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Why Don't We Listen To Our Parents?
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@xisumavoid shares his thoughts on multitasking and what could be described as a light form of psychological reactance and confirmation bias, where an individual has a tendency to disregard advice from close sources like family and friends but listens when the same advice comes from an external source.
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0:00 Multitasking or splitting attention?
1:40 Disregarding advice from people close to you
5:05 The effect of parasocial relationships on the matter
5:51 Outro
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Naughty Episode Name & Etho's Setup
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Xisuma Says Playlist ► czcams.com/play/PLABNGDqpUV2Fc7yZ9rSgHm57Ya9mSkEdc.html @xisumavoidcoments on the title of a recent hermitcraft episode that referenced a controversial video from the early 2000's, then proceeds to comment about the recent picture of Etho's (ethoslab) computer setup. All My Links In One Place! 🔗 linktree.xisuma.co 🙏 Support Xisuma Directly 🙏 💜 Membership ► czcams.com/user...
Is Tech SPYING On You?
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Xisuma Says Playlist ► czcams.com/play/PLABNGDqpUV2Fc7yZ9rSgHm57Ya9mSkEdc.html Xisuma Talks about the possibility of tech spying on you for targeted advertising by using the microphones on your devices All My Links In One Place! 🔗 linktree.xisuma.co 🙏 Support Xisuma Directly 🙏 💜 Membership ► czcams.com/users/xisumavoidjoin 👍 Patreon ► www.patreon.com/xisuma 📺 Subscribe ► www.twitch.tv/subs/xisu...
Xisuma's Scrapped Season X Plans!
zhlédnutí 53KPřed 3 měsíci
Xisuma Says Playlist ► czcams.com/play/PLABNGDqpUV2Fc7yZ9rSgHm57Ya9mSkEdc.html Taken from: czcams.com/video/HWSog_h-G9w/video.html Xisuma shares the initial plans and ideas for builds on Hermitcraft Season Ten which never left the drawing board. All My Links In One Place! 🔗 linktree.xisuma.co 🙏 Support Xisuma Directly 🙏 💜 Membership ► czcams.com/users/xisumavoidjoin 👍 Patreon ► www.patreon.com/...
Our understanding of probabilities is WRONG
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Xisuma Says Playlist ► czcams.com/play/PLABNGDqpUV2Fc7yZ9rSgHm57Ya9mSkEdc.html @xisumavoidspeaks about people giving sentimental meaning to coincidences and how those coincidences relate to statistics and odds of happening. Watch the full VOD on @xisumatwo Hermitcraft Nine (147) Livestream 10/10/23 czcams.com/video/BvP2V7KHgEo/video.html All My Links In One Place! 🔗 linktree.xisuma.co 🙏 Support...
How To Get Out Of The Darkness
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Xisuma Says Playlist ► czcams.com/play/PLABNGDqpUV2Fc7yZ9rSgHm57Ya9mSkEdc.html @xisumavoidtalks about his life experience giving some valuable life advice as part of a segment from his presence on the @impandskizzpodcast part2. The "X" Factor, with Xisuma - Pt 2 | Imp And Skizz Podcast (Ep64) czcams.com/video/S96Pai1Q-cw/video.html All My Links In One Place! 🔗 linktree.xisuma.co 🙏 Support Xisum...
Xisuma went on a Podcast!!!
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Xisuma Says Playlist ► czcams.com/play/PLABNGDqpUV2Fc7yZ9rSgHm57Ya9mSkEdc.html Here are some teasers/highlights from@xisumavoid participation on the @impandskizzpodcast Podcast! The "X" Factor, with Xisuma - Pt 1 | Imp And Skizz Podcast (Ep63) czcams.com/video/6OJVBSRPUbA/video.html All My Links In One Place! 🔗 linktree.xisuma.co 🙏 Support Xisuma Directly 🙏 💜 Membership ► czcams.com/users/xisum...
#stopthemobvote Was Sad To See
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Xisuma Says Playlist ► czcams.com/play/PLABNGDqpUV2Fc7yZ9rSgHm57Ya9mSkEdc.html @xisumavoidtalks about the community attitude regarding the mob vote 2023, and the behaviour towards mojang. Watch the full VOD on @xisumatwo Minecraft 1.21 Discussion Livestream 16/10/23 czcams.com/video/SsqndsW4Fc8/video.html All My Links In One Place! 🔗 linktree.xisuma.co 🙏 Support Xisuma Directly 🙏 💜 Membership ►...
Youtube's New Thumbnail Feature
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Xisuma Says Playlist ► czcams.com/play/PLABNGDqpUV2Fc7yZ9rSgHm57Ya9mSkEdc.html @xisumavoid speaks about the new youtube feature regarding thumbnail testing and shares his thought on the influence of thumbnails on different creators like Ethoslab. Watch the full VOD on @xisumatwo : Hermitcraft Nine (145) Livestream 02/10/23 czcams.com/video/w6GIcjcqKGU/video.html&ab_channel=xisumatwo All My Link...
The End Of An Era
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Xisuma Says Playlist ► czcams.com/play/PLABNGDqpUV2Fc7yZ9rSgHm57Ya9mSkEdc.html @xisumavoid talks about his personal changes towards creating content on the Hermitcraft Server and the pursue of his love for music production, will Xisuma quit Hermitcraft?. Watch the full VOD on @xisumatwo : czcams.com/video/G4UJlAOL9Tw/video.html All My Links In One Place! 🔗 linktree.xisuma.co 🙏 Support Xisuma Di...
My Trip To New York City!
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Xisuma Says Playlist ► czcams.com/play/PLABNGDqpUV2Fc7yZ9rSgHm57Ya9mSkEdc.html I had such an amazing time in the big apple i just wanted to get it all off my chest and waffle about my adventures for a few hours. All My Links In One Place! 🔗 linktree.xisuma.co 🙏 Support Xisuma Directly 🙏 💜 Membership ► czcams.com/users/xisumavoidjoin 👍 Patreon ► www.patreon.com/xisuma 📺 Subscribe ► www.twitch.tv...
What can Hermits do for YOU?
zhlédnutí 58KPřed rokem
Xisuma Says Playlist ► czcams.com/play/PLABNGDqpUV2Fc7yZ9rSgHm57Ya9mSkEdc.html @xisumavoid talks about making an impact and shares a special message with chat in a recent livestream on the Hermitcraft server. Watch the full VOD on @xisumatwo : czcams.com/video/2uaK37JoY4E/video.html All My Links In One Place! 🔗 linktree.xisuma.co 🙏 Support Xisuma Directly 🙏 💜 Membership ► czcams.com/users/xisum...
Xisuma's Alarming Experience With ChatGPT
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Xisuma Says Playlist ► czcams.com/play/PLABNGDqpUV2Fc7yZ9rSgHm57Ya9mSkEdc.html @xisumavoid talks about his personal experience of using chatGPT with his viewers during a livestream on Twitch. Watch the VOD on @xisumatwo : czcams.com/video/F62y1JT1kPQ/video.html All My Links In One Place! 🔗 linktree.xisuma.co 🙏 Support Xisuma Directly 🙏 💜 Membership ► czcams.com/users/xisumavoidjoin 👍 Patreon ► ...
What Youtubers Don't Tell You
zhlédnutí 41KPřed rokem
Xisuma Says Playlist ► czcams.com/play/PLABNGDqpUV2Fc7yZ9rSgHm57Ya9mSkEdc.html @xisumavoid talks about how he feels being called a role model and reveals what youtube success really means beyond numbers. Watch the whole VOD of the Hermitcraft Live Stream on @xisumatwo czcams.com/video/HKIII1E5bZ8/video.html All My Links In One Place! 🔗 linktree.xisuma.co 🙏 Support Xisuma Directly 🙏 💜 Membership...
Hermitcraft and DreamSMP: What's The Difference?
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Xisuma Says Playlist ► czcams.com/play/PLABNGDqpUV2Fc7yZ9rSgHm57Ya9mSkEdc.html @xisumavoid talks with Captain Puffy, GeminiTay and his Twitch chat about the OG Minecraft Influencers like DocM77, Etho and Static777, about audience overlap between SMPs and the Minecraft Generation. Watch the full VOD at @xisumatwo czcams.com/video/ZdUT0whhV2Q/video.html All My Links In One Place! 🔗 linktree.xisum...
Why Is Everyone MAD At MrBeast?
zhlédnutí 61KPřed rokem
Why Is Everyone MAD At MrBeast?
Mental Health and the Youtube Content Treadmill
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Mental Health and the CZcams Content Treadmill
Humans Scored Worse Than Monkeys...
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Humans Scored Worse Than Monkeys...
is Elon Musk surrounded by "Yes-Men" ?
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is Elon Musk surrounded by "Yes-Men" ?
What You Might Not Know About Spotify
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What You Might Not Know About Spotify
What Did I Miss Out On?
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What Did I Miss Out On?
The Meta Of Dream's Face Reveal
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The Meta Of Dream's Face Reveal
Does Personality Influence Success?
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Does Personality Influence Success?
Elon Musk's Controversial Plans To Fix Twitter
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Elon Musk's Controversial Plans To Fix Twitter
DANGEROUS? Mark Rober Pranks Scam Callers
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DANGEROUS? Mark Rober Pranks Scam Callers
X Loving Curry For 14 Minutes
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X Loving Curry For 14 Minutes
Skiing Vacation In Austria
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Skiing Vacation In Austria
Did Minecraft Confirm A New Dimension?
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Did Minecraft Confirm A New Dimension?
Calorie Counting In Restaurants
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Calorie Counting In Restaurants
Is The Outrage Justified? - Will Smith Incident At The Oscars
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Is The Outrage Justified? - Will Smith Incident At The Oscars

Komentáře

  • @JohnDavidSullivan
    @JohnDavidSullivan Před 5 dny

    Coming back to this, just to say I go for a Curry with my mates every month, we put in three votes every month and put them in the hat then my mate draws one out and then we go for a few beers and a curry. X you are welcome to join but I appreciate you are keeping your anonymity, might be difficult to eat with the Scream mask on.

  • @orangeeyz
    @orangeeyz Před 5 dny

    Here’s the difference. Hermits can build and dsmp members can’t (except for a few exceptions)

  • @maikanegrini3646
    @maikanegrini3646 Před 8 dny

    Thank you so much for sharing your story, I'm sorry for what you went through. I've had my own struggles with depression and suicidal thoughts, so seeing you so happy and successful after everything gives me hope that it'll get better. I just kinda stumbled on this video after years of watching Hermitcraft, and I really needed this.

  • @Trainsbinshaprio
    @Trainsbinshaprio Před 8 dny

    My determination is unbreakable I WILL join (i wont)

  • @tunir3010
    @tunir3010 Před 14 dny

    I had a panic attack while listening to this. Great video regardless

  • @Game2play-gl8lk
    @Game2play-gl8lk Před 14 dny

    i made a serrver

  • @studocwho
    @studocwho Před 16 dny

    What we also gotta think about is these are trained very good actors. Now I know there's been apologies since, but I still think it was all fake and just acting. You see stints like this all the time at Oscars. And other actors taking the mick out of other actors. So I think it was just for the views.

  • @Harlequin_Actor
    @Harlequin_Actor Před 27 dny

    I think this is why therapy is very good.

  • @Petaklanidis
    @Petaklanidis Před 27 dny

    Guys im doing great work about thumbnails content editing why im not getting any views.

  • @Nthanielnt1
    @Nthanielnt1 Před měsícem

    Instead of being a time traveller, you could have catacombs under your base with certain, smaller aspects of past seasons, so it isn't incredibly time consuming, but does the same thing

  • @manihatami6293
    @manihatami6293 Před měsícem

    Well...

  • @the.eepy.snail21
    @the.eepy.snail21 Před měsícem

    The waking up after an attempt and going to school the next day hit too close to home

  • @the.eepy.snail21
    @the.eepy.snail21 Před měsícem

    This made me cry lol never had a creator i like talk so openly about things like this. Im glad your still here and im glad im still here :)

  • @thechair83
    @thechair83 Před měsícem

    I have had an extremely troubled youth. I have spoken with many different psychiatrists over the years and have been offered antidepressants many times. I have been depressed from the age of 11, and suffer terribly with insomnia. At the lowest point in my life I was offered all sorts of medication to try and help the issue, but antidepressants aren't nearly as safe as you think. As well as this I was offered this med called melatonin which I tried but it sent my anxiety through the roof and I hated it. It was at this point that I tried cannabis oil, and I mean this in the most literal sense when I say it saved my life. Nothing can cure your problems, that has to come from within, however immediately my quality of life improved significantly. I was able to function much better, get a bit of sleep and put a bit of weight on (I was 6 stone at the time which is severely underweight, I am probably about 7-7.5 now) . I then spoke to a cannabis scientist in depth about my situation to learn more about what I was doing (as I am the type of person who has never wanted to do anything) and I learned a lot of invaluable information (Like for example, usually you will only ever experience the mental health negatives of weed if you experience paranoia, if you don't, then the chances of the risks showing up are a hell of a lot lower)! Also you mentioned the risk of cannabis causing schizophrenia, and I just wanted to say that I read a hell of a lot about this topic, and I have never seen a single piece of scientific evidence to support this, and that is including talking to the scientist I mentioned earlier. Abuse of anything, in any form can be bad for you like you said X, whether that be running, TV, mobile phones, sugar, hell, paracetamol is more dangerous as the crow flies than weed is. However, weed is a healer to so many, look at the remarkable effects it has had on cancer patients, people with ALS, arthritis, Parkinson's disease, and also there is a significant amount of anecdotal evidence to suggest it really helps people with autism (I myself am someone who would attest to this). Compare that to something like alcohol, and there really is no comparison as to which is worse. Alcohol is the most dangerous drug that everyone thinks is alright, why it is legal I have no idea! However with that said, if weed it makes you paranoid, you shouldn't do it. I know a lot of weed dealers (despite never actually smoking myself, as I say I took cannabis oil), and it seems you had some pretty evil ones! I've been around weed my entire life, and I've never even heard anything like that. I've known many people that grow, and I've never heard of anyone spraying it with glass or anything even close to that. They just take the plant, grow it, once it is grown hang it upside down, let it dry out, and then harvest it and that's it, nothing's added. It's uses in medicine date back over 1000 years, it's a herb. I've never heard of anyone supplementing weed with anything else, usually to my knowledge it is pills and things like that, that are cut with stuff (for example most ecstasy tabs you would find in a nightclub are likely cut with coke and speed, among other amphets). As an addition to this I will say, my depression has never truly gone away. And currently I am wrestling with a pretty massive thing in my life trying to finish a record I have been working on for 2 years, and I still can't get it to sound how I want it to sound! It is killing me as this is my lifes work. I have been very low for the past few months therefore, I wanted to see if there was any possibility that cannabis was exaggerating this low mood. After 2 months off I can definitively say that, all that is happening is that I'm reverting back to how my mental state was before weed. I'm barely sleeping, my anxiety is through the roof everyday, I'm barely eating, and my depression has worsened even further! I haven't struggled in the slightest to stop, and have had no noticeable effects from stopping other than as I say, my mental state reverting back to how it was before I took weed. Maybe I'm just strong willed I don't know, but I don't believe it to be addictive, it certainly isn't in the physical sense (I.E you don't have any physical withdrawal like you would with tobacco or alcohol for example). Saying all of this, I may never go back to it for the sole reason that I've never wanted to do anything! I even hate taking a paracetamol when I have a headache. But, I can say that weed has undoubtably been a positive influence in my life. I'm definitely not endorsing it to anyone, people need to be responsible for their own decisions. Also, there is a massive variation based on genetics (which is why some people get paranoid, and I have literally never been paranoid from it in my life), but especially with weed more than most things, an excessive amount of what you read on the internet is baseless misinformation without any actual science behind it. When I spoke to the scientist they told me that most of these "studies" have been embarrassingly conducted, have had extremely inconsistent testing, and have been pushed forward heavily by the governments to aid the tirade of propaganda surrounding cannabis since the 1960s. I'm just sharing my experience and some facts, as I have been reading about this subject for many years, long before I used it myself. And the amount of misinformation about it is staggering so it's time some real information got out there. One of the biggest reasons it won't be legal in the UK is because pharmaceutical companies will loose an unfathomable amount of money (I'm not sure on the exact figure, but it's in the hundreds of millions) as weed is a better, safer alternative to a lot of pharmaceuticals on the market. In fact THC is actually one of the best anti inflammatories in the world. Why we live in a world where you can get Codeine, Morphine and diazepam prescribed to you (i've unfortunately been on all of these things in the past), alcohol kills 100,000+ every year but weed is illegal, I'll never understand it! If it makes you paranoid, don't do it, simple as that. I'm glad you're in a better place now X (I don't want to assume but it seems that way). Love your videos mate, it feels like we'd get along well, I'd love to chat music and bands with you 😂☺

  • @emoharalampiev1590
    @emoharalampiev1590 Před měsícem

    I'm curious how does watch speed affect algorithms. I mean I often watch YT on x2 (sometimes faster) so like I watch the entire video, but I give half the watch time.

  • @emoharalampiev1590
    @emoharalampiev1590 Před měsícem

    The comment on 7:15 is talking about the thing you pointed out already in the previous vide (I presume from where the comment is from), that just because it happened once ignores the fact that that there were a million times where it didn't happen. Not to mention either again as you said maybe something is trendy and that's why you talked about it, orr maybe you're juts consuming media of that topic, like IDK you've just found out about a game (maybe even an older game) and the last 2 days you've watched 10 videos on it you've googled 30 things related to it and then you talk to a friend about that game and all of a sudden you grab your phone and it has an ad for that game, I mean it makes sense, you're clearly interested in it so it gets served to you. But might even be something less direct, maybe you're watching a very generic gaming video (IDK like "top 10 crazy coincidences in video games") which draws your attention to a specific game, and it gets served to you as an ad, well maybe just a lot of people who watch this video also get interested in that game and so it's learned from them that watching this video has some likelyhood of making you interested in that other game.

  • @emoharalampiev1590
    @emoharalampiev1590 Před měsícem

    Personally never was a fan of the mob vote "here are 2 well thought out mobs that you'll never see in the game". I mean don't get me wrong, I ain't going around starting riots over it, I just try to avoid seeing the stuff, but since I'm quite active in MC communities (YT, Reddit etc.) it's kinda hard to avoid. I mean as I said, not a big deal or anything, but I do dislike them.

  • @emoharalampiev1590
    @emoharalampiev1590 Před měsícem

    I dunno enough about clocks, but maybe they have some sort of maintenance, and so if the "man of the house" isn't around cause he's at war, maybe it's more likely to stop (again 0 clue if that's the case, but another thinking point on top of the pure likelyhood)

  • @stoneybologne
    @stoneybologne Před měsícem

    went into this video thinkin "oh ima catch up on all the X videos school made me miss instead of studying for my massive exam soon" and immediately got hit with the "go study!"

  • @amirhosseinmaghsoodi388
    @amirhosseinmaghsoodi388 Před měsícem

    It's like how you get good ideas when you're absolutely doing nothing that requires thought. So your thoughts are free to go about. When you're doing things like this you're sitting there and listening. When it's someone you know, you try to think of how to talk and stuff. So I think we should listen more.

  • @joshuas1893
    @joshuas1893 Před měsícem

    I feel that a lot of the advice I've received has been pretty poor whether it's come from people I know or not. Sometimes you meet people who can't or don't want to understand your problems or perspective, but they feel obliged to give you advice anyway because it make them feel less bad. If you don't take the advice and continue to struggle... well then they're able to resolve their own psychological distress by concluding that it's your own stupid fault. That's very often the purpose of the advice. It's not about helping you at all.

  • @timwoods2852
    @timwoods2852 Před měsícem

    It's always good to know what season we're in. Though the big numbers get hard to follow after a while.😅

  • @azuresiren5846
    @azuresiren5846 Před měsícem

    Nah we deserve to get all 3 mobs. every year we lose two cool mobs and that sucks

  • @aidanlanz3114
    @aidanlanz3114 Před měsícem

    You can multitask things that involve procedural memory, but not things that involve cognition.

  • @PixelSE46
    @PixelSE46 Před měsícem

    I play Bedrock (becuase I can’t afford a laptop) and my friend has got a weird cross platform version of minecraft on his laptop so we play together

  • @KingJellyfishII
    @KingJellyfishII Před 2 měsíci

    I've recently been really enjoying lentil dahl, along with some (admittedly not nearly as good as you get in a restaurant) homemade naan. It's also really easy and convenient to take as a packed lunch and you don't even need cutlery if you get good at eating with the bread lol

  • @Melanie_M
    @Melanie_M Před 2 měsíci

    I think it's not that mysterious that people rather listen to strangers for self-help and life advice than own family or loved ones. This stuff makes one vulnerable. It's very easy to receive advice behind a computer or reflect upon that in your own space and safety. Yet most of us have our defence mechanisms engaged when interacting with people who know us, see us, care about us or who we fear can hurt us or worse judge us in a way we are not prepared to for a multitude of reasons. A podcast is not going to make us accountable for healing and getting better and showing up in a healthier way for others, the actual people who care in our lives might.

  • @LotusTheWise
    @LotusTheWise Před 2 měsíci

    nah xisuma is the internet dad of wisdom

  • @gricklegrass100
    @gricklegrass100 Před 2 měsíci

    I think there is some confusion between multitasking and prioritization. In my engineering job, it is expected that you're solving multiple problems with different deadlines simultaneously. Multitasking doesn't mean you're killing it in several different areas concurrently. It means you can only tackle one thing at a time but you understand which order to tackle things such that you meet each objective at the needed time. A good engineer can attack one problem at a time. A great engineer can attack a sequence of problems in series and schedule them in a way that they don't become overwhelmed. What does this have to do with listening to your parents? Absolutely nothing. As a parent, I can tell you that a child's purpose is to rebel from their parents just as a citizen should rebel from their government. Raising a child is a constant barrage of of rebellion and negotiation and putting your foot down. Is it rewarding? Yes. Is it tiresome? Yes. Is it worth it? Well, the world keeps turning so ...

  • @osmo2384
    @osmo2384 Před 2 měsíci

    I put this video on to multitask and then you said that about multitasking and I was like.... oh yeah,,, damn it

  • @Ximoc
    @Ximoc Před 2 měsíci

    It was my second favorite because it was the second I watched.

  • @Ximoc
    @Ximoc Před 2 měsíci

    I think the thing is that I’ve only ever known three ‘black people’ It is just something that I notice of a person like ‘oh, they’re black, cool, I can use that to help me remember them :D’ I do this with everyone like I know ‘queer wheelchair lady who does art’ and ‘high vis cycle guy’ and ‘nice cycle guy who rides with hands in his pockets’.

  • @Ximoc
    @Ximoc Před 2 měsíci

    The thing is, it’s my school and my parents believe it is an amazing school just because it is a private school and they “are good with mental health”. Also, I have no friends as my school is tiny and I’m known as the “weird one”.

  • @HarmonyMoonbeam024
    @HarmonyMoonbeam024 Před 2 měsíci

    Really needed this today. I’ve been working on a Last Life AU that I’m enjoying the HECK out of, but procrastination also runs in my family, so I don’t always get to work on the next chapter immediately, and instead watch horror games or mess with my eraser clay for hours. And it’s allll because of that little voice that says “NAHHHH, this thing is so easy, you could literally finish it in three days. Go watch Impulse play Phasmophobia and start writing the next chapter tomorrow :)” and absolutely nothing gets done 🥲

  • @alyssarichards2939
    @alyssarichards2939 Před 2 měsíci

    Skizz’s influence on the hermits….

  • @Ponchofromrl
    @Ponchofromrl Před 2 měsíci

    Ever thought of putting xisumasays on Spotify as a podcast?

  • @touch_me.
    @touch_me. Před 2 měsíci

    not trying to bring my religion into this, or anything, but modern people’s behavior was predicted a loooooong time ago “You should know this, Timothy, that in the last days there will be very difficult times. For people will love only themselves and their money. They will be boastful and proud, scoffing at God, disobedient to their parents, and ungrateful.” 2 Timothy 3:1-5

    • @jacqueline373
      @jacqueline373 Před 2 měsíci

      i mean this is just people’s behavior, not modern and people in literally every culture and religion has made this observation!

  • @yusaki8064
    @yusaki8064 Před 2 měsíci

    I wonder if it’s a subconscious wondering if someone has an ulterior motive. Like if my dad gives me some advice, partially perhaps because I know him well enough to know his prejudices, somewhere in the back of my mind I can’t help but wonder if he’s trying to change my behaviour for some other reason. But getting an outside perspective from someone who has little to no real connection to you allows you to take in that advice without worrying about that.

  • @adalon378
    @adalon378 Před 2 měsíci

    Humans are not made to multitask, period. So how do some people do it? Well, muscle memory... We can clean the home or run on a threadmill while listening to an audiobook book, or a lesson, so surely listening to a podcast or music which tend to need less concentration. I see it like outsourcing the activity to somewhere other than the brain. So to answer your viewer... Homework needs brain and the stream is by definition a distraction for the brain, that's not compatible! We all hated homework. But while in school, we all had to do it, it's just the duties of the student. Work has even more duties, so just enjoy the time in school when all you have to do is homework 😛 You also get to enjoy the stream more if the homework is out of the way... like... leave for 30min, 1 hour, or whatever, and focus on that alone, and then come back. Being an adult now, i appreciate so much more the opportunity to give full attention to one thing. Even if it's work or a mandatory task that I need to focus on. The way to do it without stress, to me, starts by giving full attention to that thing while it's being done, so i also don't think about better things that i could be doing, or what i can do if I finish fast... Things don't disappear, so I just try to not mix anymore. The stream will be there after, and maybe he can talk about what he did in his homework after it's over, in the stream (instead of talking about not wanting to do it, join the club buddy 😅). Giving full attention to something, means that we also gain from it, like learning stuff to talk about.

  • @GothBoyUK
    @GothBoyUK Před 2 měsíci

    I think it depends on the environment you are brought up in. I listen to my family a lot because they have always given good advice. However, I was brought up in a very open way where no subject was taboo if approached correctly and appropriately. Unfortunately many people don't have that luxury.

  • @jjkthebest
    @jjkthebest Před 2 měsíci

    My attention is being split either way. I'd rather do multiple things not very well than one thing not very well.

  • @red_inblack
    @red_inblack Před 2 měsíci

    5:03 so true, I had this theory to comment, but glad I watched the whole video.

  • @jenniferm.2142
    @jenniferm.2142 Před 2 měsíci

    Even when cleaning though, you’re paying more attention to the audio book than to the cleaning. It seems to work because you don’t need to pay as much attention to the cleaning to do it right, but I think your brain is probably still switching. I’m not judging, I do it too. But I do think it’s still accurate to say that multitasking doesn’t truly work like we think it does.

  • @the_prinz_
    @the_prinz_ Před 2 měsíci

    "Oh Xisuma in the Nether, what it is your wisdom"

  • @cobble616
    @cobble616 Před 2 měsíci

    I thought of an interesting parenting idea, not sure of its ethocal though. You go on your child's account and try and find videos that promote the things you want them to know. Then, when your child goes on youtube theyll see them and have this effect applied

  • @shawnholbrook7278
    @shawnholbrook7278 Před 2 měsíci

    Sometimes, my kids will act like I'm annoying, but then they will tell their friends things that I have said.

  • @SmellOfMaple
    @SmellOfMaple Před 2 měsíci

    You're spot on in your observation. Here's why we often resist parental advice: It's essential for our growth into well-adjusted adults. As children, we're governed by emotions and blind obedience. We outgrow these, prioritizing critical thinking and autonomy. It's through reasoning and experience that we forge our path to independence.

  • @emcustard
    @emcustard Před 2 měsíci

    I think it’s because we know those people too well. I’m not going to take my mother's advice on memory as seriously when I’ve seen her spend 10 minutes looking for the sunglasses she’s currently wearing.

  • @myglaren29
    @myglaren29 Před 2 měsíci

    i listened to my parents until my early twenties and learnt in therapy how very twisted their idea of who I am was. i think some parents, at least mine, just spam you with advice that would have helped _them_. a lot of advice in general is usually people trying to deter others from doing something they themselves think about as a mistake when they did it. haven’t listened to them for a few years now and I’ve never been better.

  • @Ronanelm
    @Ronanelm Před 2 měsíci

    I find it interesting how a parent can learn from a child just like how a child learns from a parent.