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Narcissistic Abuse causes Brain Damage
#narcawareness #avoidantattachment #attachmenttrauma #narcissist #traumabond #avoidant #fearfulavoidant #disorganizedattachment #attachmenttheory #toxicrelationship #masochist
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Narcissists Discard Tactics
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#narcawareness #avoidantattachment #attachmenttrauma #narcissist #traumabond #avoidant #fearfulavoidant #disorganizedattachment #attachmenttheory #toxicrelationship
Narcissists come back to Ruin you Happiness even after you Escape
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#avoidantattachment #narcawareness #attachmenttrauma #narcissist #traumabond #avoidant #fearfulavoidant #disorganizedattachment #attachmenttheory #toxicrelationship #narcsupply #narcissisticabusecycle #narcissism #narcissisticabusehealing #selflove #selfhealing
You Choose Partners from your Wounds
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#avoidantattachment #avoidant #attachmenttrauma #attachmentstyle #fearfulavoidant #dismissiveavoidant #disorganizedattachment
A High Value Man chooses his Woman Wisely
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#narcawareness #avoidantattachment #attachmenttrauma #narcissist #traumabond #avoidant #fearfulavoidant #attachmenttheory #disorganizedattachment #toxicrelationship
Echoistic Pattern of Attracting Narcissists
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Echoistic Pattern of Attracting Narcissists
Echoist are opposite of Narcissists but Attract Narcissist
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Echoist are opposite of Narcissists but Attract Narcissist
Narcissists use Frequent Breakups as a Control Tactic
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Narcissists use Frequent Breakups as a Control Tactic
Delayed Realization after Narcissistic Abuse
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Delayed Realization after Narcissistic Abuse
When 2 Narcissists meet it forms a Neverending Cycle of Chaos
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When 2 Narcissists meet it forms a Neverending Cycle of Chaos
Signs of Unhealed Trauma & Emotional Immaturity in a Man
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Signs of Unhealed Trauma & Emotional Immaturity in a Man
Female Narcissists love being the Sidechick
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Female Narcissists love being the Sidechick
Know the Narcissist tactic of a Narcissistic Side Chick
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Know the Narcissist tactic of a Narcissistic Side Chick
Repeating Unhealthy Dynamics from Childhood
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Repeating Unhealthy Dynamics from Childhood
Never date a man or woman who jumps from relationship to relationship...
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Never date a man or woman who jumps from relationship to relationship...
Avoidants prefer "Projects" over Partners
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Avoidants prefer "Projects" over Partners
Therapy is not the Answer for Narcissists & Abusers
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Therapy is not the Answer for Narcissists & Abusers
Avoidants feel overwhelmed in healthy relationships & comfortable in toxic relationships
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Avoidants feel overwhelmed in healthy relationships & comfortable in toxic relationships
Narcissists only marry someone who has proven they will continually forgive their abuse
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Narcissists only marry someone who has proven they will continually forgive their abuse
Not my Circus. Not my 🤡.
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Not my Circus. Not my 🤡.
Avoidants prefer Toxic Relationships
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Avoidants prefer Toxic Relationships
Avoid Avoidants: Beware they show up as Secure in the Beginning of a Relationship
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Avoid Avoidants: Beware they show up as Secure in the Beginning of a Relationship
Narcissists always Cheat
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Narcissists always Cheat
Narcissists are con-men, empty vessels, & takers. They only give to deceive.
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Narcissists are con-men, empty vessels, & takers. They only give to deceive.
Narcissists don't want to let you go. You are there to provide chaos, ego boost, & entertainment
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Narcissists don't want to let you go. You are there to provide chaos, ego boost, & entertainment
Narcissists lie to Themselves
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Narcissists lie to Themselves
Two Narcissists in a Marriage/Relationship
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Two Narcissists in a Marriage/Relationship
Narcissists favorite game is an on again/off again relationship
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Narcissists favorite game is an on again/off again relationship
Narcissists play Old Supply & New Supply
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Narcissists play Old Supply & New Supply

Komentáře

  • @GiseleBalouka
    @GiseleBalouka Před 2 dny

    Erm… what the sigma?

  • @HannahKearney-lx9qk

    Hey, intellectual narcissist here. This is mainly in the larger categories such as malignant or grandiose narcissism. I am know some covert narcissists and other intellectual narcissists, and something I’ve noticed about the whole argument thing is that they will never think they were completely in the wrong, but they can see place for improvement. Personally, I have to think back first in order to see that room, but it can be hard for me to dismiss other’s reactions. Just wanted to say this so the smaller kind of narcissists aren’t boxed like this. I am in no way excusing my actions or saying that they are right. :)

  • @NeonRainTEOM
    @NeonRainTEOM Před 5 dny

    Yeah, but then there is the rest of life. You ARE just a man. One that's delusional. Money is a hell of a Drug.

  • @rebacassius1816
    @rebacassius1816 Před 8 dny

    They are sick

  • @Iknowmorethanuknow
    @Iknowmorethanuknow Před 11 dny

    Lol what? 😂

    • @lovin.lisa101
      @lovin.lisa101 Před 10 dny

      @@Iknowmorethanuknow Your nervous system is attracted to toxic bc you grew up in toxic.

    • @lovin.lisa101
      @lovin.lisa101 Před 10 dny

      @@Iknowmorethanuknow Also bc you love the thrill of the chase bc you are still chasing/earning the love of the mom/Dad that always made you feel not good enough.

  • @lovin.lisa101
    @lovin.lisa101 Před 11 dny

    instagram.com/reel/C9XnvcdyLcX/?igsh=bjR6aHZieWVjbmZo

  • @Casperthebandit
    @Casperthebandit Před 20 dny

    I've needed this term. Ugh I'm stuck😢

    • @lovin.lisa101
      @lovin.lisa101 Před 20 dny

      @@Casperthebandit Yes, there is much unique terminology applicable to Narcissists & their disordered thought processes.

    • @Casperthebandit
      @Casperthebandit Před 20 dny

      I do know this. I'm familiar and I've heard this one before and forgot all about it. This phenomenon really messes with my head. I've somehow had back to back npd plus raised by a couple and if I'm to be fully honest I have plenty of narcissistic traits. I've Damm near been convinced I'm a narcissist. I have empathy and compassion but feel I may be a dark empath. out necessity. Hi 👋

    • @lovin.lisa101
      @lovin.lisa101 Před 19 dny

      @@Casperthebandit Lol! I love your thought process however narcissists never consider they are narcissists. Being raised by a narcissist energetically calibrates you to attract narcissists in your life. Check out Ho'oponopono.

    • @lovin.lisa101
      @lovin.lisa101 Před 19 dny

      @@Casperthebandit , Aaron Doughty provides a great explanation of how it works. The video is titled "How I healed my younger self with Ho'oponopono."

    • @Casperthebandit
      @Casperthebandit Před 18 dny

      @@lovin.lisa101 I appreciate the info and will dive in immediately.

  • @nessauk2786
    @nessauk2786 Před 20 dny

    They have toxic dementia.

  • @user-yv4ut9on9l
    @user-yv4ut9on9l Před 21 dnem

    You too

  • @lovin.lisa101
    @lovin.lisa101 Před 21 dnem

    A man is supposed to be a protector. These men will always fail to protect their partner because they cannot even protect themselves.

  • @Potato-fv9ns
    @Potato-fv9ns Před 22 dny

    That switch from hurting you to nothing ever happened. But when they get a narcissistic injury the remember forever rather anyone else is even aware they were angry

  • @certifiedhoarder
    @certifiedhoarder Před 23 dny

    The woman who is attracted to the guy who had a crazy mom is a danger to the guy. If she wasnt broken she wouldnt want him. Im the anxious preoccupied lover boy recreating his childhood momma trauma. Abusive hypersexual avoidant damsels in distress cant stay away from me. Just reconciled with mom yesterday. Broken people can change if deep self reflection, learning and discipline are applied.

    • @lovin.lisa101
      @lovin.lisa101 Před 23 dny

      @@certifiedhoarder I'm glad you recognize your pattern. You are correct that people can heal. Unfortunately, most people do not recognize their issues much less work to change them.

    • @lovin.lisa101
      @lovin.lisa101 Před 23 dny

      @@certifiedhoarder, and you are correct that attraction & chemistry is driven by unhealed wounds.

  • @kennyrussell7941
    @kennyrussell7941 Před 24 dny

    Trying to understand this

    • @lovin.lisa101
      @lovin.lisa101 Před 24 dny

      @@kennyrussell7941 basically people choose others who don't choose them bc they don't choose themselves. They don't know what self love or healthy boundaries look like. Therefore, they chase love from unhealthy partners who cannot love them. You aren't ready to date until you are not afraid to walk away from someone who is not good for you or ready for a relationship. You would rather choose you than just have someone in your life.

  • @SmilingAgain2024
    @SmilingAgain2024 Před 24 dny

    Shes a runner. She's a track star... he gon run away when it gets hard. Yep!

  • @cedricjones7470
    @cedricjones7470 Před 24 dny

    Word

  • @KaliPete-vv5oz
    @KaliPete-vv5oz Před 25 dny

    😂😂

  • @trippdawg3337
    @trippdawg3337 Před měsícem

    Nonsense it is a sign of complex trauma however and that is a simple search away to confirm for yourself likely its the other way around its called being trauma bonded and is a tactic the abuser uses on the victem to keep control

  • @nicholasperri6005
    @nicholasperri6005 Před měsícem

    These men can't do anything for themselves

  • @iseaflames
    @iseaflames Před měsícem

    Aren't women the one's that always say lets stay friends 😂😂

    • @Mastercheiffortnite
      @Mastercheiffortnite Před měsícem

      Yelp 😂 you right

    • @lovin.lisa101
      @lovin.lisa101 Před měsícem

      No, not always

    • @lovin.lisa101
      @lovin.lisa101 Před měsícem

      It has more to do with attachment styles, & unhealed wounds, as opposed to gender.

    • @iseaflames
      @iseaflames Před měsícem

      @@lovin.lisa101 it's just usually men don't like to hang out with their ex after the relationship doesn't work at least when it comes to friends and coworkers. I just run across it with women consistently. So I guess I wouldn't get the full picture.

    • @argent2020
      @argent2020 Před měsícem

      LOL. True.

  • @clairesboyzd3933
    @clairesboyzd3933 Před měsícem

    never let bro cook🗣️🗣️🗣️

  • @avisiahlacost4388
    @avisiahlacost4388 Před měsícem

    For me, changing myself takes time. And I know the pain of false hope, how you cling to it even when you know its not the truth, desperately hoping by some miracle, they'll change into somebody who wants to stay with you. And i never want to do that to someone cause i know exactly what it did to me. I got to a point in my last relationship where i realized i needed to grow. And i couldnt do that if i continued being dependant on them. They were a safe space for me, but that safety made me cowardly, and I knew if i stayed any longer, I'd never outgrow the anxiety that followed me. That i could never fully be there for them as I couldnt even do that for myself. So i sat them down and we talked. And we cried. And we amicably parted ways. I dont regret leaving them. Because, i knew exactly what would happen to both them and myself if i stayed. Sometimes, leaving is the right thing to do. Sometimes, its the very result of self reflection.

  • @matthewbittenbender9191
    @matthewbittenbender9191 Před měsícem

    Yeah, no. Sometimes it's just a bad fit and it's a polite way of getting out of the relationship.

    • @lovin.lisa101
      @lovin.lisa101 Před měsícem

      It's a bad fit if you are dating an avoidant.

    • @matthewbittenbender9191
      @matthewbittenbender9191 Před měsícem

      @@lovin.lisa101 IF you want to AVOID what you believe is a bad relationship. Not everyone who wants to break up when the other does is an avoidant. It's like learning what narcissism is and seeing it in everyone. Then on the flip side are the clingers; the codependents who may cause the break-up. So then is it "avoidant" then? I'm just saying there is more nuance to this than what I saw expressed here.

  • @unsoundfoxly
    @unsoundfoxly Před měsícem

    For me it’s more I didn’t expect to live as long as I have and I’m stuck between wanting death and staying just to not hurt their feelings because they are a kind and loving person.

  • @imnmbrone1492
    @imnmbrone1492 Před měsícem

    💯

  • @Sofrit0
    @Sofrit0 Před měsícem

    This generation is to the dumpster.

  • @andrewfitzpatrick
    @andrewfitzpatrick Před měsícem

    That hyper vigilant one hit hard

  • @danield9021
    @danield9021 Před měsícem

    ..... I hate how close this hits to home.

  • @dougjstl1
    @dougjstl1 Před měsícem

    I'm a child of a narcissist

  • @pugking1233
    @pugking1233 Před měsícem

    I relate to these two way more than I feel comfortable with

  • @cptswann
    @cptswann Před měsícem

    Correct. On all counts. Though my dad was really just abusive, not so much a narcissist. My dad always talks badly about himself. Maybe it's some kind of reverse narcissism.

  • @mattb9664
    @mattb9664 Před měsícem

    I think my mother who's 74 now, is one. Can't even have a phone discussion with my parents because my mother always pulls the topic back to herself or something that they did with their friends over the past week. She'll just pull drop the "Well what I'VE done or where I went...." and totally kill the conversation. At least my dad wasn't like that. Now when anyone steals the conversation away with anything, I basically give up and stop contributing. Licensed therapist said that I just need to accept the way they are now.

    • @lovin.lisa101
      @lovin.lisa101 Před měsícem

      They are probably not going to change now but you can still find boundaries that keep you at peace.

  • @nejet2188
    @nejet2188 Před měsícem

    Shit now i wonder which one it was.

  • @WHATISTHAT100
    @WHATISTHAT100 Před měsícem

    Why is every single point so relatable?

  • @ecks7165
    @ecks7165 Před měsícem

    Woops 💀

  • @kuddycordaebey8940
    @kuddycordaebey8940 Před měsícem

    I guess I'm a child of a narcissist this is so funny right now

  • @melissakennedy5897
    @melissakennedy5897 Před měsícem

    I’m the child of narcissist of course I’m gonna make videos all about everything that I perceived is wrong in my life

  • @DxBlack
    @DxBlack Před měsícem

    28 years later and this is my "well damn, she really effed me over" moment.

  • @estelladog1
    @estelladog1 Před měsícem

    Hypervigilant is a horrible way to have to be.

    • @lorashampine3522
      @lorashampine3522 Před měsícem

      I can't turn it off😢

    • @estelladog1
      @estelladog1 Před měsícem

      Once I got out of my black hole and away, it took an additional 5 years to be less hypervigilant. I wish you well. Be kind to yourself!

  • @natashaking645
    @natashaking645 Před měsícem

    This got me though 😢 the " of course I do everything for everyone else and I never say No! No matter how hard it is going to be on me " was to real for comfort 😭

    • @lovin.lisa101
      @lovin.lisa101 Před měsícem

      You can overcome the people pleasing. ♥️

  • @superhappy2880
    @superhappy2880 Před měsícem

    I’m a child of a diagnosed Narcissist and I don’t have any of these traits. I got therapy instead and stopped looking for outside validation just like my narcissist parent. Once you heal and detach from that toxic narrative in your head and replace it with a healthier one…. you won’t have desire to create videos like these. ❤

    • @936Zach
      @936Zach Před měsícem

      I came here to make this comment, everyone wants to be famous on the internet nowadays.

    • @lovin.lisa101
      @lovin.lisa101 Před měsícem

      Unless you repress it with fake positivity & become emotionally avoidant by becoming judgmental of others on their healing journey.

  • @mic4ever727
    @mic4ever727 Před měsícem

    The likelihood they legit were children of narcissist parents are very low.

  • @An56871
    @An56871 Před měsícem

    Same

  • @tarocrips
    @tarocrips Před měsícem

    I have zero narcissists in my family and I do every single one of these.

  • @christinapierce5024
    @christinapierce5024 Před měsícem

    Facts

  • @ManDeezSHTBgood
    @ManDeezSHTBgood Před měsícem

    Where were these videos when I was younger.....OMG.....won't have suffered

  • @FollowPickMeekPodcast
    @FollowPickMeekPodcast Před měsícem

    I’m a child of two narcissists and I had a baby by one. Trying to break this cycle now with my own child

  • @RileyStanley-pg3rp
    @RileyStanley-pg3rp Před měsícem

    I'm a childrapest of and me and drake are freinds

  • @janehamilton6303
    @janehamilton6303 Před měsícem

    Yikes! Relatable!

  • @darncash2056
    @darncash2056 Před měsícem

    I'm the child of a 😭😭. Why is this is so relatable?

  • @John-ui5ku
    @John-ui5ku Před měsícem

    You're making tik toks . You're freaking narcissist .

    • @tehrockzor1
      @tehrockzor1 Před měsícem

      You're assuming their entire psyche on a single video. Which is pretty narcissistic if you ask me.