I have the best job in the world but I hate it | episode four

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  • čas přidán 3. 08. 2023
  • Episode 4 of 6 chats where I discuss things I'm deeply wrestling with, and perhaps you are too. Tune in every Friday.
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  • @janiyarenee9304
    @janiyarenee9304 Před 10 měsíci +249

    People really underestimate the gravity of being in a public eye and having a responsibility for other people. It’s not one of the hardest jobs but I can guess it’s a very emotionally draining. Props to Kati for really sticking with it. I’m so proud of her❤️

    • @ange-la5105
      @ange-la5105 Před 10 měsíci

      @@yellowsheeeep stfu, the way i would totally ask her for a selfie though. youtubers are def a type of celebrity

  • @watsonmelon6575
    @watsonmelon6575 Před 10 měsíci +210

    A flop era is indeed a slay

  • @aKm057
    @aKm057 Před 10 měsíci +166

    I absolutely adore this human. And the way she narrates her povs, experiences…. She is a fab storyteller and I am all for it.

    • @KaitiYoo
      @KaitiYoo  Před 10 měsíci +12

      This means a lot, thank you.

  • @queenbluegaming9757
    @queenbluegaming9757 Před 10 měsíci +96

    Aren’t we all🤪 And a flop era is a slayy

  • @stardustgjm
    @stardustgjm Před 10 měsíci +39

    I thought this was going to be a really depressing video but it ended up being rather uplifting and inspirational. And as a Christian I love seeing an influencer with a large platform being so open about her faith. Loved this video!

  • @Wengie
    @Wengie Před 8 měsíci +12

    Totally relate to this and it's so good to see you drew a super healthy conclusion to move forward

  • @miafe
    @miafe Před 10 měsíci +13

    Kaiti, it's incredibly refreshing to see the self-awareness and real-ness you bring to your channel. If this is a flop era, it also shows you how many people are behind you no matter what content you put out. I love that you were able to find reframing for your videos, and I will continue watching you Fu-EV-ah!!

  • @oonyooa
    @oonyooa Před 10 měsíci +18

    we love you kaiti!!! keep going at your own pace, you’ll bounce back!! 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽

  • @zoecharlotte
    @zoecharlotte Před 10 měsíci +1

    Im really enjoying these episodes you’ve been putting out :) good to see that you’re happy exploring youtube without feeling pressured to hit the numbers, do what will get the big views, stay in the fashion niche for example etc and be ok just figuring it out and trusting the process. Feels a lot more real

  • @riqeun
    @riqeun Před 10 měsíci +1

    Thank you Kaiti for awesome video! Stay cozy and comfy!
    *You cool, you bloom* - my quote I used to remind myself I'm there for myself, and try to understand myself inside out.

  • @acbrand03
    @acbrand03 Před 10 měsíci +2

    You are probably one of the few creators that I love to hear advice and perspective from. I can definitely relate to the desire for control of perception and the pressure to hustle. You have a lot of gems in your talking videos. Please give us more! Or is there already a podcast and I missed it???

  • @livvehult8119
    @livvehult8119 Před 10 měsíci +1

    So so needed. Please never stop being this honest!! You are courageous for saying this out loud. I think you tell things worth saying. Keep delving into ypur inner self and sharing your new truths please!

  • @AbbieLeung
    @AbbieLeung Před 10 měsíci +5

    fave video of the series so far!!! so comforting to see a successful influencer/content creator going through the same ups and downs as me rn. stay strong we’ll figure it out someday!!!!

  • @blessingchongo869
    @blessingchongo869 Před 10 měsíci

    I really truly love this series. Thank you for your transparency.

  • @srkalski
    @srkalski Před 9 měsíci

    kaiti as always thank you for you honesty!! I truly love hearing your perspective and I'm so glad to hear you're taking time to sort out what YOU truly want💕

  • @aditiduttachowdhury5730
    @aditiduttachowdhury5730 Před 10 měsíci +4

    Can confidently say you make my days better Kaiti

  • @kyleposelero
    @kyleposelero Před 10 měsíci +51

    i love these series so much. it’s so real and relatable.

  • @naproud
    @naproud Před 10 měsíci

    thank you so much Kaiti for speaking out on some topics and feelings that I personally related to (and many others do as well)! it's so hard to stay vulnerable and true to yourself online, especially when there are so many metrics you can end up measuring your performance with. I really appreciate you sharing a dose of reality

  • @user-rt7nd1id9t
    @user-rt7nd1id9t Před 8 měsíci

    I love your new style videos! You talk about super interesting and inspiring stuff. Always putting a new thought or idea in my brain, thank youuu

  • @aranzaaranda
    @aranzaaranda Před 10 měsíci

    these style of videos are so refreshing to see. Just thank you for being open to us 🩵

  • @katrinastacie
    @katrinastacie Před 9 měsíci

    I haven’t watched all of your vids, but I remember being in awe of your fashion content a couple years ago, but I recently came back right before the first ep from this series and these vids are by far my fave content of yours. So real and kind of wild the way it’s touched and influenced me. The bit from your ep on forgiveness inspired me to declare internal forgiveness which surprisingly made such a difference in navigating my own spite and anger. And love the idea of approaching CZcams with the tv show season concept… I may try that 🫶🏻 thank you for being open and for sharing such real sentiments, even when it’s daunting. Agree with a comment I read below that said this kind of content from you is what got me to finally subscribe and I think even if they don’t hit as hard (in terms of numbers), I think it really allows for meaningful connection and appreciation ❤

  • @iisabelhuii
    @iisabelhuii Před 10 měsíci

    thank you for this series kaiti

  • @brendaedith
    @brendaedith Před 10 měsíci +1

    Loving this series!

  • @Kanyinsola
    @Kanyinsola Před 9 měsíci +3

    As a creator who spent 3 years posting every week, I understand how burnout can affect you and how hard it can be to get back to where you were. It takes time and I'm learning that you need to work on what's best for you and take it one project (be it a blog post or video) at a time and not put too much pressure on yourself to reach the points you were once at

  • @Inabundanse
    @Inabundanse Před 9 měsíci

    I love you, Kait!! Thank you so much for sharing your faith!!!!

  • @Dep_Ice_Cream
    @Dep_Ice_Cream Před 10 měsíci +1

    I resonate with this video so much. I felt the exact same with regards to the common denominator of “me” and how we as humans are designed for connection. So happy you have become so rooted in your identity in Christ🙏🏻. Keep on being a light!😆

  • @KellyRobinson
    @KellyRobinson Před 10 měsíci

    the honesty in this was amazing. we're always constantly shifting and changing and slowly finding our true north. don't be hard on yourself for trying to do what society or your parents tell you, it's so human :) proud of you for finding your own center and realizing you are the only one who needs to define what success is to yourself

  • @ellie-jane
    @ellie-jane Před 9 měsíci

    Dude I love you even more for this video.. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 I love the idea of seasons for CZcams channels 😭

  • @lynsanity83
    @lynsanity83 Před 10 měsíci +1

    honestly, your best video yet. just straight up spittin facts

  • @arunimaaa
    @arunimaaa Před 10 měsíci

    Okay but you are glowing girl ✨❤

  • @fairyloaf
    @fairyloaf Před 9 měsíci

    I had stopped watching your vids since fashion vids didn’t interest me much but was still subscribed since I loved your aesthetic and goofy side. And now I have watched 2 ep of this series which felt really refreshing. I love the honesty and emotions that we get to see. Hoping all works for the best for you 🤍✨

  • @msNB1
    @msNB1 Před 10 měsíci

    Usually a silent follower but I just wanted to say your content is so healing for me and watching your videos is a huge part of my self-care💕 thank you!!

  • @Juliana.moraes
    @Juliana.moraes Před 8 měsíci

    I LOVE IT! Thanks for being so honest. May God bless you, this phase will help you a lot to be the person he wants you to be. Is about that in the end.

  • @zoeunlimited
    @zoeunlimited Před 10 měsíci +68

    Binging through this series. Quite refreshing🩵

    • @yaniii._.14
      @yaniii._.14 Před 9 měsíci +1

      OMG THE QUEEN INTERACTING WITH ANOTHER QUEEN!?!?!?!

    • @yaniii._.14
      @yaniii._.14 Před 9 měsíci

      U both should collaborate

  • @maykhaalexalieselien9405
    @maykhaalexalieselien9405 Před 10 měsíci +1

    You are doing great honestly pleasseee take care of yourself first before anything else ❤

  • @dustymelody8378
    @dustymelody8378 Před 10 měsíci +4

    Can't wait to see your storytelling grow

  • @cdotcdot780
    @cdotcdot780 Před 10 měsíci +1

    really loved this episode

  • @Oluwatoyosi.A
    @Oluwatoyosi.A Před 9 měsíci

    💙💙💙 I needed this

  • @girlmeets
    @girlmeets Před 10 měsíci

    im in my flop era!! but i love being lowkey so issa win win. but i agree, faith keeps me grounded and flopping is not all that bad haha
    love ur vids and how articulate you are in expressing your emotions + state of mind 🙌🏻

  • @hiiiroobee
    @hiiiroobee Před 9 měsíci +1

    I've loved your watching videos kaiti, to a point I will embarassingly admit i rewatched some of them several times, that's how entertaining they are! I'm so sorry to hear you were going through a tough time. i'm really glad you're posting again, i hope you're doing ok.

  • @sarahmiller5133
    @sarahmiller5133 Před 10 měsíci +41

    Amen, sister. I’ve been subscribed for a while now, and this is one of my favorite videos yet. I really admire you for taking a step back from the hustle and refocusing on what matters. Trying to do the same myself ;) God bless! You’re in my prayers.

    • @JoyceChow
      @JoyceChow Před 10 měsíci +1

      Same! ❤🙏🏼💕

  • @sunny_mari
    @sunny_mari Před 10 měsíci +1

    I would LOVE for this to be a podcast ✨💕

  • @estherkraus5717
    @estherkraus5717 Před 10 měsíci

    Kaiti, I just want you to know that my day is brightened every time I see that you’ve posted-especially this more podcast-y format. I love how your personality shines through every single one of your videos. You’re a breath of fresh air and I’m excited to see whatever’s next from you

  • @estefaniazila
    @estefaniazila Před 10 měsíci

    Proud of you Kaiti🙏🏾💕

  • @renewashington791
    @renewashington791 Před 8 měsíci

    Great point! When Kaiti said humans are designed to be a part of and indeed crave community. I’m an older girl (aka as an old lady LoL) and I walk a fine line between isolating and taking whatever time I need to perform Self Care. But after I get that Me time, I believe I come out a better person so as to add something of value to the community. So, for any young person out there, let this be your Takeaway 💜

  • @cerealbeforemilk8976
    @cerealbeforemilk8976 Před 10 měsíci

    love these videos

  • @kayleebontrager1825
    @kayleebontrager1825 Před 9 měsíci

    Love this, thank you

  • @yaniii._.14
    @yaniii._.14 Před 10 měsíci +6

    Girl idk what you're saying about not being relevant beacaue this is the most relevant you can get. This series is so real and vulnerable and just listening to you makes me feel at peace and im sure thats the same for many other people out there so yes you do make us smile and make our days better.

  • @asheghefarsi
    @asheghefarsi Před 17 dny

    Idk if it'll help u but I heard this quote: "It is possible to make no mistake and still lose. That is not weakness. That is life." :')

  • @withstarsvini
    @withstarsvini Před 10 měsíci +4

    A flop era is a slay!!🌷✨

  • @yalazha
    @yalazha Před 10 měsíci

    love the message in this video 😊 going through similar struggles (not being a creator but stuck!)

  • @ada_elizabeth
    @ada_elizabeth Před 10 měsíci

    Dang. Somehow, you manage to sum up the human existence so succinctly yet beautifully in each of these episodes, but somehow, it still feels so incredibly personal to you. You are truly an artist.

  • @joycole5001
    @joycole5001 Před 10 měsíci

    I love this series 🩷🩷🩷

  • @gogolaygo1903
    @gogolaygo1903 Před 9 měsíci

    I'm so happy for you Kaiti for becoming more in tune with yourself - do whatever feels the most genuine to you, we are here to stay. 😉

  • @user-ug8yp4pv8v
    @user-ug8yp4pv8v Před 10 měsíci

    Never been this much adore a blogger 🥹 I hope you to know I've never been disappointed with your transition. We're all human. We're growing up. Your reflection makes me do reflect on my own also. 🌷🌷🌼🌼

  • @proxied8075
    @proxied8075 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Maybe the fashion videos were what pulled me in, but hearing you be real and more authentically yourself is definitely what makes me a fan who wants to follow your journey! :D Keep doing what you think is best for you :) The most valuable thing anyone has to offer to the world is their authentic self!

  • @amyhuang6651
    @amyhuang6651 Před 10 měsíci

    i’m a ‘20 grad from your school and I’m also in my flop era :) it’s not even that bad! life goes on, we strive and we move into new things. i’m gonna prioritize my wellbeing and my friends and family now.

  • @jannikapipkins
    @jannikapipkins Před 8 měsíci

    I loooovvve the transparency of this video. You are "relevant" because you are you.

  • @WifeNonGamerPlays
    @WifeNonGamerPlays Před 10 měsíci +1

    I was watching this documentary in Netflix about influencers. And reminded me that once upon a time i was hustling to be just one to be able to stop workingas a bedside nurse. I am sooo exhausted with my job since after pandemic. But then I realized that my service oriented job allows me to feel important and valuable and would not require any validation from the outside. It gave me this feeling that I have this role in the society to make people feel better when they are sick. I am still looking for another job other than bedside nurse cause I am sick too and wont get better. However, given the chance, i will not change a thing in this part of my life where I stick to nursing no matter how horribel and mean it is to us caregivers.

  • @georgiagerdes5001
    @georgiagerdes5001 Před 10 měsíci +2

    KAITI. i am so proud of you. this might be your flop era but it is absolutely a slayyy because authenticity matters so much more than any trend or metric. love you so much girl!! keep trusting in God :)

  • @srinithi9832
    @srinithi9832 Před 10 měsíci

    a flop era is a slay kaiti!!

  • @vintageaddict4552
    @vintageaddict4552 Před 10 měsíci

    This is exactly how I feel and what you are saying is true I need to allow my self grief... that's what I will do....

  • @wolfmage
    @wolfmage Před 10 měsíci

    Thank you for being real 🙌💕

  • @jeremiahykim
    @jeremiahykim Před 10 měsíci +1

    it must've been hard to share this, but I think shattering these illusions that our favorite influencers aren't in the same existential crisis boat as everyone else kind of puts our minds at ease.
    it's comforting to know that nobody needs to have their life together all the time and we don't need to know what we're doing. what's important is that we keep trying until we find something that speaks to us, but it's also important to realize that since people constantly evolve and change, "what speaks to us" will also change too.

  • @demiguo6752
    @demiguo6752 Před 9 měsíci

    girllll im going through the same thing!!! we got thissss!

  • @anchormomentsrv
    @anchormomentsrv Před 7 měsíci

    Kaiti, your honesty is refreshing! The first video of yours I watched was how you got 100,000 subsctibers in 6 months. This is the second video of yours I have watched. I am glad I watched both and will watch more. For me, I want to make a difference in some way for my viewers. So many CZcamsrs in my current niche made a difference for me. Paying it forward brings me joy. You are right, when you can make it about them versus you, it can give you a sense of purpose. I hope you continue to create videos that resonate with your passions and with your viewers. Be authentically you! Strive to be the best version of you that God created you to be! In my first CZcams channel, Anchor Moments before the van RV, I interviewed a woman named Elena Porter. She shared the Power of One. Do your best, and if it helps one person, it was worth it. It may help hundreds and thousands more, but even if it helps just one, there is value and joy in that. This video you created 2 months ago helped me. Thank you! 😊

  • @stephyart
    @stephyart Před 9 měsíci

    You are wiser by the day! Your channel will build; go for it. Don't let your depression take you down.

  • @ayushi2504
    @ayushi2504 Před 10 měsíci +3

    A flop era is truly slayyyyyy ♡

  • @Maaleak
    @Maaleak Před 10 měsíci

    A flop era is a slay :) and tbh, it’s apart of the journey! 😁 You’re awesome Kaiti, don’t worry, it’s just a lesson, you got this!

  • @EllieDashwood
    @EllieDashwood Před 10 měsíci

    Flop era is a slay. 💖 Though I think you’re just in your slay slay era.

  • @alyssaclaire2896
    @alyssaclaire2896 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Idk if this comment is even relevant to your channel as a whole, but as a Christian who has been watching your channel for years, the complete 180 your videos have gone through has been so beautiful, and it's made me want to watch your videos even more. Even when you were battling depression, it was so so cool to watch your center of gravity change from the world to the one who created it. ❤

  • @laurasmith9784
    @laurasmith9784 Před 10 měsíci

    Kaiti if this is a flop era I cannot even imagine how amazing your next slay era will be 💖💖💖

  • @denisetan2089
    @denisetan2089 Před 10 měsíci +4

    i have a problem with being scared to open up and seeing u share so much about ur personal life and struggles is honestly so inspiring. keep doing u and rmb that we're all here for u ❤

  • @wamyy5
    @wamyy5 Před 10 měsíci +3

    I think that a lot of successful CZcamsrs who do more than fashion and lifestyle use a different common denominator in their content goals: "you". I'm not nearly as successful as you, but I think "How can I help you the most? What will provide you the most value? How can the information I provide and the experiences I share help you to trust me?" That's been keeping my fire burning and I don't see it burning out any time soon. I know that you already love and care about your audience, Kaiti (hence also standing out among other fashion influencers), so if you reframe the thinking, perhaps you'll be happier creating on CZcams :)
    Edit: Ha I wrote this too soon before finishing the vid, but yes hope this affirms the direction you're already thinking of! Slay KTU!

  • @eloisefaithibarbia5057
    @eloisefaithibarbia5057 Před 10 měsíci

    u go bestie!

  • @nomifrei
    @nomifrei Před 10 měsíci +1

    wooooh made the premier 💃💃

  • @greatadoke
    @greatadoke Před 10 měsíci +1

    A flop era is a slay✨✨

  • @aurelin7179
    @aurelin7179 Před 10 měsíci

    a flop era is a slay!!

  • @meharbrar3132
    @meharbrar3132 Před 10 měsíci +2

    taking a pause celebrating my birthday to watch this hehehe

  • @Amare_studios
    @Amare_studios Před 9 měsíci

    This flop era of yours is what made me love and connect to your videos so much

  • @kaia0821
    @kaia0821 Před 10 měsíci

    Lead a purposeful life. You are still growing as a human. There’s nothing wrong with that. Personal growth is real. Your issue is that you’ve been a content creator and you feel pressured and stuck. This doesn’t define you. You are still human.

  • @filmedbyNaee
    @filmedbyNaee Před 9 měsíci

    A flop Era is a slay🥰

  • @eugeniext
    @eugeniext Před 10 měsíci +2

    a flop era is a slay

  • @user-xs9rp5sg1z
    @user-xs9rp5sg1z Před 10 měsíci

    What is affiliate and a flop era is a slay 😝😝

  • @ms.purple9695
    @ms.purple9695 Před 10 měsíci +4

    A flop era is a slaaaayy

  • @whithehearthro
    @whithehearthro Před 10 měsíci

    Honestly this is one reason I’ve always listened to “don’t put all your eggs in one basket” not just with jobs, but with things that bring joy or purpose. We are physical, spiritual, and mental… which is one reason not just one part of our lives can make us feel complete.

  • @BanachBeans
    @BanachBeans Před 10 měsíci +1

    A flop era is a slay 👏

  • @zawhtelavender9898
    @zawhtelavender9898 Před 10 měsíci

    I still love you Kaiti 💕 love from India

  • @starmy8502
    @starmy8502 Před 10 měsíci +1

    I don’t know much about the industry, but I think this much is true-when you take the time to redirect, it’ll take time for a new audience to find and connect with you. This comment section can tell you a lot about how worth watching your personality is, so given time, people searching for what you want to give them will find you :) I’m more than ready to see your vision come to life :)

  • @yihui31
    @yihui31 Před 10 měsíci

    Kaiti you may say this is a flop era but I love these more than fashion/outfit vids, these are things that actually matter

  • @gabriellagomez1537
    @gabriellagomez1537 Před 9 měsíci

    YOU MAY FEEL HORRIBLE ABOUT YOURSELF BUT YOU MADE ME SUCK A BETTER PERSON AND PUSHED ME TO BE THE PERSON I LOVE TODAY😢😢 I LOVE YOU

  • @elliereyna
    @elliereyna Před 10 měsíci +1

    i love you so much bro

  • @coffeetae
    @coffeetae Před 10 měsíci +2

    my inability to be content with my current circumstances will be the death of me

  • @rosky_m
    @rosky_m Před 10 měsíci

    a flop era is a mega slay

  • @Chronicle_MV
    @Chronicle_MV Před 10 měsíci

    A flop era is a slay 👑

  • @divinescripts
    @divinescripts Před 9 měsíci

    Nothing in this world would fully satisfy

  • @Createdbyfortune
    @Createdbyfortune Před 9 měsíci

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @ma_yuvari2215
    @ma_yuvari2215 Před 9 měsíci

    "Give God's role to God, and my role to me" gold🔥

  • @thesketchycartel
    @thesketchycartel Před 10 měsíci

    Yes a slay! Which microphone?

  • @creativehorsequeen
    @creativehorsequeen Před 10 měsíci +3

    Thank you for being more open about your faith on your chanel. I'm so glad one of my favorite CZcamsrs is also a Christian. I sometimes struggle to be open about my faith but if you can be open about it to a million people, then I can too.