If You're Not Black, Don't Use the N-Word
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- čas přidán 19. 02. 2020
- My cousin’s teenage daughter, whom I affectionately call my niece, was recently hanging with some family friends her age when a boy in the group started using the N-word when speaking with another group member, like you would use the term “buddy”. Like us, the boy was South Asian, so my niece told him it wasn’t right for him to use the word. He disagreed, saying, “My Black friends don’t mind.”
Knowing that I teach about equity, diversity and inclusion for a living, the next time she saw me my niece inquisitively asked, “Is it ok for people who aren’t Black to use the N-word?” It took me less a millisecond to respond - "No!”
I’ve had enough of hearing paltry excuses and “explanations” from people about this. In the spirit of allyship and fighting against anti-Black racism, I want to use my voice to speak out about the use of the N-word.
In this #RituTalks video, I talk about how no one, other than someone who is Black, should use the N-word. It’s flat-out wrong. Why? I spell this out in my video!
If this feels unfair to you, I urge you to hear me out. Watch the video to learn the reasons why you shouldn’t use the N-word if you’re not Black.
Watch now!
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Hmm I truly believe that no one should use this horrendous word.
me too as a black person i think this word shouldn't be used but I can't change it
Yeah. I hate seeing black people calling other people the n word with the hard r. How is that okay in any way just cause they’re black?
@@garibros7397 Thank you for not putting your history on our shoulders, I appreciate it. And I have mad respect for you standing up to how awful the word is and how it should not be used.
Black people are not allowed to wear socks and sandals then. Yes this is just as stupid as her argument in the video. Either nobody can say it or everyone can in "appropriate" context (such as singing along to music or whatever) personally we should, as a society just stop using it and it,but that will never happen sadly.
You can use it if a black person gives you a n word pass
How about everyone not using the N word including black people? The more the N words are in songs on a big platform people will learn to say it from a young age. Get rid of it completely.
Yep totally agreed with you!
I agree ☝️
That's the problem is the music industry especially rap promotes the n word and you think why nonblack kids are saying the n word like in the hood.
No it's their history and they have full rights to use it however others don't
@@Caim6311 so? If black singers are using the n word they can , it's their history. Non black kids should be taught not use it , it's not that hard to skip a word in a song
Thank you so much... today I asked one of my friends to not use this word... he asked ... WHY.... unfortunately at that time I was unable to explain him why.... then I googled some vids.. and got yours ... THANK YOU A LOT!!!!!!
A thorough understanding of the history of the N-word is sadly lacking in our education system. There are many theories but few are authoritative and convincing.
Use of the word by black people today is actually hugely disrespectful to their great grandparents and other recent ancestors of theirs who were demeaned, victimized, and dehumanized by it. This is bullshit rationalization.. just stupid
@@stevekaspar1396 BlThe term comes from a place of shared, oppressive history. After decades of being belittled, black people deserve to claim the word as their own. It exists within black speech now because it existed within black speech then. Absent the internalized oppression of those who called black people the the slur would probably not be a part of black folk’s lexicon. We black folk are reclaiming it not from bigoted Non blacks but from our ancestors, who, sadly, deemed their blackness a badge of inferiority.
@@stevekaspar1396 The term comes from a place of shared, oppressive history. After decades of being belittled, black people deserve to claim the word as their own. It exists within black speech now because it existed within black speech then. Absent the internalized oppression of those who called black people the the slur would probably not be a part of black folk’s lexicon. We black folk are reclaiming it not from bigoted Non blacks but from our ancestors, who, sadly, deemed their blackness a badge of inferiority.
@@xafsafarah7701 and that makes NO sense whatsoever. Where's the proof blacks systematically on purpose 'reclaimed' the word?? And if it's now reclaimed, why is it SO BAD STILL that a white person is NOT allowed to use the word you blacks say has "new meaning" and is often used by blacks now in an endearing manner?? Lol You can't make this shit up
Imao I'm black I don't even use it- AND THE COMMENTS-
I have friends who are Asian (im mixed black and white), and my Asian friends use it all the time. Every time i tell them to stop using it, they just tell me to f off or that I'm being overdramatic. I said that if they kept using it, im gonna distance myself from them and stop being their friends.
Do you use the word?
Good for you.
I’m mixed and I strongly disagree with black people using it
Good.
@@BarronBarca Why
Thanks this will save me explaining
I stopped saying the n word because of this
Thank you for being teachable and for having compassion. We need more people like you in this world
It's better not to offend than to be insensitive. I appreciate your sensitivity.
Would it not be better if no one said it?
Yes
Agreed. It’s hypocrisy imo. I doubt that this is what the ppl that went through slavery wanted to see happen
Exactly
OMG THANK YOU!
I actually like kpop and I just quite recently found about the word from kpop as they're were some idols who were accused of using it. O didn't knew what it meant but all I knew was I'm not supposed to use it.even tho I never did I was curious as to y we shouldn't do it. Ur video helped alot and now I can stop others around me from using it too. And also I'm from punjab too
I think they're not using the n-word. In Korean, "Niga" or "Nega" means 'you' and "naega" means 'me'. Many listeners mistakenly think that k-pop singers use the n-word. These words are Korean, not English and there is nothing offensive about it.
Thank for this video. It's much needed
Don't tell people what words they can't use
I have been called brownie, curry, Lowe class many a times I don't make a fuzz. I don't understand why so much fuzz I can't get it
Same goes for black people! Actually no Race, no matter your colour should! Like bruh come on, grow up
Exactly!
Hi Ritu, that's exactly why we should not use it! I'm Native American & Black and with everything that's tied to this horrible word. We absolutely should not be using this word. No matter the spelling or pronunciation of this word. ❤
If you have one or two black friends who feel ok with you saying the n word, that means you may say the it around those friends. It's not a license to go throwing it around with every black person you see.
no, you’re just not respectful at all that’s it
not even at them you don't say it period, not even in private.
@@DemLyricz1 you can't say too foo
Why do you do you want to say it so bad bro does it sound "cool" to you lol
I use it purposely only around black people or occasionally other people of color who use it precisely because they are using it. I do it to prove a point. They get upset, and think they have an argument against me using the word at all, but they don't.
No one should say the n-word.
It's still a slur and you can't change something that's racist into something meaning "homie or bro"
Not only that but it is still racist bc if a white person says it then it's racist but if a black person says it then it's not.
First of all, it's not equal, because that's exclusive towards other races.
Second of all, you can't take something that's a slur and make it a good thing.
Third of all, I understand the logic of you can't be racist to yourself and stuff like that but calling white people it, is dumb.
Fourth of all, anyone who thinks being racist of their race and saying it's a race privilege is dumb because that in itself is racist. Because it excludes other races.
A fifth of all, if one race can't say it then no one should because it's not equal to exclude other races from your race.
Sixth of all, it doesn't matter if a minority has been targeted by any hate or discrimination over time or now, that gives no right whatsoever for anyone to say something that's racist.
You can't disagree with something like this because it's fact over opinion right now.
What I am saying is pure sense.
@@tamplushboy8452 ik, that's the unfortunate side of it.
But still no one should say it.
@@tamplushboy8452 The term comes from a place of shared, oppressive history. After decades of being belittled, black people deserve to claim the word as their own. It exists within black speech now because it existed within black speech then. Absent the internalized oppression of those who called black people the the slur would probably not be a part of black folk’s lexicon. We black folk are reclaiming it not from bigoted Non blacks but from our ancestors, who, sadly, deemed their blackness a badge of inferiority.
It does matter when a race been oppressed or an minority been oppressed. That's why BLM is a thing against police brutality for blacks and people of minorities
@@lilz1338 you're cringe
@@lilz1338 so basically. You say that you want to defund the police which will include worse training which give you all the bad cops and all the good cops would have quit bc they get blamed for something they didn't do.
I don't say the N-word but if I hear someone that I don't know say the N-word well I ain't saying shit because it's not my job to say anything that's a job for the people who know them to say something.
How about don’t put it in a rap song then? That’s also bs to say that they are using it to “reclaim” the word. That’s not what they’re using it for. They’re using it because they think it’s “cool” to put it in music to say it. To look down on a black man. It shouldn’t be used by anyone white or black.
I don't think it's cool for us to be telling other cultures what to do. However, I think people need to know that if they're going to put it in rap songs, young kids are going to pick up on it and then grow up saying it because they didn't learn history and think it's a normal word.
@@thetickedoffpianoplayer4193 well that’s exactly that. If they mention it in songs they’re telling listeners that it’s ok to use. Then they’re going to try and say that the people who do say it are racist. Messed up logic.
What about black people using the n-word against non-black people? I haven't seen a video criticizing this fact. If you are black, just use the n-word as you please, and we should not question it. Sorry, I disagree.
Absolutely
As a Latino person, I hear so many other nbpoc saying the N word and if I call them out I'll usually get a response like "it's ok I'm not white". There's no rule saying that only white people can't, the rule is that only black people can. If you aren't black then you haven't experienced the oppression the word represents, and you can't be oppressed with it, therefore it isn't your word to say. Honestly it gets more annoying hearing pocs saying it, because at least white people have some idea that they shouldn't and don't try to excuse it.
Yes but you do know there's a flow on effect especially in rap songs? Those songs full of N words. Massive influence in today's society.
Bruh
The n-word is not a spanish word
Not even us know how it feels to be oppresed by a word that some of us died without hearing
You are spending to much time with these gringuitos
Go and call your black neighboor that word and they will only look at you asking tf you talking about
The only oppresion I have is that youtube doesn't allow me yo use a word "I have the right to say"
That's more of a dictatorship
saying one race can do or say something, but another cant is literally racism
you are trying to combat racism against your race by being racist to another
What's poc?
tysm rita, now i have proof to my ex friend that is it not okay to say the n word!
goodluck with ur career !
But it is ok to use it
@@kodiakwallander1728 if that person is either black or has the pass from a black person
@@dallyae No u can use it if u are anyone...
@@kodiakwallander1728 no? its a slur
@@dallyae Then black people shouldn't use the word
I beleve is there is no malicious intent it's alright, like I grew up in a place where it is common place among me and my friends who are of many diffrent races including black and it was entranced in my everyday speech and when I moved to America, nyc to by specific I continued to say it cassualy and everyone got on my case, all of them not black, on my usage of the word, however I wanst going to change my vocabulary to cater to these people I don't care about, yall give this work do much power, u should watch the easy e interview where he says it depends on how u say iy
I'll add no one should say it.
This is an example of racism, if a certain race can't say something but an other can, that's racist, it's right there In the dictionary
Correction: prejudice.
Sorry, had to say it. Apparently the more oppressed race which is put down in the system (which is abhorrent) more often cannot be racist.
Only prejudice.
Basically the same thing but SLIGHTLY more justified with our history against the black community.
But yep, I agree; it's not our fault that a bunch of old white people used the word. Now we're stuck with the inequality of races.
That's just how the cookie crumbles. :|
@@testx6666 Ah, thank you for the correction, I never thought to look for another reason
@@Farmer_5028 np! -.^
thank gosh, someone really knows what racism really is, because nowdays racism is pretty much loosing its meaning
Yup
I find horrible and I’m black…. It’s demeaning. Then when I here someone not even black it’s blantantly disrespectful
Thanks for this video! I'm an Indian living in India and I hear the argument, "I'm not using it in front of black people/only with a select group of friends who are definitely not racist, so my use of the n-word isn't actively harming anyone. Why should I stop?" How do you recommend responding to this?
Do you know there is 2 million African Siddis who live in South asia? South Asian is not a race and never was. There is south asian whites, south asian blacks, south asian orientals. Then you have the mixed races in between
@@shazzadahsan4536 uhhhhh
When we understand the history of something, we are empowered to know how to use it or not use it. Unfortunately, a thorough understanding of the history of the N-word is sadly lacking in our education system.
Best thing to do is... if yar not living in America don't worry about it. Most things we see on the internet are related to what happens in America and as foreign viewers it's best to not be affected by foreign problems (especially those in America ) because our countries have our own issues we gotta deal with.
It's easy to get affected when everything online mainly refers to their issues and I have definitely been there and sometimes I still do get affected by the conversations Americans have with eachother.
But we gotta keep in mind that we have our own conversations to start with our own country in our own unique way ❤❤❤🔥🔥🔥
But if yar thinking of migrating to the US yee it's good to start thinking about these things💪🏽🔥❤
@@ola171 I agree. If it doesn't concern you, then don't worry about it.
The n word is just as racist when black people say it too and they should be saying it either and it's sad that they don't see it that way.
No one should use the word black or not black. Anybody using that word just denotes the same meaning the meaning does not change no matter who uses it. And whoever uses it depends on the context of the usage to decide whether it is offensive or not. Black people calling each other the N-word casually or in any context just means that they are relating themselves to the supremacists that invented the word in the first place. And that they are looking down on the person that they are referring to with the N-word just as the inventors of the word did in the past. Words whether good or bad are not patented for use by particular people or community that's the worst racist thing to do of all. Using racial slurs amongst your community is like abusing your own forefathers. You need to see the context, if the context is not educational, or protest, or something productive or positive it's not fair to use it no matter whichever community is using the slur.
When we learn the origin of the N-word, we then know if we should use or not use it.
Just stay in your lane- if you are not black dont use it period.
Exactly
@@thehelm658 Nobody should be able to say it, me myself I have been mass insulted with words 40% the N word by black students just because I am white. Now I don't say it nor do shit to them, put yourself in my shoes for a second. If a bunch of white people ganged up on you and called YOU the N word just because you are black/brown then would YOU cope with that??
@@williammacdonald9905 say to me and your non black Asian or white getting punched in the face and actually don’t want non black friends either
I have a friend who is a person of color but he isn't black and he told me that the n word was used to people of color who weren't black as well is this true can anyone confirm this? I didn't find any information about this online.
it’s not true! if your not black, don’t use the n word! only black people! it’s not true.
if you aren’t black please don’t use the n word, it’s very wrong & considered racism and it’s a slur towards us!
Wtf hahaha he's poc bro
Theres no history of the n world being used for poc
It literally comes from the latin word "niger" which means black
Iluminate me
How can I be black but not to be black?
Or poc is a different thing to bpeople?
Sorry OP really got me confused
@@dumplinglover8042 it don't matter what you are black or not no one couldnt say it.
My grandma and my mums boyfriend and my mum all grew up thinking it was okay to refer to black people as the n word. I'm trying to educate them on why it is most definitely not, it just takes time as its something that they've been taught. My grandma especially. they're good people but they desperately need education. How can I slowly make them realise that the n-word is 100% not okay to use anywhere??
It's 100% ok-
When we learn the origin of the N-word, we then know if we should use or not use it.
@@thelivingdead1728 You know your wrong. You even watch the vid. GET THE WORD OUTTA YOUR VOCABULARY.
How about just don't say the n word at all , even if you are black , that feeling when you use the same word that your ancestors heard when they were enslaved as another word for "homie" even still it's racist in itself to exclude races from saying it. Hence why no one should say it including black people.
Exactly they have no respect at all why did black people claim and use the word in a attacking way against each other when it's supposed to be a term of endearment then get mad at white people for saying it it makes no sense they are just disrespectful they are just putting themselfs down even more there was no point in reclaiming the word now everyone is saying it
How about DON'T use the N word.
That would be safe.
Nobody should say it full stop, even for black people.
Stay in your lane if you are not black you simply are NOT qualified to say what Black people should and should not practice as a race and culture.
It’s our word leave it alone
@@johnmetcalf3672 Ummm no, it's everyone's world. Not just black people's world not just White people's world.
*Stfu*
I'm white, and I've heard other white people complain that they can't use it to mean friend or brother the way some black people do. The thing I don't get, though, is that there are plenty of words in the English language to express friendship, so why would you want to use that particular word when you know that a black person is not going to hear, "My friend" if you call them that. Do these people have such a lack in vocabulary that they have to resort to that word? Note that I'm only referring to white people with this comment.
I'd say it's more to like fit in and that they feel like if they don't say it it sounds wrong. To be honest, I'm neither white nor black, nor hang out with a crowd that uses it at all, but there are times someone accidentally says it just because they hear it all the time, not because they were meaning to.
@@fornax5798 But who are they trying to fit in with ....Are they trying to fit in with black people.. Because 90 percent of us don't like it..
Because white people have history of using it not to mean brother or friend
Ok if your not white dont use the white word ,lol
No. If your not black don’t use the word. Get that in your head
This is so dumb my brain hurts
There is no explanation. You simply state with so many words that "they can use it, you cannot". How black exactly do you have to be to be allowed to use it? Would it be ok to at least inform black people that, given they can use the word freely (and non-blacks cant) it is entirely stupid to do so on a regular basis? Also, people in clubs do not "use the n-word" when they sing along, they sing along a black person singing it. Just imagine the person singing the N-word is not actually black but just brown with an accent?
The problem with the N-word came when rap music became mainstream and the music executives did nothing to address the indiscriminate use of the N-word. Unfortunately, most black kids from the inner city do not have role models to tell them not to use the word in everyday conversation around other races. When I was growing up in South Central Los Angeles in the 1970s, it was a term we used every day around each other.
Is there a DNA test to determine if one is black or black enough?
@@jasonthurston799 do u not know where your parents are from or where your from
@@blak1351 I was adopted...but regardless, I am whatever I choose to identify as.
@@jasonthurston799 oh okay. If you don't know if your black then you shouldn't say the n word unless it's obvious in ur skin
Point is not to use the word at all to get rid of the word altogether why would you use a word that gives other cultures an advantage over you.
Hi Ritu, thank you so much for sharing this and using your voice to educate people.
Dude, her name is literally the channel name-Ritu.
@@akshatsrivastava4280 thank you Akshat! my apologies Ritu
An understanding of the history of the N-word will also help us to know how we should view it.
No she is a racist imperialist
Welp..... I guess that's to bad..... NI- random guy: "DON'T YOU DARE". Me: "WHY NOT? I'M NOT CALLING ANYONE THE N WORD BUB!"
I have a few black friends that have given me the pass, but that doesn't mean I'll use it all the time with them. I'll do it maybe once in a blue moon.
But here's my thing. I've had random black people use the n-word to me, especially in a degrading way because of what they'd put in front of it (e.g., bitch ass n-word). So I wouldn't care how they feel when I said it right back to them. Why? Because if it's their word to use with one another, to one another, and don't want anyone else saying it, then they should do just that: use it with one another. I'll fully respect you not wanting me to use it with you, but if it indeed is your word to use and not mine, then don't use it with me since I'm "not one of y'all".
Well don't your race has their own endearment for racist words?
@@lilz1338 can you clarify?
@@wyattthacker3679 like if you're white dont some white people claim the c word or h word is racist? Can't yall use that word as your replacement of the n word?
In that way you can't offend yourself nor can you offend anybody else since it's your own racial slur you claimed?
@Lil Z I'm sure they do but they don't use it with each other, let alone to people that don't match the slur. Though I see your logic. I'm interested to see how a black person would react to me if I called them a cracker in response to them calling me the n word though 🤣
Sick and tired of hearing about what people can and can't say based on your race,its all a ridiculous subject that is used against everyone in some way.
I showed this video to my sister and brother but they still say it’s okay to say it if it’s not meant as an insult or if it’s in a song. What can i say to convince them that it’s still wrong
same, i need to tell them it’s totally wrong
Take them around some black people and tell them to say to them. I'm sure they'll realize it was a mistake
@@kgdabuddha2264 dat ain’t gon stop dem
Let them say it lol they can catch hands(when they grow up) I believe anyone can say whatever they want
@@evansthegoofball5383 If you ain’t black. Get the word outta your vocabulary.
I to this date don't know why it's offensive when a white person says the n word but it's fun or not offensive when a black person says the same word,
If it's a bad word then why are people still saying it??
If it's used in music can the white people not sing it???
because black people reclaimed the word
@@Leelee9080Msp reclaimed what? You can't own words.
@@McFaddenWasRight yeah…. shut up
@@Leelee9080Msp uh no. Answer me this, can you copyright a word? Yes or no?
@@Leelee9080Msp more specifically can you copyright the word n-gger?
It’s stupid being that songs have this word and is use in every dam song. So what ? We can’t say that either? Can’t sing the lyrics? It’s used like bro
By YOUR OWN definition of the origination and weight the N word carries... then...and let this sink in....THE BLATANT USE OF THE N WORD BY BLACKS IS ACTUALLY A HEAVY DISRESPECTFUL REFERENCE TO THEIR ANCESTORS WHO WERE OPPRESSED AND AFFECTED BY THAT VERY WORD. Shame on everyone black who is throwing the word around.. Yet they feign disgust when anyone else sings a song they themselves created and profited from.. ridiculous... and some would say insane
If I were american I would never disrespect my own people
Except if you are from the ghetto... looks like the n-word is really linked to cultural values
Not even all black people is used to hear the n-word in their lives
No that’s absolutely right. Even black people shouldn’t use the word if they had enough respect for their own ancestors.
Well how come black people can call non-blacks that word. As a Hispanic, I think every race needs a word that they and only there race can say
" oooooh really ?"-👴
I think it's stupid for anyone to say it. If you have a religion. If you have a certain background I don't care if anyone says the n word I'm going to dislike them
A thorough understanding of the history of the N-word is sadly lacking in our education system.
Absolutely!
I can use it whwenever i want
Don't say it to the wrong person boo :)
@@lilz1338 they wont do anything
@@noqc1 don't know that
This can be bs, me and my friends were hanging out (they are all black) I dont have a problem with their skin colour, but this doesnt mean that they should be able to say it and rub it into my face, now that is also discrimination. In my opinion, no one should use the word, it teaches people that the word can be okay.
The hell you mean? They're black they're totally allowed to use the word however many times they want
@@saanvisuryavanshi666 why does them being black practically change at all? i get they can insult their own race if they want to, but that shouldnt change people in their own race being offended by it. only a certain race being able to say something is discrimination end of.
I agree with half of what you say, Damian. But there is a lot more to the background of the N-word that most people are sadly not familiar with.
@@pastramirants3896 a black person saying it to a another black person won’t get the other being it said to offended, but if a non black person says it is racist. Read that again. Black people claim the word for their ancestors.
@@xafsafarah7701 i understand that but that still gives it power. i think its dangerous to make the word generally accepted for other races but im just saying that theres definitely non racist ways of using it
Na!!!!!
My grandpa black
double standards
How
@@kgdabuddha2264 Probs bcoz he thinks "black ppl both use the derogatory term causually and then tell others not to use it"
@Eric coffey just like gang culture. Just because you like wearing Blue doesn't mean you can call yourself a crip right or go around saying "wassup blood" to others right? If we're using something for our culture specifically. Why do you feel the need to include yourself..nigga
@@kgdabuddha2264 That word was used to insult people in slavery, it's a horrible word.
@@kgdabuddha2264 It's not a culture thing, it's hypocrisy.
This is simple. Anyone who disagrees with what she’s saying either didn’t listen to her or doesn’t give a damn about cultural boundaries. If you are racist and feel like you want to say the word, just say that. I like my racists loud an unapologetic….but DONT get on here pretending that you love and care about black people but you want to say it anyway. That makes you a racists and a liar..
I have PLENTY of friends in the LGBTQ community. They call each other f*g all the time as a term of endearment. BUT GUESS what, you won’t catch me using that word. Why? Because I’m not a complete idiot and I know that I’m not apart of that community. I know that if I say it would be 100% inappropriate. I love my friends. I don’t want to hurt or offend them, therefore I don’t use it. SIMPLE..And I’m also smart enough to know that it’s not my business to try and tell a culture what’s ok for them to reclaim.
If you don’t understand just know you are racist period. If you want to be racist, fine, but own it.
dident ask
nont care
@@Lizzoncker Learn to spell before you comment
@@NA_14 thats crazy who asked?
Because I’m not going to waste my time watching a video.
I will say what I want when I want, just like we allow and expect the black community to do. Why is it acceptable to treat blacks differently based on their skin color...??
People gave lives for this word it shouldn’t be used
Yeah. This is just promoting segregation tbh
I couldn't agree more! people should stop their bs and move on
No anyone who is Asian African British Chinease Indian American African American Colombian or anything else should not say the N word that is Racist and isn't right we are all the same God made us the way he wanted us to be
I agree with you. Thanks for your understanding.
In Africa its not a racial slur.
It actually racism if a certain race are only allow to use the word while all others can't?, that a sign of hypocrisy here
It sounds like you don’t know the difference between racism and cultural practices that belong to a specific culture.
There are millions of things that are specific to a culture that other people know not to attempt to duplicate. Why is it that when black people ask for appropriate exclusion it is challenged, and we are typically challenged by white people who feel that the entire world owes them inclusion. We don’t.
@@NA_14 white people invented the word how can it belong to blacks?
@@kimeli why do you want to say the N-word? Blacks can't say derogatory words about your race. But you can say derogatory words about your own race.
@@wf1901 how do expect me to sing along black music then? you will not here any derogatory words about ourselves in our music.
A thorough understanding of the history of the N-word is sadly lacking in our education system.
I'm from Brazil and I really dont understand the deal about this word, really! if it's so racist why do black people do so. it makes no sense at all
Black people can only call each other the N word. I’m mixed and only use it when i’m with my black friends. Is just the way we talk to each other like “bro” and stuff. Other races than black people shouldn’t be saying that shit tbh. I know it sounds weird. But we black people claim that word and only for us to say
I'm White and through out my high school years I used tobsay the n word, some of my bkack freinds have given me the pass but some have not, I'm glad I stopped saying that word ever since I turned 18 because I've realized on how stupid it really made me look😅.
Now that I'm an adult I've realized now that not only did I stop saying that word because it made me look stupid and because I was non Black, but because I've realized now:
No matter how positively or negatively you decide to use or veiw the N word in your grammar, looking back at it, the N word will always originate from a birthplace of hate and discrimination.
As a White person, I personally think that nobody, not even Black people, should say the n word at all times.
Brothers and sisters we outta do better.
We reclaimed the word, it will never be not used so we reclaimed it as it’s a slur against us. Your white and have no say on it. It’s a slur that was used to oppress us for centuries and is the most offensive slur in history.
@@xafsafarah7701 so your saying he cant have an opinion because the color of his skin. You know there is a word for that... racist
@@xafsafarah7701 just because they’re white they have no opinion?
Blacks are not going to stop we are not brothers
Exactly
These arguments just keep stereotypes and keep separation/segregation between races and cultures.
It's more of a reversed version of segregation in the 60s.
@@orion5445 Yeah. What’s crazy is how accepting it has become. I honestly don’t buy into the idea of black people, especially in the younger generation having an inherent pass over a word used to dehumanize their ancestors as if they gone through that same treatment.
@@Xaviallin1 Bc that's the age we live in. Sure racism still exists but we act like we're experiencing the same racism as slaves during slavery or black people in the 60s. What we face is really mild compare to back then.
There are a lot bigger issued that lead to separation segregation than the n word.
@@orion5445 You're ok with racism or you aren't. There is no "well, this is an acceptable level of racism". Just say you support racism and be done with it.
I can think of a better title. "Don't use the n word fullstop"
You are so wrong I can literally make a counterargument in a minute
Lmao go ahead , try
Bahahahha
@@wnicolen5964 what's so funny
@@anoobius3330 I know saanvi, that's why
@@wnicolen5964 oh I see, give me a counterargument then right here and now
A friend of mine said that using the N word is allowed for other's to use even though they're not black as long as they are not referring to anybody who is black, but it doesn't mean that they have to use it, it's just up to them if they wanna do it because it is still a racial slur after all, are they right or wrong?
Cultural competency... Yes, this lady is on point!
But if we continue to ' hide ' this word won't that cause a kind of reserved sense for that word. I think everyone should say this word afterall it's just a word.. I mean bring new meaning or something to it.
It's just a thought correct me if I'm wrong
it's not just a word and how are you supposed to bring a new meaning to a word that was used to belittle people are you ok?
“It’s just a word” goddddde go educate yourself! It’s is a slur a black person saying it to a another black person won’t get the other being it said to offended, but if a non black person says it is racist. Read that again. Black people claim the word for their ancestors. Get the word out of your vocabulary.
Sun meri baat. It's my choice.
Ur choice to be racist ?
I totally agree with that people that is not black shoud NOT say the n-word. It is probably the worst when especially white people said it because (im pretty sure) white people during slavery used to call the slaves the n-word. I believe under the absolute most circumstances it is very disrespectful and racist to use the n-word and call other people the n-word.
Im white and i choose to not say the n-word, because of the history behind it and it is not a word i want or should use.
A thorough understanding of the history of the N-word is sadly lacking in our education system. Once we understand the origin of something, we know how to use or not use it.
People shouldn't tell others how to talk, try growing up and not being so soft and SENSITIVE
Yes preach
There's more to the N-word than the rappers would lead you to believe.
@@PanAfricanNews nah the n word with the a came from the streets or slums but the hard R was invented by white cuacasains not blacks
Im black and it really just depends who you are and not so much about your race really
The black community reclaimed that word and ONLY they can say to greet each other. The word was used for 400years to oppress black people and made them feel weak. It isn’t about if a person can say it because who they are. If they aren’t black they have no reason to say it. IT. IS. NOT. HARD.
You can say it if you are with your friends
No. Get the word out of your vocabulary if your not black.
@@xafsafarah7701 White people invented the word. It belongs to us.
@@cevinzeke5110 we reclaimed it. It is derogatory and the most racist and offensive slur against black people. White people may have created which is a disgrace and you shouldn’t be okay with it. Non black people don’t have a reason to ever say it.
@@cevinzeke5110 no, definitely not. Just don’t use it.
I thought we all are humans we all are the same
We are not stop it
We should be treated the same, white shouldn't say it, black shouldn't say it.
@@N-L3 it’s our world we are not the same stop it
@@johnmetcalf3672 No, it is not your world. Don't go smearing your shit over everyone else
@@N-L3 it’s our word and if a non black say it getting punched in the face
You teach diversity and inclusion? Tapping out…
what is the n word like what is it???
In my opinion and with all due respect to the black community, but I believe the N-word cannot be used by anyone including black people. It doesn't make sense to say that word offends me but it's okay if I say it! N-world has the same meaning in my language (Arabic) and we Arabs respect black Arabs and never say that but most importantly they themselves never say that to each other! It's my opinion with all due respect, maybe there are other reasons that I don't know please let me know.
Black people and Arabs aren't the same. Sure skin tone is same but race wise? no
@@lilz1338 Black ppl around the world their roots go back to Africa. The same black ppl who went to US and EU went to Arabia ! Especially black Muslims when they visit Mecca to perform the Hajj and after that they do not return to their homeland and with the passage of time they have become a part of society that must be respected
@@naz0004 I see your point but many people say Arabs and black people don't actually relate. Sure they have melanin
How about let’s not be racist and let everyone say whatever they want and not put rules in place for people based on their skin color. Quit being so sensitive
This video does not fully explain why people who are non black shouldn't use the n word. For instance when a person has a black friend who is ok with them using it you make a good point in stating that one shouldn't freely use it outside of that relationship but you don't explain why they shouldn't use it inside of the relationship; you simply restate your premise that they shouldn't use it. At the end you mention who it is a word with a racist history, but you neglect to mention that it has a been used to regain power within the black community through art like hip hop and rap. Also, is it ok to use it in a historical film about slavery? It seems like not using it in such a film would merely portray a watered down version of history. There are many more questions to ask about this but I ask wonder if not using it gives it power? If we let it get so bad that we can't hear it without cringing then it certainly has power. There is more thinking to be done with this, I do not like how people state that we shouldn't use it and act as if they solved this social dilemma.
Who your thoughts non-black rappers use the word ? it seems no cares about that
Well just because you don’t like a certain word, that doesn’t mean that the first amendment doesn’t exist
“Freedom of speech”. Just don’t use the word. You don’t know the history or cultural background of it, and the hate that comes with it. Just STOP. Why is it so hard to just not use a word that wasn’t meant to be said. Why do non blacks crave to use the word so much?
The more taboo something is, the more notoriety it gains. Me and all my friends use this word to offend, to surprise and to piss off anyone and everyone. And the fun part is you can't stop us, you know-it-all.
L opinion
What is big deal to n word. If black man say n word that’s cool or other say it’s crime . I guess USA have equal rights if thes is wrong so make punishment for using this word no matter who say this.
A thorough understanding of the history of the N-word is sadly lacking in our education system.
Stoping somebody from saying something because of their skin color? Sounds pretty racist to me
Sorry, not you, nor anyone can say what we can say or not say.
you are not black so therefore you cannot speak on the slur towards the blacks. The black community reclaimed that word and ONLY they can say to greet each other. The word was used for 400years to oppress black people and made them feel weak. U are not black u shouldn’t say it. IT. IS. NOT. HARD.
So you know that if you get your ass beat for that, it’s totally on you.
Exactly
Imagine how shitty your life must be if you teach diversity and inclusion for a living
bad i assume
Imagine how shitty Your life must be if you look down on diversity and inclusion or an educator of such. I don't need to look any further to know you're racist 🤦♂️
What is a cultural community?
If you are NOT BLACK DONT SAY IT PERIOD>
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Black folks shouldn't it say too.
We reclaimed the word non blacks should have it outta their vocabulary
Exactly!
It’s blacks people right to use the word it was directed at us
"When you come from a cultural community you can do whatever you want." Huh? That's terrible advice and frankly extremely dangerous. Completely irresponsible to be spreading such nonsense.
wow room tempurate iq and im using celcius
U cant get a pass for using the n word there is power behind the word,. Let us Black People keep something to ourselves man
@@greatape5174 it’s not you foul u Got bad parents
Ok if you want to disrespect your ancestors who died while being called that horrible word be my guest
Exactly people can’t leave us alone
In my car, rapping, on my own?
It’s very simple. If you are not black do not say the word. It is not appropriate in any situation to use it. Obviously if you say it alone no one will know but you, but it would say a lot about your character
@@NA_14 well then that's who he is.
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Ritu please you are being over dramatic
Totally understand what you’re saying. I’m not black, I’m Samoan. Although we do not use the actual word, but we use the slang word. When we use it though, it’s saying, homie, bro, sis, ETC. the actual meaning to the N-word is a term for black or dark skinned person and, I am very dark skinned. I believe it’s how you use the word that makes it offensive. Like the word, b***h. It’s a female dog, wolf or fox but, it’s VERY offensive used twds a woman. All of a sudden it has a harsher meaning to it. These are my thoughts and in no way do we mean any harm using the slang word. Yes, I understand the history of the word. We’ve made history using the slang word as well in a GOOD way. Just my thoughts. I mean no harm twds anyone reading my comment. If you feel offended, i apologize. Not my intentions at all. Just trying to shed a little light on how many of us(who are NOT racist) use the slang word.
SAL
i truly don’t care what your background is if you are not black in no way do you have the right to say the n word you saying the n word can really make someone feel terrible and they can take extreme offense to it i understand if you aren’t using it to demean anyone or be racist however you are not black so therefore you cannot speak on behalf of them. the black community reclaimed that word and ONLY they can say to greet each other. you and your family/friends saying it is being accidentally racist
U are not black, u cannot speak on behalf of them and think u can reclaim a word that was used for 400years to oppress black people and made them feel weak. U are not black u shouldnt say it. IT. IS . NOT. HARD
it’s a RACIAL slur not slang even without the er meaning. It’s apart of black culture because we chose to reclaim it stop making excuses.
It's like this if you're a vegan and you don't like dog eaters. You promoted Veganism around the world then get pissed off if people start making their own way of eating. Then go all animal rights extremists on them. This what this feels like y'all don't like other people cultures because it doesn't fit your needs or force them to abandoned their ways because you see something offensive. When you try to ease their identity and ways of life you pissed off a group of people that hold their traditions dear and made a fool of themselves.
The N-word has a history that should be understood and respected.
My black cousin gave me the n-word pass tho
There's no such thing as a pass
@@mrbruce3202 he said that there was, and he said no cap.
@@Loguigi There's no such thing as a pass. Plain and simple.
no one exept Africans, and Jamaicans, can say it like fr all our ancestors heard when they tried to go to school was that when they applied for a job was that when they went to the park they heard the same word.
dont care