15 Things You Are Doing That's Turning Men Off (Relationship Mistakes You need to Stop Making) EP.13
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- čas přidán 1. 06. 2024
- Are you finding it difficult to keep a man? Maybe you are doing one or more of the mistakes I share in this video.
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I did that 😂😂😂😂😂 I started planning the wedding in my head on the 1st date, now happily married 15 yrs and just recently we were talking and I told that he laughed so hard, I asked him why he is laughing, he said "because I was doing the same 😂😂😂😂"
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Oooh wahooo❤❤❤
Everyone destiny is not same. Most of these things she is saying are wrong are working for others
@orevamoses112 Yes, I know you're 100% right!
Awwwwww🎉❤😂😂😂😂can be heart breaking for the vice versa 😢
My husband met me without makeup and on my natural hair, he never stop staring at me through out our meeting and he told me that's what he actually prayed for "to meet his woman natural"... We are four years in marriage now
Amazing, glory to God 🙏🏾❤
We ladies have alot to learn not just for a man but to become the better version of ourselves
Thank you
Thanks Winnie for making out time to teach these things. Today I've learned to:
1) Stop being the one calling.
2) Stop being over available.
3) Stop being late to wherever I'm supposed to be. Men are watching.
4) Make sure I'm always organized, no excuse.
5) Always look good, no matter the circumstances.
I have no problem with others.
I don't have a man in my life
Yea Winnie, your tips are very correct. As for me, I don't like ladies that are boring. One of the great attributes of an ALPHA Lady is enthusiasm and magnetism. There are many giants sleeping in men's brains, it takes enthusiastic and magnetic women to wake them. A boring woman can never ignite the fiery conflagration of success in her man and vice versa. If you are a lady/guy and you don't have this natural ginger, this is the ripe time to start practicing until it becomes your second nature. Everything in this life is learnable. Secondly, truly speaking, there is not really a shy person but a lazy person who has not spent enough time to increase knowledge. Whenever it is time for them to talk or contribute to a pertinent discussion, their brain is empty because no stored materials to pick from. Readers are leaders. Ladies should build their brain library like Winnie and equip it with books, audio and videos instead of wasting time building and flexing their hips muscles. Guys also are no exception. As nutritionists believe you are what you eat, authors believe you are what you read. Invest in knowledge today. You can start now. Ok?
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Well said Gbenga
On point 👍 though
The details...
Okay sir
These are helpful tips! I know this is a channel for women, but many men need to work on themselves. Once a woman applies all these tips, doesn’t she deserve to meet a man who has worked on himself too?
In every direction we turn, there’s someone telling women what they should or shouldn’t do to attract and keep a man. Who is talking to the men, though?
Do men know what they do that puts high-value women off? Some men lack the confidence to initiate a conversation with a woman. Some men can’t hold a basic conversation if there are no sexual innuendos in it. Some are selfish. Some are braggadocious, while others talk condescendingly to women. However, society keeps quiet about these because they want to “protect the male ego.” Again, who is talking to the men?
Sometimes, women are single, not because they do things to put men off. It’s because they’re put off by the men they meet.
This point is HIGHLY NOTED!!! Some of the videos here relate to both genders and I am also working on something specifically tailored to the men folks.
We are currently in production for some of them and we will be rolling them out soon.
Thanks for pointing out all these.
Word
Your last paragraph 👌👌
Where is the lie?? And dese men go on to become incompetent husband's and fathers
God bless you for this, apt asf.
I have seen relationships come to an end due to not picking calls and most times not available. A searching man will always replace you for someone that can be available for him.
Av been searching for dis comment
True
What I can say is,try to understand your relationship and do what is best for it.being available and not depends with your person period.
True, and i thought ladies posted photos of themselves in swimsuit and whatever on social media because they want to.I never thought anyone posted to get a man's attention. 🤔
My favorite parts of the video is when Winnie shakes her head and says “Don’t do that, Don’t do that” 😂😂.. my colleague and friends are in trouble, I will be saying Don’t do that, don’t do that 😂
Lol 😂😂
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1.Over demanding
2,you are always right
3, tell everyone you are dating him when he has tell his closest friend that he is dating you
4, posting him on social media
5, secretive
6, dating any of his friends
7, talking excess alcohol (you went out with him and you run 2,3 or 4 bottles of alcohol)
8.accepting you know most hotels if he ask..( like have you been to this hotel? and your answers are yes yes yes)
Etc
@@naomiesilas7379 😂😂
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Proud of your teaching
Thisss 😊😊
no 4
Wow Winnie everything you are saying is true.
I have been practicing it and it’s really working for me
I was someone who will text him every free time I get but now I don’t text him and he called me telling me how much he’s missing me 😊
I was desperate for marriage, always available for him and I never want to miss his calls...so he told me that what is turning him off is my desperation... like I want to meet his family...I should make him feel comfortable to introduce me to his family
You are fortunate he even gave you reasons. Some would simply ghost you and leave you very disappointed.
I need to work on
1.time keeping
2.making effort
3.not being boring
The others am okay but this 3 are my main challenges
I'm so disorganized o!! That's my weak point 🤣☝️ but I have a truly amazing man who really encourages me to organize my things with so much love and even helps me out 🥰.. My hubby is truly the best for me..
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Waoh what a lesson especially the being shy part.
I was an introvert and I used to expect guys to understand that but woloolo.. I had to work on it because I even used to cancel dinner dates just because I didn't have the confidence to sit and eat in a hotel😂😂😂
But I promise anyone reading this there is need 💯 to work on your shyness and be able to express yourself
Please can you share some tips with us here, on overcoming shyness.
It can be so annoying most of the time 😊
@@faithapoede9902 for real
@@faithapoede9902 I agree
Sallyyyy boo share some tips Pls lol
So me... I'm still battling with it
Anyone I love doesn't turn up to love me back
Thank you so much Winnie. I'd definitely work on myself.
Thanks Winnie! This is very informative! I needed this honestly!
Thanks for this Winnie came right exactly when I needed most of these tips
Thank you Winnie I appreciate this and will start practicing it
Well said thank you for these reminders
the tips are indeed so helpful. thank you winnie
Thanks Winnie for this message it has helped me alot
Thanks winnie, it's really helpful.
Wow, Thank you so much for the advise. I've really learned a lot.
Thank you winnie
Really enjoyed watching this 👏
Thanks. Very good points. I love your videos.
This is filled with value💯. Thank you Winnie!
Thanks Winnie for this advise.
Truth in everything you said
Thank you Winnie for this video ❤️ you’ve made elegance a beautiful journey 🤍
Thank you Winnie for the tips ❤
Thank you Winnie. Your tips are correct
Thanks for sharing.....
I added few tips to my practice already
Thank you sis.This video just. Opened my eyes
I stumbled upon this video at the right time. After being single for almost 2 years, I'll be meeting a guy for the first time ever and at the end of this month and I consider this very helpful. Honestly, this is beautiful 😍 Thank you Winnie ❤
@@NgwaNgwa-kc6do thank you 😊
Awnnnnn
Good luck sis..can't wait too for mine..may we not mismarry.
Hey😢 thank you so much...l learnt a lot
Hello Sis… how about you tell us the outcome 😊
Winnie thanks for your advice and encouraging
Thank you for the words of wisdom, winnie
Thanks so much Winnie ,I now understand why relationship doesn't last for long, infact you are really helping we the ladies the most.Thanks
Thank🙏 you so much winnie,few of your options are really what have been doing mostly my shyness and building up my self confidence more. i really love your contents ❤❤
Thank you Winnie I have learned a lot and I'm ready to learn more 🙏🙏🙏
Great tips you have shared Winnie. Love this video
Loved all these points
“Cry if you must cry”🤣🤣
Thanks for the tips ma’am ❤️
I love this video! very educative. Thanks, dear Winnie!!
Thanks winnie, very interesting points to practice.
I got a lot of value for your content... thanks so much Winnie.
I appreciate you
thanks
I just found your channel and absolutely love it! Ha! This is my second video and I cannot get enough of you!❤
Thanks Winnie, you've helped us a lot
Thanks so winnie .I have really learnt a lot from you today.
Winnie I love how you articulate serious things in a funny way
Also please make a video for college students starting their elegant journey who can't afford a lot to change their wardrobes.
Thanks winnie for all the steps
Just came across this video and I find it very helpful, thank you for the tips
Thanks so much, Winnie
This is super helpful for me.
I can be overly forward and glamour most time.
I admire you sooo much Winnie❤ thanks for all you teach.the sisterhood is safe because of your elegance lessons 😊😊.
Thanks Winnie self confidence is what i need...i wanna work on it much love lady
Thank you, winnie, for this speech
Will certainly recommend this channel anytime. Your number one follower of your channels. 🤗
Wow! This is highly educative. Thank you so much Winnie, I really learnt so much from this video 👏👏👏
Thanks Winnie for the Tips... it's very helpful
Very impactful. Thank you
Ah....Winnie I love youuuu ❤️
The most amazing blend of beauty, elegance and a right sense of humor.
I'm thoroughly inspired. Thank you 🌹
Thanks very much Winnie 🥺this has taught me a lot as a young adult 😊so many of these mistakes I've made but I'm glad I've come across ur channel 🥰you're a role model
Thanks for your impact Winnie 🥰
Very impactful thank you🎉
I make these mistakes a lot ( especially the first one , being shy n a complete introvert ) . maybe that's why i always ended up being single. When i love someone so much i always show it i can't pretend n at the end i always loose them. But then after some months they'll come back begging but then I've already lost interest in them coz i can love you so deep n dislike you the next minute.
@Maharu Haruna sorry I don't want any of my exes , i don't eat my vomit
Thanks dear.... you have really helped me to recognize one of my weakness, I have picked up ways to make an immediate correction
I'm so glad I stumbled on your page.
There's so much to learn on here.😊
Thank you for sharing this points, you are indeed amazing,
Thank you Winnie. Much love this really helps. 😍
You are absolutely welcome!❤️
Thanks Winnie
I learn a lot of things here, will apply this in my next relationship. I’m ready for a new relationship 🥰🥰🥰🥰
This is amazing. Thanks so much Winnie
Everything said well and clear,I love every bit of it ❤
Wow! You're beauty and brains Miss Winnie!
So educative,corrective and informative..
Ladies must learn these.
Hi sister winne , thanks alot for another lesson . Lots of love from Tanzania
Great advice
Thanks for the piece
Thanks I really appreciate for the tips .
Thank you Winnie, actually I'm a victim of most of the points mentioned but I have learnt a lot from this video. Am always the one calling, quick reply to his messages in fact he actually told me to visit him in Abuja this break that's when I have finished my exams and I had plans to go there. Thank you so much for this🙏.
When it comes to relationship advance
I love to listen and learn 😊
I appreciate you ma
God bless you
Thanks for the love and good idea you are giving to us 🙏💕💯
Thanks for the encouragements
Thanks for the real talk...love it!
You are welcome!❤️❤️
I am sincerely blown away by your tips. I'm a guy and I can relate to your points. Keep it up. Winnie. Thank you
Amazing vibes ,thank you .
Thank you so much for the advice
It’s the first point for me😂😂😂😂
Planning the wedding on the first date.
Nice video
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I won't lie l do this or already seeing how both of us will be a good match 😂 or have a beautiful home together 😅😅 then after 2 or 3 occasions, and l will be like huh no no no. I can't have a family with this person 😅 still in my little head oo😂😂😂😂
Thanks winnie for this
@@winniesschoolofelegancewhat can I do i think i have a problem of bossy communication... One man told me i talk like a receiptionist 😢
*Being aware of what can deter men is essential for a successful relationship. Let's use this knowledge to grow and improve.*
This is so insightful….. thank you for sharing🙏👍
Very informative.. thank you Winnie
I love this lady ❤
She is saying the truth😊
Thank you so much winnie, this is very educative.my favourite point of all is A man should chase not the other way round, and not being bossy in communication as a woman.submision is attractive but make sure you say yes to a man who is worth your submission.cos it can be dangerous if you submit to a tyrant or psychopath.
So much to learn here ...... thank
you
Thank you for the lesson .
Wow this is amazing love it thank you sis
You are welcome!❤❤❤
Love you winnie, some points are for me. Thanks for the knowledge. But I'll like more explanation on point 14 because most time d person is just been herself. Thanks ma, more grace.
Thanks winni😊❤
Thank you so much sis❤
Thank you for doing this here.
It’s my absolute pleasure ❤
I'm loving the tips and I am so loving this outfit. You wear it very well 😍 💕
Thanks Winnie i so much love ❤ your teaching
Thank you for this ma, I just understand and realized that I make many mistakes in my relationship