealousy:
    Are u serious right niow 💀

  • @jbaby007
    @jbaby007 Před 2 lety +2

    I think it's interesting seeing what the men look like. There's a lid for every pot.

    • @bbb_888
      @bbb_888 Před 2 lety +2

      You mean there's a joint for every pot ;)

  • @abdoufelghorba8756
    @abdoufelghorba8756 Před 2 lety +7

    Yeeeeeeeeh , i show this video to my wife , now im Homeless 🤣

  • @poisonedlullaby1335
    @poisonedlullaby1335 Před 2 lety +13

    Honestly, they are proof it can work for people. Do your thing. I don't care. Just be happy.

    • @poisonedlullaby1335
      @poisonedlullaby1335 Před 2 lety +3

      @Worst Case Scenario I'm not sure what that means. Im not going to invest my time in stalking them to give you an answer. Kinda creepy request.

    • @BEVERLYPRINCESS90210
      @BEVERLYPRINCESS90210 Před 2 lety +2

      If they can make me a sandwich ild love to be in his shoes

  • @roydicko4029
    @roydicko4029 Před 2 lety +18

    Such a beautiful team as one, very wholesome

  • @leefrancis007
    @leefrancis007 Před rokem +1

    I feel like I need a shower

  • @dieselpreetsingh9544
    @dieselpreetsingh9544 Před 2 lety +2

    Xi Xingping would be so happy when he would monitor Tik Tok from China and think that he doesn't need to invest any money for bringing America down. 🤣
    You guys are already Collapsing .😂

  • @Crystal-ln5bu
    @Crystal-ln5bu Před 2 lety +11

    I bet there isn’t a GED between the 3 of them.
    I love the way they left “actrually” in there when they edited it.

  • @jackmarlow4178
    @jackmarlow4178 Před 2 lety

    blonde be barbie and red be fairy. dont touch my girls or u might get a 👀👀🤣👀🤣👀🤭

  • @perfectionsters1883
    @perfectionsters1883 Před 2 lety

    1:45 the inner thoughts of Jessa: “DROWN YOU SMELLY BUTTOCKS CHEEKS, THAT MAN IS MINE”

  • @ShadowStarlight
    @ShadowStarlight Před 2 lety +6

    This is only fun for the now.. someone will get tired of someone eventually. A good way to keep STDS circulating too.