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To be fair they say that about Henry Cavill. Or they say "not a woman" to transmascs. They have no idea what they're talking about most of the time.

For real! Also, the people who say I have big feminine eyes apparently cannot comprehend the idea of "glasses". My eyes are much smaller if I take them off 😭😭😭😭

@@HotDogTimeMachine385 oh yeah, I saw the transvestigators attacking Cavill for his feminine eyes, or saying that their head-TERF, JK Rowling was either a closeted trans man or a trans woman. They just do not think, at all.

I know right! Pretty cool design!

@@davidjd123 No it’s not? This particular symbol is an icelandic magical stave found in the Galdrakver Manuscript from 1670, and is based on the Judeo-Christian solomonic staves. But yeah circular symbols are very popular.

@@jaegeroo maybe they will have a show near you too!

@@bregnevakker5404 You are so right! Sometimes it is pop culture that gets people into academia, because they want to understand what they like on a deeper level and that’s great. On the other hand, academics should understand and accept that not everyone WANTS to have a deep understanding of their field of study. Not everyone who watches Marvel cares who Thor “really” was, and like you said, we don’t know anything for sure anyway, it’s just myths and interpretations of them. So it’s nice to know what exactly it is that you are interested in, but for people to go around saying “I hate this and you cannot possibly like this because it’s from the wrong time period” is a bit much 😅

@@queerpagan Totally agree. 😅👍

@@slowbro1337 right?!

Yess they sure are finnish! I started learning the language a bit because of them :)

Ahhh thank you!

Może naucz się porządnie pisać zanim zaczniesz ludzi wyzywać ok 🤣

Who is saying that gender as it is know today existed in the Viking Age? We can't possibly know that. Which does not stop researches from imposing modern, cis-heteronormative standards on a pre-modern society.

Why don't you pronounce it correctly yourself? I guess that would make sense if you're not a first generation immigrant. I guess then it's not that important how it is pronounced, if you yourself don't do it correctly. I still regularly come to Poland, and it would be very strange for me to start mispronouncing my own name 😅

@@queerpagan I live in the US and I'd sound like a jerk if I pronounce my name correctly for everyone lolol

@@Ash-yt1eh Yeah ok, makes sense.

Na serio?

Why do so many people just assume every trans man was a lesbian? Gender identity does not equal sexuality, and not all lesbians have "male interests"?

Amen! You said it!

You look like a troll, or a feminist... but I will try to talk to you assuming you are a decent person. I "agree" with you with some of the the stereotypical thing about feminity and masculinity. But just at first. Because you have a hard stereotype in the foundation of your concept of a woman, because: what is a woman? can you define it without stereotypes? I challenge you. Rethorically, of course, because I know you can't. Actually you can't said a "woman" has "male interests" without having a basis for what is a "woman" and what is a "male interest", then, you have a hard stereotype about what is a man and what is a woman! Believe to me; thing are always more complicated than they look. For me, the solution to that puzzle is that you are a mind, and you have an avatar with a base sex: male (XY), female (XX), hermaphrodite (XXY). When you grow, thanks to technology, if you don't feel identificated enough with your base body features, you can change your avatar if you want (or need, if you body causes you serious gender disphoria). What is a man? What is a woman? It is two things: the biological sex of the base body, AND the gender identity; you can change your body to match your identity. Personally I don't like the discussion with the phrase "You will never be a man/woman", because, first, I'm genderfluid, from here it looks like some people pretends to know who I am better than myself, and two, it's always rooted on the distinction/confusion about gender and sex that wokes have made in their "academic" ideas: sometimes they said it's different, but other times they talk as if they are the same. No. For me, biological base is not changeable for now, but you can force your body to work like the other sex, making it masculine or feminine enough to reclaim the label socially (but not medically, and that's not bad). And Identity is a very personal thing that only the person can said: each one of us, probably, has different ideas about everything, but the main right is that all of us are persons, and have right to feel as we feel, not depending on others opinions about how we must. I will give you a serious counsel: you don't need to control the identity nor the body of people. If you find things that make you happy with yourself, you will see how you will feel less need of submit others.

What misinformation? That she is a female and always will be because it's impossible to change your sex?

This is why I made sure to clarify what definitions of "woman", "female", "sex" and "gender" I mean because these terms are used in different ways within different communities.

I get my hormones refunded by my health insurance. Which is paid for by... myself? My own tax money? Even if all these negative effects you mentioned were real and common, why would you care what I spend my own money on?

@@queerpagan 1. You pay for your plan. The pool of insurers cover off the full cost. Society pays for your "gender affirming care". 2. The negative effects I listed are totally accurate, with decent evidence coming from the Eastern European women who were put on testosterone in order to win at Olympic sports. Further, testosterone is a mood altering drug which impacts decision making, sleep, temperature, bone health, sex drives, brain health. You may not be able to make wise choices under it's effects. I certainly hear this "lived experience" from the girls and women who step away from the special identity class and get testosterone free. 3. Why do I care? I get this question a lot lol. Firstly, I care bc I have ethics, morals and a sense of duty to society and nature as a whole but I care esp. for infants, children, as well as the destruction of girls and women's sex based rights. Also I am concerned about the rights of ppl to adhere to their sexuality: ie: lesbians are same sex attracted women, not men who claim a special identity. The other point I like to make about the question, "Why do you care?" is the subtext is that the questioner doesn't care about other ppls bodies when in fact, rather than leave them alone which is the most natural and healthy path for both us and nature, they advocate vehemently for practices which I think are completely barbaric and cruel. That's it I reckon'. Take it easy, eh. TM-

@@TerfMail You use athletes from the Soviet Union and East-Germany as evidence? Do you know how dumb and misleading that is? Those athletes were sometimes given testosterone against their knowledge and will, with little to no medical supervision. Obviously that is going to carry side effects. That is not how transitioning works. It's easy to make up facts using statistics that fit your views.

@@queerpagan Side effects from consuming exogenous hormones do not alter bc of the reasoning for their consumption. I am not making up facts. Do you think your voice box, liver, brain, heart, blood system, reproductive system et all. care why you're taking testosterone? Do you feel that somehow your reason, that you have decided to become a life time method actor plying out the role of the opposite sex, will intervene on you behalf to stop the major alterations you're making to your hormonal delivery system? Remember when I said that testosterone is a mood altering drug which may impact your ability to collect information and reason with it? You may be experiencing that in this moment. You are harming yourself and the people who make money off your taking exogenous hormones do not care about you one bit. They see you as a cash cow. You are both the product and the consumer. You are a slave to identity, a slave to a belief system which has no stable definition, which uses children and the mentally troubled to drive it's agenda. You help destroy the women's rights our elders fought and died for. You help normalize us being broken down into body parts: chest feeders, birthing bodies, cervix owners, vagina havers...the complete unhinging of every single human female, be they girl or woman, on this planet, from our very humanity via obfuscating and literally dehumanizing language. You play a role in all that negativity but it's not all your fault. You've been failed along the way I have no doubt. And yet you still share burden of the outcomes of your choices as the trickle down effect continue to take humanity on a path of harm, delusion, perversion, control and power hoarding. Unlike those who affirm your man acting performance, I truly wish you well sister. You will never truly leave us, we the women who tend the camp on the shores of reality. We are here, fighting for you and every other girl and women on earth. We keep a metaphorical bed for you in case you decide one night to slip the chains of identity and rejoin us at the hearth in truth and in power. Happy summer! TM-

@@queerpagan I have responded here but it seems that my response has not been recorded. In short: the human body doesn't process exogenous hormones differently due to the reason they are given/taken. I am not "making up facts". The outcomes of those women who were cruelly used by their gvnts, much in the same way you are a pawn of identity in your own life, are documented. Early death by heart attack or stroke were the most serious outcomes but they had many issues down the line. Furthermore, many women who leave the identity movement and return to their natural state report many terrible outcomes, throughout their whole bodies. You will not be saved from that reality. And I see that further down in these comments to this video you are encouraging young women to take up the same mantle as you. As I said in my missing reply: you are both the product and the consumer. The people filling your testosterone script, the stock investors who see identity as a spectacular growth market, everyone who cashed a pay check in part due to your actions, thank you for your service in the chemical war you are waging against your own perfectly functioning body. You're driving the identity economy and we will are all paying the price. I wish you well and hope you find your way out of the trap soon. Cheers. TM-

"(Haven't watched the full video)" says enough lol

Not really, even people who identify as women were not "born women" a woman is not something you can always be.

@@queerpagan Yes, really. A woman is not a social construct; it's a biological reality. As the term "woman" refers to an adult female human, if you want to be technical you can say that someone cannot be born a woman by virtue of the "adult" part of the definition, but this is just playing word games. A woman is what you are going to get if a human female survives to adulthood; if a man subsequently wants to be a woman he can't be; he can be a man presenting as a woman, and he might do a good job of that, but it is ultimately still a presentation. The same goes for if you are a woman who wants to be a man; you can take all the hormones you like, but you will still be in a different ontological category from a biological man; you needed to resort to medical intervention to achieve what would normally have developed naturally for a man, and you will always be genetically a woman. You are not going to be gaining a Y chromosome, and if you stop taking your testosterone you will not suddenly produce it biologically. You are not a male of the species; you a female who wishes to be a male. It's not that there's anything necessarily wrong or immoral with this, but it is simply factually incorrect to say you are in the same category as a man. It is also factually incorrect to try to treat "gender" and "sex" as referring to different things when it comes to humans.

Gender and sex are quite literally separate but if you cannot comprehend that then unfortunately I cannot argue with you.

@@queerpagan No they're not. The claim that the words "sex" and "gender" refer to completely different things is simply factually incorrect; in fact, this alleged difference in meaning is a made up one. What you have learned about sex and gender is simply untrue; instead of being more educated on this topic than the common man, you are actually less; you have been miseducated. As much as you try to convince everyone and yourself that you cannot argue with me because I am so uninformed that whatever you say would just go over my head, you are in fact admitting that you require me to accept the basic tenets of your argument from the start for you to argue with me, effectively requiring the whole thing to be stacked in your favour by your opponent for you to engage in debate, and are running away because this is not the case this time round, and you don't really want to hear anything other than the propaganda you have fallen for. You aren't interested in open discussion, you are interested in support for your ideology regarding gender.

@@queerpagan Gender and sex are highly correlated. Gender is just what is seen as the socially approved / typical behaviour of males and females. With a few local tweaks, those behaviours are pretty much the same across time and cultures because we all have millennia of evolution behind us.

@@Tammy.ryan1982 "cis" is literally just the opposite of "trans", "on the same side of" vs "on the other side of".

@@KitNBase yeah, this was back in the deep right-wing period of Poland. Now it's a bit better !

Wiktionary has 21 different noun definitions for the word "man". The question "when does a boy become a man?" is such an example that has been around for a very long time. I think what's more important is conveying meaning through conversation, which has always been an interaction between the speaker/author and the listener/reader.

@@odometric5946 .. how did anyone know what a man and a woman was prior to the internet? I'm pretty sure nobody had to look up the definition in a dictionary. Ask any child from the 60s what was the difference was and they would immediately point to the obvious.

@@bepitan it's almost like human society developed beyond the simple need of just procreating. So much more to life than that.

​@@queerpagan .. speaking of life we are now facing a major issue regarding severe population decline so i do think procreation needs to become fashionable again.

@@bepitan Actually, I think Earth would benefit from people procreating less. There's so many of us already, and how's that going for the planet?

@@SullenG1rl411 thank youu 🖤🖤

Huh? I'm just bringing the comment up because a person decided to invalidate me by listing things they thought were feminine about me.

cats between themselves are completely driven by whats going on between their legs and view other cats by that same yardstick...if we humans want to refer to them all as cats then go ahead but the cats are well aware of their differences even without the power of language.

You not being able to comprehend sounds more like a you problem 🤷🏻‍♂️ You're proving my point really, these things female cats do are purely based on their anatomy, obviously a female cat can breastfeed, but that doesn't constitute a social gender in any way. Any supposed "gender" a cat would have, is imposed by humans (eg. Calling a female cat a feminine name as we would do a girl). Besides cats and other animals are in no way less complex beings than humans, that's very anthropocentric of you.

@@queerpagan ...can you see that because you give something a name doesn't make it any more valid ..there are two worlds here, the one of reality and the one of make believe, the term gender was synonymous with what was between your legs and for many it remains so.

@@bepitan queer theory and gender theory have evolved over time. I suggest you try doing the same.

@@joycelinlgbtq ..the truth doesn't evolve, it just is.

@@KrazeeKrab Thank you! Totally fine if you don't have everything figured out at my age, I guess people are getting the access to the terminology from an earlier age, so they are able to put their experience into words much earlier!

@@queerpagan oh thank you! I wasn’t even talking about gender though, I just meant your general understanding of yourself and how accepting you are of who you are (: I‘m not trans but I could still relate to taking forever to understand & accept what and who you’re like (I am also neurodivergent though 😬). However, reading your comment again, maybe you‘re not exclusively talking about gender either hahaha. Anyway, keep going and good luck on your journey (:

@@KrazeeKrab yes, my comment could absolutely be applied to different things as well, including neurodivergency! So many people share their experiences online which both makes it more easily accessible and makes it more reassuring for (young) people that they are not alone in their struggles! (I do also come from a highly educated household so I guess I have always been expected to be intelligent and mature 😅)

@@missingna404 Thank you for your positivity! Indeed, a lack of understanding or unwillingness to understanding is fully on those people, and untill they learn to respect other people's lived experiences... they will probably keep hating

I highly suggest watching the video. Woman ≠ female. You don't need to have lived as a woman to be a trans man. You can transition before you become a woman, eg. an adult human female.

TERFs Are the ones encouraging hate.

I'm really glad you enjoyed it! Thank you for the positive comment :)

@@cosmolosys Sounds very relatable! I am in the process of getting my autism diagnosis too, I think it would explain the lack of need to conform in general! I'm glad you enjoyed the video and if you ever have specific questions you know where to reach me!

Going through hormone replacement therapy and undergoing feminizing surgeries is not what makes you a woman. If you decide you need those things, that means you already identify as a woman. It is then, for some people the obvious choice to undergo medical procedures to have more characteristics typically associated with the female sex.

Gender and sex are separate but they aren't unrelated, and because of the societies we live in gender is inherently tied to a lot of sex traits, that's true, but that doesn't invalidate trangender people? I highly recommend you do some actual research man before just typing whatever in people's comment sections.

Gender and sex are the same thing. The definition of gender has been hijacked. Gender iss an offshoot of Gene aka genetics. Genesis is the birth of us all. Reproduction. Gender is just a polite way to say sex because our society use to have morals.

@@maycarmel8416 I’m a woman and you will not silence me , I am entitled to my opinion esp when in infringes on my human rights which includes having to bunk in a prison cell w a persons a p*nis - you trying to silence me will only make me louder - also you have no idea what experience I have on this topic , respectfully

No, gender is not an offshoot of genetics. It has the same core as for example the word "general", the core being "genus", Latin for people/nation/family. It's also a term used in linguistics do describe grammatical structures (gendered nouns for example).

Well, my birth certificate says male. That would mean I'd end up in a men's prison. No prison environment is safe, so I'd rather just stay out of the penitentiary system.

I am a gay boy, I like men xD you can have gender dysphoria before fully going through puberty. I am not saying my body has stayed completely androgynous. Just not become extremely feminine, which I'm very happy about.

@@queerpagan you kind of dodged the question. Probably because you can´t really know it for sure... But that would be a question I imagine myself asking if I made a transition before puberty... you cannot rule out that going trough puberty would have gotten rid of all the need of appearing as a male etc. Taking hormons kind of pushes you in one direction.... like... you feel more more male after taking hormons that changes your brain so that it is more like a typical male brain? No shit! :o

No, taking hormones has not changed the way I feel about "being a man" I am still the same person :) My interests have not shifted at all. I'm not dodging the question, I'm saying I did experience an estrogen dominant puberty to a degree, and it was not for me!

@@queerpagan But I am not saying feeling the puberty itself could have made a difference, but going through it completely. After being through puberty your hormons, character etc. would have been different and you cannot know if you your conclusions would be different then... I don´t know what you mean by "still the same person", but hormons have without a doubt have influence on your views, how you behave etc. Hormons like this do more than an optical change.

Well, let me ask you the same question then. How do you know the puberty you went through is the correct one for you? Shouldn't you try the other one to see how that works? You see how stupid that sounds?

@@Capylotte they always do, they keep interacting with trans content and then act surprised as to why it shows up on their feed 😭

Jesus has nothing to do with this.

@@RS54321 He has to do with everything tho

@nimexwolf how would cis people be agender? That makes no sense. The majority of people are comfortable fulfilling the social expectations that are put onto them based on their sex assigned at birth. There is nothing wrong with that. That's quite literally the norm. And realistically, sex is only relevant in a situation when two humans want to procreate, or at least have intercourse for other reasons. If you meet a random person at work or on the street. What does it matter which genitals they have? How they were born? They were probably also born significantly smaller and lighter, but what impact does that have on who they are in their adult lives?

I think I understand what your question is aiming at, I'll answer assuming you asked out of genuine curiosity. No, cis people who identify as such only because of how they were born, rather than an "inner feeling", do not invalidate the existence or validity of trans people. I know a lot of people out there feel this imperative need for one theory to be true: Either a person's gender is how they feel on the inside, or it's not. I am of the belief that there isn't one single truth to anything in life, so I don't care if a person calls themselves cis even if they *technically* may fit the definition of agender better. I also believe it's not inherently transphobic for someone to say "I'm a woman because I have a vag". That person could merely be describing their OWN lived experience of womanhood and how they relate to it. It only becomes transphobic when the person goes on to say that this applies to EVERYONE else. Now, I suppose it is true that all of what I wrote here is just MY opinion, which may not be the most satisfactory answer, I'm sorry about that. But I suppose I wanted to contribute my two cents. Trans and non binary people such as myself come with all sorts of different opinions, which I also believe is important to emphasize. We're not a hivemind and shouldn't be treated as one (not accusing you of this, btw, you're cool).

@@queerpagan I think I could clarify that a bit. "Cis" people who see sex and gender as synonyms and say "I don't identify as a X, I just am an X" are very closely mimicking agender ideas and use a different system to identify entirely. Identifying with your sex is very different from identifying as the corresponding gender and accepting that sex is not the same as gender. Does that make sense? If you call somebody "cis" but they don't identify with a gender identity but identify based on a different rule set from yours, such as "sex = gender and I identify as my sex and don't see gender" then they are effectively not cis, because they are not viewing the world through the lens you view it in, and cis is an invalid way to reference them in that regard. Cis can only make sense when somebody has a distinct gender identity that aligns with their sex, and they see sex and gender as different things.

@Spinner773 I did not reject myself. If I did, I would be living a miserable life as a person who I do not feel any connection with. Instead, I chose to be happy. Modern ideas about gender are actually not modern at all. It is white Christianity which spread these rigid, binary norms. Paganism and queerness are deeply intertwined. By looking beyond established, monotheistic religion you notice how much these Christian values are engrained in western society. I'm not trans in order to conform, quite the opposite. If I wanted to conform, I would lead a sad, boring life, working a 9 to 5 job that I hate. Life can be so much more than that. And generational differences are okay, we won't have the same visions and experiences. That is completely fine.

​@@queerpaganpaganism is about connection with mother nature, what is natural and divine. That seems disconnected from taking a drug to change your body and the way people perceive your gender. "Queerness" if you mean being considered "strange" and outside the norm is NOT NEW, but the medical industry and what they are doing is FAIRLY NEW. And I bet the people who work within the industry and benefit from it are so happy to see the number of people transitioning steadily increasing.

@@Spinner773 where do you think hormones come from tho? They are isolated from natural substances. Being more connected with myself has allowed me to be more connected to the people and the nature around me :)

And I'm sorry but this is not as anti conformist as you think. You said you've always been androgynous and gender non conforming. So by identifying as trans and taking t you are doing exactly what society expects you to do. True non conformity is being a gender non conforming woman. i know it's not easy being a non conforming person in a world where you mostly feel out of place, and I know certain things can make it even harder and more complicated, but we should encourage people to stand in their truth, even if it's complex, we should discourage how the trans narrative is being pushed on gender non conforming people.

Really missing the point of gender non-conformity now are you? Are you seriously saying you want me to conform to your idea of non-conformity? Wow. No thanks, I'll just keep going the way I have been living my life!

@@caes2exist you have your own view on how your gender works and that's okay. I know that care and nurturing are stereotypes, which is clearly what I pointed out in the video. But stereotypes are not simply untrue, they are oversimplifications and generalizations of things that do have some grain of truth behind them. I'm not saying I have never been female, or that I have not been assigned female at birth. I'm saying that I have never experienced the social expectations that are put on people born female who continue to identify as female into adulthood. I have not been seen by society as a woman.

@@queerpagan that's fair, but i think it's hard for people to understand your point when it seems like you don't have a solid basis for your argument, so much as that you're willing to say whatever you think works. you asserted in the video that you are not female, but in a comment responding to someone else, you say "female =/= woman" implying that you are female but that doesn't make you a woman. i think it's important for us as a whole to have cohesive definitions for words, but at the very least it's important for you to be able to define what you consider words to mean, and be able to use those definitions to back up your argument. that's why some people are so focused on the "what is a woman" question, because without a definition, or by saying "i cant define it, everyone defines that for themselves" the word really means nothing.

@caes2exist yeah, that's kinda the thing. The word woman means different things for different people. Which is why I made clear what definition of the word does not describe me. I study a linguistics related program at university and I honestly do not care that much about whether a word has one definition or multiple. Gender is complex, why would the term "woman" be simple? Providing words with these strict definitions will only result in exclusion. Sometimes the definition of "woman" or "female" transphobes come up with, accidentally also exclude cis women...

I wanted to write something similar but chickened out of fear of being too insensitive since I’m not trans😅 if you are born a female, you’ll always be a female. Even when you’re taking hormones, medically you’re a female who takes testosterone. Man, woman, that’s either social constructs or polite words for male and female. But I also don’t agree with the point that if you aren’t trans, you’re automatically the norm in society. I identify as a woman, I was born female but I feel distress towards my gender/sex. I’m not trans, never will be, I’m a somewhat self-hating cis person, but I guess not the society’s norm, right?

@scattered-idea Unfortunately, feeling distress about being a woman does seem to be pretty normalized. Obviously this does not immediately make you trans, it's just that women are heavily discriminated against, to a degree where I fully understand not feeling comfortable with being seen that way for those reasons. On the other hand it is nowhere near the only reason for "not liking being a woman". I have never related to girls, and never had the same dreams about the future as they did. I hoped I would grow up to be a boy, but I didn't. I thought everyone felt that way, until Iearned what being trans meant. This reasoning is why trans people have to, and honestly should, go through extensive therapy before they are allowed to medically transition. To be absolutely sure there are no other underlying issues that might cause a discomfort with your body/sex, such as trauma. I did not have any other reason, therefore it was concluded that I am in fact trans and got the diagnosis of gender dysphoria at 15 (I came out at 13). I hope this makes it a bit clearer :)

Probably just read the title and decided to comment this huh 🤣

Hes a man I dont care that hes trans i care more about that mullet Jesus Christ why are so many men getting that awful hairstyle now

Because we like it. I personally didn't really enjoy how my hair accentuated my forehead shape, and I didn't like the sensation of hair falling over my ears, so that's why I got a mullet XD

@@queerpagan i'm sorry for insulting you hairdo king, i was just tired of the trend. don't listen to the haters.

@@sgujuhgftyyuyy She's wearing a disguise, a costume. She can have all the facial hair in the world, have all the surgeries and have Barry White's voice. It's all fake. She'll always be a woman and nothing will ever change that, even if she can fool people in the streets. Just because she's delusional doesn't mean everyone around her has to be. I feel sorry for such people, they need help but instead of helping them, they are being encouraged to continue falling into the rabbit hole, damaging themselves and their surroundings. It's even worse when it affects children.

@@angeninetytwo that’s… what I said? Woman ≠ female and sex ≠ gender. I am not implying that I have never been female, I am implying that I have never been a woman, which is the social identity a person born female gets assigned at a certain age.

Wow, that's a lot of insecurity you're projecting. Talk about lacking grace and self-awareness. What's wrong with toys? I'm a man and I have a shelf of plushes from various games I've played over the years, Hades, Path of Exile, Warcraft. Nothing girly or creepy about it, people can like what they like. Your comment is what's giving real creep energy here, I can't imagine speaking like that to anyone, let alone a stranger, and based entirely on their identity. Absolutely cringe take. I'd be embarrassed just to have opinions like that, but spewing them at someone to try and get a rise out of them? Gross. Keep it to yourself next time.

@ickyikkiw you should look into seeing a therapist

Yeah. I'm 19. No shit? I was pre-testosterone in my first videos? Obviously I'm going to sound more feminine 😭

I'm sorry you feel like being emotionless, rough and... old? are the criteria for being a man to you. It does not have to be that way. Obviously the older I get and the longer I take testosterone, the more traditionally manly I will look. Transitioning does not happen overnight.

QueerPagan looks plenty masculine to me. Has more facial hair than my dad. But even if he liked wearing makeup and dresses, gender identity and gender expression are going to look different for everyone. Just because you're insecure and worry that if you're not ripped enough, strong enough, or have enough facial hair that you're not a man enough man (that's called fragile masculinity), doesn't mean that's how being a man works. Sounds like YOU need to cope because a trans guy feels confident in his gender just by existing while you're all butthurt because you need to be the buffest guy in the room to feel deserving of the title "man". But back to my other point, just like how, for example, a girl who's a tomboy and likes cars and wearing loose clothing is still valid as a woman, a man who likes to sew and garden and wear eyeliner is still a valid man. Trans or not. I know that on it's own is a probably hard concept for you considering the middle school insult spree you just went on because you saw a man with a dinosaur in his room, but try to for once stop putting people down and maybe just listen to the person in the video YOU clicked on for five seconds? And also, I'm an adult cis female and my boyfriend is an adult cis male and both of us love stuffed animals and have way more than QueerPagan on our beds. And my boyfriend is more of a man than you'll ever be. cheers

@@catalyst40811 Thank you! Unfortunately that is the reality of being openly trans online 🥲

flat earthers get the same push back .. so unfair.

@@SemiiCreates it's not, but I do have another video called "you'll never be a man" 😅

@@queerpagan that's the video i watched then. i love your stuff keep going

@@SemiiCreates I’m glad you liked it!

I just woke up and these comments omg 😭 thanks for the support. I'm gonna need it😂