WHY I WOULDN'T DATE A STRAIGHT PERSON (AS A TRANS GUY) | NOAHFINNCE
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As a bisexual, I think that it's just a bi thing to want to date other bis. I mean, *bisexuals*
Saaammmmeeee
How can you be confused? You are an attention seeker
@@crystala554 what do you mean I'm confused? I'm also not an attention seeker- what are you on about?
@@snow-vi6yp people who have tell people how they identify are attention seekers
Yeah, we're pretty amazing.
Noah, the straights in the comments are mad you don't want them 💀💀
They're just mad because it means they'll never have a chance with him 😎/j (this was a joke ik he's taken LMAO)
Accidentally scrolled a bit too far down in the comments and uuh, no thanks 🤮
Without us y'all wouldn't have been born
@@bean.ieedits *she
@@bean.ieedits I wouldn't date her for a million dollars
i’m a trans man and i’m dating a straight woman. at first it was really difficult trying to explain how much of my identity and queerness affected my life, but she’s very understanding and is a 10/10 ally 💕
@@MartinMartin-bh4kejobless motherfucker. close youtube shorts. go outside. breathe in the fresh air. see how normal people interact on a daily basis. fix your inferiority complex and leave random people alone
thats awesome dude
these kind of cis het people are very rare to find. 😭
@@ini9558 real
@@ini9558 maybe becasue they don't believe in the whole 'gender is a spectrum'. Also just go out into the real world becasue watching these cisphobic videos just makes you crazy. Touch grass.
Honestly T4T are the best relationships some times, for these exact reasons.
Unlike gay relationships that are more volatile than most.
@@thewerewolfofnorway437t4t can be a gay relationship dude 💀
@@thewerewolfofnorway437 No they aren't. When you hear about domestic violence it's almost always a man hurting a woman. You're just lying again.
@@kallamarsspouse you do know gay men are men don't you?
@@thewerewolfofnorway437 You do know a "straight" relationship is between a man and a woman, right? Those relationships are where the most violence occurs statistically.
I feel you. I dated a straight guy and he wanted me to keep my women chest even though I literally told him that I'm getting rid of them. Basically making a point to say that I was getting rid of his favorite part. It's nuts. Give me a gay man or a bisexual even another trans guy or girl. Just as long as they want me for me. Not for the parts I'm getting rid of
I'm so sorry about that, dude. What tf is with cis(typically het) men caring more about genitals than the human being they're attached to. 💀 Good luck on your future top surgery, I hope it works out.
He wanted the right thing for the wrong reason.
Remember your "woman chest"
Is for feeding babies
@@williampachev4944 Actually, they're just sacks of fat. Stop forcing your breeding kink on people.
@@williampachev4944and not all women want or can have babies silly, that's the dumbest excuse ever
@@Aaditri44 well that doesn't make breasts lumps of pointless fat.
Literally all of my worst relationships were with straight people.
Bis and Pans? Amazing.
Straight people generally have more expectations whereas bi and pan people are chill with whatever most of the time, so I’m not surprised there lmao. Have a good one :)
Pan and bi are the same thing, and real straight people do not date trans people.
Idk how you can manage to act like the most victimized group in society, but then still try to convince people that you've all dated straight people and that they have accepted that you're not really the opposite sex.
How can you be both unaccepted in society, but also be accepted enough to date normal straight people lol ridiculous
@@JRTO_what i see in lgbtq relationships is that they dont usually last long
@Machu_chan that’s simply not true. Take my friends as an example. Friend one is straight, and she is with another guy very 1-4 months. Friend 2 is bi. She’s been with her girlfriend for over a year and a half. Friend 3 is also straight and she’s been with her boyfriend for over a year, but they break up and get back together and have a very toxic relationship. And friend 4 is a lesbian who is so gosh darn in love with her girlfriend it’s crazy. Friends 5 is straight and literally lives and breaths her boyfriend, they’ve been together for 8months so far, but I think it will go alot farther. Friend 6 is gay and out of the 2 guys he’s been with the first one was over in 2 months, the other in 5 months. Some gay relationships last long and other don’t. Same with straight people. Also the reason I didn’t put myself in this is because I’ve never dated before. It just depends on the relationship. Some last, some don’t. Don’t say it’s due to sexual orientation
@@TSDKF2024Caitlin and Leah lasted for years and Dion and Sebb also lasted for years . Caitlin and Leah are now having babies and they’re married , Dion and Sebb are engaged.
Hi Noah, I’m also a trans boy and I’m getting a haircut soon! It might sound strange to others but I’m so excited that I’ve literally been having dreams abt it :>
I get how exciting that is, congrats!
Congrats!
Aaa im so happy for you!! I remember how happy I felt after my first “boy” haircut. I hope all goes well :)!
@@expiredahhmilkit's not a boy haircut. No haircut is a boy or girl haircut
@@TSDKF2024 that’s why I put it in quotation marks. With “boy”, I meant a stereotypical masculine haircut, smarty
Same. I only date other queer people. I feel like as a biromantic asexual nonbinary person there would just be so much I would have to explain to someone who is completely cis and straight.
You sound like the latest model Toyota, talk about cult language. 🤣
My wife is also enby, biromantic, and ace. : )
I'm bi, allo, and aromantic so our relationship is a big queer platonic mess : ) : )
@@amberrichards2778 quick q, if your spouse is enby do you usually call them your wife? Are they chill with that? Sorry if I'm prying lol I've just been thinking about what I'd refer to myself as if I were to get married/in a relationship/just in general (itd also be a mess of a qpr thing cause im a transmasc aroace) bc idrk if I'm a guy or enby
@@drownedtrashrat3501 I call them my wife because when we got married we both identified as women. Neither of us do anymore but when we get discriminated against, it's because we appear to be lesbians. So I (and they) feel like we've earned the title wife, even if it doesn't fit with our gender identities.
@@amberrichards2778 ohhh yeah yeah that makes sense! I wish you two good luck :D
I get it. I'm bi and I've had quite a few boyfriends who didn't really believe I was bi and it sadly made me insecure about it. But there are educated, knowledgeable, accepting and cool straights out there! Doesn't mean you have to date them, but they do exist ^^
Why would that make you insecure ?/sounds to me you're a crybaby
they aren't worth the effort and stress to find.
@@jn1211 they are very common
There's also cool straights who don't buy into the trans idiology, most people, by far.
@@jn1211 bigot.
I definitely prefer dating other bisexuals as a trans person, but it’s dating cis people in general where I have trouble. There’s still a lot to explain that they simply don’t understand. My ex had also given me a bad experience. She switched up from wanting me to be a manly man (I’m a feminine transmasc), but at the same time she stated multiple times that she didn’t want me to have top surgery and I was getting rid of the parts she liked. It was so distressing.
My current partner is bi and cis, but he’s been nothing but understanding and is a huge trans ally, so it’s been great! Although he likes my chest, he’s promised me that nothing would change once I have top surgery and that he truly loves me for what’s on the inside, not the outside. He also told me my gender expression is valid and he loves seeing me in both masc and femme clothing. Bisexuals are a mixed bag, but I have a better time dating them.
You should just never date, of course you're going to have problems.
@@thewerewolfofnorway437 You sound kinda slow
@@MercenaryPine9 kinda fast really.
@@thewerewolfofnorway437 Yeah, you’re definitely a new kind of slow. Keeping you in my thoughts, you poor thing. 🙏🏽
@@thewerewolfofnorway437if you aren't trans you have no idea how dangerous it is for trans people with dating
God his eyes are dreamy 😍✨️
You're down bad it's a she btw
@@williampachev4944 If he's a she, why use it/its pronouns for him?
@@kallamarsspouse by it's a she I mean like the comment
@@williampachev4944 "it's a him" You just gendered him correctly, congrats on having eyes
@@kallamarsspouse ah my bad I'm sorry typos happen
I’m a pan trans guy and I’d honestly just rather date another trans guy that way we understand each other y’know
SAME
@@ilovecats21 lmao hi
@@thewitchstarot6975 hey
@@ilovecats21 funny seeing you here
You people are pretty delusional.
Yeah, I’d rather be in a relationship with a bisexual (or otherwise multisexual) than someone who’s gay or straight, it’d just be a bit difficult with how my genitalia don’t match my identity, it just complicates things
And you sound pretty confusing.
@@thewerewolfofnorway437 dude, educate yourself. You're literally commenting on the right channel for learning this stuff
the fact that i was listening to your music when you uploaded.. your timing is impeccable noah
it feels illegal to be this early
best wishes noah
as a bi trans guy/nonbinary person, I definitely agree with Noah. I don't think I'd date a straight girl because I'm not completely a boy. but I dunno I also just feel like it wouldn't be the best for me but who knows
You shouldn't date anyone.
@@thewerewolfofnorway437 ok thanks for your input
@@thewerewolfofnorway437you should shut up
@@thewerewolfofnorway437 Why not? 🤔
@@thewerewolfofnorway437neither should you
I'm heterosexual but I get that point as a person of color. When I date with a white person, I need to explain a lot...😅
I can kinda sense that when I make new friends that are of color. I feel like they kinda analyze me to see if I’m gonna get butthurt at idk a BLM sign or something when we first meet. I do the same thing when I meet new people to see if they are homophobic. It’s kinda sad minorities gotta resort to doing that, cuz some privileged people have a log up there ass
And this is why I watch all sorts of news and docs on cultures and intersectional issues. If I do date a POC, I wouldn't want them to have to explain everything, just know they have an ally #BLM ✌💖
@@audreydoyle5268You serious or?
I dated a guy who was gay for me and told others any chance he got that he was straight after we broke up. Also the internalized homophobia and sexism that sometimes came out of that mans mouth were baffling to me. I wouldn’t say he’s a sexist or homophobic but I had to educate him on so much
never doing that again
I think the gay sex act is disgusting, doesn't matter who does it, doesn't make me homophobic.
@@thewerewolfofnorway437 omg thanks for letting me know. Your opinion on that totally changed my life, you are so smart!!!!🤡
hope youre better now
am i gay for dating a trans guy as a dude help me, idrc i love them and thats all i care about but idk how to be like called yk??
I understand this as a trans person-
Same they would see me as a girl (I'm genderfluid)
Ayo stop inventing words
@@williampachev4944 all words are invented, but I guess by your stupid replies to everything I guess you didn’t know that
@@williampachev4944 all words are invented dude
@@agosesco7134 when I say invented I mean it's not widely accepted as
A real word.
@@williampachev4944 If it's in the dictionary, it's a real word 🙂
That's just the truth, as a bisexual who made the mistake of dating a VERY homophobic straight man, who is extremely country, with him knowing I was bisexual, it's to much work to date a straight person. If they are educated on the LGBT community then I could see it, but I think I'm gonna stick with what I've got.
Yes exactly! Though I would date a straight trans woman cause she'd understand the queer experience by being trans lol
(I'm a bi trans guy btw)
You want that ✨bi wife energy✨
BI WIFE ENERGY ✨
@@unmotivatedartistry be quiet child of satan
YES THE BI WIFE ENERGY! ✨✨
Stop it.
As a fellow bi (and trans female) I completely understand
You can't be trans FEMALE, only one meaning for the word female, trans women are male.
i love bi people
Why? The gay sex would put me off.
Thank you Yanfei
totally agreed. i'm bisexual, but i only date other queer people. the cishet perspective of gender, sexuality, and relationships just seems so...limiting to me. plus, though i look enough like a chick to get hit on by straight guys, i've never been good at being a woman, and i think anyone i dated would eventually realize that. i need someone who sees the masculine and the feminine in me and loves them both.
As a straight woman, there’s a lot I don’t want to explain to a straight man so I think bisexuals might be a better option
💀💀💀💀holy sexism
@@RRICKYSPANISHits not sexist. she said straight men. bi men are still men.
@@braelynnmarie8590 right. heterophobia would be the word
@@sergiomartin221 heterophobia isnt a thing but pop off ig
@@sergiomartin221I mean most straight men are kinda ignorant to a lot of issues pertaining to women, lgbt and racism. Having to explain that stuff is mentally exhausting. If it didn’t apply to you then you wouldn’t be mad 🤷♂️
Not wanting to have to explain certain things to certain people that ✨just don't "get" it✨ is a mood
At first I was gonna be like "that's heterophobic" but like then i realized that it's not really and also it's pretty understandable. As a bi cis gal, I wouldn't want to date someone who didn't know anything about the LGBTQ+ Community (or obviously someone who's homophobic or transphobic) because that's just too much work to explain. And I can't even imagine what it would be like for a trans person, having to explain transgenderness and stuff of that realm.
Im aroace but like all my friends are bi and every time we meet up at some point they will start shouting “bisexual’s will take over the world!!!!” Over and over.
Please save me 💀😭😭
this makes a lot of sense. also, not to be weird or whatever but you are hella attractive, from a fellow bisexual. thanks for coming to my ted talk.
I would feel more confident about my body with someone bisexual
Why? Are a manly looking woman?
i think thats the honest answer noah wanted to mask
Same. I’m a trans guy who is Bi, and the thought of dating a full on cis straight girl gives me dread. The mold for masculinity feels so much tighter. The roles and expectations of being the man in the Heterosexual relationship sounds ass.
I’m also kinda feminine. I’m definitely classified as “gay twink” vibes so dating a straight girl who is cis would be very strange unless she’s absolutely comfortable with my trans body and educated on all that stuff and doesn’t mind that part of me.
I’m taken by a beautiful man tho so luckily the hunt is over for me 👍
My ex boyfriend did a whole shitshow when I told him about my class colleague that she is so pretty that if I was a lesbian I would definitely ask her out. I swear it was just appreciating her beauty at this time. He gave me a bible talk, he went to my parents, my parents didn't give a shit about it, they would accept me eitherway. Soooo I wonder why I stayed with him another 4 years 😅
Now I am happily engaged as a bi woman with a bi men, I never thought someone would understand me so well 😅
That's really lovely for you and I'm glad you got your happy ending 💕
I'm bisexual and I am married to a straight guy, but he is a great ally and is very supportive. It depends on the straight person. :).
same i want someone who understands me more
Being enby and finally accepting it took a long time of me dating straight guys and being like “man, sucks that I don’t feel like a woman” and not really knowing if they would accept that. I feel like the real version of “would you still love me if I were a worm?”
Mooooood it’s why it feels better to date trans people. Like I’ve dated cis women before but there’s always a part of me that wonders if they just view me as a woman, especially because I present as quite fem
I can confirm that us bisexuals are always up for grabs like a vending machine.
I don't think so.
I’m pansexual, currently dating the most clueless straight man ik and it’s so funny bc he legitimately thought pansexuals liked pans before we met 😭
I’m biro ace and, while I’m open to dating a cishet person, I would _definitely_ rather someone who is involved/knowledgeable about queer stuff (think someone like One Topic). I feel you man, just, I love when people are curious and want to learn, but sometimes explaining just gets exhausting!
As a bisexual…..
Hit me up 😘
Yeah it's never wrong to have a dating or sex preference - your body your choice 💜
I'm bisexual and genderfluid - my boyfriend is cis het (mostly) and he accepts all parts of my identity even if he gets a little confused about how the switching works - I love him and he helps me explore my fluidity further :)
You're hilarious!
@@thewerewolfofnorway437 are you really going to reply to every comment?
@@usernameisusernam it's the polite thing to do.
@@thewerewolfofnorway437 hmm.. I don't know about you, but your comments don't seem very polite
@@thewerewolfofnorway437how is this funny?
"but like, I do too. and i don't blame him for that" relatable fr
As a queer (multiromantic) cis boi I would probably avoid dating a straight girl but would go for a girl who’s also under the bi umbrella, simply because I feel like it would be easier to relate and there’d be less judgement and stuff.
I went for an ace and we've been married 5 years, it's wonderful
As a gay man, I'd have no problem dating a Trans guy. Would there be a learning curve with sex? Sure, but that's true with any relationship. As for the no dick thing, trust me, there are PLENTY of ways around that. Sexuality and attraction are about more that the parts people have.
Thank you CZcams recommended :>
Tbh even though I am cisgender I wouldn’t date a straight man or a cisgender man it has to be a really unique down for the cause of transgender rights no matter what cisgender straight man. One that is safe and comfortable enough with his masculinity to have me picture someone who I actually find attached transgender female to male wail we have sex.
I am cisgender women so that’s communicated.
As a T4T, you are the alpha of the trans community
Huh, it's interesting how different the people in the trans community are.
I am in a gay relationship with a bi guy rn but tbh i would have no issue scoring a straight girl.
honestly, as a trans guy who has dated a gay dude, he made me feel wanted and seemed to be satisfied with me as a partner. but a small part of me did think that he would be happier with someone with a penis (or if i had one)
Girl how does this make you feel wanted? 😂
"I do too, and I don't blame him for that!" 😅
Yeah, as a trans person before I met my fiancé I tended to only want to date other trans people because they’d know wtf I’m on about. However, my fiancé is aroace and I love her more than I could ever value a romantic relationship anyway so it doesn’t really matter. Side note, I am also basically aroace because the more I get to know people the less attracted I am so I doubt any romance would go anywhere anyway. If anyone else in these comments is like me in my dwindling attraction to people I’m happy to talk :)
I’m a nonbinary pansexual, I understand!😊
Even as a bisexual cis woman, I prefer dating queer people. With guys, if a guy is trans, or cis but pan or bi, I just automatically assume they’ll be A. Cool with my sexuality and B. That they won’t be transphobic to my friends or have any other issues with queer people. But if I’m talking a cishet guy I’m unsure about that.
Bi people unite ✊🗣️🗣️🗣️
I understand your preferences. I know that mine will sound weird though. So I’m a lesbian, so I prefer women, doesn’t matter if they’re cis or not. HOWEVER, I am non binary and get attracted others like that as well, just with a catch; I am not attracted to amab enbies, nor would I want to have any sexual interactions with them. If this is wrong, they please explain to me how so, I would love to hear the opinions of others. I just don’t really like amab people that much unless they’re trans women. I’m afab, so I’m preferring those that are the same as me in that way…mostly.
(I'm an agender afab btw) Having a preference isn't wrong. For you, your lesbianism is liking women and some non men. You don't have to like all non men to be lesbian. I'm panromantic and ace but if I were to have nsfw relations with somebody, I would prefer it be with another afab or a transfemme person just because that's more comfortable and attractive (aesthetically) to me.
Why don't you try speaking English, instead of using the cult language.
Im a trans guy and its not heterophobia but id prefer to date bisexual women. because im straight. and i just feel like itd be easier for to find someone who accepted me as a trans man if they were attracted to both genders. i hate explaining my reasoning....but thats pretty much it. just acceptance
Ok girl 👍🏿
@@EnglishOrthodoxjobless!
@@mirmir0003 jobless?
Ok and I don't wanna date transgenders. It's not transphobic
I'm non-binary and queer myself and I get the general sentiment, I also feel like dating other queer people is a little easier oftentimes. But I want to point out that there are well informed straight people who can be great partners.
as a person who knows many straight people who fully understand everything I know as a (probably trans) bisexual minor, I would date I straight person if they supported lgbtqia+
I am bi and there’s just something about other bi ppl that’s always 😍
Totally understandable
I’m ace and my boyfriend is still learning about all the different sexualities, he asked what asexual was and I was happy to explain, I like people to be curious in a good way because it shows they wanna understand:)
this is a mood
i was gonna ask about straight trans women, but ive found a lot of straight trans ppl to be pretty clueless too (i say this out of love for my trans siblings lol)
I'm a mostly gay trans guy and mostly date bi/pan guys
i love bisexuals
Agreed👍
I would love if we just had a entire vid of Noah just saying "idear"
I just think its common sense, as a gay trans man I find it personally transphobic if some straight guy was tryna get with me KNOWING I'm a trans man, that's just my take on it, and I don't date gay cis men bc they can be blatantly transphobic too (personal experiences), so I just date bi cis men and its made my life so much easier (lol my bfs bi)
To the people who are mad in the comments suck it up buttercup 😂
As a bisexual, I honestly dont give a shit what gender you are I just want a romantic relation tbh
Same. I hope you stay safe!🫶🏻😁❤️🏳️🌈🚂
I mean tbf i myself am straight but every person I’ve met in my life keeps getting really shocked when I say im straight so I really feel it depends on the person cause funnily enough i know more about lgbt shiz than one of my trans ace friends (tho i am on asexual spectrum too but yk)
Well if you're on the ace spectrum then you're a part of the LGBTQ+ community.
The self doubt thing makes a lot of sense. That worry that you aren't meeting their expectations. That might also be the reason a lot of straight cis women don't want to date bisexual men.
Wouldn't it be easier if everyone was just bisexual? lol. That might also be the bisexual in me projecting.
Omg same bro, you are voicing my thoughts exactly
Oh man you put it into words that's wassup
Gay trans man myself and I would prefer to date bi guys as well. Obviously if I like and made a connection with a gay man, but I think I would feel more comfortable with a bi guy. Transphobia is pretty rampant in the gay community from what I’ve seen. Obviously this is not universal, and everyone can have their own preferences but yeah. To each their own
as a non-binary person i too prefer bisexual people 😭
As a bisexual I completely agree 👍
but some straight ppI are trans
I recall him saying he wouldn't want to date another trans person because they might trigger each others dismorphia or something like that but he could've changed his mind about that
@@parisewellington3664 i see
@@crystala554 and that would be what?
@@crystala554 there is something wrong with you for saying that there is nothing wrong with them and its ur opinion ok but you dodnt need to haye hate just go do something with your life 🙄
@@BlackRoyalty-hh8tb they are living in a false reality.
Completely understand. As a straight man I would only ever date biological women. Could not ever imagine dating a transgender, non-binary, etc etc. Everyone has their preferences and people shohld respect that
Not to poke a bear, but wouldn’t “biological woman” also include trans men?
@@someonewhowasnthereholy shit ur right, the L pfp makes sense
“You’re straight? Blocked”
Lol
You’re gay? “Blocked”
Lol
As a bi girl, dating straight guys is just absolutely mind numbing, they have no idea what’s going on with queer ppl
Same w me an trans people 🤷♀️. I’m not transphobic just preferences
What about the pansexuals? 😭
pretty sure bisexual is an umbrella term?? most people use it instead of straight/gay
Bi people still have "preferences" that exclude us. That's why I only talk to other trans people. The trans thing is a larger hurdle than being gay.
I'm bisexual
I never understood the “trans people can’t be in cis bathrooms” kinda thing, like what are you gonna do? Police the piss? Shield the meal? Like just let them pee *Diana*
@@natashakadiz1522 well I’d assume that you are a heterosexual cisgender person
@@natashakadiz1522 cisgender means you are the gender you were born as, if you aren’t cis, welcome to the team
@@natashakadiz1522 talk so much shit for a person with a default pfp
@@SaoirseVisceral 😂 😂 😂 doesn’t change the fact that none of you can define what a woman is
@@natashakadiz1522 define deez nuts natasha
what about pansexuals? i mean 😀
I'm bi and I'll legit date anybody. No matter their sexuality but I understand where you're coming from
Low key feel this so much
i mean thats fair, im a straight woman and i barely understood what you said. i wouldnt date a trans person either🤷♀️
Bisexuals rule 😩
This is kinda why I like being asexual; relationships are about so much more than just sexuality.
ngl sometimes i think it’s be super cool if i met someone who was ace/aro, and we fell in love in the fren kind of way, and if we could be besties living together like a little chosen family. that would be rad
Yes, but they're also about sexuality for most people.
Honestly same. I don’t think I’m ace but like romance is so much better than sex.
I feel this, I’m pan and for some reason always end up with pan or bi people lol
I cant imagine dating someone with NO understanding of what my life was like.
It wouldn’t even be possible for you to be in a relationship with a straight man…..
do you know what bisexual means
@@_geno_ Yes lol, do you know what straight means?
@@JM-nl9ow hes bisexual. meaning he can date women. and women can be straight and attracted to him. he was saying that he wouldn’t want a partner not in the community. so yeah, he wouldn’t be able to date a straight man, that wasn’t who he was talking about.
It’s impossible for a straight man to date another man because then he would no longer be straight….
Yep! That's how it works.
Having preferences doesn't make you hetrophobic 😂💀
Well there's a difference between preferences and not wanting to date someone specifically because they're straight.
It's like saying "ew, straight person"
Or "nah, me and straight people wouldn't mesh well" (what he said in the video)
I feel this
makes perfect sense, to me at least. if t4t is a thing, why shouldn't queer4queer be?
Yeah!!
You're 100% right Noah ✅️ I feel the same way...I don't understand why so many gay guys/men feel so much contempt towards Trans men -eww so stupidly transphobic (you'd expect more compassion from such a group 👻).
it's because they lump themselves into a group based around sexual orientation (lgbtq), and it discredits it all, it's like if in a debate one side was winning, and had perfect points, but the closing statement is "dinosaurs are aliens and they live in my fridge" that'll become the whole focus, so instead of giving rights to marginalized groups that exist based in reality, a group that created themselves through the beauty of a child's imagination forced themselves into the same group somehow, they're associating the actual groups with the make believe groups, valid reason to be upset I'd say