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I have to give you credit not having kids but this understanding 👌😘❤️❤️❤️❤️nice!

You have an amazing heart! 🥰

Please, don't do it. You will fall into a situation that is set up for your heart to 💔 break. The situation will make you feel like an abandoned child. I never knew the saddest version of myself until I fell in love with a man who had children. However, I do believe it's not as challenging if the man is financially stable and mature.

You have to know yourself and your needs REALLY well before dating a single parent of either gender. You also have to have identified and healed your attachment system and core wounds. Here's how to know whether this is right for you: ***Dating a single parent *could be perfect* for what you want IF*** 0) you like his kids and they like- and respect- you 1) always wanted a family 2) are just as capable of loving someone else's kids as you are your own 3) maybe don't want your own kids but would love to have kids in your life 4) intend to continue living in your current city, a close-by city, or at least the same state for the long term 5) are fine with not taking vacations or traveling with your partner for extended periods 6) feel financially secure and have clear financial boundaries around whose resources go to the person's kids and when; as well as how much of his resources you expect to go toward your partnership 7) have plenty of your own interests and activities to fill your time 8) can feel secure in your relationship knowing his kids will always come before you 9) feel secure around his ex and his/her involvement in your partnership via their shared children does not bother you 10) have experience and comfort with blended family situations 11) can balance detachment toward his kids and their primary relationship to their own mother with providing additional mothering and mentoring in a different capacity 12) there are clear boundaries around what authority you do and don't have with his kids 13) there are clear boundaries around how his kids behave when they are in your home 14) you like and respect his parenting style 15) you have gone successfully through the first three stages of a relationship with this person (dating, honeymoon, power struggle) and have settled securely into one of the last three stages (stability, commitment, bliss) -- and if not with this person, you have BOTH gone successfully through these stages in other relationships ***additionally, DO NOT combine your life, finances, or household with a single parent before you have made it successfully out of the power struggle stage of the relationship with them and into the stability phase or beyond*** 16) you have extremely strong, honest trust and communication with your single parent partner and feel safe advocating for your needs and boundaries 17) you have good trust and communication with his kids and they respect your boundaries ***ON THE CONTRARY, Dating a single parent *could be absolutely wrong* for what you want IF*** 0) you don't you like his kids and/or they don't like- and respect- you ***this is non-negotiable- in no instance is it ever okay to proceed in a relationship with a parent whose kids you can't get along with, period*** 1) have goals, dreams or ambitions for the long term that will likely take you out of your current living area 2) like to take extended vacations and trips and want to share those with your partner 3) want someone whose financial resources are exclusively available for your partnership 4) have high needs for quality time and intimacy that will go un-met when having to share your partner with his obligations to his kids 5) have bad chemistry with his ex or are unwilling to maintain harmony with her for the sake of his obligations 6) your financial expectations for how much, if any, of YOUR resources go to his children do not align with each other 7) you feel overly attached to his kids 8) you consciously or unconsciously compete with his kids 9) you feel resentment about his children coming before you or continually suppress and ignore your own needs to make a relationship with a single parent work 10) - 17) are missing any of the above things in the "dating a single parent could be perfect for you" list and are not willing or capable of resolving those things

I assumed she would choose psychiatry or neuroscience (if that's possible) or maybe neurosurgeon

As a former optician it's nice to see that you wear glasses quite often rather than contacts constantly. If it sounds like I'm not much of a fan of contacts that's because I'm not. That's because over the years i saw so many cases of eye infection and eye ulcers caused by contact wear. I even saw one case of a young lady that had a blood vessel growing into the side of her eye as a result of contact wear. We were afraid she was going to be blind in that eye. But lucky for her she isn't. But she can never wear contacts again. She said she didn't plan to anyway. Wearing glasses will never cause any of those things. Contacts are a great option for anyone that plays sports or works out and even for special occasions where you rather not be wearing glasses. Maybe something formal such as a wedding. The main problem with contacts is that they are only meant to be wore for 10 - 12 hours a day and no more than 5 days a week. Most contacts wearers exceed those things by quite a bit. Even worse often sleeping with their contacts still sitting on their corneas. As you know when you become a contact lens wearer, you also are then required to get yearly eye exams as well. Something not required for glasses. The reason isn't so much about checking to see if a new prescription is needed but rather so the optometrist can check the health of your eyes. Actually wearing glasses has become quite popular because they are now considered as a must have fashion accessory. I'm sure you have probably noticed that every fashion boutique has several racks of really cute "fake" glasses in their stores. Those glasses are for the young ladies that don't need glasses but want the glasses "look". Trust me if they weren't selling a good number of those glasses they wouldn't have those racks taking up valuable floor space. Anyway, you look every bit as attractive, if not more attractive, wearing glasses as you do without them. Glasses can often enhance a woman's look.

My god your underarms look amazing! To die for. I wish mine looked like that. Tips? 🙏🏻❤️

You were my first ever CZcamsr when I was younger. And seeing you growing up into a wonderful person is so unbelievable! Wish you the best!

Congratulations you two! So happy for you guys 😁

Missed your videos, please keep making videos How is your sister doing it's been a while since she's made a video. I remember watching both of your channels growing up

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Hey Alex! I was wondering. What is your opinion on the high depression rates among physicians? Have you had any mental struggles, and if so, how did you deal with it. As a nurse, I'm interested in a doctor's perspective.

Hi Hallo 🥰🌺🌷 how are you today my love your friendship and WhatsApp plz 🌹🥀🌻🌺

Sabrina is married and Alex is engaged I’m crying rn I’ve literally watched them both since they first started uploading

Hello Alex!! I love your content on CZcams and IG. Could you please give more advices when it comes to date someone with a child? It would help a lot of girls out there. Because we have a different misconception about dating a single dad. Thank you!! ❤️

Congratulations🎊

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Congratulations ❤️

I’m so happy for you! Been watching your videos for about 8 years now and it’s so wonderful watching you grow and achieve your goals. You deserve a life full of love and everything!

Congratulations beautiful!!

Congratulations 🍾

Omg!! Congratulations 💖💖 I'm so happy for you

OMG 🎊 congratulations I wish you a lifelong of happiness 💖💖💖💖 I'm soooooo happppppy omg time flies 😭😭😭

this was so beautiful! thank you for sharing this precious moment to your youtube fam!

Congratulations to you both! I'm so happy for you

Congratulations 🥳🥰🤍

Congrats Alrx and Kevin 🎉🎉

Congrats Alex! Im so happy for you 😊🎊 also it was so nice of him to film it awh! Thank you Kevin :)!

This was so cute. Congrats Kevin and Alex!!!! ❤️❤️❤️

This is so magical ❤️❤️ what a truly beautiful love!!

Congratulations ❤❤❤

Congrats Alex! You are an amazing woman, and Kevin is lucky to have you as a wife! I wish you all the happiness in your your marriage.

Awww this was so beautiful!!! Congratulations 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🥂🍾💖

Beautiful 😍

That was beautiful 😭 so happy for u!! ♥️

aww yay! so happy for you alex :) so crazy to have been watching you and sabrina since you guys were in high school and now she’s married and you’re about to get married too 🤍

Congrats u guys 💘💘

Congrats to you both!! So exciting and that ring 😍

Congratulations Squish!

Congratulations Alex and Kevin! Such a beautiful proposal . Thank you for letting us see this special moment for all 3 of you ❤❤❤

Congratulations Alex and Kevin ! That’s a beautiful ring, and such a cute little girl, she sure can keep a secret ☺️ . Thank you for sharing this moment with us ❤️

CONGRATS! Thanks for the chance to capture it all on camera!

nice cat.

congratulations dr alex.

YAY! we are just as excited as you are! :) could you do more content on how your relationship is going (&keeping a healthy relationship), life being a young step-mom, skincare, or at home gel manicures? love you!!

It’s so sweet seeing your excitement for FM! I’m currently applying to med school and have loved watching your journey! Congrats and best of luck on app season <3

So excited for you!

Good luck🍀

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