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And in terms of knowing somebody’s character and conduct for marriage, nobody really knows what that person is like in private anyway, there are so many people out on the surface in the community that you would think are so great and they treat people privately like dirt when they can get away with it if it’s someone alone, who doesn’t have their own army to stand up for them, they treat them like garbage, and their people Who externally you wouldn’t think were anything to write home about, but when it comes down to it privately, they treat people very, very well,
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I don’t know that not yelling is an answer because then the opposite of that just takes you into those type of situations where you have those super ultra passive aggressive people who sit there and plot and strategize behind your back and take advantage in a covert type of way, I actually think just getting in the room and everybody just really letting things out at a certain point is a lot better than that alternative.
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Also, this might shock people, but honestly, the mother thing is sometimes done to death because nowadays you can pay someone to be a surrogate, you could literally pay someone money to be pregnant and give birth for you for a price just like you can hire a maid or driver or anyone to do anything else, And if you’re willing to pay, you can have higher quality, professional, nannies, who are going to do better than many mothers will do who didn’t even really wanna do it, the one who actually provides for you. Sally probably deserves more respect in most cases. No don’t give me wrong, not that because you’re providing for someone sally that gives you any reason to take advantage of that or treat them badly either, but it is important to know that what we classify as being so special about a mother is at this point nothing more than wage work, You can hire someone right now to go to in vitro fertilization and be pregnant for nine months and give birth I’ll just for a price and give you the baby that you wanted and then in terms of the nanny stuff, well that’s the same thing, so you hire nannies to work on your home to look after the baby And that’s it, there’s nothing special in it and I think that that really needs to be said, people are really too caught up in this obsession of practically worshiping mothers when in itself there is nothing special about what just any mother does and there shouldn’t be any specific assumed or entitled respect Just based off of that.
I disagree with you completely. You are trying to minimise motherhood and act like it’s nothing when it’s probably the most important role in the world. There’s a reason paradise is under a mother’s feet in Islam. Paying someone to carry or look after a child can never be equal to actually raising and nurturing your own children. The former is done for payment and the latter out of love and devotion. Mothers who are not toxic or abusive should always be entitled to respect because of the difficulties they endure physically in pregnancy and childbirth but also psychologically in providing love, nurture, care and instilling values and morals which shape children for the rest of their lives. It is a huge responsibility and nothing quite like it in the rest of society so I don’t know how you can say it’s nothing special.
@@MissRedDevil7 not really, just like you can have people in a professional setting who will tell you that they are there for love and devotion, like if you go and see your doctor the whole idea behind that is that they have such a great passion for providing care and that’s why they went to school and that’s why they were there. Also, just like with motherhood or a profession, you have a lot of doing something just to show off and get some type of something out of it, if you’re brought up in a traditional Muslim culture, especially if there’s a setting where there is polygamy or generally less central value placed on marriage and more placed on, parental and immediate family devotion, a woman simply knows that her rise through the ranks is through having kids, especially having sons and that’s where her power authority is going to come from, also what say you about all the welfare mothers? One way or another most women are being paid for their services no matter exactly how or who is doing it they are basically being paid. Another way of putting it is, western cultures with 10 to place more of a value on the spousal relationship Middle Eastern and S. Asian Culture Pl. is much more on the parental relationship. That’s why you see the very unpleasant results that you do when you look at the issues in the south Asian and Middle Eastern communities in the west, because you have a situation where people are often trying to serve two masters, somebody wants to marry, who they want and have all of that also please, immediate relations,. There’s also all the adoption and other types of arrangements that exist, bottom line is that the process of being pregnant and giving birth is a process that you can pay someone to do and thought of his self does not afford you any special. It would be about the love, it’s not about the pregnancy or the giving birth or the cookie or any of those things that’s all wage work.
@@MissRedDevil7 oh and what about all the people who look after kids and provide all of that stuff to children who aren’t even theirs? You see it can go both ways, the fact that she gave birth physically or any other particular thing like that has nothing to do with it. Also, what you’re talking about is very dangerous if you apply the same way of thinking in similar situations, like if you look at a situation like Palestine, where you can point out that even neighboring Arab countries don’t really help that much, because deep down is the thought process of “oh well they’re not my own actual kids. They’re not my own actual blood relative so I don’t have to take care of them.” or when you have all of the south Asian and other communities who migrate to western nations and then feel very entitled to lots of things that are paid for with taxes that are mostly from other groups who, according to your way of thinking should not really have to be doing that because they didn’t actually give birth to them and it’s not their actual relative and so
@@MissRedDevil7 and there’s a lot of things quite like hidden society, and in fact, even more so, interestingly, enough, when technological advancements become more to where it becomes normative to simply produce babies in a laboratory setting, not requiring the suffering of the gestation and the birth, I think you’ll find most women’s response to be very interesting, I don’t think a lot of women will be happy about it because a lot of women actually bank on being able to use that sacrifice as an excuse to be entitled to some kind of lifelong devotion because of the physical birth process but when you remove that, then it will actually be on your actual performance, actual love but different than adopting or anything else
My point is most types of motherhood apart from abusive ones should be respected and that it’s not something to be trivialised like the way you made it sound in your first post. Also, most women would choose the physical process of having children simply because it’s natural and “how it should be” rather than paying someone which is still not “normal” at the moment. They only pay someone if the natural way doesn’t work. The physical process is a huge part for a lot of people and there’s nothing wrong with it. It’s part of the bonding process. Of course, mothers get something out of their status, otherwise they wouldn’t do it, would they? They get some status, joy or well-being out of motherhood or else there would be no point to it.