NF - How Could You Leave Us (Gospel Musician Reaction)
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NF - How Could You Leave Us (Gospel Musician Reaction)
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Music video by NF performing How Could You Leave Us. (C) 2017 Capitol CMG Label Group
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As a daughter of an addict who also was taken by pills I find this song heartbreaking but it also helped me with explaining to some family members how I felt for the first 11 years of my life.
He is a remarkable lyricist
He really is!
In an interview at 26, NF said he had finally come to grips with his mom's addiction and understood her problems more and was working on forgiving her.
I'm glad he's working towards it and realizes she was lost too
@@TrevandErin I'm pretty sure he has also said that now he wouldn't have made that song cuz he doesn't view his mom from a place of anger/hatred anymore.
This is not just a song ° this is a soul deposid!
True story:Nate asked everyone to leave the studio in the last verse.
Also as he said in the past ,now that he become a parent himself he has been her place and has forgiven her.
As a mother this hits different ° No child deserves to feel this way!
#NFREALMUSIC 🔥🔥🔥🔥
Ah I was wondering how he was able to cry like that in a studio setting
@@TrevandErin He recently became a dad years after releasing this track... but I'm sure Nate had to have the peace of God's forgiveness already to allow him to release this masterpiece of 'misery meets healing tree' out into the world...
I love this song for its brutal honesty. Grief = anger and sadness mixed. I bawled like a baby the first time I saw the video (and I still tear up watching it), but my ex-husband, who took his own life, also had an addiction and our daughter now has a child of her own and he is missing it. So the ending really gets me. Although I think everyone who's lost someone can relate to the end. Life moves on and we think "man, I wish so and so were here to see this!"
Ahh man I hate to hear that. I love NFs vulnerability here as well. I feel like this song can help and connect with so many people. I can see why it was so heavily suggested
I have never in all my life, heard an artist regardless of the genre or time frame, out so much emotion, realness, honesty, vulnerability and completely west his heart on their sleeve like NF does! He can literally change your life or at least make you stop and reflect or rethink parts of life!
I really enjoy is REAL music. I respect it so much
This song literally saved my life. I am 42 & have a lot of health issues, auto immune disease, I have shattered disc in my back due to my abusive 1st husband, doctor said I need a rod put in my back because my spine was also pushed back but I can't have surgery due to heart issues. I also suffer with severe depression, anxiety, & ptsd. One day I was sitting in my bathtub with music playing. As I started to pop a full bottle of pills to end my pain this song came on. It made me realize that my kids wouldn't be better off without me (I felt like a burden). I called my husband (he's a good one) & he left work, rushed home & got me out of the tub & took me to get help. I still struggle but God has gotten me through every storm. So now this song makes me emotional for a few reasons. Great reaction as always!
You should react to the song
Hi Ren by Ren. It is very, very different from what you are used to but worth a listen!
Sending love ❤️ & blessings 🙏 from NC
Wow! Thanks for sharing. I'm so glad you have a husband to support you and that NF was playing when you needed it most. God blessed you with enormous courage. The fact that you were so down but the thought of leaving your kids and husband made you gain the will to fight is CRAZY. Just proves you're a great mom and wife. I'm so glad you have God walking with you through your hard times. Thank you so much for sharing!
@@TrevandErin Thank you for taking the time to comment back, it truly means a lot. I greatly enjoy your reactions. I try to make sure I like & comment on most of your videos to help the algorithim. You are doing great!
Praying many blessings for you 🙏
He did say in an interview some years later that he did understand more about what she was going through and he has since forgiven her. ♥
Good! I'm glad he has. Forgiveness is hard but I'm sure he feels a lot better now
Yeah, I heard a big reason was that he became a parent and understand his mother better
@@kamparker9726 He actually said it a couple yrs before his son. I can only imagine now how much more he has healed being a father now. ♥
"Sometimes I wish I would have just called you. I wish I would have picked up the phone." - he mentions this in Mansion when he talks about the room that is filled with regrets and it's the room where he sleeps. The first thing he wrote on the wall was about wanting to call his mom.
Dang I didn't even think of that.
The saddest thing about this song is the end when he crys an talks to himself as if he is talking to her, he told everyone to leave the studio so he can finish that one part
I agree that and seeing his crying face in the video was definitely a shot to the gut
This was the first NF song I ever heard. I lost my mother to addiction when I was 13. This hit me hard I still struggle to hear it. I wasn't really a fan untill I heard mansions.
Wow. Sorry for your loss. I'm sure a lot of NFs music hits. Thank you for the comment!:
I've never heard this song, but my dad was an addict and this broke my heart.
This song is definitely beautiful. The raw vulnerability is beautiful.
I have heard that NF has only performed this song live a few times and he struggles each time. He also supposedly had to have everyone leave the studio for that last part in order to get it out and recorded.
Crazy. I couldn't imagine having to perform this live
As someone who just recently lost my father when I was 18, and I turn 20 in April this hurts, my daughter was born a month ago, and I have to look at my daughter and think about how my dad wouldn't be there for her life. My dad was beloved by everyone in the family. He is missed everyday it hurts when I hear songs that mention that. My daughter don't get to meet her grandpa and I have to find my own way through life without hardly any guidance as a man.
Wow man I'm so sorry to hear that. I'm sure your dad would be proud and you'll be a great dad yourself. I'll be praying for you
This song would make a statue cry! I think crying is good for you and tears should always be allowed to flow! I always hate when I see someone start crying and someone else tells them, don't cry, don't cry! Crying is like laughing or any other emotional release it's what the body does, why fight it? That's like holding in laughter or a sneeze or a fart, just let it out, lol! Then again after thinking about it, if I was a reactor and knew everyone's watching I'd probably be less emotional and hold it in like guys just do! Thanks for your reaction and keep up the good work! Watching all your stuff!
Thank you! I agree 100% with crying. I said in the video Im not a crier but I think I might've lied because I am depending on the scenario like when a dog dies in a movie bruh I bawl 😂 but yeah it's weird with reactions because luckily I've been blessed with people watching my videos and even on an off video I'll get a couple hundred views. So it's hard to be open to letting that many people see you cry. My comfortability is still improving in front of the camera too. I hope to get so comfortable I don't think about those things in the future
There is a song on his MOMENTS album, which is on you tube, not sure of the name, but the lyrics are She's so beautiful, but she's so broken. I think that is the song he showed her. She died about 2 weeks before he graduated high school.
Ooo that's rough. I'll have to check that song out
@@TrevandErin yeah, that song is called "Beautiful" to his mom. I have watched all of NF's interviews on CZcams. He has an excellent interview that is about an hour long. He said in that interview that as an adult now he has forgiven her and has given her more grace now that he understands more about addiction.
That is him really crying throughout this too. The end he had Tommee and a few others leave the studio and he just talked to his mom in the dark studio. The end is the product of that. He had intended to do another verse, but he decided to keep his true and raw emotions instead. I have heard this song probably 100 times and I still cry. I am an empath though and a VERY emotional person. I think it is so much more attractive if a man shows tears and cries. There is NOTHING wrong with that at all.
I appreciate Nfs transparency. .not many artists would share the personal struggles as vivid. Not everyone has experienced all that NF has but some people can relate to his stories. I personally think a lot of people see how he handled all the negatives in his life yet still went on to be successful. So others can hopefully see this and see they can too. Appreciate the reaction
Great point! Thank you for watching!
I believe in an interview he has said he has come to terms with his mom. I think he has gotten to a point of forgiveness.
I'm so glad
You made it to track 4. The song that brought me to NF
This song is DEEP. I could definitely see why i got so many suggestions for it. NF went fully vulnerable on this one
He says he's forgiven her. He realized he was showing anger when a lot of it was fear. He said he just wishes he could have had an adult conversation with her.
WOW. That's awesome to hear but heartbreaking as well.
15 hrs ago NF twitted, Music is coming... ‼️‼️‼️🙌🙌🙌🙌
I seen that! I'm hyped but I hope he gives me time to get caught up 😂
After I listened to this song the first time, I bawled for 20 minutes and said I'm never listening to it again because it's just so heartbreaking. It's so beautiful and good. But heartbreaking.
Now I've watched it twice. 😐 and I bawled again. When you said this is not a song you will be listening to again I was like "YEAH I get that." Lol 😩😭🫶
yeah he sees it from his perspective, as a kid, a teenager. its understandable from his perspective. you can process it different as an adult
I'm like you, I can't remember the last time I cried. My mom passed when I was 18, and we were extremely close. But, I didn't cry. Now I'm 40, and people think I have a hard heart. But, I feel the same emotions that everyone else does.
I'm sorry to hear that man. Yeah definitely know what you mean I still deeply feel it's just hard for the tears to come out. Kinda weird
His music is very relatable for some. Challenging some to confront pain and work through trauma.
Well said
One of my favorite NF songs my mom was an addict that lead me into a life of addiction clean for ten years now thanks to GOD keep up the great reactions your channel is blowing up you deserve it
Wow congratulations! You're a beast. You overcame what a lot of people cannot.
I cry every time I listen to this song - including your reaction, no embarrassment here. It should be mandatory listening and watching for every DFACS employee and participant. I think it's a psychopath test - if you play this for someone and they don't feel it, they are a psychopath.
That's a great idea! If they watch this and can't even someone what relate to both parties then they don't need the job
It’s a hard song to listen to but important song 🎶 on the NF journey!
It is! This is one of the biggest pieces of the NF puzzle
This song tears me up. My mom left us when I was 7 and my brother 4. She was a lacy and idk if other things were involved but I was SA while she was in the next room with drunk friends. I didn’t see her for 12 years. She’s alive but she doesn’t feel like a mother 😢
I was an Nf fan since 2014 from his old stuff. But over the last couple of years his music has helped me through a lot it’s truly a ministry. Whether you see it or not you have been ministering and really connecting with a lot of us during this journey. It’s truly a blessing to see the impact that one persons story can have on millions of others
Thank you! Means a lot. Someone said I was becoming the NF of CZcams and my ego went through the roof 😂 I love NF so much I’m so glad y’all showed him to me
I lost my mom to pills and alcohol too. My mom's intention was to die. When I first heard this song it was like a gut punch of too much truth and relatability. This and Mansion I related too and is what made me fall in love with NFs music.
Oh wow! I'm sorry to hear that. I bet a ton of NF songs hit home for you.
@@TrevandErin Thsnk you brother, yes they do. Hope u have a blessed Lord's day ♥
The first time I watched this I immediately started looking for an interview to see if he had ever gotten to a place where he could forgive her. I was really happy to see that he had been able to forgive .
I'm glad he was able to as well
I saw your 'ninja quick-pause' movesTrev...
well played 'I'm not cryin' you're crying'
Prolly even used the 'no-tears' shampoo
preparing for this challenge... am I right?
lol...
Seriously though... I appreciate you
puting this reaction and your REAL
response out here... This track has ended
many a NF reaction journeys after so many
reactors are left with a blank stare and tears
streaming down with their final response being..
'' I'm out''...
Nate had to know God wanted his PHD in 'this hurt me!'
to be used for good(Peter Parker?) to create such a
powerful message through the web of disfunction with
the gifts he was given to create such a raw connection
no matter how personal it was for him to mention...
Nate now has turned it into beauty from the ashes of
the ugly truth for those who are dealing with addictions
from every angle of the chain of pain that had custody
of THEIR 'mansion'... that's insane!...
Peace Brother ;)
;)
😂😂 thank you. Yeah I definitely used pausing as a strategy to stay grounded that's a good eye for you to notice that 😆
I Love this song! Awesome reaction! Thanks ❤️ Much Love! #Hangovergang #NF #Why Did You Leave Us
Thanks for the support ❤️
Great reaction Trev!!! You got this song exactly as you should!!! Just because you don’t cry doesn’t mean you don’t feel it!!! And you explained his music and it’s impact perfectly!!! This isn’t a song on most of our “go to” list that we listen to on the regular … but it is a song that anyone taking the Journey MUST listen to … Just Like Us 😉 And that gives us the opportunity to hear it again and also hear what your thoughts and/or feelings are about it.
Thank you for sharing this with us!!! 🖤🗝️🛒☁️🖤
Thank you so much! I'm really glad you guys are watching along with me and joining me on the NF journey I'm having a blast so far not only because of the music but I look forward to your comments
@@TrevandErin This has become your 'ministry' that ministers back2u Trev.. God has blessed your 'journey' ;)
@@georgejetson1379 It definitely feels blessed! I'm happy this has became my ministry because it's too much fun!
Hits home. My was an addict all my life. Led to abuse. I am 58 years old. I left her when I was 12. She died two years ago
I never saw her again when.I left her..
Wow that's tough. I'm sorry to hear that. Thank you for commenting and sharing
Bruh this guy is so underrated like his reactions are so good and yet he has a very small amount of subs. He is def goin places though fr
(Talking bout Trev)
I appreciate it! Lol
Amazing song. Hits u deep. He does talk about his siblings and how they are handling their moms death, in future songs.
Ahh ok I'm excited to hear them
after HOPE, I have to watch this again.
Thanks for being genuine, man!
That's the only way to be 😎
Yeah I totally understand. I wear a hat also to cover up my emotions lol. This is a emotionally amazing song but I fell "paralyzed " hit me harder. Great reaction bro! 🖤💚
Thank you! Yeah paralyzed hit me harder as well. This song is still amazing though and I think it definitely connects to it's intended audience
When youre a child you dont understand addiction. I love this song as it takes the view of the child. And in many ways even as an adult the childs perspective remains. So many documentaries and blogs ect tells the point of the addict and how everything affected THEM, but not as much the truly innocent victims, the kids. The families. The addict needs understanding, true but so does the child and not judging them for not forgiving or trying to understand the addict. With the neglect snd abuse drugs can make an addict do, they don't have to forgive or understand anything until they choose to.
NF is a “change how you look at life” kind of artist.
He really is
Another great reaction brother. You held it together more than most, more than me. I still tear up sometimes, when I listen to it.
The secret was in the pausing LOL
Tough one to do! Appreciate it!
It is. Thank you for watching!
Aside from the great reaction as usual. I think it's time to get to know you a little better (since the community has grown a bit recently). I suggest doing a classic Q&A. You like to "rant" a lot (I honestly consider these moments to be some of the best of your videos) and we sure have a lot of things we'd like to know about you. It's just a proposition. Keep it up and take care.
I could definitely do something like that. I'm an open book. Just gotta have enough people to wanna ask questions lol I could make a community post and see
@@TrevandErin Definitely, it can help. Can't wait.
I know what you mean about NF's music--the way that he shares his feelings so transparently creates a "safe space" if you will, to let down your guard and experience & share your own emotions. This song is so amazing but so intense, people like to say that it's the best song they never want to listen to again! :)
😂
hahaha i love'd your reaction. "I'm not a cryer, only if i stumb my toe" haha
One thing I forgot to add was if a dog dies in a movie 😂
@@TrevandErin Haha noooo! As of know I'm listening to your paralyzed video of NF, maybe you should put that one in there to, you're close...! Don't get me wrong, I never cry (that's what my kids tell me so I know it's true! :D), but How could you leave us still does because I have a simular situation. We're all human I guess
😂 yeah paralyzed too. Honestly the list is growing
@@TrevandErin I think it just does when we grow older...
Addiction is a damn btch. This song hits down deep in my soul. Growing up without both parents and both were addicts. This song hurts . I never had the chance to meet my father he died before I found him. My mother was in and out of my life like a revolving door. We finally started to mend our relationship before the lockdown. Unfortunately I'll never get the chance she passed away alone during the lockdown.
Wow I hate to hear that. You're a really strong person. I'm glad you got to atleast have some type of connection before her passing
🔥🔥💯💯 Reaction NFrealmusic 💯💯, two tracks from this album that are sometimes not on a Journey list are, Oh Lord, and Statement...
I think those two are on the list in following I could be wrong though. If not I'll add them!
My parents divorced and it was a hard situation and this song helped me through
I’m glad you found something to help you get through it. Hope you’re doing well
I've been through something like this recently, well I guess it's been about a year and a half but it still feels like yesterday I lost my dad to a drug overdose the worst part was I was there I could have done something but I didn't I was thirteen. He went into the bathroom at like nine in the morning like usual and didn't come out I didn't think much of it he did that sometimes, just pass out somewhere. So I left him there played some games and just hung out all day. Finally it was about seven at night and I figured I should at least wake him up and tell him to go to his room. I found him in there dead. His body was stone cold I called 911 crying I blame myself I should have done something earlier but I didn't and I'll never see him again because of it.
I'm so sorry to hear that. No need to blame yourself. Whatever drug he took is to blame. You done everything you could.
Thanks for the support. but it's just hard he was in that bathroom for hours and I didn't think anything of it, it was just normal at that point
We have almost 300 a day OD or poisonings from fentyl.
Geeez
Revisiting this after HOPE. Ok, this is my thought. On the new album coming, we have a song called Mama. Please do that first. I Just have to hear it! Please!
Lol I can do that one first
@@TrevandErin SWEET
NF has since said that he has forgave his mother since he has a child of his own. I'm guessing he got this perspective from wanting to do tours and working keeping him away more than he would like to be.
That's a good point. Touring lifestyle definitely keeps you from family
Hey, I subscribed for twenty one pilots but I do like checking out nf too. This song is very emotional
21 Pilots is one of NFs favorite bands. ♥
@@Acadian.FrenchFry I remember reading that ❤
Love watching your journey with these great artist, Subbed and sharing
Can i refer you to an older song SUPERMARKET FLOWERS by Ed Sheeran, the video is a must
You WILL cry.....enjoy
Thank you so much! I love Ed Sheeran I'll check it out!
Hard song.... yeah this is not on my Playlist, it's hard to hear the pain in Nate's voice, thankfully I've never lost anyone in that way, they have been away from us because of it but still here.
Paralyzed also gets me because unfortunately I can relate to those feelings.
Love the reaction. Have you checked out Dax? I think you would like some.of his music. You should check out Dear God, Book Of Revelations, Depression, and PTSD
I have heard depression that was one of the first reactions I done. I really enjoyed it
Have you done “real”? From NF? It was on the Mansions Album and is part of the “Journey”…
If you haven’t, I’d recommend going back on a “detour” to fit that one in before you move to “Perception”:-)
It’s my recommendation, where others may agree or disagree, but it is an important visual you’ll need before you react to “Outro” IMHO…
I actually think real is next on the list!
Awesome! Just didn’t want you to miss it in the line up!
Yes real is part of the journey, has important visual in outro
classic NF track, but yeah, not one I'm bumping too often #nfrealmusic
I agree. This is 🔥but mainly built for people who need it
It is a difficult song for sure because it is all too common for so many today. 🥲 You handled the reaction very well!
Thank you!