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Emotional Odyssey
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Registrace 28. 04. 2024
đ©âđŒ psychologist/emotional counselor
đïž 10 Years of Experience
â€ïž Self-Healing
đ Emotional Well-being
Most of the difficulties encountered in life essentially stem from one's insufficient understanding.
đïž 10 Years of Experience
â€ïž Self-Healing
đ Emotional Well-being
Most of the difficulties encountered in life essentially stem from one's insufficient understanding.
Unlocking Happiness Through Your Personality
For more detailed information, you can refer to Adler's works on self psychology.
0:00 The Divide Between Function and Personality
2:00 The Formation of Psychological Trauma
6:12 The Essence of Happiness
#emotional #psychology #psychologyfacts
0:00 The Divide Between Function and Personality
2:00 The Formation of Psychological Trauma
6:12 The Essence of Happiness
#emotional #psychology #psychologyfacts
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The Premise of True Love: Letting Go of Idealization
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The material in the video is drawn from the first volume of "The Attachment Trilogy," titled "Attachment," which explores the essence of the mother-infant relationship. 0:00 Freedom from idealisation 0:50 The Origin of Idealization as a Defense Mechanism 1:47 The Premise of True Love: Letting Go of Idealization 5:02 Moving Towards Healthy Relationships #emotional #psychology #psychologyfacts
Treating Love Brain: The Journey from Misunderstandingto Self-Healing
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0:00 Understanding the Complexity of Love Brain Behavior 5:14 How to Get Rid of Love Brain #emotional #psychology #psychologyfacts
Why does one become emotionally unstable when in love
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0:00 Why does one become emotionally unstable when in love 3:50 how do we solve the problem #emotional #psychology #psychologyfacts
Why would he, who was emotionally stable in the early stage, attract you so much?
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The concept of avoidant attachment was first developed by British psychologist John Bowlby in his mid-20th century theories of attachment. In his study of the parent-child relationship between infants and mothers, he found that infants' dependence and security on their mothers was crucial to the development of mental health. 0:00 The Appeal of Emotional Stability in Avoidant Attachment 0:29 Fro...
The loved are always loved, the abused are always abused
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Freud first introduced the concept of the Oedipus complex in his 1899 book, The Interpretation of Dreams. 0:00 The Cycle of Love and Abuse 3:39 How to break the cycle #psychology #emotional #psychologyfacts
It's the people who haven't been loved properly who objectify themselves
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0:00 The Impact of Self-Objectification on Relationships 0:29 Two Common Behaviors in Objectifying Relationships 4:34 Fundamental Needs in Relationships #psychology #emotional #psychologyfacts
Why do we become wildly infatuated with someone?
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#psychology #emotional #psychologyfacts
Self-consistency is the source of ultimate charm
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The theory of the "true self" and "false self" in the video originates from the psychological master Donald Winnicott. 0:00 Understanding True Self vs. False Self 1:56 Results Do Not Define You 2:54 Avoiding Self-Comparison 3:39 Asserting Your Authenticity #emotional #psychology #psychologyfacts
Relationship PainStems from Contract Disappointment
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The theory of "psychological contract," also known as contract disappointment, was introduced by the renowned American organizational psychologist Professor Chris Argyris and later refined by scholars like Levinson. 0:00 Contract Disappointment in Relationships 0:53 Eager for Resolution in Conflicts 2:25 Struggle with Partner's Imperfections 3:52 High Expectations of Partner 5:09 Summaries #emo...
The premise of loving yourself is to allow yourself to make mistakes
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#emotional #The Psychology of Love #psychology #emotionalresonance 0:00 Introduction 0:30 A few specific behaviors of perfectionists in intimate relationships 3:17 The formation of perfectionist tendencies 4:03 Embracing Imperfections: Path to Self-Love
Being too nice to someone can make them âbadâ
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Some of the theories and content in the article are derived from Bert Hellinger's "Love's Hidden Symmetry" 0:00 The Paradox of Innocence in Relationships 0:32 Why a sense of innocence can often cause pain in your relationships 2:39 How to break out cycle of innocence 3:51 Embracing Self-Worth in Love #emotional #psychology #psychologyfacts
How can someone who has lacked love since childhood learn to love themselves
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#emotional #psychology #psychologyfacts 0:00 Introduction 0:04 Signs of Lack of Self-Love 0:45 How can a person who lacks love learn to love themselves? 2:42 How's that for real self-improvement?
How do you let go of an obsession with someone?
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In Jung's view, a complex is a collection of images and ideas centered around an archetypal core, imbued with a specific emotional tone. Once a complex is triggered and starts to exert its influence, it can have a highly emotional impact on a person's psyche and behavior, regardless of whether they are aware of it. This influence can even become "dominant." Strong emotions such as love or hate,...
Why does the more you give, the harder it is for the other person to love you?
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#emotional #psychology #psychologyfacts
To understand a man, you must first konw his fears
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To understand a man, you must first konw his fears
Why are lNFJs considered the most indifferent personality type?
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Why are lNFJs considered the most indifferent personality type?
Thank God that there is neuroplasticity
Hi! I really enjoyed your videos especially on relationships and self development. Do you have any books to recommend besides attachment trilogy? I couldnât really find the book actually
What Life Should Mean to You
Hey man, you have a great insight in this video! It would be nice if you showed your face and used your real voice, and not just an AI generated one! I've watched a few videos on your channel, and I can see it has great potential! It's really important in today's world to show you're a real person who creates real content, based on real knowledge, and not just AI generated nonsense! Keep up the good work! đ
Your partner is upset you donât have something for you both to do this weekend. You ask what would you like to do. Theyâre then disappointed that youâre not surprising them with a plan. You create, ask, pay for a plan which they then judge. You want to connect, youâre willing to give. They contribute nothing. Occasionally they spontaneously surprise you. You roll with it. You donât show up late. You have no choice. You donât judge or complain. What would be the point. Its really all about their needs. You need your efforts appreciated by reciprocation or you stop making them. Then the only relationship you have is no relationship.
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I canât stop thinking about her, Iâve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, Iâm frustrated, I donât see my life with anyone else. Iâve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I canât, I donât know why Iâm saying this here, I really miss her and just canât stop thinking about her.
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
Oh poor me, my mommy & daddy didn't love me enough, so I'm going to be nice to everyone hoping to secretly control them with good works & deeds! What a huge pile of garbage & psy vomit!!! It's not that freak'n complicated... I'm nice and do nice things cuz it feels good. Sometimes, that thing that looks like a duck, walks like a duck and quacks like a duck really is a freak'n DUCK!!!
In my opinion the premise of true love puts a lot of pressure on people to find the perfect match, but relationships, like individuals, are not meant to be perfect. The question is, is a relationship worth maintaining or not?
ouch - this is good... and me...
Not for me if he is not giver bye đ
You are a narcist.
This is narcisim.
@@T.K.Wellington1996 call it what u want I take only a giver thats all
For many this still doesnât matter. Mobbers hate you if you are the looser or if you are the best. If you are rich or poor. If you self developed or not. The problem is your distinguished horoscope and a society ruled on mediocracy. Who wants the guy who healed from traumas?!
Give something to somebody with pure intention to please Allah not to please anyone or you yourself.This is the true Give and take policy.
So true, my ex bombed me with gifts and expected me to please him emotionally in return, this was so uncomfortable, no wonder our relationship didn't last for long.
Thank for sharing your wisdom ,i have request can you teaching us how to lower defensive attitude of a person because now days we are becoming more self absorbed
Thank you for your kind words! I am currently creating a course on this topic. Please follow me so you don't miss it.
We create what we hate. I've tried to explain this reality over and over again, but to someone that doesn't have to deal with it, it simply doesn't make sense it. This also enables the cycle to continue because to most "you are the problem" seen as toxic and bad luck. However, that's not the truth. We just haven't been properly loved and cared for. Still, those that are "healthy" don't want to be involved with that. I believe this is part of why so many now are choosing to be alone.
âNo good deed goes unpunishedâ
Wow Iâve listened to a lot of Trauma childhood podcasts and yes my husband of 36 years wasnât or willing to address these issues he was addicted to porn had Madonna complex made for a very tense unhealthy marriage Iâm still working thru my own issues of why I made choices not healthy for me
If the other person has no need for it I won't bother and it won't affect me. However, when you give it is right for it to appreciated, what is life without appreciation? The Lord gave us life and we appreciate him every day for it. And he does more.
The material in the video is drawn from the first volume of "The Attachment Trilogy," titled "Attachment," which explores the essence of the mother-infant relationship.
Hi! Your wisdom and understanding of Human nature is a gem. Keep it going! and Thank you so much. Just a quick question can you share your thoughts on how to understand our own needs and also how to discover them. Your reply is much appreciated!
@@ivanespiloy2348 Thank you so much for your kind words! Understanding and analyzing our own emotional and psychological needs requires systematic learning. Once we have a solid foundational framework, we can address these issues correctly. I'll be releasing a series of videos on this topic soon, so stay tuned!
I finally have overcome this by doing deep inner work. Iâm becoming wildly successful in my career and surpassing anyone in my family. Iâm hoping I can find a loving romantic relationship, but if not, Iâm just glad Iâm no longer in an abusive relationship and survived to live life. đ«¶
You more describe entire consumeristic society ...then just "* her parents". We live in a very fast and thus superficial society , where speed determines : a lack of time to go into some depth ... . so Entire society is Superficial Narcissistic Manipulative Exploitative and Additionaly ... full of nice , positive TALK =[(*gaslighting). Good Luck đ
The problem is that sometimes the abused find a great person but they get them out of their life because of fear or traumas.
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Amazingly succinct - I like your style.
Thank you! This is so brilliant!
Experienced every bit of it, learnt it on my own tho. And fixed a lot of those issues but I had to go through hell to understand that.
Love
Thanks for knowledge đ€ I am learning a lot about this manipulative world.
Thanks! That is one of the best lessons anyone can learn. Anyhow, chasing people drives them away. And over-graciousness erodes self respect.
This is true because it took me three years to get up on my feet and stable and always from our toxic household.
"Niceness" in a nutshell:
This sums up my relationship with my mother. Her making me favours I don't need and didn't ask for so that she could feel happy, needed and me to feel guilty and obliged to her. And I can't repay ever - first of all its exhausting. Secondly, I didn't need her to cook me dinner. I didn't need her to come to my house. I didn't need her to clean my windows. I didn't need her to carry heavy packages - I just needed a moment to do it safely by myself but instead I just had to witness her pain as she was walking. Thanks mom! Good thing is at least I recognize these subconscious manipulations even when she doesn't. So I can turn off my guilt really quick. But I still can't forget how she made me cry for trying to help her carry a packet with things. So much aggression for trying for help that I bowled my eyes out. And that's the reason I don't help her anymore - I was taught that helping is bad, it's a conflict and its always an emotional stress
Life is so complicated
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I might be over-giving likes here, on youtube, đđđ
I definitely enjoy the series
Thank you so much for enjoying the series! Your likes and comments are the greatest encouragement and support for me.
A lot of BS being thrown around here. Generosity is the essence of humanity and empathy. Too bad it is at odds with a culture of individualism. Individualism leads to narcissism Narcissists cannot deal with their own shame when they need help. It is not the fault of the giver who gives from their heart.
So true!
Omg this is tooo much misleading to be an a nice person can force someone to be the bad person this is a very creative joke! Are u serious not all theory applied in human behaviours in psychology what kind of nonsense it is ! If you deal with people in integrity and value them it's clear indication that this is the treat you want to yourself! A person who can not bare to be low educated emotionally and less consideration over and over will admit to be the bad person to cut the road and the effort for himself to start from the basics ..we all know people who is not mature emotionally no one will last with them even if you start yalling and say what is your right! They will still use it against you when they feel in danger or angery of you ! Or you pissed them off ..those people don't want to make the work for themselves and from wisdom to see the end of road before it's start and not wish someone will change by time or for you ! You are overthinking of yourself when you think like that we all know the bad and the right and yes we are Human we can flip side here to there but to cut the road and not elevate or self and mind intellectually or emotionally and say this their problem they didn't ask for what they want they where super nice and they want to be perfect okay I will do the job and be the bad person for them ! Can you imagine how cruel and not mature that can be the person who is kind and polite and considerate he is the one whom will bring to himself the problems in this life and can't find way of his happiness because of an idiot people constantly doing wrong and don't want to do the job for themselves and be considerate.. it's basic in all over the world in all religions and cultures whom is doing the right thing and say the right thing and act in kind way and understandable way they will be rewarded with peaceful mind soul and even life afterwards..no one is perfect so people whom they are acting bad should understand that not the way back ! Me myself if i saw an understandable person a kind person a nice person I will respect his way in living and I will respect his decision in whatever he wants even if I saw that he shouldn't be upset on such situation but if that how he look like I will respect his desire to exclude me from his life ..the world now is exploding with narcissistic people psychopaths and etc.. it's going down day by day wars killing manipulation we need to stand and embrace goodness in people and protect and stand with people in need ..if we feed people minds with this and am not talking about the nice people the bad people this is like a green light to be worse if they saw a sense of honesty or kindness cause this their fault
That make so much sense, a bit too late for me tho But thanks for the wise advice â€
Morality has two pillars: 1. Reciprocity (Fairness), 2. Compassion (Empathy). So think and act accordingly.
@@meeckemann5692 this
Enlightening đđ
Thank you so much â„ïž
Pleasers attract controllers
Excellent video
Very informative, thank you.
Thank you! †And this is exactly the eneagram number 2 personally! đ đą
If someone gave a lot I would reciprocate and match their effort. But people are unappreciative hence stupid.
Confusing
You harvest what you sow. It is not confusing, motivations are different from achievements. Some might get success by the way of suffering, while others become successful by the way of love.
I think the main takeaway from this video is that giving must be done altruistically other than transactional relationship. I give you Super Thanks $ and hope you don't mind replying with a "Thanks!" or even a longer reply. đ
When do you feel like overgiving? When you slightly start to resent the other for not reciprocating! That's the moment i stop everything and fill my own cupâ€
Woww! Spot on.