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I was outed by my sister to my mother. I hid the fact I was trans from her for so long. I planned to keep hiding it from her until she would pass away. I used to say I’d wait to transition until she passed, but I simply couldn’t. It was transition now or die. Well, despite my transness and being on HRT, my relationship with my mom was only improving over the years. Then I got outed. My mom called me one evening when I was at my home alone, putting on makeup actually. She called me and I answered. “What are you doing” she asked. I felt cold chills run up and down my body. Did my mom somehow know I was putting on makeup? “Nothing mama, I’m just drinking a little wine and sitting at home.” She asked again. I said “Mama, what do you mean what am I doing?” She responded “you’re changing to be a girl?” My whole world stopped turning the second those words came out her mouth. I was speechless. I reluctantly attempted to deny it, but she wasn’t having any of it. I physically could not bring myself to talk to her about it. I couldn’t. God I wish I could have, and I would have.. but I couldn’t. My whole body went numb, a loud ringing in my ear drowned out the voice on the other end of the phone. I was frozen in time. Then I hung up on her as she was mid-sentence. I hung up on her and I don’t know if I will ever forgive myself for that, only time will tell. That was the last time I heard my moms voice. Well, I just so happened to lose my job right around the same time. My safety net that would have been there by my mom was no longer there, so I ended up getting evicted from my apartment. I ended up checking myself into a mental hospital at this time because the urge to just end everything was worse than it ever had been, and I’ve attempted before. This was worse than even then. I fought to try to not admit myself, but, one day, while shaving, before I even realized what I was doing, I’d pulled out the razor blade and held it to the side of my neck, over the jugular vein. I immediately checked myself in at that point. Once I’d gotten out, I ended up in the ER due to a heat stroke that I would have avoided had I not lost my home. I haven’t heard my own mother’s voice in months. I’ve had 2 or so text conversations with her about the issue since. Both of them stemmed from the Christian Bible, as she attempted to justify her ostracism of her own child in her holy texts, to which I refuted to the best of my ability. She wouldn’t have any of that. Well, as a consequence of me being homeless, I ended up getting wrongfully arrested while couch surfing at a friend’s house. They sent me to a male dorm, and as a trans woman who’s been on estrogen for about a year now, I don’t think I really need to explain how that went over. But god if I could just hear my mom’s voice, her laugh, see her smile one more time, and if I could just give her one last hug, it would mean the world to me. It almost feels like she died, but it’s also a bit different because I know she’s still alive. I don’t understand how she can bear this, because I know I can’t. Mom, I know you probably will never see this, but I do love you very much, and I miss you. God do I ever miss you. I know I wasn’t the best child in the world but I tried mom, I really did try. In all honesty, I have no idea why I’m telling this story right now, but if there are any parents reading this, please just love your kid. Your kid just wants love and acceptance and support. Not providing those things are literally life-threatening, and most certainly life-altering. Just tell em you love em. God I miss you Mama.

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If you think a 5 or 6 year old child should be able to change their gender, you are both disturbed and crazy. This is disgusting.

if i'm in the (very religious) anti lgbtq+ south, what do i do? edit: the south is weird, some cities are inclusive, some are just... anti-anything even suspected of being satanic (example: satanic panic)

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Thank you

17 and emotionless and worthless for 3 years because i was devastated i was acting way too feminine to be a boy, and i hid it. I'm suffering very badly I cannot exactly control my emotions or make sense of them, but i never really had a grasp of emotions.

No child is transgender, there are only foolish parents allowing an evil society to destroy the innocence of their child which is not Ok with God; Luke 17:2, Matt 18:6 it would be better to have a millstone tied around your neck and cast into the sea if you cause one of these little ones to stumble; all of you who declare a child is transgender because it's what you want and encourage in them, you are in severe trouble with God. Satan is after our children, and this video is proof, sadly this foolish society is too blinded by him to see the danger children are in.

If you are so sure your a boy, then why do you need to do so many surgerys to be happy? I mean if you are a boy then what are you trying to prove by waisting all this money on surgery, just say your a boy and live like a boy, it's that simple

Please don't unalive yourself like other born women assuming men. Most less-than-alpha men don't represent most of us. Notice how you get to have your oxygen pump of previously female support? I don't know you, and I know it might be offensive. But I do come from a place of support honestly. I think it's great that you're learning the male perspective. I also do not deny your legitimacy. I dislike the term stealth when it comes down to sexual terms. I've been stealthed by a dimly lit room. hamburger helper, a BJ, and a cheap date only to learn some things. Men not talking about their feelings also covers not opening up about certain types of non-consent. I know this isn't you, but try and keep in mind men don't tend to care about themselves more than the project at hand, but it's not exactly patriarchy, as it is as laying down a life for the furtherment of what is important. Women ARE important. If war, patriarchy, uh, rules on who dies first, with rape being the less torturous thing we leave our wives and kids to to be assumed... How can we men take ourselves seriously or not? Life is a lot of projection. Make sure you pay attention to Russian conscriptions making sure their family gets paid in the wake of their death. They know they won't last 8 days. Are you prepared? Men are useless. Cannon fodder. The first to die. For family. The idea that we don't respect women as a whole is pretty frivolous. tbh. We are meeting the accusation only now. only, now.

Americans are really rude as men. I'ma just point that out.

yeahhh we kind not talk about feelings because we are told that iits all our fault and as you too mentioned it... take to much space and that is not our function, we are just expected to do things and find solutions and make things work without any recognition nor regard for if we wanto to or not and we are judged for having feelings or oposing to anything women say even when it is about our own feelings, we are not entitled to those either, we are told what our feelings are and judged by the interpretation they have about the feelings without ever asking us about them, and when we do open up, it better be positive and having to do with the woman, otherwise you are agressive and these feelings are going to be used against you to force you to conform in every argument in the future without any restrain or empathy. When men open up their feelings get weaponised and they become weak, and a weak man is a turn off for women, there is nothing they despise more. tha's why men never say they are depressed in a marriage, cause divorce is almos certain and then you'll have even more to be depressed about and no one is going to help you, no one, not even the state, to the contrary the state will just help your ex take averything away from you and make you appear like a vilain or less of a man because you were depressed and opened up. If strange women are super friendly to you it is because they don't see you as a man. Being a man is hard and lonley. BTW testostorone also give you a sense of urgency and focus and boosts your selfesteem. you get better at doing things consistenly and get more objetctive and dont have so much patience for talking just for talking, you get a little more disconnected from your feelings which i thing repels one from talking about feelings, you just want to do something about the problem and if you cant talking about it just seems like waste of time. I noticed it when my testosterone levels were very low some years ago when i was depressed lonley and overweight, so i took some testestorone and began going to the gym and my levels went to almost 1000. its two very different ways of thinking from low to high testostorone levels.

Maybe deal with your mental health. Love who you are, don’t pretend you can be the opposite sex.

The fact that you're aware of your lack of emotional intimacy since you 'transitioned to a man' and are making a concerted effort to be more open to other men demonstrates that 'gender' is not innate or ingrained. It's just sex roles and stereotypes and you can choose to buy into them, or not.

My child just came out to me and I see how old this video is, but I want to thank you for making it and tell you you’re still helping people ❤

I love the way the dad said he was a manager at a thrift store

Thankyou

what a psychopath wildabeast looks like in boy form

do i send this to my mom? she's transphobic

Using this to come out as ftm like/reply to my comment please so i remember to update🎉

You are an amazing person

I'm trans male and 14 and my parents support me but they don't respect my preferred name and pronouns

Thank you for the video. I know it is older but it is still helpful. My trans daughter is just starting her mtf journey and she deserves the love, understanding and support I can give her. But this is a journey for me too and I want to do it right.

of my child is trans everything is not going to be ok. sorry you just cannot except everyone to just be on board with this.

I'm so happy to have found this video!! My grandson is transitioning, and I have no issues at all with it. I'm fully supportive. What matters is a person's character! We are going to love her for the person she is ❤

You’re still a woman

I would disown my kid or relative, if they were trans

First time watching your channel , it appears im quite late , but I think CZcams knows I’m a Trans Girl

Awesome video and I really hope that every parent - every parent of every child - watches this. I love how you describe the value in validation and advocacy, and this is something that applies universally. It sounds like your parents really had/have your back, that's so wonderful and I'm so happy for you ❤

So good to hear an update from you! Your videos here helped me see a path forward for myself (even though I'm a few years older than you). I'm now 3 years post op and glad you're doing well.

Youre not a guy ....never were, never will be. Live with it...

this video almost made me cry, I really hope my parents accept me

Big surprise, a woman doesn’t understand men.

Sorry, Pinocchio, you’ll never be a real boy.

LGBT: We are not coming for your kids righteoid, that's a conspiracy theory! Also LGBT:

Yeah. Lessons from a child with a undeveloped brain. I guarantee this one will have other grown men work other their everything. Cars. House. 😂.

Told them. They didn’t give a fuck. Back in the closet for the last 6 months 😐

Stop, get some help.

Connor, I'm 41 years old, and only recently started my journey. I do not have the fears or struggles that most children have coming out to their parents but I was terrified coming out to my wife, thankfully she's accepted me and is now my biggest supporter. Regardless, I found some peace and comfort in your video. You are an amazing young man, and thank you for creating this. I come back to it every so often to remind myself, it's all good. So please know, your message is powerful

Sorry dear, but you still look butch lesbian to me, which is perfectly fine, imo. I guess we truly can delude ourselves of anything these days, with others 'affirming' it. 😢 They've been forced to affirm it. Most don't want to, or actually give a shit. It is what it is. Why the lies though. And this 'stealth' word is so toxic. Call THAT what it is....pure deception. smh Live your life as you want. Just be honest! It's that simple.

thx bro I needed this to come out as a 700lb black trans woman

Boys club, cute. I dont care if you mutilated your breasts , this is a woman

It’s just so hard!!!! My son told me he’s trans 3 o 4 years ago and I’m so scare of the people that can hurt my child.

“You’ll never be a woman! Believe it!”

I needed to see this . Thank you. From the bottom Of my heart. My AFAB came out 4 month ago. I’ve been 💯 there for them and supportive and out everything into place for them and held there hand but privately I’ve been grieving so hard. I’m heart broken. But as a mum , I love her (him) more then life itself and true love is selfless and unconditional. You’re video had me in tears seeing how far you’ve come and it gave me hope . Thank you

this is making the lgb community and the t community look bad, i'm gay, i'm attracted to men but i cant show it because of things like this, i will be associated with rainbows and disgusting fetishes at pride month, i will be compared to the far left and i hate it, i just want to get on with my day maybe get married one day, there is no such thing as a trans child only a trans adult, in recent years they came out of nowhere, they have been told that they are being born in the wrong body that they were "assigned" at birth, the reality is the majority will just end up gay there lives will be ruined and the number of Detransitions and suicides will go up people cant let the left destroy everything they claim to fight for.

Oh yeah your really passing with the feminine way your talking and decussing things. Here's the a hard reality men probably don't want to be around you. You scream annoying, weak, and stupid. Let me get you on a little secret about men. Every guy who meet doesn't give two shits about you till you prove yourself to them. The guys your hanging out with are probably gay men or weak ones. Its not a problem. You have a problem with being and acting like a man.

Think you need to explain 'Cis'.

I don’t know if I should come out like this but my birth gender is a girl and.. 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️