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Lovin.Lisa101
Registrace 16. 05. 2021
Teaching adults emotional processing, self love, healthy relationship dynamics, attachment styles, self healing, recognition & recovery from narcissistic abuse and empathetic listener
*Attachment Style Coach
*Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Guide
*Empathetic Listener
*Attachment Style Coach
*Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Guide
*Empathetic Listener
Narcissistic Abuse causes Brain Damage
#narcawareness #avoidantattachment #attachmenttrauma #narcissist #traumabond #avoidant #fearfulavoidant #disorganizedattachment #attachmenttheory #toxicrelationship #masochist
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Narcissists Discard Tactics
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#narcawareness #avoidantattachment #attachmenttrauma #narcissist #traumabond #avoidant #fearfulavoidant #disorganizedattachment #attachmenttheory #toxicrelationship
Narcissists come back to Ruin you Happiness even after you Escape
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#avoidantattachment #narcawareness #attachmenttrauma #narcissist #traumabond #avoidant #fearfulavoidant #disorganizedattachment #attachmenttheory #toxicrelationship #narcsupply #narcissisticabusecycle #narcissism #narcissisticabusehealing #selflove #selfhealing
You Choose Partners from your Wounds
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#avoidantattachment #avoidant #attachmenttrauma #attachmentstyle #fearfulavoidant #dismissiveavoidant #disorganizedattachment
A High Value Man chooses his Woman Wisely
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#narcawareness #avoidantattachment #attachmenttrauma #narcissist #traumabond #avoidant #fearfulavoidant #attachmenttheory #disorganizedattachment #toxicrelationship
Echoistic Pattern of Attracting Narcissists
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Echoistic Pattern of Attracting Narcissists
Echoist are opposite of Narcissists but Attract Narcissist
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Echoist are opposite of Narcissists but Attract Narcissist
Narcissists use Frequent Breakups as a Control Tactic
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Narcissists use Frequent Breakups as a Control Tactic
Delayed Realization after Narcissistic Abuse
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Delayed Realization after Narcissistic Abuse
When 2 Narcissists meet it forms a Neverending Cycle of Chaos
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When 2 Narcissists meet it forms a Neverending Cycle of Chaos
Signs of Unhealed Trauma & Emotional Immaturity in a Man
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Signs of Unhealed Trauma & Emotional Immaturity in a Man
Female Narcissists love being the Sidechick
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Female Narcissists love being the Sidechick
Know the Narcissist tactic of a Narcissistic Side Chick
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Know the Narcissist tactic of a Narcissistic Side Chick
Repeating Unhealthy Dynamics from Childhood
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Repeating Unhealthy Dynamics from Childhood
Never date a man or woman who jumps from relationship to relationship...
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Never date a man or woman who jumps from relationship to relationship...
Avoidants prefer "Projects" over Partners
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Avoidants prefer "Projects" over Partners
Therapy is not the Answer for Narcissists & Abusers
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Therapy is not the Answer for Narcissists & Abusers
Avoidants feel overwhelmed in healthy relationships & comfortable in toxic relationships
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Avoidants feel overwhelmed in healthy relationships & comfortable in toxic relationships
Narcissists only marry someone who has proven they will continually forgive their abuse
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Narcissists only marry someone who has proven they will continually forgive their abuse
Avoid Avoidants: Beware they show up as Secure in the Beginning of a Relationship
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Avoid Avoidants: Beware they show up as Secure in the Beginning of a Relationship
Narcissists are con-men, empty vessels, & takers. They only give to deceive.
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Narcissists are con-men, empty vessels, & takers. They only give to deceive.
Narcissists don't want to let you go. You are there to provide chaos, ego boost, & entertainment
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Narcissists don't want to let you go. You are there to provide chaos, ego boost, & entertainment
Two Narcissists in a Marriage/Relationship
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Two Narcissists in a Marriage/Relationship
Narcissists favorite game is an on again/off again relationship
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Narcissists favorite game is an on again/off again relationship
Narcissists play Old Supply & New Supply
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Narcissists play Old Supply & New Supply
Erm… what the sigma?
Hey, intellectual narcissist here. This is mainly in the larger categories such as malignant or grandiose narcissism. I am know some covert narcissists and other intellectual narcissists, and something I’ve noticed about the whole argument thing is that they will never think they were completely in the wrong, but they can see place for improvement. Personally, I have to think back first in order to see that room, but it can be hard for me to dismiss other’s reactions. Just wanted to say this so the smaller kind of narcissists aren’t boxed like this. I am in no way excusing my actions or saying that they are right. :)
Yeah, but then there is the rest of life. You ARE just a man. One that's delusional. Money is a hell of a Drug.
They are sick
@@rebacassius1816 Yes, yes they are.
Lol what? 😂
@@Iknowmorethanuknow Your nervous system is attracted to toxic bc you grew up in toxic.
@@Iknowmorethanuknow Also bc you love the thrill of the chase bc you are still chasing/earning the love of the mom/Dad that always made you feel not good enough.
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I've needed this term. Ugh I'm stuck😢
@@Casperthebandit Yes, there is much unique terminology applicable to Narcissists & their disordered thought processes.
I do know this. I'm familiar and I've heard this one before and forgot all about it. This phenomenon really messes with my head. I've somehow had back to back npd plus raised by a couple and if I'm to be fully honest I have plenty of narcissistic traits. I've Damm near been convinced I'm a narcissist. I have empathy and compassion but feel I may be a dark empath. out necessity. Hi 👋
@@Casperthebandit Lol! I love your thought process however narcissists never consider they are narcissists. Being raised by a narcissist energetically calibrates you to attract narcissists in your life. Check out Ho'oponopono.
@@Casperthebandit , Aaron Doughty provides a great explanation of how it works. The video is titled "How I healed my younger self with Ho'oponopono."
@@lovin.lisa101 I appreciate the info and will dive in immediately.
They have toxic dementia.
You too
A man is supposed to be a protector. These men will always fail to protect their partner because they cannot even protect themselves.
That switch from hurting you to nothing ever happened. But when they get a narcissistic injury the remember forever rather anyone else is even aware they were angry
Omg yes!
The woman who is attracted to the guy who had a crazy mom is a danger to the guy. If she wasnt broken she wouldnt want him. Im the anxious preoccupied lover boy recreating his childhood momma trauma. Abusive hypersexual avoidant damsels in distress cant stay away from me. Just reconciled with mom yesterday. Broken people can change if deep self reflection, learning and discipline are applied.
@@certifiedhoarder I'm glad you recognize your pattern. You are correct that people can heal. Unfortunately, most people do not recognize their issues much less work to change them.
@@certifiedhoarder, and you are correct that attraction & chemistry is driven by unhealed wounds.
Trying to understand this
@@kennyrussell7941 basically people choose others who don't choose them bc they don't choose themselves. They don't know what self love or healthy boundaries look like. Therefore, they chase love from unhealthy partners who cannot love them. You aren't ready to date until you are not afraid to walk away from someone who is not good for you or ready for a relationship. You would rather choose you than just have someone in your life.
Shes a runner. She's a track star... he gon run away when it gets hard. Yep!
@@SmilingAgain2024 Exactly!
Word
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Nonsense it is a sign of complex trauma however and that is a simple search away to confirm for yourself likely its the other way around its called being trauma bonded and is a tactic the abuser uses on the victem to keep control
These men can't do anything for themselves
Aren't women the one's that always say lets stay friends 😂😂
Yelp 😂 you right
No, not always
It has more to do with attachment styles, & unhealed wounds, as opposed to gender.
@@lovin.lisa101 it's just usually men don't like to hang out with their ex after the relationship doesn't work at least when it comes to friends and coworkers. I just run across it with women consistently. So I guess I wouldn't get the full picture.
LOL. True.
never let bro cook🗣️🗣️🗣️
For me, changing myself takes time. And I know the pain of false hope, how you cling to it even when you know its not the truth, desperately hoping by some miracle, they'll change into somebody who wants to stay with you. And i never want to do that to someone cause i know exactly what it did to me. I got to a point in my last relationship where i realized i needed to grow. And i couldnt do that if i continued being dependant on them. They were a safe space for me, but that safety made me cowardly, and I knew if i stayed any longer, I'd never outgrow the anxiety that followed me. That i could never fully be there for them as I couldnt even do that for myself. So i sat them down and we talked. And we cried. And we amicably parted ways. I dont regret leaving them. Because, i knew exactly what would happen to both them and myself if i stayed. Sometimes, leaving is the right thing to do. Sometimes, its the very result of self reflection.
Yeah, no. Sometimes it's just a bad fit and it's a polite way of getting out of the relationship.
It's a bad fit if you are dating an avoidant.
@@lovin.lisa101 IF you want to AVOID what you believe is a bad relationship. Not everyone who wants to break up when the other does is an avoidant. It's like learning what narcissism is and seeing it in everyone. Then on the flip side are the clingers; the codependents who may cause the break-up. So then is it "avoidant" then? I'm just saying there is more nuance to this than what I saw expressed here.
For me it’s more I didn’t expect to live as long as I have and I’m stuck between wanting death and staying just to not hurt their feelings because they are a kind and loving person.
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This generation is to the dumpster.
That hyper vigilant one hit hard
..... I hate how close this hits to home.
I'm a child of a narcissist
Sending love!
I relate to these two way more than I feel comfortable with
Sympathies... I feel your pain.
Correct. On all counts. Though my dad was really just abusive, not so much a narcissist. My dad always talks badly about himself. Maybe it's some kind of reverse narcissism.
I think my mother who's 74 now, is one. Can't even have a phone discussion with my parents because my mother always pulls the topic back to herself or something that they did with their friends over the past week. She'll just pull drop the "Well what I'VE done or where I went...." and totally kill the conversation. At least my dad wasn't like that. Now when anyone steals the conversation away with anything, I basically give up and stop contributing. Licensed therapist said that I just need to accept the way they are now.
They are probably not going to change now but you can still find boundaries that keep you at peace.
Shit now i wonder which one it was.
Why is every single point so relatable?
Woops 💀
I guess I'm a child of a narcissist this is so funny right now
I’m the child of narcissist of course I’m gonna make videos all about everything that I perceived is wrong in my life
28 years later and this is my "well damn, she really effed me over" moment.
Hypervigilant is a horrible way to have to be.
I can't turn it off😢
Once I got out of my black hole and away, it took an additional 5 years to be less hypervigilant. I wish you well. Be kind to yourself!
This got me though 😢 the " of course I do everything for everyone else and I never say No! No matter how hard it is going to be on me " was to real for comfort 😭
You can overcome the people pleasing. ♥️
I’m a child of a diagnosed Narcissist and I don’t have any of these traits. I got therapy instead and stopped looking for outside validation just like my narcissist parent. Once you heal and detach from that toxic narrative in your head and replace it with a healthier one…. you won’t have desire to create videos like these. ❤
I came here to make this comment, everyone wants to be famous on the internet nowadays.
Unless you repress it with fake positivity & become emotionally avoidant by becoming judgmental of others on their healing journey.
The likelihood they legit were children of narcissist parents are very low.
Same
I have zero narcissists in my family and I do every single one of these.
Facts
Where were these videos when I was younger.....OMG.....won't have suffered
It's better late than never.
I’m a child of two narcissists and I had a baby by one. Trying to break this cycle now with my own child
I'm a childrapest of and me and drake are freinds
Yikes! Relatable!
I'm the child of a 😭😭. Why is this is so relatable?
I feel you!
You're making tik toks . You're freaking narcissist .
You're assuming their entire psyche on a single video. Which is pretty narcissistic if you ask me.