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Told my dad i am gay and he said he's gonna send me to jail

I relate but in a different way instead of identifying as a trans man i feel more comfortable just identify as a man without the trans lable but i wouldn't deny being a trans man if i was asked

Me: im gay Mom: I'm glad that you're happy

I thought you were Cavetown omg

i love love 🥰💌

i missed you 😭

I'm gender queer bc I feel like nothing really fits well. AlI know is my gender is very queer. I get ya.

Jeg tror ikke noe vil gjøre deg lykkelig. Du virker ikke fornøyd om du går på hormoner eller ikke.

Be well folks 🙏

4:08 bro said she is a lady of a class

Hvorfor er transkønnede så narcissistiske? Er der nogen anden del af dig selv, der ikke er domineret af at være transkønnet? Kan du lide at læse, kunst, se film, nyde naturen? Har du andre interesser end at tale om din identitet eller seksualitet? Der skal være mere til dig end dette!

A lot of your former/current thoughts really resonate with me as a trans guy. Thanks so much for making this video- it’s so honest and genuine to the core!

You'll get 48 weeks reversion of your hairline if you stop testosterone. That is how long it takes to ossify a bone as T causes the cranium to expand.

I stopped T after 3 years as well, the only thing I dislike about my body now is my femininely shaped face. It takes a few months for the E to kick back in, but I’m happy with my decision!

You a he/her?

T hurts the VA JJ too😅

you look lovely

It's the truth period, for everyone.

This is exactly what i needed and the question feels like they just took my thoughts from my brain. I really want T and I love all the changes I will bring me, but I'm scared that I wont feel like me anymore with how my voice will sound different. i like the other changes and I do want a deeper voice 100%, but I'm scared it will get TOO deep or that I just wont sound the same, even though I've watched and listened to so many other peoples timelines on how their voice changed. I keep on going back and forth to 100% to 50% on board and it scares me. I think maybe that I should wait but it makes me sad to think about having to wait even longer while still having this voice/body. i want to do micro doses for this reason so if I regret it I wouldn't have changed too much. but either way I hope to get T this year or the next!

Hi Kovu, thank you for this video, it was really helpful! If you have the time to answer and are comfortable sharing: How did you talk to your doctor about wanting to go off T (for the moment)? Was there resistance on the doctors side or did they accept your wishes?

Considering doing similar for similar reasons. Interested to see how it goes! Thank you for the updates. Been watching your channel since 2017.

As a fellow Norwegian I have been watching you for 5 years now and I’m finally starting T in about 6 months !!!!

This conversation is so wonderful 💫

im so glad ive rediscovered your channel on my home screen omg, i used to watch your videos all the time when i was like 12 and figuring out my gender and now im 18 and transitioning :p i hope you are well , thank you for helping me figure things out

I am a fan of your boyfriend and just every word that comes out of his mouth! And you are so sweet together! Sending love from The Netherlands!

🧐 You’re both good-looking & cute. But you’re a (straight) heterosexual couple, because Kai is male-sexed and Kovu is female-sexed. It’s called heteroSEXual, not “homoGENDERAL”. Gender is simply a synonym for sexist stereotypes.

A cis guy named Kai? Oh wait, he's just from Sarpsborg :P

Awh your partner is so down to earth and really open! Really heartwarming to hear yous both talk about these things. I’ve had a lot of transphobia from other gay guys on dating apps so idk, it’s nice to hear there are people out there who aren’t dicks 😅

Kovu popping up on my feed after like 5 years?? wild & very appreciated

congrats on being openly Norwegian!

Awesome!!!!

This video is oddly relevant for me atm

"When I grew up there was one gay guy and you know who that is" Very relatable

With all due respect, gay men have fought for CENTURIES to not have to include heterosexuality (aka a biological female dating a biological male) in the definition of who they are. Your partner is a bisexual male who is currently in a heterosexual relationship. If you two have sex, there's a potential you might reproduce. You have vaginal sex. That has NOTHING to do with gay men. It is exactly what gay men do not want. So he should start calling himself bisexual. Stop appropriating our struggles and our sexuality for clout. We've had enough. If you two were in any of the 15+ countries where gay people are stoned to death, your relationship would still be perfectly valid because you are a HETEROSEXUAL couple.

being in a cis/trans couple this is really nice to watch <33

I could go on watching your video for hours. It’s so relaxing and wholesome ❤

Very nice video!! Kai is so sweet and I wish more people didn't overthink that much who they are or what they like tbh. I think this video just reinforces the idea of that you just fall for a person and that everyone is different and therefore every relationship is different. It's so nice to see how close you two are and how much you know each other and care about each other and it shows that being gay or cis or trans or whatever isn't a big deal, if you get on with someone or if you love someone, you just get on with them or love them for who they are, as whole, and that's it. Thank you to both of you so much for this video, as I'm also a transmasc queer non binary person who's a bit scared of not finding a partner at some point of their life. Also, it's great it's long and you covered different topics.

Thank you for this video! It was really cute and beautiful to watch. 💙 So happy for you both!

Yesss kovu!!!! I would really love to hear about how u guys met😊 please make a video about thatt

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Omg, I've just noticed Kai's cup. 🤣Love it. On another note, I really appreciate this video and the conversation. I feel like so many of us have similar worries and fears inside our minds...and hearing them voiced and deconstructed by somebody else out loud is just so...relieving? Cathartic? Kai seems lovely. And, obviously, you are too!

17:00 What you said about projection is so relatable. I'm not in a romantic relationship, nor have I ever been, but I do the same thing with friends, the more I care about them and their opinions of me, the worse it gets. And I've been aware of this and was able to articulate it before and also felt guilty about it, but I could never really get myself to stop. I feel like hearing it from someone else helps though, for whatever reason. So thanks for that :)

Sorry but he is not gay he is bisexual at least

This was recommended to me randomly on my feed, and I’m glad it was. I’ve never dated anyone at 22, not casually or serious or anything, and sometimes I worry I never will because of a multitude of factors, a couple of which relate to my gender. Hearing these experiences helps a lot.

This was really nice thank you for talking about it! Me and my partner are t4t, but they are trans fem with little to no dysphoria, and im trans masc with a lot of dysphoria, and we have had pretty different experiences when it comes to dating and being intimate. But at the same time we appreciate each other's differences and we are able to be open about how we feel. When i first came out i didn't think i would find love at all, but that wasn't true, and seeing you two on instagram gave me so much hope that i would one day find the one. Me and my partner have only been together for 5 months but I really think they are the ONE. If you are thinking about making another video about being long distance that would be pretty cool, since we have to be long distance for a whole year now before maybe being able to move inn togheter after that, and i really miss them all the time so yeah if you have any tips on that please share them

There is to much transphobic comments

You are not a gay man and never will be. What a joke.

I'm a. Post op transexual woman who dates heterosexual cis men. Posers don't speak for me. Put your transgender umbrella and rainbow flag where the sun doesn't shine

Damn Kovu’s really grown up!

Hi Kai!