The 3 Most Dangerous Myths About Self Love with LaYinka Sanni

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  • @mariaakbar768
    @mariaakbar768 Před rokem +2

    I mean I watch a lot of videos but Allah hu Akbar this has got to be the most life changing video I’ve seen. May Allah bless you

    • @LaYinkaSanni
      @LaYinkaSanni Před rokem

      That's really touching to read. Alhamdulillah.

  • @aisham1057
    @aisham1057 Před rokem +17

    Assalamu alaikum! I miss you guys on "Honest tea talk"! Pray all is well with you guys! 💛😍❤

    • @aisham1057
      @aisham1057 Před rokem +1

      @King Sultan I don't know anything about that!

    • @iamyourbrook4281
      @iamyourbrook4281 Před rokem +1

      What is meant by *heaven* and *hell?*
      *Ibn al-Qayyim* (may Allah have mercy on him) said:
      As a matter of fact, Paradise is not a word that refers only to trees, fruits, food, drink, hoor al-‘een, rivers and palaces. Most people are mistaken when they think that Paradise is limited to that, for Paradise is a name for the abode of perfect and absolute bliss, and one of the *greatest joys of Paradise will be the pleasure of gazing upon the noble Countenance of Allah and hearing His words, and the delight of being close to Him and attaining His pleasure.* There can be no comparison between the physical pleasures in Paradise - such as food, drink, clothing and images - and that pleasure. *Attaining the least divine pleasure is greater than Paradise and all that it contains,* as Allah, may He be exalted, says (interpretation of the meaning): “But the good pleasure of Allah is greater still” [at-Tawbah 9:72]. In other words, no matter the extent to which Allah is pleased with His slave, even if it is small, it is still greater than Paradise.
      In the saheeh hadith about seeing Allah, it says: “… and Allah will not give them anything that is dearer to them than gazing upon His Countenance.” According to another hadith: “When He, may He be glorified, manifests Himself to them and they see His Countenance with their own eyes, they will forget all the bliss that they had been enjoying, and will become oblivious to that joy and will pay no attention to it.”
      Undoubtedly, this is how it is, And the matter is much greater than one could think or imagine, especially when the lovers there find themselves with the one whom they love, for a person will be with the one whom he loves. What bliss, delight, joy or triumph could come close to the joy, pleasure and tranquillity of being with Allah? Is there anything superior to the pleasure and joy of being close to the Beloved, for there is nothing greater than Him, or more perfect, or more beautiful, and nothing could give greater comfort and happiness?
      This - by Allah - is the type of knowledge that the lovers are striving hard to attain, and is the banner around which all those who have knowledge of Allah rally. It is the most important thing in Paradise, through which Paradise becomes a place of joy, and the life of Paradise is based on that.
      So how can it be said that one should not worship Allah for the sake of attaining Paradise or for fear of Hell?
      *Similarly, Hell* - may Allah protect us from it - is a place where its dwellers will suffer a great deal when they are partitioned away from Allah and suffer disgrace, divine wrath and anger, and being far away from Him. That will be worse than the flames of fire in their bodies and souls. In fact, the flames of this fire in their hearts is what led to the flames burning their bodies, for those flames spread everywhere in their bodies from their hearts.
      The aspiration of the Prophets and Messengers, the siddeeqs (the strong and true in faith), the martyrs and the righteous is Paradise, and what they seek to flee from is Hell.
      And Allah is the source of strength, and in Him we put our trust. There is no power and no strength except with Allah; Allah is sufficient for us, and He is the best disposer of affairs.
      {Madaarij as-Saalikeen (2/80, 81)}

    • @LaYinkaSanni
      @LaYinkaSanni Před rokem +4

      Wa alaikum salaam. Alhamdulillah, we're well and thriving.

    • @hogotusaal
      @hogotusaal Před rokem

      @@LaYinkaSanni masha Allah sister, I'm happy to have met with you this summer, it was lovely speaking to you.

  • @aisham1057
    @aisham1057 Před rokem +6

    ALHAMDULILLAH! 🥰 GREAT TOPIC FOR US WOMEN with low self esteem and feeling bad about ourselves! Great Advice LaYinka Sanni! Come again! 💛😍❤

    • @LaYinkaSanni
      @LaYinkaSanni Před rokem

      Thank you for joining, Aisha. What was the #1 thing you took away for yourself to move towards improvement in this area?

    • @aisham1057
      @aisham1057 Před rokem +1

      @@LaYinkaSanni to love myself for who I am! Not what people say and think about me 🥰

    • @LaYinkaSanni
      @LaYinkaSanni Před rokem

      @@aisham1057 That's wonderful! May Allah increase you in goodness, ameen!

  • @chamanara8743
    @chamanara8743 Před rokem +2

    To be grateful with my journey and Asking Allah more than anyone.

  • @alibihi8688
    @alibihi8688 Před rokem +3

    I missed you on honest tea talk

  • @TheBlessedTrueGuidance
    @TheBlessedTrueGuidance Před rokem +2

    Allahu Akbar! Jazakallahu khairin beloved. ♥️🤲🏽♥️

  • @norajabril7955
    @norajabril7955 Před rokem +1

    Ac sister I love your the sisters you print god bless all sisters I started to watch your beautiful program and I liked

  • @abdulrasheedaishat9894
    @abdulrasheedaishat9894 Před rokem +1

    Jazakumullahu khaira, may Allah accept it as an act of ibadah. I really gain alot .

  • @annaarow3191
    @annaarow3191 Před rokem +4

    JazakAllah khair! That was so profound. An excellent training from an excellent trainer.

  • @zainababba9398
    @zainababba9398 Před rokem +1

    When I see ur face I just remember Honest Tea Talk, subhanallah pls where is my beloved sisters Aliya & Sumayya, miss u guys soo much...

  • @MsTima-eg1xe
    @MsTima-eg1xe Před rokem +2

    MashaAllah, much appreciate your sharing on self love (care). I have learned more about it and may you have more on self esteem, Amin ya Rabbi

  • @sarahloves9186
    @sarahloves9186 Před rokem +1

    Self love is allowing myself time for myself and honouring my worth

  • @positionedprinters7383
    @positionedprinters7383 Před rokem +1

    MashaAllah sister thank you

  • @fatimkaba3044
    @fatimkaba3044 Před rokem +3

    Subhana’Allah powerful

    • @LaYinkaSanni
      @LaYinkaSanni Před rokem

      Thank you for joining, Fatim. What was the #1 thing you took away for yourself to move towards improvement in this area?

  • @maya9685
    @maya9685 Před rokem +2

    Great!
    A lot of the negative things were heard from the "muslim" "cultural" community .

  • @YasMohamed7
    @YasMohamed7 Před rokem +1

    Nauthu Billah! We love الله سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَى - we’ll leave the exterior so focus on the Akhira!! (آمين يا رب العالمين)

  • @hogotusaal
    @hogotusaal Před rokem +1

    Salam aleykoum sister Naimah, when are you coming to London insha Allah and where can we meet you?

  • @abydiop3081
    @abydiop3081 Před rokem +1

    Self love Making Allah your number one priority before your husband or any things

  • @3boys1family
    @3boys1family Před rokem

    Ameen!

  • @YasMohamed7
    @YasMohamed7 Před rokem +1

    Asalamuwalaikum wa rahmatullah
    💖☮️

  • @YasMohamed7
    @YasMohamed7 Před rokem +1

    Done x

  • @YasMohamed7
    @YasMohamed7 Před rokem +1

    Done ٱلْحَمْدُ لِلَّٰه x