A Story of Adoption - You Gotta Believe

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  • čas přidán 7. 11. 2013
  • You Gotta Believe's mission is to find adoptive parents for young adults, teens and pre-teens before they age out of the foster care system and run the extremely high risk of becoming homeless.
    Learn More: yougottabelieve.org/
    Donate: donatenow.networkforgood.org/...
    You Gotta Believe is one of a precious few organization in the U.S that solely limits its practice to finding permanent parents and families for young adults, teens, and pre-teens in the foster care system. Over the past 15 years we have grown from a team of 3 to a team of 15 full time and several part time staff while placing hundreds of NYC area children in permanent homes.

Komentáře • 138

  • @concorde9615
    @concorde9615 Před 6 lety +140

    I'm currently a single man who has raised a son who is grown now. I'm considering adopting older kids. Stories like this are certainly inspirational and give me the courage to think I can do it too. And as a black man I know there are plenty of kids who need a good home and someone they can depend on forever. Kudos to you Joe!!!!!

    • @masuganut2082
      @masuganut2082 Před 4 lety +4

      Yes please keep us updated ❤️

    • @hollydenman2929
      @hollydenman2929 Před 3 lety +3

      I am thinking of this as well. It is scary but so rewarding

    • @RachelPelky
      @RachelPelky Před 2 lety +1

      Please do us older kids are always left behind

    • @sherieclifford9983
      @sherieclifford9983 Před rokem

      I think u have the compassion to b a great dad to however many kids u can handle, GO FOR IT!!!!!!!

    • @CaptainJeffMarchant
      @CaptainJeffMarchant Před rokem

      concorde if you have not seen it yet, watch the CZcams series 'Now I am Known'.
      This story proves that it only takes 1 man (person) to change a life. As Nike says, 'Just Do It'

  • @maiahadi6795
    @maiahadi6795 Před 9 lety +107

    More men like Joe are needed.

    • @BobCindyL
      @BobCindyL Před 6 lety +3

      Looks like there will be at least 3 more...his kids

  • @masuganut2082
    @masuganut2082 Před 4 lety +21

    This man, ah, to be someone who aged out of the system and has made a life for himself and has chosen to SAVE these boys. He saved them. He has changed the whole trajectory of their lives! He has given them the anchor that is family! God Bless that man! He is a TRUE MAN!

  • @maytediaz5245
    @maytediaz5245 Před 8 lety +77

    Hats off for you, Joe! The world needs more people like you.

  • @hollydenman2929
    @hollydenman2929 Před 3 lety +18

    What a family! My parents were foster parents for 35 years . I was adopted at 18 and have never looked back. I am so thankful.

  • @columbus8585
    @columbus8585 Před 8 lety +70

    God bless you Joe.. all they needed was just a chance. Just a chance.

  • @CarrilloDM
    @CarrilloDM Před 5 lety +20

    Thank you for this video. 8 years ago unknown to me, I walked I into the lives of 2 kids who ended up becoming my own. 5 years go the youngest one came along. Never saw it coming. I would have laughed in your face if you told me 8 or 10 years ago I'd be a dad. Now my kids or becoming a young adults. Ages 20,16 and 15. I would not trade this for the world.❤️🌹

  • @benebolencia
    @benebolencia Před 5 lety +13

    Joe is what I call a succesful person. A total inspiration...

  • @maureenlynden2477
    @maureenlynden2477 Před 3 lety +3

    THAT WAS BEAUTIFUL TO WATCH THAT GUY OPEN HE'S HEART TO ADOPTED 3 TEENAGER BOYS

  • @adamtombar
    @adamtombar Před 10 lety +22

    Good man saved three great kids ! Thank you man for making the world a good place to live !

  • @barryfix
    @barryfix Před 8 lety +8

    The son described Joe and that said it all:
    A good man
    Thank you Joe

  • @kooldadrich
    @kooldadrich Před 7 lety +32

    What a wonderful story and a wonderful father. He turned around the sadness of his own life and made himself a success. And now he's giving other children the chance to have a loving home, a supportive family and a bright future. I, also, have adopted two older children from foster care. You can really change someone's life forever. I wish more people would consider adopting older children.

    • @72marshflower15
      @72marshflower15 Před 3 lety +1

      As a two time adoptee, I agree, but I encourage perspective adoptive parents to have previous experience before adopting older kiddos...
      That way the adoptees don’t have to endure yet another parent’s learning experiences, trials, and errors..

  • @hayseman
    @hayseman Před 10 lety +41

    This is the best story I have heard all month.

  • @leldesaulite-rozite
    @leldesaulite-rozite Před 8 lety +32

    God bless Dad and boys!!!!

  • @sandracantrell2639
    @sandracantrell2639 Před 10 lety +20

    i love listing to peoples stories like this.

  • @gavintooley
    @gavintooley Před 8 lety +5

    What gold there is in everyone. Xavier became a great young man and a wonderful big brother. Wow. Joe, you really loved the hell out of them all. Haha. Bless you all. Well done.

  • @debibarrington8348
    @debibarrington8348 Před 4 lety +5

    God bless this man for given these young men the image of what a man is

  • @SlenderTroll
    @SlenderTroll Před 10 lety +17

    My guidance counselor!

  • @MyKfactor
    @MyKfactor Před 5 lety

    I'm a single man who adopted a 13 year old. Tough but fulfilling. These are special kids.
    Great video

  • @FantasticRoze6
    @FantasticRoze6 Před 10 lety +21

    When I was 18 the best family ever took me in after a big fight with my mother. The relationship with my parents has never been better, and I decided to become a foster parent whenever I have the money and room for it

    • @clairefrong7659
      @clairefrong7659 Před 9 lety

      FantasticRoze6 you are very nice helping other people my sister and I got abandoned when we where 8 and if there were more people like you back then half my childhood could have been bettet

  • @Nannajo
    @Nannajo Před 8 lety +2

    what a wonderful person Joe is.

  • @lynnesummers-noble407
    @lynnesummers-noble407 Před 6 lety +7

    Wonderful family and a fantastic dad! What a good man!

  • @gigikean6003
    @gigikean6003 Před 8 lety +14

    So inspirational. Blessings to all the boys and men in that household.

  • @kathyb3836
    @kathyb3836 Před 3 lety +1

    Joe, you're a kind and special man. You are the definition of a proper father..stay safe and happy.

  • @JulieMosesly
    @JulieMosesly Před 4 lety +1

    I have been thinking about this for such a long time. I have two biological kids that are all grown with there own children. I don't know if I am too old but I often think how much I would LOVE to be a foster parent. (I am 61). Some people think I am crazy when I bring this up but I am going to start seriously investigation this. Who knows what gift, support that I might be able to offers some young person. There are so many kids & young people that are put threw hell, do to NO circumstances of their own

  • @isopath1
    @isopath1 Před 3 lety +3

    What an awesome guy, learning from his own sad past and giving so much to others

  • @Swordsquire
    @Swordsquire Před 7 lety +1

    Sometimes life IS fair.

  • @madelineperez6723
    @madelineperez6723 Před 3 lety +1

    THIS IS ALWAYS A AWESOME STORY FOR GIVING THE OPPORTUNITY TO THOSE KIDS TO HAVE A FAMILY 👪, THANKS DAD FOR DO WHAT IS RIGHT FOR THESE YOUNG BOYS , YOU AMAZING !!!! 😘😘😘👌👌👌🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤❤❤

  • @nicolelochren9560
    @nicolelochren9560 Před 3 lety +1

    There are angels that walk on earth .

  • @CoramDeoHawaii
    @CoramDeoHawaii Před 8 lety +5

    Heartwarming story that ended so well. God bless Joe for sharing this incredible video!

  • @Rawand08
    @Rawand08 Před 8 lety +9

    God bless you Joe!!!

  • @emeraldc.8796
    @emeraldc.8796 Před 4 lety +2

    This is truly so heartwarming, Joe. I wish my father was like you. I can see how genuine and sincere and loving you are. You’ve got the qualities a parent should have. I have 2 sons and I know it’s not easy. You have patience as well. I wish I could adopt. I’m not able to for financial and health reasons. I pray for you and your family, God bless you and your 3 sons.

  • @abeyshe1021
    @abeyshe1021 Před 7 lety +5

    Wow! Need more Joes in the society!

  • @MrItalianPR
    @MrItalianPR Před 8 lety +1

    Joe Is a real King

  • @eyem4freedom
    @eyem4freedom Před 8 lety +11

    Beautiful.

  • @vikindia
    @vikindia Před 8 lety +2

    God bless you DAD and wonderful boys

  • @annettehubbard9588
    @annettehubbard9588 Před 4 lety +1

    The boys are so lucky to have you, congratulations on bonding as a family!

  • @mariebaldeo3423
    @mariebaldeo3423 Před 3 lety +1

    Love to see this. Every child matters!

  • @debcarpenter8519
    @debcarpenter8519 Před 2 lety

    Eight years since this story posted. I can't imagine where you guys have gone in your lives! Sweet story.

  • @yusufsuleimanharuna3796
    @yusufsuleimanharuna3796 Před 6 lety +2

    Live your stories. Wish you happy life.

  • @isabelitalizardi9227
    @isabelitalizardi9227 Před 4 lety +1

    What a lovely family! I hope these boys give their dad as much love and they receive from him. And also that they are valuable persons who can archive whatever they aim in life.

  • @amyblack9251
    @amyblack9251 Před 4 lety

    What a wonderful man you are to adopt these older boys!

  • @monkeybearmax
    @monkeybearmax Před 4 lety +1

    What a great dad and kids!

  • @AngelaReuss
    @AngelaReuss Před 8 lety +3

    Thank you for doing this! We really need more people like you in the world! If I could do this right now I would. Wishing many blessings to all of you!

  • @khaishane9636
    @khaishane9636 Před 7 lety +6

    wonderful family! God bless

  • @LeezPgh
    @LeezPgh Před 5 lety +3

    This is very special. Thank you for sharing. Very happy for all of these men. They have a true and loving family. Even seem closer than many families who are blood related. This love and story inspired me and fills my heart. Thank you Again**

  • @c8rich416
    @c8rich416 Před 6 lety +2

    You guys are great! Thank you for sharing your stories. Families are perfect in their imperfections when love reside close by.

  • @chronocross85
    @chronocross85 Před 8 lety +6

    The youngest one actually looks like the father

  • @manell
    @manell Před 10 lety +1

    My feels! Oh my God!

  • @dekeylife8471
    @dekeylife8471 Před 6 lety +3

    Thank you so much . A lot of respect ✊️. Make me happy to now still there is good human left.

  • @MrAngelBonet
    @MrAngelBonet Před 2 lety +1

    I was in the system as a kid and was adopted by and amazing single father I would love to return the love I received and adopt a older child also

  • @lispmachine9687
    @lispmachine9687 Před 3 lety +1

    Joe, yes. You are doing it right.

  • @sheteg1
    @sheteg1 Před rokem

    Late to the comments by 8 years. Inspirational. Wonder where they are now.

  • @Dan5819
    @Dan5819 Před 6 lety

    What a beautiful story. Beautiful father and beautiful sons. God smiles at things like this.

  • @kasztankap
    @kasztankap Před 8 lety +2

    guys, you are totally amazing...! loved to see that! all best for u!!!

  • @Pelpina
    @Pelpina Před 10 lety +20

    Beautiful video!

  • @alexzp-ss4so
    @alexzp-ss4so Před 9 lety +6

    thats a family

  • @FannyRose
    @FannyRose Před 3 lety +2

    Beautiful !

  • @random11111e
    @random11111e Před 3 lety

    That’s a true man of God!

  • @Nu2thetube
    @Nu2thetube Před 3 lety +1

    What a family! :)

  • @72marshflower15
    @72marshflower15 Před 3 lety

    Adoption stories like this i can approve of...
    Thumbs up!!

  • @mommabear8260
    @mommabear8260 Před 4 lety +2

    Joe you are a saint!

  • @Nanno00
    @Nanno00 Před rokem

    I absolutely love this. I see this was 9 years ago. I hope all 4 of them saw their dreams come true and that they are all truly happy. My 3 bio sons are mid-late teens. Actually they are almost exactly the ages of these 3 boys at the time of this video. They are starting to talk about leaving the nest. As my home starts emptying, I would love to start refilling it with fostering and adopting. I feel that I still have a lot of love and support to offer.

  • @mariehill8734
    @mariehill8734 Před 2 lety

    Being in foster care myself as a child make my heart breaks for these kids !

  • @meghanmcneill5365
    @meghanmcneill5365 Před 2 lety

    Joe, you are a hero. Damien, John, and Xavier - you are 3 smart beautiful young men! I am rooting for all your dreams to come true.

  • @miketackabery7521
    @miketackabery7521 Před rokem

    I just love this. Keep coming back to it to soften my heart a little... and weep a little for happiness.

  • @helend222
    @helend222 Před 3 lety

    Good to see young guys given a chance put in the effort to learn and mature. Parents are half the picture. Young adults need to try too.

  • @pwit5367
    @pwit5367 Před 3 lety

    What a lovely man you are! And your sons will grow into great men too, with you as their father. G-d bless you

  • @AhItsArah
    @AhItsArah Před 10 lety +7

    I needed this. :)

  • @emeksb4823
    @emeksb4823 Před 5 lety +1

    This is heart warming

  • @anthonystrunk6249
    @anthonystrunk6249 Před 3 lety +1

    God bless all yall ur a beautiful family

  • @marilynking6623
    @marilynking6623 Před 4 lety

    God bless this wonderful dad and his awesome sons.♥️

  • @YogaBlissDance
    @YogaBlissDance Před 8 lety +1

    omg so beautiful!

  • @zm4892
    @zm4892 Před 2 lety

    ❤️❤️❤️😭😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️ what a sweet man!

  • @Hyndsberry
    @Hyndsberry Před 3 lety

    Wow what a real man. your doing an awesome family I hope its still going on for you.

  • @k.fuentes7448
    @k.fuentes7448 Před 4 lety

    One of the best videos I have watched to date.

  • @Fubblin
    @Fubblin Před 7 lety +1

    Thank you for sharing this story.

  • @yeshiworkgashu3192
    @yeshiworkgashu3192 Před 2 lety

    What a man you are blessed 🥲 👍❣️

  • @skiersobolski
    @skiersobolski Před 4 lety

    What a lesson !

  • @sibelsavas6741
    @sibelsavas6741 Před 3 lety

    Such a good man you are god bless you Joe! you know how they feel, what you offered for these beautiful young boys is irreplaceable, with respect sir,I wish you and your wonderful family all the happiness in the world.

  • @2222soha
    @2222soha Před 8 lety +1

    Beautiful

  • @bemorejidore4144
    @bemorejidore4144 Před 9 lety +1

    beautifully done.

  • @BeccaLynn8024
    @BeccaLynn8024 Před 10 lety +3

    Beautiful family..beautiful story, thanks for sharing (:

  • @mariomeza6118
    @mariomeza6118 Před 5 lety

    This is great, I am looking into foster care adoption as a single parent. Almost all the videos i have come across in my searches have been from younger kids and two parent families which made me question what if anything i could offer as a single father. But this video has encouraged me to continue with the process. Also to open my search to older teens who need love just as much as any other child.

  • @Zooeee915
    @Zooeee915 Před 2 lety

    Much love to all of you xx

  • @charlesmarkins6765
    @charlesmarkins6765 Před 4 lety

    wow awesome video, awesome Joe! I am a older gay male who has hosted 27 exchange student (sons) over the years. I am so thankful that Europeans are not hung up on me being gay. Most parents might be a tad hesitant, but have the opportunity to talk to past exchange students and their parents. Once they talk to them, the boys come over here. The only thing that the parents expect of me it to make sure their sons are safe. And like I tell my boys, I am mom and dad, and if you think you think your dad would take a bullet for you, I would do it twice as much. If someone was going to try and hurt my boys, they have to go through me, and you would have to call the cops to get me off anyone trying to hurt them. I love helping these kids fulfill their dream of an exchange experience.

  • @tanyaspringer5638
    @tanyaspringer5638 Před 8 lety +2

    I LOVE THIS!!!!!! please post an update

  • @donnapiraino3323
    @donnapiraino3323 Před 4 lety

    So happy for all of you well done ....You can never have too much Love

  • @nicolesamsonite
    @nicolesamsonite Před 10 lety +2

    I didn't know you could be in foster care after 18

  • @sherieclifford9983
    @sherieclifford9983 Před rokem

    Just so love your story, how blessed u all r & u know it & embrace it, that’s what makes u all u r. I can find a piece of happiness to your story knowing the 4 of u have each other what more could u want!!!!!!!

  • @thelaC100
    @thelaC100 Před 9 lety

    So happy for them

  • @mevsm1
    @mevsm1 Před 7 lety +1

    +Continued Blessings to you and yours+ Thanks mega much for sharing

  • @eep7385
    @eep7385 Před 3 lety

    God Bless you !!!!!!!!!

  • @Melisblessed
    @Melisblessed Před 3 lety

    God Bless you Joe 🙏🏽

  • @LennyAliyah
    @LennyAliyah Před 5 lety +1

    Amazing ❤️

  • @pauldunstan4495
    @pauldunstan4495 Před 2 lety +1

    Awesome! You guys rock.

  • @tinjmail
    @tinjmail Před 2 lety +1

    I wish we can get some updates on these boys.

  • @susiedagruma9660
    @susiedagruma9660 Před 2 lety

    Beautiful story .. thank you for sharing! 😊

  • @lindapalomares3324
    @lindapalomares3324 Před měsícem

    Love this!

  • @tomasgonzales9995
    @tomasgonzales9995 Před 2 lety

    Joe your amazing