Courtney Daniella Boateng
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The 'High Value Woman' Trend is Making You More Insecure... | Be Encouraged 005
Online content is filled with an overwhelming amount of opinions on how you should approach your personal development and journey as a woman. But some trends, whilst seemingly harmless may be embedding more insecurity and fear in our hearts. In this episode, we explore how 'self-improvement' can be a slippery slope, and how we can overcome shame and insecurity by building lasting confidence.
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00:00 The lies & deception of 'high value woman' content
01:00 Responding to a comment about women being weaker vessels.
15:06 The superficiality of it all
19:06 The slippery slope of 'self-improvement'
26:03 Overcoming shame and insecurity
Deuteronomy 31:6
#podcast #wisdom #encouragement #faith #Jesus #christianity #feminineenergy #femininity #softlife #womanhood
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The Lies & Deception of the 'Feminine Energy' Trend | Be Encouraged 004
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Many women are trying to learn how to become more feminine and connect with their femininity by watching content and listening to advice from people who may be leading them astray. So what is the correct foundation to have when it comes to understanding your design and purpose as a women? Let's talk about it. 🎧 Listen to the podcast on audio platforms: APPLE: podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/be-en...
'God, I’m Tired': Approaching Productivity & Purpose Without Burning Out | Be Encouraged 003
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Productivity and the obsession with ‘finding our purpose’ can be described as modern-day idols, but both are important. So how do we find, value, and practice resting in God whilst living in a toxic hustle culture? Let’s talk about it. BOOK’: Zeal Without Burnout’ by Christopher Ash - amzn.to/3y4WzSj 🎧 Listen to the podcast on audio platforms: APPLE: podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/be-encouraged/...
7 LIFE CHANGING Lessons From My 20's (so far...)
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Adulting is HARD! And as I enter my late-twenties I realise there are some major life lessons that can help us navigate it with wisdom. So here are 7 key things I have learned as I’ve navigated dating, womanhood, faith, friendships, my career, handling my finances, and my health which I hope will help you on your journey too. 🎧 Listen to my podcast: czcams.com/video/vJxiQaGyIEs/video.html ✹ Fol...
Getting Closer to God, Overcoming Temptation & Spiritual Warfare | Be Encouraged 002
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Hello beautiful people đŸ€ welcome back to the VLOG! I’ve decided to make it less focussed on ‘glowing and growing’ and more so sharing my ‘everyday thinking’ around my wellness, career and practically living out and navigating my faith in the real world. I hope you enjoy this weekend vlog. â˜€ïžđŸ“šđŸ‡ŹđŸ‡­ DONATE to The Bright Future Academy www.tomysisters.com/donate 🎧 Listen to my podcast: czcams.com/vid...
Back to Basics: Healing Heartbreak, Anxiety & Insecurities with God | Be Encouraged Podcast 001
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Seven years after becoming a Christian, overcoming anxiety, insecurities, and addiction, I found myself falling into old patterns. So I took a step down from my platforms to get in touch with my foundations and go back to the basics of loving God and letting Him love me. In this first episode of the podcast, I share my lessons from that journey and hopefully encourage you to allow God to give y...
🌾 How to Build GENUINE LONGLASTING Friendships as a Grown Woman: Picking Your Circle Wisely
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I get it, sisterhood and female friendships can be messy, especially in adulthood, but that doesn't change the fact that healthy community is something we all need. So as women, how can we navigate building a village of friends and wise counsel around us? Let's talk about it. đŸ€ For affordable and accessible online therapy visit: www.betterhelp.com/courtney www.faithfulcounseling.com/jesusandthe...
I Did the 30 Day Secular Music Fast 👀 Here’s What Happened... | Spiritual Growth, Anxiety & Idolatry
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👀 Am I Dating? Weight Loss Updates & Plans for my 40's | ❀ Answering Your Questions (QnA)
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🌾 7 Things to Do When Diagnosed with PCOS 🌾 | Lifestyle Changes, Mental Health & Faith
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Having an Existential Crisis in Your Mid-20's 😭: Gaining Clarity and Finding God's Purpose
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Healing and Recovering After FAILURE & REJECTION | The Hard Side of Becoming The Woman You Want
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6 Tips To Help You Read Your Bible (AND BOOKS) Consistently | Getting Closer to God & Smarter
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👀 Dating as a Plus Size Dark Skin Woman, The Biological Clock & Why I Make Singleness Content
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How to Make Use of Being Young, Childless & Unmarried | Confidence, Money, Purpose & More
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Dear Christian Content Creators & Influencers | #LetsTalk
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The Truth About Losing Friends in Your 20's | Letting Go, Cutting People Off & Forgiving
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Let's Talk Hair Anxiety & Install Light Yaki Clip-Ins on My Relaxed Hair + A Easy Heatless Style
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4 Things That CHANGED ME & MY RELATIONSHIP with God #BeEncouraged
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How to Find The CONFIDENCE & BOLDNESS to Make Your Own Decisions and Build Your Life
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Komentáƙe

  • @ShanyShannon
    @ShanyShannon Pƙed 4 dny

    Thank you for this video! đŸ«¶đŸŸ I love the To My Sisters podcast. This was wonderful, I am thankful to God that he poured into you to pour into others as well.

  • @nomahlubithunyiswa2761

    Courtney my darling, wow!! I have been postponing listening to this episode for about a month...I think. And finally tonight I just sat and listened. Giiiiirl you preached!! May God keep strengthening your spiritual man, in Jesus's name!

  • @lenoram.9441
    @lenoram.9441 Pƙed 7 dny

    this is some deeeeeeeep revelation!!! wow!! Thank you for this!

  • @liv2453
    @liv2453 Pƙed 7 dny

    Amen! Thank you so much for this. Was definitely a word in season. The trying to help God bit made me laugh! How many times have I done that?! Like He is not the creator of the universe!

  • @kaylawren9620
    @kaylawren9620 Pƙed 8 dny

    Hey! I am sorry you had to experience this. Random question: is your last name a common last name? I have a friend that is the exact same last name as you but he was adopted and I think his family kept his real last name. Wanted to know if there was any connection possibly?

  • @Jaggerbush
    @Jaggerbush Pƙed 8 dny

    RIP to her in box.

  • @folasewaidowu907
    @folasewaidowu907 Pƙed 8 dny

    This was INSIGHTFUL. Thanks so much Courtney!

  • @vanessaosei-bonsu8603
    @vanessaosei-bonsu8603 Pƙed 8 dny

    Wonderful video, I would love to see more productivity content, especially with the strategies you have applied, your morning and evening routine etc

  • @Sulemalopez85
    @Sulemalopez85 Pƙed 8 dny

    I need to you to know that I received confirmation through you! God bless you my sister đŸ™đŸœâ€

  • @Sulemalopez85
    @Sulemalopez85 Pƙed 9 dny

    🎯

  • @jhelajay
    @jhelajay Pƙed 10 dny

    23:55 I was thinkin as I was listening to you speak that being a high value woman is a trauma response. It’s definitely rerooted in vanity,selfishness & hurt. God doesn’t care about looks, but it seems like that movement is based in how to carry yourself in a way to appear better to the world and not truly centered around healing.

    • @jhelajay
      @jhelajay Pƙed 10 dny

      29:17 OKAY!!! He truly is the living water. Walking with God has built my confidence and calmed my soul in ways I would’ve never expected.

  • @vanessaosei-bonsu8603
    @vanessaosei-bonsu8603 Pƙed 10 dny

    Wonderful video with great points, thank you for sharing

  • @vanessaosei-bonsu8603
    @vanessaosei-bonsu8603 Pƙed 10 dny

    Explained very well and full truth 👏

  • @danijelacar_xo
    @danijelacar_xo Pƙed 11 dny

    I miss my friends from high school


  • @WholesomeBahon
    @WholesomeBahon Pƙed 11 dny

    Courtney, I've added so many of your shorts to my "Woman of God" playlist. Keep it up, you're amazing đŸ€

  • @Kundi1003
    @Kundi1003 Pƙed 13 dny

    Courtney if no one has told you yet thank you Thank you for being the big sister we all need Thank you for the words you speak because they breathe so, much life and motivation Thank you ❀

  • @Thentherewasbim
    @Thentherewasbim Pƙed 14 dny

    You truly have a gift. Even though much of what you spoke of I knew, I drifted away from living as Christ as my example because of the misogyny of the Church. Overall, I was encouraged ❀❀❀.

  • @keystothekingdom0293
    @keystothekingdom0293 Pƙed 14 dny

    Good messaĝe for us all.

  • @lcbetmbin
    @lcbetmbin Pƙed 14 dny

    Girlllll... Clinging to God is and have been my therapy. Keep working on strengthening you faith in him. He loves us big time❀

  • @ikechukwuhenryiheanacho9053

    Very detailed vlog 
How much did you pay for the hotel please ??

  • @stefa22
    @stefa22 Pƙed 15 dny

    16:47 Ghanaian insults to self does make you realise your wrongdoings and stop acting up 😂

  • @carolynwardlaw9018
    @carolynwardlaw9018 Pƙed 16 dny

    Thanks I appreciate you

  • @2b_hopeful
    @2b_hopeful Pƙed 16 dny

    Great Video. BTW, you don't need makeup. Your skin is flawless. đŸ”„đŸ”„đŸ”„đŸ”„

  • @sandra_phoma
    @sandra_phoma Pƙed 16 dny

    I needed this. I am tired. I have just bought the book. You are incredible!

  • @katelyngraham4260
    @katelyngraham4260 Pƙed 18 dny

    Helper in hebrew means ezer a word used to describe the character of the Holy spirit in regard to His ability to rescue us and help us in our time of need. The word to describe servant or maid is not ezer so that's already a hint at the fact that a women's role according to God's order and design isn't merely some docile assistant to a man. Its an active role bestowed on us thanks to God's wisdom and grace. Also consider Luke 10:38-42! We are all meant to have this characteristic tbh helping people in their time of need just as he would like us to. But like Courtney is saying coming into revelation of Christ means we must be willing to reverently submit to new understandings and not apply winsom we have curated within culture to dictate or colour our understandings of the Bible. Once I did this I found that I was wrong about my assumptions a lot of the time and actually (in regards to my misinformed ideas about the bible and how it depicts women) happily so.

  • @frankiel9879
    @frankiel9879 Pƙed 19 dny

    You are such a captivating speaker! I didn't expect to watch the whole video but I did and I learnt a lot. Thank you Courtney xx

  • @bebeth9833
    @bebeth9833 Pƙed 19 dny

    Finally someone talking about this problem with grace and wisdom. I am encouraged thank you Courtney ✚❀

  • @harrietlucky6316
    @harrietlucky6316 Pƙed 20 dny

    What an insightful, wisdom-replete message! I am still processing a lot of the knowledge and deep insights you shared, however, I said to drop this comment to say THANK YOU for creating and using your platform to propagate light and truth. Sending you loads of hugs and kisses.❀

  • @joysalabi3639
    @joysalabi3639 Pƙed 21 dnem

    This is exactly what I needed to hear, been so tired, unmotivated and then my devo was talking to me about rest, then this. Thank you!

  • @ponihakim4526
    @ponihakim4526 Pƙed 22 dny

    Thank you Courtney!! This is so timely for me personally. I’ve been going through a phase where I believe God is trying to make me understand that He truly loves me and all other women. That you for being the vessel through which He speaks to us allđŸ©·đŸ©·

  • @newlookzone6902
    @newlookzone6902 Pƙed 22 dny

    God bless you so much đŸ™đŸŸ đŸ™đŸŸ đŸ™đŸŸ

  • @Green_girly483
    @Green_girly483 Pƙed 22 dny

    Thank you so Much for this sis , You’ve healed so much in me just by answering and going into depth with the topic . For a very long time I thought God didn’t value women as much as he did men Especially after reading Timothy Now I realized that I was just reading it out of Context and my inside was dark that’s why I read it with a dark understanding. And I’ve realized Many People mix Culture and Religion in some cultures It’s Okay for a Husband To beat His Wife , I remember my Younger self saying to myself how can you be able to be submissive to someone that beats you without resenting him . I realized that the reason I thought like that because I didn’t really understand the beauty of when Christ Compared Marriage to him and the church . And the Jesus I know Does not promote abuse . People love Mixing Culture with religion. Peace be with you my sisters .

  • @jewishbride5010
    @jewishbride5010 Pƙed 23 dny

    Praise God for making us complete in Him! I therefore bind myself, but also my family, friends, colleagues, neighbours, acquitances, opponents and the body of Christ to know one's full identity is found in God one's Creator while binding to hell feeling incomplete without lustful attention of the opposite sex, binding to hell every unequal yoke and common share with anyone lacking to know one's full identity is found in God while lacking to feel complete without lustful attention of the opposite sex, in accordance with this word and genesis 1:26-27, 2 corinthians 6:14-18 in the name and blood of Jesus Christ, amen and hallelujah, glory to God ❀!

  • @amaboateng3393
    @amaboateng3393 Pƙed 23 dny

    CDB you’re preaching!!😭💖

  • @osas1785
    @osas1785 Pƙed 23 dny

    THANK YOU!!

  • @daniellemoxey9940
    @daniellemoxey9940 Pƙed 24 dny

    Amennnn!!! What an timely amazing and encouraging word! May the Lord continue to use you in the mighty way he doesđŸ™đŸŸâ€ïžđŸ™ŒđŸŸ

  • @jewishbride5010
    @jewishbride5010 Pƙed 24 dny

    Praiae God for knowledge, wisdom and discernment how to prevent a burn-out, in the name and blood of Jesus Christ, amen and hallelujah, glory to God ❀!

  • @SEHVEN_GODSCHILD
    @SEHVEN_GODSCHILD Pƙed 24 dny

    đŸ”„đŸ”„đŸ”„ ARE "YOU" YOUR THOUGHTS OR ARE THOUGHTS MOVING IN AWARENESS ITSELF. AM I EACH THOUGHT. IM ABLE TO GET CAUGHT IN WHATEVER STORY IS PRESENT AND ABLE TO PULL AWAY USING PURE AWARENESS. REPLACING THE SEPERATE SELF IDENTITY WITH DIVINE SOURCE AND OPERATING FROM THAT SPACE. I LOVE YOU❀❀❀

  • @vhutshilodzhivhuho9925
    @vhutshilodzhivhuho9925 Pƙed 24 dny

    This is such a great message. Thank you

  • @melanielazaro4083
    @melanielazaro4083 Pƙed 24 dny

    You told me things that I didnt know i needed. Thank you! May the Lord bless you.

  • @saint-jk8003
    @saint-jk8003 Pƙed 24 dny

    Another banger 🎉

  • @tomiwa395
    @tomiwa395 Pƙed 24 dny

    Thank you for sharing, I would love to share my life and the word with you!

  • @AngelinaAdzudzor
    @AngelinaAdzudzor Pƙed 24 dny

    I’m just sitting here just in awe at how mind blowing God is over and over. The first 15 min. is literal revelation that I had from God yesterday morning. My revelation answered an unspoken/underlying question I had never actually verbalized to God, but was always resting there subconsciously. This past Sunday my First Lady preached about the woman as the helper and tied it with how the Holy Spirit is also the helper too. Yesterday morning I was reflecting on the word and the Holy Spirit connected it for me. When God said let us make man in his own image he literally deposited himself in both men and women. The woman isn’t less than the man. She is just as important and necessary. And here I am this midnight and God expanding and confirming his word to me in this video. I love how the God enjoys teaching me things out of know where that heal me and give me insight. It was a revelation I didn’t even realize I needed. His revelation healed and delivered me from an area I didn’t even know needed healing and deliverance in. WHAT A MIGHTY GOD I SERVE đŸ„čđŸ„čđŸ™ŒđŸŸđŸ™ŒđŸŸ

    • @CourtneyDaniella
      @CourtneyDaniella Pƙed 24 dny

      This is so powerful WOW đŸ„čđŸ™đŸŸ we actually thank God.

  • @kellykelz2024
    @kellykelz2024 Pƙed 25 dny

    We’ll said â€đŸ™đŸŸ

  • @bellegee6287
    @bellegee6287 Pƙed 25 dny

    Every word resonated with me. God bless you đŸ™đŸœ

  • @ItstheGodinme_
    @ItstheGodinme_ Pƙed 25 dny

    The radical selfishness in the name of self love and care is so real. Lord, please help us and may we as Christians be the change đŸ™đŸŸ

  • @ItstheGodinme_
    @ItstheGodinme_ Pƙed 25 dny

    Great content as usual. I’m here for the wisdom and your accent. 😁

  • @glenda0286
    @glenda0286 Pƙed 25 dny

    Hey Courtney , thank you so much for being consistent with the uploads. WOW this one came for me as someone who is a heavy consumer of those types of videos , I feel very convicted . This was such a ''WISDOMOUS'' 😅chat . In as much as we all should work towards bettering ourselves we should not lose sight and end up idolizing ourselves and become self serving ,forgetting that even the king himself came and served on this earth . Thank you for reminding me and opening my eyes ❀

    • @CourtneyDaniella
      @CourtneyDaniella Pƙed 24 dny

      đŸ€đŸ„č thank you so much for watching and I'm really grateful that it was helpful to you

  • @al38447
    @al38447 Pƙed 25 dny

    I am absolutely amazed at how you tied the gospel into a powerful message of encouragement for young women and men too!

  • @drakedrones
    @drakedrones Pƙed 25 dny

    One of the most useless rage baiting content. Those gurus are just banking on insecurities and fanning gender- hate. Glad I don’t care about all that bullshit 😆😆😆😆😆