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How To Get Over Depersonalization
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DEPERSONALIZATION GOES AWAY AS SOON AS YOU TRULY STOP CARING WHETHER IT GOES AWAY OR NOT. JUST LET GO. i PROMISE... you WILL be okay, i love you! Check out my other channel for free health tips: czcams.com/channels/llYn5vdGGNodlekfPSDPkw.html DEPERSONALIZATION GOES AWAY AS SOON AS YOU TRULY STOP CARING WHETHER IT GOES AWAY OR NOT PLEASE do not message me asking more questions about DP. ALL the ...

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  • @iamawakesorry
    @iamawakesorry Před 9 dny

    thank you so much brother. had a lot of wierd terrible experinces with this. cant thank you enough

  • @viceetea
    @viceetea Před 9 dny

    hope youre doing good Ryan

  • @ME-jf7ho
    @ME-jf7ho Před 9 dny

    Is eye floaters a symptom?

    • @clearpilledangel
      @clearpilledangel Před 8 dny

      definitely any sort of visual disturbances are way more noticeable like visual snow as well and after images

    • @ME-jf7ho
      @ME-jf7ho Před 8 dny

      @@clearpilledangel did yours go away?

    • @clearpilledangel
      @clearpilledangel Před 8 dny

      @@ME-jf7ho ye

  • @toeknee3804
    @toeknee3804 Před 10 dny

    ryan same shit just happened to me thank you so fucking much man i really appriacte you.

  • @isdatkodyy
    @isdatkodyy Před 2 měsíci

    i came from Edward Skeletrix

  • @MrDavej8777
    @MrDavej8777 Před 2 měsíci

    Im 46 and have suffered DP/DR like Ryan in this video… it’s absolutely petrifying when you go through all the symptoms. Too many to mention and they all sound crazy. Ryan is spot on with his recommendation… you do have to get on with your life and don’t give the symptoms any energy…when I first had it I was the same age as Ryan, no internet or any help, it was dreadful… basically your mind is in a freeze response…. You have either had a panic attack for one reason or another you have been stressed and anxious for a very long period of time and the last event you worried about was the straw that broke the camels back… it’s basically your mind trying to protect you from any more worries…the trouble is you get caught in a loop of then worrying about the symptoms which then makes the mind more protective…. For an exact breakdown of what you are feeling, watch coach Jordan Hardgrave channel…absolutely spot on…. Good luck everyone, you will definitely get better

  • @addisoc5195
    @addisoc5195 Před 2 měsíci

    thank you ryan i’m like 4-5 months in and i haven’t stopped thinking of it. these videos don’t help stopping the thinking. im just starting to give up because there was a point where i didn’t search for it for 2 months and it was all still there. idk what to do

  • @fuckshit1
    @fuckshit1 Před 2 měsíci

    skeletrix island

    • @patientboi
      @patientboi Před 2 měsíci

      here from the skeletrix too 66.7

  • @Adam-gg4od
    @Adam-gg4od Před 2 měsíci

    I know this is an old video but brother you really helped me. I just stopped caring and it got better everyday. Now i’m to the point where i’m just grateful to be alive and focus on the joys in life rather than my own internal struggles. God Bless

  • @imzku
    @imzku Před 3 měsíci

    you helped me a lot. thank you.

  • @TheLocalDank
    @TheLocalDank Před 3 měsíci

    🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @Sabteratusabasda
    @Sabteratusabasda Před 3 měsíci

    You are an angel. This video really worked for me. God bless you

  • @HarrisCassie
    @HarrisCassie Před 4 měsíci

    You definitely the GOAT with this video. As real as it gets ❤❤❤

  • @D4H_50
    @D4H_50 Před 4 měsíci

    this shit was so fucking helpful thank you, had an absolutely horrific violent and dizzying and hallucinating trip on weed and this started not too long after, thank you for helping me make it go away.

  • @Canesbabe
    @Canesbabe Před 4 měsíci

    Officially off youtube! Will come back when better i wont forget u

  • @backyardexplosionfilms585
    @backyardexplosionfilms585 Před 5 měsíci

    Edward skeletrix

  • @user-jj3qb8cr8m
    @user-jj3qb8cr8m Před 5 měsíci

    გამარჯობათ. 14 წლის ვარ და საშინელებაა. ვერაფერს ვგრძნობ. ჩემი თავი დავკარგე. წამიერად ვუცხოვდები ჩემს თავთან😭😭😭 მინდა ისევ მე ვიყო.

  • @ClankyOtter
    @ClankyOtter Před 5 měsíci

    Thank you for making this man. Literally don’t think I’ve had a problem with this before in my 25 years living. One random day quitting a traumatizing job set me off. Hearing your advice was like hearing what I had always been able to tell myself in the past. I guess I just forgot somehow. I will make this the last video I watch about it, wish I could buy you lunch one day bro.

  • @ayoubimohammad6878
    @ayoubimohammad6878 Před 6 měsíci

    If you just got dpdr from weed basically you fucked up your brain. I watched this video after a traumatic trip on weed and it gave me a little hope. It has been 16 months this fucking sickness is still with me. I don’t know how long it will take for me to overcome it. I’ll give it 2 years(6 months more) if this shit doesn’t get better I’m fucking killing myself. Everyday is fucking hell. 😞😞😞😞

    • @ryanmonte4872
      @ryanmonte4872 Před 4 měsíci

      Then you have not followed the advice in this video friend, just let go. Hope you’re still with us❤

    • @Justanobodybro
      @Justanobodybro Před 13 dny

      you did not fuck up your brain try meth everyday for months thats what a cooked brain is

  • @KeanMartinic
    @KeanMartinic Před 6 měsíci

    4 years since my depersonalization. It gets better; normality does return!

  • @focolix630
    @focolix630 Před 6 měsíci

    why do skeletrix got a playlist jus with this vid

    • @linyc7970
      @linyc7970 Před 4 měsíci

      it prolly had a big impact on him thats why he talks about not caring all the time

    • @milesshoebuckler
      @milesshoebuckler Před 4 měsíci

      cool vide

  • @umar56838
    @umar56838 Před 6 měsíci

    Thank you for helping so many people

  • @soundhub-bn6ws
    @soundhub-bn6ws Před 6 měsíci

    Respect to this man .

  • @radovanstacha3261
    @radovanstacha3261 Před 7 měsíci

    That was what I needed, thank you brother hope ur doing well!❤

  • @christophercontreras8253
    @christophercontreras8253 Před 7 měsíci

    Fuck yea I love this video, I got this im fine

  • @harri9482
    @harri9482 Před 7 měsíci

    Fuck the pills it’s a way for the government to get u hooked

  • @user-ri2ds8ew9g
    @user-ri2ds8ew9g Před 7 měsíci

    wow. 6 years later. 🐐

  • @beauschmelzer9281
    @beauschmelzer9281 Před 7 měsíci

    Yo I’m gonna use you’re advice I’ve been feelings this for like 5 months and I’ve had a few breaks. Did you have any existential thoughts, like about why we exist?

    • @Canesbabe
      @Canesbabe Před 4 měsíci

      I have these!! R u better

  • @nicojb24
    @nicojb24 Před 7 měsíci

    I’ll make sure this is the last video I’ll ever watch on this thank you bro

  • @nvb455
    @nvb455 Před 7 měsíci

    Nailed it

  • @candy_lover1251
    @candy_lover1251 Před 7 měsíci

    Thanks man really !!!!!

  • @madieatstoes
    @madieatstoes Před 8 měsíci

    It’s only having fully moved past it that I can reflect back and realise that it wasn’t some scary boogie man, but instead a product of the hyper awareness, stress and anxiety usually following episodes of unnaturally intense stress and disorientation that initially throws you off. It’s understandable why it happens and why people feel how they do, in the moment it’s hard to see past the trees but once you stop trying, it’s entirely a thing of the past. Now things that really affect me that would have thrown me into dpdr before, don’t. Distressing and disorientating things happen in life but they don’t have to throw you into dpdr. Overcoming your panic and paranoia will make you appreciate life and take things as they are, don’t worry. But I will say, looking back and realising what triggered it makes me more careful and wise- you can avoid inflicting unnecessary stress on you’re body and brain whether that’s mind altering substances, toxicity of any kind, stressful people/ situations, shitty habits or a nutritionally lacking inflammatory diet etc. A large part of it for me was expecting to be my normal self after very stressful life changing events, which is unrealistic and only causes more stress of why you are obviously not your happiest normal self. Become biochemically healthy, live a more natural and simple life, eat naturally (animal based helped me), get sunlight, get more sleep, avoid brain damaging/ toxic things and distressing content/ situations/ people you fill your head with, and focus your life on things that bring you peace. Now I can handle these things and more as I used to before it was triggered for me, as I know not to be scared of myself, I have an unshakable knowledge that I can control my mental state and that panicking and despairing, especially, will solve nothing. You will change more than you think you will in life, have inner peace and know the distress you are going through will be a distant memory one day as it is for me. I wish everyone going though this would realise this, the me that was so affected feels so alien to the real me that it’s actually funny to look back on. know that you’ve got this, so learn to appreciate life and yourself more👍❤️peace✌️

    • @adentran241
      @adentran241 Před 4 měsíci

      Can you share for me what unshakable knowledge is that? Or maybe just even some quick tips? I am going through a period of anxiety and dpdr right now and I really need some help. Thank you

    • @Justanobodybro
      @Justanobodybro Před 13 dny

      even if it was from substances i would not say it was directly from them because i experienced anxiety a week later which then triggered it so yeah not the substance itself but anxiety did that

    • @Justanobodybro
      @Justanobodybro Před 13 dny

      it can be impossible to pinpoint what exactly caused it and how it happened

  • @wild4wilde_
    @wild4wilde_ Před 8 měsíci

    hey! thank you so much for this video. I just developed dpdr a week ago and I've been obsessing over it so much. Would you recommend talking to a therapist about dpdr though? Would talking about the issue and verbally acknowledging it make it worse?

  • @jujuulzz
    @jujuulzz Před 8 měsíci

    I come back to this video every once in a while to keep me grounded when im struggling. i love you for this and i hope you are doing great

  • @marissadepaulo2032
    @marissadepaulo2032 Před 8 měsíci

    this is my last video i’m watching.. had dpdr for a year 24/7 and i cannot handle it anymore. i’m taking your advice starting today

  • @Drxcula_444
    @Drxcula_444 Před 8 měsíci

    This made me think a lot, It’s hard to go through something like that. Because you can’t stop obsessing over it, that’s all you think abt but you can ignore it too, it’s not easy but it’s not hard. This actually helped me..

  • @michaelzastenchik2881
    @michaelzastenchik2881 Před 8 měsíci

    Yeah benzos fucked me up I told doc about this and he told me to take klonopin , well I stopped klonopin … you thought derealization was bad ?

  • @xkatakuri7777
    @xkatakuri7777 Před 8 měsíci

    I love you man, god bless you. I’m taking this to heart, I may come back to this video if I’m ever having a bad episode. I will update every now and again, bless you all. Update, Dec 18. 2023: I feel a lot better actually, I wouldn’t want to put a number on my personal progress, but I went from a 10% to a 55% and I feel great. I still feel it, but I’m able to be outside and talk to people at times. Keep this mantra, EVERYTHING IS FINE, LET GO COMPLETELY, THIS IS JUST ANXIETY AND YOU NEED TO IGNORE IT AND LOOK FORWARD. Love you all, will update soon. Second Update, Jan 1. 2024: Had a tiny setback a couple days or a week ago, I forget, but I feel a lot better and functional. Existential thoughts are still here but fading away slowly. I feel happier. I didn’t say before but my dp/dr was caused by an edible and shroom trip, but I’m not taking em anymore for the time being at least. I’m feeling overall better though Third Update, January 3. 2024: Having a bit more trouble sleeping and my existential thoughts are still a bit all over the place and messy, freaks me out ngl, but i end up just moving past them after a bit. Physically I’m feeling a LOT better, my sense of touch is almost back completely which I’m happy about, and I can socialize with a lot of people more and just actually have fun without forcing it. DONT CARE ABOUT IT, IT GETS BETTER. It may not be 100% better yet, but I’m getting there man, I had it before and I can get over it again Fourth Update, Jan 19th 2024: Don’t exactly need this vid for comfort anymore, just thought I’d update for those looking for any kind of hope. There’s hope, you’re normal, you don’t feel like it but remember that right now, it’s the same as it’s ever been and nothing’s ever changed. Love you. Dm me if you need to talk on insta (kidlich)

  • @WilliamPreat
    @WilliamPreat Před 8 měsíci

    I've let DPDR control me, purely out of fear the past couple of months and this video could not come at a better time. Thank you man, big love from Australia!

  • @RagerCxm8xn
    @RagerCxm8xn Před 9 měsíci

    The actual legit video that isnt looking for clout♥️🙏🏼

  • @stargal7977
    @stargal7977 Před 9 měsíci

    Anyone else dresd sleeo. I take hours to sleeo for some reason which mskes me oaniced snd tired the next day. Ive slways been snxious for sleeo. i try meditation btw. Im scsred ive tricked brain to never sleep sgsin or ill smdresm but be consciius or sleeo oarslsysi. Im scared ull become insimniac and hallucinate. I was at work yesterday till 2am. Shiwered abd git ti bed and dudnt skeep till 3.30. this is common gor me. I take ages. Also my thriat hss been si tight past few months like vomit stuck in it. Geg scared thoat will close up. Can u get tips to sleep well and sny tips fir this avid reglux thingy. Cheers. I dint esnt to go doctor uf uts anxiety.

  • @Cj-inyo-PJs
    @Cj-inyo-PJs Před 9 měsíci

    I feel so lucky to have this video thanks for creating this so other people could move on with their lives

  • @Lucky_Kumar__
    @Lucky_Kumar__ Před 10 měsíci

    Thanks a lot ryan I've never thought that your simple words will help me this much thanks again

  • @Mns14788
    @Mns14788 Před 10 měsíci

    Thanks you so much! You don’t know how much your video helped me in this ordeal. 2 days in trying to internalize your advice, especially the last part, I was already trying to get myself busy with something else and not searching anything dpdr-related. In the midst of keeping myself busy,I suddenly felt a weird sensation in my ears as if it’s unclogging air out. It was the best feeling ever! it felt like my brain just made a big burp. (Note: i was having headaches, light sensitivity, tunnel vision, brain fog and clogged ears apart from feeling disconnected to reality). I felt my physical symptoms decreased heaps after that. I guess the physical symptoms alleviate when we give a break obsessing on it. I am not sure how to quantify my recovery at the moment, though I feel a lot better,braver and more hopeful. Your video gave me a stronger sense of chance in beating this condition to ashes. I am overjoyed to have found a very sincere, straight forward video. My prayers and thoughts are with all of you. We have hope! Good luck to us all!

  • @lovagast
    @lovagast Před 11 měsíci

    thank you ryan

  • @Joelucas210
    @Joelucas210 Před 11 měsíci

    Made me smile for the first time in days, him saying "you" makes it feel like a personal message, anyone going through this knows it can be the worst feeling in the world to feel like this, so I appreciate this video so much

  • @Harshmallowy
    @Harshmallowy Před 11 měsíci

    love u man, this is my second time going through it from pot and i will let this be my last time. im out

  • @gmaxex93
    @gmaxex93 Před rokem

    Bro do you have a channel where you actively post videos? Loved your video, You are amazing!

  • @kraustattoo2051
    @kraustattoo2051 Před rokem

    You hit the right point. Ive read every possible article on Google, read every self help book, tried every technique found on CZcams, searched every religion, got baptized, did exorcisms, multiple, read everything from buddhism to islam, from stoicism to every possible mental health clinic in my country, got an hypnosession for 800 dollars, tried every supplement, everything. It was so severe that as a boxer my whole life afraid of nothing my dad need to sleep with me in my room for months, when i even had my own House with my wife, she divorced me. All Day and night i tried to get better and RESEARCHING and doing finding the right technique, ive read and studied every religion and online mysticus and tried to copy them. Until i watched this video that was recommanded by the national drugs info team in my country. It was brought in by dmt and weed. This hit me and this was going on for 4,5 years 24/7 non stop and boom i realised that all the research, all the religious and spiritual stuff was the cause of this what Made me Crazy. If a normal person would searched and study this stuff and symptoms and viewing all this CZcams video’s about satan and God and indoctrination and psychedelic entities and video’s about the world is not real they would go Crazy to, and the people making that kind of video’s need more help and therapy that you do. 200% recovered, and i was impossible for 4,5 years. The internet and endless search are conditioning you into thinking its not possible to recover, especially comment section. The dp and anxiety is not making you crazy, the research does. BELIEVE me, in realer than real. You must see clear that what you are doing (research, going within, praying, forgiving, seeking truth, trying to recover all Day, following courses and mooji sadghuru Eckhart Tolle David goggins people getting ‘saved’ by a religious figure you name that and them is making you Crazy) and again. Psychologists are looking at you If your kind of Crazy when you Tell them your symptoms because they do not understand. My anxiety was so severe they called it a psychosis and gave me meds what ruined me more. Stop all this bullshit what you are doing and you will be Yourself 100% garantueed. otherwise you would have been recovered long ago if this video’s and techniques would have helped. Bye internet ✌🏻 thanks bro

  • @sarah-jt8ts
    @sarah-jt8ts Před rokem

    happens to those of us with anxiety. scariest time of my life but i’m glad to say i made it out:) he’s right, once u accept it and don’t pay any attention to it whatsoever it will begin to fade