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Mentor

My first mentor - I found his anonymized profile via an internal site for these things. I would have never picked him if I had known him in real life first. He was a good mentor, though, and I think, people who are quite different from me in personality (those I don't feel friendly with) have worked out as much better colleagues, mentors, etc. I love to just talk about all different things in life, spout my opinions, and daydream - all this gets in the way of professional work, IMO.

Tried it all not helped , whats next?

Been developing the way forward for a big project with my peers, whilst management haven’t had a clue what to do. Now management see it all coming together, they have made sure they are the ones presenting it to the project director, and not us! The ones who developed it all aren’t invited! Welcome to the corporate world

I've used the Assisted Living Industry for the last 7 years to better to learn more about dementia as an Activities Director. My initial focus was to better understand how to help my mom navigate symptoms at home. I've been her primary caregiver since 2008. After 3 months, I knew I was teaching more than I was learning. Now I'm on the job search again, and I really want to open up a Wellness Clinic in my parents home town where undeserved families can get counseling, seniors can congregate and folks can talk out issues to maintain better mental health.

When I’ve tried this, my boss then just avoided giving feedback and using my ambition as a carrot to get me to work harder in my current position… I’m now of the opinion that you can’t change the way certain bosses view you. They set you in a box early on and you’ll be stuck there until you figure it out and leave.

This is a woman on woman problem, men have been removed from the equation by HR rules and a general withdrawal by men from women at work

Which fields may a man who aged over 45 change and study please?

I would like to learn more

What link?

Navigating Sideways. The name of my unpublished website.

The answer is no. A word most of you identity politics zealots better get use to hearing a lot more often.

I need a mentor

Why did I waste my time watching this? I really need help...

Man here, near the top of my field. I am willing to mentor men, and I'm willing to train mixed groups of men and women. I will never, ever mentor a female in a private setting. In this environment, it's like handing her a loaded gun and politely asking her not to shoot me with it, even though she'd never get punished for pointing it at me and pulling the trigger. It's amazing to me that a video like this can even exist.

How to introduce to the new team when doing a lateral move or making career transiston. I am from tech moving from software engineer to Program manager role

How about if you have never worked before and need to start a career for financial independence

This woman knows wtf is going on. Easy sub, for the sake of my sanity. Thank you, Doctor. I think what’s odd is that I’m a man, and this speaks more sanely than anything I’ve head. I think people have been pigeon-holed into gender slots, and it’s affecting all our lives, and it’s wrong. We are not our genders, we are ducking people.

I'm a worked-up ball of resentment and rage..

I want to vent to one of my managers about my schedule right now

The schedule changes drove me crazy

I just want to vent about my schedule right now

I don't think they can be all that bade. I wouldn't mind wearing them for a day just to try them out.

Great insight!💫 Thank you!!

Love this idea. Would you like to collab? I have 16K subscribers and I think we might have a similar audience.

So if i choose to wear a tight top as a guy does that mean women are sexist ? i really dont get the line if thought that says because women choose to wear heels thats because im sexist ! it doesnt sound at all logical to me.

Helpful.

How about those people in position of "leadership" that only increase workers work load and him self does NOTHING? And when something goes wrong he blames the worker but in reality his NO help was the one responsible for the mistake.

#IWD2023 - Thank you Suzanne 💜for mobilizing your community to help raise awareness and #EmbraceEquity 🙅🏾‍♀for #InternationalWomensDay 2023 and beyond

I currently work in a warehouse and I’m at the highest level before management, the management isn’t going anywhere any time soon, my boss offered me a job in customer service where I could have a better chance to move up in the office, I prefer physical labour but the office position will be more money, help I don’t know what to do, I feel like I shouldn’t refuse

WTF is this bullshit 😒

The confidence factor is huge for me, and now I finally have it late in life!what I like about these stories is it seems some some people maybe took a pay cut or something like that to be happy, yet still pay their bills. As a lady I am coachable, love to learn and use tools all the time. Have mechanical and computer skills.

I’m always finding ways to have witnesses and coworkers who know what I’m doing. Once only boss stole it but I revenged in a smart way: “I invited him on a meeting to present my work to the rest of stakeholders.” And, I thanked him for the opportunity he gave me as my boss for this project. In this way I showed respect for his position and I put myself as the author of project. Now I’m facing what you said: “A new coworker is stealing from other older colleague a work but with support of his manager. “ Terrible, especially for this he is recognized and awarded in the company, even though he doesn’t have knowledge. Pathetic but what to do! When he is supported by superiors.

I appreciate you sharing this video. However a lot of it seems like work more/harder/take on more to get the appreciation…. I feel that would cause some resentment in me when I’m already feeling under appreciated.

Hi

My boss is a devious devil. He acts like I’m Casper the friendly ghost to corporate and will skip me to say, Hi but will acknowledge who is important in his mind. The other day I had a corporate staff come in and not once did my boss introduce me even at the fact that I’m a director and got the place up and running after COVID-19.

Great advice!

Happens to me all the time. I just don’t the energy to battle the little weasels. So I started texting my ideas directly to the boss so that when the little weasel tries to take credit for them. The boss can see directly how shallow this person is 😂

What about a man who wants me a woman to be his mentor? Regarding spiritual matters only

Yep, all this. I only have a set of grey round-toe pumps which I grabbed from clearance in order to cosplay older styles, and in fact I recently wore them to an interactive art installation and made a hit, but wearing such a costume for work is unimaginable. Time and place! 😄

after 2 months in my new job, I was transferred to another role within my company in which i did not applied for. I could not decline since its them who decides.

Well I I've seen an office worker send there mums to follow people whose ideas they want to steal.

Am Nabz from ghana,and I need more knowledge in mentoring the right way

I appreciate your segment on this. It’s infectious and it makes it more difficult to get work done.

Hello Dr Suzanne. Thank you very much. I enjoy watching the video, being able to give help to someone no one knows, like me. And I am thankful to you and my teacher Haza, who gave me watch it. my teacher is kind and understanding.

1:17 What if he says "my bad", so he knows what he's doing and does it anyway. 2:20 I do feel like a nagging wife at the best of times. 3:45 He's stopped asking me for feedback. It's hard to know whether standing up to him will result in respect or being fired.

What about being kept in the dark about opportunities that involve your original job title which you've expressed interest in and he's promised you but which get handed over to an apprentice?

May I ask how can primary school substitute teacher make a career change at midlife crisis please?

Sideways

I love the sleeping dog in the back