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Haven't taken astrology seriously in Years, but now im recalling my leo rising and my many saggittarius signs and realizing how on point that is for my loud, contrarian style 😂😂😂 (not to mention my gemini moon omfg) This is Great tbh

I'm a Virgo sun and Libra rising but i have a leo moon and venus, and my most prominent element is fire so idfk what to do with that

Omg I love this! As someone who has a strong mars in scorpio ♏️ I often am attracted to the darker divine feminine. Thank you for this ❤

Here because I thought I was a Theatrical Romantic but I'm 5'6/5'7 and apparently I can't be TR cuz of my height so I'm looking into more body types 🌷

Gosh i love that you're speaking up about the yin/yang thing. Icalways thought it was a bit tone deaf. Also i love hearing you talk about essences, i feel like kitchner has been too restrictive this is such a Fun fresh perspective❤

I was SEARCHING exactly for this. Glad i kept scrolling

Did you finish the cardigan?

I‘m guessing Dark Winter, since it’s closer to Autumn. That would explain the mixup. The Black you‘re wearing makes your skin sing. The contrast is lovely. I guessed it! Yay!

I‘d have to say 1960s space age, solarpunk, avant apocalypse call to me. Not so much Y2K because I lived through that.😅 thanks for expanding my vocabulary, now I knw why I go crazy for certain things (and never get tired of looking at Rick Owens and Demobaza collections) and others just look meh.

For the pronunciation, try „coo-redge“. 😊 You‘ve done an amazing amount of research here. Great video…

this video CHANGED MY LIFE i'm so shocked, like everything you described about natural essence/style is exactly what i've preferred and have been trying to curate for years but i didn't have the language to describe what i was going for

This was super interesting! It was especially interesting because I am Pisces dominent and you went more in depth with the Pisces placements. It’s a bit difficult for me because my chart is very much Pisces and Aquarius. I have a Pisces stellium (sun, Venus, and mercury) in the 1st house, and Aquarius stellium (moon, Uranus, Neptune, and Jupiter) in the 12th house. So Pisces/12th house energy is prominent as well as Aquarius. All the other signs take a back seat. So it’s hard for me to determine the 3rd sign I resonate with. I don’t even feel I resonate much with Aquarius except for my need to be unique. Personally I prefer wearing darker colors. But most of my style muses I don’t share any placements with. And most are all cancer moons! It’s very weird I have no cancer in my chart. I’m still trying to find my Pisces and Aquarius muses. Has anyone else used house placements to style themselves? I’m feeling like my 12th house/1st house energy is what I prefer to channel in style.

What dark aesthetic is Amy Lee from Evanescence? I love her style

You really are gifted at explaining things and breaking things down. The diversity of examples and research is unmatched.

I think I’m a mix of gamine & ingenue

I’m an Aqua sun, Leo Moon, Virgo rising! Wondering how this effects things, wonderful video ❤

This video is so helpful, thank you so much! I'm 27 and I never "learned" how to dress myself, as the clothes sold in stores are the complete opposite of what I'm looking for and even worse, they didn't fit my body type, which lowered my self-esteem for long time (since I was a child I always felt like an old soul who loves lace, corsets, romance and vamps, and I never liked the colorful and sexy clothes of the 2000s), but now I decided to find or create my own alternative style, I started by buying some clothes but I was very overwhelmed by the fact that I couldn't find any "current" model that resonated with me, but after this video (and several others from your channel) I think I feel ready and inspired to start discovering myself and working on my style. For now my muses are Kamijo, Alice and Rapunzel from SinoAlice, Vil Schoenheit from Twisted Wonderland and some Jean Paul Gaultier runways. I'll keep working!

Melyssa, are you still doing astrology style readings? I checked your page but they are all sold out ☹️

Amazing

I love your channel so much i was looking for a goth stylist for ageees

Akasha was an ancient Egyptian/African Queen so her costuming was a little different than a typical Victorian vampire :)

I really aim to look like an elegant dark woman, but it's difficult to be accurate with my essense. I know I'm a flamboyant natural Kibbe, but this is more difficult.

11:35 This is just a hunch, but maybe the romantic essence/catholic this is connected to the Latin Lover archetype?

Any suggestions for a doctor with libra midheaven?

I wonder if this is a complete meaning, I just wanted to watch them.

Aries sun and Venus, cap moon and mars, Sag rising. I have a stellium in cap and sag. I think style wise I resonate with both of those signs. I like a classic vibe with a bold twist.

Leo/Cancer/Aries here. All I know is that I'm some kind of classic.Interesting video.

Thanks for this video, I'm Spring but I love Gothic style

I like this because it’s focusing on impression which is in its simplicity the basics of finding someone’s optimal style and colors

"you ever had water before?" Instantly iconic💚

I feel like in a still photo I’d have classic/dramatic essence, but my roommate told me my main essence was etherial because of how I move and interact with the world. I think that’s such an interesting thing to consider as you’re breaking down your aesthetic. But this completely explains all of my makeup choices. I always go for a gloss and sparkly eyeshadow and that is completely wrong for my kibbe type. But it feels right! I want to try more with flowing fabrics. Velvet and georgette feel like a good starting point.

😊❤ I just adore your content

If I hear aesthetic one more time I'm gonna scream.

All of these examples were perfection! I did a bit of a Whimsigoth aesthetic for my wedding dress. I never feel that I look my best in white so I didn't even try. I found a beautiful sapphire blue gown and layered a gold lace and chain harness over it. I'm surprised that I didn't wear black but I felt like it was a special occasion and it required a color that I don't normally wear. I was desperately trying to find a ruby red but in 2021 things were so tough to find and in person shopping wasn't a comfortable thing. The blue was definitely a vibe.

As a sag moon, I can confirm, my home is decorated with a 90’s grungy rockstar with Prince elements, and leather dining chairs. It’s so accurate 🥹

I’m an air sun, and you didn’t have to go there with the Naruto and maps. I feel completely called out and I like it. 😭 you also hit the nail with water rising, my whole home is set to my needs and not everything needs a reason other than it heals my inner child 🥰 my sag moon approves of all of this!

But I am also curious about, two more colors which are brown and gray??

I really appreciate you talking about this, topic the black is obviously my number one, it's nice to hear about other colors and how to incorporate them in dark Aesthetics.

Finding your channel is like finding a hidden treasure!

Is it my impression or to be considered a soft natural you have to have a more defined chest? Like a bigger bust than average idk

This is glorious! I think the musician Enya is also a really good example of this.

i think rihanna is a soft dramatic he said sometimes he mistypes celebs as pictures can be deceiving also me and my cousin are 1000% theatrical romantics and we're both virgo risings which probably help with the dainty bones lol

My body essence is definitely romantic but my personality essence is definitely natural. Natural often doesn't look as good on me but suits me whereas romantic style looks good on me but doesn't suit me. I don't know how to mix those things honestly.

Happy belated birthday, Melissa! This video was very informative.

I love how japanese people can just take the porcelan doll, rococo and victorian era fashion and create lolita and then I who lives in one of the countries where the fashion was inspired from have to be mindful of "their" culture LOL

There is this telenovela, name "Chica vampiro" (2013) wear vampires have their own world, so everyone in the vampire world dress alternative and is so freaking funny to me, you should check it out. Some of the outfits are questionable, but may you can find something good in it, I trust you can.

I just realise my sister has both Gamine and Ingenue, both of them are fighting in her face to have the spotlight, she looks so cute when she dress like a doll, but also when once she cut her hair very short and sharp, with lots of lasher like "punk", she actually look really good, I was surprise!.

Can anyone please recommend me a natural+ethereal muse? I can´t really think of anyone and I need some inspiration...

Is very interesting to me that in pirates of the caribbean 4, the mermaids have fangs and is implied that they eat men like pirates and sailors and maybe it seem dumb to say it, but this concept is so similar to vampires, when I was a child and I heard that mermaids sing and that makes men go into a trance and then the mermaid kills the men, I never thought of it as sort of similar to what vampires are, maybe because I always thought mermaids would eat other marine animals or vegetation. So I personally think that we could possibly have dark mermaids be a canon thing.