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Are you still friends with Carla?

IMO....Ghost man couldn't properly hold a convo because you already told him you weren't interested. He either feels guilty for leaving you on read or he doesn't know how to hold a friendly platonic conversation after a "rejection" for lack of a better word.

I’m sorry you’ve had so many disheartening experiences, I feel you, like it’s actually so rough! I felt the same way when I lived in the suburbs, moving to the city helped me so much! ✨ I’ve been watching your channel since you still lived at home, You’re such a sweet soul and you’ll find a sweet hot guy! 🌸🩷 Also I can totally to everything, finance, friendship, new wardrobe 🥲

what sites do you use for apartment hunting in Vancouver!

Totally agree with what you said at the beginning of the video! I 'wasn't looking' for a relationship for a few years and didn't meet anyone during that time. Once I started focusing on dating, I met my boyfriend within a couple weeks. It doesn't 'happen when you least expect it' for everyone!

I love your vlogs it’s so strange, I just enjoy watching you do your normal day to day and some how that gives me life and makes me feel like it’s ok that I have a normal life too?

Tika and her towel time after her bath I kid you not put the BIGGEST smile on my face, I legit was giggling. WOW that was adorable… I had more things to say and that clip just completely made me forget everything hahahaha I am sure you get this all the time but she truly is the cutest pup💗🫶🥰 As for them life changes, do what makes you feel better, it’s time for a new chapter and there’s nothing wrong with that, jump into it, lean into it, I love it!!! We are here for it and I support that hehe!!

Oh god, if this was my comment I only meant to subtly imply that online dating isn’t it. To suggest you could do *more* things that you love is definitely not a suggestion that you aren’t doing enough of what you love. If you’re making money and I suggest you could make more money, you wouldn’t limit yourself right? That’s all I meant and I think I deleted it after realizing that you already intuitively know that / had the answers (as you continued your train of thought after I had posted it.)

Get a job as a barista! Its so easy to learn, so fun, and you meet SOO many people/make connections. The hours are flexible, pay is good ((get to keep tips). I love it.

I feel you on the “Who you surround yourself with reflects who you are and who you can become. “. I am also on reset era. My reasons are thanks to underatanding that everything around has me made negative and sad and I dont want to be. More girly outfits, happy people who also struggle but wants to be better, live better, feel better. Do you ! Thats the most important! You are sooo inspiring! Thank you for being you ❤️

Keep an open mind but if you're looking for a job, a serving job could be amazing. Very social, you can get dressed up & feel cute, great tips & could be a way to meet someone special! Even part-time a couple days a week.

Oh, I love Outlander too ❤ I am now at season 5, I think? Because I live in Germany and here season 6 just came out on Netflix 😊

GIRL I was watching this during cardio at the gym and literal SECONDS before you mentioned Pedro Pascal, his new Corona add played on the screens here and I was like “Wow haven’t seen much of him lately” 😮 And then you mentioned him. WHAAT. lol Love your videos!

Hey! Have you tried out vanilla vibes by Juliette has a gun? That’s a nice vanilla scent that will hopefully not give you any memories 🤞

Lolllll me googling who Pedro Pascal is. And even after seeing a picture having zero clue.

Been watching your vlogs for about 10 years, I think you were dating nick?? 😂 I remember your flying monkey jeggings and melo candle co. What I love the most is that after all these years online, you’ve never sold out. You are honest and funny and real and so, so relatable. Love you Mel 🤍

This was a long vlog and I loved it!!

Unsolicited advice about dating is the wooooooorst and it's usually from people who have been married for 15 years and don't even know what apps are

Just wanted to comment because I relate so much to you in this time in my life (single, 30’s) and I love watching your videos. They are so comforting, motivating and help me to not feel so alone when I’m all over the place in what makes me happy and what I want to do in life right now. Please continue the vlogs 🫶🏽 can’t wait to see where life takes you next and wishing you nothing but happiness!

Melissa, have you ever looked at a supplement powder called Novos? I just started it yesterday. It's designed for longevity. You might want to look into it.

OK THOSE NAILS, love. perfect for summer. also, so sad outlander is almost done! I think they are filming one last season, but may be wrong. It's been a comfort show for me too </3

I don't feel like you're putting "too much focus on it" so keep on doing you and keep sharing with us <3

I feel like you need to move to Florida or something. New scenery, new dating pool! I feel like you would thrive in a different area 🥰

Lol I was just thinking of rewatching outlander. Also my comfort show. Rest of season 7 comes out in November

Hey Melissa! Where are your sunglasses from? 💕

Btw where did you get the black Jean jacket

I feel for you making life changing decisions..!! I’ve struggled for years with it but seeing you actually going through it and trying to decide on what to do really makes me evaluate my own situation. I really hope you can figure it out and find happiness ❤️

Hi👋 I was wondering, do you know something about your human design? It just talks a lot about suitable environments for us and I think it might be interesting for you since you said you feel better in the city.

You’re beautiful intelligent honest & hardworking. Please do what suits you & your lifestyle 🌸🌸🌸🌺🌺🌺

I love that you're sharing your dating life, makes your videos feel more real and personal❤

Omg literally EVERYTHING in this vlog is so relatable - rent price, friendship struggles, dating life, wanting to reset everything… and I’m same age with you😄love your content 💗

Hi Melissa! Can you tell me what you used to make your Greek dressing for your pasta? Your at home sauces have been helping me so I don't have to buy store ones :) 🩷

How about going for a summer holiday to Europe on your own, you will enjoy your time in life and possibly meet new people?

You are probably going through a SATURN RETURN?? (happens between 27-29/30) so it is totally normal to be questioning everything about life.

How is your hair doing? Is it getting better? I love your videos sooo much ❤❤❤

I would start by looking for a job, worst case scenario you can always do a job in marketing, you have more than enough experience. I think finding a job or at least applying for some will help you to feel more confident with moving. If you sell your apartment you should buy another one instantly. (That’s what I would do) Sometimes we have this inner urge to go somewhere and so something, just do it, worst thing you have great content & experience. I love moving content & you are kind of THE chill, constantly moving „online friend“ I stalk 😂 I love that you speak so openly about „everything“ with us. You are Not overstating about dating or even doing too much. I’m turning 34 this Friday & am not even on dating apps, barely even leaving the house, have not been on a date since my last relationship ended in 2020. you talking about dating & dating struggles actually gives me the motivation to even try and date or meet someone. Your vlogs are great

Hi Melissa 🤍sharing my perspective as a long time subscriber. Originally it made sense for you to leave downtown as you were living there during covid. Now, it is the perfect time for you to relocate to downtown. I personally feel you have outgrown the place you live and it is this contributing to your lack of fulfillment and purpose which triggers anxiety. Allow life to unfold naturally but being in the right environment is critical to that process.

there WILL be another season of Outlander . i am eagerly waiting

Sincerly completely relatable about your dating life, dating app experience and love to hear you share about it like I'm kinda in the same as you, I think more I open dating app more I'm like "I'm good single in the end" 🤣 My situation is living in a village in the french alps + introvert so the opportunity to fell on the charming prince here is as low as seeing chicken with teeth ... I know I'm quite picky but so let's dream about a gentleman 🤭

My dogs spazzes out like that after bath time too lol

If you go to T&T, they sell patches from South Korea, which are about $12 to $20 and they have ones you put before pimple pops and after pimple pops.

I love your content so much so share as much as you want! You're awesome!

This is probably so fucked up to say, but who knows? I’m not in the right mindset right now. My Dad has brain cancer, and I moved to the Island to help take care of him. I was having the worst fucking day today, I was crying nonstop. But watching your vlogs was really soothing today, and they’ve been comforting. I guess it’s the fact that you’ve been so open and honest about your struggles with anxiety and loneliness, and knowing that I’m not alone in those feelings was super helpful. I moved to a small community where I’m isolated and have no friends here. And watching my Dad deteriorate in front of me, I just couldn't handle it today. So, thank you for taking the time to make these videos and for sharing your personal experiences. I really needed the comfort. ❤

I love your videos!! They're always so fun to watch!!

love the sour apple 🍏 nails!

hey melissa! where are your sunglasses from? <3

Hello. Melissa I wish you a good summer and to all CZcams viewers! Have a beautiful day. Bye. Rudi from Europe.

Love the green nails for summer, seriously u r sharp pretty etc the right guy is gona find u!!

This vlog was great!

Keep dating!! You really will meet someone.