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thank u guys, this was good!!

Great video and you got to remember and know it’s a process through it all and even before you recognize there’s a problem! Mighty God ✨‼️📝 It is truly the power of the Holy Ghost, and committing to what God has shown you in wisdom and knowledge to not do a thing again and trusting that what He says is true and good; we don’t have to bounce back or nibble in old stuff, even though the flesh wants too; and also having a heart for God and learn to know whom God truly is and being honest with God with strengths and weaknesses; and changing your perspective and attitude and mindset! Changing the focus and posture to honoring God with my body: it’s not just waiting until marriage to have sex but it’s I love God so I honor God with all of me even once married, as I’ve heard Ezekiel Azonwu say too. Also sis in Christ in love, this is a year ago and maybe you’re doing better at it but let your husband speak, I noticed you interrupt him mid-sentence though he listens to you as you speak; I’m working on my listening skills in general also, which is why I’ve chosen to point that out. Let him speak so that we all can hear what he has to say too. We want to hear you both.

Thank you for sharing this message. May God continue to use you to share his word. Keep going and congratulations! 🙏🏽.

CONFUSED: What does “idolizing marriage” look like? How does it work? 🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️

I enjoyed listening to this conversation. Thank you both for your insight on marriage. Kori, thank you for sharing how you once idolized marriage and saw it as a fantasy. I think that may be the phase I'm in 🫣 lol. I know you talked about repenting and submitting yourself to God for you to come out of that phase. What other steps did you take to not idolize marriage? And how did you know that it was no longer a fantasy/idol for you?

This was good! Kori, I love your takeaway at the end. I struggle with the same feeling of being easily offended.Thanks for sharing your solution on how you're dealing with that. That's something I plan to put into practice

I think this question is good because it allows open dialogue among christians and let's ppl express how they feel. I'm older and it wasn't discussed. Ppl just moved with emotion after being together for awhile and not necessarily using the biblical knowledge (scripture of the first ceremony) as reference to make their decisions.

He "knew" his wife...he "fudged" his wife

Needed to hear this!

“Should Christians live together before marriage” A can of stupidity just opened!

Would yall agree there's a difference between a covenant made under God and the legal action of getting married? If so, I'm trying to answer the question if the covenant has been made but the ceremonial wedding is for example next month, wouldn't God consider that couple married already and therefore they could do married couple things in an encouraged fashion?

I enjoyed listening to this episode on contentment and how you guys reminded us that contentment is ultimately found in Christ. Contentment is something I’m in a season of being more intentional about.

Bro like I found my wife. 😂

Beautiful love story…. Good teaching 🔥

Fbi❤ yes. I had a friend date a guy for months. She said he didn't have social media. But she would still search. I was like I'll find him. All I needed was hos name. She told be he was a cyclist too. I found him with in 10 minutes on Instagram. Was on his mom's page with in 15❤😂

Love the honesty and perspective you guys shared. After giving my life to Christ again, I for sure will not be cohabiting with anyone he places in my life!

@18.18 minutes in you earned a new subscriber with love from Australia 🇦🇺.

Agree.....I've seen many times where couples cohabitate for yrs & prolong marriage or take marriage off the table altogether.

10:22 Men are mentally stronger than women? 🤔 I agree with waiting until marriage, but there’s a way to make that argument without undermining women’s intelligence. I suggest you read evangelical scholar Philip Payne’s book, Man and Woman: One in Christ.

This video encouraged me to commit to going to Toast Masters

Very helpful

My little brother did the same to me but on a Jet ski . I understand 🥲🫠

This was insightful… one of your videos popped up on my feed and I tapped in! The name change has a very biblical component to it as well… we (the church) take on the name of Jesus (bridegroom) as His bride through baptism and with marriage being a physical example of Christ, we take on the name of our husband in marriage…. which then gets passed down to the children, etc. I’ve thoroughly enjoyed the marriage topic videos! Thank you for sharing & congratulations!

You can tell they’re still in love it’s so refreshing to see

Thank you for your transparency 💚💚

How come it took y'all 5 years to get married though?

Thank you for sharing this love you both

I'm so glad I found you all here!! I love your testimony and spiritual growth journey. Be encouraged to keep living for God!! ❤️❤️

22:24 OMG! Before God brought Eve to Adam she already had a relationship with her creator.This is my take away.

Thank you so much! This is great

Beautiful show i do like how calming vibe. Peaceful but one thing i would like to say is that you two are alike. Let me explain yes yall two are different you two seem like yall do not like problems, quite and nerds lol not qnbad thing i admire a person mind. I think these things after your religion is what is working

🤣🤣🤣🤣 Funny but y'all are so right.

This was extremely helpful on shifting my mindset and putting my full trust and obedience in God. Thank you!!

New subscriber, liked…. But my bill notifications won’t turn on🤷🏽‍♀️..

I genuinely enjoyed this video. The way you both interact with each other is honestly so beautiful. Considering this is the first video I’ve watched from you both, it definitely was enough to convince me to subscribe. May God continue to bless you/your union.

Through your pursuit for God was mere obedience. Which led you to what was meant for you ⭐️

Please pray for me Katarina .. thanks, God bless you ...

I love your testimony. And you are so right!! I love how you explained that just because you DM him first doesn’t mean that is a sign of pursuit. You were being friendly and saying hi. That’s just making your presence known. I love it!

I have been abstinent for 6 years. I'm finally to the revelation that I want my future marriage to be Jesus centered and not sex centered. I want to follow God's plan and vision through my husband's vision so that i can fulfill my vision at the same time. Sex is only meant for marriage and producing!

Thank you for sharing! How old were you guys when you got married?

I’d sayyy…Y’all are both in ur early 30’s is my guess. Me & (most of) my immediate family, due to our spiritual knowing, don’t celebrate birthdays. Me & my nephews have genuinely forgotten our ages on occasion🙃lol. I know that most of us have been here (on earth) plenty of times, so sometimes when ppl ask my age I’ll say “in this life I’m 32” or “this time around I’m ___ age”. Folks get a kick out of that lol. The framework of our holy community is to spend this life in preparation for the next one, a deep dive on “being in the world, not of it”. So w/ that mindset comes sacrifice. Not a blood ritual chile, but sacrificing certain ways & customs that’ve been deemed normal to society, ie I loooove my locs & they represent so much for me but I wear a turban & diadem like The Most Highs commanded Moses. I don’t wear my hair out in public (no I’m not muslim lol). But That’s me sacrificing /giving up using my hair as an object of desire or as an instrument to draw attention…I regard my hair now as it was originally & intentionally designed to be, ets my treasure, my antennas etc. But with the faithful mind frame of being in the world not of it…it’s like where does age come in? ( for me). Wat true value/meaning does et serve? Now, we’re not extremist in this stance either, I REBUKE pedophilia in the name of The Most High, mmkay. If I gotta fill out documents & they need my age sure, I write it. But for me, Ion do shit for my birthday lol & havnt for almost 10 years. Ion let coworkers decorate my desk, none of that, but if they insist in some small way, I’m not bothered, I smile, say thank you, & enjoy my gifts lol. Last lil “fun” fact…is in the church of satan, per my research, birthdays are the BIGGEST holiday, that’s there “Christmas”, if you will…which is “the ways of the heathen” according to the book of Jeremiah I believe ( I vaguely rahmember Kori doing an IG story on this few years ago I think) but yea….ok I’m done🤍 lol.

New here🙋‍♀️ thanks for sharing!

Rob is turning 31

New subbie... i already love this poscast!

Thank you for sharing this when it's still so fresh.

I wonder what the implications are for friend zoning, chasing after the "bad boy", and the expectation that women are to be pursued. The first few Bible figures that come to mind are Boaz, Solomon, and King David

Amen

You guys are amazing

Good topic! Appreciate yall sharing your approach. I agree with things being 100-100. I believe a man is responsible for overseeing and ensuring provision but to me that doesn’t have to look like his income covering all the bills all the time. We both bring what we have and arrange it in the way that works best for us! I am going to law schools so if I have access to higher earnings in some seasons maybe my income will cover more but he will surely be providing in various ways as well. And I trust he will be making sure that we are set for me to take off work to have children. Teamwork makes the dream work! Also yalls energy seemed fine to me! Wasn’t painful to watch or listen to, so I guess it’s in the eye/ear of the beholder/listener. Keep up the great work!