Letting A Granny Down
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- čas přidán 11. 02. 2021
- The plaintiff says the defendant is her grandson’s girlfriend, who she’s been helping out for years. She claims the defendant has become disrespectful and won’t repay a loan, so she’s suing. The defendant claims the plaintiff cut off her phone service, so she says she owes nothing.
Case 29-043 - Zábava
She's grown enough to have 2 kids, she's grown enough to get her own dang phone.
Couldn’t have said it better 🤣
Amen!🙌🏾
And home!!
Bingo. The audacity.
And her damn place and want have attitude in the woman home who HELPING HER.... girl bye
"Why should I , shes nobody to me! Ask your mother!" 😂😂😂😂
She had me dying LOL
absolutely! 😂
I need this mindset, my dum a$$ woulda did it 😂🤣😂
😂😂😂
LMAO! best part of the episode!!!
He is a punk for allowing his women to disrespect his grandmother.
Absolutely true! He’s a coward... for not defending his grandma.
Where does he live? Why isn't she living with him instead of HIS grandma?
True I had a step cousin who back talked my grandmother I hit him with a shoe I don't believe in disrespectful children treating elders like that
Punk?
You must be a relic.
Right! Weak as heck
Anyone else find it SUPER weird that she moved into HIS grandmother's place with THEIR children, but not him?
Yes very weird
Very
exactly where does he live!!?
like that’s the mother of his kids why is she not living with him?
No because when I was dating my son's father my sister kicked me out and thankfully my bf's sister let me move in for 6months until we got our apartment.
No way I would let anyone disrespect my grandmother like that. Who tf is this clown? 🙄
You off. Grandma is a toxic person. And her family legacy lead her grandson to a toxic woman
@@arthurmitchell2117 im not off and I believe she's dead wrong. She could've just moved out. The young woman said the grandmother was having a hard time paying bills and she was struggling. But the young lady moved in and starting making bills. She stated she wasn't getting along with her own mother.. it was probably her mouth. Its hard for 2 queens to live in 1 castle.
The daughter admitted that she was wrong for repeating a conversation between herself and her mother. But explain... in what world do you curse out a grandmother? And wait I've totally set the young man to the side..
they've been together for 7 years he has 2 children with the young woman and they aren't married they don't have a place together. But that's his grandmothers fault? I doubt it. I doubt you're able to see the whole picture. For at least 6 years these grown people have worked and filed taxes and claimed 1 or 2 kids and they still couldn't get the money to move on their own? Nah thats not toxic grandma fault thats them. Grandparents they don't live forever cherish them. Yup even the "toxic" ones that watch your kids for free and let you get IPHONES in their names and make you pay for your food.
That 🐈 must be hella good!
That's a definite fact he has no backbone at all
@@dre9594 I guess his old grandmother who has lived an entire life is more important than his minor child. Grandma the past, his child is the future🤔
Grandma brought some stuff in a T-Mobile bag, so she means BUSINESS!
😂😂😂
That's the first thing that caught my eye 🤣
She brought everything tmobile gave to her even the contract
Lmaooooo
Her and her girlfriend had talked about it all week before this day lmao
The girlfriend seems very “nice nasty” with those too small pants on. I know granny ain’t no saint but she got teary eyed at the end when she said if they’re done with me then I’m done. I hope the Grandson grows some balls & takes his kids to see their Grandmother.
Did you see the eyerolls she kept doing? Then the smirking at the end?
This girl tore a family apart because she's a foul-mouthed user, & she seemed very proud of herself. The real victims in this are the children.
And since the young man has not married this girl, his name is probably not on those children's birth certificates. Which means when they break up, he will have zero control or rights to see his children unless he lucks out with a sympathetic judge. Poor kids. Lost their grandmother, their aunt, & will probably also lose their father.
@@JamieM470 Sad indeed
He should have stepped in and not allowed her to disrespect his grandmother. Maybe he could have gone alone to get her things to avoid further conflict-you see how nasty she is to her elder.
They probably aren't even his kids. OR he's trying to avoid child support. He lets the girlfriend make all decisions🙄
The girlfriend is rude and disrespectful. The grandson is pathetic. Two wrongs don’t make a right. He needs to step up and provide for his family. They’ve been together long enough to have built a foundation for their family. Shouldn’t be staying with granny and having to use her credit. It’s sad how his aunts will defend the grandmother being disrespected and not him, but she’s running the show.. so 🤦🏾♀️
Grandma said it well: "I don't call nobody for nothing. They call me."
🎤 drop
Period. His weak ass. Let his girlfriend rip him from his OWN blood. She’s clearly the problem when her mama put her out too. Further more why wasn’t she living with HER man I stead of in his granny house anyway. Sad.
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If the grandma was so terrible, the defendants should've moved out immediately and stop taking money. That doesn't mean grandma is perfect but she was the one helping when no one else did.
Exactly! But clearly they needed her. It’s sad that they’re acting this way towards her
What problems was the girl having with her own mother that she had to move into the grandmother's house. Does the girlfriend have problems wherever she goes is a valid question, if so then . . .
I believe that daughter came in and started the mess.
@@commonsense5506 Exactly And why is she not staying with the boyfriend . That girl has issues and the boyfriend is weak. ,..clearly the girlfriend control him.
At 25, living with grandma with kids, taking advantage of her, then cussing her on the phone she pays for? !! And they damaged the phone. If they had to earn and pay for it, they would treat the phone 'gingerly'you know!! They robbed the children of a kind grandma!!
LMFAO the grandma in the audience with Harvey...."Why would I? She's nobody to me!" STONE COLD TRUTH!
shes the generation that speaks truth not trying to be p c.
This is why I love my elders!!!
😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂she’s nobody to me 💀
She ain’t lying! Why can’t she go to her own mother or grandmother. Speaks volumes! Why her baby’s father can’t make sure his baby’s mother has a phone so he can talk his children and she can call 911 in case of an emergency. Because she is a horrible person.
😂😂😂😂😂 The grandma who answered the question for Harvey Levin!
She was everything!!!
She’s a replica of my grandmother (mother’s mom) 😂😂😂😂
💀😂😂
Savage
The Truth💯
The grandson is a straight beta male. Why is your girlfriend staying with your grandmother...😒. What kinda foolishness is this?
But this girlfriend is taking very little accountability. You're 25, get your own spot. You got a baby daddy that can't even provide housing...😒🤷🏾♀️
Lawd, this poor excuse of a man.
I was thinking 🤔 the same thing! Before she moved into his grandma's house she was living with her mom,but y'all still having kids but can't provide a place to live together! Throw the whole relationship away!
I agree & then instead of making the situation better becomes more of a bum !
Respect our elders, one day we will be the elder as well.
Right her and the kids were living at the grandmother house. But he wasn’t. That’s because he can’t deal with her either. He’s just trying to make sure he’s not on child support and mess around with other women.
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾you said it for me,would never be with a guy like that🤦🏾♀️
The defendant attitude is horrible.
Agree! That’s why she wasn’t living with her own mother. (terrible attitude).
She is a horrible person; stating she had problems with her own mother and that's how she moved in with her baby daddy's grandmother; yet she is so disrespectful. No matter what she should not repay and act of kindness with such anger. On the flip side she must suffer from some deep hurt or trauma to act this way. I pray they patch things up because her children will hate her when they grow to realize she deprived them of their grandmother's love over an iPhone
The defendant is a Horrible Person Period!
He's a fool for letting a woman come in between him and his grandmother and she's a horrible person for doing that to him. My grandmother passed away 9 years ago and every moment we had together was precious he is going to regret this when she passes.
I got a feeling grandma is still going to be seeing these kids inspite of what this chic says. Like she said... "they call her."
THIS COMMENT. THIS EXACT COMMENT. 👏👌
My grandma also passed a few years ago and I agree. Every moment was so precious. I think about her all the time
Grandson has no backbone
Man, we all respected our grandparents and never scrounged anything from them.
I wish I had my grandmothers alive and they wanna have bad blood over a stupid PHONE 😒🤦🏽♀️.
They're silly hunty cuz I miss mine so much I dream of her often.
@@mzfancy4767 Omg you and me both 😩😩😩.
This! I would love to be able to hug my grandmas one more time. When no one else in the world will help you, even your parents....grandma was always there. I would never have dreamed of rolling my eyes or being rude to my grandmas, or sponging off their meager incomes...much less cussing at them and being mean. Young people these days have such cold hearts toward the elderly.
Right?
I didn't get the chance to meet my grand parents on either side
That grandmother Harvey questioned is a savage! LOL Gran Gran is a whole G out here
I was dead “Why ask me??” 🤣
@Msleelee right 😍
If they can’t pay bills that are in their own name, then they won’t pay the bills that you put in your name for them!!!! 1. What type of man has his kids and their mom living with his grandma and 2. he doesn’t even live there?!!
I agree. The only exception to that rule (which is not the case here) would be moving into Grandma's house to take care of her medical issues while hubby worked out of town. Saw it in my family with a cousin of mine, though they paid their own way until my grandma accepted being moved into a retirement home.
Exactly
@@Maninawig oh yeah that’s a totally different and admirable situation 🙏🏾 These folks here are just ungrateful and trashy.
@@thetiredfemme3652 absolutely
True. I suspect he probably is living with someone himself and unable to pay for his own place and so he offered his nana's place to his girlfriend. He is probably no better off than his girlfriend financially. In fact the g friend may be a little better off than him, having the children with her there and eligible for some outside help POSSIBLY as a custodial parent.
So she can’t stay with her mom nor his grandmother. Something is off with that.
Thankful, everybody else can't be the problem
She probably leaves the kids there with no explanation, i know a few youngsters who do that
It's her nasty disrespectful attitude
The more important question: What is going on with the boyfriend's living situation???? Why can't she live with him? Why does she have children with a man who cannot put a roof over her head as well as their children? What a mess.
Yeh it shows she's the problem
The boyfriend and girlfriend are just sorry people, she having a baby by a boy that can't even put a roof over her head, he depending on his grandmother. Then the girlfriend he would stay sometimes, only when he want to make a booty call.. He living with another woman
My thoughts exactly
I didn't even think of that... Damn. I imagined him struggling... Not double timing. Who knows what the truth is... But that supposition is interesting. Sad but interesting.
Grandma helps you out with your booty call and you disrespect her for helping. And she loves her grandchildren, your children. No booty call is that great. Good luck with that decision. Pay the justified judgement and be manipulated and lose your family.
"NEVER BITE THE HAND THAT FEEDS YOU!"!!!! 😠💯
Very true
Preach 🙌
Real talk
“Why should I she’s nobody to me?” 🤣😂🤣 I ❤️ it !
She’s such a horrible grandmother yet she allowed you to move in her home rent free AND added you to her plan to help you out. And the grandson is the biggest clown of them all. These young people are an embarrassment.
Exactly! Come on now! Clearly she is the problem!
8:45 She rolls her eyes. Damn, she is so disrespectful & a huge jerk to do all of that immature crap to his gram.
There is a much bigger issue here than a phone. Defendants been together for 7 years, they have 2 kids together but living with Grandma?
He wasn't even living with her at the grandmothers house. But they are on TV talking about their together. I would've just paid my grandmother the money and moved on
@@TheZogie they're* (they are) together
@@jennross6466 thanks! what would I have done without you correcting my comment from months ago. I hope it brings value to your day.
@@TheZogiethis makes sense!
A whole charity case and got the nerve to have an attitude 🙄always the ones with they hand out🤦🏾♀️.......they’ll need grandma before grandma needs them...
All I know is grandma looked so hurt. I don't know how that man child could stand there and see his grandma look that hurt and not say sorry and give her a hug. Don't matter whose right or wrong. I'd eat my pride/words and show love to my yammy (grandma)
She should of caught a clue when he couldn’t commit to :
1.Paying his own bills.
2. Getting his own place
3. Taking care of his kids and not leaving them with Grandma
They both could take a lesson or two in personal responsibility. Not sure why it is okay to move in full time with Grandma and less than part time as a couple with their kids.
BOOM
Ridiculous
Facts!
Dude is a beta male.
That’s because his interest is somewhere else, he probably has another woman with a well paying job and a home
J: How long you been together?
D: 7 years
J: Children?
D: 2
J: You getting married?
D: I ain't ready for that?
😔
2 kids too late
That’s the typical black man’s answer for ya
@@shanteju3789 Nah just the typical black man that YOU have been with.
It doesn’t matter how long they been together, marriage isn’t for everybody especially people that isn’t ready for it.
@@Earth2Erica the point is that kids are a bigger responsibility/ expense than getting married. So he sounds ridiculous saying he's not ready for marriage.
It's the grandma on the outside for me 😂😂😂😂
If I spoke to my grandma or mother this way, I'd be picking up my teeth. What is wrong with some young people now of days? No respect and everyone owes them something
Exactly! No respect whatso ever these days! Smh. Nor loyalty! Smh
Oh absolutely me as well
Hey, no offense, but it was your generation demanding respect when kids should have been taken to the wood shed...so don't whine about no respect. It's like griping about the condition of the environment and driving a gas guzzler.
@@morgancalvi6675 period
Respect is earned, the granny is just as disrespectful and ghetto you can tell
Grandma said, umm, they’ll need me before I need them and walked off!😭💀 This whole case was a shame!
This young woman is so disrespectful! That's what's wrong with this world-lack of respect to elders, and lack of respect for authority. This young woman should be ashamed of herself!!!
Amen to that!
Absolutely true!! The grandson is an idiot to allow it!
Aman. And some elders are str8 disrespectful as well. My aunt is one of em. She feels just because you're young, she doesn't have to respect you, or treat you like a human being.
@@kenyettaready
Precisely I had to check an elderly uncle for being overly nosey/ intrusive
She’s very immature for one! She has 2 kids at that. So sad
Loose your grandmother over someone who’s not even a wife?😂 crazy 🤣
It's not about the girlfriend or the grandma. It is about his kids.
@@markchang2964 his kids are innocent and they are using them against his grandmother but at the end of the day they are hurting themselves like she said they call on her all the time they are going to need her again. The girlfriend got so much attitude but needed a place to lay her head and her children when her own family couldn’t even take her in...
Lose
@@MoniqueeeeJ loose as in saying it longer than the usual way it is said.
and allow that gf to disrespect his own grandmother in that way is outrageous. In my family that would get your ass whooped
Best litigant in this whole case is the street witness at 11:00. Her common sense bluntness was quite resfeshing.
I agree just say no !,ask your own people for a phone!
The way she said, "nope ".
She flatout said "She's nobody to me!" 😂 Aye, she got a point for sure.
Wish my Grandmas were still here... cherish the elders 🤩🙏🏾🤩🙏🏾
Same ❤️
She disrespects the Grandma bc her own grandson does it too. He needs to grow a pair and man up!! Take care of his family and tell that lady to respect his grandma.
Look how grandma looked them up and down in the beginning 😂😂
Grandma outside with Harvey was deadass !
Yes
If they can’t get along with their mother majority of the time it’ll be the same issue with you. This truly a sad case.
Exactly
He’s a clown, i wish someone would think they gone come into my family talking crazy like that to my gmom tuhhhh! If it was my family sis would’ve ate her words literally from all of us😭😭😭
Wait ... your girlfriend and kids live with your grandma and you don’t ? ...ew how are you not embarrassed what the hell grown ass man why r u not w/ ur family 🥴 this entire situation a mess !
I just don’t understand how people be coming at eleders the way they do smh
He’s a sucker no way let somebody disrespect your grandma
Girlfriend with attitude that’s why she can’t live with her mom
His gf is ungrateful!
Women bickering with each other all the time. But he's a weak man because he can't diffuse the issue and follows his wife. She runs the show. Then if his grandmother dies without them patching things up then he'll be regretting it the rest of his life. He needs to check his girl. You only get 1 grandmother fool.
It's not even his wife😂 part time baby mama. She probably threatened him with child support to make him listen.
having to try to diffuse something makes it seem like u picking sides, grandma should be an example, they all wrong
He is a weak man because he can't put a roof over his family - girlfriend and their children. That is what makes him weak. She should not be living with HIS grandmother in the first place.
@@AP-uo7sp Maybe she holds sex hostage until he obeys her wishes.
@@melissagreye8445 Amen
That nephew needs to learn to stand his ground, that gf seem to have a nasty attitude and alot of mouth for someone that has her belly hanging over her pants on TV
How u know her belly like that lol 😆
So only skinny people can have an attitude? What a stupid ass thing to say about the whole situation.
The grandmother outside the courtroom...'She's nothing to me" :) she's a whole vibe! lmbo
The Grandmother in the Audience is Awesome!!! Put a big smile on my face!!!
Mine too 🙂 I love what she said!!
I miss my grandma so much💞
The old lady at 10:57 reminded me so much of my grandmother! She would have said the same thing with the same tone and had a similar accent. Miss you Bomma!
The defendants face ugh
He should not let his “girlfriend” come between him and his own blood grandmother. Smh
Grandma outside with Harvey was savage...omg 😭
Love grand ma outside. Stern and telling the complete truth. It isn't necessary to bring unwanted problems into your life. Putting her on the ph plan wasn't necessary. As outside grandma said , she could have asked her own family or better yet, get HER OWN phone. The grandma just needlessly made trouble for herself in doing that.
He is not a man .and def not her man. He dumped that disrespectful human being on his grandmother..what a shame
The girlfriend needs to get herself together. Nobody especially a grandmother deserves to be disrespected.
Amen to what she said “the more people who love my children, they happier my children are” I love my babies way more than I could ever hate anybody.
He's the biggest weak gentle yes man giant! ....🤦
If a person can't depend on their own mother or family for housing, it's a bad idea to let them in your house as a stranger. Some people proud themselves of cutting toxic people out of their lives, but when everyone around you is toxic, then maybe you're the source. The grandma in the public is right, let her ask her own family.
Good point
Amen
Thank you.
My generation doesn’t want to listen to anyone, they just prefer to do whatever they like even if it is bad. And when people try to correct them, we call them toxic people.
No, sometimes if everyone around you is toxic, they are just all toxic.
This is a narrow view point. There could be good reason she didn't reach out to her mother. There is a ton of judgement being given with very little information. Some mothers are toxic, as with ppl in general..
First of all this why people should learn to get their own the young lady should gotten her own place instead of going to live with family you decide to children they're your responsibility and she should never get a phone off no ones plan because of these situations.
Just a straight up ungrateful wrench! I would love a granny to love up on and help me, guide me, love me. Don't know wat you got til its gone smh. 💯
wrench or wench?
@@jennross6466 the latter
Being a baby mother is the worst thing. Sleeping with a bum is not much better. Dealing with a weak men who doesn't stand up for his family is a mess. This girl has made has ruined her life with these terrible choices.
That little ole lady is pure comedy ❤️❤️
"I'm not an IPhone person, I'm an Android person", lol so am I.
The defendant has such foolish pride. The epitome of it truly. Grandma may not always be easy to deal with but she seems like she's ultimately trying to be helpful. Those people do not grow on trees in life! Especially ones who also love our kids.
S/O to grandma outside.. the roles reversed. Grandma in the court room needs to hear that! She’s nobody to me 😂
They've been together for 8years, two kids together, but no ring? I'll never understand that.
I don’t think it’s any of our business to understand tbh
Why the grandma cut up like that “why she asking me she nothing to me ask your mother “😂😂
Losing your family over a gf/bf is insane
Tell that to Prince Harry.
@@hottuna2006He’s married. And cutting off with that family is the smartest thing he ever did!
The grandma inspires me, i thought that i was too old to wear shirts with the cut-out shoulders.
That boy is weak. Don't ever let anyone alienate you from your family. If she is gone and takes the kids. Where is he gonna go? One guess.
If he wanted to talk to her he would 🤷🏼♀️ she could push for cutting off contract all she wants but he’s the one doing it
I'm truly shocked at the grandson, sir grow a pair! The can fight all they want!
But you won't take your kids to see your grandmother, that is your family
trust me its so called men like this all over ...my son went against me with his gf..i never saw my grandson ever son did nothing...talk about loyalty
He doesn’t have to if he doesn’t want to, if he wanted to he would. Just because you’re related to someone doesn’t entitle them to your children. We can speculate all we want but there’s always more to family dynamics than outsiders can see.
@@JennifuhhGilardi I agree that being related dosent make someone family. But based on the way they lived with he rent free....she is family. She was family that was willing to help out. I wouldn't leave my permanent family members for a girlfriend. I wouldn't that for my husband. When he is arguing with a family member, I listen to him so he is heard. Sometimes I'm silent and give him space to figure it out. But most days I encourage him to make up because I know much family means to him.
In my family, grandma is Gawd. Nobody disrespects grandma unless they want to get dealt with by the whole family. Everybody comes to grandma's defense simply because she is grandma. She the elder, everything she says is gospel, whether you disagree with her or not, you don't speak on it. Both of my grandma's are gone and I miss them. He will regret his actions.
"Let me tell you what texting is for...."
I learned real quick not to say those words to a date.
Lol 😂 my boyfriend just told me that. His messages are exactly that
Question(s): Is the defendant in the red sweater a man or just dressed up as one? What is the reason HE is failing to help keep a roof over his own family/kid's heads? Ever heard of a Tracfone?
The defendants obviously can't afford the bills *THEY* make and are highly ungrateful, with the rolling of eyes, to the folks that attempt to help them out. If grandma is annoying you so, DON'T accept any help she might throw your way! Learn how to say: "Thanks, but No Thanks! Next time, grandma, take care of yourself. DO NOT put anyone else on your plan and never co-sign for people either. Let these young people stand on their own two feet. Learn to say: "Sorry you're going through rough times but I can't help you, you're going to have to help yourself." Sometimes it IS better to love your relatives from a distance!
I felt for judge Malian .this case was nuts!! So sad a family fighting over material things.life is way too short and ppl ya can trust is small GOD BLESS THEM and great job judge
Grandma was bout that life but her feelings were hurt too !
That girlfriend needs to go! She breaking up family ties!!!
Look at that sour nasty face the defendant walked in with! Tells me what I need to know off the bat!
Leaving my grandmother for a chick u gotta be crazy this generation of brothers are straight pathetic. And she is a 6 at best a 5 in my book. Plus she would have zero control of my grandmother seeing my child its called going to court and getting joint custody. Dudes all size but beta male inside. He needs to man up.
You can’t tell her that her cheap weave doesn’t make her a perfect 7. Lmbao! 😂
If she’s a 6, I’m a -2 😭
WTF do her looks have to do with anything?
@@nephtaliealius7647 --a 6 at the most.
A 4
They'll need the Grandma before she ever needs them.
Shorty was lookin for the spotlight at 14:15 lol!
Yep! I saw that😂
The defendant has a lot of growing up to do and a lot of life lessons to go through and learn that’s for sure. 💯
The best person in this whole case was the grandmother during the break! “She’s no one to me!” 😂🙌❤️
that's why they make prepaid phones. $20 for a phone and you pay your own dam 10 cents a minute. no contracts
What a shame... Sad to see a family fall a part over a phone
That grandma speaking to Harvey is savage!
What is with these spineless men that do not get involved, let the women in their lives duke it out. Even as she stands in the hallway saying she's going to deny the grandmothers access to her great grandchildren, he just stands their like a lump! I suspect there were all sort of power struggles in this family long before the cell phone came onto the scene.
I was in a situation like this where the family would talk shit about me. I would just eat everything they would say, but you get to a point where it comes down to are you focused on a family you were born into or the family your building. 👊🏾👊🏾👊🏾👊🏾
So the Grandson’s girlfriend needs to be smacked!! Standing there rolling her eyes while the Judge is talking! Too bad Grandma didn’t get a chance to teach Miss Thing some manners because honey, she needs it!! (Good luck with that relationship young man)!! So the whole family is feuding with each other over a cell phone?? Really??
Y’all don’t understand some family members can be very toxic... grandma included
That boy!! He needs to grow up, how dare u let a phone and a gf get between u and your grandmother 🤔
The plaintiff means business!! She gave the defendant’s the Death stare hahaha 🤣
I LOVE mama's answer! She said, "NO". She's nothing to me, go to YOUR mother or grandmother!!"
I understand why the grandma wanted to fight.
I dont care who u are u will not disrespect my gma whether she right or wrong !!!
Hahaha "they're nobody to me. Go ask your mom" 🤣🤣 I love her too Harvey
I just hollered after hearing that granny say “she’s nobody to me”.
2 kids by a dude that can't even get a place for his family. Sad. The grandma was helping them out and they tried to mess her over. Glad she got the money for the phone.
this is usually the price of letting ungrateful entitled people live off you
It's so sad that a single phone can break up a family forever
The older woman outside with Harvey saying "I'm the grandmother, why come to me?" OMG Just like Harvey said, I love her so much! And wow, she is so right! I'm a grandmother, and I always say, "hey, I don't get involved in that!" Hehehe