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NO NO NO GENDER DISAPPOINTMENT IS A THING NOT EVEN SATAN HIMSELF WOULD BE OK WITH NOW WHEN YOUR BOY SEES THIS VIDEO HE WILL FEEL UNWANTED AND USELESS AND THEN HE WILL GET DEPRESSED AND IT COULD LEAD TO SELF HARM SHAME ON YOU HELL SPAWN

2 years late to the party but I’m going through this now. I’m 32 and pregnant with my first. I wanted a little girl so badly. I wanted to Elbe a better girl mom than my own mother was to me. I always grew up knowing that she didn’t plan me and wanted boy children instead. She did her best but left many gaps like not teaching me about my period, how to maneuver in male to female relationships, sex talk, how to cook and clean etc. I had so many dreams of a little girl. My husband and I even had the same dream one night of two baby girls. I wanted to teach her everything I had to learn on my own. Then after waiting 20 weeks I found out it’s a boy at a gender reveal and I was crushed, literally heart broken. I kind of knew all along because my symptoms are mild and I knew the baby was more for my husband to mature and be a better man. He wanted a boy for the same reasons I wanted a girl. I feel like I’m mourning again after losing a baby last year. Everyone seems so happy for me but I’m just numb. I don’t want to plan a nursery or shop anymore. I just want to give birth and meet him and hold him and hopefully the joy returns in my heart.

Don't understand all this gender dissapointment in the West when LGBTQ plus ( God knows how many more they will add to this in the future)., says that child as three can decide if he is a boy or girl.

I am so sorry for your chemical miscarriage. 😢. Me and my husband had been trying for a year and three weeks and got pregnant. We got very faint positive and a few hours later I started bleeding and then by the next day I had SEVERE Cramps. I have never felt such cramps before. I was bleeding for 7 days. My usual irregular periods are always 4 days. And I had constant painful pressure like pain in my whole uterus for days. I even bled jelly like slime substance that was out baby. 😢. We got a chemical miscarriage at 5 weeks. 4 weeks and 5 days. 😢. September 5th 2023. And I got some kind of ovulation like raw egg like discharge in October but No period for a whole month. I got my first period after our chemical miscarriage just last week and it lasted 6 days. Which is abnormal for me. But I guess my body was in shock after our miscarriage 😢 I miss our baby deeply and I constantly feel a broken hole inside my heart. I feel like I lost our baby and I blame myself 😢. Despite I know it wasn't my fault. I just don't understand why we had to lose our first baby that we successfully conceived together 😢😢 now we so desperately wants a rainbow baby 😢. We are considering having ivf because of how hard it is to become pregnant. And we are scared it would take another year to become pregnant again after our miscarriage 😢. We are scared. But wants a baby. So I understand how you feel 😢. It is totally heart breaking.😢 We got our first faint positive at 19DPO and my usual periods are not painful at all. I had a lot of symptoms. Like tender breasts. Severe nausea. Headaches. Tired. High temperature etc. And I sometimes regret that I tested early. I took clearblue 6 days early and got faint positive. And I was sso happy I cried uncontrollably of happiness and wantes to fly high for finally succeeding to then a few hours later discover blood in my underwear 😢 and that's when I got anxious. I prayed it was just because of pregnancy hormones. And that the bleeding would stop. But it kept going on and the next day I was on the bus with my husband and I was in the most severe pain ever. I thought my uterus was gonna rip apart. I thought I had contractions. Just like labor contractions because this excruciating cramps came and went in waves and when they reached the top / tip they were freaking excruciating!!!!!! I couldn't eat or anything. Not even breath. I felt severely nauseous too. And I just felt that the pain was different. My periods are irregular but they usually never hurt. This pain was so different. Something I never experienced before. 😢. So I even passed a beige skin colored jelly slime like substance the next day. And it was our baby. It had a tiiiiny shape of a fetus in week 5😢. And my HCG dropped immediately. Now we are trying and praying for a rainbow baby 😢❤❤

I'm so sorry that God wouldn't let you have no little girl, but we all have to take what we get,I found out a week ago during the blood draw and I'm 12 weeks pregnant now and I did it at 9weeks the blood draw and it said boy 99.1accurate and I totally freaked out and I always wanted a girl and I come from a family with girls cousins have daughterd my mom wanted 2boys but she ended up with 2girls and my dad wanted a boy so badly he ended up with 3 girls so when I hit 20 weekson the 3D ultrasound and I hope it's not true but my husband has convinced me that it's a boy.Will see about that. I felt it might be a girl but I don't know and I'm not really sure about the what's the gender right now.God blessed you ok.I hope one day you get your little princess and I can see you as a girl mom too.

I was just watching your other video about gender disappointment about your second son. Sorry girl! 💔💔💔

I know this is an old video but I’ve just found you and want to thank you for your honesty. It’s so refreshing ❤

I'm currently planning on starting to try for a baby. My first and for now only child died due to trisomy 18. And I want to have another boy. But I am sure I will love a girl too.

I was expecting a boy and found out that I’m having a girl. Although I always wanted a girl but somehow my pregnancy symptoms convinced everyone that I’m having a boy and when I found out that it’s not a boy I literally felt as if I lost the child I already bonded with. I get what you saying

My son is 20 and I was never able to bond with him. It’s not his fault. I lost my first born daughter. I wanted a daughter so bad. When I found out that he was a boy I was so devastated and I considered abortion. Gender disappointment seems to be accepted as long as you eventually accept that disappointment. But I never did. I went through the motions of motherhood. I did what was required to care for him. I faked the love and affection,but I never could bond. I stayed with my abusive ex husband for him to have a two parent home.I had a difficult pregnancy and birth and it was for naught. You couldn’t express disappointment 20 years ago much less get therapy. I have a son, but I don’t love or feel a bond with him.

I have 2 boys there was very brief gender disappointment for number 2. I love them both dearly no mom can put this into words how they feel about their children. Number 3 I was hoping would be a girl. I am the 6 child my mother had 3 boys 3 girl it seems like we each produce a specific gender and so I think I fall within the boy pool. I am heartbroken. I know it’ll pass but not sure a 4th child is on the future for us so this was it for our family. Im a boy mom and I know I’ll own it and I hope anyone else out there watches this video because it helped me so much tonight.

A lot of this has happened to a lot of people. Your being ver negative about having a boy.. is just stupid. The circumstances that either Like, you shouldn’t have to be mad at the first one. Or the second. Even though I’ve heard there’s a family that has 4 boys 0 girls, but other has happened to famous people! Matthew Staford rams quarterback, has 5 daughters. Brothers make your life better! Ask my sister!

Pregnant with my 3rd son and really struggling so thank you for sharing this Taboo topic. The hardest part for me is knowing that the people around me also feel disappointed, my mother in law especially so dealing with my own disappointment plus knowing I’ve disappointed everyone else is also hard. Even strangers make horrible comments like “oh what a shame, another boy”. It’s hard enough dealing with your own emotions, now everyone else’s too. I just want to hide from everyone

I’m pregnant with my first baby. I checked the Chinese calendar and it said girl but I want a boy😔😔 I’ve really been trying to be ok with it but it’s hard, I’m so happy to finally become a mother just don’t know how to feel about having a girl. I want to have another maybe two more but for sure at least one more and I’m starting to realize I may have another girl😞😞 either way I’m going to love my babies and try to give them the world… yet I still see myself longing for a boy, I’m not even sure of the gender but everyone says the Chinese calendar is very accurate so I’m already like😫😫 I appreciate you sharing this video Queen🥰 thank you!

Love this!!! God bless you guys!

At this point ..right here...right now, I'm feeling disappointed. I'm not ungrateful but the gender I was hoping for I found out today was not. I am really crushed.

Thank you for sharing...I had a similar experience a week ago, only I had to rush to the ER with severe cramps. I knew what was happening but my mind didn't want to accept it, especially being my first pregnancy. Fast forward today has been very emotional and I keep playing the events from finding out I was pregnant to losing my baby, in my head. It may just be my hormones but like you, we're not waiting...ovulation kit is on deck!! I'm even more determined and ready to be a mommy. All I can do is to make sure I'm ready physically and mentally to carry a healthy baby.

thank you for being the voice for the ones who are Afraid to share their stories and experiences as the topic can be very challenging to discuss I myself experienced the same exact thing only differences is I felt like I was pregnant took test they showed to be negative so I brushed it off then I thought my cycle was coming only to find I was having a chemical pregnancy at about 2 weeks I knew that’s what it was because the emotions I felt after and bleeding lasted 7 days which my cycle is only 4

Thank you so much for sharing. I’ve been experiencing real depression finding out that I’m having a third son. I will love him. I love my boys so much. But I’m grieving the daughter that I dreamed of. I’m really sad.

I just found out I’m having a boy. I wanted a girl more then anything. I actually have no desire to continue this pregnancy

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Omg, I needed this. pregnant with my third boy. After finding out it was a boy, I told myself, wow, I'm never going have a daughter and got sad. I'm 40, I told myself this will be my last pregnancy and It happened unexpected. But I love my boys, they are so awesome.

This was adorable 🥰

I have two girls and the anxiety relating to my desire for a son is so out of control I’ve been avoiding looking at the results of my third baby’s gender. I still don’t know because I’m not ready to find out it’s a third girl. I would be devastated.

I have 2 boys and I am expecting a third baby. I am thinking that Maybe I should not find out the gender until birth just to avoid the gender disapointment. Cannot be sad when the baby is laying on my chest anyway.

Needed to see this as I’m here 20weeks pregnant with my second boy found out through blood test didn’t confirm on ultrasound yet and I was shocked because I longed for a girl before I could remember I love my first born son and said it would be the best to just have the pair, this pregnancy was so different and I got caught up in all the old wives tale that hinted girl, I just felt it in my spirit it was, I wanted a girl because I lost my mom when I was a teen and didn’t get to have that mom and daughter bond I missed that so I thought I would have that if I ever get a daughter, I think the Hardest for me is going shopping and seeing the little girls section I get really emotional. I Am trying to cope now visioning both my son matching and them growing close as brothers it does help, & I really don’t know if I will try for #3 as I’m scared it might be a boy again.

The feminine energy. Passing the wisdom through sisterhood. Those milestones unique to our gender. It is only natural a woman wants to give this to her daughter and a father to his son. Nonetheless, the relationship with your son will be one of the greatest in the world but definitely understand that need and i think almost every woman has it

I’ve never had a kid but I want a daughter very badly and I’ve dealt with being extremely terrified of having a boy, because honestly pregnancy and childbirth sound like things I do not want to have to do more than once to get a daughter lol. Anyway, something that helps me a LOT is to remember that gender literally will not determine anything about your child’s personality. Like, even if you ended up getting the gender you wanted in your baby, even still then you have to remember that this idealized vision of your life and their life is made up. Yes, girls usually have a set of feminine traits and characters and the same goes for boys with masculine characteristics, but that’s also a result of the way we raise kids to fall into their gender norms. If you envisioned talking about boy crushes with your daughter, or helping her dress up for prom, or buying dolls and girly clothes for her or whatever, just remember that your kid could be gay first of all, your kid could end up not identifying with their gender assignment from birth, or your kid could simply just not cater to traditional gender roles. Most likely, they won’t cater to gender norms in all the exact ways you expect them to. The gender of your baby will not determine their personality or the experiences you have with them growing up, but again, your feelings are valid and this is still a hard thing to come to terms with sometimes. Gender disappointment is very real but I think the sooner we try to dismantle heteronormativity and cis-normativity, the better off both we and our children are

Thanks for sharing it going through this right now it’s soooo tough :(

Thank you for this video I am 27 weeks and I tested positive . Glad your ok

Beautiful boys 💙 I want one x

I went through this two weeks ago. Its good to know that there are women out there who totally understand what it feels like. 💕 wishing you all the best and healthy babies in the future.

I am 26 weeks and just got positive results today. I have had very mild symptoms so far, minor headache, cough a couple times a day, sneezing, my worst most severe symptoms are stuffy nose and complete loss of taste and smell. All the stuff on the news is only about the increased risk of hospitalization, death, stillbirth, preterm labor, and it is scaring the crap out of me! I want to stay vigilant and make sure I watch myself closely, but it is so helpful to watch videos of people who went through it, are okay, babies are okay, and thank you so much for sharing your experience. I know it has helped me, and appears many others in the comments have been helped in some way as well.

Hey hun!.. I came across your channel this morning. I'm on my way to my appointment to find out the gender. I prayed for a girl. I've even had dreams about a baby girl.. If it's a boy I'm going to be devastated. But those are just my feelings and we all have a right to feel how we feel.. wish me luck lol..

OMG I just gotten over it and I had it BAD bad coughing headache body aches fever no smell no taste extremely tired throwing up diaherra and then couldn't breath then it turned into phenomena and that sucked I could not breath I got it and it was so so so bad I would never wish this on anyone I am also 26 week's pregnant it was horrible.

I just found out I’m having a boy and cried. My husband was so happy. I knew he wanted a boy deep down! Lol he said he wanted a girl the whole time. I’m secretly hoping the ultrasound was wrong since I’m only 15 weeks. It’s my first baby. I want a girl just so I have 1. I only want 2 kids so I feel more pressure.

I just tested positive for covid today and I’m around 36 weeks pregnant. My fever have been going for 4-5 days now and I cough very badly. It’s suck to have covid during pregnancy because I have difficulty breathing at night and can’t sleep. I’m glad you post this video up at least I don’t feel alone.

This is hilarious!

Congratulations 😍

You could name your baby and call it Jonathan, Christian or Sebastian because it has great meanings and so that it doesn't get boring. What do you think.

I am 8 months pregnant i cough alot.. alot... its dry cough. I feel shortness of breath what should I do ? Can i take some medicine for the cough?

I’m 36 weeks will be 37 weeks when I see my doctor due to being positive for covid when I go in I’d definitely want to be induced but will they ??

I really needed this! Just found out I'm having a boy. Super disappointed but still grateful he's healthy

Thank you for sharing. Currently experiencing a loss. Learned the day my grandmother passed and the day before my first ultrasound that I was having a miscarriage. Still trying to process. But your story was encouraging

Thank you for this 🧡

Just found out ur vedio thnk you❤️... Yes I am dealing with this situation right now... 1 already have 2 Boy...and now I pregnant with 3rd child which is a boy.. I am very shock and disappointed... I cried very hard when I found out this a boy... I don't know why I feel this ways..i really really want a baby girl.. Because I know I can't effort with another child... 😭😭

I'm pregnant with my first, and I've always envisioned having a girl. I found out today that it's a boy and I've cried several times. I feel guilty for being upset, I know it's something that will pass. I'm about to try the shopping tip! Thank you for talking about gender disappointment!

I wanted a boy 💙😩 but I am pregnant with a girl and no lie I’m a bit disappointed but I know she will bring me joy and healing 💕

Three weeks ago, I found out we are expecting our second son. I cried the whole weekend, because I wanted it to be a girl this time for all the reasons you mentioned. Thanks for making this video. 💙

I have 2 boys 1 girl and sneakpeak says boy 😭