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Thank you so much for this. It’s been really difficult trying to navigate the options out there in the UK, particularly for non binary folks.

Narcissistic kids

you absolute weirdo...

Heya, I just found your channel as a baby enby in the UK. I was just wondering if you know if the pricing structure is different based on the starting size or if that's not really a factor? Congrats on getting it done and I'm so glad to see how much happier it seems to have made you!

that much money and hoop jumping makes me so angry. that much for a piece of paper.

Love it when you finally get that new firmware update for your brain 🧠

thank you so much for this video!! i’m from scotland and came out “late” (21🙄) and the waiting lists on nhs are ridiculous so this is incredibly helpful 🥰💚

If only you two could have made this video 40 years ago and put it somewhere my 8-year old self would then find it…then the past 40+ years would have made SO much more sense to me as a non-binary person (age 51 today)! I only finally discovered the non-binary identity a few years ago after 40 years of never feeling like I really fit in anywhere, that is how seemingly set in stone the gender binary feels like until you finally learn it is also a spectrum, just like sexuality. The interesting thing, to me at least, is that I have long felt particularly drawn towards the transgender/MTF community (and often felt aesthetic and romantic attraction towards both transgender and cisgender women; sexual attraction is far more complicated by considerable past religious and sexual trauma, so I have never experienced such towards an actual flesh and blood person) but never understood why since I could never quite identify as MTF myself. I was born a boy, but I never fit in with nor understood other boys, yet I was not a girl either, though I was far more comfortable among the girls, whom I could at least understand and identify with in other respects - I was every bit as comfortable playing with the girls and engaging in typical girl’s play, if not more so, as when playing with other boys and my interests as an adult are also somewhat a split. Now, I understand the “why” was because they were the closest (known) available binary choice to my identity. Unfortunately, I fear it is going to take quite a bit of time for the rest of society and the world at large to finally catch up to that same realization as we seem so compelled by social gender norms to gender absolutely *everything* boy/girl, man/woman, male/female in our society that we are darn near blind to any other possibility. I wish you both long, happy, and healthy lives!

I want to take you serious, but I don’t think that you are.

No matter how hard you all try you'll never change nature .. spend all the money you want but at the end the only ones that benefits from your stupidity are farmaseutics , surgeons, hormone and testosterone companies . All becouse you got manipulated into ( i was born in the wrong body ) BS

My mothers mastectomy still hurts her to this day. The scar tissue, loss of muscles, and lymphatic flow have left her very damaged. A last resort to help save a life due to cancer, yet celebrated here as some bizarre fashion choice. You will NEVER be able to breast feed and you have lost erogenous feeling. Yeay you.

Another very imature young woman plays at being an outcast to had colour to her dull middle class life. Very soon you will be another de transitioner.

Thank you both so much for covering this debate, it made it much easier for me to understand and much more enjoyable to watch. I was horrified at the revelation that the conversion therapy ban only applied to under-18s and that it wasn't mentioned in social media posts that I came across mentioning the ban. Loved this video and am looking forwards to watching your videos of future debates!

A while back I coded a program of a magic 8 ball that would give indecisive answers such as “depends on the weather” or “that’s quite the dilemma”. On retrospect, I think I coded the British government.

Seeing you two makes me more hopeful about my future (I’m gay, asexual, and non-binary.) The fact that you continue to laugh, are in a relationship, have a dog, and may or may not be getting a machete is really inspiring.

I wish you the best. This is BEYOND STOMACH CHURNING. My god. Big PHARMA wins once more. The medical establishment $$$$$ The media $$$$$ The PHARMACEUTICAL mega companies $$$$$$$. For the love of god, why does no one see this?????

I remember the first time I got a present from my mom and it was a bra. And my first response to that was "Should I wear that?" and she was like "yeah of course! you're a girl! every other girls wear it around your age!" But for some reason I didn't want to? so I asked her "Maybe...later? like..years later?" and of course, she was like "no?.. you have to wear it now" And I knew what non-binary was but I didn't know I would be a non-binary person. so I thought to myself...'maybe I'm thinking this way because I'm immature than others mentally.' 'Maybe it's because I think of myself as a kid still' I heard other girls talking about how wearing bra is uncomfortable some time to time so I thought to myself "maybe what I'm feeling is exactly that, just uncomfortable of wearing" But what I didn't know is..no girls would want a binder to actually bind their chest or get a surgery for it just because wearing bra is uncomfortable.

Well who the hell knew, I don’t actually exist!?! What a bloody relief, there was I thinking I had to actually try and do stuff with my life. Might as well not bother with the rest of this med school thing because clearly being even remotely informed gets in the way of doing your job properly

omg i think the first mp to talk was the same one who said doctor who being a woman is causing young men to commit more crimes LMAO

U two are super wholesome!

how is your chest update Arlo.

Does that mean if I go to the UK I’m a criminal? 😏

I want to get top surgery but I don't want to become a male, I just have chest dysphoria, I feel like I'm gonna struggle saving for it and I'm from Plymouth in the UK so London is quite far and I'm over 17 years old

Love your transformation!! Looking forward to my own top surgery, i'm waiting... I've heard of Miles Berry bc i've seen Noah and his top surgery video. (a trans guy on yt)

I have my initial appointment with Dr Paterski later today, been really nervous about it. Not been able to find anything that prepped me for what was about to come like this vid has, thank you!

Women chopping off their breasts to please a gender god that doesn't exist.

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Do they accept insurance? I've been searching for an answer everywhere and wondered if you'd have the answer?

1:37-1:58 Sounds very creepy indeed. You may've been played, bubba: you could be an internet star and you don't even know it yet! The message is clear; if you want to undergo an elective double mastectomy for purely psychological reasons and you don't want to wait for several years for even an appointment with the NHS, it's best to be earning enough to pay for it or to have relatives or friends willing to stump up the cash. It certainly doesn't help to be on a low wage or unemployed!

When did you get the letter?

Arlo: Being a lesbian was.. okay. And Rosie took that personally

Thank you so so much

Thank you for sharing this!

Really helpful video thank you! 💜 hope you're doing well

What a beautiful video. Thank you.

ahh thank you, ive been trying to find someone that has had top surgery being non-binary and not on Testosterone so this is very helpful

thanks so much for this!!

thanks for this really helpful!!

Looking forward to watching this. Sending lots of love and support your way! Xx

I'm so pleased you're happy now. Can see the difference in your confidence and general body language. Really really proud of you Arlo, you are amazing! X

this is so sweet and meaningful thank you so much :)))

What an amazing video. I'm so proud that you are living your own truth and have found it as a couple. Beautiful video and inspiring. Thank you for sharing.

i had shiny blue docs for years and now i have silver holo ones :)