My Stillbirth Story | Kenia's birth | Dannah Rey

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  • čas přidán 29. 02. 2020
  • #stillbirth #bornstillbutstillborn #stillborn

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  • @danielareynoso.r
    @danielareynoso.r  Před 4 lety +9

    Life after child lost. I hope my voice can bring some comfort to someone in grief.
    czcams.com/video/6Vrwi5msPxA/video.html

    • @cityofangels9
      @cityofangels9 Před 3 lety +1

      I am so sorry that you lost your beautiful baby. I cannot empathize, but I wish you all the love. There is someone I think you should reach out to. Her name is Judea Arthur and she recently began posting videos about her baby daughter, Noah-Lee who died of SIDS a few months ago. She seems very suicidal and ever since I watched her first video, I have been so worried about her. I don't know her personally but I think maybe you could help her. Her instagrams are "itsjudeaaa" and "rememberingnoah_lee"
      I hope that both you and her can find some peace.

    • @danielareynoso.r
      @danielareynoso.r  Před 3 lety

      Hi!! Thanks for the kind words! Look a few day's ago her video pop up my my CZcams feed suggestions. I'm currently pregnant and of course hella scare of any kind child dead. Of course SIDS is one off those things. She's already spoken and being open about it. That's the first step to healing. I do this kindy video for mom's like me, who are lost in grief and can't find a break. Now I'm not in the position to reach out. Me being pregnant it can be a trigger, and knowing i come from Stillbirth experience is worst. And for me is not healthy either, cuz trying to raise a toddler ( Scared to hell of child lost) And pregnant ( Scared to hell of Stillbirth) And realizing i can still lost a child from SIDS well that really 💩💩💩. I do think of her often and wish she can grief her way. Lots of hugs!

  • @ekj24uk
    @ekj24uk Před 4 lety +6

    Came here from your how to use thinning shears video. I'm so sorry I cant imagine how it feels but maybe your little angel was too good for this world and is with you in spirit. Stay strong xx

  • @Mscoloraturakae
    @Mscoloraturakae Před 3 lety +4

    I just lost my son to a cord accident two weeks ago at 33 weeks. It is devastating. I’m so sorry, for both of us. The silence during delivery is terrible, but I’m happy I went through the process. Burying your child is something no parent should have to do.

    • @danielareynoso.r
      @danielareynoso.r  Před 3 lety +3

      I'm so sorry! Nothing compares to this level of pain. Sending lost of hugs on you way!

  • @yunizsevilla9839
    @yunizsevilla9839 Před 4 lety +6

    I’m terribly sad today and i’m missing my daughter so much. I lost my daughter too 41+5 days in my tummy last february 2020zHer name is Emma Juliette.I’m crying watching your entire video. I’m so sorry for your loss. She has a beautiful name!❤️

    • @danielareynoso.r
      @danielareynoso.r  Před 4 lety +4

      oh mama's!! It brakes my heart knowing some one else know's this pain. You in the deepest grief now. But cry has much as you need. This pain never goes away. But you will learn to find joy again, I promise!! Lots off kisses for sweet Emma Juliette. You're one fierce Mother!! 💗💗💗

    • @ataviaskai
      @ataviaskai Před 4 lety +2

      So sorry to hear! I also lost my baby at 41 weeks. 😔 it will be two weeks tomorrow & I’m terribly sad today! I miss feeling her kick inside me. I miss her sweet face! 💜 I hope you’ve found the peace and strength you need!

  • @rmwithaview8445
    @rmwithaview8445 Před 4 lety +2

    I came here after looking for how to videos on cutting my hair. I’m sorry for your loss and thank you for sharing your experience. I am sure you are helping many others who have sadly gone through this. Sending love to you, your family and your daughter💕

    • @danielareynoso.r
      @danielareynoso.r  Před 4 lety

      That's what a hope, because I felt really lonely in the bigening..

  • @rociorangel3293
    @rociorangel3293 Před 4 lety +7

    Thank you for sharing this story with us. I saw your comment on the video on how to use thinning shears. Maybe all of this that is happening outside aligned with your time to share what happened in your life and it was time to share with more people, to be here with you. I don’t know you, but thanks for being a strong woman; I also suffer from anxiety and depression and if it wasn’t for therapy last year, I don’t know if I would have survived this last couple of months. Your tattoo is beautiful, by the way. Un abrazo.

    • @danielareynoso.r
      @danielareynoso.r  Před 4 lety +1

      Yes I do feel it was the right time!! No one shut ever experienced this, but life it's not fair some times. Muchas gracias por tú tiempo y tú bello mensaje!!

  • @ataviaskai
    @ataviaskai Před 4 lety

    Thanks so much for sharing, Dannah! You’re so strong for doing this! You’re amazing. Such a beautiful spirit! I honestly hate that anyone has to experience this! I’m grieving the loss of my beautiful baby girl that my husband & I lost two weeks ago. This is the hardest thing I’ve ever had to do! But you’ve helped. 💜

    • @danielareynoso.r
      @danielareynoso.r  Před 4 lety +2

      I can't even cope whit the feeling of loneliness I felt when Kenia was gone!! Now, i need to help some like my old self. Sending you and your husband one big hug!! I'm there whit you. And grief, grief has much as you need.

  • @angelm795
    @angelm795 Před rokem +1

    Thank you for sharing Kenia's story. I'm so sorry she is not with you. I lost my son too and can relate a lot to your experience.💔

  • @NikkiYarlz
    @NikkiYarlz Před 4 lety

    Thank you for sharing. Kenia will ALWAYS be remembered. Prayers for you and your family. ❤️

  • @ginaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
    @ginaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa Před 4 lety +2

    I am so sorry. You are beautiful inside and out. I am so sorry you had to experience this. Lots of love to you and your family 💛

  • @rustyblondebehindthechair

    You are so strong and amazing ♥️ My heart breaks for you and every other mother & father who has gone through such a tragic loss ♥️ We will never know why our babies were taken too soon...we just have to rely on blind faith to get us through it until our time is up. I too have had a stillborn baby and nothing but time gets us through it. It does get easier as time helps us heal, but it never goes away & I don’t want it to...I need those memories because I truly believe we as mothers of stillborn babies are stronger today because of Kenia & Oliver ♥️ I was 7 months pregnant when he was taken from us, he was my 2nd child ♥️ Us as mothers of angel babies have a silent bond that nobody else can share...I too have some regrets because of how sad and depressed I was...I guess it’s natural when going through such a loss and trying time. It was 10 years ago for me & every April is HARD. I too made a CZcams video about our stillborn son ♥️ It is therapy to share their stories...it helps keep them alive in our hearts ♥️ And I also have a rainbow baby who has brightened our world ♥️ Thank you for sharing your beautiful Kenia with the world ♥️ Sending you a big hug ♥️ My new moto is: I have 3 babies; 2 that learned to walk by my side & 1 that learned to fly ♥️

    • @danielareynoso.r
      @danielareynoso.r  Před 4 lety +1

      This is why I love CZcams!! And speaking about the painful and not so pretty things in life!! Oliver and Kenia must be having a blast in heaven!! But, boy IT SUCKS! being here whit out them! No matter how many years or other baby's we have or kids in heaven will for ever be a mark in or life and always we will speak their life and say their names!!! 💕💕💕💕💕

    • @rustyblondebehindthechair
      @rustyblondebehindthechair Před 4 lety

      @@danielareynoso.r Don't you LOVE it when you hear her name?! I get goosebumps and this magical feeling inside EVERY TIME I hear someone actually say Oliver's name!!! Forever in our Hearts...Oliver and Kenia

  • @beyedoc
    @beyedoc Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you for sharing your story, your faith, and your beautiful daughter Kenia with us. I'm so so sorry for your loss. 💕 Brandi

    • @danielareynoso.r
      @danielareynoso.r  Před 2 lety

      Ty so so much for your time Brandi! It means the world to me! 🥰

  • @mandymoffatt
    @mandymoffatt Před 4 lety +1

    Thank you for sharing your story. ❤❤my heart breaks for you and your family. I cannot imagine going through everything you have. ❤❤stay strong

  • @tasiamoore1823
    @tasiamoore1823 Před 4 lety +4

    I had my daughter when you posted 💔 03/1/20 .. Ta’miah 👼🏽 36 weeks 6 day check up , no 💜 beat .. tfs 💕

    • @danielareynoso.r
      @danielareynoso.r  Před 4 lety +2

      I'm so deeply sorry my sweet friend!! You're gona be on this limbo for quite some time!! But I promise this will get easier and you will speak proudly about Ta'miah and never let her go forgotten!! Sending you lots of hugs and kisses!! And if you need to took just let me know!!! 💕💕💕💕💕

  • @KawaiiJadii
    @KawaiiJadii Před 4 lety +4

    You are such a strong woman ❤️ I will be praying for you 😞

    • @danielareynoso.r
      @danielareynoso.r  Před 4 lety +1

      Thank you for giving the time to tell my daughter history!! Be safe!!

  • @missdebra1483
    @missdebra1483 Před 4 lety +2

    My heart aches for your loss. Sending prayers n love your way.
    Thank you.

  • @vanessajeanne
    @vanessajeanne Před 4 lety +2

    Thank you for being brave to share your story. I pray for you and your family.

  • @kriziahernandez4257
    @kriziahernandez4257 Před 4 lety +3

    I don’t know you but I want to tell you your amazing for sharing your story, you are strong even if you don’t feel strong right now, it’s okay to not be okay and it’s okay to be angry don’t forget that ! sometimes we want to hide our emotions put by accepting our emotions that’s how we accept our situations god bless you and your husband ♥️♥️♥️ praying for you

    • @danielareynoso.r
      @danielareynoso.r  Před 4 lety

      Wow!! Thank you!! That's exactly how I feel!! The reason why a feel very deep, It's because all people told me to move on, and don't be mad and forgive just like that. And got me got wrong!!!! For me it been therapy say it l, like it is. As ugly has can be out sound. You're one off the very few person who thinks like me!! Thank you so much 💕💕💕

  • @monicaornelas7296
    @monicaornelas7296 Před 4 lety +1

    Danny, I am very sorry for your loss. I have lost too. I loved your videos.

    • @danielareynoso.r
      @danielareynoso.r  Před 4 lety

      Thank you for your time sweet Monica I love you profile pic!!

  • @andreachildress7207
    @andreachildress7207 Před 4 lety

    You are so strong and amazing ... God Bless

  • @jessicadelrosario6402
    @jessicadelrosario6402 Před 3 lety +2

    You are such a strong and amazing woman. ❤️ Un abrazo

  • @kristyrussell1748
    @kristyrussell1748 Před 4 lety +1

    Oh no sweetie. I'm so sorry 😩. I lost my newborn in 2013 to Trisomy 18. Definitely nothing you can ever prepare for. Sending lots of love!

    • @danielareynoso.r
      @danielareynoso.r  Před 4 lety +2

      Ooo no Nothing!! We think everything will be picture perfect, but reality is not always sweet!! Big hug back to you Kristy!!

  • @alexandraferrer450
    @alexandraferrer450 Před 4 lety

    My heart is with you. I wanted to hug you, as you poured your heart to us. Your smile at the end, when you showed us your tattoo, was a beautiful light that came through. You are in the presence of your daughter's beautiful soul and it gives you life. Luz. Vida. You are a beautiful soul. I send you a huge eternal hug, to carry you on your whole life journey. Your daughter is with you and will be forever.

  • @gretas950
    @gretas950 Před 3 lety +7

    I Will Lend You A Child
    I will lend you, for a little time,
    A child of mine, He said.
    For you to love the while she lives,
    And mourn for when she's dead.
    It may be six or seven years,
    Or twenty-two or three.
    But will you, till I call her back,
    Take care of her for Me?
    She'll bring her charms to gladden you,
    And should her stay be brief.
    You'll have her lovely memories,
    As solace for your grief.
    I cannot promise she will stay,
    Since all from earth return.
    But there are lessons taught down there,
    I want this child to learn.
    I've looked the wide world over,
    In search for teachers true.
    And from the throngs that crowd life's lanes,
    I have selected you.
    Now will you give her all your love,
    Nor think the labour vain.
    Nor hate me when I come
    To take her home again?
    I fancied that I heard them say,
    'Dear Lord, Thy will be done!'
    For all the joys Thy child shall bring,
    The risk of grief we'll run.
    We'll shelter her with tenderness,
    We'll love her while we may,
    And for the happiness we've known,
    Forever grateful stay.
    But should the angels call for her,
    Much sooner than we've planned.
    We'll brave the bitter grief that comes,
    And try to understand.

  • @aklemmer8936
    @aklemmer8936 Před 2 měsíci

    YOU HAVE a living daughter to love

  • @judyhundt8420
    @judyhundt8420 Před 4 lety +2

    Hello Dannah, Thanks for sharing your story. I had a miscarriage at 12 weeks, but I can’t imagine what you went through. I’m so sorry this happened to you. Please don’t blame yourself. You don’t know why God took your baby so soon. Maybe she had something wrong with her and she would have suffered here on earth. Praying your heart will heal. I was hoping doing the video was therapeutic when I first starting watching it.

    • @danielareynoso.r
      @danielareynoso.r  Před 4 lety +3

      Hi Judy!! My daughter's dead was medical negligent!! It took so much time and help to get to this point in my life I'm catholic, but I don't believe God took my daughter for any reason! I just believe life es unfair and the dead will come sometimes way too soon!! It was really therapeutic. Thanks for you time and for listening to me !! 💕💕💕

  • @AveGuy1
    @AveGuy1 Před 4 lety

    You are so strong. God bless you

  • @Lisa-rh3zr
    @Lisa-rh3zr Před 4 lety +1

    My condolences on your loss. Praying for you....

  • @StellarWreckage
    @StellarWreckage Před 4 lety +2

    I'm so sorry. There are no words. :'(

  • @christinem.carter-wanner5304

    God bless this family!

  • @Korthilton
    @Korthilton Před 4 lety +1

    I am so sorry for your loss ❤️ ❤️

    • @danielareynoso.r
      @danielareynoso.r  Před 4 lety +1

      Thank you for time and care it means sooooo much to my!!

  • @2lynnw
    @2lynnw Před 4 lety

    So sorry for your loss.💕

    • @danielareynoso.r
      @danielareynoso.r  Před 4 lety +1

      It means so much to me you are listening and knowledging my daughter's life!!! 💕💕💕

  • @Revan_Onasi
    @Revan_Onasi Před 4 lety +2

    I am so sorry for your loss. You can express emotions, it's normal to feel like that. I was mad at my previous gynecologist. Extremely mad.
    My son died almost 8 months ago and I had a C-section as well. He was born alive but I was put under, so I didn't hear his voice. I saw him only once in NICU. Oleg (my son's name) was put on ventillator and I couldn't even hold him once. For now I have to wait before I can try again, because of the current situation in the world and my gynecologist is strongly against to let me try again yet. How you went through your rainbow pregnancy?

    • @danielareynoso.r
      @danielareynoso.r  Před 4 lety +3

      Sorry to read this mama!! Not mother should go tru this!! Not gonna lie, my rainbow baby pregancy was hard and depressing!! Luckily, had the best Ob/gyn in Mexico! And all my family support!! But man it was hell!! But my daughter it's almost 2 years old!! And it was al worth it!!

    • @Revan_Onasi
      @Revan_Onasi Před 4 lety

      @@danielareynoso.r looks like I have to, as folks saying, "lock my feelings" and just breathe and go on.

    • @danielareynoso.r
      @danielareynoso.r  Před 4 lety +2

      @@Revan_Onasi" Lock" haha!! I has heard all those words too! And trust me I never give One Fuck about what those ignorant people had to say! For my saying things like it is, it's been life saving. I went tru the worst anxiety and depression after my Daughter Kenia dead!! And just about 5 months after giving birth to my second daughter Melissa, it the I found a great psychiatrist, that cared about me and game the right medication. Never pay any attention to those who say just move on. Its like if lose your leg or arm! Would you just move on?? Or lock you feeling about losing a part of you?? Not! ha!! I'm here for you momma!!

    • @Revan_Onasi
      @Revan_Onasi Před 4 lety

      @@danielareynoso.r my therapist said if I won't forget, I can lose the next baby. It's terrifying.

    • @danielareynoso.r
      @danielareynoso.r  Před 4 lety +1

      Haha that's one fuck up therapist!! It IMPOSSIBLE!! You can try to forgive and heal. Is like they try to erase all the past that not ok.

  • @wowchivas
    @wowchivas Před 4 lety +1

    ❤️

  • @josiepadilla2064
    @josiepadilla2064 Před 3 lety +2

    Que difícil es perder un hijo yo acabo de perder mi niño hace un mes a las 23 semanas se me vino. Me siento muerta en vida. Porfavor pide x mi🙏

    • @danielareynoso.r
      @danielareynoso.r  Před 3 lety +1

      Lo siento mucho! Vive tú duelo, llora grita lo qué sea necesario pará sanar tú corazón!

  • @clarawagner2031
    @clarawagner2031 Před 2 lety +1

    Lo siento mucho, quizas no es comparacion pero yo perdi mi embarazo a las 9 semanas e igual me dolio muchisimo porque fue muy deseado y buscado. No me imagino lo que seria cuando ya esta formado y es un embarazo a termino. Espero pronto Dios me de una 2da oportunidad porque por mi edad siento que no tengo mucho tiempo y batallamos bastante para quedar en embarazo. Vi que publicaste un video de parto y me alegre mucho por ti. Un abrazo.

  • @ag5amanda
    @ag5amanda Před 2 lety +2

    I am so sorry for your lost, I can’t even imagine the pain. But you should not blame the doctors for the protocols, they have follow certain steps and also the medical professionals are trained not to show emotion (most of the time). Them using different machines to find the heartbeat was the best thing to do. When I was pregnant almost most of the time they couldn’t find her heartbeat with the regular droplet they had to use the ultrasound machine all the time. Stay strong, your baby girl will always be taking care of you from heaven. 💕

    • @giannathorp398
      @giannathorp398 Před 2 lety

      What in the actual f$&@ is the matter with you? !! You honestly to god felt the need to give her a speech about how the “Medical professionals” were doing the “best thing”!!! She shared her PAINFUL story about the death of her baby…..you’re a f$&@?!# psychopath.

    • @krystin_stand4truth
      @krystin_stand4truth Před 2 lety

      @@giannathorp398 she did make a point. Being a medical professional myself, we HAVE to follow certain steps and act a certain way in situations like this. Even when we want to cry with the patient and feel so horrible for having to tell them bad news, we HAVE to keep a certain composer.
      As for Dannah, I am so very sorry for your loss! My heart aches for you and I truly hope you find some kind of peace. I saw in another comment that you are pregnant again, I am sending prayers to you that you have a peaceful, successful pregnancy with a healthy, happy baby in your arms! ❤🙏

  • @shesh6061
    @shesh6061 Před 3 lety +3

    I appreciate your honesty.

  • @BriDahlquist
    @BriDahlquist Před 4 lety +2

    Praying for you today ❤

  • @lasaundrawashington348
    @lasaundrawashington348 Před rokem +1

    Sorry for your lost🥺

  • @tonyamcgill5438
    @tonyamcgill5438 Před 4 lety +1

    Praying for you🙏🙏🙏

  • @carotoland2486
    @carotoland2486 Před 4 lety +2

    I which to be there to give a big hug. I so so sorry.

  • @rebeccahansler3239
    @rebeccahansler3239 Před 2 lety

    I am so sorry for your painful loss. I wish you better times ahead without ever leaving Kenia’s story behind. There is a promise of a resurrection for all those that have fallen asleep in death. A promise of life without sickness. Rev 21:3,4💞

    • @danielareynoso.r
      @danielareynoso.r  Před 2 lety

      Thanks for your sweet and thoughtful words! We never forget and never stop loving our baby's! Ho! Yes a do believe we will get reunited! 🥰

  • @sassysandra245
    @sassysandra245 Před 3 lety +2

    Thank you for deepllytt yt tv

  • @sharoncollins7983
    @sharoncollins7983 Před 4 lety +1

    I had a breach birth but I was awake. Be glad you got c section.

    • @giannathorp398
      @giannathorp398 Před 2 lety +2

      She shouldn’t be glad she got a c-section because her baby had died……Did you listen to her story?!!! My god.

    • @krystin_stand4truth
      @krystin_stand4truth Před 2 lety +2

      What kind of comment is that?! She lost her baby and you're saying she should be glad she has a c-section?! At least your baby lived! Have a little compassion and empathy! And, be grateful for your outcome! That comment was completely inappropriate and unsympathetic! Shame on you!

    • @aklemmer8936
      @aklemmer8936 Před 2 měsíci

      Metoo

  • @lithiumflower98
    @lithiumflower98 Před 4 lety

    ❤️

  • @truthseeker8559
    @truthseeker8559 Před 4 lety

    ❤️