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Chastity Palmer
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Hey there and welcome! This channel features lifestyle videos focused on relationships, motherhood and style. The aim is to create a safe space for candid conversations about these areas. I hope you enjoy!
Pregnancy Announcement | Third baby boy Lavar Ball Parody - Chastity Palmer
We're pregnant! Yep, you read that right, and we're having ANOTHER boy! I'm a boy mom for real but couldn't be more excited for our little family to...well....not be so little! Haha. Check out our pregnancy announcement and share it with someone if it makes you laugh :-)
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I Tested Positive for COVID While Pregnant | My experience with COVID during my 3rd trimester
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In my third trimester of pregnancy, I tested positive for COVID-19. To this day I can't believe I got the coronavirus while pregnant. This week, I'm giving you the rundown on symptoms, and the emotional impact I didn't anticipate. Check it out and share your reactions in the comments section. VIDEO MARKERS: - How I got it 1:07 - Symptoms 2:10 - Getting tested 3:33 - How's my family? 4:03 - How ...
Fenty Skin initial review | My thoughts on the Fenty Skincare Line (sensitive skin)
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I'm a Fenty fan! So when Rihanna dropped her new skincare line, I had to buy it! This week I'm sharing my initial thoughts on the line. I've only had the products a few days so I'll circle back in a month or so with an update. I hope you enjoy this initial review of the Fenty Skin line! Leave a comment and share your thoughts. Do you think you'll buy it? If you've already tried it, what are you...
Chemical pregnancy | My early miscarriage story, moving forward & pregnant again
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I experienced a chemical pregnancy, which is an early miscarriage and it was devastating. In this week's video I detail what happened, what I felt and how I moved forward. If you're experiencing a pregnancy loss and need someone to talk to, email me chastity@chastitypalmer.com. I'd be happy to support you. SUBSCRIBE! Subscribe to my channel for more videos, it's easy and free! Click here czcams...
Styling the Bump | Boohoo Maternity Haul 2020 - 3rd Trimester try-on
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I'm in my 3rd trimester, and I think it's so important to feel good about yourself during pregnancy. Buying just a few pieces that you really like is a great way to help boost your confidence! I'm trying on maternity clothes from BooHoo.com in this mini haul. I purchased all of these items with my own money. SUBSCRIBE! Subscribe to my channel for more videos, it's easy and free! Click here czca...
Story Time | Checking my husband's Facebook messages and what I found
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During a recent low point in my life, I decided to check my husband's messages, something I haven't done in years...and I was surprised by what I found. Here's my take on that experience and what I learned, and how I felt. Watch my video on Gender Disappointment: czcams.com/video/pI46uVRfLMw/video.html SUBSCRIBE! Subscribe to my channel for more videos, it's easy and free! Click here czcams.com...
Welcome! | Chastity Palmer
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Welcome to my channel! I create videos weekly centered around marriage/relationships, motherhood and style. I believe that with transparency and authenticity comes freedom, so I try my best to keep it 100%, even when it's tough to do. Take a look around and consider subscribing! I'd love to have you as part of the family. SUBSCRIBE! Subscribe to my channel for more videos, it's easy and free! C...
I wanted a girl! | How I got over Gender Disappointment (helpful TIPS)
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I'm pregnant with yet another baby boy! I'm elated now, but it wasn't always that way. Here are my honest feelings about learning I was having another boy, and how I got over gender disappointment. I'll give you tips that helped me move on. I also wrote a blog about gender disappointment which is available here: www.chastitychanel.com/blog-1/gender-disappointment SUBSCRIBE! Subscribe to my chan...
Prep for labor | Advocating for yourself could save your life!
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Prep for labor begins with advocating for yourself. Check out my 6 tips to help ensure your voice is heard in the labor and delivery room. RESOURCES - Birth plan template I used: www.mamanatural.com/birth-plan-template/ - CDC data: www.cdc.gov/media/releases/2019/p0905-racial-ethnic-disparities-pregnancy-deaths.html - Heart.gov article: www.heart.org/en/news/2019/02/20/why-are-black-women-at-su...
The Art of Thrifting | How to thrift shop (TIPS & TRICKS)
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Thrifting can be such an awesome way to get great clothes for an awesome price. I especially love vintage thrift shopping because of the unique pieces you can find. Join @AshleiWells (blogger, speaker and fashionista) and me as we visit one of our favorite vintage thrift stores and discuss tips for having a successful trip to a thrift store. SUBSCRIBE! Subscribe to my channel for more videos, i...
Is oil a hair moisturizer?
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So...is oil a hair moisturizer? What's the most effective way to use oil on textured hair? Check out the video for my take! Products mentioned: - Kinky Curly Knot Today - Coconut Oi - Avocado Oil - Jojoba Oil - Shea Butter Information on Andre Walker's hair typing system is available here: www.andrewalkerhair.com/v/vspfiles/templates/140/Hair-Typing-System.asp Note, 4C is a category not officia...
Are your extensions really "virgin"?
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Do you know how to tell if your extensions are really virgin? In this video, I provide tips to help you out, SUBSCRIBE! Subscribe to my channel for more videos, it's easy and free! Click here czcams.com/users/chastitychanel SOCIAL MEDIA - Instagram: @itschastitychanel - Twitter: @ChastityChanel - My blog: chastitychanel.com
Jace Beauty Russian Fede Medium to Very Coarse Straight - first look!
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Heyyyyy! I wanted to offer a quick first look at my Jace Beauty Russian Fede Medium-Very Coarse Straight hair! I absolutely LOVE this hair, its amazing quality and smells like heaven. If you have any questions let me know, I'd be happy to answer them! I'll return with another video once the wig has been created. Specs on the hair I purchased: - 2 bundles of medium to very coarse straight in med...
NO NO NO GENDER DISAPPOINTMENT IS A THING NOT EVEN SATAN HIMSELF WOULD BE OK WITH NOW WHEN YOUR BOY SEES THIS VIDEO HE WILL FEEL UNWANTED AND USELESS AND THEN HE WILL GET DEPRESSED AND IT COULD LEAD TO SELF HARM SHAME ON YOU HELL SPAWN
2 years late to the party but I’m going through this now. I’m 32 and pregnant with my first. I wanted a little girl so badly. I wanted to Elbe a better girl mom than my own mother was to me. I always grew up knowing that she didn’t plan me and wanted boy children instead. She did her best but left many gaps like not teaching me about my period, how to maneuver in male to female relationships, sex talk, how to cook and clean etc. I had so many dreams of a little girl. My husband and I even had the same dream one night of two baby girls. I wanted to teach her everything I had to learn on my own. Then after waiting 20 weeks I found out it’s a boy at a gender reveal and I was crushed, literally heart broken. I kind of knew all along because my symptoms are mild and I knew the baby was more for my husband to mature and be a better man. He wanted a boy for the same reasons I wanted a girl. I feel like I’m mourning again after losing a baby last year. Everyone seems so happy for me but I’m just numb. I don’t want to plan a nursery or shop anymore. I just want to give birth and meet him and hold him and hopefully the joy returns in my heart.
I am so sorry to hear about the fact that you felt the disappointment your mom carried. I can only imagine how hard that must have been. Here's one thing I am confident in: God knows what we need! And now you have a wonderful opportunity to do better with your son. I love my boys so so much and wouldn't change a thing. I believe you'll experience the same. It may take you some time, but I pray you receive crazy joy. The love a son has for his mommy is unlike anything else in the world. Message me any time <3
Don't understand all this gender dissapointment in the West when LGBTQ plus ( God knows how many more they will add to this in the future)., says that child as three can decide if he is a boy or girl.
I am so sorry for your chemical miscarriage. 😢. Me and my husband had been trying for a year and three weeks and got pregnant. We got very faint positive and a few hours later I started bleeding and then by the next day I had SEVERE Cramps. I have never felt such cramps before. I was bleeding for 7 days. My usual irregular periods are always 4 days. And I had constant painful pressure like pain in my whole uterus for days. I even bled jelly like slime substance that was out baby. 😢. We got a chemical miscarriage at 5 weeks. 4 weeks and 5 days. 😢. September 5th 2023. And I got some kind of ovulation like raw egg like discharge in October but No period for a whole month. I got my first period after our chemical miscarriage just last week and it lasted 6 days. Which is abnormal for me. But I guess my body was in shock after our miscarriage 😢 I miss our baby deeply and I constantly feel a broken hole inside my heart. I feel like I lost our baby and I blame myself 😢. Despite I know it wasn't my fault. I just don't understand why we had to lose our first baby that we successfully conceived together 😢😢 now we so desperately wants a rainbow baby 😢. We are considering having ivf because of how hard it is to become pregnant. And we are scared it would take another year to become pregnant again after our miscarriage 😢. We are scared. But wants a baby. So I understand how you feel 😢. It is totally heart breaking.😢 We got our first faint positive at 19DPO and my usual periods are not painful at all. I had a lot of symptoms. Like tender breasts. Severe nausea. Headaches. Tired. High temperature etc. And I sometimes regret that I tested early. I took clearblue 6 days early and got faint positive. And I was sso happy I cried uncontrollably of happiness and wantes to fly high for finally succeeding to then a few hours later discover blood in my underwear 😢 and that's when I got anxious. I prayed it was just because of pregnancy hormones. And that the bleeding would stop. But it kept going on and the next day I was on the bus with my husband and I was in the most severe pain ever. I thought my uterus was gonna rip apart. I thought I had contractions. Just like labor contractions because this excruciating cramps came and went in waves and when they reached the top / tip they were freaking excruciating!!!!!! I couldn't eat or anything. Not even breath. I felt severely nauseous too. And I just felt that the pain was different. My periods are irregular but they usually never hurt. This pain was so different. Something I never experienced before. 😢. So I even passed a beige skin colored jelly slime like substance the next day. And it was our baby. It had a tiiiiny shape of a fetus in week 5😢. And my HCG dropped immediately. Now we are trying and praying for a rainbow baby 😢❤❤
I'm so sorry that God wouldn't let you have no little girl, but we all have to take what we get,I found out a week ago during the blood draw and I'm 12 weeks pregnant now and I did it at 9weeks the blood draw and it said boy 99.1accurate and I totally freaked out and I always wanted a girl and I come from a family with girls cousins have daughterd my mom wanted 2boys but she ended up with 2girls and my dad wanted a boy so badly he ended up with 3 girls so when I hit 20 weekson the 3D ultrasound and I hope it's not true but my husband has convinced me that it's a boy.Will see about that. I felt it might be a girl but I don't know and I'm not really sure about the what's the gender right now.God blessed you ok.I hope one day you get your little princess and I can see you as a girl mom too.
Thank you! I ended up having another boy after this one 🤣🤣 and I wouldn’t change a thing. They are so special and I love them deeply. Congratulations to you!!! Praying for a safe pregnancy and delivery with no complications 🖤
I was just watching your other video about gender disappointment about your second son. Sorry girl! 💔💔💔
Lol it's totally fine, I wouldn't have it any other way! I thought I wanted a girl but I'm so happy with my boys <3
I know this is an old video but I’ve just found you and want to thank you for your honesty. It’s so refreshing ❤
Thank you!
I'm currently planning on starting to try for a baby. My first and for now only child died due to trisomy 18. And I want to have another boy. But I am sure I will love a girl too.
I was expecting a boy and found out that I’m having a girl. Although I always wanted a girl but somehow my pregnancy symptoms convinced everyone that I’m having a boy and when I found out that it’s not a boy I literally felt as if I lost the child I already bonded with. I get what you saying
My son is 20 and I was never able to bond with him. It’s not his fault. I lost my first born daughter. I wanted a daughter so bad. When I found out that he was a boy I was so devastated and I considered abortion. Gender disappointment seems to be accepted as long as you eventually accept that disappointment. But I never did. I went through the motions of motherhood. I did what was required to care for him. I faked the love and affection,but I never could bond. I stayed with my abusive ex husband for him to have a two parent home.I had a difficult pregnancy and birth and it was for naught. You couldn’t express disappointment 20 years ago much less get therapy. I have a son, but I don’t love or feel a bond with him.
I have 2 boys there was very brief gender disappointment for number 2. I love them both dearly no mom can put this into words how they feel about their children. Number 3 I was hoping would be a girl. I am the 6 child my mother had 3 boys 3 girl it seems like we each produce a specific gender and so I think I fall within the boy pool. I am heartbroken. I know it’ll pass but not sure a 4th child is on the future for us so this was it for our family. Im a boy mom and I know I’ll own it and I hope anyone else out there watches this video because it helped me so much tonight.
A lot of this has happened to a lot of people. Your being ver negative about having a boy.. is just stupid. The circumstances that either Like, you shouldn’t have to be mad at the first one. Or the second. Even though I’ve heard there’s a family that has 4 boys 0 girls, but other has happened to famous people! Matthew Staford rams quarterback, has 5 daughters. Brothers make your life better! Ask my sister!
Pregnant with my 3rd son and really struggling so thank you for sharing this Taboo topic. The hardest part for me is knowing that the people around me also feel disappointed, my mother in law especially so dealing with my own disappointment plus knowing I’ve disappointed everyone else is also hard. Even strangers make horrible comments like “oh what a shame, another boy”. It’s hard enough dealing with your own emotions, now everyone else’s too. I just want to hide from everyone
I couldn't stand that! I hated when others offered their opinion. I see it's been a year since this comment, I pray you're well and that your sweet baby boy is well. Boys are amazing and it's an honor to love on them
I’m pregnant with my first baby. I checked the Chinese calendar and it said girl but I want a boy😔😔 I’ve really been trying to be ok with it but it’s hard, I’m so happy to finally become a mother just don’t know how to feel about having a girl. I want to have another maybe two more but for sure at least one more and I’m starting to realize I may have another girl😞😞 either way I’m going to love my babies and try to give them the world… yet I still see myself longing for a boy, I’m not even sure of the gender but everyone says the Chinese calendar is very accurate so I’m already like😫😫 I appreciate you sharing this video Queen🥰 thank you!
What do you have?
Chinese calendar was 100% wrong for me lol
Love this!!! God bless you guys!
At this point ..right here...right now, I'm feeling disappointed. I'm not ungrateful but the gender I was hoping for I found out today was not. I am really crushed.
Thank you for sharing...I had a similar experience a week ago, only I had to rush to the ER with severe cramps. I knew what was happening but my mind didn't want to accept it, especially being my first pregnancy. Fast forward today has been very emotional and I keep playing the events from finding out I was pregnant to losing my baby, in my head. It may just be my hormones but like you, we're not waiting...ovulation kit is on deck!! I'm even more determined and ready to be a mommy. All I can do is to make sure I'm ready physically and mentally to carry a healthy baby.
thank you for being the voice for the ones who are Afraid to share their stories and experiences as the topic can be very challenging to discuss I myself experienced the same exact thing only differences is I felt like I was pregnant took test they showed to be negative so I brushed it off then I thought my cycle was coming only to find I was having a chemical pregnancy at about 2 weeks I knew that’s what it was because the emotions I felt after and bleeding lasted 7 days which my cycle is only 4
Thank you so much for sharing. I’ve been experiencing real depression finding out that I’m having a third son. I will love him. I love my boys so much. But I’m grieving the daughter that I dreamed of. I’m really sad.
I completely understand, I know just how you feel. It's not that you don't love this baby, it's just not what you were expecting. I just had my third baby boy and I am absolutely obsessed with him! Haha. Loving seeing my boys love on each other and their new brother. They bring me so much joy, the same will happen for you once that sweet baby arrives.
I just found out I’m having a boy. I wanted a girl more then anything. I actually have no desire to continue this pregnancy
I'm so sorry you're experiencing disappointment. Here's what I'll say, I just had my third baby boy (last child, I don't think my body can physically handle another one). I'll never have a daughter but this boy is the light of my life along with his big brothers. He's the blessing I never knew I needed. I can't imagine life without him. I pray the same is true for you the moment you lay eyes on your sweet baby <3. Message me anytime if you need someone to talk to.
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Omg, I needed this. pregnant with my third boy. After finding out it was a boy, I told myself, wow, I'm never going have a daughter and got sad. I'm 40, I told myself this will be my last pregnancy and It happened unexpected. But I love my boys, they are so awesome.
I totally feel you! Just had my third baby boy 2 weeks ago but when I tell you my heart is so full! I am so thankful for my boys, their relationship with each other. I wouldn’t change a thing 🖤🖤
This was adorable 🥰
I have two girls and the anxiety relating to my desire for a son is so out of control I’ve been avoiding looking at the results of my third baby’s gender. I still don’t know because I’m not ready to find out it’s a third girl. I would be devastated.
What do you have?
I have 2 boys and I am expecting a third baby. I am thinking that Maybe I should not find out the gender until birth just to avoid the gender disapointment. Cannot be sad when the baby is laying on my chest anyway.
I totally get it and had the same thought! I was too anxious though so I had to know the gender lol. I was sad that I won’t have a daughter for a moment but now I’m super excited about having 3 boys. Praying a safe pregnancy and delivery for you!
Boy or girl
@@cicislife1147 it was another boy.
@@nanni84 congrats! I'm pregnant with my girl after 3 boys!
@@cicislife1147 Congratulations! I had my third c-section and got sterilized this time, so no more babies here.
Needed to see this as I’m here 20weeks pregnant with my second boy found out through blood test didn’t confirm on ultrasound yet and I was shocked because I longed for a girl before I could remember I love my first born son and said it would be the best to just have the pair, this pregnancy was so different and I got caught up in all the old wives tale that hinted girl, I just felt it in my spirit it was, I wanted a girl because I lost my mom when I was a teen and didn’t get to have that mom and daughter bond I missed that so I thought I would have that if I ever get a daughter, I think the Hardest for me is going shopping and seeing the little girls section I get really emotional. I Am trying to cope now visioning both my son matching and them growing close as brothers it does help, & I really don’t know if I will try for #3 as I’m scared it might be a boy again.
The feminine energy. Passing the wisdom through sisterhood. Those milestones unique to our gender. It is only natural a woman wants to give this to her daughter and a father to his son. Nonetheless, the relationship with your son will be one of the greatest in the world but definitely understand that need and i think almost every woman has it
THIS, THIS, ALL OF THIS!!!!!! Baby boy came and I'm actually expecting my THIRD boy haha. Can't wait to meet him and watch my boys grow together. They bring me great joy
I’ve never had a kid but I want a daughter very badly and I’ve dealt with being extremely terrified of having a boy, because honestly pregnancy and childbirth sound like things I do not want to have to do more than once to get a daughter lol. Anyway, something that helps me a LOT is to remember that gender literally will not determine anything about your child’s personality. Like, even if you ended up getting the gender you wanted in your baby, even still then you have to remember that this idealized vision of your life and their life is made up. Yes, girls usually have a set of feminine traits and characters and the same goes for boys with masculine characteristics, but that’s also a result of the way we raise kids to fall into their gender norms. If you envisioned talking about boy crushes with your daughter, or helping her dress up for prom, or buying dolls and girly clothes for her or whatever, just remember that your kid could be gay first of all, your kid could end up not identifying with their gender assignment from birth, or your kid could simply just not cater to traditional gender roles. Most likely, they won’t cater to gender norms in all the exact ways you expect them to. The gender of your baby will not determine their personality or the experiences you have with them growing up, but again, your feelings are valid and this is still a hard thing to come to terms with sometimes. Gender disappointment is very real but I think the sooner we try to dismantle heteronormativity and cis-normativity, the better off both we and our children are
Thanks for sharing it going through this right now it’s soooo tough :(
Thank you for this video I am 27 weeks and I tested positive . Glad your ok
I’m 30 weeks and just tested positive 😔
Beautiful boys 💙 I want one x
They’re pretty darn amazing, I have a third one coming 🥰
@@ChastityPalmer @Chastity Palmer dayum. Just Y chromosomes over there huh? I'm expecting my first child (girl), and we both really wanted a boy. But seeing so many people want girls is comforting. I guess in the end we're raising humans, that's all that matters
@@krueltality right!!! Clearly I’m meant to be a boy mom 🤣🤣🤣. Congrats on your baby girl!! I promise all the things we thought we want go out the window when we see that baby. Wishing you guys well!
I went through this two weeks ago. Its good to know that there are women out there who totally understand what it feels like. 💕 wishing you all the best and healthy babies in the future.
I am 26 weeks and just got positive results today. I have had very mild symptoms so far, minor headache, cough a couple times a day, sneezing, my worst most severe symptoms are stuffy nose and complete loss of taste and smell. All the stuff on the news is only about the increased risk of hospitalization, death, stillbirth, preterm labor, and it is scaring the crap out of me! I want to stay vigilant and make sure I watch myself closely, but it is so helpful to watch videos of people who went through it, are okay, babies are okay, and thank you so much for sharing your experience. I know it has helped me, and appears many others in the comments have been helped in some way as well.
Same here I just stop Looking at the news because it’s so depressing and I’m 30 weeks and tested positive this video helps so much can’t wait till it’s over . How are you feeling?
@@vibingwithj9457 I got over my infection a few weeks ago. Luckily my case was very mild..... but now a couple weeks later I feel totally fine! The news and even the doctors tend to stick with the worst case scenarios for pregnant women.... and the information for the mild cases just doesn't get shared! I am 30 weeks now too, 26 when I tested positive, and me and baby boy are doing great! I wish you the best of luck, and hope you and your little one get through this with minor symptoms! Since I recovered I've heard about so many other pregnant women with good outcomes! I feel like the worrying about worst case scenarios was the worst part for me by far! So just try not to worry mama! And just be "alert not anxious" as Dr Mike says, lol like if you feel off, or feel any difficulty breathing, or you notice any changes in the babies movements or anything don't hesitate to go in to be safe... but as long as you stay feeling comfortable, try not to freak yourself out like I did!!
@@LeftieLoosie Thank you so much 😊
@@vibingwithj9457 feel better soon!! Sounds like we are due around the same time, so I imagine you are uncomfortable BEFORE covid... so take it easy and try and get some rest!!!
@@LeftieLoosie Thank you and you too
Hey hun!.. I came across your channel this morning. I'm on my way to my appointment to find out the gender. I prayed for a girl. I've even had dreams about a baby girl.. If it's a boy I'm going to be devastated. But those are just my feelings and we all have a right to feel how we feel.. wish me luck lol..
What did u find out,,,,my appointment is on Monday, am scared, I want a girl too, i already have a son
@@godliveratieno8401 I am having a boy. I'm having a hard time processing it. It's on my mind constantly. I never wanted anymore children and I took every precaution not to get pregnant but I'm guessing god had other plans. But I said well since I'm pregnant I pray it's a girl. I just never wanted a boy, like ever.. My first is a girl. She is 12. When I found out I was pregnant I asked the lord why me? After my first pregnancy years ago I just never wanted any more kids. My pregnancy was great, labor was a breeze. I just didnt want another unplanned pregnancy with a man. And I wanted to be married. I cant lie and say abortion didnt cross my mind because it did.. I made appointments but everytime something came up with my job and i couldn't make it. I never believed in abortion before and I just felt like I needed one. To me 2 kids is too many. My career is going like I need it, I just moved into my new place, my daughter will be 18 in a few years and I just didnt want to start all over again. I'm financially stable to raise another child but another child just wasnt in my future at this point. I hate to say this but I already had a disconnection with the pregnancy to begin with and now that it's a boy I definitely have a HUGE problem with it. When I was in the room all I wanted the tech to do was cut the baby out of me. I know I sound like a bad mom but these are things women dont discuss "out loud"... society wants us to be supermoms and hold it together but nah we have a vision of our life and children as well. I can't call another woman selfish for not wanting kids and I dont think another woman should scold me for just wanting one and be done. I already had a girl and that's what I wanted again since the lord gave me this child. The dad is super excited. (Eventhough I think he put a hole in the condom smh.) We are not together just close friends. He was already talking about he wanted another child so I shouldnt have had sex with him anyway.. (stupid of me). Girl I'm just really going through the motions. His dad is constantly on the road working and I am always at work as well.. (police officer). I love what i do.. I just hate that I I gotten pregnant to begin with. I'm going to seek therapy or counseling. I just hate this from the very start. I bawled my eyes out back in july when I took the test. I just couldn't believe it and from then on I just felt like I was not myself and I dont acknowledge the pregnancy at all. I'm due in march and I still havent told anyone. I am very active, I work out daily, I am active in my community, I'm always on the go, My daughter have her extracurricular activities that she do but another child just didnt fit in. I love my life the way it was before.. any advice is appreciated. I havent talked to anyone about this. I thought about just giving him to his dad once he is born. I'm getting my tubes tied right after birth. I cry/suffer in silence, the less I think about the pregnancy the better off I am. My reality is shattered. My vision or the picture I created in my mind is gone. All the signs were there about me having a girl. I at least wanted something out of this so I can feel okay about the pregnancy. I just feel "blah".. I asked the lord to please take this baby away when I first found out back in july. I had high hopes for a miscarriage. But by 12 weeks I was like well it's not going to happen. I didnt want to abort the baby on my own. I just wanted God to take it back. I'm sorry for the rant lol. But I just needed to give you the entire run down of why I feel this way to begin with. I will be fine in due time. I have a journal I write my thoughts in to God. I have grown closer to him than I was before. On the ultrasound the baby was moving and started covering his face. I said "awe look at him", but it was back to reality that he wasnt a girl.. Yep I'm going to need some therapy on this issue for sure. When I go to stores and see baby girl clothes I just get mad. I had a name picked out for her and clothing fo the delivery. I'm mourning a dream/vision. I dont even bring up the child just the vision of me having another baby girl. Sending "baby girl dust" your way.. thanks for reading I know it's long lol.
@@sunniedays5074 How are things?
@@nishahaymond6711 Heyy!! Things are going great thanks to the good LORD!. I gave birth April 11th he was 9 pounds. I had him vaginally lol. I looked at him and said "this was the blessing I didnt know I needed". He is so chill and laid back lol. He smiles at my corny jokes hahaha. Me and my daughter cant stop picking him up and playing with him. I returned to work and hate that I have to because all I want to do is be at home with my kids lol. He is so chunky!. Oh yeah im scheduled for my tubal ligation so no more babies for me. Lol. Thanks for reaching out☺
OMG I just gotten over it and I had it BAD bad coughing headache body aches fever no smell no taste extremely tired throwing up diaherra and then couldn't breath then it turned into phenomena and that sucked I could not breath I got it and it was so so so bad I would never wish this on anyone I am also 26 week's pregnant it was horrible.
Oh my God this is seriously my fear right now. I am 26 weeks.... positive for covid. I am so scared! How is your pregnancy now that you've recovered? When did your symptoms become severe? I have a stuffy nose, no taste or small, and a very very mild cough. No fever. 3 days into symptoms.
I just found out I’m having a boy and cried. My husband was so happy. I knew he wanted a boy deep down! Lol he said he wanted a girl the whole time. I’m secretly hoping the ultrasound was wrong since I’m only 15 weeks. It’s my first baby. I want a girl just so I have 1. I only want 2 kids so I feel more pressure.
I just tested positive for covid today and I’m around 36 weeks pregnant. My fever have been going for 4-5 days now and I cough very badly. It’s suck to have covid during pregnancy because I have difficulty breathing at night and can’t sleep. I’m glad you post this video up at least I don’t feel alone.
This is hilarious!
Congratulations 😍
You could name your baby and call it Jonathan, Christian or Sebastian because it has great meanings and so that it doesn't get boring. What do you think.
I am 8 months pregnant i cough alot.. alot... its dry cough. I feel shortness of breath what should I do ? Can i take some medicine for the cough?
I’m 36 weeks will be 37 weeks when I see my doctor due to being positive for covid when I go in I’d definitely want to be induced but will they ??
I'm not certain, but I'd say give your doctor a call and ask. They may not want you to come in depending on if you're still positive but they should be able to clarify over the phone. Praying for you!
I really needed this! Just found out I'm having a boy. Super disappointed but still grateful he's healthy
Thank you for sharing. Currently experiencing a loss. Learned the day my grandmother passed and the day before my first ultrasound that I was having a miscarriage. Still trying to process. But your story was encouraging
I'm so, so sorry you're experiencing this. I know the pain is crazy. I'm praying for you right now and would love to support you however I can. <3
Thank you for this 🧡
Just found out ur vedio thnk you❤️... Yes I am dealing with this situation right now... 1 already have 2 Boy...and now I pregnant with 3rd child which is a boy.. I am very shock and disappointed... I cried very hard when I found out this a boy... I don't know why I feel this ways..i really really want a baby girl.. Because I know I can't effort with another child... 😭😭
I'm pregnant with my first, and I've always envisioned having a girl. I found out today that it's a boy and I've cried several times. I feel guilty for being upset, I know it's something that will pass. I'm about to try the shopping tip! Thank you for talking about gender disappointment!
Same here! I found out today that it is a male baby and I am feeling sad! Everyone keeps saying “he will be a big brother for your girl!” and that makes me so upset. We only want one baby, and I always wanted a girl.
I wanted a boy 💙😩 but I am pregnant with a girl and no lie I’m a bit disappointed but I know she will bring me joy and healing 💕
Update? I’m going through this pain and disappointment I can’t stop cryin
Three weeks ago, I found out we are expecting our second son. I cried the whole weekend, because I wanted it to be a girl this time for all the reasons you mentioned. Thanks for making this video. 💙
@@gisellaaupair Big hug to you from Belgium! It ‘ll get better, I promise! 💙
@@gisellaaupair It is illegal in Belgium, but I heard of people doing IVF based in just gender in Cyprus and Malta. It costs a lot of money though, but I would also consider probably.
I have 2 boys 1 girl and sneakpeak says boy 😭