Must Watch.. Teaching Our boys "It's Okay to Cry"
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- čas přidán 1. 08. 2016
- Most boys are taught its not okay to Cry.. Here in this video it is explained thru Martial Arts as the back drop, that it is okay to cry, understanding why, and Powering thru it when there is a task at hand!! This is a UNIVERSAL MESSAGE.. ALL OF OUR BOYS NEED TO BE TAUGHT THIS MESSAGE!!
Notice how none of the others boys are teasing or laughing. He's instilling respect, discipline & maturity in these young kings! Love it!
I loved that you called them young kings. Excellent word choice. I completely agree.
Yes
Chad Hansen shutthefuckup
XNorthEast why? What’s your take on this?
@@xnortheast1106 ah nah nigga its you again
The Sensei kneeled to show respect to his student. Then he mentored. That’s how it should always be: communicating with our beautiful legacy with respect and compassion. Lovely...
I had a bad childhood but my martial arts helped i needed a operation for a medical condition and was really scared at home i got little suport but my martial arts teacher noticed that something was up and asked me i tried not to cry becouse that is what i was always told to do but she hugged me and told me its okay to cry i really feld safe with her
It takes me like 10 beers to be able to bond with people like this man does casually. What a bro.
Ha
Ha
You da man for admitting this lol
Speaks volumes about how men are abused as boys today and the lack of what we really need from fathers
I know what u mean the sensei was supposed to be angry and says DO NOT CRY!!!! But the sensei helped him and that means he's out of his mind?
When he broke through I screamed "YEA!!!!!" Out loud for him. A literal break through
everything about this video it's perfect
*ONLY THE TRINITY IS PERFECT ANS ONLY THE TRINITY!*
Facts. Ion know why but every time i watch this video i cry with him
I disagree . 01:51 here he say something that turned all the speech into a victimization speech.
Society has taught men that crying makes them weak, and if they do it is frowned apon. But this is a perfect example that crying is okay, for both women and men. And more people should know and understand this so men and boys dont feel as though they arent good enough if they show emotion. The world would be a better place. So thank you for this example and window to realization that it is okay to cry. ☺👍
Nothing wrong with crying. This was a perfect example. But for the men I’d say there is a time and a place. Ain’t just anybody seeing my tears!!!!!!
There is a difference between crying in weakness and crying in strength
You cry for the right reasons not for everything
It's still frowned upon.
I will empower all of our black boys to accomplish MORE than what society expects of us.
DionTheMusician I will too my fellow musician.
You sad little man.
You and people like you are sowing the seeds of division with your "our black boys" BS.
Since when has "our group" vs everybody else ever had a positive outcome?
I'd bet money that you'd be the first person to bitch and whine if you saw a video comment with someone saying: "I will empower all of our white boys to accomplish MORE"
I dunno why the ”we cry as men” hit my in such a way. I really cannot explain why but it sounds so empowering. Like in just that one sentence, he shows his student how strong and vulnerable we human beings can be. It’s awesome
Men need more mentors like this that deserve given recognition and due credit in popular culture, not just women all the time because BEING A COMPLETE MAN is totally different thing then a woman we have to accept that we are not one and the same, people totally fail to recognize this tell me I'm lying
This is great culture!
Men raising their young boys to great men.
God bless you all.
I think what was the most profound thing to me watching this, was that while understanding that everyone must go through challenges in their life (man or woman), it is to be expected of the men to continue until they succeed.
Great job. Once you know what that pain is and feel that you can do more. Keep going, keep growing. You can do it. OMG you can because you are!
Bingo!!
Andie Thomas Inspires me to be a martial art coach to help children and teens in my age(18) now who really need guidence.
The martial arts coach is a second father for sure ❤
This is what Boys To Men teaches. This is an organization for young men.
I will never get bored from this. This is the definition of an OG black brotha✊💯
Love this black men teaching young black men to do great things and to be ok with themselves.
That was me when I first got into karate when I was 7 years old I felt like I wasn't strong enough to reach my full potential it took a lot of tears for me to face my fears and now I'm a 1 degree black belt in Shalion Kenpo Karate and I studied other forms of martial arts like Jeet Kune Do,Muay Thai, Wing Chun. I became top of my class by the time I was 16 years old now I'm 27 training kids to become better than me 💯
Showing my five year old black son this every night. Let’s build warriors. Rise to our natural born righteous kings.
Why doesn’t this page have 700 million views??? Powerful stuff
The page doesn’t because I don’t post consistently .. the video on the other hand is not mine it’s a repost. The video has been viewed altogether many times.. the coach/teacher is Jason Wilson!!
damn i needed to hear this. keep going guys. EVERYONE faces adversity, do whatever it takes to make it. #ialmostgaveup
It's always ok to cry, you just don't let it get the best of you.
"The Commander stands for the virtues of wisdom, sincerely, benevolence, courage and strictness." ~ Sun Tzu, The Art of War, 1.9: Laying Plans
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These guys got me chopping onions over here!! 😭. The part with the father at the end was beautiful too
A true teacher
This is a masterpiece. Respect to all these men.
This is what I love most about martial arts. This man is an amazing instructor.
Brothas,I just wanna let ALLLLL OF you know just how proud I am of you!!!💯👊🏾👊🏾✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾 this video came up in a conversation I had with my nephew's therapist,i remembered i had watched it before and just how much of an impact it had on me,so I just HAD to watch it again...POWERFUL MY BROTHAS👊🏾✊🏾
it is ok to cry
Pablo Blanco I don't cry cause I'm getting munch older
sure is
I like that he gives him time to think and work out what's going on inside himself.
why am i crying oh yes my father didnt do any of this with me
dont look for excuses, you pulled through, its okay to cry:)
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@@ajanimandara2913 Dude that's not funny
F
I broke down too. Grown as i am
World needs more men like this. A true man!
I have so much respect for this teacher.
This almost made me cry. Thank you all for this video.
Right On! What excellent teaching! Hooyah Warriors!
It is okay to cry. As man, there will be challenge. Never be afraid of crying, always do your best, and never give up, even if you are tasting the salt pursuing any challenge.
This kid I want to see how he has grown up. Probably a hell of a young man. Praises to this sensei frfr
I still watch this video till this day. I will raise my son like that if I ever have one ❤️
This video don't have enough views for me. Bravo to the instructor, the student and the father. Bravo!
Mr. Wilson you really doing God's work. All praises . God bless you man. 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
What a great life lesson.✊
I cried too, must be painful for that kid
Thats awesome bit of wisdom - respect
I love this. Let's support each other brothers. We have been divided did too long.
Crying is fine everyone cries sometimes or more then others but giving up is an issue
*WHY AM I CRYING*
This is a real sensei/teacher
This man is amazing!!!!
thank you for yoyr words,sir!
Lelldorin brought me here. Very inspiring!
True OG. Respect.
It's cool how he's teaching people to be proud men. Often these days it's something we're made to feel ashamed of.
Wow... love this
I got shocked when he mentioned Yahshua! Amazing!
A message all fathers should pass on to their sons.
It doesn’t go unnoticed brother
I think This is really inspiring
amazing truly amazing.
2:20 that "RHHHAAAAAAHHH" is tear jerking every time.
You do a great job Sir
You’re a good soul.
That's how all teachers need to be
when i was a kid like him i was forbidden to cry, coz cry is for weak ppl, and if i cry i will just get my ass kicked more by my father, that cry is wrong, it shows fear and that you allways have to be strong to other ppl and even bully them in order to get respect, specialy females, hit them in order to get there respect, that is how he treated my mom, like a dog, and she lived unhappy for 35 years, eventualy he died, and me even beying scared of becoming like him, like he wanted to, i chose not to, so i cry, so im not a bully, so i respect woman, i chose my path, i took what he showed me as a bad thing to do, its ok to cry, its ok to have emotions, respect everyone and you will be respected
Man this is beautiful
I remember when I was in karate and some kids started crying the teacher told him to stop it 😢
THIS MAN IS A TRUE EXEMPLAR.
A PIONEER.
A WARRIOR.
A POET.
EVERYTHING I AM NOT.
i agree he is such a great teacher he didnt force the kid to stop crying but he understood crying i wish he was my teacher
This was a great video.
*Very Inspiring*
Wow, that hit hard.
It's the real life Mr. Miyagi. Dang. We need him on the show Cobra Kai.
Powerful.
Amazing.
praise Yah
This hits hard every time I watch this
Inspirational
👊👍very good kid and sensie
In my honest opinion as a mature normal zoomer young man myself we as a society should be teaching boys to look up to firefighters not drag queens and definitely not gangsters because the truth is drag queens & gangsters are useless people. Boys should be taught to be gentlemen not macho-men and definitely not women. Boys must grow up to be compassionate, to be confident, to be respectful and to be responsible period. They must support their community, their families and their friends so they could grow up to be decent loving gentlemen.
No lies told
@@LifeStrategyMeetup Thanks brother I really appreciate it. As a young man myself I am so frustrated with these annoying predatory woke teachers feminizing our boys in modern times it is absolutely disgusting. Let boys be boys meaning let them have fun by being creative and being energetic & let them play fun games like dodgeball. When I myself graduated from an all boys high school our teachers both men and women let us have fun by playing many sports like rugby which is energetic & fun. Feminizing boys will lead them to commit suicide and we will all be in trouble. Feminine males cannot survive in this world because they will grow up feeling depressed meaning they will experience gender dysphoria. I am not saying we should hyper-masculinise boys into macho-men what I am really saying is that we should be teaching boys to be gentlemen not being feminine & not being macho. Like I said boys around the world must grow up to be compassionate responsible gentlemen period.
This hurts me so much as a father. I understand now the weight I feel. I always did what was necessary to make sure my little girl had everything, but me emotionally. I'm not a good father for that. I thought I was doing the right thing by just being in her life. I have to do better. I really hate myself now as a black man who is a father. This video hurt me...smh.....my apologies.
Don't beat yourself up for admitting you were vulnerable and didn't want to show that pain to her. Your not a bad father. You did the best you could and that's what matters. We can't control the things that break us emotionally, but we can take a step back and see where we think it has impacted our life and do something about it just like you coming to the realization that u feel you messed up, now u can right your wrongs. Good luck. And this is coming from a father with a daughter who feels the same way.
@@lucien4980 Thx, needed that💯
Inspiring
It's hard growing up without positive male role models. I think the arm smacking was a little weird, but I liked the message and the strength.
Best sensei ever
its ok i did tjat to my child and she never give she allways practice and practice and never stop until she know so
you must never give up to and then my child allways wins and she never lose she allways wins😇😇👌👌👏👏👍👍😱😱
I love that he brought the father out. What a beautiful and inspiring message throughout by the Sensei. That man's a Republican!
TRUE martial arts.
This is super sir
These kids don’t understand that to be a great teacher is only a reflection of great students
respect
Awww that made me cry
👏🏾
Nice
Hi, what serie is this?
I wonder who i might have been had i had men like this in my life
Don’t we all bro, don’t we all!
Gud :)
the other day, this guys started bumping into my chest with his shoulder out of nowhere aggressively, and I was continuously off balance. He continued to do it while keeping his body low, I was wondering if you could give advice on a simple way to counter this without grabbing his head or striking him (since he could easily slip out of the grab since i was off balance). His arms were tucked into his waist. He was much shorter so getting my body lower than his would be difficult (also I was off balance).
try to get out of his line of force (move to the side very quickly) that might get him out of balance, then you can do other things like striking
*Old Stereotypes have left the chat*
I cried watching ...
Me too
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
Where is this instructor located
If you can't cry you can't progress.
My guy
What school is this?