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Hi, how long does the music last in the reception? Does it play immediately when guest arrive or before guest arrive? The reception is 4-9pm. Does this mean music is played during dinner too?

Maybe if less planning the wedding took place and more towards the couple deciding if they're even compatible there would be less divorces.

I like your attitude far more than that of many modern day brides and grooms, who have actually taken to shaming their guests on social media for their attire and such "offenses" as not buying from their registries or giving what they thought an appropriate amount of cash.

You covered everything, thank you

Love your advice and channel! Thank you

She is a menace to society u and needs locking up, permanently

I would have gone with white lace shoes for weeding . Number 1 choice .

lol the intro

What a nice lady - and a great guide too! Subscribed!

I can't believe this channel isn't larger and hope you will come back with more tips soon! We're just beginning to plan and you are giving great advice. Thanks!

Would it be appropriate to give the gift to your planner shortly after the event, once all the dust settles and you really have a chance to appreciate the magnitude of their work? Or would it be expected the night of?

How do you keep food choices affordable?

Hey, can someone explain this wedding joke to me? I saw this happen in the hall near my brother's wedding reception. A female banquet manager was upset with a caterer, who had signed up for a one-person shift. She said she didn't think he could successfully do the service alone. She was sternly all, "I've told you not to sign up for shifts by yourself, I've been very clear about that, I don't know how much clearer I can get for you to listen. You need someone there to give you instructions and guide you." And then the caterer said, "You know, I'm beginning to see why you manage wedding and receptions." What does his comeback mean? Whats the implied reason?

Tipping culture is insane. Why would I tip a $3500 photographer? If they want more money, charge more. I don’t understand. Why would they not just raise their price if they expect to be paid more?

lol YES to all of this

Can we pleeeeeaaaasssee get ride of all this CLEAR signage? I cannot read your white paint marker on clear acrylic, sarah!

I agree with all of these, although...I am wearing white shoes with pearls...but they won't show anyway, my dress is just TOO glamorous and too BIG (ballgown) that it'll hide my shoes, and even if my shoes do show.....it'll outdress my shoes anyway.

So helpful! Thank you!

This is where I want to be married for sure ❤

My DJ said he won’t be attending the rehearsal. Should I be asking for a playlist? I don’t know what to play during the rehearsal.

Very helpful thank u

the best timeline on the internet.

They are already getting a divorce. So sad 😞

I wish we had cocktail hour after dinner (during dance)

Thank you for this video! I have a better idea of how I want my wedding energy to feel and look! 💐 and I LOLd when you kept it real about the mason jars 🤣

I agree with the burlap… but if it’s used, minimally … i used to see cotton a lot way back… I still like that, how do you feel about cotton flowers? REAL cotton flowers?

Only a fool would want to have a large wedding. Elopements are easier to plan, are less stressful, and can save you a lot of money.

These are excellent tips. I love your advice, and I think it will really help me plan out my space.❤🎉

I wonder if my song choice for the ceremony is long enough for 8 bridesmaids? It’s 4:50mins. A dj would be playing the song, I Was Born to Love You - Ray LaMontagne. Any suggestions to make the song longer if necessary? Maybe find a way to drag out the song no lyrics?

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As a grade-A, certified Extra bride: THANK YOU! Thank you for adding in that we are extremely considerate! I am super conscious of everyone else's needs and not wanting to be entitled even though I am the main character for my day!

In 2024, My Asian Wife (Maya-Minnie-Chu) Will Be Wearing Yellow Manolo Blahnik High Heel Pumps With Her Cap And Gown.

I. Feel. So. Vindicated! My mom was freaking out about me not wanting programs!! They are TOO expensive!

AWSOME teamwork ❤

Love all of these but I make invitations and I love doing big, important invitations with all of the information in them. Many of the guests from out of town are often older and are not internet savvy and having some of that in hand can be really helpful. I can’t tell you how often guests have thanked me because they had ideas for hotels to book or places to go on their extra days in town that were near to the venue. I’ve done several part invites in pearl folders and paper folders. They can be beautiful and really helpful if done correctly and if they and the postage are in the budget of course. My pet peeve for weddings is when there is nothing personal or unique at a wedding. When you go to five or ten weddings in a year and they all flow the same, have the same food and there are no surprises it gets a bit tedious and they are just not memorable.

Shoot..if it wasn’t cost prohibitive I’d hire you to travel to Thailand to plan my wedding 😅

I know what you mentioned about family-style dinners wasn't meant to be targeted towards Asians, but JFYA - culturally, we like shared plates and family-style meals.

Thank you for all this wonderful information! 😊

I saw this happen in the hall near my brother's wedding reception. A female manager was upset with a caterer, who had signed up for a one-person shift. She said she didn't think he could manage the service alone. She was sternly all, "I've told you not to sign up for shifts by yourself, I've been very clear about that, I don't know how much clearer I can get for you to listen. You need someone there to give you instructions and guide you." And then the caterer said, "You know, I'm beginning to see why you work so many wedding receptions." What does his comeback mean? Whats the implied reason?

I saw this happen in the hall near my brother's wedding reception. A female manager was upset with a caterer, who had signed up for a one-person shift. She said she didn't think he could manage the service alone. She was sternly all, "I've told you not to sign up for shifts by yourself, I've been very clear about that, I don't know how much clearer I can get for you to listen. You need someone there to give you instructions and guide you." And then the caterer said, "You know, I'm beginning to see why you work so many wedding receptions." What does his comeback mean? Whats the implied reason?

a sunset ceremony in summer is like 8 pm ??

Great advice, thank you. The only one I would disagree with is limiting plus ones. As a former single person, attending a wedding alone (especially a long-distance one), where you don't know anyone but the bride and groom, is an intensely uncomfortable and sometimes upsetting situation. And I don't think it's fair to exclude singles to avoid that dilemma. We chose to limit our guest list, so that our single friends can have someone else that day to enjoy the celebration, if they choose.

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Your intro is hilarious

I love the advice from your mom. Thank you for sharing that along with the tips!

Amazing information and timeline chat!!

Doing a first look because of the nervousness. I plan on doing wedding party and bride and groom photos after and then family photos after the ceremony. Also my fiancé and I have a secret first dance that no one knows about and we figured after he sees me, we can run through it twice in the dress to make sure there won’t be any issues. Or we can fix those issues before the actual dance.

It’s always easier and clear if the bride or groom gives guests a dress code or some information on what they want. I’ve been at weddings where I was underwhelmingly dressed because I didn’t want to upset the bride or sometimes overdressed which wasn’t a great feeling in both instances. It’s not that simple to get it right as a wedding guest.

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