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5:00 “That’s what having a kid is. It’s like spinning a wheel, you don’t know what you’re gonna get. Every child is different.” I agree Rob, 100%. Another thing that wasn’t touched on here, but could be a contributing factor is postpartum depression, which affects a lot of mothers, their emotional well-being, and their ability to feel joy in motherhood, which could lead to some feelings of regret and remorse. I don’t have kids yet, but I hope it’s something I won’t ever experience.
Post partum isn’t really real in nature though. Mostly post partum occurs when estrogen levels drop and women see that they’re trapped in their environment/ got manipulated / not done what they could have etc . They can’t leave these choices and forget like they used to because they now have a child. In nature they are usually left to raise alone by the mother where the mother raises it until it is a teen herself then let’s it go. No post partum depression for them because she is no longer trapped in the environment she was in when she conceived - the overbearing male, for example, and she can start new. for most humans unfortunately this is done in wedlock , and many times the female doesn’t work either - meaning she can’t escape her environment - the male, the shelter- thus turning into depression. child out of wedlock isn’t so bad but unfortunately the corporate world brainwashes everyone to go against a woman’s nature - too many rules, hierarchy , and sometimes men looking down on, making it difficult for woman to support themselves through work and have a baby - things that require two different mindsets. In nature the mother hunts or gathers meaning there is no such problem. The corporate mindset that there is an inherent hierarchy to everything, that things are black and white, good or bad, vs the mindset to be adaptable , “intuitive” and all accepting , which is needed.
@@stablequasoar u do realize that alot of animals get stressed after birth , did you know pigs and bunnies get stressed and theyll eat their kids? its really common for animals to reject newborns, cats, sheep, dogs, tigers, literally most animals lol so ur just kinda wrong
All those happy men with kids they were talking about. You just know all the work is falling on the moms.
Exactly! If the men became the primary caretaker, especially for special needs children, they'd lose their mind lol
Not all the time
@@christiangrierson
Just most the time except for some stay at home dads.
It took me a long time to realize how much our parents do for us so I always make sure they know how much I appreciate them in the best way I can
Even though none of us asked to be born, I appreciate my parents making the best with me and my brother and giving us a great life. Some people grow up unfortunately with people who don't want or love them.
I'm just gotta stick to being the fun uncle for a long while. I ain't concern with having my own kids til like mid to late 30s. I'm also open to the idea of adoption.
That's the best age in my opponion.
@@logicandemma8474 not necessarily women over the age of 35 have higher chance of having a child born with autism.
@@keyton7706 just cos your mum had you at the age of 35+, doesn't make that a fact
@@suffelipuffeli4459that would be your mother
@@suffelipuffeli4459He said that there is a higher chance not that it is definite
"A parent's love is the foundation on which a child's world is built."
All kids need a good parent but not every person should become a parent. I personally think if you think your kid is gonna be perfect you shouldn’t have them.
Having children effectively means "your" life is over. You now have to provide for your child for 18+ years, or depending on whether you have a seriously disabled child, it could be for the rest of your life. As a parent, you're expected to put your child's needs before your very own.
It's like just: Oh nevermind the trip out to London we were planning this weekend, our son/daughter is ill. Nevermind the expensive train tickets we bought, I guess they'll have to go to waste.
I have 2 autistic daughters and they love tf outta me and their mom. They know family members and show them love too. People don’t really understand autism and don’t know how it is mostly case by case with a child. Also it depends on the work the parents put in ; on top of the patience someone has. ITS NOT THAT BAD … YES IT CAN BE CHALLENGING BUH ALL KIDS ARE CHALLENGING.
Kids are a living nightmare
Not true.
@@killuanatsume Yeah it is.
@@smokyquartz5817 Absolutely not.
@@killuanatsume Deep. Watch your cartoons.
@@smokyquartz5817 Look, I work in a daycare I see kids everyday, they aren't living nightmare. They are ball of sunshine and happiness and joy. They are living dreams. They make life better when it's down. My cousins also have two kids they are wonderful. Kids make me laugh and make my days better.
love the end message in this vid btw Rob is the type of guy to call his mom and remind her that he loves her
You should too
@@AlejandroSovsa Everyone that can should.
I'll stick to being the rich aunt.
Right?! Me af 😅
Same
At 5:50 I can relate to that a lot, I was a disturbed kid who didn’t want to do work hit teachers and couldn’t express emotions I have asd which also made me struggle socially, I’m glad my parents weren’t like thatand fought for me, now I’m getting into great colleges straight A student who is now a boxer, An a overall well behaved student now, never give up on your kids.
So you’re still hitting people lmao
@@frankmcgarry3155 Yes but not teachers 😂😂😂
im dead lmao@@frankmcgarry3155
Everything’s got a bad phase. Children included
Especially children*
I’m not joking, they got the most entertaining videos even though their regular people on CZcams. They make my day better
Please do more reddit videos. I like the way Ryan reads the threads. It kept me engaged.
Having an autistic kid is more difficult at times, but they can definitely interact with people healthily, have great relationships with family, and overall function well in society (Especially if they’re high functioning). a lot of people are just ill informed on what it means to be autistic, and how to raise autistic children.
right
I'm autistic, and my advice to any parent of autistic children. Never treat them any different you would a normal kid, if they misbehave, discipline them. If they behave good, then reward them. Never let them run wild or excuse any of their behavior or actions because they are autistic. I'll admit I did have ill feelings towards my parents as a kid, but after growing up a bit in High school, ever since then I have nothing but gratitude for my parents and am very thankful for their time and love.
Except the severe ones that are just wild and belligerent. Yeah no I’ll pass.
Yup being a parent is hard but you learn as you go the more you get older and you do realize that your own parents went through the same things with you and you got to be great full for them and their sacrifices they made for you to have the things that you had growing up and making sure you were taken care of and to put you on the path that you are on now. No regrets for me best thing that ever happened for me
Depends on the parents buddy.
My mom had me at a rather young age, so her willingness to sacrifice her needs in order to accommodate mine was nonexistent. Sadly, not every parent has the capacity to put someone besides themselves first and it’s the child who suffers
Same with my own mother. And it pissed me off when people encourage other to have children younger...It's so stupid.
Make your own decisions and choices.
I determined when I was still in my teens that the only way I would have a kid is if I found the right mother.Several long relationships later, I didn't find that woman but I have no regrets.Don't let other people be the theif of your joy, and tbh, I've seen few relationships and families I thought enviable.I have, however, seen many disasterous relationships and unhappy children,- and a lot of contentious and bitter divorces. Don't get married and/or have kids just blindly hoping it will someday feel right when it feels wrong now.Being "in love" means you're not thinking straight, and it rarely stands the test of time or financial stress.
I appreciate yall vids makes me feel better as a person locked in 🤞
i feel like ryan was the typa kid during popcorn reading that would never get picked for reading by the teacher because they knew he could read so they would pick the kid that couldnt read to help them improve n he would get mad n annoyed when they stuttered on the simplest words
bro what
@@landenkerr4012real😂
ok bro
@@landenkerr4012bro wrote a whole fanfic
This is highly specific
My sweet pea rob is back 😩
A lot of these people just didn’t think shit through, and they have the audacity to blame the child or other parents.. just WAIT
“he’s kissing everyone” caught me so off guard 😂😂
Bro the reaction vids are fire don't stop
it was satire
pda-pathological demand avoidance. A pattern of behavior in which kids go to extremes to ignore or avoid anything they perceive as a demand.
Love the hustle boys keep it up
Some parents don’t put their kids first though. Some men just get women pregnant and take off like they have no responsibilities.
00:11 juste the perfect time to watch this trio
my dream is to see these guys on a sidemen charity match 😭😭😭
Great discussion on parenting 👏🏾👏🏾
My ultrasound when I was in the womb predicted I would have autism. Although I was born without it (as far as I know lol). I am so thankful my parents decided to have me and include me in their life.
this is so silly, they are acting like parents are these saints for taking care of THEIR kids that THEY chose to have, thats what they should do
Another thing I want to mention that I don't see anyone else mention is when parents have children knowing they have genetic issues that will be passed onto the child and have children anyway. Those people are the worst kind of parents.
I watch my 3 year old nephew frequently. And the only thing I think I would miss if I have children, is my sleep.
Just had a sucky day now y’all say you’re done with reaction videos 😭 I live for them
I will say when you grow up in a good family, and you have good surroundings and good supportive people around you it is a lot easier. Also not to sound weird but money does make a difference, especially when you have the money to afford care for like special needs children or with disabilities. I’ve had friends that have kids with disabilities that are rich and I have friends that have kids with disabilities that unfortunately are lower income and it does make a huge difference. I also think there’s no such thing as being the perfect parent and I know everyone says that everyone’s like well I want to kid when I have this this in this together but at any moment, you can have some thing happen that is a surprise.
Thats called postpartum depression, every women goes thru that and has a different experience with it
rob the type of guy to clap his hands together, close his eyes and say "i wishh i wishhh i wishhh" before blowing his candles out
The way discipline has changed over generations, I feel like I would hate children. Just for the simple fact that parents are neglected and persecuted.
Controvertial take: I don't think parants that regret becoming parents went into it with a positive mindset.
3:04 Ok, this really anger me. I am an adult with autism. Got my diagnosis when I was 24. I LOVE my parents. I always did, sure we don't always agree on everything and the stuff that we are interested in is different. But saying things like ''I would rather he had cancer, at least he could love us'' people who have autism have feelings and can love their parents and show affection and have empathy. It's not a disease. I have conversation with my parents all the time. Autism is a spectrum. People with autism can read.
i like this idea, make it a series plz
I'm a teen and I think people should have kids when their financially stable because you should want your kid to live a good life and be at a good home. Also do ya'll remember moments from when you were a baby, because I remember taking my brother's milk and falling down while sleeping.
Messed up people raise messed up people. Trauma dumping on the internet is a new thing. People have always felt like this. Like thinking people weren't into feet before the internet.
My parents have been together since middle school, then got pregnant when they were 17, married at 18, had 4 kids by 24, 5 by 30, LIKE THANKS MOM AND DAD BUT SHIT TAKE IT EASY.
PDA in that case means "pathological demand avoidance". Some autistic people have that as a part of their condition.
😂😂😂 "parents watching this", " for some fckn reason" lol.. I'm a parent of 3, two of them are in there 20's and 1 is 9.. I watch you guys " for some fckn reason" lol.. I'm entertained by you guys!! Make my workdays go by fast.
I love how Rob just be randomly looking at himself in the camera checking his skin lights king mode 😂
Im not going to have kids at all. I cant even take care of myself lol😅.
This reminds me of the movie We Need to Talk About Kevin. The mother regretted having him, and he used that against her.
13:12 😂Don’t listen to them, last time I tried to hug my dad, he uppercutted me in “self-defence”
Perfect timing
Rob the type of guy to
to
To rob.
Stop, just stop. Enough of these jokes.
@vanillaoverchocolate5440 rob the type of guy to Stop,just stop. Please,enough of these jokes.
@@vanillaoverchocolate5440wawawa😢😢😢😢
i don't know if u saw my comment on your previous attractiveness video, but these last 2 videos that u guys made, were pretty good, they are not looks related, but still i get more a humble vibe from you guys
loool y’all should do a video on the r/gang stalking subreddit 😂😂😂😂
Robs the type of guy to milk a bull.
💀💀
🤖 🤖
If you have a therapist at 13, I’m sorry, but it’s a wrap 💀
Bro😂they tryna solve ts early. But nah, on a serious note. Everyone goes through some serious mental shit in their life; some go through it very young or some go through it in their 30-40’s . Or both hah. I just hope that they’re getting their shit out of the way 🙏
Oh I got one at 13 💀
I had one at 9 lol
Damn noahs really educated about the uk side of yt its really funny because I absolutely love british yters i am british myself
"ACCIDENTALLY!" HAHAHAHAHA cold blooded edit and repeat of a specific word.
I have autism im fine its just learning quickly and get stuff down is my problem
from your username i can tell your fine!
@@Bende33lmaoooooooo
My dad said all he wanted was to be a dad so I try my best to be an angel who makes him proud to make up for my brother 😂
My mom's might me be crazy I have 3 sister and 3 brothers so 7 kids I'm now 17 and my oldest brother is 31 so my mom already taking care of her kids for 31 whole years doing everything working and house stuff. 15 -16 years single mom by the way my dad left when I was 2 so damn
These "rob the typa guy" comments are really annoying.
maybe i won’t have kids 🥲
I mean I'm only 13 so my opinion will probably change by the time I'm an adult but Im probably gonna have kids but I'll be adopting and I really hope I can give them the childhood and life I wanted. I mean my childhood is good I just mean like I wanna make sure that they don't turn into an iPad kid or anything y'know. I'm not an iPad kid but I got a phone at 8 years old so yea
fire video love the end and it really made me think
Robs voice ❤
God I’m
So glad I got a Vasectomy
COLULD, YOU IMAGINE THAT LOL 14:01
This will be 😂 a good reference video.
Also, I will say that I noticed that some of the people didn’t have much of a support system, and I think that is the biggest problem like you just talked about being egotistical, butback in the day It was very normal for Family to kinda raise the kids together and in some cultures that’s very normal. I think it’s a very American thing where we like to cut people off here where like you go to some other countries and all the families kind of live together. You have mom, dad , grandma , grandpa uncle aunt like everyone helps out everyone lives together. Everyone helps out in the family so you know even if a girl gets pregnant at 19 it isn’t like oh let’s kick her out because she got pregnant at 19 it’s like oh there’s a new baby coming into this world and we should really appreciate it but you know that’s a whole other story 12:22
Keep doing reactions vids
man i feel bad for parents but they need to be ready for the worst
after leaving psychology i learn that the way yall babies toddlers and children act is because of yall. and the way yall treated them from the day they were born
Robs the type of guy to say "did you get a haircut?" A week after you got a haircut 😂
Lol
keep making reddit videos these stories crazy
I’m dyslexic and it’s like a 60% for it to get transmitted to my kid. So I know the risks I’m 20 rn so idk if I want a kid but if I do end up ik the risks all I can do is put my best foot forward
Rhino the typa guy to sing 30/90 when he turns 29 💀 I’d love to hear their thoughts on tick tick boom tho.
2:27 primordial is crazy 🤣
Noah right you guys are pushing 30 DANG 💀
Life starts after 30
My sister has high functioning autism, my parents are absolutely in love with my sister as she's a really cute 20 year old, the entire mood of our house revolves around her, somedays she's happy and she makes all of us laugh somedays she breaks the family down in sadness and screams terribly to the point our ears ring due to her mood swings..I can't deny the fact that my parents look drained and way older than they actually are due to the hardships that came along the way raising my sister despite all treatments when she's upset she also beats my parents up sometimes and they aren't supposed to do anything but get hit, my brother also suffers from sociopathy and threatens my parents to send him money every weak otherwise he wouldn't hesitate to cause a scene in his college which will have him expelled and jobless, Ngl sometimes I really ask them to disown my brother and they just say "but he's my son and I love him"...
My parents can't have a break from being stressed due to my siblings its honestly hard to watch sometimes how my own brother takes advantage of all the love that's been given to him to just cause more and more hurt but honestly that's all a part of my human experience I guess...and my parents don't really love each other , they've just stayed together for my siblings...I feel bad for my mom cuz she was abused all along childhood by her family and my dads family but now that she's gotten older she still has no break...I just hope she gets a beautiful family her next life, she's gone through a lot...
So yes having kids can be hard sometimes and personally after going through all this my entire childhood having kids is a very hard decision...
I'm 21 so I don't plan to have kids to at least 25 or 26.😂
and I feel like having kids is a mindset first off:
"you can't have your cake and eat it too"
Life is a work and play balance, its either you work now and play later or you play now and work later and either way it goes if you decide to just "play" life will force you to work, so people need to grow up mentally cause chances are if your the type to blame everyone in the world but yourself That you had a child.
(And this is unfortunate but especially women since they are the once that grant access)
you weren't ready for children 🤦♂️
and even if you did have a kid but it was a quote on quote "accident" get your shit together cause it's time to mature now
What about the fact that our parents trapped us here without our permission, we literally didnt ask for this. They put us into this, its their obligation to look out for us cause of their horny.
10:45 you're basically saying that the dude is always at work, and he thinks that his baby is amazing. OF COURSE HE DOES! HE SPENDS MINIMUM TIME WITH THE BABY!!! If he was forced to take care of his toddler 24/7 he wouldn't have such positive outlook.
Word to my mother I’m never having kids
13:35 that’s their job💀. ian ask to be here. that’s her job
Yup
Keep reacting to Reddit subs ts actually good
reels makes me realize the negatives to having kids
4:14 im going to hell for laughingg 😭😭😭
Glad I don't have kids.
Its the reality if what it is whether people dont want to admit or not
Valid video
When you have a kid young like in your 20s your child is more likely to come out normal but, as you see in the video most of these parents had kids pushing 40 when the Woman’s biological clock is running out
I agree, and men should take note of their own biological clock too. The quality of men's sperm deteriorates the older they get.
ryan reading the is op. Reddit is rabbit hole for content. so many stuff are there.
Noah you can get a good what? 😂😂😂
8:41 trainable is crazy
Nah my mom tolerated me she never wanted kids
My older sister definitely regrets having my niece 😕