You have helped me out! I stand my ground and don't let anyone walk all over me! I have confidence, and I workout 💪 every morning, I notice the progress in my appearance!
All words. I saw you the other day and I walked all over you like a door mat. I need you to come over and wash my car again. you did a shitty job last time.
✍🏻 Taking notes as you said to in the video: 1. 1:00 Start off on a high, positive note! Don't start by asking mundane questions. Try sincere, enthusiastic, SPECIFIC compliments. Raise your energy level! 2. 3:40 Be the first to joke. 3. 4:50 Take up space. [Don't shrink into a corncob. You are NOT owned!] 4. 6:00 Touch. This creates trust (if done right). How? (1) Touch early. (2) Short platonic touches. (3) Escalate based on feedback. 5. 8:00 Fun teasing. This makes you unpredictable and interesting, helps create a connection, and shows confidence. Do in moderation. 6. 9:20 Be willing to laugh at yourself!
Touch is still problematic due to covid. Anecdotal of course but I've women slightly pull back or just fist-bump; hard to escalate under those conditions. I also find is if she's wearing a mask, it's difficult to tell how exactly she's reacting. One woman I was flirting with actually came out and said, "I AM smiling at you" because she could tell I no had no idea of her reactions.
1. i low pitch short and sweet always. when girls spoke faster and faster, i usually said "hold up hold up bruh i don't know english. say it again. " or "what does xxx mean tho? " and girls are still very happy woman-explaining to me. 2. always girls made jokes first and i teased back 3. teasing with eye contacts like "seriously you want to invade my personal space?" and she will do it more 4. i let girls touch me instead. i may sometimes hold her hand or kiss her hand tho. if dancing i may give her a turn. i don't innitiate high five or popular escalation like dudes love to .5. i think this is the only thing i do here. 6. yes if the girls are funny. however i am still quite fine.
I could have used these lessons in the late 1970s. I thought I was doing everything right yet was frustrated being desperate and dateless. If I had a wing man (or wing girl), they might have told me that most everything I was doing was wrong. I had no trouble getting into the "friend zone" but could never break out of that. I hope men take heed to what you say and listen, even if they may disagree with some of the points.
Marni played this smart. She gave six great tips, then "hooked" us at the end by talking about the three hot buttons that she'll reveal in a SEPARATE video, which will then turn into a sales pitch to buy her program. Why do I say that's good? Because I've been contemplating buying that program myself 😂 Good job Marni. When I know the tactics and still want to buy from you, you have done your job!
I wish you were around over the years with all the mistakes I’ve made. A dating coach would have made a world of difference. Great advice. Keep up the good work!
You should do a video about competing with guys who want the same girl. Also try covering what the girl is looking for when envious or hostile guys try to sabotage his approach or initial success
Thank you Marni, they are very useful. When I see a female in close proximity to me I find something to talk about, be upbeat and positive, and if appropriate introduce myself and et al!
Guys y'all need to listen to this woman . her advice works. The free videos has done worlds of good for me. Most important that Marni talks about (confidents) have no expectations when confronting a woman. Thanks Marni.
Good advise, Marni. I have done these on occasions, without really realizing that I was doing it. Wish I saw this video a few days ago. I wentvto an Argentine Tango Dance last night, and coukd of used some of these suggestions then. It c was a bad night ,(tgat went slong with the bad Friday...mist of the day, so it probably would if not been used. Have another Argentine Tango Dance tonite, and today is going on real good, so if the right ladies show up....😉
Just found your site today and lots of useful info. Your sincerity in your discussions makes this site genuine and the advice should be effective. Thanks for helping out us guys who are a little rusty in the dating scene and hopefully should improve our interaction with women.
now a days, it is TOXIC to be a man, especially "alpha male" , remember you all???? I am 70 years old, I have been alpha male all my life and this crap about men should not be men anymore is "insanity", especially when men fall for it. With this said, Mami, you are a wonderful, blessed lady and Thank you for attempting to help modern men. You go girl!
I fell in love with Marni just by listening to her voice. She has such great diction and pronunciation, I can close my eyes and get lost easily with each vid. And she's incredibly beautiful.
I salute you Marni and thank you for all the advice you 've given in your videos. That 's super nice of you. I have a question : Would those tricks work on a woman one has known for years and has been sentenced to the '' friend zone '' ? I hope and pray you 'll reply. Be well and stay safe !!
Marni, you have to be the most complicated woman to flirt with, you know all the techniques and know right away our intentions, lol But thank you for everything you do.
I can believe CZcams played one of your competitors ads as a lead in to your video. Jerks. 😂😂 I started watching your videos the other day. I'm trying to win a womans affection. I'd probably blown it had I not found you. I'm pretty sure I've got her attention again tho. Thank you for preventung me from blowing things with her. I was married 27 + years to the same woman we went our separate ways almost 10 years ago. This is the first woman to really catch my eye in the last 3 years of looking to date. Our days have consisted of her coming here and we forage the woods for everything from mushrooms to spice berries to rose hips and nuts. I harvested some shag bark hickory bark for her. She makes a syrup from it. I cooked her fried frog legs and smoked spare ribs for dinner during her last visit. She was blown away. And she made a comment I didn't really understand until I saw your video about confidence. She said she liked my confidence. I had no clue how I'd expressed that to her. I think I've figured it out today. 😂😂 Thanks to you. Tank you very much
The way it looks like, for guys, men, becoming better with women or improving your dating life is an option or a choice, it's voluntary, but not the other way around. When you're the one being pursued or hit on, you're basically forced to or just have no choice but to become better with the other sex.
Hey Marni - Do you think self-deprecation can go too far? I’m the King Kong of self deprecation, but at some point doesn’t it come across as lack of self confidence?
Not Marni but I noticed for me that people In general feed off of positive energy it's contagious and I usually lean into a place of seeing people for what they're worth not in a condescending way but in a way that feels fluid.., I also thrive to wear life like a loose garment. Peace to you 👍
Actually I could request the song everyone was kung fu fighting and start martial arts combat and flying across the room doing flying kicks and punching plates and other stuff would that impress her?
Well ive just started watching your vids again and its good advice its just difficult to force myself to put it into action but im better than I was keep up the good work girl ;) x
Yeah that makes an extremely mash of difference. I know from experience. I've seen girls shoot down a bunch of guys and then without even saying anything come up and put their hands all over me. I'm a bodybuilder and I work at a nightclub. We did that to them they would come unglued
I totally agree with Marni at (5:32)... You need to testiculate!! I love to testiculate around a woman.. haha. . I find wearing short, shorts works best. thanks Marni! ;)
OK you pretty much listed out Craig Ferguson's entire playbook, lol. Good work Marni. To hear all this from you sounds a lot more credible than hearing the same things from a man guru. (One has to wonder how many of these men gurus are out to teach or stroke their own egos)😉
Touch is a delicate subject! As well as humour - just making a woman laugh doesn't help at all, it might turn you into the court jester.... Women want the king, or at least the prince - not the jester.
Love listening.. it’s interesting I’m fortunate that this is natural and normal to me… BUT/AND THIS.. I’m crazy about a girl named Marny (she and I have a really good space together..) I’m just saying Marny’s seem to be cool All best you
Been watching this for about a year , and I'm engaged now 😂😂😊 thanks Marni I appreciate you fr . 😊 Would love to video call you with her so we can give you the whole story 😂😊
Funny story: There wuz this hot girl working in the stinky noizy factory I was at. I introduced myself with "I didn't believe the rumors till I saw you - They're replacing the entire department with fashion models!" Unfortunately, she took it the wrong way and came back with - "So, you don't think I'm smart enuff to work here?" The break over buzzer sounded before I could come up with an answer, the noise resumed and I had to go back to my department. A total disaster! ( if I was looking for a date, but I was only trying for friend, so, like I said, funny story.)
Yes, because I feel so mean spirited when I tease someone (which is why I rarely do tease anyone....certainly not a woman I'm interested in), but this isn't the first time I've heard it's necessary (though I never had to do it to anyone I've seriously dated/married)
If you are wanting a movie, an old movie, watch On The Waterfront, 1954, Marlon Brando and Eva Marie Saint make the screen sizzle, in particular watch their scene together in the park. a lot of their banter, and business was improvised, especially by Brando in particular.
Well, it worked for Les Nessman... Of course, before she expects you to prove it, have some sort of limiting remark ready, such as, "As a matter of personal discipline, I restrict myself to a few hundred dollars a day" or, "Currently the majority of my liquid assets are reserved for investments in lithium futures my accountants tell me will become available shortly."
Ok. Ok. #2 and #6 are pretty much built in. Unfortunately, they seem a bit counter-intuitive with #1. I think with a little bit of work I could accomplish #3 and #5. But #4? Actually, touch them? I mean, how do you know where they've been? ;-)
So whenever a girl stares at me and walks up to me, im terrified every time. Do you think i could just show her my arm all tensed up and tell her to quickly feel or take my arm? If she does, then i could just tell her the truth that im being filled with adrenaline by her and ask her to keep holding and wait for the feeling to pass. This sounds like a really great idea actually.
1.Be Rich like Elon Musk 2.Be Handsome like Chris Evans 3.Have a great Body like Chris Hemsworth 4. Have a Royal Lineage like Prince Harry 5. Be funny like Rowan Atkinson 6. Hire a manager to manage above 5
You have helped me out! I stand my ground and don't let anyone walk all over me! I have confidence, and I workout 💪 every morning, I notice the progress in my appearance!
Wow. Amazing!
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All words. I saw you the other day and I walked all over you like a door mat. I need you to come over and wash my car again. you did a shitty job last time.
✍🏻 Taking notes as you said to in the video:
1. 1:00 Start off on a high, positive note! Don't start by asking mundane questions. Try sincere, enthusiastic, SPECIFIC compliments. Raise your energy level!
2. 3:40 Be the first to joke.
3. 4:50 Take up space. [Don't shrink into a corncob. You are NOT owned!]
4. 6:00 Touch. This creates trust (if done right). How? (1) Touch early. (2) Short platonic touches. (3) Escalate based on feedback.
5. 8:00 Fun teasing. This makes you unpredictable and interesting, helps create a connection, and shows confidence. Do in moderation.
6. 9:20 Be willing to laugh at yourself!
You are gold bro💛
On #4, if she starts to Mace you, back off a little bit.
Touch is still problematic due to covid. Anecdotal of course but I've women slightly pull back or just fist-bump; hard to escalate under those conditions. I also find is if she's wearing a mask, it's difficult to tell how exactly she's reacting. One woman I was flirting with actually came out and said, "I AM smiling at you" because she could tell I no had no idea of her reactions.
1. i low pitch short and sweet always. when girls spoke faster and faster, i usually said "hold up hold up bruh i don't know english. say it again. " or "what does xxx mean tho? " and girls are still very happy woman-explaining to me. 2. always girls made jokes first and i teased back 3. teasing with eye contacts like "seriously you want to invade my personal space?" and she will do it more 4. i let girls touch me instead. i may sometimes hold her hand or kiss her hand tho. if dancing i may give her a turn. i don't innitiate high five or popular escalation like dudes love to .5. i think this is the only thing i do here. 6. yes if the girls are funny.
however i am still quite fine.
95% of Marni's wise advice across all her videos can be distilled down to a) be confident and b) be fun 😁
Very true. That’s the core of it all. Hopefully you find different tips and tools in each video to solidly this ;-)
Yet, it seems most people don't get this..."too simple" 😉
I thought it was the three 6's and 9" down below ........🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
I could have used these lessons in the late 1970s. I thought I was doing everything right yet was frustrated being desperate and dateless. If I had a wing man (or wing girl), they might have told me that most everything I was doing was wrong. I had no trouble getting into the "friend zone" but could never break out of that. I hope men take heed to what you say and listen, even if they may disagree with some of the points.
Marni played this smart. She gave six great tips, then "hooked" us at the end by talking about the three hot buttons that she'll reveal in a SEPARATE video, which will then turn into a sales pitch to buy her program. Why do I say that's good? Because I've been contemplating buying that program myself 😂 Good job Marni.
When I know the tactics and still want to buy from you, you have done your job!
I wish you were around over the years with all the mistakes I’ve made. A dating coach would have made a world of difference. Great advice. Keep up the good work!
Money...
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And money...
@Greg Andtrws Do I sound surprised?...😎
Technical and practical... Any skill can be learned if you are willing to study and apply.
You should do a video about competing with guys who want the same girl. Also try covering what the girl is looking for when envious or hostile guys try to sabotage his approach or initial success
@Grizllar15 thanks man. Bless you. I will try that one. It makes a lot of sense.
Thank you Marni, they are very useful. When I see a female in close proximity to me I find something to talk about, be upbeat and positive, and if appropriate introduce myself and et al!
Guys y'all need to listen to this woman . her advice works. The free videos has done worlds of good for me. Most important that Marni talks about (confidents) have no expectations when confronting a woman. Thanks Marni.
Confidence. What the heck.
Once upon a time a man asked a beautiful woman to marry him.
She said, "No."
And he lived happily ever after.
Hahahahaha 😂
what a GREAT VIDEO Marni!!! thank you!
You literally changed my life for the better with your no bs advice. THANK YOU😁
That dress looks sensational on you Marnie
Good advise, Marni. I have done these on occasions, without really realizing that I was doing it.
Wish I saw this video a few days ago. I wentvto an Argentine Tango Dance last night, and coukd of used some of these suggestions then. It c was a bad night ,(tgat went slong with the bad Friday...mist of the day, so it probably would if not been used.
Have another Argentine Tango Dance tonite, and today is going on real good, so if the right ladies show up....😉
Just found your site today and lots of useful info. Your sincerity in your discussions makes this site genuine and the advice should be effective. Thanks for helping out us guys who are a little rusty in the dating scene and hopefully should improve our interaction with women.
Useless, not useful
All your videos are great! I'm slowly progressing, but progression is still forward movement! Thanks, I look forward to watching the rest!
Marni cannot tell u how well this works. Thnx cuz u have changed my life. U rock.
New job starting Thursday! I'm buying everything Marni says to buy 🤓! It's all a steal!
Women are Goddesses that Must be Loved and Worshipped.
Love you ma'am.... your Video makes confident at least 🙏🙏🙏
Nice!! That's awesome
now a days, it is TOXIC to be a man, especially "alpha male" , remember you all???? I am 70 years old, I have been alpha male all my life and this crap about men should not be men anymore is "insanity", especially when men fall for it. With this said, Mami, you are a wonderful, blessed lady and Thank you for attempting to help modern men.
You go girl!
@Kuba P you must be beta
As George Carlin once said "and the phrase you go girl, really needs to go."
You forgot "Wear a sweater that falls off your shoulder.." 😉
haha
@@marnikinrys talking about what?
Marni u making a good guy turn bad Naughty and Cool in Nigeria here ❤❤. I love you
I fell in love with Marni just by listening to her voice. She has such great diction and pronunciation, I can close my eyes and get lost easily with each vid. And she's incredibly beautiful.
I salute you Marni and thank you for all the advice you 've given in your videos. That 's super nice of you. I have a question : Would those tricks work on a woman one has known for years and has been sentenced to the '' friend zone '' ? I hope and pray you 'll reply. Be well and stay safe !!
As always,you transmit your energy,thanks for the video! 👍🏼
I don't know what you did with these 2021 videos , but you look better and younger from older videos ! ...
Thanks for everything Marni.
You always look good!
Marni, you have to be the most complicated woman to flirt with, you know all the techniques and know right away our intentions, lol
But thank you for everything you do.
Who remembers the show Kenan and Kel now they were players who loves orange soda
Your intro makes my sub rock!
Really helpful information Marni. Thank you.
I can believe CZcams played one of your competitors ads as a lead in to your video. Jerks. 😂😂
I started watching your videos the other day. I'm trying to win a womans affection. I'd probably blown it had I not found you. I'm pretty sure I've got her attention again tho. Thank you for preventung me from blowing things with her. I was married 27 + years to the same woman we went our separate ways almost 10 years ago. This is the first woman to really catch my eye in the last 3 years of looking to date. Our days have consisted of her coming here and we forage the woods for everything from mushrooms to spice berries to rose hips and nuts. I harvested some shag bark hickory bark for her. She makes a syrup from it. I cooked her fried frog legs and smoked spare ribs for dinner during her last visit. She was blown away. And she made a comment I didn't really understand until I saw your video about confidence. She said she liked my confidence. I had no clue how I'd expressed that to her. I think I've figured it out today. 😂😂 Thanks to you. Tank you very much
Very nice video 👍
Hi Marni, Great video I think this one is one of your best. Stay Beautiful
I often openly laugh at myself when talking to people out of sarcasm and pure humor enough to get the attention of a cashier at an ice cream shop.
How can I smile more when I constantly have a smile on my face
My same problem hahahaha
(You just made me smile more;)
The way it looks like, for guys, men, becoming better with women or improving your dating life is an option or a choice, it's voluntary, but not the other way around.
When you're the one being pursued or hit on, you're basically forced to or just have no choice but to become better with the other sex.
You're a great teacher I love Your video
Hey Marni - Do you think self-deprecation can go too far? I’m the King Kong of self deprecation, but at some point doesn’t it come across as lack of self confidence?
Not Marni but I noticed for me that people In general feed off of positive energy it's contagious and I usually lean into a place of seeing people for what they're worth not in a condescending way but in a way that feels fluid.., I also thrive to wear life like a loose garment. Peace to you 👍
@@rontron5540 Great points! Thanks Ron Tron!
Great info thank you. Btw. The way your blouse falls off your shoulder is fricken hot.
Actually I could request the song everyone was kung fu fighting and start martial arts combat and flying across the room doing flying kicks and punching plates and other stuff would that impress her?
Very well explained dear 👌😘😘 you are looking amazing 😘😘😘
Good stuff I really like this dear full watch
Well ive just started watching your vids again and its good advice its just difficult to force myself to put it into action but im better than I was keep up the good work girl ;) x
Very well explained Marni .
Alright coach I got it
You forgot to mention the 6 pack abs I've been working on for the past 10 years...
That's nice but it certainly can't charm. Unless you put a cute smiley face on it and start talking ;). Foot in the door.
Yeah that makes an extremely mash of difference. I know from experience. I've seen girls shoot down a bunch of guys and then without even saying anything come up and put their hands all over me. I'm a bodybuilder and I work at a nightclub. We did that to them they would come unglued
Gorgeous women are always right
This is coming from a stunning lady like yourself , so I'll take this advice 😌 .
I totally agree with Marni at (5:32)... You need to testiculate!! I love to testiculate around a woman.. haha. . I find wearing short, shorts works best. thanks Marni! ;)
I like you Marni...thanks for the tips, I will use them for sure!!!
Thanks for sharing this❗👍🤙
Can this work for guys on the Spectrum?
I love your hair exactly like it is on this video, just saying,!
Sob! Sob! Sob! I'm about to 😭, so true, so articulate, so experienced. 😊😎😸 😂🤣😹
Thanks Marni.. :-) Stay safe beautiful..
I love Marni 😂❤👍
very interesting
OK you pretty much listed out Craig Ferguson's entire playbook, lol. Good work Marni. To hear all this from you sounds a lot more credible than hearing the same things from a man guru. (One has to wonder how many of these men gurus are out to teach or stroke their own egos)😉
thanks Yeo!! AND I love craig ferguson. He is the exact example of everything I teach
@@marnikinrys When he was starting out in comedy here in the UK he performed as Bing Hitler.
If I did the truffle shuffle in a bar would that attract loads of women ?
Marni Im gonna try this on
J Lo cuz every time I compliment you I get death threats messages smh. Nice eyebrows
Thank you 🙏
Touch is a delicate subject! As well as humour - just making a woman laugh doesn't help at all, it might turn you into the court jester.... Women want the king, or at least the prince - not the jester.
Love listening.. it’s interesting
I’m fortunate that this is natural and normal to me…
BUT/AND THIS..
I’m crazy about a girl named Marny (she and I have a really good space together..)
I’m just saying Marny’s seem to be cool
All best you
Been watching this for about a year , and I'm engaged now 😂😂😊 thanks Marni I appreciate you fr . 😊
Would love to video call you with her so we can give you the whole story 😂😊
Look a inflatable doll doesn't count
Congrats :)
Great video ❤️
Funny story: There wuz this hot girl working in the stinky noizy factory I was at. I introduced myself with "I didn't believe the rumors till I saw you - They're replacing the entire department with fashion models!" Unfortunately, she took it the wrong way and came back with - "So, you don't think I'm smart enuff to work here?" The break over buzzer sounded before I could come up with an answer, the noise resumed and I had to go back to my department. A total disaster! ( if I was looking for a date, but I was only trying for friend, so, like I said, funny story.)
U r Laugh 💖
Im watching this you tube video twice
Hey Marty, can you give us some movie examples or TV examples of good-hearted teasing.
Yes, because I feel so mean spirited when I tease someone (which is why I rarely do tease anyone....certainly not a woman I'm interested in), but this isn't the first time I've heard it's necessary (though I never had to do it to anyone I've seriously dated/married)
If you are wanting a movie, an old movie, watch On The Waterfront, 1954, Marlon Brando and Eva Marie Saint make the screen sizzle, in particular watch their scene together in the park. a lot of their banter, and business was improvised, especially by Brando in particular.
Your advice is priceless!!
@Greg Andtrws she’s not becoming a millionaire from CZcams, you obviously don’t know the payout per view 🤣
Nice video 😃
If Marni did an audio book of the dictionary I would buy it
I now that
How about at work
He said "I'm Fabulously Rich!" " ..c'mon let's just Go!"
She kinda bit her lip
Gee I don’t know
Well, it worked for Les Nessman...
Of course, before she expects you to prove it, have some sort of limiting remark ready, such as, "As a matter of personal discipline, I restrict myself to a few hundred dollars a day" or, "Currently the majority of my liquid assets are reserved for investments in lithium futures my accountants tell me will become available shortly."
Ok. Ok. #2 and #6 are pretty much built in. Unfortunately, they seem a bit counter-intuitive with #1. I think with a little bit of work I could accomplish #3 and #5. But #4? Actually, touch them? I mean, how do you know where they've been? ;-)
Well for #3 "take up space" I have that down without any effort= as I'm a bodybuilder (240 lbs/ ripped abs), perhaps I take up TOO MUCH space? 🤔😉
You should try living in australia the women here are different so hard to pick up
well what do you know...I am one charming man....but then again I already knew that ; )
So whenever a girl stares at me and walks up to me, im terrified every time.
Do you think i could just show her my arm all tensed up and tell her to quickly feel or take my arm? If she does, then i could just tell her the truth that im being filled with adrenaline by her and ask her to keep holding and wait for the feeling to pass.
This sounds like a really great idea actually.
If the woman is interested in the man, the man can pretty much simply exist, and she will follow through on her desires.
Love you
Yeah, because socks usually come before the pants. 😁
1.Be Rich like Elon Musk
2.Be Handsome like Chris Evans
3.Have a great Body like Chris Hemsworth
4. Have a Royal Lineage like Prince Harry
5. Be funny like Rowan Atkinson
6. Hire a manager to manage above 5
@Greg Andtrws 😄
Anyone notice how Marni aged like Screaming Eagle Cabernet?
Touch is something to avoid until you can trust her. If you just met be careful.
Do I have to walk her home aswell or can I just be like bye and run away ?
so, fake the extroverted personallity traid, what could possibly go wrong?
Stay single...be happy and free😊
I hope these advices will help ppl but they seem quite blunt and ridiculous. By the fourth tip I completely got bored! “Platonic touches” 🤨
When I used to play in rock bands the tang would roll right in without me doing anything at all. Now that I’m older …….crickets. Haha
1. dont be afraid.
2. watch a Marni video.
3. start a family.
4. have fun.
5. hide for 1 year.
6. repeat from step 1.
I laugh at myself all the time
If I do get a date can I take my grandparents with me to meet her ? Or should I take the whole family
This does not work here in South Africa... It is unfortunate because it is sound advice.
I would say girl you look hot somebody call the fire department.