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Stop People-Pleasing and Say NO in 4 Steps!
Do you have a REALLY hard time saying no or setting boundaries in your relationships with those close to you?
Is people-pleasing draining your time and energy that could be spent on things that truly LIGHT YOU UP instead?!
If you are tired of the patterns of self-sacrifice and self-sabotage that are leading to toxic relationships and you would like to learn how to speak up for yourself and show up authentically in your life and relationships, then check out this video where Self-Love Coach Mischaela Richter shares 4 steps to help you break the habit of people-pleasing so you can channel that energy into improving your self-worth and self-confidence instead.
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Emotional Awareness in Relationships
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How Emotionally aware are you? Your answer to this question determines the quality of your relationships with yourself and others. In this video, I have a conversation with Emotions Coach Jiselle Gilliard for her podcast The Mighty Emotions Podcast. It’s a candid tale of my journey down the path to Self-Love and the emotional lessons I’ve learned along the way, all of which have led to more ope...
What is Authenticity? How to be Authentically YOU
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Authenticity is a word we hear a lot, but what does it actually mean? And how do we do it?? If you are wondering how to be authentically YOU, join Personal Growth & Self-Love coach Mischaela Richter for this video for the people-pleaser who KNOWS they are people-pleasing too much in relationships and is DONE with the pattern of toxic relationships. If you are ready to stop the self-sabotage, se...
I've Never Shared This Publicly Before...
zhlédnutí 180Před rokem
In this video, I’m going allll the way back and sharing the story of what happened in my early years that made me the (recovering) people-pleasing perfectionist that I am today. What happens to us from the ages of 0 to 7 is foundational in creating our (often limiting) beliefs about who we are and how we relate to other people. Fortunately we’ve learned a lot about the brain and neuroplasticity...
5 Relationship Red Flags You Don't Want to Ignore!!
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Do you often miss (or ignore) the red flags in your relationship, only to have it blow up in your face down the road? If you are a people-pleaser and have a history of toxic relationships, then you’ll want to watch this video on the 5 RED FLAGS YOU SHOULD NEVER IGORE especially at the beginning of a relationship. If you are looking for healthy love in a compatible, supportive relationship, you’...
Hairstylist to Life Coach: My Story of Career Transition
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I’m pulling back the curtain on my life and business in this VERY candid conversation between myself - Mischaela Richter - and my friend Lucinda Underwood of the Kickstart Connections Podcast. In this video I talk about making the transition from my hairstyling career to my coaching career and how I balance motherhood, my marriage and running a business (spoiler alert - I don’t). If you are int...
Don't Get Into Another Relationship Before Watching This
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Are you fresh off of a toxic relationship that drained your confidence and self-worth? If so, you’ll want to watch this video, especially if you are a people-pleaser with a history of toxic relationships. In this video, Personal Growth & Self-Love Coach Mischaela Richter gives you three important questions to ask yourself to help you stop the self-sabotage so you can break the old patterns and ...
How to Get Over Fear Of Commitment
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Is your fear of commitment holding you back from happy healthy love?? If you want to know how to get over your fear of commitment, watch this video where Personal Growth and Self-Love Coach Mischaela Richter talks about how she got over her fear of commitment in relationships so she could enjoy healthy love after a history of toxic relationships. If you are ready to stop the self-sabotage and o...
3 Self Love Habits That Changed My Life
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Are you tired of the self-criticism and self-loathing? Are you ready to improve your relationship with yourself?? Watch this video where personal growth and self-love coach Mischaela Richter shares 3 self-love habits that will change your life. If you are tired of being a people-pleaser or you know that you are people-pleasing too much in your relationships then you need to shift your focus to ...
How to Heal a Broken Heart After Breakup
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Are you longing to heal your broken heart after a breakup? In this video, Personal Growth & Self-Love Coach Mischaela Richter shares 4 steps to heal your heart after a breakup. If you are broken hearted and looking to learn how to process emotion, move through the pain and feel your feelings in a healthy way then watch this video for the first steps in finding healthy love after a toxic relatio...
How to LET GO of your Toxic Ex
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Are you struggling with how to let go of your toxic ex? If you are a people-pleaser with a history of toxic relationships, and you are wondering how to let go of your ex so you can move on to healthy love, watch this video where Self-Love Coach Mischaela Richter walks you through 4 exercises to help you move on from your ex and welcome in healthy love after a toxic relationship. Download your F...
Welcome to my channel!
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Are you a people-pleaser who's found success in your career but not your love life? If so, stick around, because I'll be sharing videos to help you break the patterns of people-pleasing, self-sabotage and toxic relationships so you can show up authentically and welcome HEALTHY love into your life. I'm Mischaela Richter, ICF-Certified Personal Growth and Self-Love Coach and founder of the Self-L...
Finding Healthy Love after Toxic Relationships (Even when you think you've tried everything)
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Are you an ambitious people-pleaser in your 30's with a history of toxic relationships who is READY to break the cycle? Download my free guide 'Toxic vs Healthy Relationship Behaviours Cheat Sheet' so you never miss a Red Flag🚩 again! drive.google.com/file/d/18vU5OBPJaknRulnATHmVaAW48PtkxrfB/view?usp=sharing My 'Whole for the Holidays' workshop is available now from November 25-28 2022! Sign up...
Sample Life Coaching Session With an ICF-Certified Coach - Managing and Protecting Your Energy
zhlédnutí 1,4KPřed 3 lety
This a sample life coaching session between ICF Certified Personal Growth and Leadership Coach Mischaela Richter and Martina Kelades of the Life Out Loud Podcast. This session plus much more can be found on Martina's podcast on Apple or Spotify. Martina is also the founder of Life Out Loud - Mental Health Consulting & Creatives and is navigating the work-life balance of being an entrepreneur. I...
Why Do I Sabotage Myself and How Do I Stop? Break the Pattern!
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Why Do I Sabotage Myself and How Do I Stop? Break the Pattern!
Why Am I Such a Control Freak? And How Do I Stop?
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Why Am I Such a Control Freak? And How Do I Stop?
Sample Life Coaching Session With An ICF Certified Coach - Coaching Cast #2
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Sample Life Coaching Session With An ICF Certified Coach - Coaching Cast #2
How to Overcome Imposter Syndrome When Starting a Business
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How to Overcome Imposter Syndrome When Starting a Business
How to Overcome Perfectionism in Business and GET SH*T DONE!
zhlédnutí 350Před 4 lety
How to Overcome Perfectionism in Business and GET SH*T DONE!
How To Disagree Productively - Essential For These Times!
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How To Disagree Productively - Essential For These Times!
Sample Life Coaching Session With An ICF Certified Coach
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Sample Life Coaching Session With An ICF Certified Coach
Managing Your Energy, Not Your Time - A New Take On Self-Care
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Managing Your Energy, Not Your Time - A New Take On Self-Care
Job Satisfaction - Life Lessons from Covid-19
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Job Satisfaction - Life Lessons from Covid-19
Coming Out Of the Spiritual Closet in Business
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Coming Out Of the Spiritual Closet in Business
Overcoming Beginner's Doubt When Changing Your Career Path - (Conscious Incompetence)
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Overcoming Beginner's Doubt When Changing Your Career Path - (Conscious Incompetence)
Financial considerations of changing your career path - Can you afford the time and money??
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Financial considerations of changing your career path - Can you afford the time and money??
How to Change Careers at 30 - Where Do You Start?!
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How to Change Careers at 30 - Where Do You Start?!
Is it time to change your career path?? How I knew it was!
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Is it time to change your career path?? How I knew it was!
Coping with Stress and Anxiety in 2020 - Mindset Shifts and Tips That Work!
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Coping with Stress and Anxiety in 2020 - Mindset Shifts and Tips That Work!
Why Is My Self Confidence So Low? Tips To Unleash Your Inner Badass!
zhlédnutí 1,4KPřed 4 lety
Why Is My Self Confidence So Low? Tips To Unleash Your Inner Badass!

Komentáře

  • @paulishalove5197
    @paulishalove5197 Před 16 dny

    Thank you

  • @SassySassoFilms
    @SassySassoFilms Před měsícem

    I got so much out of this video. THANK YOU for taking the time to share!!

  • @mofloyd6897
    @mofloyd6897 Před měsícem

    ❤. Thank you for sharing your experience and ways to overcome. I’m realizing my controlling behaviors is the result of my current situation. I didn’t want to believe it, cause how could I be wrong 😉..😂this actually relieved some anxiety ❤️Thank the Lord for you and thank you 🙏🏾

  • @tjharris6530
    @tjharris6530 Před 2 měsíci

    Thank you Mischaela!

  • @PreciousPamphile
    @PreciousPamphile Před 2 měsíci

    Love this video thanks for sharing. Can I please get a copy of this exercise not in the comment section? Thanks in advance

  • @ughb3lla
    @ughb3lla Před 2 měsíci

    Really helpful thank you

  • @mohibquadri4053
    @mohibquadri4053 Před 3 měsíci

    Too Good 💎 Thank you

  • @gugun986
    @gugun986 Před 5 měsíci

    Thank you so much for this video. ❤

  • @malenaramirez9377
    @malenaramirez9377 Před 7 měsíci

    I made the mistake of not digging around before… 2 years after I found out some very ugly things after we broke up. 😮

  • @JohnAdams-1
    @JohnAdams-1 Před 11 měsíci

    Pretty girl,

  • @elliemichel7560
    @elliemichel7560 Před rokem

    This was awesome.

  • @ChristianOne
    @ChristianOne Před rokem

    This is my fist visit to your channel. Your audio is SOOOO QUIET. I wanted to play this while washing dishes, like I do with other podcasts, but I can't. I have my volume all the way up and still have to hold the phone close to my ear to hear your conversation. Please fix it. If I can't clean while I listen, then I won't keep tuning in.

  • @kimberlywardell1879

    I had my computer up on high and I still could hardly hear the one lady. Her voice is beautiful and soothing, however it needs to be at a level than can be heard. I will have to listen to this again to catch what was being said.

  • @FittedMisfits1
    @FittedMisfits1 Před rokem

    If I don’t have any idea what I want to start over in , where should I start ? Are there any way to find free training programs , paid to work programs , etc?

  • @jenniferseverino927

    She needs more confidence in herself ❤

  • @jenniferseverino927

    I just got my life coach certification and I’m thinking about doing addiction and recovery. Helping others in sobriety. I also got my certificate in the psychology of addiction and recovery from Stanford university. I’m also a CNA, so I feel all caregivers has so much stress. What do you all feel about this area of coaching?

  • @lizz9840
    @lizz9840 Před rokem

    I can’t seem to find a realistic session with a topic for the average people. Most videos on youtube have topics that clients don’t really relate. None of my clients ask about vulnerability, they come with other more targeted issues.

  • @samsleem7103
    @samsleem7103 Před rokem

    Thank you for posting this video. It was recently brought to my attention that I might have control issues by my coworkers. So the ceniario of being a manager is to delegate that is in the best interest of the company and not ones self. Please correct me if I'm wrong. I am told that asking others not to do things a certain way is considered controlling. I understand that people need to learn from their own failures but when they don't learn and one tries to give them guidance, is that considered controlling? I want to be a better leader and when I'm told I'm controlling it hurt. I been looking online and reading and educating myself about it and I do admit I have some traits that would label me as controlling and would like to learn more. I feel I have entered my second half af life as Richard Rohr states in his book Falling upward, but for a person in a leadership role, what is the line of managing and being controlling?

    • @MischaelaRichter
      @MischaelaRichter Před rokem

      The phrase 'ask don't tell' comes to mind here. Do you know why your team members aren't doing what is asked of them? What is getting in their way? The more questions we ask, the more information we gather that helps us understand the other person's perspective. This will give you valuable info to use in tailoring your leadership of them. People don't respond well to authoritarianism. People want to be seen, heard and understood. Then they will be more likely to show up fully in their role. Does this land? What does this bring up for you?

    • @samsleem7103
      @samsleem7103 Před rokem

      @@MischaelaRichter Thank you for replying back to my comment. This does land for me yes. What does it bring up for me you ask, well it brings up a very defensive side of me that I try to keep in check from reacting impulsively. It has taken a lot of work and time on my part to get to where i am today mentally and spiritually. I still have a long way to go. The work never stops. But back to the topic at hand, yes, I am aware of why team members are not doing their part and what is getting in their way. The environment is a very social atmosphere and a lot of the times people do not care to take responsibility for their actions or want to go into a victimized state of mind. In saying that we pride ourselves in caring about one another and we are very family oriented. And unfortunately, some take advantage of the kindness and hide behind it. Asking and not telling is something that I always try to be conscious of. I ask the questions that will hopefully lead him or her to their own conclusions of what we are trying to accomplish. Asking questions and being curious has sometimes backfired. Maybe i need to choose my questions more carefully and thoughtfully.

  • @heidilyon7844
    @heidilyon7844 Před rokem

    That was so helpful, I have just started studying a level 5 coaching diploma and watching you coach was so uplifting and motivating. Thankyou so much for sharing.

  • @allisonclark8787
    @allisonclark8787 Před rokem

    I'm 25 and answered yes to all those questions. I have to be in control of every situation in my life. But it's causing a lot of stress in my life.

    • @MischaelaRichter
      @MischaelaRichter Před rokem

      First of all, good for you for noticing this. That’s a huge first step because you can’t change what you aren’t aware of! Which of the tips in my video can you put to practice?

    • @allisonclark8787
      @allisonclark8787 Před rokem

      I'm trying to let things out of my control, go. Can't change it, you shouldn't hold on to it.

    • @MischaelaRichter
      @MischaelaRichter Před rokem

      @@allisonclark8787 yes, surrendering to what you can’t control will give you back your time and mental energy that you can focus on lifting yourself up in other ways!

  • @MischaelaRichter
    @MischaelaRichter Před rokem

    Do you recognize yourself in any of this? Let me know any thoughts or questions this brings up!

  • @allieswasteland
    @allieswasteland Před rokem

    Thank you for sharing your journey, Mischaela (also your hair looks S T U N N I N G)

  • @MischaelaRichter
    @MischaelaRichter Před rokem

    Thanks for tuning in! What was your takeaway from this video?

  • @MischaelaRichter
    @MischaelaRichter Před rokem

    Thanks for tuning in! What are some red flags you've encountered in past relationships??

  • @RemoteGrowthHub
    @RemoteGrowthHub Před rokem

    Omg! I couldn't hear anything. I wish you spoke a little more closer to your mic. I'll relisten it when I get back home

    • @MischaelaRichter
      @MischaelaRichter Před rokem

      Admittedly the sound quality is poor! I took a video of the recording session with my phone. There is a link in the description to the podcast episode with the proper sound quality which will allow you to hear much better. Thank you for tuning in!

    • @RemoteGrowthHub
      @RemoteGrowthHub Před rokem

      ​@@MischaelaRichter btw your calendly URL on your website is broken, complimentary session one especially

    • @MischaelaRichter
      @MischaelaRichter Před rokem

      @@RemoteGrowthHub thank you for letting me know!!

  • @sabinerichter674
    @sabinerichter674 Před rokem

    Great tips...thank you!

  • @SuperMar10GalaxyBro

    No wonder your hair always looks so good 😁 🎉

  • @sabinerichter674
    @sabinerichter674 Před rokem

    Super helpful information, Thanks. downloading the workbook.

    • @MischaelaRichter
      @MischaelaRichter Před rokem

      I’m glad you found it helpful! I would love to hear what you take away from the workbook. Do let me know!

  • @Waterfountain339
    @Waterfountain339 Před rokem

    This was helpful, thank you!

    • @MischaelaRichter
      @MischaelaRichter Před rokem

      I’m so glad it landed for you! What was your biggest takeaway?

    • @Waterfountain339
      @Waterfountain339 Před rokem

      @@MischaelaRichter Writing out the lessons Ive learnt to remind myself to not repeat the same mistakes and to grow as a person 😊

    • @MischaelaRichter
      @MischaelaRichter Před rokem

      @@Waterfountain339 I love to hear that! It’s a huge step in getting clear on what you TRULY want going forward.

  • @elskar1
    @elskar1 Před rokem

    I will survive song😀

  • @mmministries
    @mmministries Před rokem

    honestly thank you so much. this so deeply resonates. it’s a daily battle but trusting love is the goal!! honestly this video helped so much to just validate that i’m going after the right thing. thank you! subbed

    • @MischaelaRichter
      @MischaelaRichter Před rokem

      I’m so happy to hear that! Trusting love IS THE GOAL! Thanks for tuning in and for the sub!💕

  • @SuperMar10GalaxyBro

    Loneliness is so hard, yes 🙌 thank you ☺️ for sharing and for your advice 🎉🎉YES 👏 Congrats on your wedding and also kudos to you for going for it!!

  • @MischaelaRichter
    @MischaelaRichter Před rokem

    Does any of this resonate for you? Let me know in the comments below!💖

  • @SuperMar10GalaxyBro

    Talking better about myself!! ❤😊

  • @MischaelaRichter
    @MischaelaRichter Před rokem

    What is one act of self-love you’re inspired to commit to as a result of this video? Let me know in the comments below!

  • @MischaelaRichter
    @MischaelaRichter Před rokem

    Thanks for tuning in❤ I'm curious: what thought or story won't stop looping in your mind around this breakup?

  • @SuperMar10GalaxyBro

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @MischaelaRichter
    @MischaelaRichter Před rokem

    Are you struggling to let go of your toxic ex? Let me know which of these exercises you're inspired to try in the comments below❤

  • @LifePlayDream
    @LifePlayDream Před rokem

    FIRST! AND YAY, you're back!

  • @melanierobinson4152

    New subscriber 💕

  • @erickaftan1114
    @erickaftan1114 Před rokem

    I work as a school counselor. I'm thinking about leaving education. I feel overworked, stressed, anxious, and burnt out. My responsibilities do not allow me to interact with students. My only hesitation is I have no clue what I would do next

  • @ingrid1202
    @ingrid1202 Před rokem

    I'm a Controle Freak and I found out today, after 53 years! All you say sounds like me. I thought i was crazy, a bad person, depressed ... Knowing makes me feel a lot better already. I'm going to implement your advice.

  • @jeannecathey3479
    @jeannecathey3479 Před rokem

    2 years later and this video has sparked great inspiration and motivation to pursue my desire and dream to be a coach and start a new career and / business in this field. Thank you so much for sharing this video for those who have fears stepping into the unknown🙏🙏🙏

    • @MischaelaRichter
      @MischaelaRichter Před rokem

      I'm so happy to hear this! It's such a fulfilling career!

  • @waterlilly6805
    @waterlilly6805 Před rokem

    My problem is I’ve never had a career. I’ve worked mainly in the hospitality industry and have done some teaching work, I also owned my own business for 3 years, but non of this amounts to a “career” as such so I feel like this really holds me back in terms of transferable skills etc. I want to study again so I can begin an actual career but don’t know which direction to go… I have 2 quite strong pulls but don’t know how to chose and I’m worried about making the wrong choice when I’m already in my 30s 😢 any advice/videos around this?

  • @justinsands4633
    @justinsands4633 Před rokem

    I am coming here from the perspective of a clinical mental health counseling student. Does life coaching not use empathic understanding in their response to clients? How would someone get started working as a life coach while getting their LPC license? Isn't the life coach field massively overcrowded? Or is there more demand than supply?

  • @fuzzmosisr8601
    @fuzzmosisr8601 Před rokem

    Great video!

  • @monique90me
    @monique90me Před 2 lety

    So My Brother Has Always Told Me Im A Control Freak Because He Is One. Of Course I Never Believed Him. Just Because You’re One Doesnt Mean I’m One. So I Thought It Would Be A Great Idea To Look Up Videos && Get An Accurate Definition or Signs && Symptoms Of A Control Freak. && Guess What My Brother Was Right. After Listening To You Speak I Have Concluded This Whole Video Was About Me. 🤦🏾‍♀️ I’m 32 && I Just Found Out I’m A Control Freak. I’m Ashamed. 😂 Great Video!

  • @josieshoxx
    @josieshoxx Před 2 lety

    I'm here 2 years later wondering how she's doing now. So curious. This life coaching thing is something I can see myself doing.

  • @LifePlayDream
    @LifePlayDream Před 2 lety

    "For their shitty lives" I love how you are not afraid to be this blunt <3

  • @michaelfleming5299
    @michaelfleming5299 Před 2 lety

    czcams.com/video/vUkEQ1EKlAw/video.html Life Mapping, Vision Quest, Life Quest: Who are you? Map out your entire life in less than an hour. Who are you? Life Coaching, Life Mentoring, Life Support I am always trying to help. www.kingstreets.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/12/00000-KINGSTREETS-Vision-Quest-Landscape-SMALL-PACKET-2020-A.pdf www.my-lifequest.com/login #lifemapping #lifecoaching #lifementoring #lifesupport #weneedeachother #coaching #help #mentoring