Yahi to yelog nhi samjhte nah, aur college mein koi senior-junior nahin Hota these are just semester based like Tum Ek Sal Kuchh mahine Aage padh rahe ho aur main thoda Piche that's it Tumne bilkul sahi Kaha people should respect their privacy like jab marzi baat karna hai to karenge,nahin karna To Nahin Karenge simple baat khatm.
exactly, India's news channels be talking about pakistani gaming jihd and aloo jihd literally there are 2 types of colleges here, the anarchic ones like this where you can fire crackers in principles office and nothing happen and the jail ones where the staff are the ones ragging
Those who rag, should not be treated as students but criminals and punished accordingly. To harm someone is not a joke, to insult someone is not a joke.
If you're a junior and bigger in size than the seniors, you can beat the shit out of them. That's the exact thing we did when we were getting ragged in our first week in the college.
Sad to see how ragging culture is still normalized in colleges to an extent. Being a bengali myself, I feel apologized to all of those who've been victims of this culture and the incident happened in such a so-called prestigious university
@@Jeaucquesit's a slogan that got popular during 1970-71 when West Pakistan was imposing Urdu in East Pakistan (now Bangladesh) and Bengali movement was going on in East Pakistan. The term got so popular that when during winter, refugees from Bangladesh accidentally brought in conjunctivitis that spread in West Bengal, it used to be called as joy bangla. Just wanted to tell this fun fact. Nothing political.
It is a prestigious university for sure when it comes to engineering field....ragging happens in IITs also...last year one student committed suicide because of ragging in IIT Kgp. Ragging is a serious issue and it has to be dealt with seriousness.
The Jadhavpur University case is extremely disturbing I cannot imagine, the amount of pain and humiliation that 17 year old innocent boy would have gone through. The culprits must be given life imprisonment
Being a first yr student from a government medical College...i can confirm that more than 95% of the students entering medical field face ragging...i entered my clg after qualifying neet exam and my parents were so proud of me then ...but it was the first time living away from home ...i was the youngest of my batch and had cleared the exam without any drop ...i used to feel homesick and then came the burden of learning the "funda" made by the seniors ...after my parents left me the first day ...i came back inside my room weeping and was soon instructed by a senior ki "funda m rehna seekhle ab " ...acc to them ...we had to bow down our head , wish them calling ma'am and sir , wear salwar kurta and plate our hairs after oiling them ...and remain 24*7 this way ....once i went to the washroom midnight with open hair and i was scolded by them...that was all still fine ...but they made us write their copies ...do their personal work and would also shout on us ...boys were beaten up and girls were asked to walk all the way from hostel to clg without even a umbrella over our head in scorching heat and sunlight of mid may and june ...and no one went to complain bcoz ultimately they say ki seniors se bna kr rkho ...yh baad m pdhaenge humein ...and this happens in every medical clg ..no one complains of anything.... ik it's not much what happened to me ...but it's bcoz i left hostel afterwards and shifted to a pg outside within few months ...god knows what all still is happening with my batchmates
As an IIT Delhi student, I used to think the measures our college put up against ragging (like literally 0 interaction in the first month when freshers come in) were too extreme. Hearing about these stories, I'm now happier about their strong actions to prevent ragging.
Our current political system selling us the pipe dream of India becoming USA / China in the coming decades, but the system fails to explain how. As you all now India can't become manufacturing super-power beating China. (As, in India democracy instituted earlier than capitalism, unlike the west/ China, so the lackluster labour laws favourable for capitalists now can't be passed as a lot of trade unionism present in India due to democracy). In service sector also, India can't become industry leader, as India missed the semi- conductor bus. (That's why ChatGPT like innovation can't take place in India, even in China. As the value system of oriental societies is very different from Occidental one that promotes innovation by embracing failure) in Asia, every admission is happen through cut - throat competition & after cracking it the burn-out effect kicks in, which make people to look for cosy & comfortable job rather than going to the route of entrepreneurship. (Remember that, till now, there is no indian product is used in everyday life of westerners & it's 2023 & don't fall for the fake narrative that UPI would dominate the world, just think of USA, the country which houses NASA, military industrial complex, leads in complex technologies like aircraft, jet engine etc can't make UPI ?) Our political system is propagating a myth that in next 5-10 yrs, Indian economy will experience phenomenon like of China in 1980s. But the rise of China is a very unique phenomenon like rise of USA. A lot of factor have to converge to make it happen. ( Like currency manipulation done by China ,but now not possible for others ) As for that to happen, especially in Asia, (governance effective authoritarianism) is the way to go. Eg: China, Singapore, Dubai, Japan (military based) etc. But in India, it would never gonna happen. BJP will keep on winning in Lok- Sabha election, but replicating the success at state level will become increasingly difficult. As you can see, BJP still couldn't penetrate in South India even after long 10 yrs. Is the people of south India not pro- development, patriot enough to choose BJP? Can you give an example of a country where Religion dominates the centre of politics, but achieved economic success. Summerising, my point of view, if you come from middle-class / upper-class & want to do job, please move abroad. Don't look for opportunities in India. Mumbai, Bangalore still lacks basic infra, spectacular view of modernism etc. Yes, India would experience spectacular growth, but it would be always urban- centric, unequal and finally everywhere collapse of infra in cities will be witnessed due to population pressure & eventual demise of quality of life in emerging cities. (As We don't have Hukou system of China, reason behind non-existence of slums in Chinese cities). The devaluing rupee again would add to the misery, even to escape from India would be difficult as foreign trips / migration would cost heavily on your pocket. Indian visa ranks very poorly, ask anyone the hassles one has to face when having the Indian visa. (Recently, Mukesh Ambani could be seen delivering his grandson in US,as they follow "Jus Suli", i.e Birth-based citizenship) Have you guys seen recent crowd in the meet-up of BiggBoss winner Elvish Yadav? How unemployment deeply affecting even the economy of rich states like Haryana can be gauged. If Haryana is doing so good then why most of the students of kurukshetra University leaving India ?? I can go on, but stopping here. The central govt, BJP is doing amazingly good, but still it has problems. I have my reservation wrt rich states like Haryana also, where the state CM attends meet-up arranged by a youtuber. So, in coming decades, if you want to do job then migrate & if you want to do business, then India, as here you can bend rules easily to outcompete others. (If someone is very hopeful of our start- up eco-system, then please do your R&D deeply). What's your opinion in India's future ?
Ragging is like a crime, it should stop. Only indisciplined or bad upbringing students do this. College management is also responsible of giving freedom to this.
@@satyasankalpapanigrahi9416 Shame on those people who do ragging for their own benefit, & play with someone's emotions..so sad, it's horrific. instead seniors shld be so much cooperative humble and supportive towards juniors who are new to college and show their dignity.. rather doing such vulgar acts. even it's a bad remark to college reputation, Strict action should be taken. here management is biggest responsible.
@@newtine to tune kitno ka survey le liya ??? jo opinion hai usse hi fact manna band karo bhot ai universities me ragging band ho chuki hai including mine
Bhai anonymously jisko bhi ho raha hai, report karo¡ ragging ke vids lena mat bhulo, evidence ke liya use kar sakto ho. Don’t silence your voice, speak it out LOUD , we must stop this bs in our country
What do you say about when juniors rag their seniors? Doesn't that hurt senior mentally? Doesn't that hurt the senior's academic performance? If the senior has not ragged anyone in life, but he is ragged by juniors, why there is no provision to address that?
it's shameful for me when my sister normalise this topic and say "bezatti toh sabki hi hoti hai medical college mein" I feel disgusted, that how can someone see or accept themselves in that situation and normalise it.
Deal ragging or thinking of ragging with care, compassion. Calling her "disgusting" will not change her mind, make her feel the hurt, humiliation people go through. Make her feel that you can also go through that, so instead of supporting it, you should be vocaly against it.
A note to every student: what use is education if you end up torturing people instead of being kind!? Every life is precious, ragging should be condemned and students involved should be severely punished. Take ragging cases lightly, we're doomed.
And if we report no teachers would take it seriously and then we either have to leave or bear it. Then we do the same to our juniors thus repeating the cycle. When will it ever stop 😢
@@jisungiee810your so called teachers are not your well wishers. They teach you just for their bread and butter or just another person doing for livelihood. Teacher bahut mil jayenge per guru itne years may 2-4 he milenge it can be any gender, they teach without any judgement,any competition but teachers mostly do unnecessary drama, self competence from students, favouritism, mentally torture, taunt marna and everything they do,they knows what they are doing on any students. Every teacher that time 30+ age, they very well knew everything. Vo ye bilkul bhi nahi keh sakte ki ohh mujhe toh kuch pata he nahi tha if they pretend, they are corrupt person. Kyunki, agar 30-40+ age main may kisi bache ko kuch galat bolta hoon toh mujhe pta hai ki Maine Aisa kyun kiya,nahi toh tumhe lagta hai tum kisi bhi bache ya kisi kisi ko bhi aise he bol doge? Just any stranger child?
@@jisungiee810 Then you are not reporting to teachers, they are mere employees just not fit to be called teachers. If they don't take take a stand in such situations, they are failing to do their job as a teacher. They may not be able to help you directly but at least directing to the concerned authority should do the job.
I was ragged during my engineering. I was slapped from behind by the seniors in our classroom while everyone was watching and I was studying during break. They hit me because they wanted to rag me and I wasn't giving in. I was so enraged that I threw the bench. I swear I would have killed someone in that group, but I stopped myself because it was not worth it. They never messed with me after that. I never ragged my juniors as I know how it feels. I wish I'd have called the cops sometimes. But things were different back then, I was from a poor family. Atleast, people will change now. This was 12 years ago. Hyderabad, Telangana.
Uk, in my college nothing's gonna happen if I will call the cops, instead they will start a protest against me that I'm the villain ...they have power of politics also that's why... They aree soooo bad ....I'm really ashamed to be part of that medical college.
Me and my batchmates had been ragged very brutally during our college days. The seniors got us undressed, abused us verbally, and physically. Once, they asked 4 specific people to come to a ground full of grass around 11 pm and asked them to hold the four corners of a mosquito net because the senior wanted to sleep on the ground. One of those folks also got dengue and suffered in the hospital for 2 weeks. People were asked to call the senior 'sir' or 'ma'am', and were said "90 maaro", which was bowing down to a senior. I have seen a senior spitting and urinating on one of my batchmates also. It is very humiliating and unacceptable. Watching this video made me almost cry. We were asked to talk 5 sentences on our mother or sister, and then seniors asked us to replace selected words from those sentences with private parts to make those sentences sexually explicit and unspeakable. There were many students including myself, who thought its better to end our lives than to live like this, with sheer tears in our eyes. On the other side, it was very surprising to see how the people who actually did get ragged started to rag juniors when they became seniors themselves. I am so broken until this day, even though it's been almost 3.5 years since I graduated. It's like a permanent damage in my head.
Hey Shantanu! I can’t even imagine the horrors you had to go through in your college years. But please don’t give up. If possible, take therapy and focus on your future goals and surround yourself with your family and friends. Remember that they are always there to give you unending love and support! I wish you the best in life! Sending you virtual hugs!😊
Bhai itna horror experience bta Diya ab college ka naam toh bta deta ..yeh toh suspense bna diya kam se kam aur kisi ki life ruin hone se toh Bach jaegi jo yeh nye bche jaa rhe aajkal college me Aur sath me aise colleges ka sach saamne aana hi chahiye badnami ke dar se hi shi par action toh lenge
This Swapnadeep's murder case has really shattered me. Nowadays ragging is so normalised that we've started to ignore it most of the times, until something serious like this happens. But we should protest against any kind of ragging, because ragging itself is wrong! And guys Swapnadeep's case was not just about ragging, he was sexually harassed by his seniors before his naked body fell from the third floor (it still remains a mystery whether he jumped by himself or someone pushed him). But either way, it was a murder! It breaks my heart each time I see his parents crying on the news channels. All the criminals should be punished, I hope Swapnadeep gets justice.
He was most probably made to walk on the corridor pavement which is a common ragging there. Might be he got disbalanced. Hope culprits get capital punishment
@@Bong_Madridista Yupp that's I saw that in news too. But if he was forced to walk on the pavement in 'that' condition, I see no difference from pushing him off. It was kinda obvious that he'd lose his balance. Also I believe they didn't want him to survive, because if he did, he could've exposed them.
one thing I am sure is he didn't commit suicide, no one will commit suicide without clothes his dead body had no clothes. He actually told his dad that he wasn't ok that's why Sourav and others killed him
Let him get justice, but it's hard to think as state government or Indian government will not take any action. The rich people will give money and all the case will be closed
Just like rape cases...we only care about it until the situation is as worse as Nirbhaya or Hathras and countless others !!!!! Good lord, save this country !!!!!
There is one more type of ragging that is rarely discussed. Ragging done by the professors. Not all or most professors are rude and insensitive but some of them are.
In my perspective the seniors who abuse and rag their juniors instead of helping them are the most emotionally WEAKEST PEOPLE ever. They just can't help their feeling of insecurity of being respected.
Ragging is a nightmare especially for those students who come from a poor,rural and conservative family. My father once said that he was worstly ragged by seniors bcz he couldn't sing or dance being from a rural family when he entered his B.A.M.S. college. He said he was so terrified that he couldn't sleep for 8 days and wanted to go back to Village and do farming instead of studying in B.A.M.S.
My uncle also used to be a bright student, he cracked both engineering and medical entrances and got into the state's most prestigious medical College but was severely ragged back in the late 70s due to which he left and did a general degree from a local college. He later cleared bank exams and became a bank manager but had he stayed and the seniors were respectful, he could have been a great doctor 😢
I'm a jee student. Primary reason I feel for this is that, we are told study for two years, ruin your mental health for two years, next 4 years you can do whatever you want. These students (who manage to get into premier institutes) then think they are kings, and can do whatever they want... My chemistry teacher, who graduated from iit delhi, openly boasts about horrible tales of ragging. He told us stories about how he would randomly boss over his roommate, make him feel shit etc... Worst is he was actively promoting this culture amongst the guys in our class, he was like once you get to college you will have to do this, it is culture, to be a man you have to rag etc. Honestly sick and tired of the stem culture in our country
My brother is studying in AIIMS bhopal .His senior did his ragging,they used to say abusive words to him. One day one of his classmates complained about ragging to dean . Those senior literally warned everyone to stay away from that guy and started bully him really harshly. As he was alone and was treated badly in the end he had to left the college because of this torture. I just wonder he would have worked so hard to get into AIIMS but even after succeeding his dream he have to leave it behind.
Bro hamare area me same hua tha ragging huyi ladke ki or usne jab usne ladayi ki toh un logo ne unko bahut mara or us bhai ne teacher ko v bola police ko bola firr v koi fayda ni hua or kuch din baad uski ragging band ho gayi or uski ragging band hone k kuch din baad 10-12 din baad use kisi ne goli maar k khtm kar diya
That is how seniors manipulate juniors in medical field. They will threaten you saying you will be boycotted by entire batch, won't be allowed in fests and won't be helped with academics as well. And all this is done so that you accept the oppression. And only in your final years you realise that their is NO significant role of seniors in academics of yours, boycotting is forgotten after some period and no-one even remembers that you were blacklisted from co-curricular activities. So guys don't fear and raise your voice to any kind of injustice as its better to walk alone with dignity......
As an 2nd year student at IIT Delhi, I must say that the measures that our college has taken to stop ragging are simply commendable. If any fresher even accuses a senior of ragging, very strict action is likely to be taken by the Disciplinary Committee and the senior may even be expelled from college if proven guilty. The members of the Disciplinary Committee even "raid" hostel rooms regularly in the first month of freshers entering college, during which any junior-senior interaction is strictly prohibited. As a result of this proactiveness, neither me nor any of my friends have been ragged in the first year, completely eliminating any form of raging from IITD.
strange that in such scenarios the educated deem it right to investigate the accused senior if a junior mere accuse them for ragging. but for abuse and assault on women and girls, they are almost unanimously believed to be a liars by the same "educated society".
I am from BIT Mesra from jharkhand and can proudly say that there is no ragging in this college. I am a second year student and faced no ragging till now.
In my first year of Engineering at IITK Kanpur, I also felt the Stockholm syndrome of ragging. I was very shy and soft-spoken in my first year, but seniors forced me to abuse and recite their slogans in loud voices. That time I also felt that the intention of my seniors is good, and they want me to prepare myself for the harshness of the real world. But after graduating from college and facing the real world, I can never feel that the behavior of my seniors was justified at that time.
@@benudharmadhi4154yes that's part of the problem isn't it? Nobody should have to think, "Are mera luck kharab tha" while dealing with bad seniors. 'Bad seniors' shouldn't even exist.
Even I was ragged in my 2nd year. I got saved in 1st year as it was College was closed due to Covid. The seniors humiliated me, stripped me naked except underwear, and paraded me across the whole hostel. When I complained this to my Principal, he instead scolded me and told me to respect the seniors. The seniors are so cruel that they just told my classmates to stay away from me and I was humiliated by seniors in every lab class. It ruined my mental health. One thing I can confirm that Charles Darwin was right. We evolved from Chimpanzees. As my seniors still showed these ape like traits. Human are just evolved apes. Now thanks to SAT I will be pursuing my BTech from a US University. This why brain drain happens in my country.
i am in class 11 and today i got bullied and slapped on my face while being called chashmish or oii chashme ( cause i wear glasses) , because of that slap my glasses fell on the ground and my lens broke and guess what my school did against that kid . Nothing . absolutely nothing . Now i am scared to even go to school cause now that he know that i told the teachers about it the person who bullied me along with his friends might target me and beat me up in the washroom ( they have a record of having a 5 v 1 with a boy and almost beating him up ) . Today i also realised that i have no true friends cause while this was happening most of my friends were there and none of them wanted to come with me to the staffroom to complain , none of them stood up for me in front of that boy or screw it even ask me if i was ok later on during the day which felt worse than the slap itself .
@@KARTIKSAXENA688 bro hamesha jruri to nhi ki jo Banda ragged ho rha hai vo strong hi ho Kai bar aisa hota hai ki bhai toppers jo hote hai vo itne strong nhi hote aur unki height bhi Kam hoti hai 😢 Or jruri to nhi ki sab galti hmari hi hai school ke principal ko bhi to samajhna chahiye . Mereko to school period me bhi ragging kiya gya by my classmates . But thank my luck, my older friends helped me and told to me that anyone if troll me I ask to them . Thanks to them ❤😢😢😢
Really a great video! I am from IIT Delhi and can say rules regarding ragging are very strict here. 1) for 1 month theres a curfew period where no senior can interact with a fresher 2) a large focus is also given on awareness regarding ragging and anti-ragging measures on campus. 3)the punishment in getting caught are very strict. Therefore no one tries to break it.
As a former medical student... I salute you for showcasing this... We used to suffer a lot in hostel and we were forced to undergo some special classes after 10 pm by seniors and so many unspeakable things happened to each of us😢
What happened in those special classes?? what did they teach you? and what kind of unspeakable things?? if you feel comfortable about sharing some of it?? by the way really sorry you had to go through that
I faced one of the embarrassing and worst "Ragging" in 1994 in Medical school in India and ran away from the hostel and never returned throughout my medical college times. After 30 years today morning, I am thinking about the same issue, Ragging in America Vs India - as I just returned from dropping my elder one in College here in America (Settled in America Now). Contrary to my college memories, what I saw yesterday at college here is totally different - many seniors came and worked as volunteers to shift the luggage and helped us move in. Humiliation or making fun of others exists in every culture - but how we propagate and how we adapt - is more important - I believe coming generations in India deal with this issue better and respect juniors. There are so many ways to know your juniors and make them friends - not just ragging. Thanks to see such a wonderful analysis on this topic from you, just subscribed to you lol (I do not follow much of Indian CZcams). I too have a CZcams channel and currently doing episodes on differences in the education system here and there but sure I will address this topic of Ragging Vs Hazing in my own way for my Telugu Audience.
@@missionpehlapageair1holypdf Nope and never been to TANA. I am just registered with American Humanist Association and my Radiology societies. Rest I stay away from whatever service I intend to do in India - I am doing it personally and will help some friends.
I was a victim of ragging in 2013, 10 years ago.. I told my father about it, he slapped me twice (he never hit me before or after that day) and said only one thing, how could you let this happen to you and with people who you call friends? We didn't raise you to be a coward. The next day I slapped that guy twice on both his cheeks when he was eating lunch with his peers. That sent a strong message across the students and everyone told me that they would never dare to do such thing bcz they feared confrontation later.. Later that day my father strictly told me, not to feel proud about what I did and it was morally not the correct thing to do but the right thing to send a message. He told me that my slap would stick with that guy for his entire life rather than if a teacher hit him. My father also expressed his college days when he was ragged and that day he promised himself that he would never let his child to be a part of it or simple accept it.. Miss you dad ✊🏻
That was pretty brave of you but one shouldn't do that, those seniors are present in huge numbers and in the past there have been incidents of juniors getting mobbed and even killed by few bully seniors
Just want to be clear it was about the message my dad gave me, and now that I've grown up I can say what he did was absolutely correct and i would've done the same. He meant it in a positive way and it really had an impact on me and the child who would've been down the bad road if that message was not given to him.
This was probably the most important video at this point, being a JU (Jadavpur University) aspirant this terrified my whole family which even made me rethink my decision about opting for the college.
Jadavapur university is best university in West Bengal for science and Technology. You should not worry about ragging because almost 99℅ ragging is found in college hostels.
@@prabhatgorai_me_1391 Solution is to report incident to police if ragging happens. And ragging happens all over India, to fight it u need fighter's spirit, fight back if such things happen.
I recently started college as a first year vet student. On the orientation day we were told to respect seniors and abide by whatever they say. Later at night we were told to assemble in the common room of our hostel and were told about supposed mandatory rules, addressing seniors as sir/mam, greeting them individually whenever we encounter them, follow a school kid like dress code, not look them in the eye, to not say anything unless they ask you to, etc. Mind you, these were our immediate seniors, means they become seniors literally that day itself and it hasn't been long since they themselves went through it. In addition we are asked to assemble every night and for an hour or two they basically humiliate us so as to teach us "manners". The college is well aware of it and it even seems as if they promote such atrocities. There is an anti ragging committee but complaining to them is like talking to a wall and by doing so you risk becoming a target. It's infuriating to see how ragging culture is prevailing in our country.
I am also a vet student I understand you. Ragging is no way tolerated. Respect is earned . People who demand respect openly are shameless people and inflated ego
Ragging might be gradually reducing in Engineering colleges but it is still prelevant in Medical colleges ! (central colleges are an exception but the govt state colleges are the "adda's" of ragging today)
@@pratheek152 relatively its less cuz students come from all parts of India so the grouping of students based on cultural and linguistic similarities reduces unlike state govt colleges ! Also the authorities in central colleges are more active......
I am from Mysore, Karnataka. I am a second year student and i have not seen ragging. Even my school classmates who are studying in other colleges in Mysore and Bangalore did not face any type of ragging. Seniors really help juniors in their studies with no discrimination. Really happy to see colleges in my place (which i have seen) are good
Happy to hear that bro. I might get admission into an IIT next year, hope this stupid nonsense doesn't happen there or else I am suing the college for harassment and damages.
This has become so normal, it's shameful. I had seen "mild ragging" in one of the prestigious institute in India, which had "sir-madam, look at 3rd-button system, etc" which might not sound like a big thing to many. But it's not just about the severity but it's the cost of self-respect to satisfy someone else's ego. Which was one of the major reasons why I left India altogether.
This video came in wake of the recent student death inside Jadavpur collage hostel on Aug 9. Since then 12 students and ex-students have been arrested. It's ragging cum murder. It can serve as warning to the future "macho" seniors, as there is a chance of harsh punishments in this case.
The fact is that most ragging at colleges almost always is overtly sexual in nature. Somewhere the cause for this has to be the suppressed sexual urges of an average Indian teenager, where boys and girls are almost never allowed to even speak to each other in childhood, let alone have healthy friendships.
I was a victim of ragging in my graduation. What is so unfortunate that i was ragged by my own batch mate of the same graduation session at the hostel. It so happened that i joined the college in the mid session. I was new to that college and was staying in a hostel outside home for the first time. I was abused verbally, physically and emotionally by a student who belonged to my batch of graduation. This went on for weeks. I left the hostel when i could not bear it. I went home and never wanted to come back. My parents perhaps could not understand the severity of trauma i was going through. I don't blame them. Perhaps they thought that ragging is part of growing up and helps children become mature, confident and strong. I lost 5 months of my studies at the college. Those days there were no internet or on line classes. I lagged behind in all subjects and could never catch up with others. My 10th and 12th grades were over 98%. My graduation i scored just 51%. The lowest ever. I lost my confidence which never came back. I wanted to become a civil servant. I ended up as a clerk in a private company. Those 15 days changed the entire course of my life. I still stammer when i speak. I have fear of going on to the stage. I could not get promotions because of my fearful and submissive attitude. I can forget everything but I WILL NOT FORGIVE that hostel mate ever.
Man, please talk about it to some counsellor and know that this doesn't define your self worth! Based on your story, you still seem like an amazing guy who could just use a little bit of help as we all could at times. Don't let the hostel mate hold you back from doing what you love to do.
Don't worry bro whn u become something it will be a great revenge frm thm don't give up I m also a victim of ragging but i had started my own business now the guy ragged me he was working in my company as peon 😂😂😂😂😂 and everyday I try to toucher him show his real level and i also sometyms don't give salary in tym he has two children he crying like a mad 😂😂😂😂😂sometyms and i feel gud whenever I toucher him bcse he don't show mercy me in past and now I m also same too wth him. 😢😢😢
What happened to you is unforgivable but do you really think it is fine to live like this? Just imagine how will you defend yourself if that happened to you again. I was also teased and ragged and after 11 I started attacking back and everything changed.
Being from one of the NITs who passed in 2009 I can vouch for all that has been said here. The way it works is that they split the new batch in groups for e.g. I was in NESA group which means North Eastern Student Association. There was of course discrimination as in north east we have many states and Assam has highest number of seats. The Assamese seniors would have their way and racially abuse the others for the way they looked and talked. Of course not all of them were bad but I just wanted to say this is a stupid tradition. There was all sort of humiliation but one thing I can quantify is that our tight slap score at the end of year was 600+. That meant 600 tight slaps. One of us still had issues with hearing the last time I met with him. When us juniors went to 2nd year and year after that, very few of us felt like talking to those seniors. There was no help whatsoever from those seniors at any stage of my career and I have still succeeded by the general definition of success. Basically my point is learn from our mistakes and speak up if this is happening to you.
I passed in 2016 batch.. In my 3rd and 4th year ragging was almost negligible... But in 1st year the slap count was in double digits.. I was zone in but never raised my hand on any one in my senior years....
JEE aspirant here. I'm thinking about taking some inspiration from Americans and use the American way of dealing with things,i.e, firearms and weapons.
When I was preparing for jee (in 2020), it always came to my mind why we need to do this? If cracking the most prestigious exam means facing the humiliation and torture (ragging) then why we should be preparing for such exams. I had this fear because my elder brother has faced these incidents who was in ISM Dhanbad and by watching movies and other sources too. Currently I'm in IIT Delhi and in my 4th year and I haven't faced ragging yet (till date). Yes we don't have much interaction with seniors (except from the ones who are in clubs at senior positions), but I think it's better than the fear which I have expected in the name of ragging in the first year.
@@piyush_Rastogi_69Man, for 2020 entrants, time flew by too quickly to enjoy our college life. Being a 4th year myself from iitbhu, I sometimes think that it was only yesterday when I entered campus... On a side note, junior senior culture is getting better here in IIT BHU. Some seniors here go above and beyond when it comes to helping juniors.
I graduated from Jadavpur University this year... It disheartens me to see my college name in such a video and i hope the college authorities take urgent action against ragging. May his soul rest in peace
In our college all ragging is done on the day of freshers. It's held department wise. So.. Lets say on the day of Mechanical Engg. Freshers, the newly enrolled students are called on stage (it's a closed hall only) and they are asked to give intro... The seniors might use some slangs however, that is restricted. They are asked to do funny things on the stage... And well that might be humiliating, i myself felt so in my first year. But again, thats nowhere close to what happened this time in hostel. As for me, i have never stayed in hostel and disliked even the "freshers" ragging. But I did attend all our departmental freshers in the four years of my college, because we often used to go out somewhere on that day after the freshers ended... Getting to spend time with your friends... Really am missing it now that i have joined a company. Anyway, that's the thing
@@danendrasarkar8569 you had disciplined college unlike mine. Where ragging was done anytime. Whether hostel or PG both will be the victim of ragging.. Hostel ones cannot do ragging of PG and vice versa...In department ones. Senior girls will do ragging with the support of boys. Our college ended up in news many times still there was no sign of improvement. And I am 2021 batch passout. Dont know about current situation though..
It is same reason why i choose to study near my hometown because ragging so much terrified me that i couldn't bear the thought of it. Also people who think the idea of ragging will improve the chances of developing a personality and then capable of facing the real world is ridiculous. The real world is already stressing and horrific that any naive student will gradually understand and adapt it towards.
It is gayops fr I used to get violent and my dad told me to curb it down fr Sometimes you gotta yell at the teachers and call them out on their bullshit
Lost almost 6 ,7 years of my 20's due to ragging and Bullying in a med school .. had lost all of my self confidence n momentum .. 30 yrs at present, still in med school , wanna make a comeback , and i will
Medical colleges are more into ragging than comparatively others. One of the reasons is some part of their academic assessment is dependent on Seniors.
mostly the neet qualifiers think theyve became god as they hear it everyday that "out of 20lac only 10k get selected" so i guess being better than those 19 lac 90000 student gives them the idea that they are better
@@Walter-vq3vm yeah definitely they are better infact surpassing 19lac is no joke but the pride devours people around them and their relationship with other
I'm studying in a medical college in Mangalore. Specifically in my college, any form of ragging is considered solid base for rusticating a student. Maybe that is why we never had instances of ragging. But when I became college senior, many juniors would ask why do you not rag us.. These kids have a pre-made idea in their heads about ragging and actually expects seniors to rag them and how cool will it be to be a part of such thing. Yes we do tell them to call final year students as Sir/ma'am but we've never seen any senior or as seniors ourselves have never done so much as to scold juniors for not doing it. I believe movies and series are the main cause for this glorification.
@@viratpatidar9152 we ask them to do it when we invite them for freshers party, infront of lecturers. If they don't call us that we never have a follow up to ensure they do. Infact we don't even have interactions with juniors unless necessary. Some of our seniors got suspended for entering juniors hostel without prior permission lol. So why do you think we'd risk it?
My teacher in our coaching told us when he was in IIT he had a friend who has beaten the crap out of his seniors and that senior students came in front of their hostel at night and had a very long verbal fight until the seniors left. He told us that the seniors were really nice to him, because he looked like a guy came from prison by jailbreak, but he was nice from heart, respect for that sir.❤❤❤
Thanked God, i went to Delhi University. I never faced any kind of ragging. Even seniors behaves very well to juniors because they wants Votes in DU elections. 😂 Because informally Election campaigning starts from the time of admissions...
Ragging is majorly exists in engineering & medical colleges/Institute, Colleges in DU have an ideal atmosphere what a college should have, seniors generally are helpful, peace in campus etc.
@@rishav2205same goes with AIIMS and IITs, These are also prestigious colleges and they have low quality ragging ( for example:- they will select you and and a unknown girl, both shall dance together, feed together 😢 )
Movies affect negatively but the movie table no. 21 that i saw at age 13,14 made me aware, I still remember the moment that movie revealed that all that revenge plot was because of ragging done by the characters, it made me aware which helped me to prevent my classmates from harassing juniors which was ragging. And the pattern was very simple. A professor slut shamed few of our classmates for cloth choices and then they went on a 'discipling' spree on juniors. I was shocked to see all this being done by my classmates whom I considered as good and sensitive people. I confronted them at the very same moment and all of them made me shut up, anyways the juniors forwarded a formal complaint, which worked as the leash on my classmates since then. The thing is that it is so normalised that people don't understand that their slight jokes and actions can have deep psychological impacts on the victims.
As an IITian fresher from IIT BHU, there is a policy of no ragging here . Seniors are polite and quite interactive. I recommend you to take a look at it and interpret their success of making this possible.
Proud to be associated with two wonderful colleges of my country. National PG College is in Lucknow, and GIM is in Goa, where the seniors would come forward to help the juniors get accustomed to the new atmosphere of college life. There is no ragging and bullying, just peaceful and cooperative coexistence.
Odisha south ki taraf jyda treat hota hee or south developed place hee Isliye odisha in sabse door hee lekin north ki taraf ab interest dene lage odisha kee log The future is not good for odisha
Just like IIT Delhi, many colleges in Pune had extremely strict policies against ragging. When I started 1st year engg, I never witnessed any ragging. Our professors told us report anything if any ragging incident is witnessed in or out of the college. When we went to second year, the professors had told us to not even ask for names of freshers/1st year student because in case of a complaint, the senior would be suspended from the college right away and then the investigation would take place. So yeah, that was my experience.
Even my friend passed out from IIT-Kharagpur, also revealed to me that, ragging is so common in IITs as well. Table No 21 film really highlights the mental trauma faced by its victim. But hardly people know about this film.
An alumni of DU here. As a reserved category student with minimum knowledge of English I expected to get bullied mercilessly in my first year. I was taken aback by the kindness and love shown by my seniors that I was initially suspicious 😹. Graduated with a distinction and I miss my elder brothers and sisters.
Ragging is not only in National Curriculum schools but also International school. It’s worst, I always reported such cases for me and my friends, but my friends said it is normal , we are just trying to connect and also say it’s scene of someone becoming mature. I can relate, doing what was right made me believe that the world is really on a wrong path specially Indian kids. Many of my good friends left me because I reported such cases and I am ok because I understand to live in realistic world and not a world which is made up of thoughts and made up of bad practices you know people who cannot think right.
bro you just exposed the reality of thr people who defend Ragging by giving Excuses which is so stupid and rude, it's good that you're not like others who Supports this heinous crime
Being a medical student I can feel that. Even college administration promotes it Even vice principal of our college support that. People are so egoistic that they snatch respect forcefully they don't earn in it.
So, I was at this wedding in a foreign country, hanging out with a bunch of people from different places. And you know what? I thought people didn't really know much about India except for maybe our diversity, culture, geography, and all that. But then someone mentioned the whole "Indians and alcohol" and "beating wives" thing, and honestly, I was pretty taken aback by that stereotype. It's crazy how perceptions can be so off sometimes!
but i have seen such conditions in many families around myself , it is good that you have not seen it around you but i have seen it a lot, ps i live in a 3rd tier city in india
Stockholm Syndrome most prevalent in Medical college because we learn the most from our seniors…Phylum is very common in Jharkhand colleges also, not amongst the students only but also amongst the professors and marks will be allotted likewise! If you donot belong to that phylum, pray to God to pass and study your a** off even if you were a topper in boards! This is a sad reality 🤦🏽♀️
Regarding Jadavpur University the worst part is that the university authorities don't have any power. They can't even install CCTV camera because the political students union violently opposes it. This reveals how the unions which were supposed for cooperation and protection are now filled with powerful & influential guys who themselves are engaged in oppression. My own materal uncle studied electrical engineering around 2000 and was made naked and ragged, he escaped from there and then spent the rest years in a mess. Even University students who already graduated stays in hostel illegally and no one dares to say them anything.
This union and political culture in west bengal colleges has ruined everything....college administration is absent over here each and every function is performed by union dadas and didis...one of the main reason for decline of state colleges in west bengal....you rightly said about ex students having a say in college matters ..have see it personally
I've enrolled in a college in Kolkata, and where I live is very near to Jadavpur. I was so shocked to know that a boy of my age had to die like this because of ragging That's why all of my friends studying outside of our town are living in paying guests or room rents, not in hostels I hope this is a wake-up call for the legal system and educational institutions to take strict actions against ragging. I want those criminals behind the bar who took away the life of such a young lad
I live in Northeast. In my college we don't have ragging amongst the local students but the students who come from other parts of India do ragging to the juniors. However they don't do it to the local students only to other students from mainland India because we always protect our own tribal people.
I had a conversation about it with my sister when I first came to know about ragging. I was completely against it and thought it was humiliating and absurd. She defended it as part of a personality development exercise. Till date, I've never understood that excuse. There are far better ways to improve your personality. Some psychopaths get a free hand in bullying, abusing and exploiting junior students on the pretext of "having fun" and "personality development" and feel instant gratification doing it. It's a classic case of sadomasochism. And this power dynamics between the senior and the junior students and the resultant hierarchy is also ridiculous. It's a college, not a battlefield or a caste system. It seems some people go back to their primitive animalistic origins and turn into savage beasts after entering a college and forget that they no longer live in a cave, but a civilized society. Such people actually require some 'intellectual development'.
This term "civilized society" is itself a joke. There is nothing like human civilization. In fact, humans are turning more violent than before with escaping punishment due to loopholes and more crimes are increasing. I don't think that there is really much difference between past and present other than two factors - crimes in more large scale and exposure of them due to communication processes. Otherwise, humans are more cruel and savage than wild beasts living in caves.
During my batchelors (2019-2022) we were given 15 written rules to follow which includes wearing formal shirt and pants, wishing the seniors good morning evening etc. We were often asked to do their assignments and records. They even harrassed us physically sometimes. There were regular intro system where we can't go to sleep till 4 am and sit in the common room repeating the introduction 40 50 times. They harrass us mentally and slangs were very common. Once we were told to pose for different sex positions and one of our classmates was forced to wear a bra and dance. We can't even complain about that the seniors were powerful and they don't fear to go to jail as they have already gone several times. Although two of us filed complaints but later they put a lot of pressure that we have to revoke that. There was a time I was asked to bring meals for 13-14 seniors to their rooms and I went to the canteen exactly 14 times that day. We were often told to kneel down or roll over the corridor. And the day one complained about it the cases worsened and the ragging became really intolerable. During my exam times I come home to prepare because they harrass more during the exams. Not only seniors we've been ragged by their friends and their seniors who were the pass out students of college but visit the hostel regularly.
Very well researched video. There are people with two types of mindsets in ragging: One the bullying mindset which rags, and second the willing victim mindset which voluntarily goes to get ragged. People with such mindsets then go join corporate world and ruins its culture as well. There is a saying - "If it is sin to cause pain to others, then it is equal sin to tolerate that pain".
I think, i have faced enough bullying in my high school then what i will face in my future college. I was so traumatized at that time, I still got goosebumps thinking about those times. I used to cry, keeping all things with me, thinking ppl will laugh at me if ill share what is happening w me, i still remember how badly i didn't want the teacher to leave the class before the period got ended I was so terrified with my bullies. I didn't want to face them during my lunch break also. Every time in the school i kept thinking about when school will get over and when I'll be home. I only carry bad memories of my high school no fun or enjoyment with friends and all stuff that other people do. I was totally unlucky because when these things were happening to me i did not have any single friends with whom I could share my things and why I'm not feeling good in school. There were 1 or 2 boys with me. I was friends with them for a while but with time they started getting jealous of me due to my good reputation in front of teachers and good scores in academics. They also started making fun of me and bullying me with other ones. This thing really broke me from inside. I remember those days when i was continuously thinking what i have done wrong with em and why they are treating me like this. A lot times I even changed my path coming back to home cause when they get me anywhere they start commenting on me and calling my name with different absurd names they have given to me, after coming back to home from school i used to cry a lot in my room. This mental trauma of mine really affected my focus and concentration into studies also, but hopefully I got good marks in my boards. mostly ppl still think bullying/ragging is not not a big deal. It's normal but actually it is not. That's why I was hesitant to talk with any new person in my new school thinking what if they'll get comfortable with me and start all those things which happened with me in last school . My those tough time was in 2020-21 and now I'm in 12th standard in different school and here I got some real friends with whom I enjoy a lot. I really think my real school life started in the new school but I only got 2 years in which I year has passed and I had made a lot memories of it but I'm happy now with my this school life ☺️ totally saturated
Thank you so much for covering this topic. It infuriates me to see indian cinema glorify ragging. I have often seen ragging as a medico. Becoming a doctor itself is soo challenging, the last thing anyone wants is seniors pestering us to inflate their ego. Trust me, if you help your juniors or even just be a decent person, your juniors will respect you. I went out of my way to ease my seniors' workload who actually tried to teach me. I genuinely respect them and look upto them.
@@pr00009 @pr00009 Yes, I agree. I'm just speaking from my experience. I just dislike films glorifying violence by adding badass music in the background and them having no consequences instead of just portraying a character. Its some films, not all.
I was verbally abused and harassed by seniors just because I don't wish them.They were so obsessed with me because I look different from them and they kept on pestering me for no reason at all. The amount of ego they had if they were ignored. But now I am grown up man, if they dare bully me , I'll punch their face
@@greenscenery1974 I'm sorry you had to go through it. I don't understand how some people can be so cruel and twisted. I hope you heal from it. Even though I don't condone violence, I'm glad you are able to defend yourself.
One similar case happened to me. I took admission in a private college but after one or two days, I with my hostel roommates were stopped by some seniors. And they on the spot, in the middle of the ground, asked(in a very authoritative way) to give introduction. As soon as heard it, i left the pack silently. And the consequences were that, I was the only student in 1st year who was left alone and had not friends despite having good room mates. Due to which i stopped going for classes. And this resulted me not allowed to give exams and reported failed for the first time in my life. I left the college in the first 6 months. I joined another government college but didn't go to classes 97% of the time because I had showed them my doctor's prescription that I'm not well in terms of health both mentally and physically. Sad state of education system. My parents have asked me to do masters but I denied it.
Devastating to see the harsh reality of ragging in our colleges. The incident at Jadavpur University is a heartbreaking reminder that change is overdue. My thoughts are with the victim's family and all those protesting for justice.
I think students of JV have taken an oath to make college popular for wrong reason....college should be convert to central govt. Funded college which will be good decision.
@jaidipkumardigpati no JU is still one of the best college in India for engineering field and highly subsidized.... the ragging incident is unfortunate which happens in a lot of colleges in India. Few months back a similar incident happened in IIT Kharagpur where a murder charge was invoked.
I am from west bengal I feel really sorry for the incident happened here in jadavpur Ragging should be stopped immediately and strict laws should be implemented I too have a young daughter and I think I won't be able to send her to any distant college
I am from Kolkata , ex student of University of Calcutta. Actually those illegal activities are entertained mostly by the seniors associated with the student unions. In this case, our local government is eye washing us by arresting 9 people but actually they are not doing anything to stop ragging. In every Colleges & Universities in our state, the ultimate situation is same, ragging is everywhere and it is unstoppable as those student unions are workings in favor of government instead of student. Our local government is using the institute to generate polititians for future instead of producing educated one.
But seriously previous year I took admission in Maharaja Surajmal Institute of Technology , but there is no ragging culture there anymore , instead the seniors were very supportive
I am a second year student in NIT Agartala... a couple of days ago 5 students from 4th year broke a 2nd year student's arm... college administration is filled with people that are highly incompetent (in every possible way)and don't take any action
I remember my first day at university. A group of seniors came and they started pointing out individuals and call them to the podium and ask them to introduce themselves, where they would interrupt, confuse and make fun. They would ask irrelevant and tricky questions in front of whole class. It might be a form of mild ragging but many students find it difficult to talk in front of a huge audience at first. I remember, They pointed out to a boy and asked them to come to the podium but that boy declined. They insisted but he remained adamant. ultimately He didn’t come but he didn’t even come to the university after that day. He actually left 😢because He felt ashamed and embarrassed
I have also been a victim of ragging in my medical collage and that was beyond vulgarity,and rudity we were treated like servents ,and we were told to have drinks 🍷🍷 ,I took a step and complaint agnist my sceniors but nothing happened instead whole the collage started treating me as a outcast .......... I have been traumatized But am happy that people like you raised this underrated topic of our socity 👍👍👍
I was smoking a cigarette with my friend during my btech 1st year near a tea stall and 4-5 fully drunk guys from final year were there , they called us and asked for our I'd card and when they found out that we are from 1st yr and smoking cigarettes they told like how did you dare to smoke cigarettes in front of the seniors and started beating us, we could not do anything as we were outnumbered by them, the ragging finally ended with a warning to never do it again .After that incident I was depressed for like 6 months, that was the most dark phase of my life, somehow I got out of that phase from God's blessings but I have never done ragging in my entire life even if I had chances. Anyone out there who is going through this , please don't be silent , raise your voice and register police complaints or inform college Authority.
Don't forget to report it to the principal and police once you can't tolerate it. Or else just report it even if it happened for the first day. Save yourself.
Raggeing mere sath hua hai bhai mujhe senior ne uska juta saaf karaya mere rumal se lekin kuch din baad main ne uska bike ka break ka tar Kat Diya uska accident hua tha or hospital main admit tha 😎🤣
Don't stutter and stay with your eye contact. Don't give a chance to anyone from the beginning no matter who they are. If you feel like that anyone isn't behaving properly with you then react in the first moment you feel it... Don't hesitate to have a discussion with them and make things clear. If it extends then report. Mostly stay confident wherever you go , don't show your weakness even if you are terrified then no one dares to mess with you. This is the one thing that helps me the most and believe me I haven't experienced any kind of bullying till now.
Glad to be a part of Delhi University. Seniors here are so helpful, any kind of help we can ask them for. You can either message them or you can ask them face to face in college campus. Not just from same department but seniors from other departments and even other colleges also are utmost help. Thanks to DU and more specifically Kirori Mal college. ❤
If you have been ragged, you can seek help here:
UGC Toll-free Anti -Ragging Helpline Number 1800-180-5522
E-mail - helpline@antiragging.net
nah mene toh body shody bana di agr koi pitne aye toh me usse pit du or proof k liye mere pass spy pen record krlunga sb kuch
@@gamingbeast2493😂😂 meri height 6 foot aur body bhi hai, ready rehna main teri ragging karne ke liye ready huun.🤣😂 (Just joking)😂
saar sorry saar maf krdo sar aisa toh me nhi bolne wla kyuki meri height bhi 5.9 foot hai :) wwe kre ga ? lol@@THOMAS_SHELBY434
Bhai vo chodo, aapki kabhi hui hain kya RAGGING
@@gamingbeast2493tere jaise 36 seniors pade honge college main
*"We live in a society where IGNORANCE is celebrated, while WISDOM is critisized"*
_-Carl Sagan_
Amrut kal me yahi hone wala hai
@@muzamilbux5342 The irony.
True
So true..
Please guys upvote better comments, not these influencer quotes from famous people.
I still dont understand why tf do we have to respect seniors just cause they're a year or two older than us, respect is always earned
Yahi to yelog nhi samjhte nah, aur college mein koi senior-junior nahin Hota these are just semester based like Tum Ek Sal Kuchh mahine Aage padh rahe ho aur main thoda Piche that's it Tumne bilkul sahi Kaha people should respect their privacy like jab marzi baat karna hai to karenge,nahin karna To Nahin Karenge simple baat khatm.
Problem is those seniors well aware of this as they were juniors earlier
Yes agreed
Indian and other asian cultural belief that elders always know better than the younger one
Feels like they are in eugenics idelogy where they are think they are supreme
Bro always picks the right topic when society really needs it
@@cosmiclegend4181delusional 🤡
Exactly He is fooling Liberals. These people just want to deteriorate India's image@@cosmiclegend4181
exactly, India's news channels be talking about pakistani gaming jihd and aloo jihd
literally there are 2 types of colleges here, the anarchic ones like this where you can fire crackers in principles office and nothing happen and the jail ones where the staff are the ones ragging
@@cosmiclegend4181bro india is very big country
kahi na kahi ragging hoti hi hai
@@newtinehe is those people who dont see statistics
Those who rag, should not be treated as students but criminals and punished accordingly. To harm someone is not a joke, to insult someone is not a joke.
If ppl believe that ragging help juniors bond with seniors, we are failing as a society.
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If you're a junior and bigger in size than the seniors, you can beat the shit out of them. That's the exact thing we did when we were getting ragged in our first week in the college.
Sad to see how ragging culture is still normalized in colleges to an extent. Being a bengali myself, I feel apologized to all of those who've been victims of this culture and the incident happened in such a so-called prestigious university
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@@Jeaucquesjai shree ram 🌬️💨 Kan be police montri kothai police er sathe ki korse 🌬️💨💨
@@rikionmood6237 always police police what that universities what are they doing they should know what is happening in there college
@@Jeaucquesit's a slogan that got popular during 1970-71 when West Pakistan was imposing Urdu in East Pakistan (now Bangladesh) and Bengali movement was going on in East Pakistan. The term got so popular that when during winter, refugees from Bangladesh accidentally brought in conjunctivitis that spread in West Bengal, it used to be called as joy bangla. Just wanted to tell this fun fact. Nothing political.
It is a prestigious university for sure when it comes to engineering field....ragging happens in IITs also...last year one student committed suicide because of ragging in IIT Kgp. Ragging is a serious issue and it has to be dealt with seriousness.
The Jadhavpur University case is extremely disturbing
I cannot imagine, the amount of pain and humiliation that 17 year old innocent boy would have gone through.
The culprits must be given life imprisonment
Exactly 😢
It's just an instance, ragging is just like a normal thing in that University
The boy was 18 years old .
It's very sad. And one of the accused when he was arrested was showing middle finger to the camera. Imagine their audacity.
Not everybody is like that though. They have a good nirf ranking. Political unions are destroying the univ glory.
Being a first yr student from a government medical College...i can confirm that more than 95% of the students entering medical field face ragging...i entered my clg after qualifying neet exam and my parents were so proud of me then ...but it was the first time living away from home ...i was the youngest of my batch and had cleared the exam without any drop ...i used to feel homesick and then came the burden of learning the "funda" made by the seniors ...after my parents left me the first day ...i came back inside my room weeping and was soon instructed by a senior ki "funda m rehna seekhle ab " ...acc to them ...we had to bow down our head , wish them calling ma'am and sir , wear salwar kurta and plate our hairs after oiling them ...and remain 24*7 this way ....once i went to the washroom midnight with open hair and i was scolded by them...that was all still fine ...but they made us write their copies ...do their personal work and would also shout on us ...boys were beaten up and girls were asked to walk all the way from hostel to clg without even a umbrella over our head in scorching heat and sunlight of mid may and june ...and no one went to complain bcoz ultimately they say ki seniors se bna kr rkho ...yh baad m pdhaenge humein ...and this happens in every medical clg ..no one complains of anything.... ik it's not much what happened to me ...but it's bcoz i left hostel afterwards and shifted to a pg outside within few months ...god knows what all still is happening with my batchmates
Horrified reading this .....which year did you join your med school...must have been a terrible experience for you
u are in which medical college??
As an IIT Delhi student, I used to think the measures our college put up against ragging (like literally 0 interaction in the first month when freshers come in) were too extreme. Hearing about these stories, I'm now happier about their strong actions to prevent ragging.
Bhai UP and bihar mai kya ho raha hai yaar 😢😢
Our current political system selling us the pipe dream of India becoming USA / China in the coming decades, but the system fails to explain how. As you all now India can't become manufacturing super-power beating China. (As, in India democracy instituted earlier than capitalism, unlike the west/ China, so the lackluster labour laws favourable for capitalists now can't be passed as a lot of trade unionism present in India due to democracy).
In service sector also, India can't become industry leader, as India missed the semi- conductor bus. (That's why ChatGPT like innovation can't take place in India, even in China. As the value system of oriental societies is very different from Occidental one that promotes innovation by embracing failure)
in Asia, every admission is happen through cut - throat competition & after cracking it the burn-out effect kicks in, which make people to look for cosy & comfortable job rather than going to the route of entrepreneurship. (Remember that, till now, there is no indian product is used in everyday life of westerners & it's 2023 & don't fall for the fake narrative that UPI would dominate the world, just think of USA, the country which houses NASA, military industrial complex, leads in complex technologies like aircraft, jet engine etc can't make UPI ?)
Our political system is propagating a myth that in next 5-10 yrs, Indian economy will experience phenomenon like of China in 1980s.
But the rise of China is a very unique phenomenon like rise of USA. A lot of factor have to converge to make it happen. ( Like currency manipulation done by China ,but now not possible for others )
As for that to happen, especially in Asia, (governance effective authoritarianism) is the way to go. Eg: China, Singapore, Dubai, Japan (military based) etc.
But in India, it would never gonna happen. BJP will keep on winning in Lok- Sabha election, but replicating the success at state level will become increasingly difficult. As you can see, BJP still couldn't penetrate in South India even after long 10 yrs. Is the people of south India not pro- development, patriot enough to choose BJP?
Can you give an example of a country where Religion dominates the centre of politics, but achieved economic success.
Summerising, my point of view, if you come from middle-class / upper-class & want to do job, please move abroad. Don't look for opportunities in India. Mumbai, Bangalore still lacks basic infra, spectacular view of modernism etc.
Yes, India would experience spectacular growth, but it would be always urban- centric, unequal and finally everywhere collapse of infra in cities will be witnessed due to population pressure & eventual demise of quality of life in emerging cities. (As We don't have Hukou system of China, reason behind non-existence of slums in Chinese cities). The devaluing rupee again would add to the misery, even to escape from India would be difficult as foreign trips / migration would cost heavily on your pocket. Indian visa ranks very poorly, ask anyone the hassles one has to face when having the Indian visa. (Recently, Mukesh Ambani could be seen delivering his grandson in US,as they follow "Jus Suli", i.e Birth-based citizenship)
Have you guys seen recent crowd in the meet-up of BiggBoss winner Elvish Yadav? How unemployment deeply affecting even the economy of rich states like Haryana can be gauged. If Haryana is doing so good then why most of the students of kurukshetra University leaving India ??
I can go on, but stopping here.
The central govt, BJP is doing amazingly good, but still it has problems.
I have my reservation wrt rich states like Haryana also, where the state CM attends meet-up arranged by a youtuber.
So, in coming decades, if you want to do job then migrate & if you want to do business, then India, as here you can bend rules easily to outcompete others.
(If someone is very hopeful of our start- up eco-system, then please do your R&D deeply).
What's your opinion in India's future ?
Yeah Mit Manipal is pretty good with it too these other colleges need to pay more attention to it
@RamKumar-eh1ym nothing made me more cringe than reading this
@@harshmehta329 why?
Unable to comprehend?
Do eat Badam daily.
Ragging is like a crime, it should stop. Only indisciplined or bad upbringing students do this. College management is also responsible of giving freedom to this.
Yeah, college management itself is the biggest culprit
It's not like a crime.. it's a 'crime'
@@sohampanja3well said😂
@@atharvabedarkarwell upbriging defends it, it is done by the person
@@satyasankalpapanigrahi9416 Shame on those people who do ragging for their own benefit, & play with someone's emotions..so sad, it's horrific. instead seniors shld be so much cooperative humble and supportive towards juniors who are new to college and show their dignity.. rather doing such vulgar acts. even it's a bad remark to college reputation, Strict action should be taken. here management is biggest responsible.
It's so sad that ragging culture is not deteriorating rather than gradually increasing day by day.
Which College you go to ? This is Fake there is no Ragging in India.
@@yashjindal6234abe tune saare colleges me jaake survey liya hai kya???
@@yashjindal6234Bhai tu kitni colleges mein roz jata hai? Mere college mein to hai.
Sir please one video on how countries use terrorist for their interests
@@newtine to tune kitno ka survey le liya ??? jo opinion hai usse hi fact manna band karo bhot ai universities me ragging band ho chuki hai including mine
As a medical student ragging really hurts mentally and socially 😢
Have you ever experienced?
Have you been ragged sir ?
Bhai anonymously jisko bhi ho raha hai, report karo¡ ragging ke vids lena mat bhulo, evidence ke liya use kar sakto ho. Don’t silence your voice, speak it out LOUD , we must stop this bs in our country
@@SanskritiPawar5678 college will be against you they can also remove you from college
What do you say about when juniors rag their seniors? Doesn't that hurt senior mentally? Doesn't that hurt the senior's academic performance?
If the senior has not ragged anyone in life, but he is ragged by juniors, why there is no provision to address that?
It is hard to imagine how ragging can turn into a murder crime just because victims try to go against it. It is horrible.
True
It's too much disturbing and scary at the same time
Welcome to West Bengal 😢😢😢 this state is horrible
It hurt ego of senior when victim oppose it.
Yes, It is horrible.
@@self-explorer this is there in many a engineering colleges throughout India not only in WB... and it is horrible
it's shameful for me when my sister normalise this topic and say "bezatti toh sabki hi hoti hai medical college mein" I feel disgusted, that how can someone see or accept themselves in that situation and normalise it.
Something is wrong with her . People like her understand only when it happens to their loved one .
Deal ragging or thinking of ragging with care, compassion. Calling her "disgusting" will not change her mind, make her feel the hurt, humiliation people go through. Make her feel that you can also go through that, so instead of supporting it, you should be vocaly against it.
A note to every student: what use is education if you end up torturing people instead of being kind!? Every life is precious, ragging should be condemned and students involved should be severely punished. Take ragging cases lightly, we're doomed.
And if we report no teachers would take it seriously and then we either have to leave or bear it. Then we do the same to our juniors thus repeating the cycle. When will it ever stop 😢
@@jisungiee810your so called teachers are not your well wishers. They teach you just for their bread and butter or just another person doing for livelihood. Teacher bahut mil jayenge per guru itne years may 2-4 he milenge it can be any gender, they teach without any judgement,any competition but teachers mostly do unnecessary drama, self competence from students, favouritism, mentally torture, taunt marna and everything they do,they knows what they are doing on any students. Every teacher that time 30+ age, they very well knew everything. Vo ye bilkul bhi nahi keh sakte ki ohh mujhe toh kuch pata he nahi tha if they pretend, they are corrupt person.
Kyunki, agar 30-40+ age main may kisi bache ko kuch galat bolta hoon toh mujhe pta hai ki Maine Aisa kyun kiya,nahi toh tumhe lagta hai tum kisi bhi bache ya kisi kisi ko bhi aise he bol doge? Just any stranger child?
@@jisungiee810 Then you are not reporting to teachers, they are mere employees just not fit to be called teachers. If they don't take take a stand in such situations, they are failing to do their job as a teacher. They may not be able to help you directly but at least directing to the concerned authority should do the job.
I was ragged during my engineering. I was slapped from behind by the seniors in our classroom while everyone was watching and I was studying during break. They hit me because they wanted to rag me and I wasn't giving in. I was so enraged that I threw the bench. I swear I would have killed someone in that group, but I stopped myself because it was not worth it. They never messed with me after that. I never ragged my juniors as I know how it feels. I wish I'd have called the cops sometimes. But things were different back then, I was from a poor family. Atleast, people will change now. This was 12 years ago. Hyderabad, Telangana.
Uk, in my college nothing's gonna happen if I will call the cops, instead they will start a protest against me that I'm the villain ...they have power of politics also that's why...
They aree soooo bad ....I'm really ashamed to be part of that medical college.
Everyone isn't as strong as you
I feel happy and appreciate your courage to not give up
What is cops bro....here we use police word ....Why people wanna be American nowdays
It's not wannabe Americanism lol ,it's just that they primarily consume content in American English which caused them to speak that way @@Jennie-q8i
Me and my batchmates had been ragged very brutally during our college days. The seniors got us undressed, abused us verbally, and physically. Once, they asked 4 specific people to come to a ground full of grass around 11 pm and asked them to hold the four corners of a mosquito net because the senior wanted to sleep on the ground. One of those folks also got dengue and suffered in the hospital for 2 weeks. People were asked to call the senior 'sir' or 'ma'am', and were said "90 maaro", which was bowing down to a senior. I have seen a senior spitting and urinating on one of my batchmates also. It is very humiliating and unacceptable. Watching this video made me almost cry. We were asked to talk 5 sentences on our mother or sister, and then seniors asked us to replace selected words from those sentences with private parts to make those sentences sexually explicit and unspeakable. There were many students including myself, who thought its better to end our lives than to live like this, with sheer tears in our eyes.
On the other side, it was very surprising to see how the people who actually did get ragged started to rag juniors when they became seniors themselves.
I am so broken until this day, even though it's been almost 3.5 years since I graduated. It's like a permanent damage in my head.
can you reveal the college name , or atleast state , and stream
Hey Shantanu! I can’t even imagine the horrors you had to go through in your college years. But please don’t give up. If possible, take therapy and focus on your future goals and surround yourself with your family and friends. Remember that they are always there to give you unending love and support! I wish you the best in life! Sending you virtual hugs!😊
college ka naam bhi bata do bhai....pol khulni chahiye aise college ki
@@child_of_Lilith__avenge your humiliation
Bhai itna horror experience bta Diya ab college ka naam toh bta deta ..yeh toh suspense bna diya kam se kam aur kisi ki life ruin hone se toh Bach jaegi jo yeh nye bche jaa rhe aajkal college me
Aur sath me aise colleges ka sach saamne aana hi chahiye badnami ke dar se hi shi par action toh lenge
This Swapnadeep's murder case has really shattered me. Nowadays ragging is so normalised that we've started to ignore it most of the times, until something serious like this happens. But we should protest against any kind of ragging, because ragging itself is wrong!
And guys Swapnadeep's case was not just about ragging, he was sexually harassed by his seniors before his naked body fell from the third floor (it still remains a mystery whether he jumped by himself or someone pushed him). But either way, it was a murder! It breaks my heart each time I see his parents crying on the news channels. All the criminals should be punished, I hope Swapnadeep gets justice.
He was most probably made to walk on the corridor pavement which is a common ragging there. Might be he got disbalanced. Hope culprits get capital punishment
@@Bong_Madridista Yupp that's I saw that in news too. But if he was forced to walk on the pavement in 'that' condition, I see no difference from pushing him off. It was kinda obvious that he'd lose his balance. Also I believe they didn't want him to survive, because if he did, he could've exposed them.
one thing I am sure is he didn't commit suicide, no one will commit suicide without clothes his dead body had no clothes. He actually told his dad that he wasn't ok that's why Sourav and others killed him
Let him get justice, but it's hard to think as state government or Indian government will not take any action. The rich people will give money and all the case will be closed
Just like rape cases...we only care about it until the situation is as worse as Nirbhaya or Hathras and countless others !!!!!
Good lord, save this country !!!!!
There is one more type of ragging that is rarely discussed. Ragging done by the professors. Not all or most professors are rude and insensitive but some of them are.
So freaking true
Yes its true
Kya bola hai wah ❤
Yea to har jgha hota he
@@idiotme5478speaking truth is idiotic thing...telling the solution is the best thing..beat seniors badly is the best way of avoiding ragging..
In my perspective the seniors who abuse and rag their juniors instead of helping them are the most emotionally WEAKEST PEOPLE ever. They just can't help their feeling of insecurity of being respected.
Ragging is a nightmare especially for those students who come from a poor,rural and conservative family. My father once said that he was worstly ragged by seniors bcz he couldn't sing or dance being from a rural family when he entered his B.A.M.S. college. He said he was so terrified that he couldn't sleep for 8 days and wanted to go back to Village and do farming instead of studying in B.A.M.S.
My uncle also used to be a bright student, he cracked both engineering and medical entrances and got into the state's most prestigious medical College but was severely ragged back in the late 70s due to which he left and did a general degree from a local college. He later cleared bank exams and became a bank manager but had he stayed and the seniors were respectful, he could have been a great doctor 😢
@@missionpehlapageair1holypdf Sometimes it's better to live a peaceful and less successful life than to live a chaotic successful one
Ragging don't have any background the main accuse of jadavpur is from poor rural background
I'm a jee student. Primary reason I feel for this is that, we are told study for two years, ruin your mental health for two years, next 4 years you can do whatever you want. These students (who manage to get into premier institutes) then think they are kings, and can do whatever they want...
My chemistry teacher, who graduated from iit delhi, openly boasts about horrible tales of ragging. He told us stories about how he would randomly boss over his roommate, make him feel shit etc... Worst is he was actively promoting this culture amongst the guys in our class, he was like once you get to college you will have to do this, it is culture, to be a man you have to rag etc. Honestly sick and tired of the stem culture in our country
Idk if your teacher were really from IITD because there's no ragging culture there.
@@Jee2024IIT he graduated in early 2010's. Maybe situation has changed now.
Are you a dropper ? (i am also another jee student)
@@jimjonesputhenparambil nope, 24 jeetard
@@kracks9852 cool best of luck
My brother is studying in AIIMS bhopal .His senior did his ragging,they used to say abusive words to him. One day one of his classmates complained about ragging to dean . Those senior literally warned everyone to stay away from that guy and started bully him really harshly. As he was alone and was treated badly in the end he had to left the college because of this torture.
I just wonder he would have worked so hard to get into AIIMS but even after succeeding his dream he have to leave it behind.
Bro hamare area me same hua tha ragging huyi ladke ki or usne jab usne ladayi ki toh un logo ne unko bahut mara or us bhai ne teacher ko v bola police ko bola firr v koi fayda ni hua or kuch din baad uski ragging band ho gayi or uski ragging band hone k kuch din baad 10-12 din baad use kisi ne goli maar k khtm kar diya
That is how seniors manipulate juniors in medical field. They will threaten you saying you will be boycotted by entire batch, won't be allowed in fests and won't be helped with academics as well. And all this is done so that you accept the oppression.
And only in your final years you realise that their is NO significant role of seniors in academics of yours, boycotting is forgotten after some period and no-one even remembers that you were blacklisted from co-curricular activities.
So guys don't fear and raise your voice to any kind of injustice as its better to walk alone with dignity......
Yeah toh hota hain , when you voice out against some wrong
thing , criminals try to suppress you 😡😡😡.
@@realgoat501very dangerous
@@sreyosibera4611even the judiciary also suppress the innocent people
Raggers should be jailed for 10 years and denied government jobs all their life.
Yeh India ha bhai
@@krishnas.7373don't be the ROYAL FELLOW OF SOCIETY as u portray
As an 2nd year student at IIT Delhi, I must say that the measures that our college has taken to stop ragging are simply commendable. If any fresher even accuses a senior of ragging, very strict action is likely to be taken by the Disciplinary Committee and the senior may even be expelled from college if proven guilty. The members of the Disciplinary Committee even "raid" hostel rooms regularly in the first month of freshers entering college, during which any junior-senior interaction is strictly prohibited. As a result of this proactiveness, neither me nor any of my friends have been ragged in the first year, completely eliminating any form of raging from IITD.
congratulations broo
MANIT Bhopal students left the video 😅
Bhai tumhare funde nahi hote kya IIT me or branch konsi h ek baar intro do yaar funde me
strange that in such scenarios the educated deem it right to investigate the accused senior if a junior mere accuse them for ragging. but for abuse and assault on women and girls, they are almost unanimously believed to be a liars by the same "educated society".
A little out of the box questions - bhai kuch tips de de , mai jee 2024 dunga isliye kuch tips mil jati 😀
I am from BIT Mesra from jharkhand and can proudly say that there is no ragging in this college. I am a second year student and faced no ragging till now.
You stay in hostel Or PG?
@@subratadas5652 hostel
I am a first year student at BIT Mesra
All the best
@@subratadas5652it's a deemed university
In my first year of Engineering at IITK Kanpur, I also felt the Stockholm syndrome of ragging. I was very shy and soft-spoken in my first year, but seniors forced me to abuse and recite their slogans in loud voices. That time I also felt that the intention of my seniors is good, and they want me to prepare myself for the harshness of the real world. But after graduating from college and facing the real world, I can never feel that the behavior of my seniors was justified at that time.
It depends how good your seniors are, not everyone is lucky to have good seniors
@@benudharmadhi4154 Ya surely, The seniors who forced me to abuse, i can never categorize them as good seniors.
@@benudharmadhi4154yes that's part of the problem isn't it? Nobody should have to think, "Are mera luck kharab tha" while dealing with bad seniors. 'Bad seniors' shouldn't even exist.
Exactly. This Stockholm syndrome is very common in relationships too actually
wait u faced this in Indian institute of technology kanpur?
Even I was ragged in my 2nd year. I got saved in 1st year as it was College was closed due to Covid. The seniors humiliated me, stripped me naked except underwear, and paraded me across the whole hostel. When I complained this to my Principal, he instead scolded me and told me to respect the seniors. The seniors are so cruel that they just told my classmates to stay away from me and I was humiliated by seniors in every lab class. It ruined my mental health. One thing I can confirm that Charles Darwin was right. We evolved from Chimpanzees. As my seniors still showed these ape like traits. Human are just evolved apes. Now thanks to SAT I will be pursuing my BTech from a US University. This why brain drain happens in my country.
i am in class 11 and today i got bullied and slapped on my face while being called chashmish or oii chashme ( cause i wear glasses) , because of that slap my glasses fell on the ground and my lens broke and guess what my school did against that kid . Nothing . absolutely nothing . Now i am scared to even go to school cause now that he know that i told the teachers about it the person who bullied me along with his friends might target me and beat me up in the washroom ( they have a record of having a 5 v 1 with a boy and almost beating him up ) . Today i also realised that i have no true friends cause while this was happening most of my friends were there and none of them wanted to come with me to the staffroom to complain , none of them stood up for me in front of that boy or screw it even ask me if i was ok later on during the day which felt worse than the slap itself .
@@Tlag78 bhai 5 hai to kya hua apna gussa nikal ek to maar baaki dar ke bhagjayenge
Sooo horrible incidence 😔 ...and shame on that Principal
@@KARTIKSAXENA688 bro hamesha jruri to nhi ki jo Banda ragged ho rha hai vo strong hi ho Kai bar aisa hota hai ki bhai toppers jo hote hai vo itne strong nhi hote aur unki height bhi Kam hoti hai 😢 Or jruri to nhi ki sab galti hmari hi hai school ke principal ko bhi to samajhna chahiye . Mereko to school period me bhi ragging kiya gya by my classmates . But thank my luck, my older friends helped me and told to me that anyone if troll me I ask to them . Thanks to them ❤😢😢😢
@@ibtasamparween771 Yes Bhai sab ko bas apni padi hai😢
I studied in a relatively new college in South Karnataka. The college had a 0 tolerance for ragging policy and made sure it stayed like that.
You are lucky 😊
Bhai are you from Manipal
Nai Bhai. PESITM Shimogha
Still a soft kind of bullying happens in colleges in Karnataka especially in colleges and students from areas of Mysore Karnataka.
@@sudhakar7889 any example of ragging
It's sad to see some of the people I went to University with are involved in such a heinous case.
Choose a university where election held , under students union it is really rare especially if you are from a group like ABVP or NSUI 😊
You are right, in du this is one of the primary reason
😢
Some people are still busy mentioning student unions. Why don't you take some rest people?
@@Aditya-ri4iq as a north campus student i confirm 🤣
Really a great video!
I am from IIT Delhi and can say rules regarding ragging are very strict here.
1) for 1 month theres a curfew period where no senior can interact with a fresher
2) a large focus is also given on awareness regarding ragging and anti-ragging measures on campus.
3)the punishment in getting caught are very strict. Therefore no one tries to break it.
I wish even other colleges apply these rules.
That’s a good rule !!
As a former medical student... I salute you for showcasing this... We used to suffer a lot in hostel and we were forced to undergo some special classes after 10 pm by seniors and so many unspeakable things happened to each of us😢
What happened in those special classes?? what did they teach you? and what kind of unspeakable things?? if you feel comfortable about sharing some of it?? by the way really sorry you had to go through that
Which college?? Can you tell the name??
@@btslover199 silchar medical college
@@ATOTS17 i rather not speak of it...
Sending you lotsa love
I faced one of the embarrassing and worst "Ragging" in 1994 in Medical school in India and ran away from the hostel and never returned throughout my medical college times. After 30 years today morning, I am thinking about the same issue, Ragging in America Vs India - as I just returned from dropping my elder one in College here in America (Settled in America Now). Contrary to my college memories, what I saw yesterday at college here is totally different - many seniors came and worked as volunteers to shift the luggage and helped us move in. Humiliation or making fun of others exists in every culture - but how we propagate and how we adapt - is more important - I believe coming generations in India deal with this issue better and respect juniors. There are so many ways to know your juniors and make them friends - not just ragging. Thanks to see such a wonderful analysis on this topic from you, just subscribed to you lol (I do not follow much of Indian CZcams). I too have a CZcams channel and currently doing episodes on differences in the education system here and there but sure I will address this topic of Ragging Vs Hazing in my own way for my Telugu Audience.
Did you attend the last TANA meeting?
@@missionpehlapageair1holypdf Nope and never been to TANA. I am just registered with American Humanist Association and my Radiology societies. Rest I stay away from whatever service I intend to do in India - I am doing it personally and will help some friends.
I was a victim of ragging in 2013, 10 years ago.. I told my father about it, he slapped me twice (he never hit me before or after that day) and said only one thing, how could you let this happen to you and with people who you call friends? We didn't raise you to be a coward. The next day I slapped that guy twice on both his cheeks when he was eating lunch with his peers. That sent a strong message across the students and everyone told me that they would never dare to do such thing bcz they feared confrontation later.. Later that day my father strictly told me, not to feel proud about what I did and it was morally not the correct thing to do but the right thing to send a message. He told me that my slap would stick with that guy for his entire life rather than if a teacher hit him. My father also expressed his college days when he was ragged and that day he promised himself that he would never let his child to be a part of it or simple accept it.. Miss you dad ✊🏻
That's actually extremely disgusting.
Whatever 🤷🏻♂️
That was pretty brave of you but one shouldn't do that, those seniors are present in huge numbers and in the past there have been incidents of juniors getting mobbed and even killed by few bully seniors
Chad dad 🔥
Just want to be clear it was about the message my dad gave me, and now that I've grown up I can say what he did was absolutely correct and i would've done the same. He meant it in a positive way and it really had an impact on me and the child who would've been down the bad road if that message was not given to him.
This was probably the most important video at this point, being a JU (Jadavpur University) aspirant this terrified my whole family which even made me rethink my decision about opting for the college.
Jadavapur university is best university in West Bengal for science and Technology.
You should not worry about ragging because almost 99℅ ragging is found in college hostels.
@@subratadas5652 So your suggestion is to stay in PG ?
I am also an JU aspirant.
@@prabhatgorai_me_1391don't stay in college hostel.....most ragging incidents happen in college hostels....
Solution simple leave West Bengal
Bahar chole jaao bhai
Best in wb to tokhon hobe jokhon jibon thkbe
@@prabhatgorai_me_1391 Solution is to report incident to police if ragging happens. And ragging happens all over India, to fight it u need fighter's spirit, fight back if such things happen.
I recently started college as a first year vet student. On the orientation day we were told to respect seniors and abide by whatever they say. Later at night we were told to assemble in the common room of our hostel and were told about supposed mandatory rules, addressing seniors as sir/mam, greeting them individually whenever we encounter them, follow a school kid like dress code, not look them in the eye, to not say anything unless they ask you to, etc. Mind you, these were our immediate seniors, means they become seniors literally that day itself and it hasn't been long since they themselves went through it. In addition we are asked to assemble every night and for an hour or two they basically humiliate us so as to teach us "manners". The college is well aware of it and it even seems as if they promote such atrocities. There is an anti ragging committee but complaining to them is like talking to a wall and by doing so you risk becoming a target. It's infuriating to see how ragging culture is prevailing in our country.
I am also a vet student
I understand you.
Ragging is no way tolerated.
Respect is earned .
People who demand respect openly are shameless people and inflated ego
Mention the college
Not only seniors, teachers also do. they do it mentally. ..which affect the students mental health. ...💔💔💔
Very good point
And then teachers cry we deserve respect
This is why I'm proud my college has an anti-ragging policy. Our seniors treated us well, and we intend to do the same for the juniors ❤
nearly every clg has it
@@krushnamali6183 The more important thing is how effectively it is enforced.
Which college
@@fisher9943 Stella Maris
Ragging might be gradually reducing in Engineering colleges but it is still prelevant in Medical colleges ! (central colleges are an exception but the govt state colleges are the "adda's" of ragging today)
Are you joking why central colleges are an exception
@@pratheek152 relatively its less cuz students come from all parts of India so the grouping of students based on cultural and linguistic similarities reduces unlike state govt colleges !
Also the authorities in central colleges are more active......
@@preetgamer1495 it doesn’t work like that
@@pratheek152it works like that central colleges are more safe , only state colleges in some regions are good
I am from Mysore, Karnataka. I am a second year student and i have not seen ragging. Even my school classmates who are studying in other colleges in Mysore and Bangalore did not face any type of ragging. Seniors really help juniors in their studies with no discrimination.
Really happy to see colleges in my place (which i have seen) are good
Happy to hear that bro. I might get admission into an IIT next year, hope this stupid nonsense doesn't happen there or else I am suing the college for harassment and damages.
This has become so normal, it's shameful.
I had seen "mild ragging" in one of the prestigious institute in India, which had "sir-madam, look at 3rd-button system, etc" which might not sound like a big thing to many. But it's not just about the severity but it's the cost of self-respect to satisfy someone else's ego.
Which was one of the major reasons why I left India altogether.
I am sure you are talking about some medical college.
This video came in wake of the recent student death inside Jadavpur collage hostel on Aug 9.
Since then 12 students and ex-students have been arrested. It's ragging cum murder.
It can serve as warning to the future "macho" seniors, as there is a chance of harsh punishments in this case.
all laws should be gender neutral
The fact is that most ragging at colleges almost always is overtly sexual in nature. Somewhere the cause for this has to be the suppressed sexual urges of an average Indian teenager, where boys and girls are almost never allowed to even speak to each other in childhood, let alone have healthy friendships.
that happens only in Islam
Oh the very first reply is on religion. Faster than I thought. Things are improving I see.
@@yashjindal6234aisehi nahi tumlogo ko l@nd bhakt kehte hai
@@champagnepapi9060how can you judge by one person i have also tell why you called product of halala
@@yashjindal6234not in Islam, is seen in other religions as well. Same goes for atheist too.
17:57 Wtf... Personality improve hoti h ????
Inferiority complex severe ho jata h.
its sad to see how violence and mental harrasment has become a normalized way to discipline.
What do you mean become? This was always the norm.
@@punishanpika ok
I was a victim of ragging in my graduation. What is so unfortunate that i was ragged by my own batch mate of the same graduation session at the hostel.
It so happened that i joined the college in the mid session. I was new to that college and was staying in a hostel outside home for the first time. I was abused verbally, physically and emotionally by a student who belonged to my batch of graduation. This went on for weeks. I left the hostel when i could not bear it. I went home and never wanted to come back. My parents perhaps could not understand the severity of trauma i was going through. I don't blame them. Perhaps they thought that ragging is part of growing up and helps children become mature, confident and strong. I lost 5 months of my studies at the college. Those days there were no internet or on line classes. I lagged behind in all subjects and could never catch up with others. My 10th and 12th grades were over 98%. My graduation i scored just 51%. The lowest ever. I lost my confidence which never came back. I wanted to become a civil servant. I ended up as a clerk in a private company. Those 15 days changed the entire course of my life. I still stammer when i speak. I have fear of going on to the stage. I could not get promotions because of my fearful and submissive attitude.
I can forget everything but I
WILL NOT FORGIVE that hostel mate ever.
I am so sorry that it happened to you. I hope no other students have to go through this shit.
Man, please talk about it to some counsellor and know that this doesn't define your self worth! Based on your story, you still seem like an amazing guy who could just use a little bit of help as we all could at times. Don't let the hostel mate hold you back from doing what you love to do.
Don't worry bro whn u become something it will be a great revenge frm thm don't give up I m also a victim of ragging but i had started my own business now the guy ragged me he was working in my company as peon 😂😂😂😂😂 and everyday I try to toucher him show his real level and i also sometyms don't give salary in tym he has two children he crying like a mad 😂😂😂😂😂sometyms and i feel gud whenever I toucher him bcse he don't show mercy me in past and now I m also same too wth him. 😢😢😢
What happened to you is unforgivable but do you really think it is fine to live like this?
Just imagine how will you defend yourself if that happened to you again.
I was also teased and ragged and after 11 I started attacking back and everything changed.
You must revenge on the hostel mate who ruined your life
Being from one of the NITs who passed in 2009 I can vouch for all that has been said here. The way it works is that they split the new batch in groups for e.g. I was in NESA group which means North Eastern Student Association. There was of course discrimination as in north east we have many states and Assam has highest number of seats. The Assamese seniors would have their way and racially abuse the others for the way they looked and talked. Of course not all of them were bad but I just wanted to say this is a stupid tradition. There was all sort of humiliation but one thing I can quantify is that our tight slap score at the end of year was 600+. That meant 600 tight slaps. One of us still had issues with hearing the last time I met with him. When us juniors went to 2nd year and year after that, very few of us felt like talking to those seniors. There was no help whatsoever from those seniors at any stage of my career and I have still succeeded by the general definition of success. Basically my point is learn from our mistakes and speak up if this is happening to you.
I passed in 2016 batch.. In my 3rd and 4th year ragging was almost negligible... But in 1st year the slap count was in double digits.. I was zone in but never raised my hand on any one in my senior years....
JEE aspirant here. I'm thinking about taking some inspiration from Americans and use the American way of dealing with things,i.e, firearms and weapons.
@@RoRjnYou should check the news of past few months, two separate instances where juniors got beaten up and use of drugs is rampant in the campus
@@archanasoni9666 No that's just gonna destroy your life , no need to stake you life for these low lives
@@Cookiee941 Gotta do something to keep those MFs in check. If staff doesn't do anything, then we must take things in our own hand.
I loved the thing that you discussed about the caste angle too. I lost one of my cousins due to this. Thank you Mohak bhaiyya for highlighting it.
Our seniors tried ragging us, we got into a fight with them. Never again they laid a hand on us
These juniors are forgetting that unity is strength . Stick together it will work like a stick 😎
If you are strong no one thing to go against you🥱🥱💀
Sabaz Bhai👊
When I was preparing for jee (in 2020), it always came to my mind why we need to do this?
If cracking the most prestigious exam means facing the humiliation and torture (ragging) then why we should be preparing for such exams. I had this fear because my elder brother has faced these incidents who was in ISM Dhanbad and by watching movies and other sources too.
Currently I'm in IIT Delhi and in my 4th year and I haven't faced ragging yet (till date).
Yes we don't have much interaction with seniors (except from the ones who are in clubs at senior positions), but I think it's better than the fear which I have expected in the name of ragging in the first year.
Bruh the movement you realize you are already a senior yourself 😂
@@piyush_Rastogi_69Man, for 2020 entrants, time flew by too quickly to enjoy our college life. Being a 4th year myself from iitbhu, I sometimes think that it was only yesterday when I entered campus...
On a side note, junior senior culture is getting better here in IIT BHU. Some seniors here go above and beyond when it comes to helping juniors.
I graduated from Jadavpur University this year... It disheartens me to see my college name in such a video and i hope the college authorities take urgent action against ragging. May his soul rest in peace
You woulf have also done ragging. But wont admit here🤔
In our college all ragging is done on the day of freshers. It's held department wise. So.. Lets say on the day of Mechanical Engg. Freshers, the newly enrolled students are called on stage (it's a closed hall only) and they are asked to give intro... The seniors might use some slangs however, that is restricted. They are asked to do funny things on the stage... And well that might be humiliating, i myself felt so in my first year. But again, thats nowhere close to what happened this time in hostel.
As for me, i have never stayed in hostel and disliked even the "freshers" ragging. But I did attend all our departmental freshers in the four years of my college, because we often used to go out somewhere on that day after the freshers ended... Getting to spend time with your friends... Really am missing it now that i have joined a company.
Anyway, that's the thing
@@danendrasarkar8569 you had disciplined college unlike mine. Where ragging was done anytime. Whether hostel or PG both will be the victim of ragging.. Hostel ones cannot do ragging of PG and vice versa...In department ones. Senior girls will do ragging with the support of boys. Our college ended up in news many times still there was no sign of improvement. And I am 2021 batch passout. Dont know about current situation though..
@@cryptoboi9584thik👍👍
It is same reason why i choose to study near my hometown because ragging so much terrified me that i couldn't bear the thought of it. Also people who think the idea of ragging will improve the chances of developing a personality and then capable of facing the real world is ridiculous. The real world is already stressing and horrific that any naive student will gradually understand and adapt it towards.
It is gayops fr I used to get violent and my dad told me to curb it down fr
Sometimes you gotta yell at the teachers and call them out on their bullshit
Lost almost 6 ,7 years of my 20's due to ragging and Bullying in a med school .. had lost all of my self confidence n momentum .. 30 yrs at present, still in med school , wanna make a comeback , and i will
Goodluck and do well..be the positive change the society needs and stay strong.
Medical colleges are more into ragging than comparatively others.
One of the reasons is some part of their academic assessment is dependent on Seniors.
why does the academic assessment depend on seniors?? like that is so absurd
mostly the neet qualifiers think theyve became god as they hear it everyday that "out of 20lac only 10k get selected" so i guess being better than those 19 lac 90000 student gives them the idea that they are better
@@pablo2108but they are better right? I mean they are literally praised as people next to God Himself
@@Walter-vq3vm yeah definitely they are better infact surpassing 19lac is no joke but the pride devours people around them and their relationship with other
I'm studying in a medical college in Mangalore. Specifically in my college, any form of ragging is considered solid base for rusticating a student. Maybe that is why we never had instances of ragging.
But when I became college senior, many juniors would ask why do you not rag us.. These kids have a pre-made idea in their heads about ragging and actually expects seniors to rag them and how cool will it be to be a part of such thing.
Yes we do tell them to call final year students as Sir/ma'am but we've never seen any senior or as seniors ourselves have never done so much as to scold juniors for not doing it.
I believe movies and series are the main cause for this glorification.
Omg calling senior as sir/mam is not ragging how easily you told that is not extreme
Are you in srinivasa medical college manglore?
@@viratpatidar9152 we ask them to do it when we invite them for freshers party, infront of lecturers. If they don't call us that we never have a follow up to ensure they do. Infact we don't even have interactions with juniors unless necessary. Some of our seniors got suspended for entering juniors hostel without prior permission lol. So why do you think we'd risk it?
@@handle2_790 nope
From which college r u from Ma’am ? I’m going to join medical college from this September.😂
My teacher in our coaching told us when he was in IIT he had a friend who has beaten the crap out of his seniors and that senior students came in front of their hostel at night and had a very long verbal fight until the seniors left. He told us that the seniors were really nice to him, because he looked like a guy came from prison by jailbreak, but he was nice from heart, respect for that sir.❤❤❤
Thanked God, i went to Delhi University.
I never faced any kind of ragging.
Even seniors behaves very well to juniors because they wants Votes in DU elections. 😂
Because informally Election campaigning starts from the time of admissions...
You stay in hostel Or PG?
Lucky you 😂
Ragging is majorly exists in engineering & medical colleges/Institute, Colleges in DU have an ideal atmosphere what a college should have, seniors generally are helpful, peace in campus etc.
@@rishav2205same goes with AIIMS and IITs, These are also prestigious colleges and they have low quality ragging ( for example:- they will select you and and a unknown girl, both shall dance together, feed together 😢 )
@@satyasankalpapanigrahi9416😂😂😂😂😂 lol grow up
Movies affect negatively but the movie table no. 21 that i saw at age 13,14 made me aware, I still remember the moment that movie revealed that all that revenge plot was because of ragging done by the characters, it made me aware which helped me to prevent my classmates from harassing juniors which was ragging. And the pattern was very simple. A professor slut shamed few of our classmates for cloth choices and then they went on a 'discipling' spree on juniors. I was shocked to see all this being done by my classmates whom I considered as good and sensitive people. I confronted them at the very same moment and all of them made me shut up, anyways the juniors forwarded a formal complaint, which worked as the leash on my classmates since then. The thing is that it is so normalised that people don't understand that their slight jokes and actions can have deep psychological impacts on the victims.
Sad reality 😢
As an IITian fresher from IIT BHU, there is a policy of no ragging here . Seniors are polite and quite interactive. I recommend you to take a look at it and interpret their success of making this possible.
Hi, I'm your +3 in iitbhu. If you need any help, feel free to approach!
@@sra_junk look! a good senior😂
@@sra_junk bhaiya mai Pharma se hu. Aap kisse ho?
@@sra_junk bro I'm doing ex 1 for jee before mains 1 uska bad adv ka prep sahi rhega na
@@AnonymousFromIIT Mechanical. Also 21 ko freshers orientation hai western music club ka g11 mei. Apne dosto ko le aana :p
Proud to be associated with two wonderful colleges of my country. National PG College is in Lucknow, and GIM is in Goa, where the seniors would come forward to help the juniors get accustomed to the new atmosphere of college life. There is no ragging and bullying, just peaceful and cooperative coexistence.
I'm pursuing btech CSE in CGU odisha . Here rules are so strict that seniors behave just like our family members. ❤
Odisha south ki taraf jyda treat hota hee or south developed place hee
Isliye odisha in sabse door hee lekin north ki taraf ab interest dene lage odisha kee log
The future is not good for odisha
@@rajbabu6674pvt clg does6have ragging
@@shinogiyuu_01 Wahi toh, Mai bhi soch raha hun ki hum South Wale kab se ban gaye 😂😂.
@@shinogiyuu_01 Seia para. Chalu tankara. Amara kn jauchi 😂😂.
@@SashankaSekhar17semane bahut gyana paijaichanti ta sethipain emt hauchanti chada amra kn jauchu
Just like IIT Delhi, many colleges in Pune had extremely strict policies against ragging. When I started 1st year engg, I never witnessed any ragging. Our professors told us report anything if any ragging incident is witnessed in or out of the college. When we went to second year, the professors had told us to not even ask for names of freshers/1st year student because in case of a complaint, the senior would be suspended from the college right away and then the investigation would take place. So yeah, that was my experience.
Even my friend passed out from IIT-Kharagpur, also revealed to me that, ragging is so common in IITs as well.
Table No 21 film really highlights the mental trauma faced by its victim. But hardly people know about this film.
It was common. Now come to the campus. You will find 0 ragging incidents in IITs.
@@vishalcseiitghyfaizan Ahmed was killed last year IIT Kharagpur in ragging
@@vishalcseiitghyfaizan maar gaya....ab bolo 0....why you turn blind eye man
Mohok Mangal ❌ ,Engineer Xplains ✅
Correct bro
"Real men don't do ragging and real men don't get ragged. "
~Unknown
An alumni of DU here. As a reserved category student with minimum knowledge of English I expected to get bullied mercilessly in my first year. I was taken aback by the kindness and love shown by my seniors that I was initially suspicious 😹. Graduated with a distinction and I miss my elder brothers and sisters.
bhai jin college mein elections hote hain wahan bullying nahi
balki hath jode jate hain
Seriously.
I'm also from Law faculty of DU.
It's the best college of law in whole india. In fact whole world
Which college? And is it applicable on all colleges?
I'm proud that I was from DU and neither my seniors ragged me nor did I rag my juniors yet we ended up having awesome bonding
In Delhi there is nothing like this 😂😂😂
Am so proud to be a Ex-student of DU.
from engineer xplains here, u are exposed bro
Yeah 😂😂😂😂
Jaha soch vaha shochaly
Aagye andhbhakts
Ragging is not only in National Curriculum schools but also International school. It’s worst, I always reported such cases for me and my friends, but my friends said it is normal , we are just trying to connect and also say it’s scene of someone becoming mature. I can relate, doing what was right made me believe that the world is really on a wrong path specially Indian kids. Many of my good friends left me because I reported such cases and I am ok because I understand to live in realistic world and not a world which is made up of thoughts and made up of bad practices you know people who cannot think right.
bro you just exposed the reality of thr people who defend Ragging by giving Excuses which is so stupid and rude, it's good that you're not like others who Supports this heinous crime
Being a medical student I can feel that. Even college administration promotes it Even vice principal of our college support that. People are so egoistic that they snatch respect forcefully they don't earn in it.
Which college??
Mild ragging is still done in almost every government medical and engineering college. It's so sad 😫
engineer xplains me ja k iski reality check kar lo guys.,
So, I was at this wedding in a foreign country, hanging out with a bunch of people from different places. And you know what? I thought people didn't really know much about India except for maybe our diversity, culture, geography, and all that. But then someone mentioned the whole "Indians and alcohol" and "beating wives" thing, and honestly, I was pretty taken aback by that stereotype. It's crazy how perceptions can be so off sometimes!
but i have seen such conditions in many families around myself , it is good that you have not seen it around you but i have seen it a lot, ps i live in a 3rd tier city in india
It happens here and if a woman takes a stand she is called immature and problematic
it's true and not just a stereotype
@@roronoazoro5736you should come out of the basement you are living in
That's not a stereotype. It's reality
Stockholm Syndrome most prevalent in Medical college because we learn the most from our seniors…Phylum is very common in Jharkhand colleges also, not amongst the students only but also amongst the professors and marks will be allotted likewise! If you donot belong to that phylum, pray to God to pass and study your a** off even if you were a topper in boards! This is a sad reality 🤦🏽♀️
That is just sad
Regarding Jadavpur University the worst part is that the university authorities don't have any power. They can't even install CCTV camera because the political students union violently opposes it. This reveals how the unions which were supposed for cooperation and protection are now filled with powerful & influential guys who themselves are engaged in oppression.
My own materal uncle studied electrical engineering around 2000 and was made naked and ragged, he escaped from there and then spent the rest years in a mess.
Even University students who already graduated stays in hostel illegally and no one dares to say them anything.
This union and political culture in west bengal colleges has ruined everything....college administration is absent over here each and every function is performed by union dadas and didis...one of the main reason for decline of state colleges in west bengal....you rightly said about ex students having a say in college matters ..have see it personally
I've enrolled in a college in Kolkata, and where I live is very near to Jadavpur. I was so shocked to know that a boy of my age had to die like this because of ragging
That's why all of my friends studying outside of our town are living in paying guests or room rents, not in hostels
I hope this is a wake-up call for the legal system and educational institutions to take strict actions against ragging. I want those criminals behind the bar who took away the life of such a young lad
I live in Northeast. In my college we don't have ragging amongst the local students but the students who come from other parts of India do ragging to the juniors. However they don't do it to the local students only to other students from mainland India because we always protect our own tribal people.
Northeast, Assam?
@@Blueskyedit yeah
@@mahirbarbhuiya6143 Guwahati?
@@Blueskyedit yeah ! You ?
@@mahirbarbhuiya6143 hojai
I had a conversation about it with my sister when I first came to know about ragging. I was completely against it and thought it was humiliating and absurd. She defended it as part of a personality development exercise. Till date, I've never understood that excuse. There are far better ways to improve your personality. Some psychopaths get a free hand in bullying, abusing and exploiting junior students on the pretext of "having fun" and "personality development" and feel instant gratification doing it. It's a classic case of sadomasochism. And this power dynamics between the senior and the junior students and the resultant hierarchy is also ridiculous. It's a college, not a battlefield or a caste system. It seems some people go back to their primitive animalistic origins and turn into savage beasts after entering a college and forget that they no longer live in a cave, but a civilized society. Such people actually require some 'intellectual development'.
This term "civilized society" is itself a joke. There is nothing like human civilization. In fact, humans are turning more violent than before with escaping punishment due to loopholes and more crimes are increasing. I don't think that there is really much difference between past and present other than two factors - crimes in more large scale and exposure of them due to communication processes. Otherwise, humans are more cruel and savage than wild beasts living in caves.
During my batchelors (2019-2022) we were given 15 written rules to follow which includes wearing formal shirt and pants, wishing the seniors good morning evening etc. We were often asked to do their assignments and records. They even harrassed us physically sometimes. There were regular intro system where we can't go to sleep till 4 am and sit in the common room repeating the introduction 40 50 times. They harrass us mentally and slangs were very common. Once we were told to pose for different sex positions and one of our classmates was forced to wear a bra and dance. We can't even complain about that the seniors were powerful and they don't fear to go to jail as they have already gone several times. Although two of us filed complaints but later they put a lot of pressure that we have to revoke that. There was a time I was asked to bring meals for 13-14 seniors to their rooms and I went to the canteen exactly 14 times that day. We were often told to kneel down or roll over the corridor. And the day one complained about it the cases worsened and the ragging became really intolerable. During my exam times I come home to prepare because they harrass more during the exams. Not only seniors we've been ragged by their friends and their seniors who were the pass out students of college but visit the hostel regularly.
Mention the college name
which college is it?
You should do something about it. If I were you I wouldn’t tolerate it at all. At least switch colleges, no point going to such a bullshit college.
Ye mohak Mangal leftist hai 100 💯% confirm ho gaya
The only way of living righteously
Very well researched video. There are people with two types of mindsets in ragging: One the bullying mindset which rags, and second the willing victim mindset which voluntarily goes to get ragged. People with such mindsets then go join corporate world and ruins its culture as well. There is a saying - "If it is sin to cause pain to others, then it is equal sin to tolerate that pain".
I think, i have faced enough bullying in my high school then what i will face in my future college. I was so traumatized at that time, I still got goosebumps thinking about those times.
I used to cry, keeping all things with me, thinking ppl will laugh at me if ill share what is happening w me, i still remember how badly i didn't want the teacher to leave the class before the period got ended
I was so terrified with my bullies. I didn't want to face them during my lunch break also. Every time in the school i kept thinking about when school will get over and when I'll be home. I only carry bad memories of my high school no fun or enjoyment with friends and all stuff that other people do.
I was totally unlucky because when these things were happening to me i did not have any single friends with whom I could share my things and why I'm not feeling good in school. There were 1 or 2 boys with me. I was friends with them for a while but with time they started getting jealous of me due to my good reputation in front of teachers and good scores in academics. They also started making fun of me and bullying me with other ones. This thing really broke me from inside. I remember those days when i was continuously thinking what i have done wrong with em and why they are treating me like this. A lot times I even changed my path coming back to home cause when they get me anywhere they start commenting on me and calling my name with different absurd names they have given to me, after coming back to home from school i used to cry a lot in my room. This mental trauma of mine really affected my focus and concentration into studies also, but hopefully I got good marks in my boards. mostly ppl still think bullying/ragging is not not a big deal. It's normal but actually it is not.
That's why I was hesitant to talk with any new person in my new school thinking what if they'll get comfortable with me and start all those things which happened with me in last school . My those tough time was in 2020-21 and now I'm in 12th standard in different school and here I got some real friends with whom I enjoy a lot. I really think my real school life started in the new school but I only got 2 years in which I year has passed and I had made a lot memories of it but I'm happy now with my this school life ☺️ totally saturated
U r strong buddy!!
Buddy you really are strong. Dont stop making friends. Stay connected with nice people. Best wishes
@@rohanmangale5990 thanks 🩷
I hope you're doing well now❤
Totally agree 👍
Thank you so much for covering this topic. It infuriates me to see indian cinema glorify ragging. I have often seen ragging as a medico. Becoming a doctor itself is soo challenging, the last thing anyone wants is seniors pestering us to inflate their ego. Trust me, if you help your juniors or even just be a decent person, your juniors will respect you. I went out of my way to ease my seniors' workload who actually tried to teach me. I genuinely respect them and look upto them.
Violence is a global problem.
@@pr00009 @pr00009 Yes, I agree. I'm just speaking from my experience. I just dislike films glorifying violence by adding badass music in the background and them having no consequences instead of just portraying a character. Its some films, not all.
I was verbally abused and harassed by seniors just because I don't wish them.They were so obsessed with me because I look different from them and they kept on pestering me for no reason at all. The amount of ego they had if they were ignored.
But now I am grown up man, if they dare bully me , I'll punch their face
@@greenscenery1974 I'm sorry you had to go through it. I don't understand how some people can be so cruel and twisted. I hope you heal from it.
Even though I don't condone violence, I'm glad you are able to defend yourself.
One similar case happened to me. I took admission in a private college but after one or two days, I with my hostel roommates were stopped by some seniors. And they on the spot, in the middle of the ground, asked(in a very authoritative way) to give introduction. As soon as heard it, i left the pack silently. And the consequences were that, I was the only student in 1st year who was left alone and had not friends despite having good room mates. Due to which i stopped going for classes. And this resulted me not allowed to give exams and reported failed for the first time in my life. I left the college in the first 6 months. I joined another government college but didn't go to classes 97% of the time because I had showed them my doctor's prescription that I'm not well in terms of health both mentally and physically. Sad state of education system. My parents have asked me to do masters but I denied it.
Devastating to see the harsh reality of ragging in our colleges. The incident at Jadavpur University is a heartbreaking reminder that change is overdue. My thoughts are with the victim's family and all those protesting for justice.
I think students of JV have taken an oath to make college popular for wrong reason....college should be convert to central govt. Funded college which will be good decision.
@jaidipkumardigpati no JU is still one of the best college in India for engineering field and highly subsidized.... the ragging incident is unfortunate which happens in a lot of colleges in India. Few months back a similar incident happened in IIT Kharagpur where a murder charge was invoked.
Agar ragging mai kisi muslim kee death hoti tab tumhe Khushi hoti sad but true
@@arnabkundu3406 JV ma political influence Jada hai....
@@jaidipkumardigpatilol what a joke
I am from west bengal
I feel really sorry for the incident happened here in jadavpur
Ragging should be stopped immediately and strict laws should be implemented
I too have a young daughter and I think I won't be able to send her to any distant college
I am from Kolkata , ex student of University of Calcutta. Actually those illegal activities are entertained mostly by the seniors associated with the student unions. In this case, our local government is eye washing us by arresting 9 people but actually they are not doing anything to stop ragging. In every Colleges & Universities in our state, the ultimate situation is same, ragging is everywhere and it is unstoppable as those student unions are workings in favor of government instead of student. Our local government is using the institute to generate polititians for future instead of producing educated one.
Speak louder!!! Seeing the same thing in my university
bro someone exposed you brilliantly 😀
But seriously previous year I took admission in Maharaja Surajmal Institute of Technology , but there is no ragging culture there anymore , instead the seniors were very supportive
great i was about to take admission in that one
@@sharkieislive 👍🤜
You stay in Hostel or PG?
You were lucky, good bless you for your life .
21 BCA graduate from MSI.
Yup you are correct.
Surajmal ka culture kafi acha h.
I am a second year student in NIT Agartala... a couple of days ago 5 students from 4th year broke a 2nd year student's arm... college administration is filled with people that are highly incompetent (in every possible way)and don't take any action
Why!!😢
Bro
Why they broke??
Then why you guys don't break their arms
@@suvamdutta438 you 2nd year guys should assemble and take revenge
@@devaroraa actually this is my last year now
@@devaroraa by the way once upon a time I smash a guy head on the wall because he provoke me and then I get suspended from college for 3months
I remember my first day at university. A group of seniors came and they started pointing out individuals and call them to the podium and ask them to introduce themselves, where they would interrupt, confuse and make fun. They would ask irrelevant and tricky questions in front of whole class. It might be a form of mild ragging but many students find it difficult to talk in front of a huge audience at first. I remember, They pointed out to a boy and asked them to come to the podium but that boy declined. They insisted but he remained adamant. ultimately He didn’t come but he didn’t even come to the university after that day. He actually left 😢because He felt ashamed and embarrassed
Where are we leading to 😢
Aam aadmi party support 🤷🏻♂️
I have also been a victim of ragging in my medical collage and that was beyond vulgarity,and rudity we were treated like servents ,and we were told to have drinks 🍷🍷 ,I took a step and complaint agnist my sceniors but nothing happened instead whole the collage started treating me as a outcast .......... I have been traumatized
But am happy that people like you raised this underrated topic of our socity 👍👍👍
Btw I wanted to know which year batch u belong to cause I have heard it's extremely rare now
Clg name
@@idiotme5478 am in my prefinal year now
@@malika5731 its a govt medical collage in MP
@@7alansharma822 ya govt clg it's obvious.its better to live in pg
I was smoking a cigarette with my friend during my btech 1st year near a tea stall and 4-5 fully drunk guys from final year were there , they called us and asked for our I'd card and when they found out that we are from 1st yr and smoking cigarettes they told like how did you dare to smoke cigarettes in front of the seniors and started beating us, we could not do anything as we were outnumbered by them, the ragging finally ended with a warning to never do it again .After that incident I was depressed for like 6 months, that was the most dark phase of my life, somehow I got out of that phase from God's blessings but I have never done ragging in my entire life even if I had chances.
Anyone out there who is going through this , please don't be silent , raise your voice and register police complaints or inform college Authority.
Ragging need to be stopped.
Govt has to take strict action about it
You exposed 😅
Problem with ragging is that it's unregulated justice
How does one human decide what's just for other
As a student who have just completed 12th, I am terrified about joining my college now. Hopefully my college will not have ragging 😢😢😢
Don't forget to report it to the principal and police once you can't tolerate it. Or else just report it even if it happened for the first day. Save yourself.
Raggeing mere sath hua hai bhai mujhe senior ne uska juta saaf karaya mere rumal se lekin kuch din baad main ne uska bike ka break ka tar Kat Diya uska accident hua tha or hospital main admit tha 😎🤣
@@souma321😂😂
Don't stutter and stay with your eye contact. Don't give a chance to anyone from the beginning no matter who they are. If you feel like that anyone isn't behaving properly with you then react in the first moment you feel it... Don't hesitate to have a discussion with them and make things clear. If it extends then report. Mostly stay confident wherever you go , don't show your weakness even if you are terrified then no one dares to mess with you. This is the one thing that helps me the most and believe me I haven't experienced any kind of bullying till now.
@@maggilikhitapudi Great tip
Glad to be a part of Delhi University.
Seniors here are so helpful, any kind of help we can ask them for. You can either message them or you can ask them face to face in college campus.
Not just from same department but seniors from other departments and even other colleges also are utmost help.
Thanks to DU and more specifically Kirori Mal college. ❤