I Ugly Cried….Hardy (ft Lainey Wilson) "wait in the truck" | First Time Listening Hardy
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- Today's reaction is @HARDYmusic ft. Lainey Wilson "wait in the truck" and holy cannoli's, this was a hard one to react to. Watch till the end to see why. This was a Patreon Request, If you want a chance of having a video reacted to, Join my Patreon Fam, Link is down below
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In 2003, I was sitting behind a car at a red light. The guy in front of me hit his girlfriend in the face. I was furious, I watched my mom, my brother, and myself beat by an abusive step dad my entire life, so I passed then when the light changed, slammed on my brakes, pulled him out of the car and left him laying on the ground on the shoulder of the road bleeding. I live in a small town, and it's not hard to figure out who I was. He never pressed charges, and I found out later that she left him that day. I was about 2 months later in Walmart, and she gave me a hug and thanked me. We both stood there crying. If you have the ability to do something and don't, you are just as worthless as the person who needs stopping
You totally aren't full of shit either huh?
Absolutely outstanding
Maybe maybe if you shut up and listen to the song you would love it. Just keep quiet for three minutes and play the song. It’s absolute terrific. If you ever had leg shackles on you’d understand you wouldn’t be making jokes like that. It’s not funny specially the guys like me I spent one third of my life in prison, you’re not really funny but listen to the song. It’s a great song. Don’t be an.
So my very open about mine and you can’t help yourself baby let alone somebody else. Let’s play the song and get off the damn station so guys like me can enjoy it.
Why did you listen to the song? I know it’s a talk show but I’m tired of hearing you’re talking. I’m gonna change the station just to go. Listen to the song on another one if you keep talking.
In the south, when someone tells you to wait in the truck, you know something is about to go down.
Yes sir...usually hell is about to happen
Yeah my mom didn’t return for some time
He's no angel. He's the monster we need more of. Guys like this is awesome
"To defeat monsters, we have to abandon our humanity" - Erwin Smith, "Shingeki no Kyōjin" (2013).
Good men will have to do bad things to terrible people but society vilifies any of us who act reform is needed there are times violence is necessary for sure
Contrary to popular belief, Angels sometimes have to perform some very nasty tasks to set things right. Not called warriors for nothing 😅
Yes!!!! That would have been a better ending!!!!
@@truter5243 "Evil prevails when good men do nothing."
Angels have carried out some of the most heinous acts to free nations from tyrants. Men have done worse for less offenses.
This is what a real man does! He knew when he said “where is he?” he was goin to jail. But all that matters is saving another human being.
“I never thought my day of justice would come from a Judge under the seat”
Is arguably the best lyric I’ve heard in years
When it comes to "dark lyrics", Metal doesn't have ANYTHING on a Country song like this. That is probably one of the most darkly clever lyrics ever written...
The pistol is a Taurus Judge.
I have now listened to this song for about the 10th time tonight and I still CANT control the tears when that line is sung!!!
I've been calling out that wicked smart line since I heard this first time. Speaks not to me but within me. I sort of scared my wife at my maddest when my late teen daughter was left alone by her punk arse boyfriend at 11PM at night.. .abandoned... because she had an opinion and he was a punk. Had he laid a hand on her, I would've gladly gone to jail. He never came back to my house after that. Take your shit out on me. Do not touch my wife or my children. Fierce Love.
That one got me too.
Metal music takes you out of your feelings country puts you back in them.
What a great observation! I was trying to put my emotions into words and you did it for me!
The best I've ever heard it explained!
Perfectly said
I’ve cried to metal and country. So not entirely accurate for all. Though, I should mention, a damn commercial can make me cry. My wife and kids like to give me a hard time over it lol. If emotion is there, I feel it, regardless of genre.
Ehhhhh metal is every bit as much about the feelings and story as country
I dealt with it for 20 years. Thank you so much for saying you CAN'T leave. The cops are of very little help and the laws are a freaking joke. I'm free. Sorr of. He still stalks me to this day. 7 years later. I will finally feel free if i see his obituary before i die. Love your reaction. Im so glad you are free 🩷
I have never been a victim of DV, but the first time I heard this song I sobbed for all the women who have been or are currently trapped in a situation like this. I just saw the video today and it was even more powerful to see it played out. I think this song is absolutely incredible.
Typical Hypocrite about Domestic Violence. You would have Nothing to Say if The Domestic Violence Victim was a Man.
Hardy just won Songwriter of the Year.
Slowly, people are discovering the greatness of Country music.
Good for him!! He deserves it! 👏
I love it. I've been about hardy since before hardy was discovered by mainstream.
Hes released 6 songs from his new album with 11 more to come... With just his 6 songs should win him Songwriter of the Decade award. 4 of those 6 released are some of the best written songs I've ever heard. And I'm a touring musician with my own music lol
This is the closest thing I've heard to actual country music from a modern artist in a long time. I think Johnny, Waylon, Hank etc would approve of this song!
@@hunterharrell7491 Cody Johnson is pretty good also
“Smokin one of his cigarettes” is one of the most badass things in any song ever!
It's such a disrespect for the asshole. I fucking love it.
:)
@@rustyshackleford5269 we’re you in 10MTN?
I 💯 agree that was some COLD SHIT i love it
Right? I dont even smoke, but in this case, think I would.
This song just takes you on an emotional journey. This song actually took Video of the year. Musical collaboration of the Year. Honestly they both just took home tons of awards this year.
Welcome to the country music family! We’re proud of our boy, Hardy. Lainey is a Daisy Duke too. ❤️🩹
Heard this song the other day while taking my gf to dinner on Xmas Eve. She usually talks…a lot. Lol. But she listened to this song in silence and as the song ends she turns to me at the red light and says “That’s you.” And in that moment I knew I had just received the greatest compliment any man can ever receive. Thank you so much for your reaction. You got a new subscriber here.
Beautiful comment! Thank you for sharing!!! That is the best compliment a man could receive!!! Hardy started a movement here. I will never be quiet about what my exes put me through. Do you know why I talk a lot too? Bc that’s exactly what they want! They want me to be quiet. Well good luck with that bc I’m Italian and Sicilian!!! Oh and I fight back today. I use my platform to express my voice that was silenced for years! Thanks for also sharing your love for Hardy, and NF collectively! They deserve all the love! And thanks for subbing! I appreciate that more than you may know!
Dude my wife and mom say this about me in reference to this song and yeah its a proud moment up there with the best of em especialy to hear it from my mom
@@todydn absolutely!!
I have two daughters and I've always said to my wife, that I'd rock that orange jumpsuit if anyone did anything to them, then this song came out, we watched the video and she said, that's totally you!
@@ricksaint best compliment ever!!
Country music when done right is suppose to hit at the core of emotion. This song checks all the boxes and would make the legends proud.
I have known a very few men like this hero in my lifetime and they're pleasantly scary because you know when they set out to do something it will be done.
This story is actually the man he is talking about works with hardy on the road. That man and women got married after he got released
I'm a metal guy who normally doesn't listen to country music, but I like this song. We need more men like this.
If you like metal, definitely listen to his new album, mockingbird and the crow, it has metal in a few of the songs
Yes, we do need more men like this!
Thanks Brother, come to Alberta, let's have some beers and teach men how to be men again.
“I never thought my day of justice would come from a judge under a seat.” As a DV survivor who was traumatized again by the courts - this line hits the hardest for me. For those who don’t know, a judge is also the name of a gun.
@@chrisj984 Taurus Judge
I was hoping someone knew this reference ..I hope you’re healing luv ❤ You deserve it!
@@chrisj984 except you are wrong. Quit making up shit when you know they are singing about the Taurus Judge, and nothin else.
yep a bad ass gun at that. one that shoots 410 shot gun shells
My big brother called them 'Little Sweethearts". Let's just leave it at that...
I just heard this song last night for the first time. I cried too. I was in a bad situation for almost 14 years, and with a child of my own, not his... But my child has to watch it happen. And suffered scars too. I cried. I got goosebumps. I cheered. Huge Hell Yes for the girl in the video! Thank You for your honesty and your reaction here.
The story in this song/video are a tribute to any woman fighting for her safety after being hit by a man. Thankful to Hardy and Laney for singing it so beautifully!
You’re not alone and we made it though and we fought for our children to never have to go through what we have ❤
I still get chills every time I hear that song and I was in an abusive relationship too for 8 years
I am a country boy and this is my first time here because I saw your title for your reaction. I don't know how many times while watching this I said "damn girl" in response to something Jen said about something she had been through. There is a special place in hell for any boy that puts his hands on a woman child or animal...I say boy because a real man doesn't do shit like that. Glad you enjoyed some good ole country music story telling Jen. Rock on girl
Yes Yes Yes Everything You said...🤝🏾 #BrownCountryGirl
@@dionnedavis10 🫶🏼🫱🏻🫲🏿
Amen brother. Only boys do that!
Oklahoma country boy here and yes sir!!!
Jen is very real, and she'll lay out out how she feels it every time. One reason she's one of my favorite reactors.
My sister was murdered by her ex!! this song shakes me to the core. seeing your tears wrecked me!! im sharing this I love you for putting this out.
So sorry for ur loss.
@@deaksbakery31 Thank you
I am so sorry for your loss.
@@sitcheyr9352 Thank you
Found out my sister was regularly hit, after she was shot in June, had a massive stroke in January. Bawlingy my eyes out, be 5 years Jan and I freaking hate this time of year. Karma needs to hurry up.
I am an old woman now but this woman lived my life when I was young.
This reminds me of the night I finally had the courage to stand up to my son's dad, after being seriously abused for over a year. I cracked that bastard in the head with a cast iron skillet, tied him up with the phone cord & ran down to the manager's apartment to call the cops.
The reason this song resonates so much is because of a childhood friend named Steven Wade Ward. He came and slept on my couch for a few nights with a loaded shotgun underneath, just in case "he" made bail, while I was frantically packing. That was 41 years ago - and I still think of him as my angel.
I once had a woman running from her boyfriend and screaming literally half naked to my porch one night, I picked her up and ran her inside with my mom and went back out with the axe I kept by the door. It was the first time i have ever seen someone “stop dead in their tracks” he never came onto my porch and I never stepped off of it, but we both knows what would happen if I did.
I sent this song to my wife when it was first released because i love the way Hardy paints a picture with his words, plus I’m a huge country guy. My wife called me in tears, she’s never been through anything like what’s said in the song, BUT she was crying and said “i know this is something you and your closest boys would do to save someone being abused and i appreciate it”
I am a woods born woods raised bastard child who got to live and be loved by fair minded men and women.
Twice as a youth I experienced what many call frontier justice while a hole whimps cry vigilante.
Acts committed by men of great courage and strength of character and fairness.
No bravado afterwards, what was done was done and known by the few , the few who understood the why and approved of the finality.
This was before justice was overtaken by "legality" and people had sold and willingly gave their souls over to others control.
Sadly, in today's world that legality protects the worst elements of humans behavior and rare are the men who know of higher powers and follow their rules.
thanks for presenting this artist music and your personal trials upon this earth.
Courage is not just a man's Forte and truthfully in my long life I have seen more raw and real courage among women than men.
"RESPECT"!
From a man with 2 older sisters and one who has been through that i hope every abused woman finds a way to get help it rocked my world when i was informed on whats goin on and we put an end to that quick.
I almost lost my baby sister to domestic violence in 2021 and this song gives me sobbing chills every time I hear it or see the video. ❤
When you're happy you hear the music,
When you're sad, you hear the lyrics.
Truest words I've ever heard.
I'm so happy you got out of your old life of abuse and are living a better life with your past behind you and a glorious future ahead. God Bless you!❤
I get chills every time I listen! I wish I had a saviour like that... I had my teeth and jaw broken. I lost count on the breaks. I fought the addiction for 7 years in and out of getting knocked around. I didn't think I deserved more. 5 years sober in July. I was just evicted because I had an accidental fall in November and it set into motion for the ends to not meet. I am having to leave my boys under supervision because I can't afford to leave and can't legally take them out of state to my family. My spirit is in tatters... I wish there had been justice for the ones who hurt me for loving them. Great reaction @justjen
Hey Jen; Loved your reaction. You are the only one so far to notice she's driving his truck at the end. She's still "waiting in truck" for hardy's release. Too damn bad her late husband didn't appreciate what a good woman she is.
I had to rewind , I thought the same thing, it's his truck!
It's a nice fantasy
Every time I hear this song I bawl. I am sitting in that truck as well. Jury nullification needs to be talked about.
It's not really something you talk about and judges hate it. You are likely to get booted from a jury just mentioning it. Because basically you and your other jurors are saying "Fuck the Law, we are not going to convict this guy in this case." It's a pretty bad thing from a legal point of view. Laws have to be enforced evenly for everybody or they mean nothing. However sometimes an exceptional circumstance requires an exceptional response. From both a man and a juror trying that man.
This would be a hard case for me to call if I were a juror. 1. There is no question about his guilt. 2. It was a justifiable killing (some people just deserve to get shot) 3. It was not a necessary killing (He wasn't reacting to an imminent threat, he chose to engage) There were other possibility's to get her out of there that did not involve an home invasion killing. 4. Those possibilities are unlikely to work in a situation this extreme. Short of her changing her name and skipping the state he would almost definitely find her and maybe even convince himself that she was stepping out on him to justify going after her and the protagonist guy. (It pretty firmly established that this guy is a walking worst case scenario) You really don't want have to keep watching you back from someone who has anger, jealousy, and self control issues. This could rapidly become a case of confront him when you can see him or get shot in the back when you can't (again, worst case scenario.)
It's hard to really say what I would do as either that guy or as a juror because nullification would definitely be something to consider despite the home invasion homicide.
Thomas Jefferson believed in jury nullification.Tet 68.
My ex almost killed me, got 4 months in jail even with prior convictions. He was the reason my kids were taken from me, judge said he was too dangerous to be around them, but he got 4 months. I Finally got out safe. Now I deal with severe PTSD and everything else that goes with.. Thank you for telling people who say just leave Its not that easy.. it is so true.❤❤❤
Kick ass honest reaction to this song. Keep up the great work!
Hey guys after so much support on here, and a few comments where ladies are currently dealing with this type of situation, they inspired me to share my story on how I escaped my abusive ex.
Make sure you’re subbed, the notification bell is tapped to ALL so you all can join in when I go live to share this story. It will be live, so It will be 100% raw, unfiltered, and unedited.
I will be sharing exactly what I did to get away. I hope it helps these ladies, or anyone loving in this terrible situation.
Again, thank you for your amazing comments. You guys rock. It is so refreshing to see so many good-hearted people left in the world.
I’m eternally grateful this Hardy song reaction just inspired me to try and help a whole bunch of people.
⚠️⚠️WARNING ⚠️⚠️
Just a heads up... I will share the steps I took to get away from him. I will share some really dark subject matter, so I must warn you all in advance, this will not be pretty.
I’ll post on my IG, and community page here on CZcams when this livestream will be. I’ll give ample notice. I will make sure it’s done real soon, as I feel anyone in this situation needs it like SOON.
MUCH LOVE, Jen
@justjen you should share how you were able to leave. Because leaving is not easy, and it's also the most dangerous time.
God bless you babe you are a survivor
Great reaction! I lived her life for 11 year's... I prayed for someone like him every day 35 years ago. I too, say "he deserved it!" Thank God I got out without dying, but all these year's later and STILL the mental damage is still with me with every breath I take. Much love and respect from TN
You’re a survivor. You were meant to tell your story. Whomever did that to us got their karma, didn’t they?
@@JustJenReacts, I wouldn't say mine got what he deserved, he was my first husband, my 2 children's father... (he wasn't much of a father!) When I divorced him, he S.A.'d our daughter...served only 8 months🤬 Bless you for sharing your life with us, you're an angel! I never turned to drug's, but my daughter did, I buried her from overdose, she left 2 daughters behind. My only other child is 6 year's Sober, I send him most of your videos, jail use to be his 2nd home, sadly. I relate to so much of what you speak about, Bless you 🙏🏼
I believe h got his I was abused as a kid then grew up and married an abuser was wit him for 6 yrs. Got to were I had to go or h was gonna kill me infront of our girls I met a man who has never hit me in our 27 yrs.
I believe h got his I was abused as a kid then grew up and married an abuser was wit him for 6 yrs. Got to were I had to go or h was gonna kill me infront of our girls I met a man who has never hit me in our 27 yrs.
I went through mental abuse. I didn't know it was abuse until my therapist told me. Then it got physical.
As a man, the only people I have the right to put hands on is those who put hands on those who cannot defend themselves. And that is more of a privilege.
This song brings a tear to my eye every time I hear it. I hope that I'll have the strength he had if I'm ever in that situation.
I'm from Europe. I'm amazed at country music, I love it. The emotion is almost overwhelming with songs like this. I'm not ashamed to admit I shed a tear watching it too.
Nothing wrong with that, brother.
It’s designed to do just that.
I’ve heard this song 100 times and my eyes are wet right now.
As we say in the South….
“That’s a Good’n !”
I haven't cried like this from a single song ever!!
Never thought the words " wait in the truck" could be so powerful!
I didnt' kill the man but after I told her to wait in the truck there was an ass kicking about to happen. Too bad the broad went back to him right afterwards. He wound up killing her
Agreed
You are so authentic. Watching your reaction brings me to tears
God I love you and I guarantee you somebody needs to see you watching this!!!!! Thanks for the usual brutal honesty
FREE CAIN! Hell Yes ma'am! And this is coming from me - a former Corrections Officer.
Now, let me say I honor you ma'am. The intestinal fortitude to actually change your life around is extremely rare. If for no other reason, you're an amazing woman.
Men are supposed to sacrifice our lives for our women and family. That is what masculinity is. Provision and Protection. There is nothing "toxic" about it.
As I look around today, all I can say is we need more men like the one this song described...society is doomed without them.
Unfortunately jail ain't somewhere we wanna be tho
@@jdguy23 Understood. That is exactly why sacrificing oneself for others always has been, and always will be, revered as honorable.
Guys say all the time “I’d die for her”….well, often times death is not the worst punishment one can suffer. It takes a real Man to actually go through with it - especially when the consequences are known beforehand.
@@jdguy23A man’s life is about Service, Sacrifice and Selflessness.
@@Adam.RushingIt use to be that way but feminism ended chivalry. It’s not worth the risk as a man to do what’s right anymore. One wrong move and a man’s career can be over and or jail. Women have abused the system that was created to protect them so I no longer will protect any woman I don’t know personally. Unless that woman denounces feminism out loud.
@@Adam.RushingI disagree in modern times. Women have abused the system and it’s no longer worth the risk as a man.
Love your reaction. If I was on that jury, nobody would be able to change me from saying not guilty.
Really, what if the facts where this woman was a psycho and she beat her husband often, then he got enough and defended himself fir a change. Only to be murdered later that night by a stranger who she sent to kill h8m.
My brother was in an abusive relationship, he was sent to the ER more than once bc he refused to hit back when she hit him. In domestic abuse cases where only 1 person is abusive, stats prove its the women more than men. If a man is hitting a woman in mist cases they are both hitting each other.
Guy in thus video is SIMP and a murderer.
@@dude8223 You would have have to closely consider the facts of the case. In the scenario you presented things would be different. The problem is that a jury is likely to get told both of these stories and have to figure out which one has more merit. Woman can lie, often better than most men and they are way better at whipping up some tears. In most guys there is a very primal switch that hits. It makes us suckers for them. On the other hand, there are some real sons of bitches out there who do this exact thing too.
BTW murderer trumps simp. In fact using a word like simp in a serious setting makes your case sound weak. It's like like calling someone a rapist and a jaywalker. Or that they were guilty of genocide and they cut the little tags off of mattresses.
@@Snipergoat1 of course murder trumps being a simp, but a murderering simp is worst than a murderer.
My point is ppl automatically assume a man is the guilty one in these situations, but according to the stats, the opposite is true. I saw a video recently where a crying woman was repeatedly striking a man in the face. He tried to leave, as he exited outside she hit him again and onlookers tackled him to the ground as she continued to kick him.
I do not assume that a man is the guilty one in these cases because usually they are not.
As a former Deputy who has investigated quite a few of these I can tell you, that's not accurate. Yes, it happens. But 9 times out of ten is simply a case of a dude thinking he can bully a woman.@@dude8223
@@dude8223Glad to see more people men specifically realize this defending modern women ain’t it. Chivalry ended a long time ago…. Feminism ended that.
The opening of him in shackles and then showing her at the end walking out of the prison without anything restraining her. He freed her. Great song.
My mother was 1/2 German and 1/2 Cherokee (5'4") 8 months Pregnant with my baby brother and my uncle (6'6") decided to hit my aunt in front of my mom (bad mistake on his part) she grabbed a wooden paper towel rack and spun him around and laid his head open, he backed out begging for his life. My dad came home from work early is the only thing that saved his life that day. My mom would have loved this video.
Hardy isn’t only a dang good music writer….but he’s just a good of a singer!!!! He’s legit a g.o.a.t!!!!
Hardy has some great metal/rock/country songs as well, I’d recommend “the mockingbird and the crow”, “sold out” and his cover of “blurry”
this next album is about to be freaking insane
Can’t forget about “Jack”
Don't forget about "truck bed". His new album is gonna be🔥🔥🔥
I know it is a silly song somewhat, but I am still partial to Rednecker. If you grew up in the country, you can relate.
And radio song... that goes full on metal core
Your reactions are so pure and raw!
You speak for all of us who has been terrified by an attacker/abuser and finally being able to breathe normally when you know you are free.
I have been the guy that booted the door in. "TRY ME BIG FELLA AND YOU AIN'T GOT NO CHOICE!"
My Son & I volunteer for the women's shelter. We collect donations and set up new apartments for women leaving the shelter to start anew.
My "Boy"; KNOWS!
Us true "Country Boys" will stand up to protect ANY woman from a ditty rotten piece of trash!
I never thought my day of justice would come from a Judge under his seat. Referring to the Taurus Judge revolver. One the best bars ever in a song!!
This song has really triggered women whether they’ve been through this or not. We all know someone that has been raped. This song brought tears to my eyes. IMO, this man is a hero!
Real men, actual men. We would not hesistate. We are first and formost the protectors of women and children
This is the kind of song you lie on your bed listening to, remembering things you spent a lot of effort trying to forget.
I have watched several reactions to this song several times and you are the on,y one to make me cry. As a DV survivor myself you said everything that I have always thought. Always wishing someone would intervene for me to make it a tiny bit easier and have him get what he so much deserved. Thank you for this honest and emotional reaction
I'm a male victim of domestic abuse and whilst I didn't get physically beat up, I was psychologically and emotionally bruised and battered. Whilst I am a man, I totally resonate with this song and it is really hard to listen to because I resonate with it so much and it triggers the CPTSD.
I only discovered this song and Lainey Wilson last week (rock is also my first love) and here I am on your channel. The algorithms of You Tube are amazing.
I am sorry for what you went through 🙏
Im sorry noone deserves it male or female. 😢
I'm sorry for what you went through. My best friend is currently in the same position you are. His wife is a class A manipulator and narcissist. Verbally and emotionally abusive. He had been through a lot as a child (he had to stop his father from killing his mother when he was 14) so his kids are everything to him. Even though his kids are both grown, she coerced him back out of fear of her turning them against him while they were separated. I wish I knew what to do to help, but I only get to see him once a year as I live on the other side of the continent. It hurts to see the emotional pain that he's in, feeling like there's no choice but to take it. 😢
As someone who was also abused physically by a girlfriend I finally got sick of her hitting me and sitting on top of. She weighed more than me so I threw her off me and she hit her head on a dresser and had to go to the hospital so the cops show up and charged me even though I had scratches and bruises from her and my neighbor recorded me screaming at the top of my lungs for her to get off me and stop. I got put on probation for it. I didn’t hit her I pushed her off. So yeah it sucks my man
I felt the same things you were feeling the first time I heard this song. This is the musical version of the savior in a romance novel! There are men out there that will stand up no matter the cost!
This is how I was raised. Times have changed and it breaks my heart to see how things have gone south.
I love the lyrics when she sings “I never thought my day of justice would come from a judge under his seat”.
Taurus makes a powerful revolver called the judge. Such a powerful and straight to the point song about the torture that some animals put a human through. Sorry to hear of your mistreatment but I’m glad that you’re able to talk about it.
the term Judge refers to any pistol, he had a .38 in this video... pistols are called " Judge, public defender and peace keepers"
@@southernfury01 An armed society is a polite society.
@@southernfury01nothing you said is true
The Taurus judge is a pile of shit Revolver. Damn thing breaks more cylinder rotators
@@southernfury01the judge is not a 38 dumbass it's a 45 colt/410
Jen I feel your pain because I'm also a domestic violence survivor. I went through it for 7yrs and he tried to kill me. He actually said let the b**** die. I have a huge scar on my right arm from that day. Like you I got in another abusive relationship and ended up with 2 boys from that relationship. My boys are 20 and 21 now and have nothing to do with their dad. I've been listening to this song for a couple months now and it really hit me hard when I heard it for the first time. Then watching you react to it the way you did had me crying because of your pain. I'm glad you got out and are doing well.
Yes definitely I know exactly what you're going through mine told me I he cut off my head crap down my windpipe bury my body in the desert where nobody can find me. I had marks on my throat for 7 when I went for the protection order the judge says he'd give me one but was against his better judgment because he didn't believe me he didn't believe that my body would be buried in the desert.
"Hell of a lot better than the place I sent him too" So true!! I would do the same for my two girls.
That’s why we’re here. We’re still here. Good men will never die. If we do, the world has fallen.
As a small child I saw my mother go through that. I love your reaction and would like to expand on it. I see no reason for anyone ( man or woman) to hurt anyone like this. This song for me just shows how bullies of all kinds hurt those who can't defend themselves against them. Most of us know that no system ( school or the courts) do anything to stop bullies.
The best response I've seen to this video by far. My take is that this man witnessed his mother or maybe a sister in this situation and wasn't able to help her. Hardy is a genius songwriter. He never fails to amaze me. I agree with a previous reaction "the mockingbird and THE CROW is an amazing song.
Thank you for saying everything I said watching this. 3 yrs of DV the first round and 12 yrs the next round. Been free of it since Jan 2011. Hardest thing is forgiving yourself; not for what I allowed to be done to me but what I kept allowing my kids to witness. I forgave the men that abused, I struggle with the self forgiveness
Thanks, Jen, for your openness and willingness to share your story so publicly!
I lived this for 15 year's & have the whiskey scars as a reminder, unfortunately. It was triggering the first time I saw this video & my heart still race's everytime. I was rooting him on with tears streaming. Prayer's for those who are still living a nightmare.
God Bless you! Sending prayers, hugs, light and love your way ✝️🙏💜!
Prayers to you girl. Remember it and never look back. Move forward and find yourself.
I heard this song the day it dropped & have loved it from day 1. It reminds me of Nickelback's song Never Again. I grew up listening to my dad be verbally abusive to my mother & just hated him for it. I'd go months without speaking to him, when I was a teenager. Verbal abuse leaves scars that no one sees, so it can be even harder to be believed. The positive is that I made a promise that I'd rather die than ever treat a woman like that.
No one deserves to be treated this way , never judge anyone for thier past , and NEVER put your hands on your lady . You all deserve to live a happy fear free life . Abusers need to be cured this way.
I found this song tonight and LOVE it! I have been both her and him as well and I have bawled each time I've watched it now!
Legit one of my favorite country songs ever, how your video (on 1 day old at this time) doesn't have more views and likes it beyond me. This song and music video has touched so many people on CZcams, I can only imagine it's effected 50x more people that we know. People that will likely never get that "angel" they so desperately need in their life.
Edit: After watching your complete reaction, I want to give you the biggest hug you've ever had lol. It takes, not brass, but titanium balls to talk about your personal like on social media and opening yourself up to possible attacks from morons who just don't get it. This is also the first reaction I've seen that someone noticed that she has the truck that "saved" her.
Hardy and Lainey performed this song at this year's c.m.as . Very powerful and its already on youtube
I know this song was hard for you to react to and I thank you for posting it. Your honest emotion in this reaction does more to get people thinking on this topic then anything a politician will ever say.
I cry everytime... ugh powerful song 😢
I don’t know how I stumbled on your video, but Your reaction made ME cry! This song is definitely a real powerful one. Glad you made it out of the hole you were in.
HARDY does rock/metal as well 🤘🏼
Grew up in a home like that. This song brings me to tears every. Time.
You're the coolest. Thanks for sharing this. And I hope Hardy and Lainey see this.
This song is so powerful. I thought this exact thing being in an abusive relationship. I also have a father that wasn't told about this abuse for this very reason. I found my way out and I still have my father. This song really touches me.
My dad was rarely around when I was growing up. So I guess that's why I took to heart the few things he ever talked to me about. One thing he told was that you never, ever hit a woman. Wish a lot more fathers would have raised their boys to know that and live that.
Thank you for being so real in assessment of this song!
Excellent reaction Jen! And yes, any man who beats up a woman deserves what he gets. When my Baby Sister was in middle school, sometimes I would pick her up and all the kids knew not to mess with my sister. They all knew that I had played football at the local University as an Offensive Lineman...as I am 6'6" and 320 lbs.
Even now....she is 52 years old....I would have, what we call in Texas, "A come to Jesus Meeting" if anyone touched my baby sister!
I am so happy for you....I love your channel...your IG account...you're an amazing person Jen! Big hug from a big old Texas man! ❤❤
Been there..abused...you cant leave.. you are just numb..waiting for someone, anyone to save you. This song hits to the core.
I'm an old goth girl who has gotten into country the last 2 yrs and you're 100% right about the story telling
Bright Angel, just hearing your story brought tears to my eyes. It's 75 years old; I was raised to never raise a hand to a woman. They are God's gift to the
world.
This one hit me in the feels Jen, for the same reason it did you. I think what he did would be totally justifiable homicide. just my opinion. LOVED the reaction!! Oh, and check out his song the mockingbird and the crow. It's great! He's more of a southern rock kind of guy than a country guy, but I became a Hardy fan because of this song. lol 🎶🔥😎💖🙏🏼
Yes, with your experiences you are biased. But, even those who have not experienced this brutality can perceive the fear, devastation, terror, desperation. The fact that they are doing this to someone who is at a physical disadvantage and cannot protect themselves takes it to a place “where you reap what you sow” seems apropos.
I feel this deep down in my heart. Any woman who has been abused feels torn to the core listening to this song. I lived it for over 20 years. My tears listening to this were a long time coming. We all need a hero.
Hey young lady Jen,
I'm so very sorry you have had to live that life. No woman should ever have to.
I can tell it is hard for you to hold back the tears. Let me tell you I'm a man a real man and I have watched this video dozens of times and every time I cry.
Any one with any kind of true heart would cry to this video.
So thank you for your time and energy for our entertainment.
God bless you and your family. And congratulations on the good road your on.
Just watched ur reaction! Just wanted to add I stayed 17 yrs, and people asked why did u stay, He’s already showed you what he’s capable of, and you’ve already heard what he’ll do to you if you leave, when ur do beaten down mentally and physically, you will stay!! Best part of video is at end when she’s walking out, he gave her wings and took those chains!! We all wished we had a Hardy!!!!
love they wrote this incredible song, that's all I wanted , finally got out for good after 7 years!! 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜
Great reaction! And from a sweet lady who has been there, done that, so you understand! I was in it for years too! I had to keep it hidden from my elderly father who lived down the street. Daddy was a hunter all his life. Deer, quail, and dove mostly. But he was a crack shot. If he aimed, he did not miss. I protected him from jail by keeping silent cause if he had found out, my ex would have been killed on the spot. Please understand I wasn't protecting my ex. I'd gone to sheriff and lawyer previously, but at time, law didn't protect against the things that were being done to me. If my father knew, I'd have been waiting in his truck. After my divorce and my father's death, I finally told my brothers the story. After absorbing the info., both brothers agreed, daddy would have gone to prison to protect me, his baby girl. God got me out and daddy never knew. 🙏. Thank you Hardy for writing such a good song. Thank you Jen for your reaction and I'm so glad your safe now. Love and blessings to you girl!❤
Since I'm a survivor I cry watching this I lived with it from age 17 it ended 6yrs later
They really do make it impossible, you’re absolutely right. My sister went through the same thing, she finally got out this year but me and her ex got into it several times. I tried so hard to get her out until it got to just me and him and she’s finally safe. I regret every time I ever said just leave, it’s absolutely nothing like that. Great reaction❤️
Just discovered you, Jen. What a powerful reaction. Thank you for bringing some authenticity and genuine emotion to this. Blessings!!
“It was like a demon took over…”
That’s EXACTLY what happened Jen. I’m glad you’re free of that guy!
Glad your life turned around for the better. Sounds like you made a lot of good changes.
Michael Hardy. Exceptionally talented young man.
Im glad you pointed out that "abuse" isnt just physical. Emotional pain can scar a soul beyond recovery. I have never touched a woman in anger and never will, just hope all females in need, find their "truck".
I legit just heard and watched the video tonight. And from a guy that has a lil brother, both of us bein raised by a single mom. After years of her being physically and emotionally abused. I get it. This is my new favorite song.