Kale's Coming Out Story Pt 1| Storytime
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We know you all have been waiting so long to hear Kale's coming out story. Well wait no more! We hope you enjoyed part 1 and understand maybe a little more as to why this story isn't easy to share. We look forward to sharing more with you in part 2.
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I wish there were words to express how incredibly proud I am of you!! I'm forever grateful for you, for your love and understanding and for being exactly who you are!! There isn't a better person in the world!! You have been the BEST example to my kids and to me!❤️I love you both so much!❤️
I'm so glad that markale has such a great sister to support her!
your such a sweetheart kayli 💗💗
Kayli, you are truly an angel.
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Stop it I'm crying 😢
I needed to hear your “tiny moment” with Kayli. That’s not tiny, it’s incredible.
So sweet to hear how Kayli supported you from the start. I couldn't help but notice both of you gradually break out on your necks as the story went on so I know retelling the story had to be hard, hope you were both okay after filming. 🥰
Would love to hear when and how your parents changed their minds. Thank you for sharing your story
Classic Kayli! I would never expect anything less from such a loving person like Kayli. Her heart is so genuine.
I wouldn’t expect anything less from Kayli, she’s the kindest!
This is the most sincere, touching "coming out" story I have ever heard. This shows how important is to be supportive. Maybe to your sister that phone call was not a big deal, but it changed everthing, maybe you guys wouldn't be here today. This shows how important is to be kind to people. Thank you for sharing your story.
Beijos from Brazil 😘
Kayli has the biggest heart. Not surprised by her support at all. Love that she was there for you and continues to love and support you both💛
My daughter told me and her dad when she was 15. I know we did our job and created a loving environment because she felt comfortable enough to share that with us so young. I’ll forever pat myself on the back for that. It’s couples like you sharing your stories that gives these kids the courage to be themselves tho, I’m forever grateful for positive influences.
Your videos help others understand, relate, and continue to normalize this completely normal lifestyle. Proud of you both.
Love that Kailey opened the door to your heart and inner dialog healing! She is LOVE 100%! Your parents are a product of their time (generation) and I am so happy thing s have changed!
As a straight male who moved to UT probably before you were born, and who is not LDS, I'm so sorry for your pain and how things went. I sadly see this too much here in UT. I'm a proud supporter of the LGBTQ+ community and so happy you two are on a better path. May others learn by your experience and find a positive path of their own.
No one is born straight. Also they have the opportunity to try it? I don't understand why people always call themselves hetero. Try it out with a man
I will never understand why anybody should of been mean to you for being upset or crying for not getting married. Of course you would be upset and then sometimes it’s like a ton of bricks hitting you and you just cry. You’ve been looking forward to that day and because of circumstances you just can’t be married on that day, last time I checked you were human and of course you’re going to feel upset people need to grow a heart. I know one day soon come September praying that is the day you will be married and you can finally call each other my wife. So happy you’re back❤️
When you said “I felt like a monster…” I felt that
You were never a monster, and you are completely NORMAL. I am so happy you lived and your love affair endured. This could be a movie! Bottom line, you have something in each other neither of you were ever willing to give up. And we all hope for you that you never will have to.
An IG feed I follow just shared this video and am watching it for the first time. Brought tears to my eyes at the end. I am a follower now and will continue to listen to your story.
So proud of you ! You took the time that was needed to be able to do this. Really glad you feel you can. Thank you . Lots of love.
You are a true inspiration❤ I had my teenagers watch this video. More of these conversations need to take place. Thank you!
Sending you both a tonne of love,hugs and good vibes! Thank you for sharing your story, and yes some of us are certainly here for much more than just that! Missed you two!! Big props to Kayli too! The moment you asked that Q to her was crucial and she nailed it! I've been in your shoes too and never quite got the same response from my siblings but instead from other family members and they were my saving graces also!
I come from a very religious Jewish family and I knew I was gay since I was 13 and now I'm 19 and haven't told them since then cause I know how they'll react:( I relate to your coming out story a lot and I feel a bit comforted that I'm not the only one going through it.
And growing up watching Kayli's family vlogs always wondering if they support the LGBTQ+ because they come from such a religious family as well, watching your coming out video made me so happy hearing that
Thank you for sharing your story. I loved hearing this! And to your amazing sister….. I always knew I liked her but the respect I have for her now is so much bigger.
I cried with you throughout this video. I'm so glad that you had your sister's support. It sounds like she saved your life. Thanks for telling us your story, I think you're saving a lot of lives doing this.
thank you so much for being vulnerable sharing your story with us, I remember first coming across your channel through Kayli and instantly became a fan! I teared up hearing you talk about your relationship with Kayli, I'm so glad that you had her as a support system. sending you both so much love, and im soooo looking forward to wedding pics!!
I've been with you guys for awhile. I remember your how we met and girl friend videos. This is such an honest sharing. Thank you.
Thanks for sharing this. I can see how painful it was to relive, and I can relate. It's unbelievably hard to think back and feel like that moment was taken from you, you never had time to come to terms with your sexuality and come out on your own terms. It's extremely traumatic to go through and the scars last a long time. I can also relate to your conversation with your sister, I was so worried family would not want me to see my niece! It's absolutely heartbreaking to think about. Luckily it does get better ❤
This is a very powerful video. Thank you for having the courage to share your story. This video will help many people.
I was so excited when I seen this video show up on my feed. What an incredible story Kale. You are stronger than I could ever imagine and the way you told your story I felt it so much. Yours and Jess’s love story is amazing. Although it had its ups and downs, this goes to show that true love is real, and if you find someone worth fighting for everything will come out on top. I’m excited for the day you two get married! I’ve been watching your videos for so long now, and I know the best is yet to come! Much love to the both of you and Keani! I’m excited for part 2!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️ love from Ohio!
Thank you for sharing. I look forward to hearing more of the story. I have no doubt it will help many by providing examples of what you went through and how things improved to today.
Love this! Looking forward to part 2!
So glad to see you guys back and please know you are so loved and admired for everything you been through,you guys have a love story most people can only dream about thanks for sharing!
HI. As an avid watcher of all your videos. I am so glad that you have found the strength to say what you have. Raw feelings and emotions are never easy to go through but you have and you have risen up above all the negativity and shown so many people that it does indeed get better. The admiration I have for you both cannot be put into words. Thanks for sharing your story Kale and Jess thanks for being the great support that you are. I can't wait for part 2:)
This is the most touching and honest video I’ve seen in a long time. Honestly watching it I was just so intently listening to everything you were saying and so shocked and heartbroken for you! I’m so happy you are getting your “it gets better” moments and that you are more comfortable with yourself and who you are. Sending so much love to you but also Jess cause you could see how much it hurt her going back as well! ❤️💜
Your story is similar to mine… except I waited until now to come out. 34, married to a man for 13 years. And have two kids. I wish I would have had some support and courage to be who I was. I knew at 15, after 3 years of secretly being with my best friend. My mom told everyone when she read my diary to shame and embarrass me. Here I am today, blowing up my whole life to live my truth and finally seek happiness. Thanks for sharing. This is a painful journey
You are one of the first CZcams channels I subscribed to, pretty much at the beginning of the channel.
I watched all your videos, but it still makes me very emotional to hear this story to such a detail.
I'm so happy how much things have changed and that you'll get to be married soon.
You also were a big step on my own coming out journey .
I have missed seeing you ladies and to Kale thanks for sharing such a difficult time in your life, it gives hope to those who are going through the same thing! It only takes one person to change the course of another's destiny! Thanks you!
I know you’ve been busy with your wedding, but can’t wait to see part 2!! I’ll have to watch this again to remember 😊
I feel like I have been waiting for this for so long because I am NOSY and love DRAMA! But I am so proud of you and so glad you felt comfortable enough to share because you wanted to! Thank you for taking the time to do this! As a fellow ADHD kid, I know how hard it is to do the things. Yay, you guys!
*sighs* You never realize how much you miss someone until you see that wonderful notification. So happy for this video! What a great way to start a weekend.
Such a fun, easy-going topic like coming out to disapproving parents.... said no-one ever!! I noticed a few cuts here and there during some of the more emotional parts. *hugs* Your sister is such a good honest person. You couldn't have asked for a better person to have your back.
When I was struggling with accepting who I was I turned to youtube to see same sex couples in healthy, functioning relationships. I found your guys’ channel and it changed everything for me. It gave me the confidence to come out and embrace who I am, at 26 years old…. Your channel gave me hope. You’re right it does get better! Thank you for sharing your story publicly♥️ I strongly feel if it wasn’t for this channel I would have never came out!
I wish I could do the same
@@bubba283 I hope sometime you can. ❤️
@@norarivkis2513 oh I'm better
Thank you for sharing your story so bravely. I felt your pain and trauma, but also the strength you gained over the years. People make mistakes, our parent's humanity is difficult to digest, but we have to forgive to move forward and transform. You're right, it gets better. Can't wait for the second part. Love your way.
You ladies hold such a place in my heart. Both of your journeys are so inspiring to me personally. I won’t ramble too much but the depth of love and care I have for you both is unexplainable. Definitely got choked up but it’s fine, I’m fine lol I look forward to seeing more to come from you beautiful ladies ❤️❤️
Thank you for being on CZcams. Thank you for being so open. Thank you for being so brave. I have been a long time follower. Your story will help so many. My fiancé and I have very different stories. I was forced to come out after my then girlfriend threatened to tell my entire family after we broke up. I was terrified to tell my mom because I didn’t want her to be disappointed with me. I was in a very dark place, but luckily my mom was understanding. She supported me then and now. She is involved with my future wife and supports her as well.
Kale - thank you for sharing your story. My wife and I have been watching your channel since the beginning, and weirdly enough we have the same anniversary (just 2 years later). I love that your sister was so supportive from the start. I feel like sometimes allies don't get the credit they deserve. Y'all are so lucky to have each other and I'm glad she was a voice of reason and encouragement in your darkest times. Take care and lots of love from Louisiana ❤️
I wasn’t ready for this video to end. It was so moving and emotional. Well said ❤️❤️🌈🌈
Wow thank you for sharing your story. Also I came here to say that I always have thought Kayli was an angel on earth and this further solidified that. She is the absolute best. Love your family.
I'm so proud of you for choosing to pick when the time was right for you to tell your own story and my heart absolutely breaks for you listening to your story. I totally agree that you have to allow people to change though. It took my mom almost 5-10 years to accept me coming out and this pride month she finally brought me my first rainbow thing (even if it was just a lego) and I cried just because it meant so much to me. So it totally does get better after it gets worse, people just have to come about it in their own times and in their own way.
I'm so happy that you had Kayli as a big sister to be supportive for you and that the both of you have each other. The small things sometimes are the biggest things in your life especially when you feel the lowest of the low and can surprise you the most. Thank you both for being awesome role models.
I love that Kayli was supportive from the start. Thank you both for being so raw and open with your viewers.
Super appreciate your vulnerability in this Markale. It takes a lot to share your story. You and Jess were a big part in me living my honest life and finally coming out to my family last year. Keep on being rad and quite literally couple goals. You both rock 💕
Thank you for sharing your story. You both are so amazing!!!
Bless your heart Kayli... And good for both of you guys for being able to share your stories
It says so much that you remember that conversation with your sister so vividly vs barely remembering the conversations with your parents. It is so important to get that clear support from someone especially after being told off for just being who you are. I'm so glad you had that and that you guys had each other even if it was hard to figure everything out.
Hearing the start of your story and seeing how far you have come, I'm so happy for you! Looking forward to both hearing more of your story and possibly seeing some wedding content real soon 🥰
I was just thinking about you guys the other day, wondering if you would show up before Vlogmas. So, well done on touching down in July!
I loved this! I can’t wait to hear part 2!
Thank you for sharing your very difficult story. Please know you are saving lives.
Kale and Jess I’m so proud of you. I’ve been following you for along time and just wanted to let you know that you have a great support system. You have some awesome sisters and family that is always going to be there cheering you on. Just wanted to let you know that I’m one of your biggest fans regardless.
Sending alllllll the love in the world to you two. Such a strong, wise and inspirationally raw video. Thank you for sharing. X
Omg you are so strong don’t forget that ever!
and believe me there’s alot of people needs to hear that from you, I’m one of them:)!
Stay safe and remember that love always wins❤️
Thank you so much!
That resinated with me so much. Mine was very similar! It does get better. Thank you for sharing!
Thank you for sharing your story. For someone over 50 and so buried in the closet I find your experience hits home why I will likely never come out of the closet. Again thank you for sharing.
I went through something similar and the hardest part possibly not being able to spend time with my niece and nephew because I was so close to them and still are. They loved me with an unconditional love because they knew and know nothing different because I'm not different , I just love who I love!
We also had to postpone our wedding and I was devastated, but you're right it gets better and when I married my wife, it was even better...
Thanks for sharing, I can relate.
WOW! What courage you have Markale. Your pain when you speak of your phone call with Kayli is palpable. I felt it from hundreds of miles away. My heart goes out to you. Kayli's statement when performing your wedding was spot on, you are both "strong and brave women." I commend you both for fighting for your love for one another. So many would buckle and conform to others wishes. I wish ya'll a long and happy life filled with love and joy. Live your best lives ladies and know that your videos will make a difference in the lives of the many gabies out here in internet land.
Words are power, saviors, hope and strength!! Thank God for your sister to guide you and your family through the darkness to see the love and live you have and continue to teach!!
Sisters are the best, I got married in 2019. My brother who I thought was supportive (he had been through the first 4 years of our relationship, why wouldn’t he be excited if our wedding) told us 4 weeks before that his family would not be coming. In my upset state of mind I instantly called my sister to make sure she knew I didn’t want her to come if it was against her beliefs too. She like Kayli was shocked I would even ask that. The conversations I had with her and my younger brother made a huge difference in how I was feeling. I am still hurt/upset about my other brother but was still able to enjoy our special time with the rest of the family. 💜
We are so sorry that you had to go through that! We're so happy though that your sister and younger brother were so supportive, it can make a huge difference!
I really appreciate you guys opening up and being honest with yourselves and the world. I hope your story can help save someone going through that struggle knowing it will get better one day. Your story may have save someone struggling life. Know you two have found your purpose in life and it’s to inspire and support others.
Thank you 🤗 That means so much to us! ❤️❤️
It’s great to see you both back lol have an open mind that’s why we’re here and yes times make things change people and attitudes. I have enjoyed this podcast and your story and thank you for sharing your story and getting to know you both better. Your sister is just simply great and love you both a lot and your honesty
Nice to see you both again, missed your videos and love these type of videos. Wish you both the very best. 🙏❤️
I feel you on the ADHD issue of not starting unless I can finish the project all in one sitting, perfectly. I started little tasks or set timers. Great video and no surprise Kayli was amazing from the start. I love you guys.
You are so incredibly strong keep fighting for everyone glad it’s better now ❤️
Thank you Jess and kale it so good to see you both back.
I know where kale is coming from with her ocd and trying to make things perfect. I have a similar problem. You are lucky to have have Jess and others around to help you to help yourself that love you. I enjoy your content course you guys tell it from the heart you can see you guys really listen to each other and respect each other feelings and opinions. Look forward for to the next video.
so proud of you for having the courage to talk about your story, i'm sure it's not easy. I really look up to you both
I wish I could be this open about being a gay guy it's depressing
Beautiful story, and I know how hard it must have been for you two. If we all can take away one thing from this, is that you felt like a “monster”. The sadness coming from you, I’m sure has been felt by thousands of teens, boys and girls, afraid to be outed. It breaks my heart, thank you for sharing this, you are strong, and so blessed to have each other. My sister in law was gay, she passed away and her sexuality didn’t change a thing of how much I loved her and her partner.
that moment with kayli made me emotional 🥺 kayli truly is the sweetest and i can’t imagine how much that meant to you 🤍
Thank you for sharing your story!!
Wow thank you for all of that
What a great message to put out
Thank you for sharing your story. ❤❤
This is the first video I have ever seen from you guys and it is amazing. Thank you, truly, for sharing your story
It is always nice to hear other queer people's perspectives. I also came out my sophomore year of high school but that was in 2012 so I can't imagine how much harder it would have been if it was 2008
I can't wait to hear part two. The ending about the phonecall with your sister was very powerful
How weird! It’s my first video too. Just found them today. I’m a fan and can’t wait to watch the rest of them. ❤️🔥👍🏻
Thanks for sharing ladies, especially you Kale. I know it had to have been hard, but I appreciate you letting us take even just a small glimpse into your lives! You two are so down to earth, genuine and kind and it’s refreshing seeing people like you, it’s one of my favorite things is to watch your videos. I’m glad things got better for you ladies, and I hope they only continue to do so, also was the phone the LG env?
Glad you let us in
As someone who had not the best coming out story, I’m so proud of you for sharing. We are sooooo ready for part 2 😃. Anyone else, or just me?
things get better and that’s awesome to know. With that in mind, also know it isn’t easy being parents at times.
Its like i love your story and relate much on how living a life with so much pressure being a bi..wanna be in an open relationship but outside factors is very strong ..happy for both of you jess&kale❤
I think I have commented on like 1 or 2 of your videos. But I always enjoy seeing notifications for new videos from you ladies. You remind me of me and my wife tbh. Lol we have also been together a long time and got married on our 10 year anniversary. And I was also raised Mormon. But I am glad you are sharing your story Kale. I'm glad the story gets better! I just want to hug you both! You ladies are amazing! ❤
Followed you for absolutely ages....,and eventually subscribed!!!...,always admired you and your journey together....and the absolute strength of your relationship...so real 😄...I can understand how hard it must have been to go through all of that awful day which you describe so honestly...and so many will appreciate you recounting the whole ‘episode’ 👏👏...so emotional....tears are ok whenever you want....all the reactions you had and felt are valid....what a truly good sister!!!..... that’s love which healed your self respect when you needed it so bad 💕....and we have all seen how much Jess loves you and you ..her in equal measure....It’s so great you now have home of your own together..AND the much delayed Wedding will be all the sweeter on That Day 🙏😍😍.....many times I have been happy or sad for you two over time...but you are strong together.... thank you Kale, for the telling of part 1....from (Sue UK ..follower of your channel)...🇬🇧💕🇺🇸
This is so amazing thank u so much for sharing you girls are so awesome and i am so happy to continue to follow and support in everything u do 💯💯💯❤❤❤ from dublin ireland your stories have really touched me and helped me so thank u
I think you two are amazing I have thought that from the very beginning. I know people have been bugging you for years to do this and I hope with all my heart that this is healing for you most importantly! Second know you are helping so many people. ❤
Thank you for sharing this story.
Thank you for this, I’m 32 and I still struggle…this really hits hard for me
Your moment with Kayli isn’t tiny it has a huge impact on how you felt at the time I was a nanny at the time I got outted my biggest worry about that was not having the kids bc I had been there since they were born I still have them and their mom is one of the people I could talk to about anything
Omg I never clicked on a notification so fast... I've missed you How dare people be rude to you. When ever the wedding happens it's going to be epic 🧡
A lot of people will be weeping when we see that video. TALK ABOUT MEANINGFUL. The world will be a little more right when these two can say that they are married.
@@landslave8367 can't wait for it to be official they deserve nothing but happiness
Always love your videos, but this one just comes across different. So genuine and heart-warming. Things will get better. I definitely are going to make this kinda my life motto now. Lots of love and support 🥊✨🥰👌🥺
The two of you are so real and I love your content. Don’t worry about the bad comments. Us good ones got you!
I MISSED YOU GUYS AND I LOVE YOU GUYS❤️
What you went through is trauma. I’m so sorry you had such hurtful reactions from your parents and other family. I’m so glad you found a safe space with Kayli. I’m curious if your parents knew about your other sister before or after they outed you, and if that helped them be more accepting or made their reaction to you harder. I really hope your parents, and anyone else in your family, that hurt you and made you feel like a monster have truly apologized and are making amends for the trauma inflicted. I volunteered for a group called Free Mom Hugs at SF pride the year before the pandemic. One person hugged me so tight and I overheard him telling his friends that his parents haven’t hugged him since he came out. So many stories like that that broke my heart. Love is love, and I wish everyone would recognize that. Especially parents. Sending you a huge hug. Thank you for sharing your story. ❤️
Hi omg what a brilliant and very hard for you to do by the end I was starting to cry and I don't cry thank you so much for this video 2008 till now and your both so strong and so much in love with each other can not wait for part 2 with love from the uk xx
First of all I am so proud of you for sharing your story. Secondly we are blessed to have people that are willing to share like this on such a public platform. Thirdly God Bless your sister because she probably saved you in a very dark time. Last bit not least you two are freaking amazing! I am so glad I found your channel and find it inspiring! I am older than both of you and did not come out until I was in my mid thirties and at that point I was like accept or not this is who I am and I just want to be me. It took me a long time to figure out who I was. I was told I had to be straight. Blah blah blah. But when I was told basically I was worthless because I could not bare a biological child with a man who was just plain selfish. Then proceeded forward to adopt my children alone there was something about that, that set me free. I didn't care anymore. God loves all people. Religion sucks because there are a lot of false beliefs within religion. But when you cut out the middle man and take it to you and God well he loves all. I know I am loved by him. I have 5 beautiful adopted children and have fostered several more. I have made a difference in their lives. I have a partner we choose not to live together right now. MY choice but it is good. Things do get better. Together you guys have this! Thanks so much for sharing!
I am fully out as asexual -thank you, you were the 1st lgbt CZcamsrs I came across, and you have helped me so much. Thank you
Welcome to the club! Just know that most people will always respond with "You never know"
Truth be told, I have followed your channel since it’s origination, but it’s never really been my style to comment. However, I had to let you know how incredibly brave you are and how thankful I am that you decided to share your experience.
I resonate with so much of your story. The trials, self doubt, and emotions. I grew up in the Deep South, the good ole Bible belt. I also graduated in 2005. Let’s just say, I was deep in that closet. My “coming out” was rather similar and I can ‘vividly’ ;) remember feeling like my life was over. However, just as you said it’s the small things that got me through and with time it really does it better.
Unfortunately, our stories are not unique. There are thousands of other people whom have had or are having a similar experience. After my mine, I would watch hours of videos, like this one, just to know that I wasn’t alone. So, I know this is a novel comment but representation matters. Again, thank you both for being brave enough to share your life and experiences.
Now get that podcast together, you’ve already got one listener! 🙋♀️
Good on you for pointing out how people where rude to you for something you did that they didn’t like for some reason. Even though it’s…. not a negative/unethical/deviant/whatever thing to do. People are so self righteous sometimes.
no question. sorry for your tears 😢 but sooo proud that you share your story 👍 thank you
If your mom and you are up to it, your mom should give her side of this story.
I was just thinking about you two!!!! Love you gal's!!!