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Its insane you pinpointed EVERYTHING in my life. I am in utter shock. Thank you for this video.

Well in the past there were wars, which basically helped to balance death and life ratio. People don't how to date because they generally are not living like human beings and the reason for this is not social media, the reason is lack of ideals people basically don't know how to make themselves constantly busy.

I love throwing stuff away too, I feel much cleaner when my room is like empty, someone gets me😭😍❤

Thing is, I don’t feel the need to talk. If it’s not something deep, I’m not interested. I think more people need to get their crap together so we stop talking about things that don’t help us in life, like gossip or which sports team won. I would have more conversation if people shared to me what they personally learned to get through in life, not about how stressful their job and family are.

I’ve never had a relationship

Love love love this, woke me up real quick

It’s the Internet constantly presenting us with idealized images and creating crazy standards for the majority of people. Gen Z are not the only ones impacted, we just see it predominantly in them because they grew up within the digital age. Millennials are also significantly impacted as well, we just mask it better. The entire world is becoming more entitled and less patient.

i automatically subscribed 10 mins in, girl u just described my problem rn😭

I’m 17 and i just graduated high school. In school i never got much attention from guys and i also somehow didn’t think it possible that people liked me. I’ve started working at a café and met this really cute guy and we’ve hung out a few times, and i could see myself getting into a relationship with him but idk how to start something or like how to make a move. Until now i think i’ve acted kind of cordial because i’m scared of getting hurt and he was way more forward, but i also stopped texting him too much bcs i felt myself getting kind of obsessed with him. We’re going swimming in a few days, and i’m kind of nervous… would love to hear advice and like what your stories are!

A lot of you complain about the same things that you refuse to give up. I promise as soon as you forget entirely about this culture, you’ll find people that share your perspective and don’t date the same way everyone else does. You have to let it go.

I relate to the perfectionist part but i have my reasons. My type is rich, handsome, with tatts, and taller than me, n good body. This is not too much cuz 90% of my frnds fit into most of these categories. However to find a man w all that i need to become a woman like that cuz i discovered I attract guys similar to me who have a genuine interest in me. The last guy who genuinely liked me confused me cuz i was like hes so intimidating n hot, how is he attracted to me, n then he told me he thought i was intimidating. So i started noticing to find a really attractive guy i need to become more attractive. Not change anything about myself but polish myself. The guys around me r very unattractive n it motivates me to become better. Plus my goals r almost into fruition ao i dont want to carry insecure guys into the next phase when i thrive. So it doesn't mean my standards r too high or I'm a literal perfectionist. I know what i want and ik i can get it, so y settle for less? If I'm attractive when broke, im going to be stunning once i polish myself n i want a man who is at that standard too. Its okay to have standards as long as they're achiveable and interlinked w ur longterm plan. Trust me u dont want a broke boy hanging on ur coattails when u rise. (This is for girlies w big dreams especially)

That’s because your talking to a camera

I don’t necessarily agree with the last clip. I sorta get where she is coming from and there is definitely some truth behind it. But I used to be in a relationship where My ex claimed to have ADHD and even tho he got to get a diagnosis the doctor diagnosed no ADHD. Regardless I believed him that he struggled to get things done etc. but me, having high time management, led to me being so tired after a while bc I had to think for two people. And even tho he did nothing to „gain the position of the man“ in the relationship he demanded me to subordinate myself altho I was the guiding party. Rn I’m in a quite opposite relationship in which my partner also has high time management but also provides flexibility, as I do. And suddenly the „roles in the relationship“ are even. I don’t have to fear that he will undermine my integrity which is why i don’t have to „defend“ my position.

Maladaptive Daydreaming is literally my default state of mind. It's getting to a point where I can't pay attention to my surroundings. Help 🙃

There's another, rare, almost-usually forgotten attachment style called disorganised attachment, which is basically a combination of both anxious and avoidant but with its own, unique qualities as well. People tend to forget we exist.

And yet none of them are virgins. 😂😂😂😂😂 You can't make this poo-poo up. 😂😂😂😂😂

Pretty crazy current world, and my gen is just the transition to the inevitable.

I felt grateful when I found your CZcams channel. Say hi to Brazil, please🙃🙃

Think it's girls standards and noone going out. Because guys will date 80% of girls and girls only the top 20% according to tinder.

I saw this quote that's something along the lines of, "Fools speak because they feel like they have to say something, wise people speak because they have something to say."

You need to chill with the reverse crash sound effect😂

I dont want to date being flawed because of all the other girls in my area that dont look flawed. Why date me when there are better looking girls. Men are very visual and dating apps make it worse. So yea wont date until im as skinny as i want to be. Yea im starting therapy again because i know this isn't a healthy way to think

I'm a lesbian and demisexual and yeah this is so real and it makes dating a bit hard because as beautiful as they are I need to like who they are and how they treat me before I'm physically affectionate and flirty. Comfort is key

Oh god, the subtitles xd

The problem with me is I find their personality unattractive as well 😂

Hey I really liked this video. I know I learned a lot of confidence and how to build it up. Ideally I would like to implement all of these different exercises to better improve my confidence; but the one I want to focus on the most is just saying no.

Fr people need to understand we should focus on the personality instead of looks, sometimes just because someone looks attractive doesn’t mean they have a good personality. but of course, im not saying all attractive people have bad personalities. Some of them actually have good personalities, yk

and both situations are fine

I don’t blame women its up to the guys to approach at the end of the day. It should be well known by now that many men don’t because they don’t want to appear creepy and can be accused of sexual assault/harassment. Just recently saw a yt short of a motorcycle girl making fun of a guy trying to be a wingman for his friend that liked her. Calling them weirdos with the 🤢 emoji shaming them online. Thats how bad social media made the dating scene along with how superficial dating apps are.

women wont settle for anything theoretically possible, men wont make an attempt to be better

I think it all comes down to vibes, if I pass women and feel no inclination to approach them then I just trust that the vibe is not there and do not beat myself up for not trying to force something. Sometimes I will come across women that I feel completely comfortable and almost obligated to approach due to a vibe that is completely in sync, and it always goes/ends well even if things don’t progress very far. When it comes to finding a partner I would just tell people to be open to the vibes in people around you and work on yourself in the meantime. When the perfect vibe comes along you wont have a choice lol it will just happen

It’s so sad because y’all let social media control your own standards and preferences. Also those women are lying about never being on a date. They doing it for clout. Who goes on the internet and tells their fan base they’ve never been on a date or had a boyfriend.

I am the type of person I get on with a lot of people but don't make friends easily. But having a few good friends is the best way anyway.

I'm gonna use a lot of these skills at my college orientation!! thank you for this, i hope i end up making some good friends :D

thanj you so much❤❤❤❤

Waiting to ask you on a date? What year do live in women? Sexism

So this video is a way for women to avoid all accountability for having high standards that they have no right to have. Guess what lady. Men have dated women for years and years that had no job and the whole nine yards. Enough said. You women are entitled when all your life has been paid for holding someone’s hand my god

And to make matters worse how we know they’re not lying?

I just turned 23 last week. The last time I had a boyfriend was when I was 17 back in 2018. I've never experienced dating as an adult. Almost all of my Highschool friends are either in a relationship, some even married. Sometimes, I'll bump into family or friends I haven't seen in a while and the first thing they ask is if I'm married or in a relationship then go on to say that I need to think about it more since I'm getting older.

Idk if all your videos are like this. But I appreciate very much that you put subtitles in this one. Its very hard to find videos in english with subtitles in english. So thank you very much <3

Gen Z is undateable because community is dying thanks to Social Media and the internet and whatever's left of it has been monopolized by schools which don't even have High School reunions anymore. Then Covid happened which forced everyone into isolation and now everyone is paying the price for it by making it harder to socially interact with others. We live in a time where younger people NEED (not even optional at this point) to be taught that as soon as they can work, that they need a community to fall back on by the time they graduate, whether its sports, the martial arts, college, a type of class of some kind, a type of job where you see the same people everyday, anything that provides community where can excel in some way with the same people. In the pre-internet days, community was always there for you, it was how you socialized and developed social skills where you learned what to do and what not to do, which is how you would've found friends and friend groups, that are friends with other people and other groups, which is how you would inevitably find a partner. What we figured out is that without community it's harder to find partners not only because of the people that are limited in terms of options but also because they don't even know how to be approachable. Which puts the country into a birthing crisis which is what's happening right now. The old-heads were and are right, the phones, consoles, and computers WILL be the end of us if we don't get off of them, or even better, ridding of them. Thanks Zuckerberg. You're another person that proved the Unabomber right about the Industrial Revolution being humanity's greatest mistake.

Christina, I love your videos so much. You have a way of explaining things that just clicks so well - I find myself pausing every now and then to take a moment to digest some of these insights!

as an autistic person, i learned so much from this video. i don’t think i’ll be able to have conversations like allistic people any time soon, but this has given me a lot to think about. conversations do not come naturally to me at all. i have a hard time understanding that at the heart of conversations is connecting, because i either take things too literally or i’m too busy trying to understand what they are trying to say or what the joke is and how i should react appropriately. i’m trying so hard to seem “normal”, that i forget to be myself. i also struggle with speaking in general. i always have. i’m not sure if its related to my autism or is a cognitive and/or negative symptom of a posible schizophrenia. its something i have to learn to accept more. well, anyway, thank you for this video. its so important.

Anxious girls wake up!! Christina posted 😩

i love your advices please don’t die

I found your channel 2 minutes ago and it's so good!! These are actually helpful videos

WAIT SO YOU'RE DEMISEXUAL LIKE ME? the way you explained it, reminded me, so I'm not trying to label you just curious ❤

Thank you so much for the advice!! Im an extrovert with extreme social anxiety and i think i can start to talk to people again, even though i used to be a people pleaser, this is gonna help me with both those struggles

lol, back in my days a lot of people had already lost their virginity by their mid teens,, it seems social engineering for population control has been a real success story in the last few decades with men and women now more divided than ever, the corporations most definitely know how to turn you all into useless customers at the end of the day