Exactly its not rocket science. Humans complicate everything and it doesn't even have to be like that. No wonder most people have high blood pressure lol
Exactly! Cheating is a coward act and also high chances you can catch some kind of disease and put yours and your partner health at high risk. Just be single then
I agree with you about this, and as long as you don't fall in love with the other one you're doing something with and your bond is strong enough between you two you will be totally fine
The blind leading the blind. The marriage is a covenant. People try to put the culture in their covenant and that’s not the way it was designed to work.
Today, less and less people are embracing integrity and adopting narcissism. Two people cheating is NOT “ kinda” an open relationship! It is cheating. There is no such thing as an open marriage. Either you have marriage or you don’t. An “open marriage “ is a companionship or life partnership; both parties just didn’t have the integrity to end the marriage on paper for logistical and financial reasons. And, you should never stay in a marriage for the kids. They will grow up in a household were both parents do not like each other - and will know it!
Well men generally have their prime time starting when they are 32. Till then they still generally building their foundation to be a strong leader. Most men can’t provide for a wife and kids before 30 nowadays money wise and social status wise.. I started getting abundant options after 30 and being listen to when I speak without women trying to fight with me. And most men I know got on that level after 35.
exactly and i’m 26. I’m like 👀 soooooo when we going to grow up or decide that monogamy just isn’t for you. It’s a simple as this, what works for some don’t work for all and age has nothing to do with that. Know what you want and go get what you want done and know that depending on what you want it can take a lot of work a lot of compromise and a lot of willingness to adjust what you think is right. Done.
28 is young, when the average mortality age is 79. It's not about maturity, it's about statistics. 200 years ago, 28 years old was close to the average mortality age.
Right! I’m 28 as well and know damn well you have the ability to make mature decisive decisions earlier in life. The development curve is due to society but people are able to be responsible much earlier in life and there are no excuses other than wanting to be carefree.
If you need to step out from your spouse to mingle with another women it’s not marriage. Marriage is the covenant(oath) between you your spouse and God. Stop changing the meaning of marriage to suit your own interest. Do not get married If you cannot keep the oath between you, your spouse and God. This is sickening and they wonder why divorce rates is extremely high
Open relationship is not just about venturing out sexually. It's about honesty as well. Being able to knowingly and openly speak about what each other wants outside of the marriage and both come to an agreement and understanding. End of the day you are coming home to me and I am coming home to you. Also that other person need to know where he or she will be in the relationship and the position and know that it's not gonna go further than that.
I had an open relationship and it's funny how you get that honesty part. Being open end in my marriage, He had who he wanted when he wanted but lied about it and his feelings instead of being honest. I low key feel like he lied because although we were open I never saw anyone else. But I really felt like because he lied he had no respect for me in our relationship so I said I am letting go. I want someone who understands me and what I need to feel valid and safe.
@@sunkissedbrownsugga9704 sooooo you just let him fuck whoever he wanted and since you said it's okay now you're not getting played, even though you are getting played. Interesting..
If you're not okay with your wife cheating to "even the slate" then why cheat on her? That isn't about counting wrongs that's about doing unto others as you would wish unto yourself.
Some people genuinely have the capacity to deeply love and still respect more than one person at a time. A true open marriage is when two people have that understanding of each other, and keep the family first, but are open and honest with their spouse about the extra curricular activity. Ensuring nothing is done on either end to disrespect. It’s called a Poly lifestyle. Also, many bisexual women prefer open marriage bc it’s not always another man they want to be with; so it’s a win win for the husband. And some dudes are legit Alpha’s and knows no matter what another man can do for her, she’s going to come home bc it is the respect, mutual responsibility to the household and true friendship that makes the marriage last, not sex.
Exactly!!! He is CONTROLLING. He can't stand for another's man energy in his house. But got his own hummingbird. I can't stand some HUMANS on this planet! They DO NOT practice enough SUBJECTIVITY and NEVER accountable! Mental Health issues ting!!! 😩
@@kasheemsmith6239 not all marriages were created for monogamy. Modern Patriarchal Tradition has robbed us of comprehensive and full relationships, where people are free to be their full selves, WITH another (or otherS).
I have been watching these shows, and honestly I think Rico is a bit judgemental and always what to make his points more valid than others, it's like what he thinks counts more. His usually saying it's not a judgemental show but.... then he judges.
How hard is it not to cheat🤷🏾♂️. As a man who got cheated on that shit hurts bad asf. Especially when you were good. Fuck all that polygamy BS Monogamy is easy asf. Just don’t cheat
@@leklekjasmine416 being faithful is easy. Just don’t cheat. If the relationship is good and it’s no issues why cheat. People cheat because they want to and choose to.
I'm not getting married to let my wife go sleep with another man. I hear everyone on the panel n I agree with Rah. For me to think about that all day, seeing u, your laying next to me etc. The one line I hate is when people say go live your best life. You do know that you can live your best life with your significant other. 2 wrongs don't make a right. We live in a society where women want to act like men. Society is so much of an influence that people forget how to be people. So much has changed today, marriage is still marriage and if u feel that you want to be with other people then be real with your significant other and not get married. Too much is invested when u tie the knot, financial, children, assets, feelings. If ur not ready then your not ready. Some people are not built for marriage bottom line
I hope you can live up to your expectations. Because your being sexist to say women are trying to be like men. Because we live in shovinist capitalistic society it allows men to "THINK" they can do whatever. And if a woman does it they crucify her. Rashaan said he was cheating before they got married. But yet got married. I am not clear whether she did before marriage or after. However, sounds like he found out she was doing it too before marriage. And decided to call it quits because he found out about her indiscretion prior to their marriage. Because his EGO couldn't handle it! But did her the same shit! This doesn't make any DAMN sense!!! Rashaan only divorced because he found out about hers FIRST!!! He proceeded to let her know about his after finding out about hers FIRST. Listen to what he said. He was living that BEST MAN movie shit! But was cheating but didn't care about her feelings or his hummingbird in his ears. But care about another man's energy in his home. People out here are SELFISH! Rashaan is SELFISH and probably CONTROLLING! Some of you men NEED to check you all selves seriously!!! This was a POOR objective response on Rashaan's part with NO subjectivity and accountability!!! He needs counseling.
sadly its not your call , no one is anyones possesion so if he or she wants to sleep with someone else for whatever reason they will and eventually there is nothing you can do about that that is the sad fact eventually people will be true to themselves , marriage is a contract , we as humans are not made of stone , we are made of flesh and blood , people feel attracted to several other people , there in lies the potential for infidelity
@@youtubefans510 then don't get married or marry someone who has the same beliefs as u simple. Marriage is a binded contract. There is a lot of repercussions when u do break that contract
@@MrRudym01 marriage (certificate) is a piece of paper it's the relationship that makes it a marriage you can keep on going on about binding contract as if you are in the business world but we are humans made of flesh and blood not a piece of paper , different people have different views accept it
He automatically answered the 1st question wrong bc an open relationship is not keeping up a family dynamics and you're not actually together 😂 where did he get that
As a married woman of 12 years, been with my husband total of 17 years, i agree and relate to a lot of what the women were saying here as well as the divorced man on the panel. I too lived for almost 2 years separated in the same household raising our girls before we got it back right together and been working on it since. Marriage can be up and down and it’s something u have to experience to really understand how it can be. At the end of the day, we have to choose what we want and what we don’t want without carelessly hurting the one we claim to love
I think open relationships ruin a normal relationship but can save a broken one. Like if two people love each other and wanna be together but they aren’t compatible in the bedroom. That one area they can be fulfilled elsewhere but stay with their wife or husband keep the kids in one home and still get to love each other.
I've been in 3 open relationships and they worked out well for me. One ended because I retracted and became selfish, another ended because I moved, and the last one ended because he ghosted me...however while I was in them they were perfectly fine and when we wanted to be with each other we wouldn't do anything with anyone else, plus we had an open door policy on our communication
I think it depends on the two people and how mature you are if you decide to try it. To me it brings problems. Even if you know you have agreed to an open relationship I think both parties are going to wonder a different amount of things going on in there head. Like Is she or he better than me, Will you want that person more than me, Will this break us apart because feelings may arise with another person. Its Alot, Or are you going to fake your feelings for the main person just to do what you want.. Just alot.. Just be single
First of all ,Rico never been married and doesnt understand his point .and he should let him talk about his experience and not expect him to be on his point ,Rico had an idea of what relationship/ marriage should be or it is ,However he is sharing his experience and his conscious decisions of why he wouldnt entertain that
indeed, well said , infidelity is seen as a character flaw , you get a character assassination when you deviate in words or actions from the norm, and infidelity is seen as relationship armegeddon, not any of us were born to feel for just the one ,
The man in black is right. The issue with this generation is that they don’t understand the concept of marriage and monogamy, and the sacrifice and respect it takes. No way would I be okay as a woman with cheating on my husband or if he cheated and said you have a pass.. I would be disgusted. I’m saying this as a 20 year old who’s parents have been in a 30 year marriage. My generation for the most part don’t understand the importance of the institution of marriage and want to bring too much of the outside worlds views into something that’s existed beyond this time. If you want to play, play but don’t create a family and vows built on a lie.
See when all u saw was ur parents married for 30 years u don’t agree with this type of crap... I agree with u this generation sucks at relationships period. My mom and dad wasn’t perfect at all ... but an open marriage no it’s not the answer
@@tonileolion9702 exactly. They weren’t perfect and I don’t know what issues they may have dealt with but they made it work for the family and that’s what matters..
Revenge cheating is for the birds.... I feel like why would I devalue myself ( adding on to my body count) as a response to something someone who clearly didn't value me in the first place doings? To me in my eyes their value went down and I can do better...✌🏽 And I'm saying this as a woman with 3 kids, several business built with this man and was 1 week out from our wedding date...
There is no one-size-fits-all for life, love, or relationships. All of us are unique, meaning we each have different needs, wants, and desires. A traditional monogamous relationship may not be right for you. Just more than 25% of Americans are interested in having an open relationship. In an open relationship, the couple are openly dating or seeing other people. Both partners can pursue sexual or emotional attachments with others. An open relationship isn’t the same as cheating! Both partners know they have consent or permission to engage in sexual acts or form emotional attachments with other people. An open relationship can work, and it can be healthy. But it takes both you and your partner to put in the effort, keep the lines of communication open, and be honest.
You should all too a topic of why you can't just find your spouse the most attractive and beautiful and why you can't love her/him fully and not want to cheat or want an open relationship
It sounds like to me that a lot of women settle with their partner because they are able to take care of home.My question that I would like to understand is why did it fall off and did it come back together because there’s no alternative of no way out I would like to understand that.
You cannot impose societal or religious norms on anyone , in fact you can not impose any way of thinking on anyone, not political, religious , moral or sexual , YOU CANNOT FORCE SOMEONE ELSE TO THINK, FEEL OR ACT A CERTAIN WAY and if judged upon its goes underground
Most people tell their truths whether married or any type of relationship, which isn't equivalent to honesty or complete transparency. Just to be clear, this includes females as well.
"Family Dynamic?" WTF? These people are Godless. I'm gay, and liberal, but this whole open relationship thing is sick. Why even get married, or be together in the first place? It's sick, and twisted. Sex addiction wears many masks.
True long term committed pair-bonded love stays together through times of exclusivity and non-exclusivity alike. So if cheating is a relationship shattering event, it's not love. An open relationship makes it easier to be honest Exclusivity as an assumed constant/default option is the active ingredient by which fear of the interloper becomes an inescapably reasonable proposition in a majority monogamous society.
The result is that evolution has equipped men with a psyche that pursues a dual strategy: they want a woman as a steady partner and mate - but they also wouldn't mind having a little on the side, too. We’d do better as a culture if we could exercise a little more tolerance, acceptance and honest discussions around sex, desire and marriage, and try to be less rigid in our idealistic views of monogamy Long-term monogamy is hard for everyone in many societies, social norms and boundaries are in conflict with fundamental biological urges an experts opinion : A man is by nature polygamous , monogamy and fidelity are unnatural situations propagated by religious beliefs and social pressures A man is visual and logical in nature for him it’s just a physical release that’s got nothing to do with love (thats why monogamy and fidelity creates so many problems because it is unnatural ) another expert's opinion : The probability of cheating in monogamy is high. Most of the times the relationship becomes a lie and lose it's complete meaning, because of the imposed restrictions and limitations. Procreation is such a strong biological drive that only few people can resist the temptation to cheat even most women People cheat on who they love all the time. Monogamy is just not a natural thing. Even if you are faithful you still have to fight the urge to cheat. We’d do better as a culture if we could exercise a little more tolerance, acceptance and honest discussions around sex, desire and marriage, and try to be less rigid in our idealistic views of monogamy. A relationship expert says this : Dishonesty is often a sign of a deeper problem in the relationship. “If someone can’t be honest, it’s because they’re frightened of telling the truth,” says Norris. “It’s very easy to lay the blame at the feet of the one who’s being dishonest, but you should look at why this person can’t be honest with you.” sexual relations should be freed from social policing and constraint, from norms and from stigmas
@@youtubefans510 mostly I agree, but polygamy is not polyamory And men are capable of emotional connection, to a certain degree it is less connected with a physical release than it is with women, The real magic happens at the laws of physics level....it's in the definition of non-exclusivity that connection with B is specifically not a disconnect from A. Religious views on sex, marriage and exclusivity all boil down to socially normalised of ownership of exclusive access to each others anatomy, including the heart. Celebrating the exchange of exclusive access to each others anatomy is a 72 billion dollar industry, as if that's actually something to celebrate....and we claim to be a modern society that hates Isis and the Taliban with their sex slavery and the way they treat their women like property!!!!!!!!! Over here in the west, we treat men and women equal. We treat our men like property as well !!!!!!
Women sleeping with multiple men and losing the ability to pair bond with a man is not natural either. Dying alone is not natural either. After a woman's child bearing years are over, her overall value decreases and having a spouse is much more important to a woman than a man. If healthy, a man can create a new family until his 70s. That's just a fact.
Makes me wonder if monogamy actually becomes unnatrual, in particular for women... does a woman that pair bonds with a man that took her virginity desire another man?
Men & women are completely different. Women cheat, men excercise options. My point, women show loyalty with there fidelity & men show loyalty with sharing resources. Most Men can have sex & detach emotions & most women cannot.
Tbh people don’t wanna believe this but it’s true .... Men can f$ck and don’t even think about as cheating just like eating a piece of forbidden fruit that Hey, was just their.... if I cheat with a man he is probably going to be or could be the other guys replacement. But nowadays a lot of woman can have sex with multiple men and have 0 feelings ... I just can’t lol to many bodies and that’s not cool especially for woman .. men are different and that’s just how it is... not saying it’s right just saying reality.. overall sad
marriage is a union...its two becoming one ...an open relationship in marriage is basically two confused undecided people who decide to get married without knowing the basic concept of marriage.
Every time RICO opens his mouth it makes me wish i had pretty privilege. Just spews straight up nonsense and worse thats how this generation thinks. You are either in a marriage or you are not. point blank period.
The result is evolution has equipped men with a psyche that pursues a dual strategy: they want a woman as a steady partner and mate - but they also wouldn't mind having a little on the side, too.
If God didn’t start tte relationship and you did it’s never going to work anyway. Different note: if you’re not disciplined or committed to remain monogamous don’t get married. Now I know ppl will say it’s not that easy; it actually is. Is teleportation real, yes but so is your ability to stay true to yourself and to your mate. This s$$t isn’t that hard: it’s selfish period.
What type of 🤦🏿♂️ married man really wants an open relationship???? It's bad enough when 1 person in the relationship has an "entanglement" imagine if it was regular fare for people in relationships to routinely have multiple partners 🤷🏿♂️
@@mr.simmtheprofessor2919 are most men fit to speak as if they are men of means?🤣 It never ceases to amaze me how often average men speak vicariously through the life of wealthy men. KS fed you all that Kool-aid and yall sucked it right up.
Lol I laugh at all these comments the solution is marry someone who you will cheat with. Then you won't cheat. An ppl need to understand not cas u got married mean you should let yuh self go. If u fit stay fit cas men we inlove with what we marry dont change cas the guy didn't sign up for change. Men hate we hateee change
It’s a good thing that Rico have good looks because my God as I watch these vids with him in them, the inside damn sure don’t match the outside at all! All Looks No Brain.
When I feel like it's available to me????? Hahahah that ain't life honey lol you dont get to purposely make a mistake cuz he did if you planning it then it ain't a mistake!
Married or not people need to come to the term that you need to be faithful and loyal in order for it to work.
Exactly its not rocket science. Humans complicate everything and it doesn't even have to be like that. No wonder most people have high blood pressure lol
Exactly! Cheating is a coward act and also high chances you can catch some kind of disease and put yours and your partner health at high risk. Just be single then
True loyalty stays loyal through times of exclusivity and non-exclusivity alike.
I agree with you about this, and as long as you don't fall in love with the other one you're doing something with and your bond is strong enough between you two you will be totally fine
@@AdamEdington exactly 💯
I'm 100% with Rashaan. Just leave. I am not knowingly entertaining my partner stepping out for any reason.
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The blind leading the blind. The marriage is a covenant. People try to put the culture in their covenant and that’s not the way it was designed to work.
Absolutely, I agree. Either just stay single or abide by the commitment of marriage.
True. If they want to live that life, don’t get married.
Not true. Marriage is what you want it to be. You just need to be honest with each other on what type of marriage you want.
Marriage is a covenant for SOME PEOPLE. For non-believers it's a public declaration of love and/or a form of security.
@@Marz2727 well said.
I feel like you can only speak on marriage if you’ve experienced marriage. Marriage is a whole different ball game than dating.
Facts
Lies
Yep.
Lmao maybe for women but for men there is little to no advantage for us to do so on any level 😭
facts 💯
Today, less and less people are embracing integrity and adopting narcissism. Two people cheating is NOT “ kinda” an open relationship! It is cheating. There is no such thing as an open marriage. Either you have marriage or you don’t. An “open marriage “ is a companionship or life partnership; both parties just didn’t have the integrity to end the marriage on paper for logistical and financial reasons. And, you should never stay in a marriage for the kids. They will grow up in a household were both parents do not like each other - and will know it!
Facts
If 28 years old is a young man who is a man then ? This generation is too much. Want to do childish things for the longest season ever.
Well men generally have their prime time starting when they are 32. Till then they still generally building their foundation to be a strong leader.
Most men can’t provide for a wife and kids before 30 nowadays money wise and social status wise..
I started getting abundant options after 30 and being listen to when I speak without women trying to fight with me.
And most men I know got on that level after 35.
exactly and i’m 26. I’m like 👀 soooooo when we going to grow up or decide that monogamy just isn’t for you. It’s a simple as this, what works for some don’t work for all and age has nothing to do with that. Know what you want and go get what you want done and know that depending on what you want it can take a lot of work a lot of compromise and a lot of willingness to adjust what you think is right. Done.
28 is young, when the average mortality age is 79. It's not about maturity, it's about statistics. 200 years ago, 28 years old was close to the average mortality age.
I'm 30 and I can honestly say I don't have my shit together! I am in no position to be getting married and/or having children.
Right! I’m 28 as well and know damn well you have the ability to make mature decisive decisions earlier in life. The development curve is due to society but people are able to be responsible much earlier in life and there are no excuses other than wanting to be carefree.
If you need to step out from your spouse to mingle with another women it’s not marriage. Marriage is the covenant(oath) between you your spouse and God. Stop changing the meaning of marriage to suit your own interest. Do not get married If you cannot keep the oath between you, your spouse and God. This is sickening and they wonder why divorce rates is extremely high
Open relationship is not just about venturing out sexually. It's about honesty as well. Being able to knowingly and openly speak about what each other wants outside of the marriage and both come to an agreement and understanding. End of the day you are coming home to me and I am coming home to you. Also that other person need to know where he or she will be in the relationship and the position and know that it's not gonna go further than that.
Well said.
I had an open relationship and it's funny how you get that honesty part. Being open end in my marriage, He had who he wanted when he wanted but lied about it and his feelings instead of being honest. I low key feel like he lied because although we were open I never saw anyone else. But I really felt like because he lied he had no respect for me in our relationship so I said I am letting go. I want someone who understands me and what I need to feel valid and safe.
And it also a high risk of spreading stds and unplanned pregnancies.
@@sunkissedbrownsugga9704 sooooo you just let him fuck whoever he wanted and since you said it's okay now you're not getting played, even though you are getting played. Interesting..
An open relationship is like introducing somebody to drugs but then getting mad that they get high.
An open relationship is not a relationship.
Let's be real.
If you're not okay with your wife cheating to "even the slate" then why cheat on her? That isn't about counting wrongs that's about doing unto others as you would wish unto yourself.
Omg thank you!!
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A lot of times a man cheats because he is already thinking or has proof that his wife is already cheating on him.
@@Jahfariinternational thou shall not lie
Homie isn’t comfortable with the concept but yall pushing it
Married ppl need to speak on marriage...... that's it.
Right no one on the panel is married
@@ajax5427 Erin is.
And that’s all
Some people genuinely have the capacity to deeply love and still respect more than one person at a time.
A true open marriage is when two people have that understanding of each other, and keep the family first, but are open and honest with their spouse about the extra curricular activity. Ensuring nothing is done on either end to disrespect. It’s called a Poly lifestyle.
Also, many bisexual women prefer open marriage bc it’s not always another man they want to be with; so it’s a win win for the husband.
And some dudes are legit Alpha’s and knows no matter what another man can do for her, she’s going to come home bc it is the respect, mutual responsibility to the household and true friendship that makes the marriage last, not sex.
Exactly!!! He is CONTROLLING. He can't stand for another's man energy in his house. But got his own hummingbird. I can't stand some HUMANS on this planet! They DO NOT practice enough SUBJECTIVITY and NEVER accountable! Mental Health issues ting!!! 😩
No alpha will be in a open relationship
@@Theboxingdungeon your opinion.
Once you open your marriage your letting your partner know he or she is not enough for you.
@@kasheemsmith6239 not all marriages were created for monogamy. Modern Patriarchal Tradition has robbed us of comprehensive and full relationships, where people are free to be their full selves, WITH another (or otherS).
I have been watching these shows, and honestly I think Rico is a bit judgemental and always what to make his points more valid than others, it's like what he thinks counts more. His usually saying it's not a judgemental show but.... then he judges.
Open relationship is also open in communication. Otherwise its cheeting. ✌
THANK YOU
How hard is it not to cheat🤷🏾♂️. As a man who got cheated on that shit hurts bad asf. Especially when you were good. Fuck all that polygamy BS Monogamy is easy asf. Just don’t cheat
How can you say it’s easy when you’ve been cheated on
@@leklekjasmine416 being faithful is easy. Just don’t cheat. If the relationship is good and it’s no issues why cheat. People cheat because they want to and choose to.
This channel shows why our race will never reach it’s true potential 💯
That generalizing. You're saying other race don't cheat?
Rico look like a little cartoon character sitting next to this dude🤣💀🤣💀
I'm not getting married to let my wife go sleep with another man. I hear everyone on the panel n I agree with Rah. For me to think about that all day, seeing u, your laying next to me etc. The one line I hate is when people say go live your best life. You do know that you can live your best life with your significant other. 2 wrongs don't make a right. We live in a society where women want to act like men. Society is so much of an influence that people forget how to be people. So much has changed today, marriage is still marriage and if u feel that you want to be with other people then be real with your significant other and not get married. Too much is invested when u tie the knot, financial, children, assets, feelings. If ur not ready then your not ready. Some people are not built for marriage bottom line
I hope you can live up to your expectations. Because your being sexist to say women are trying to be like men. Because we live in shovinist capitalistic society it allows men to "THINK" they can do whatever. And if a woman does it they crucify her. Rashaan said he was cheating before they got married. But yet got married. I am not clear whether she did before marriage or after. However, sounds like he found out she was doing it too before marriage. And decided to call it quits because he found out about her indiscretion prior to their marriage. Because his EGO couldn't handle it! But did her the same shit! This doesn't make any DAMN sense!!! Rashaan only divorced because he found out about hers FIRST!!! He proceeded to let her know about his after finding out about hers FIRST. Listen to what he said. He was living that BEST MAN movie shit! But was cheating but didn't care about her feelings or his hummingbird in his ears. But care about another man's energy in his home. People out here are SELFISH! Rashaan is SELFISH and probably CONTROLLING! Some of you men NEED to check you all selves seriously!!! This was a POOR objective response on Rashaan's part with NO subjectivity and accountability!!! He needs counseling.
sadly its not your call , no one is anyones possesion so if he or she wants to sleep with someone else for whatever reason they will and eventually there is nothing you can do about that
that is the sad fact eventually people will be true to themselves , marriage is a contract , we as humans are not made of stone , we are made of flesh and blood , people feel attracted to several other people , there in lies the potential for infidelity
@@youtubefans510 then don't get married or marry someone who has the same beliefs as u simple. Marriage is a binded contract. There is a lot of repercussions when u do break that contract
@@MrRudym01 marriage (certificate)
is a piece of paper
it's the relationship that makes it a marriage
you can keep on going on about binding contract as if you are in the business world but we are humans made of flesh and blood not a piece of paper , different people have different views accept it
He automatically answered the 1st question wrong bc an open relationship is not keeping up a family dynamics and you're not actually together 😂 where did he get that
As a married woman of 12 years, been with my husband total of 17 years, i agree and relate to a lot of what the women were saying here as well as the divorced man on the panel. I too lived for almost 2 years separated in the same household raising our girls before we got it back right together and been working on it since. Marriage can be up and down and it’s something u have to experience to really understand how it can be. At the end of the day, we have to choose what we want and what we don’t want without carelessly hurting the one we claim to love
I think open relationships ruin a normal relationship but can save a broken one. Like if two people love each other and wanna be together but they aren’t compatible in the bedroom. That one area they can be fulfilled elsewhere but stay with their wife or husband keep the kids in one home and still get to love each other.
Agreed.
I've been in 3 open relationships and they worked out well for me. One ended because I retracted and became selfish, another ended because I moved, and the last one ended because he ghosted me...however while I was in them they were perfectly fine and when we wanted to be with each other we wouldn't do anything with anyone else, plus we had an open door policy on our communication
Open marriages are just a version of the stuff alot of our grandparents participated in i cant blame someone for not wanting to deal with that.
I dont ever wanna know my wife coming home after getting docked down
Yea this is a bit much ....
Me too
I think it depends on the two people and how mature you are if you decide to try it. To me it brings problems. Even if you know you have agreed to an open relationship I think both parties are going to wonder a different amount of things going on in there head. Like Is she or he better than me, Will you want that person more than me, Will this break us apart because feelings may arise with another person. Its Alot, Or are you going to fake your feelings for the main person just to do what you want.. Just alot.. Just be single
First of all ,Rico never been married and doesnt understand his point .and he should let him talk about his experience and not expect him to be on his point ,Rico had an idea of what relationship/ marriage should be or it is ,However he is sharing his experience and his conscious decisions of why he wouldnt entertain that
Sleeping with someone else outside of your relationship is not a sign of disloyalty. And marriage is just a business contract
indeed, well said , infidelity is seen as a character flaw , you get a character assassination when you deviate in words or actions from the norm, and infidelity is seen as relationship armegeddon, not any of us were born to feel for just the one ,
Rico shut up😂 he doesn’t know what he’s talking about.
Wow, RICO is right! He understands commitment, and loyalty goes beyond EGO!
how is someone who is not married, or EVER been married, giving advice about marriage? lmao
For good or bad / happy or sad. Good days or bad days stick it out. Or just be single. And definitely don't bring kinds in it.
Open marriages are discussed as ok only for the man. The honesty/ trust has to be on both sides.
A marriage ends when the foundation is broken beyond the desire to fix it.
The man in black is right. The issue with this generation is that they don’t understand the concept of marriage and monogamy, and the sacrifice and respect it takes. No way would I be okay as a woman with cheating on my husband or if he cheated and said you have a pass.. I would be disgusted. I’m saying this as a 20 year old who’s parents have been in a 30 year marriage. My generation for the most part don’t understand the importance of the institution of marriage and want to bring too much of the outside worlds views into something that’s existed beyond this time. If you want to play, play but don’t create a family and vows built on a lie.
Facts
You one of the very certain type of women left
See when all u saw was ur parents married for 30 years u don’t agree with this type of crap... I agree with u this generation sucks at relationships period. My mom and dad wasn’t perfect at all ... but an open marriage no it’s not the answer
@@tonileolion9702 exactly. They weren’t perfect and I don’t know what issues they may have dealt with but they made it work for the family and that’s what matters..
@@Meeeeeeeeeeree facts ....
Open marriage could work if you're openminded
The women on the panel have a better control then Rico. They should have somebody thought provoking as the host.
I am not getting married to have no darn open relationship!
I understood all angles of the argument.
Will and Jada... Nuff said 🤣🤣
Revenge cheating is for the birds.... I feel like why would I devalue myself ( adding on to my body count) as a response to something someone who clearly didn't value me in the first place doings? To me in my eyes their value went down and I can do better...✌🏽 And I'm saying this as a woman with 3 kids, several business built with this man and was 1 week out from our wedding date...
People still care about body counts?
There is no one-size-fits-all for life, love, or relationships. All of us are unique, meaning we each have different needs, wants, and desires.
A traditional monogamous relationship may not be right for you. Just more than 25% of Americans are interested in having an open relationship.
In an open relationship, the couple are openly dating or seeing other people. Both partners can pursue sexual or emotional attachments with others. An open relationship isn’t the same as cheating! Both partners know they have consent or permission to engage in sexual acts or form emotional attachments with other people.
An open relationship can work, and it can be healthy. But it takes both you and your partner to put in the effort, keep the lines of communication open, and be honest.
You should all too a topic of why you can't just find your spouse the most attractive and beautiful and why you can't love her/him fully and not want to cheat or want an open relationship
How can you speak on something you don't have any experience on. This open marriage stuff is a lack of discipline.
I totally agree, I can't give my wife the okay to have fun with a next man.
Yall are mixing up cheating and open relationships 🙄
It sounds like to me that a lot of women settle with their partner because they are able to take care of home.My question that I would like to understand is why did it fall off and did it come back together because there’s no alternative of no way out I would like to understand that.
sexual relations should be freed from social policing and constraint, from norms and from stigmas
My very first time coming to this channel and honestly I love it especially as a male of color this is different
You cannot impose societal or religious norms on anyone , in fact you can not impose any way of thinking on anyone, not political, religious , moral or sexual ,
YOU CANNOT FORCE SOMEONE ELSE TO THINK, FEEL OR ACT A CERTAIN WAY and if judged upon its goes underground
Love and monogamy have nothing to do with each other. Non-monogamous people can have love as strong as a monogamous couple.
i do not understand why would one want to be married but have a open relationship
Most people tell their truths whether married or any type of relationship, which isn't equivalent to honesty or complete transparency. Just to be clear, this includes females as well.
Rico capping cuz he ain married of course as a single man he can say he cool wit another man smashing his wife den comin back lolllll get atta here
"Family Dynamic?" WTF? These people are Godless. I'm gay, and liberal, but this whole open relationship thing is sick. Why even get married, or be together in the first place? It's sick, and twisted.
Sex addiction wears many masks.
True long term committed pair-bonded love stays together through times of exclusivity and non-exclusivity alike.
So if cheating is a relationship shattering event, it's not love.
An open relationship makes it easier to be honest
Exclusivity as an assumed constant/default option is the active ingredient by which fear of the interloper becomes an inescapably reasonable proposition in a majority monogamous society.
The result is that evolution has equipped men with a psyche that pursues a dual strategy: they want a woman as a steady partner and mate - but they also wouldn't mind having a little on the side, too. We’d do better as a culture if we could exercise a little more tolerance, acceptance and honest discussions around sex, desire and marriage, and try to be less rigid in our idealistic views of monogamy
Long-term monogamy is hard for everyone
in many societies, social norms and boundaries are in conflict with fundamental biological urges
an experts opinion : A man is by nature polygamous , monogamy and fidelity are unnatural situations propagated by religious beliefs and social pressures A man is visual and logical in nature for him it’s just a physical release that’s got nothing to do with love (thats why monogamy and fidelity creates so many problems because it is unnatural ) another expert's opinion : The probability of cheating in monogamy is high. Most of the times the relationship becomes a lie and lose it's complete meaning, because of the imposed restrictions and limitations.
Procreation is such a strong biological drive that only few people can resist the temptation to cheat even most women People cheat on who they love all the time. Monogamy is just not a natural thing. Even if you are faithful you still have to fight the urge to cheat. We’d do better as a culture if we could exercise a little more tolerance, acceptance and honest discussions around sex, desire and marriage, and try to be less rigid in our idealistic views of monogamy.
A relationship expert says this : Dishonesty is often a sign of a deeper problem in the relationship. “If someone can’t be honest, it’s because they’re frightened of telling the truth,” says Norris. “It’s very easy to lay the blame at the feet of the one who’s being dishonest, but you should look at why this person can’t be honest with you.”
sexual relations should be freed from social policing and constraint, from norms and from stigmas
@@youtubefans510 mostly I agree, but polygamy is not polyamory
And men are capable of emotional connection, to a certain degree it is less connected with a physical release than it is with women,
The real magic happens at the laws of physics level....it's in the definition of non-exclusivity that connection with B is specifically not a disconnect from A.
Religious views on sex, marriage and exclusivity all boil down to socially normalised of ownership of exclusive access to each others anatomy, including the heart.
Celebrating the exchange of exclusive access to each others anatomy is a 72 billion dollar industry, as if that's actually something to celebrate....and we claim to be a modern society that hates Isis and the Taliban with their sex slavery and the way they treat their women like property!!!!!!!!!
Over here in the west, we treat men and women equal. We treat our men like property as well !!!!!!
I definitely agree with you 💯
@AdamEdington true so would you want more polygamous or polyamorous type of relationship
@@maverickk2027 polyamorous....I do not advocate for polygamy
Monogamy is not natural.
depends on the person. Not everyone can be monogamous, but many can and prefer it.
Women sleeping with multiple men and losing the ability to pair bond with a man is not natural either. Dying alone is not natural either. After a woman's child bearing years are over, her overall value decreases and having a spouse is much more important to a woman than a man. If healthy, a man can create a new family until his 70s. That's just a fact.
Makes me wonder if monogamy actually becomes unnatrual, in particular for women... does a woman that pair bonds with a man that took her virginity desire another man?
For most people it's natural
@@michaelwesleyii5079 Yes it depends . People can get bored of their significant other after years in the same relationship
Usually I think my nigga Rico be wilding dating some crazy shit. Today.. he was kicking nothing but straight facts.
this man is my HERO
Men & women are completely different. Women cheat, men excercise options. My point, women show loyalty with there fidelity & men show loyalty with sharing resources. Most Men can have sex & detach emotions & most women cannot.
Eggzactly
Um. No.
Tbh people don’t wanna believe this but it’s true .... Men can f$ck and don’t even think about as cheating just like eating a piece of forbidden fruit that Hey, was just their.... if I cheat with a man he is probably going to be or could be the other guys replacement. But nowadays a lot of woman can have sex with multiple men and have 0 feelings ... I just can’t lol to many bodies and that’s not cool especially for woman .. men are different and that’s just how it is... not saying it’s right just saying reality.. overall sad
Still the same thing bro. Cheating is cheating
No way, even if I had 50 children and my wife cheated I'm done and gone. Divorce right away.
marriage is a union...its two becoming one ...an open relationship in marriage is basically two confused undecided people who decide to get married without knowing the basic concept of marriage.
Every time RICO opens his mouth it makes me wish i had pretty privilege. Just spews straight up nonsense and worse thats how this generation thinks. You are either in a marriage or you are not. point blank period.
The result is evolution has equipped men with a psyche that pursues a dual strategy: they want a woman as a steady partner and mate - but they also wouldn't mind having a little on the side, too.
Ol Girl...she got wearing the missy Elliot!!
If God didn’t start tte relationship and you did it’s never going to work anyway. Different note: if you’re not disciplined or committed to remain monogamous don’t get married. Now I know ppl will say it’s not that easy; it actually is. Is teleportation real, yes but so is your ability to stay true to yourself and to your mate. This s$$t isn’t that hard: it’s selfish period.
Dude look massive compared to boy Rico. Boy like 7'2 or something
No bro. Emotionally that shit don't work Rico
I should have been sitting at the table on this day.
What type of 🤦🏿♂️ married man really wants an open relationship???? It's bad enough when 1 person in the relationship has an "entanglement" imagine if it was regular fare for people in relationships to routinely have multiple partners 🤷🏿♂️
Why do y’all have him on the show?
erin is so fiyah
U is NOT lyin.... she is top tier all across the board in my book
❤️❤️❤️
Good talk
What is in it for any man of means to be in and open relationship or cheat, when you can get who you want and she can foot her own bill in life
Do most men make alot of money?
@@tatianadaniel3569 are most women even fit to represent a man of means with their soured past?
@@mr.simmtheprofessor2919 are most men fit to speak as if they are men of means?🤣
It never ceases to amaze me how often average men speak vicariously through the life of wealthy men. KS fed you all that Kool-aid and yall sucked it right up.
@@tatianadaniel3569 what a joke…my kids and drive helped me get to the mindset I have today and the things I own. Only if you knew LOL.✌🏾
@@tatianadaniel3569I can direct you to a few ladies who laugh at your comment and let you know a few things
I don't think Rico sat next to Rashaan ever again after this, dude look like a little person 😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂...it's true
Crooked and perverse generations
Wow
Why has that guy got two haircuts?
Man looks huge compared to other guy
Good conversation and for once yello man didn’t annoy me lmaooo
Lmao
See I'm not gonna judge....for all that be single..
Lol I laugh at all these comments the solution is marry someone who you will cheat with. Then you won't cheat. An ppl need to understand not cas u got married mean you should let yuh self go. If u fit stay fit cas men we inlove with what we marry dont change cas the guy didn't sign up for change. Men hate we hateee change
Single person giving advice for marriage couples lol
It’s a good thing that Rico have good looks because my God as I watch these vids with him in them, the inside damn sure don’t match the outside at all! All Looks No Brain.
This dude has zero idea what he talking about
This world is done
What is an open marriage? 😂 y’all say anything
Here first
Sex is the biggest sin my opinion
When I feel like it's available to me????? Hahahah that ain't life honey lol you dont get to purposely make a mistake cuz he did if you planning it then it ain't a mistake!
Goes both ways too
Wassup
💯💖😂
Boy in the Black blazer so insecure