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Thanks for this.❤

Thank you so much for this video!!! Helped me a lot to be clear❤

What do you mean by lear? I cant find YOUR definition anywhere on CZcams

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I belive that most pepole drink alchohol to forget some painful memories they have, in order to fullfill their need to avoid pain! Both the pain of the memory, and eventually the pain of the withdrwal-symptoms too! I Think they need empathy for the pain of the painful memories, and find purpose in the pain of the withdrawl-symptoms they have to go thruogh in order beacuce as nitzche pointed out, people dont mind pain and suffering, as Long as it has a pourpuse!

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What does “learing” mean. CZcams dossent know what it means.

I Think that “Jesus the Lord” was just a random homeless man, who acidentally stumbles apon a twig in the rough shape of a cross (thers plenty of funny shaped twigs in Nature, and the cross isssent that complex of a shape) and he dicided to pretend to be Jesus in an attempt to trick some Christian into fullfilling their unmet need for food and shelter.

34:20 im an atheist, and i dont belive in Jesus. But i do agree With YOUR methods, and hope that we Might be able to create a comunist Utopia! And you give me hope that it May be done peacefully, but thats up to the capitalists and politicians, of course. IVE heard YOUR story once before.

You know, i Think that power and freedom are really the same thing, at their core. They are both about being able to do what you want. Its just that power has gro a bad connotation, and freedom has Got a good connotation, At least in our culture.

Thank you for that knowledge i guess😂😅.

43:45 im from denmark and i dident know that, i never knew that until just now!.

“It must be painful for you to be around me” 19:30 poor poor baby giraffe

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44:20 well, im glad to know that you aint, perfect, if you know what i mean.

Second half of this masterpiece video is so emotional, that it can bring tears to anyone's eyes

אלופים! מאוד מעניין

16:18 “Never connect yourself with the other person's pain”

This is gold!! Thank you so much from Natal, Brazil.

39:27 Now, I do not ask these people in Sierra Leone to do this first. Not until we've empathized with their feelings about it. You see, I wouldn't want to even think of getting them to empathize with why somebody has cut off the arms of one of their children until they've healed from the pain that that's created.

“I’m not asking you to like it. I'm asking you to do more than that. I'm asking you to be able to see that's the most wonderful thing in the world that these people could be doing”

1:45 mean mood joke on immigrant

If you’re denying a little child their attachment needs they are certainly not going to be able to translate that into Giraffe. Maybe an outside trainer could teach them, but if all they have to go on is the Jackal messages from their family, that is all they will be able to hear. In the service of fairness, I’d like to see more understanding for the psychology of young children.

As much as I enjoy Marshall's videos, I get frustrated when participants are talking, sometimes trying to compose their thoughts, and he starts talking before they're finished. And I see it happening even more with women, which is a double pain to me, because I deeply value gender equality and I would really have needed some fairness, especially coming from a man I deeply admire who is, I reckon, quite aware of sexist biases and gender-based roles (reffering for exemple to his John Wayne concept of masculinity). I don't know if he preferred to insist on some NVC theory, without taking the time to empathize with some of the participants, because he needed to get the seminar going for most of the people present here, or if that was his old "psychoanalytic self" seeping through the present, but seeing the woman at 1:13:16 roll her eyes in frustration to him repeating that there is no such thing as criticism made me uncomfortable, and kinda made me write this comment. Well at least it stimulated my pain, which stimulated my writing haha ! But all in all, I really would have liked to see some empathy and some time taken to strenghten an empathic connection towards her, rather than most of the responses he gave her, even though I agree with his point. "Empathy before advice" he once said in a session. I would have liked to see that at this moment. Maybe he was still being infused with some "period-based sexism" given that he was born a while ago. I don't know, I won't go and try to diagnose him, but it helps me feel a little better to see it as a byproduct of his education, rather than as if he didn't care, which I'm sure isn't the case ! He might even feel great sadness to see himself act as he did if he was video-taped. If you've read this long, I'd like to know if some of you have had the same (or not) feelings, because I've read a few comments in the part 1 of this session that were concerned about the same topic ! Cheers from France !

Wow in the second half to see them being so vulnerable with each other, and so openly expressing their joy at caring for each other and being cared for - that was so touching for me to be connected to such universal human love.

I am so grateful this incredibly valuable resource exists. 🙏🙏🙏

When was feeling sad and hopeless ,but now I feel hopeful and relieved

amazing!!!!! in 2021 has an even stronger message. Thank you for sharing, it brought me to tears. I'm very grateful. thank you

Thank you. I am touched.

36:02 Father wanting a connection with his daughter. Concerned about drinking. 39:40 Role play - Marshall is the father, father is the daughter. 50:40 "What would it take for you to share with me what is bothering you in a way that you would feel safe to do it, so I can feel more connected to what is going on in you. What would you need from me to feel the safety to do that?" 55:45 "Take your time to come from the energy that you choose to come from rather than the one that you've been programmed to come from." 2:11:20 Be careful about the objective to stop doing something.

40:42 Employee is late 53:15 Marshall empathizes with man not meeting his own need for autonomy. 1:47:07 "We've got to get rid of making our requests into an addiction." 1:56:45 Ex-husband, male-itis

1:15:20 Screaming in giraffe. 1:21:30 Interrupting in giraffe. 1:24:20 Giraffes aren’t nice. 1:31:30 Making a clear present request.

"Never walk when you can dance"

1:14 - Rejection Excercise

What an impatient and strict teacher he is. And how the student takes effort to satisfy him! Showing the power of the process within and how strong really intrinsic learning is, isn't it?

I love Marshall Rosenberg but at around 1:35:00, when the woman came up to be practiced on, something went kind of strange. This phenomenon is something I have noticed in the communications between men and women. Notice the man who came up prior to the woman, Marshall gave much time to. He let him take his time in answering, he was given all the space to speak. On the other hand, notice when the woman spoke, he kept interrupting her. She couldn't finish one sentence. This is something men do when women speak and it's very common. Men don't even know they're doing it but it makes the woman feel lost and disregarded. Women don't notice it either, because it is so endemic in our society. It is a pattern that happens all the time and even from men who one would consider "advanced". I'm surprised Marshall exhibited this behavior. It comes from women being second-class citizens for all of history. We sexes still haven't addressed the consequences of that policy for all those centuries and what it has left us with, and we keep perpetuating this kind of awkwardness and dismissiveness. Men need to let a woman speak. It's programming that goes under the radar of our awareness. Notice it in future and let's try and heal it.

yes! many more practical examples, (many I learned a lot from) than in the Tami Simon = Sounds True series of one hour talks, of which about 6 excellent ones are on You tube as of 11.3.18. Those have more explanations than these, so maybe easier to understand for beginner. And more reports of success, so maybe more convincing for beginner.. Those posted by joe.public, czcams.com/channels/XqgBEaZUvbhFDQ1VXDvJNw.html, #4 at czcams.com/video/rWdQ7mKsQIc/video.html. thank you very much for both series!!! cwholeness@gmail.com 11.6.18

Thank you for posting this. 🦒❣️

Amazing!

Amazing!