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Is It Wrong To Feel Peace While Grieving?
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- čas přidán 6. 09. 2020
- Is it wrong to feel peace while grieving? That's the question Eckhart answer in this video, diving in the pre concepts made by society and his perception about life and death. Subscribe to find greater fulfillment in life:
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Emotions come and go. Do not resist the inner storms. Observe them, embrace them. To anyone reading this - I wish you love and healing right now here in this moment ❤️💕☀️
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Namaste 🙏
Ariana Reflects ❤️
So remember and repeat these words:
"It would be great if I could get the results I want. But even if it doesn't, my life will be intact. My efforts will not be in vain. It would just be a meaningful challenge. The results are out of my hands. And so I will focus on the next step I can take right now."
Think of this sentence over and over again. If you can really accept this sentence, your confidence level will start to grow. You may also realize that other people have only been pretending to be confident. Believing that you lack confidence because you haven’t tried enough is just nonsense.
Today, my youngest brother passed away. I felt sad when I think of it. When I put my attention at present moment I forget about everything and I feel at peace. His body perished and his consciousness merged into the pure consciousness. A drop of water went back into the ocean.
“There is suffering at first and then a deepening. In the deepening you go to a place where there is no death” 🙏🏼
My mom passed away on August 29th. And now this video comes out of nowhere. "The Power of Now" changed my life(read it 10 years ago). Thank you for everything
Ditto but my mom passed April 19. I’ve not grieved. I’ve felt peace because I know she feels Peace. I know she’s in the glory of Him and heaven. She did her life’s work gracefully... for the most part. I’ve felt confused and guilty about this peace. And this video appears in front of me.
Condolences to you! My Father is in the final stages of life & this video has been a great blessing to me as well!
I'm so sorry for your loss, live well the lessons she taught you and she will be with you always.
Have you read “A New Earth” ? Also a life changing book💕💫🦋❤️
@@Leesa_T I know you meant to say taught you but I think thought maybe more accurate so nothing needs to be changed in your comment
“The wound is the place where the Light enters you.”
― Rumi
this is perfekt
I love this one!!!
“In some ways suffering ceases to be suffering at the moment it finds a meaning.”
― Viktor E. Frankl
I felt peace and calm when my mom passed because I knew she was still with me. ❤🦋
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same here
I feel the same with my beloved husband.
This is so helpful. My soul mate died a year ago. At first it felt like part of me was amputated. But I have a growing sense of his invisible presence. So our love continues.
how long did it take before you began to feel his presence? the love of my life, my husband of 30 years, died in june. i have not felt him yet. i have this irrational fear he'll fade away as time goes on and i'll never be able to access that feeling of his presence.
@@beccahday It took many months. At first I missed his physical presence so much. I had the same fear of forgetting him, and have put many photos of him on my walls. I believe he continues to exist and I talk to him. It's much more subtle and intangible, very different for sure.
I feel this with my daughter who died 15 mths ago, however the sadness of her not being here still often overwhelms me.
Me too! My beloved husband passed on over 3 months ago. A loss too huge to overcome. Then with deepened prayer, I sense his loving presence is with me forever ever. I truly know he is with me.
Also I talk to him all the time, recording them in my iPhone Voice Memos. This has helped to heal me.
I learned deep empathy when my grandmother died. My mom went to a support group because she had felt guilt due to her elation that her mother died. The group only showed sympathy and therefore could not be of support to my mom. My mother felt deep release from decades of abuse by her mother. Her mother's death signified the end of my mother's trauma. This taught me never to assume anyone's position or feelings of an experience and to always be empathetic.
“Death is only the end if you assume the story is about you.”
― Jeffrey Cranor
Woooow. Never thought of it. Thanks💚
Yesss!!!
The ego always does think the story is about it forgetting it's wholness, Oneness
I realized this today when standing in a graveyard.
And now I see that you have articulated it so well. Thank you.
Nothing is permanent in this universe. Joy doesn’t last but grief also doesn’t last. Sometimes we need grief to feel grateful for the beauty of life ❤️🌟
Wouter Manders ❤️
@@elcoreelcore ❤️
My mum passed away the day before this video was posted. It’s been a rollercoaster of emotions, one of them being peace. That one is the best of all and I wish I could cling onto it.
One moment at a time be very gentle with you 💗
IT IS thank you for your kind words x
@@natashas.o.6380This moment is all you need to be with no other x
❤️sending love to you Natasha❤️ take care💕❤️
Ariana Reflects thank you, that means a lot to me
I had the same thing happen, when I lost my brother last February. I thought why am I feeling peace? Then I thought it was because we are so close to rising to the 5th D, that we will be closer to them. So I told my brother, I'll be there as fast as I can, I meant in spirit. Thank you for helping with this.
Thank you. I lost my younger sister and mom within last 2yrs, and I'm struggling with emotions like a roller coaster up + down periods... Thanks these helped. ❤️
My grandma passed this year, and I was sharing Eckhart's points of view to my mom before she passed. My mom watched her crossover and called me the next morning, I was shocked at how well she maintained!! Amazing! Im not taking credit for her strength though
I don't think there is a situation where it is wrong to feel at peace
...You just pulled your parachute ripcord and confetti streams out instead of the parachute. ahh... the peace of terminal velocity...
It is a gift from God. It's the peace you also feel when a spirit returns and let's you know they have found peace
This has happened to me with my sister when she passed.
@@m2pozad Still better to be at peace in that situation, or do you want your last moments full of terror? xD
What about when the morlocks are eating you family in the next room?
Totally agree
When one has Awareness one can recover quite rapidly from the storms of the pasts. They learn to appreciate the time that had with their past loved one exponentially. I lost my mother 2 years after my awakening and I shocked myself how well I processed her death. I envisioned being lost for years in the past, when this might occur. She was my best friend, as well as my teacher, and a soulmate. I could hear her voice speaking through me "I didn't raise you to suffer, I raised you to be strong and to always come out on top". It was that moment on the 7th day that gratitude and peace within was my new energy for that situation.
thank you
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His eyes ! So beautiful
My sister lost her husband last night .they had a wonderful relationship,,she doesn't have any teachings and is in so much pain ,,it's very very tough to let go but these teachings are precious 🙏
Peace and calm is the healing from god.
peacecock you are
Thank you for this. I thought that something was wrong with me. Now I know that everything is good.
Eckhart’s words coming from the deepest level of consciousness are truly messages of wisdom. His teachings far outweigh any other spiritual leader of his time. Thank you, Eckhart. ❤
Sehr traurig, es tut mir sehr leid, was da passiert ist. Die Wellen der Traurigkeit werden sicherlich noch sehr oft zurück kommen, das wird ein langer Weg. Ich wünsche viel Kraft und die richtigen Menschen (auch ggf. Psychologische Unterstützung) , an der Seite um wieder Ruhe und Frieden fühlen zu können.🙏
Death is a natural part of life. Allowing yourself to grieve peacefully is healing. Stay blessed everyone!
NO
@@mahakala what do you mean.
do you fear if we allow peace it means we won't allow intense emotions to naturally flow ?
@@celinee.9562 YES
@@FirstnameLastname-rn9qu NO
@@FirstnameLastname-rn9qu i like to call that peace the result of emotionnal alchemy. for me it's about making peace with intense emotions and letting them flow. i particularly like the Truth Mandala to that regard. it's about inviting the release of 4 intense emotions, and the surprise is that together, they harmonize and i find it is very helpful and healing to experience the healthiness in emotions we would otherwise supress and call '' negative '' i find it's helpful to use that tool of emotionnal alchemy as it is also a way to open the gates but in a certain time frame (when we feel we need it) and then we finish the ritual (the turn-arounds are interesting in meaning. they bring a very good feeling. ) my experience is the whole ritual (that i do alone in a quiet time) helps to find a sense of security with the intensity that is felt when we are in the process of grieving.
that's my experience of it.
It was through grief i found enlightenment
The total blessing of finding Eckhart and his profound teaching, is helping me with my entire life and learning. Bless everybody 🙏
This is so sweet and beautiful and applies to all types of loss; not only death.
I am applying this right now to my situation, which is yearning for someone's physical presence from whom I am separated by geographical distance.
Most times I feel peace from our spiritual connection, but at times when I become more aware of my physical surroundings his physical absence becomes unbearable.
Thank you so much for this
Only when you dwell in past in memory of your lost one causes pain, bringing your state of mind to present moment brings calmness n peace🙏, mind behaves like a wild horse, one has to learn to tame it n prevent it from running haywire, n bringing it back to present moment.
Being able to let go of the material opens us up to feel what is eternal including the pure essences of those we have lost.
I experience the same thing when my dearest sister died a month ago! To my surprise I felt a complete sense of peace and lovingness! It was as if she passed on to me that sense of peace she experienced when she transcended. That gave me a glimpse of what death might feel like....it as a returned to pure love. Recently it dawned upon me in a powerful manner what the parable of the prodigal son meant, that we come into this realm from the formless to form as humans, spend time here forgetting where we came from, get sucked up into so many seemingly unimportant things, then return to the essence of pure unconditional love. I can truly echo the last words of a verse of one of the poems of Elizabeth Browning when she said:
“Guess now who holds thee?”-“Death,” I said. But, there, The silver answer rang,-“Not Death, but Love.”
I feel this with my loved ones after wallowing of course. I used to think “I should be upset” but over time I realised that feeling peace is normal and allowing the passed loved one to be where they are. I connect with passed loved ones now. My Aunty that passed said to me just after she died not to be too caught up in her loss. She had cancer and wrote a letter before she died, her daughter shared her letter with us and in it, it said the exact same thing🙏
There is still 1 passed loved one that I still cry about but it’s brought about when I look at her photo and just feel her and that’s my dog. It’s a cry that comes up from within, no thought. I guess I’m still in the process of allowing her to be where she is😢
Only one who SURRENDERS to the Grace is enlightened.
This came at a perfect timing. My grandpa died 1 month ago and I experienced the same this the questioner did
*There is no right and wrong, only thinking makes it so* 🙏
- Shakespeare
Haha this quote has been on my mind the past couple weeks, funny to see you post it here!
I'd trust very few to be worthy of that standard.
Pain is pain no matter what however feeling bad for not being pain is insanity. If you have a moment of peace then have the moment of peace. We could all do with it.
This video was uploaded at a very interesting time for me. Thank you, Eckhart. :)
I question whether peace of mind is always right. And I question whether feeling wrong, is wrong. Grieving is the proper processing of loss. Going emotionally sociopathic cannot be an answer.
beamer I think these sentiments cannot be defined well as they mean different levels of emotions to different people. “Peace of mind” is not the same for everyone, feeling wrong is not the same too. As long as we stay in the middle with every emotion (not going too much in either direction) we are okay. That is what I feel...Accept that it is natural, but okay to feel the grief, yet ‘handle’ the emotion correctly. Not apathy as you correctly said. No care is different from feeling it and correctly processing it.
After the grieving period peace does occur and it's a fact that we too someday have to go.in funearls they sing this song here reminding that sooner or later everyone has to go.finding the essence beyond form is truly liberating.
It´s ok as long as you acknowledge that pain as something temporary it´s ok. You need to go through bad days to appreciate the good
Sometimes I feel guilty for feeling at peace when there is so many people suffering in the world
When someone else is sad/angry/in pain, it’s important to keep that peacefulness you describe, rather than multiplying negative feelings/thoughts. We are all one, so your gift to the world is maintaining that peacefulness.
I can relate to you ❤️💕
The older I get, the more gratitude replaces grief.
Thank you for this video, I lost my father this year 🙏🙏🙏🙏
My father died 3 months ago. He was in a coma after having several heart attacks and a stroke. When I went to sleep that night I saw him in my dream and he told me to not worry and that that he doesn't feel anything. He was a spiritual person, always calm when other people were not. His father died when he was my age. I suppose it's my turn to realize what he knew..
Amazingly perfect timing for this subject.
I can't thank you enough! ❤️😊🙏
Me too!
Thank You Eckhart ♥️
I grieved after my younger self. I lost her after traumatic experiences. I sometimes come back to the memories when I was meditating for the first time and I was so happy, loving, young, free, seeing everything in such a positive way. But after what happened I couldn't be this way again. I lost myself. And I miss sometimes this one I use to be.
Thank you Mr Eckhart Tolle for sharing this video ❤️💞♥️💚💛☀️
Yes 🙏❤️ I had many OBEs I’m so grateful for. We are eternal source energy. We are the Gods that came down 🙏
Thank you
Thank you, this came at the exactly right time :)
Listening beyond death into life eternal
That is where we become one
Eternal love
speaks through the silence
And
Remains Forever
( Cheryl 🌲Herb )
Thank you
Thank you for sharing this Eckhart 🙏💜🙏
Life is stillness. It speaks through birth and death.
Difficult question, beautiful answer. Thank you both for the experience! Xx piece xX
Wow. A Miracle. So Beautiful
Thank you.
Thankyou very very very much
Thanks
Is it wrong for hoping someone dies so you can have peace?
Thank you Eckhart
Thank you Eckhart.
I see death as the peace that comes with a total finality of all that was. Before I was born I was not around I did not exist. There is no evidence that shows otherwise. Not existing did not hurt and there was no reason. Now I have come to be this form we call life and soon I will no longer exist again with no purpose no reason and there in is peace. ❤️🤲🏻
Thank you
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how do i stop from totally becoming my mind?
i went through bad trauma almost a year ago and i cant get into my body
The Peace of God which transcends all understanding will guard your hearts and your thoughts through Christ Jesus.
ALL of the current videos are right on time.
Lol the irony xD
Ekhart Tolle Sir
Thank you very much
God bless you
Your Students
Sabir Yaqoob Shaikh and family Mumbai India
That’s how I felt when I lost both my parents..one in 2000 the other in 2002. I was angry at God and turned to meditation. I continued and it proved beneficial.
First I like ....Then watch 🙏
This may have been answered, but did Eckhart ever react to having The Power of Now featured in Venom? If so, where can I find his reaction?
Hi Mr Tolle - Can you please explain SIDS. Why? Thank You
Por favor subtitulos español. gracias
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I'd rather be at peace than dreadfullness
The peace you can feel conflicted about is the crashmat from god until your ready to make peace with the grief, if u can.
🕊🕊🕊🙏🏻🕊🕊🕊❤️Australia🌏
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True
Thank you
Death has helped and acceptance
All is good
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Perhaps You Should Go Back To The Park Bench You Were Awakened On And ReAwaken To Your True Purpose And Exactly Why You Were Awakened In The First Place
LOVE ALL FORGIVE ALL JUDGE NONE
Art Darnell
The Tare Among The Wheat
It happens in Canada because America use their muscle as Canada and Europe’s number 1 ally and they force their will onto those they protect and at a time of global threat of Russia etc it works 😉
DISCOVER and understand the DIFFERENCE between "LIFE The Real Self", and the human PRIMATE.
The human spies Grieves, but "LIFE The Real Self" which is The LIGHT of MAN, The LIFE of God does NOT Grieve, as it is Holy and Eternal.
“The purpose of life is finding the largest burden that you can bear and bearing it.”
― Jordan B. Peterson
I disagree.
It is much more than that.
What utter nonsense. Peterson is wrong on so many levels.
you saved me from hell
Go to Jesus! He is the way there is no other.
Answer:
Yea, that’s called sociopathy.
So yea. probably.
What a dumb question. Of course not.
You're still stuck in judgment.
Thank you
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