Breaking My Silence: Episode 1 - Kazhem
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- čas přidán 28. 08. 2024
- There has been a lot of speculation and curiosity into what happened to my youngest son, Kazhem. Because of the false allegations against me, the internet rumor mill, and people’s willingness to believe anything they read as concrete fact, I’ve since been accused of "abusing" and "killing" him. This is one of the most ridiculous and hurtful experiences of my life outside of his actual death.
I am going to share the whole story by utilizing the evidence and official medical records so these hateful rumors will hopefully cease and I can grieve in peace.
COMING SOON: Episode 2 - Domestic Abuse Allegations
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I lost my 18yr old daughter yesterdayday. She just dropped dead without cause. Doctors did every test. Nothing. She left behind a 3mo old little girl. I really wish I could give you a big hug right now. I think we both could really use one.
Holy hell, I am so sorry
@@GeoffreyPaschel thank you ❤. Sorry for your loss also. He was such a beautiful little boy.
Very sorry for your loss.
@@JP-qq9yd thank you
I’m sorry! 🥺
Considering the current state of affairs, this may need to be reexamined
This was absolutely heartbreaking to watch. I’m so,so, so sorry you have to do this video to state the truth. I can’t imagine losing a child but to lose a child and have people accuse you of the cause. I wish you peace with this situation and the truth will be seen. 💜💜💜
As a mother of a 7 month old little boy I am filled with emotion watching this. Regardless of your past or whatever people are saying about you, nobody should have to bury their child. I am emphatically sorry for this tragedy. And on top of all of that having to deal with his mother being so ugly. I honestly don’t know if I would be able to make it through something like that. My child is my entire soul- as I’m sure it goes the same for you. May your beautiful angel Rest In Peace and prayers for peace in your soul.
Xo, Blaire
The cruelty that humans place on others breaks my heart. I’m so very sorry for all you have been through and these accusations from people who have no idea, and have not lived your life have to be deeply hurtful. Trying to grieve your loss and fighting this battle is not fair. I wish your heart peace. Your smile radiates love and true feeling. Keep your heart loving even when there is hate being spewed towards you.
i think they didn't wanna do an autopsy bc they possibly killed Kazhem accidentally by pumping him up with too much medication that his body couldn't handle. my heart goes out to you, no parent should have to bury their child and i'm so sorry you went through this ...
I truly believe that to be the case too...
I also think he received waayyy too much seizure n anxiety meds. I'm not a dr. but have seen too much heartbreak in my own life to know somewhat of how u feel(i was widowed at 22yrs old), family deaths at young ages-brother 44yrs old etc.)I want to say "PRAY"for comfort for your heartache. It really does help n if u feel more sad again, then "PRAY" again.Nobody but GOD can ever bring your son back, but they'll be a time in the future for that n you two "WILL" be reunited. Until then Geoffrey, take one day at a time. For the next day will have its own anxieties. I'll pray for peace in your heart Geoffrey. Take care🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
When a person starts taping not just you but the medical staff clearly that says a lot about her.
I feel bad you felt the need to have to tell anyone about your personal life in this way! Be strong!!
Isn't it sad?! I just feel for him.
Yes, I work in the medical field and the fact that her attention shifted to "investigate and catch someone on something" is disturbing. Why not focus on spending those las few hours/minutes with your son life or dead? You'll never see him again! Very sad.
That is so sad, I would of questioned the other she is very suspicious! That’s why she wanted cremation. Geoffrey I am so glad you got custody of your kids, and was able to bury your baby boy . Prayers to you
It says a lot about the whole situation when you feel like you need to record things.... lack of trust, been burnt before. And proof for doing something In the future!
But yet he turned out to really be a piece of crap
Geoffrey, my heart can feel your pain for losing your child. He's in heaven now, and is watching over you. God bless you brother. There are a lot of bad people around. Never stop hoping, loving, and keeping the faith.
I have a friend who lost an infant and I’m convinced it was due to the hospital. They admitted to giving the baby too much medicine but said he would be fine. Suddenly he has fluid in his lungs and is diagnosed with pneumonia. Suddenly he isn’t progressing and he dies. Then they told my friend that it would be easiest if she had the baby cremated. I’m still mad about it. Hospitals should be held accountable!!
Absolutely heartbreaking, cried the entire time as well as got angered. Hugs to you your poor man, I feel so sorry for everything you’ve been through. Such a strong man.
I am Broken-hearted watching this. You are so strong to share Kazhem’s story. I hate that you went through such a terrible loss and you have these assholes trying to accuse you of BS. You can tell you had so much love for your baby boy 😔
Going to be honest here for a minute. I am here, as I started following your instagram due to my insane addiction to 90 day fiancé. I read some crazy stuff about you online that kinda matched your character that they edit so nicely on the show. But this...... this video speaks volumes. First I am SO sorry for your loss. That is one loss that I’m not even going to pretend that I know how you’re feeling. As a mother of two boys... im heartbroken. No one should have to deal with pain like this. I don’t believe it’ll ever get easier, so kudos to you for speaking about it. I’m sad for Kazhem, that his own mother seems detached from the beginning. That baby needed a mom to love and nurture him through these hard times. Thanks for being a man and stepping up for this boy. THANK YOU. I wish there was more justice for baby K, but don’t give up hope. Keep his memory alive. 💜
Turned out he really is a woman beater though...smh
Such a heartbreaking journey. My heart is breaking for you and your sons with the loss of Kazehm. I know the fear that I had when my son had a febrile seizure at 14 months old. It was so scary. I'm here in tears after watch, but like the puppy at his grave, I can imagine he was such a fun, loving, and beautiful child. He was loved by you it is very obvious! Thank you for sharing Kazehm story.... ❤🙏
This made me cry 😭
Some People are disgusting and vile, they have nothing better to do than make insensitive and cruel assumptions about others
You shouldn't have to come on here to prove your innocence regarding your child's death.. but i guess you can have some peace and tranquillity now
So sorry that you had to do this 😢 lots of hugs, peace and comfort from me to you 😍
This broke my heart.... wtf is wrong with that woman omg
I’m so sorry you have to explain this to strangers .. May Kazhem Rest In Peace. I’m so sorry for your loss 💙 sending you love and strength 🙏🏻 in having to relive this loss.
This hurts my heart 💔 you did everything you could of as a Father. Its no ones business trolls and all what you endured in your life.. Stay strong and he will always be one of daddy's angels 💕
Thank you for sharing such a personal story. As a parent, I can’t imagine going thru this pain. It’s something no parent should ever have to experience. You have been thru so much, and you keep living on. You are unbelievably strong!
I’m am completely heartbroken for you and how you even find the strength to talk about this because of horrible people who know nothing truly about you then what they read or assume. Wow i am truly sorry you had to go through any of this. My heart aches made me cry none stop I can’t imagine any parent going through this and still having his mother there after everything thing. You have a heart of gold. And I’m so so sorry he passed this way baby Kazhem. May his soul rest in piece and know that his father loves and misses him. Sending you all the strength and hugs and again I’m deeply sorry you had to go through this. Keep Stay strong god bless you.
I can almost relate to you, in 2014 I almost lost my 27yr old son to a massive heart attack with multi organ failure, you said when the eyes stop responding the brain is usually dead, that is exactly what I was told,, they tried to make me turn off life support but they had him in a drug induced coma from seizures that he wouldnt have woke up from if I hadnt had them ween him off. within 24hrs I noticed him twitching and movin his feet, but I must tell you the Lord knew I wouldnt survive without my son and let me keep him, he suffers anoxic brain damage he is now 32yrs old and is doing ok, I am so sorry for your loss Geoffry I just think you should hold the hospital liable for all the drugs they put in that sweet baby, be strong life is only a short time
I'm so sorry and there's not anything anyone can say to take away from your pain. Thank you for sharing. I honestly believe the day we are born God already knows the day of our passing. God bless you with him for only a few months because he knew how much you would love him. He is watching over you til y'all meet again. Again I'm so sorry that you went through this. 🙏❤️
I'm so sorry for your loss i can't imagine the pain on losing your son 💔
Made me break down I almost loss my life and my daughter due to the negligence of nurses not helping me my daughter was born dead and didn’t come back for 10 minutes they told me she wouldn’t last the night my daughter had over 200 seizures i was told she would have major brain damage just seeing my baby hook up to all these wires freezing she was on a cooling blanket 36c and being drugged up broke my heart I couldn’t hold her I couldn’t comfort her its so hard to explain that pain but I felt your pain
Child loss is unbearable. It's a heartache that time will never heal. 🙏💗
RIP baby Kazhem🕊
I cannot imagine the pain you felt. I am a mother of a 2 year old boy and this video made me cry so much. My deepest condolences to you and your family.
This brought me to tears. Sending hugs to you.
I’m literally crying 20 seconds in. I’ve been with my boyfriend 8years. He lost his son about 6 years ago now. The pain is imaginable. I’m sooooo sorry. My heart breaks for you. 😔❤️❤️
Knowing a medical investigator (my dad), it is super strange they didn't see a need for a medical autopsy. Super strange... sending lots of prayers of strength for you as people are nasty and mean.
I can’t even imagine losing a child. Thats a whole different kind of pain. I can’t believe people have gone so low as to accuse you of doing something to him. I’m so sorry you are having to relive this to prove something to other people. May he rest in peace💕💕
My heart goes out to you. I lost my first baby at 31 days old. It's a pain that can't be described and that never leaves you. Stay strong and God bless.
As a mother my heart broke for you. To be going through that pain and being accused of harming your son is disgusting. If my child was in that situation the last thing I'd be doing is taping crap. Your son shone too bright for this world but will forever shine his light on you. Love from a mam from the UK xx
Sounds like they made a mistake in the hospital and covered it up. The purity of their souls will be weighed when they die...
I 100% agree!!
He was probably recived vakcine few days before but it is forbidden 🚫 Subject !!!!!
@@inessebelic4788 💯
I don’t even know how a mother could be in a state to ask or accuse the other parent of doing something suspicious when their child is fighting for their life. Just doesn’t seem like I would have anything on my mind but begging and pleading to GOD at that very moment. This is a true testament to not believing what people say about others on the internet. Geoffrey, I’m so sorry for your loss. Your baby is a little angel now, living his best life. Much love ❤️
So heartbreaking 💔 I'm so sorry for your loss Geoffrey. Thanks for sharing this with us. Love and prayers from the Netherlands 🙏🏻🇳🇱❤️
*as a former opiate addict turned Narcotic educator for a prominent medical community in Asheville NC, the child passing away would have shown what's in the system even more clearly post mortem , the body has to metabolize the medication- heart stops as does the blood circulation. It would have been an even better grab post mortem vs alive. (So whoever told you it was a loss just wasn't telling the full truth). I'm so sorry that you had to experience the loss of a child. I'm not feeling thrilled about the mom, (I hate like hell to be ' judgey ', but as a mom my own self.. DEATH (my death), would be the ONLY thing ever keeping me from my sons.
She couldn't even stay awake during the first stay in the hospital with Kazhem, (she nodded out it would seem). Poor babies waiting to hear from mommy and she can't even answer the phone five entire minutes 😡🤬 well, just pisses me off!*
*God bless Lil Kazhem* 👼
My little brother had seizures like this around the same age and he is alive and well today. I can't imagine what you are going through and I fear this pain because I love my child more than life itself. Based on everything I watched it is possible that the meds they gave him caused fatality. My mother passed Jan 17, 2018. She was so thin when she went to the hospital and days later she was blown up like a puffer fish. They said it was from all of the fluids and meds they gave her. I said how do ya'll expect her to hear or feel anything when she's filled with all these meds. They did the same thing checked her eyes then declared her brain dead. It also happened with me in labor they started pumping me with meds and my face and hands started going numb. I also couldn't speak for a minute almost like I forgot how to. The nurse finally turned around as I was reaching out to her she stopped the meds. I started speaking to tell her I couldn’t feel my face. I believe everything you said because I experienced it. Keep your head up sir.
As a 1st time mom, this story broke my ❤. I am so sorry for your loss. RIP sweet Kazhem..
I am sitting here watching this sobbing 💔 I can't even imagine how heart shattering it must be to lose a child. I am so sorry for your unfathomable loss 💔
Geoffrey, I lost my infant daughter in 2014. She caught a infection in the NICU eleven days after birth. I know the pain you feel. It is a shame since you got on tv people want to slander your name and make you relive that painful time. Hugs from right here in Maryville, Tn.
I cant even begin to imagine the pain of losing a child. My heart breaks for u. He was a gorgeous little boy. Thank u for sharing ur story. Especially when u are on a show where people involve themselves in ur personal life far beyond tv and social media. Those recordings... shes a real piece of work.
So sorry 4 ur loss. I’m a 52 year old & starting having seizures at about 16 years old out of nowhere. I just wanted 2 tell u some of those anticonvulsant meds caused so many horrible side effects. I can’t imagine how a little baby’s body could handle even the smallest dosage if my adult body couldn’t handle some of them
Oh my! Absolutely heart breaking! As a parent I can’t even imagine what you went through! So sorry you have to defend yourself! But, I do think your openness is something that makes you so believable! Your older boys seem like such nice respectful young men, shows you’ve done something right! Stay strong!
I can’t even imagine of having to lose a baby ugh 😞😥 geoffery you are a very strong man to even talk about this so much respect for you 💜
Are u fucking serious?
Yes... it's sad what happened
I am your neighbor in Maryville/Walland and I couldn't imagine the pain you feel. My youngest just turned 1, and I cannot imagine anything other than a happy healthy baby as we all do when we start a family. What happened to you, and the insinuations and issues caused by his "mother" in your time of pain, is disgusting. Im thinking of you and yours.
Oh man this was hard to watch. I’m so so sorry for your loss. That was my grandfather’s name, it’s very special to me. Both my boys have a K name as well. The fact that she recorded those calls and kept trying to push them to accuse you of abuse is horrible. She truly seems like a horrible person. How can a mother with a child in the hospital be asleep when doctors come to examine the baby. I can’t imagine even getting a wink of sleep. It sounds like the hospital ODed the baby which is also so horrible. Prayers to you. I hope you will be able to find peace. I’m glad you were at least able to bury him close by so you can visit Kazhem. May he RIP🙏🏼
I am so sorry for your loss. My daughter had febrile seizures when she was 3 & she was also overdosed on medication. Vanderbilt Children's told me themselves she had been given her too much diazepam when she slept for an entire day & woke up hallucinating, eyes rolling into her head. It is such a scary situation to be in.
Hun, I am so so sorry for your loss. I was in tears just watching you try to get through this 😥😥. You are a strong, wonderful, amazing man and father. You told this story and you didn’t have too. But you wanted people to know and understand. Sending all my love ❤️❤️
I am just bawling here 😢 he didn't have to do this, but it probably has been so hard for him, all the disrespect out there, people staining the memory of his son 😞
Racharina B. I know I agree. I cried thru the whole thing. I couldn’t stop. There is no pain so horrible as in losing a child and I could never imagine losing my only child. But he is such a good man and his son is with him each and everyday so that’s a true blessing ❤️
@@erinvannest3230- so true ❤️
My heart broke watching this. No one should have to endure what you have and I believe it showed amazing courage to share this and honor your sons memory . It’s doubly heartbreaking to never have answers but your boy is with you and near you always. He knows you love him . Stay strong - 💔💔💔❤️❤️❤️
I struggled making it through this video today. Most gut wrenching thing I've ever seen. Sending lots of hugs to you and your boys.
God Bless u Geoffrey. "U" were the good parent in this. Always remember that. Don't listen to anything else. Just seeing n observing u on the show, told me, no proved to me, u were a good guy. Even if u did take opiates, I'm sure u had a legit reason. Unless u were buying them from a drug dealer for a habit to abuse drugs, u had a legit reason to take them obviously otherwise ur doctor would've prescribed them. When a person is guilty of being unfit themselves they'll look to blame the other one for their own self-induced hatred. Don't worry, you'll come out of this better than before n u have to stay strong for ur other boys. U did a great job with them from what i saw on the show n they love u. Take care❤😊
From the beginning of the show my first impression of you was that you are a great father and this proves that. My hearts is breaking for you and I pray that you find the peace that you need. ❤️
I’m so sorry for the loss of your Beautiful Angel!I lost my daughter she was 23 from a car accident in 2008. I know the pain you are going through.How bad the pain is. Please try and find happiness in your life. And remember you will hold that Beautiful Baby in your arms again.I wish you the best of everything life has to offer!❤️
I can not even imagine what going through that was like, then after all that to have the mother and then strangers accuse you of causing this..... lord, this broke my heart! I am so sorry that happened. I normally would never comment on a CZcams post but I know it had to be hard to share this! You seem to be an amazing father and person. I wish you nothing but the best! Thank you again for sharing 😪
Me either Danielle. It literally rips at my heart knowing what he has been through. The fact that Geoffrey fought so hard for her to be able to enter the US so she could be with the baby and then she thanks him by accusing him of killing Khazim REALLY shows her angle in the whole thing. As a mother, there is no way I would’ve done ANYTHING other than COMFORT MY BABY AND COMFORT THE FATHER OF MY BABY. No matter what they had been through and the shit she had done in the past. Geoffrey was doing WHATEVER HE COULD to get that woman back to TN to be with the baby at that time. How could she been anything but grateful and thankful to him for that? Bless his heart (as we say in the Deep South) I cant imagine how that ripped his heart out. Geoffrey - if you see this, please know YOU have a TON of supporters standing beside you and supporting you right now. I am so sorry for the shit you’ve been through. Obviously, that woman was some kind of evil to do what she did and she needs some prayers for the Lord to soften that heart of hers. Granted, I don’t know all sides but I’m a nurse and I’ve seen situations like this firsthand. The emails you sent that woman begging her to just pick up the phone to talk to the boys was enough to make me sick at my stomach. Keep your head up! You’re a good man and you’ve got some strong support coming from Athens GA!! 🍑
My heart has always went out to you Geoffrey . Thank you for being strong enough to tell your story of Kazhem. You and your boys are always in my prayers.
This broke my heart I had no idea you had been through all of this in your life. May your little boy rest in peace, so sorry this happened 😢💔💔. Sending love from Ireland 🇮🇪 to Tennessee ☘️
Heartbreaking. Hard to hear, so I can’t even fathom what it was like to live through it. Proud of you for sharing your story. No one should experience the passing of a child.
Omg! This brought back so many memories of my experience when I had a miscarriage at 6 months. My baby girl and I will call her Natalie, because that was going to be her name. Natalie was moving when she was delivered. The hospital I was in had candy strippers all watching
Me go through this for their training which I was not asked. Anyway she was moving and I saw he r black hair and just as quickly they wrapped her in a white towel and put her into a trash bag and walked out. I was screaming she was moving and this nurse said it was nerves that my baby was not alive. I was so traumatized. This was when I was 22 years old. I am now 66 and think about it from time to time. When Geoffrey said the thing about the trash bag, tears started rolling. It’s a hurt that is tucked away in my heart for ever and something that defined who I am today. The guilt you carry for not demanding they let me hold her. I was in shock. I don’t know if they give you a death certificate or Tleast a form stating what happened. I never received one. I only got a release with the diagnosis as miscarriage. I don’t know why I am even commenting on this except I just had to. Geoffrey, I know what it feels like. You will get through it but it will always be tucked away in your heart, God Bless💕
Im so sorry for your loss. Sending you love and healing 💚💚💚
Please make another video about the mother of this child. I feel like you have some stories to tell that a lot of people have actually gone thru and you could help them and make a difference. Like how did you deal with all this? A mom who is so disconnected that she accuses you of abuse while her child is fighting for her life... It blows my mind... Thank you for your videos... Keep them coming
I'm so sorry for your loss , as a parent my heart truly aches for you. I hope you are able to find peace in knowing one day you will both be reunited again.
It breaks my heart that you are having to relive this. Sending so many prayers your way ❤️
Seems the hospital didn’t want to do an autopsy to protect them from any malpractice. Such a beautiful baby may he soul Rest In Peace until you meet again.
You never get over the loss of a child. Im so sorry for your loss. Prayers to you and your family. I just wish you had made the decisions about the autopsy, and maybe the findings could have helped others that have gone through the same illness. My heart is broken for you. Love and hugs always.
This sounds alot like what my friend went through with her 8 month old daughter. She had a few seizures and passed away after her 3rd one. Come to find out she had a vaccine injury which caused swelling in her brain which caused the seizures then her death. Was your son vaccinated?
He was and had his shots 2 weeks prior to "this."
I wondered about the vaccinations also...very small percentage, but can't be ruled out
Geoffrey Paschel please research vaccine injuries/deaths. Sounds like his 2 month shots is what caused this? So sorry.
My heart breaks for you Geoffrey 💔 Losing your child is the absolutely the worst possible event to happen to a parent. I am so glad you were able to bury your son, bless your heart for making that happen for him.
I know what it means to loose a child. My son had just turned 18 when he was in a vehicle accident!! This happened in 1993!! The pain in your heart never goes away!!
I'm so sorry my guy. I lost my brother at 5 months when it was still in the stomach and was hurt. I cant imagine what you're going through.
Oh Geoffrey my ❤️ goes to you . I hope you can find peace and I’m so hoping you and Varya have a beautiful life together . Hugs from Delaware
Omg I'm so sorry you had to go thru this whole ordeal. Like it wasn't bad enough losing your baby but to have to deal with the accusations his mother out you though. My heart breaks 💔 for you. It is beyond strange that they wouldn't do an autopsy and I thought you could request one. But it definitely sounds like a wrongful death suit on the hospitals part because like you stated you believe they gave him too much of whatever medication that caused his death. So so sad. I respect you so much for even opening up about this 😪😪😪 I pray for you 🙏 and your family, and wish you nothing but the best!!
No one should ever have to go through this. The fact that so many accusations have been thrown Geoffreys way is disgusting. Let this man live in peace and find happiness. I’m so sorry for his loss (and saying sorry isn’t enough there aren’t even words to describe how I feel personally after watching this video) Wishing Geoffrey nothing but the best. Love, peace, and happiness.
Is it so disgusting now, give me a damn break
@@JMac-27 ?
@@celialockwood1044 I know your comment is from one year ago but he was just found guilty of beating his ex.
The accusations make sense now.
Thank you for opening up. This has brought a lot of tears to my eyes. Sending big hugs. You are such a great guy. I am truly sorry this happened to you. Just remember he is your shining star whenever the stars are shining.
Honestly I’m a pretty big fan of 90 days and they really portrayed you pretty bad especially at the end. I thought you were such a d bag. I’m glad you did these videos. I’m now feeling the complete opposite with all the struggles you’ve had. I’m so sorry you dealt with all these accusations and court battles during some unimaginable hard times. You’re a strong person and much respect for taking care of your kids. Glad you got to say your truth and released this. Back in Chicago just moved not too long ago from Knoxville myself. So I kept a close eye on you this season. Sending good vibes your way! Being honest and looking at factual information. Perfect.
Hey I'm so sorry to hear what happened to the baby. Do you think the vaccine did damage? My son got his early shots and now has bad autism.
Thank you for sharing I'm so sorry for your pain I just buried my best friend my 38 yr old sister 3 weeks ago and it was the worst day of my life she wasnt sick she went to sleep and never woke up like you I want answers ? I truely feel ur pain thank you for being brave and putting an end to speculation I'm sorry u even felt you had to my heart hurts for you !!! You can tell your a good man I'm so sorry you had to go thru all of this and I hope one day u can think of him and smile not cry just not even 2 yrs prior to my sister we lost my 60 yr old father to prostate cancer their were 6 siblings and my mom and dad I'm trying to find my new normal in all this but the pain is unbearable as you know all to well !!! I'm sorry from the bottum of my heart again thank you for sharing!!!! And Bless you and your beautiful sons .
My God, I just couldn't help it, but I was just sobbing. So sorry Geoffrey you had to go through that. No parent should go through that. May Kazhem rest in peace. My heart goes out to you.
My daughter started having seizures at 3 months old, out of nowhere. She spent a week in ICU getting tested, they sent us home with no answers, only how to care for her when she has more. I’m so sorry. 😔
When I was 14, my best friend passed away from suicide. To see his mom crying over his coffin not ready for him to go was by far the saddest thing I've ever seen and heard. I know it was a different situation, but there is nothing more devastating than losing a child. I hope your son is with the angels and I send my love and support to you. You're a very strong person.
I’m so sorry for the tragic loss of your sweet baby boy. Your story was difficult to hear and I can’t imagine living it. May God heal your heart & lift you up.🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
I am sorry for your loss! What I am even more sad about is that you had to explain your situation to a bunch of strangers that want to take just rumors on the internet and run with them and judge you. I am in a few groups on FB about 90 day fiancé. It disgusts me the vile things that is said. No one knows what you have gone through in life nor should they have a right to judge not even knowing you. I am glad that you are showing those haters who Geoffrey really is and not behind 3 mins clips of what a network wants to show to get views. I can tell you are a good man with a ton of hurt in your heart. I hope you find peace and forever love and happiness!
I hope and pray they look into those Seizures, I know he passed away but because of Geoffrey Abusing women, etc. I just I really feel un my heart something is weird and wrong with this..... there is too many coincidences.... even when I watch him on one of his CZcams videos talking about losing him, he just it doesn't connect, it's almost like he's acting, like he wants even more attention, and I'm not saying that you shouldn't not get attention or anything from losing a child, I'm just saying, his body language in most of his videos, the way he talks, etc. It's just idk. I'm not great with words, but I just feel in my heart, somethings wrong and feels just kinda Fakish. Im praying for his children and the precious, beautiful angel baby's mother and her family. ❤ Ps. Of course he won.... bet he got worse in his custody. Maybe she was afraid of him thats why she tried to leave and take the boys, there's more to this, his actions and everything shows it.....
I am so sorry for your loss. My son died in my arms on March 7 2017. It was the worst pain I ever went through and still going through.
Geoffrey I am so sad for you guys. Worse pain ever. My son died too as a baby. You can't heal this heartbreak. Much love to you and your family
This absolutely broke my heart. I wish I could give you a great big hug. I'm sorry for the loss of your son, Kazhem. He was a beautiful little boy. It's absolutely ridiculous that you have to relive this tragedy to clear your name because trolls out there want to make allegations. SMH. May Kazhem rest in peace.
I can't imagine the way he feels but losing a child is the most painful thing in this world
I am so sad for your loss. I can't imagine your pain.
I am so very sorry. What you said about the doctors giving him too much medication, I thought the same thing while I was watching your video. I lost a child also and got every test done that I could and an autopsy to find out the cause of death. It is a very hard thing to go through as a parent that no one will ever understand. You are a very strong man to share your story. 🙏🏻💙
90 days is a guilty pleasure for me..like millions. I have no doubt that the show is heavily edited for ratings,but even so..the way you are portrayed is nothing like the compassionate human I see in this video. You went above and beyond as a father and it is heartbreaking that keyboard warriors would cause you to have to publicly expose pain and grief that is clearly so raw, I am so sorry,so very sorry for your loss.
This broke my heart and brought me to tears. I am so sorry for your loss. You are a strong person!!!
This is so terribly agonizing. My heart goes out to Geoffrey and his family for going through such a nightmarish ordeal. From a nurse's point of view, it seems to me that hospital was not forthcoming with what actually transpired (considering they admitted giving too much medication, which could lead to respiratory and cardiac failure; this is then followed by the hospital's refusal to do an autopsy, leading me to believe that they were attempting to cover up fatal mistakes). I know that this offers you no consolation because it doesn't change what happened, nor does it diminish the grief that you feel - but perhaps it may offer some clarity and perspective. I imagine that you carry an immense amount of guilt because you may somehow feel responsible for losing your son...but it's not your fault. Your actions show that you, in your limited (medical) capacity, gave him the *highest* chance to recover by immediately taking action when you noticed something was wrong. I'm so sorry that you lost your baby boy; I hope that, with time, you are able to find your inner peace.
Thank you for sharing this part of your life Geoffrey. It is a private matter that you aren't required to share a single detail of at all. Sorry for the loss of your beautiful little boy, and to hear everything you were put through, in that very trying and stressful time.
I’m truly very sorry for the loss of your son. I have a son that lost his vision at eight years of age he is now 20 and the struggles he goes through each day is heart breaking because there is no reason or a why to his loss of Vision. He has very little vision in only one eye and is loosening that. He ask me yesterday mom when the last of my sight is gone what do I do and my breath left my body I had no words he is a precious young boy he will never drive a car or walk alone anywhere he craves the attention of anyone because he don’t have any friends like other young men have never has it seems nobody wants to be bothered it’s a sad world that we live in. Ok enough about my child I know that you won’t ever forget your son he is now in heaven he will be there when you get there he watches over you and walks with you daily Bless you Geoffrey
Wow. I don't even have words. I'm so sorry. So many wrongs here. I just can't imagine. I'm deeply sorry not only for your loss but everything else you've had to deal with.
Wow what an immensely private aspect of your life to share, thank you for that. I am truly sorry you and your family had this experience. Prayers and good vibes 🙏 to you and your family for better,happier, healthy days ahead.
I couldn’t watch this without crying. My prayers are with you. God knows you were there for your baby boy as much as you could be 💙 people are heartless these days, to even make you feel like you have to explain what happened with your son. Ugh and the hospital makes me so mad! Why even give him that much medication?! That’s why they didn’t want the autopsy done, they know that would be a big lawsuit for them. I’m so sorry for your loss. Rest in Heaven Kazhem💙
I’m so sorry for what you had to go through and have to go through now and being accused of such awful things. I couldn’t imagine. There will always be a person who feels it is necessary to say such awful things about a person they don’t even know. It’s very apparent that you fought hard and you were there for your child, and that’s all that matters. As a nurse I’m surprised with the way things were handled and I pray you’re able to continue grieving in silence away from the public eye. You will carry your son always and reunite with him. Keep your faith and keep strong❤️
My sons eyes did that and later developed infantile spasms. Epilepsy comes in different forms. Some you don't even notice. So sorry for the loss of baby kazhem.
You are a very strong man to discuss something so private and painful as losing your child. I’m so sorry for your loss. ❤️❤️
You are a precious man Geoffrey I’m so sorry you went through this my heart breaks for you. Praying god heals your heart. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Sorry for your loss. I am not anti-vax but could the seizures have been reactions to vaccinations if he had them around those times? I suppose Doctors would have considered that possibility.
If you feel he was overdosed - why not ask for the hospital review board to go over what meds he was given? Any patient or guardian has the right for a review and subsequent complaint.
Im so incredibly sorry for you loss. I'm even more sorry you had to make this video to explain this to strangers so you are able to grieve your precious baby in peace. 💙💙