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Stop the negative self talk and do this instead
What is in your database you need to release.
Once you are aware, then you have released, now it is time for intention, vision, looking forward, designing yourself with characteristics that are high on your values, and excite you to move forward.
What if you were good enough?
What if it always worked out for you?
Measure where you show up in life to compare you with you yesterday.
Release resistance. And daily actions are so much easier.
Do not rely on others to give you what you need.
Give it to yourself.
Open up the creative side of your mind and have your mind search for what if you are the opposite from your own lived experience.
I am always amazed how in mindset and identity work how I myself delete, distort, and generalise (generalize) my experience, and so this naturally makes me research the many coaching modalities to help myself reveal all that has been hidden by my internal filters.
Naturally this leads to me assisting my clients to reveal to themselves the same things I hide in myself.
This is so useful when you are in a downward spiral to cut it off at the pass so you can ground yourself and in 10 minutes use the same organ, your brain, that caused you to downward spiral, and take exactly the same mechanism to spiral back up simply by focussing the brain.
A very cool journey in front of us all to become more empowered. Using our own organ known as the human brain.
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Matthew Tait
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00:00 Intro
00:40 What is in your data base
00:55 Awareness
01:07 Release
01:23 Characteristics you intent to bring into your life
01:46 Values that help you direct internal work
02:06 It always works out for me - measurement
02:41 Simple daily actions
03:05 Flip the thought and create a vision
03:35 Internal resources
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Komentáře

  • @sharenyaseraphina2426

    Love forgiveness and gratitude

    • @forkintheroad6919
      @forkintheroad6919 Před 3 dny

      @sharenyaseraphina2426 wow imagine reminding yourself to live by that every day. Life has to be on a new level. Thank you for commenting.

  • @IdiotsDownUnder
    @IdiotsDownUnder Před 3 dny

    Cool content, gave me the boost I needed.

  • @poepho1303
    @poepho1303 Před 4 dny

    Cute little gymnastics. It's not, it's through your perspective, not others. It's a self measure based on a self standard. It's a fantastic tool in the right dose. Destructive if left unchecked.

    • @forkintheroad6919
      @forkintheroad6919 Před 4 dny

      @poepho1303 we are all perception machines. Depends on the individual and I do love to have a truck full of tools to help the job at hand. This is yet another tool. It is in coaching called perceptual positions. In Maxwell Malts book Psycho Cybernetics I liked this as many people have no tools at all.

  • @Abc-rx6tj
    @Abc-rx6tj Před 8 dny

    Thanks so much for your reply!

  • @Stephen-xy3lx
    @Stephen-xy3lx Před 10 dny

    Great video ,,

  • @forkintheroad6919
    @forkintheroad6919 Před 11 dny

    Use elite athletes thinking to access better parts of yourself

  • @elenamompreneur6976
    @elenamompreneur6976 Před měsícem

    I like that 😊

  • @Stephen-xy3lx
    @Stephen-xy3lx Před měsícem

    Love all post your doing matt❤ keep going mate

    • @forkintheroad6919
      @forkintheroad6919 Před měsícem

      Awesome Stephen thank you for the positive vibes. It does motivate me so thank you. Excited your enjoying it. Lots of content from Bali trip. Heading home to Gold Coast Australia today. Lots of editing for me. 🤣

  • @Stephen-xy3lx
    @Stephen-xy3lx Před 2 měsíci

    The end product of a passed experience,

    • @forkintheroad6919
      @forkintheroad6919 Před 2 měsíci

      Absolutely. My goal.is always to first be aware of what our core home is. Then if that emotion or identity if not serving us then we can shift that internal part. But awareness is always needed first. Thank you for the comment always appreciated Stephen.

  • @Leroy0070
    @Leroy0070 Před 2 měsíci

    I think I am stupid. I thought it was because I have learned what it might mean to be intelligent. I was wrong, it’s simple, it’s because I simply am.

    • @forkintheroad6919
      @forkintheroad6919 Před 2 měsíci

      The coaching question is compared to what standard is anyone stupid?Compared to a degree graduate? Compared to Einstein? Or compared to a 5 year old? We all have a map of the world we use for measurements. And this video was a different pattern, focussed n what to do about it regardless of the measurement and your decisions. In short learn something that your map says is smarter than today.

  • @DNS0875
    @DNS0875 Před 3 měsíci

    Growing up in Brasil ❤

    • @forkintheroad6919
      @forkintheroad6919 Před 3 měsíci

      Indeed our culture is a huge starting point of our sense of self.

  • @fightbacktohealth9625
    @fightbacktohealth9625 Před 3 měsíci

    Matthew ... thank you... so simple and so effective

    • @forkintheroad6919
      @forkintheroad6919 Před 3 měsíci

      Yes we all.need to learn how we store our experiences inside. Then we have the tools to reorganise these experiences.

  • @fightbacktohealth9625
    @fightbacktohealth9625 Před 3 měsíci

    Matt... thank you. Reading the book now

    • @forkintheroad6919
      @forkintheroad6919 Před 3 měsíci

      It's an amazing resource. I used it this morning on myself so it just keeps on giving. Steve also recorded seminar so you can watch and learn also. I've purchased it. Worth it if going deeper once read the book and it's many exercises.

  • @Stephen-xy3lx
    @Stephen-xy3lx Před 3 měsíci

    Feeling great anchoring focus thoughts

    • @forkintheroad6919
      @forkintheroad6919 Před 3 měsíci

      Feeling great. I am sure you have a time when you can recall that feeling.

  • @AK____________________________

    Great stuff dude

  • @Stephen-xy3lx
    @Stephen-xy3lx Před 3 měsíci

    Great insight!!!

    • @forkintheroad6919
      @forkintheroad6919 Před 3 měsíci

      It's a great question to ask ourselves if beliefs are helping or hindering. Which leads to the next question....what do you want instead?

  • @Stephen-xy3lx
    @Stephen-xy3lx Před 3 měsíci

    Verly loveable

  • @derosa195
    @derosa195 Před 4 měsíci

    I love echo in videos😢

    • @forkintheroad6919
      @forkintheroad6919 Před 4 měsíci

      Yes I agree and will be doing this video again with proper audio as the content is worth sharing.

  • @derosa195
    @derosa195 Před 4 měsíci

    You take to long to say anything. 😢

    • @forkintheroad6919
      @forkintheroad6919 Před 4 měsíci

      Thanks for the feedback. Perhaps watch the shorts section. 1 minute videos on a variety of topics. What ideas interest you on my channel. I can make videos that get to the point quickly. Or extract the good bits that get the point faster.

  • @Stephen-xy3lx
    @Stephen-xy3lx Před 4 měsíci

    Anchor of focused thought

    • @forkintheroad6919
      @forkintheroad6919 Před 4 měsíci

      I love that suggestion Stephen. That is a great idea for a longer video.

  • @shite76
    @shite76 Před 4 měsíci

    bwah. you are a scammer or discombobulated if you believe in your dribble. super super clever isn't tuning a tv. they have auto tune. it's pressing a button.

    • @forkintheroad6919
      @forkintheroad6919 Před 4 měsíci

      The meaning of the communication is the feedback we get. NLP presupposition. This helps me make better videos by the comment. I can always get better. Thank you. I think I was just excited about shifting my state with anchoring.

  • @Stephen-xy3lx
    @Stephen-xy3lx Před 4 měsíci

    Fantantic

  • @Stephen-xy3lx
    @Stephen-xy3lx Před 4 měsíci

    Great story

  • @Stephen-xy3lx
    @Stephen-xy3lx Před 4 měsíci

    if you dont shoot you dont score a goal!!

  • @Stephen-xy3lx
    @Stephen-xy3lx Před 4 měsíci

    Keep amazing content going!!!!!

    • @forkintheroad6919
      @forkintheroad6919 Před 4 měsíci

      Thank you for the energy boost. Will keep them coming.

  • @reismailov5928
    @reismailov5928 Před 5 měsíci

    The great structure of review!

  • @capnpicard6146
    @capnpicard6146 Před 5 měsíci

    The Gandalf reference really got me, i appreciate it haha

    • @forkintheroad6919
      @forkintheroad6919 Před 5 měsíci

      Yes indeed. Thou shall not pass is a very powerful metaphor. Glad you appreciated it.

  • @rehabwales
    @rehabwales Před 5 měsíci

    Thats a lot of words to say very little. Circumlocutory.

    • @forkintheroad6919
      @forkintheroad6919 Před 5 měsíci

      Thank you. 😊 Shorts are like that. We are always learning. Easy for me to break down into several shorts to focus the points. Thanks for the feedback.

  • @forkintheroad6919
    @forkintheroad6919 Před 6 měsíci

    What is a video you would like help via a coaching idea. What problems do you think valuable to solve by getting your mind focussed on what you want instead? Feel free to comment below to give ideas.

  • @mooooooooooomooooooooooomo6829

    I am good looing, many of office girls have crushes on me, many other girls like me too. I still have severe anxiety about having a relationship or dating feeling I am not good enough and they all pretend to like to me to get favours in return or for the money.....is it a distortion? I think I had a bad experience with a girl when I was 18, now I am 31 and single

    • @forkintheroad6919
      @forkintheroad6919 Před 7 měsíci

      Without knowing your story and reading the words you type, meta model is a great too to get back to reality. Eg is it true? Are you reading between the lines meaning that is not there? Or is there an internal story that is attracting the fear and then the experiences. All questions that might give a different meaning. Of course I can't answer these as this is a comments section. But perhaps spend time looking at reality and the fears inside that fill in a meaning. There are good people in the world. Only question is are we attracting them or repelling them. Wishing you luck on your self healing and discovery.

  • @noagero7351
    @noagero7351 Před 7 měsíci

    I like this. Please continue!!

    • @forkintheroad6919
      @forkintheroad6919 Před 7 měsíci

      Thank you for comment I shall go deeper on this in next videos

  • @forkintheroad6919
    @forkintheroad6919 Před 8 měsíci

    Where can you shift your map of expectations to meet your own needs? Comment below and share your thoughts.

  • @IandMyFatherareOne
    @IandMyFatherareOne Před 8 měsíci

    Reality??? The material world is not reality.... Therefore nothing that comes from it can be reality!! Matter is an Illusory Sense of Being, while Spirit, or the INFINITE INVISIBLE is our Only State of Being!!

    • @forkintheroad6919
      @forkintheroad6919 Před 8 měsíci

      Indeed and true. The issue many have is that they believe the material world is all there is and don't create a vision for what they want instead. Perhaps that vision is our spirit trying to become visible. 🤔 Certainly make you think deeper if nothing else.

  • @forkintheroad6919
    @forkintheroad6919 Před 8 měsíci

    Where have you beaten yourself up for failing. Then shifted emotions when you reframed it as a learning to get better? I'd love to hear your thoughts below in comments.

  • @forkintheroad6919
    @forkintheroad6919 Před 8 měsíci

    Where has someone responded in an emotional way and you wondered what the heck happened?

  • @forkintheroad6919
    @forkintheroad6919 Před 8 měsíci

    Where have you shifted your map of reality to make life better? To shift how you feel? To let go of an emotion? Share below I love to hear how you apply this NLP presupposition.

  • @forkintheroad6919
    @forkintheroad6919 Před 8 měsíci

    Where can you be more flexible in your response to a person in your life? How can you respond differently to have a better outcome. Comment below and let me know I love to learn from you.

  • @forkintheroad6919
    @forkintheroad6919 Před 8 měsíci

    Where have you shifted once you noticed that somethings thinking is different to yours. Where you became curious about how they got to that position? This helps us reduce judgement using our own model, and just get curious. Where can you get curious and let go of judgement?

  • @forkintheroad6919
    @forkintheroad6919 Před 8 měsíci

    Where have you found a resource that you had ignored, missed or waved away when then you see a resource is right there in front of you? It might be a person, a tool, an idea, a thought that transforms how you feel and how you cope. Place a comment below on any examples you might have?

  • @TheBeatSmash
    @TheBeatSmash Před 9 měsíci

    What if your thoughts are way worse?

    • @forkintheroad6919
      @forkintheroad6919 Před 9 měsíci

      Put the letters in your mind. Place in front. And push away from your body using your imagination. Put the letters over the horizon. Notice how it feels when the words are far far away.

    • @forkintheroad6919
      @forkintheroad6919 Před 9 měsíci

      We all have deeper work to do. These are all micro skills to help manage the moment.

  • @steffidoc
    @steffidoc Před 9 měsíci

    You really understand hypnotic speaking. This helped me to deactivate a very unpleasant memory.

    • @forkintheroad6919
      @forkintheroad6919 Před 9 měsíci

      That is so exciting to hear a positive shift. Thank you for sharing. I love it when a video helps develop skills inside a person's experience and makes life better. Great work on doing the internal work for yourself.

  • @derosa195
    @derosa195 Před 9 měsíci

    Poor video recording difficult to understand what is being said😢

    • @forkintheroad6919
      @forkintheroad6919 Před 9 měsíci

      I fully agree and will be doing the session again with my rode microphone on my shirt so easy to hear. Was a first go so will improve next session thanks for the comment.

  • @IsacAleksi
    @IsacAleksi Před 10 měsíci

    Hey man! Just set you an email regarding your CZcams channel!//Isac

  • @selibsamir3768
    @selibsamir3768 Před 10 měsíci

    Thank you ! Very helpful

    • @forkintheroad6919
      @forkintheroad6919 Před 5 měsíci

      How did this help you? I always love to hear stories of success.

  • @ricmay2837
    @ricmay2837 Před 11 měsíci

    Filter out Reality … Distort Delete

  • @HelloOki
    @HelloOki Před rokem

    thanks this was very effective for me

    • @forkintheroad6919
      @forkintheroad6919 Před rokem

      excellent news. May I ask what you healed?

    • @HelloOki
      @HelloOki Před rokem

      @@forkintheroad6919 Pain from my relationship with my mum, not physical

  • @cuandcre
    @cuandcre Před rokem

    What if your answer is sometimes

    • @forkintheroad6919
      @forkintheroad6919 Před rokem

      Excellent question. If you have a sometimes quality, there are things you can do inside the Self Concept Model. Both to reduce a negative quality and to strengthen a positive quality. I think you have helped me with my next video on this topic. Thank you.

  • @chokmunsoong
    @chokmunsoong Před rokem

    Matt, this is awesome. Well done and you have demonstrated Swish very clearly and succinctly. Good job

  • @forkintheroad6919
    @forkintheroad6919 Před rokem

    Location is Surfers Paradise Beach, Qld, Australia.